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Spooky single behavior

I know we all like to think that we are perfect and have absolutely no problem at all getting a date. The reality is that every one of us have our own set of unique issues. Sometimes we are the reason a relationship doesn’t work out. Yes, we are the misadventure for someone else.

Don’t believe me? Just take a couple of hours and interview your last three exes. I’m sure you will be enlightened! We are flawed and beautifully human and that’s a great thing. Sometimes taking a little self-inventory and doing a self-assessment can go along way. Are you showing some scary spooky behavior that may be ruining your chances at romance?

Halloween is just days away, so what better time to figure out your own scary behavior! I’ll start: I think a lot of men get spooked when I get all argumentative. I admit that I can get too caught up in being right (um, when I’m right, that is.) and I don’t know when to shut up and listen. My ex gave me a little advice about that “too passionate” about what you believe in and as hard as it was to hear it, I got what he was saying.

Now I won’t just keep quiet to appear as if I have no opinion, but I have learned to pick my battles, and communicate more effectively. I don’t always get it right but I’m making an effort so I think it counts for something.

What about you? What do you think you have done or are doing now, that could spook a potential?

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i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
3:56 pm

“nurse ur udder”

We have a winner! Goodnight, folks & thanks for playing… :lol:

evy

October 18th, 2010
3:56 pm

@ dreams 3:23: i don’t know yet…still trying to work out the math…my cerebral fluid having been thickened by exposure to certain chills in today’s atmosphere, the synaptic connections seem to be somewhat sluggish. could you dumb that down for me?

blue®

October 18th, 2010
3:56 pm

@Leggs – yep just like running a train, these idiots get on top of a moving car and stand up for the ride…now, ive told my kids you hurt yourself doing something stupid i told you not to do, better hope the neighbors call 911 cause i aint gonna, but d@mn, somethings i shouldnt have to tell you are bad ideas…

evy

October 18th, 2010
3:56 pm

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
3:57 pm

Blue: I think it’s possible for her to be an addict but in a way that is not the same as adults
As a child, she may be addicted to the “love” feeling and the “feeling wanted” feeling that comes from giving it to these guys. So to her it may be a sex addiction but I really see it as this child just has an empty hole that she is trying to fill up with whatever to get that feeling of self worth, love, etc.

I bet you that the mother is probably more pissed that their dirty laundry was spilled versus the daughter going to NY but you can’t file a suit against a child telling their own story so the next best thing to to make it be about the child was on the show without her consent.

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
3:59 pm

“…anyhow, hope u find somebody to nurse ur udder!”

^5 That was funny but I’m will steer clear from it.

evy

October 18th, 2010
3:59 pm

@ blue: lol! does it work?

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
4:03 pm

“…just has an empty hole that she is trying to fill up with whatever…”

[In my best Butthead voice]: “Uh huh huh huh huh huh… She said she wants to fill up her empty hole… uh huh huh huh huh huh…”

BlackMagicWoman

October 18th, 2010
4:04 pm

INCOMING MESSAGE FROM A……oh hell…who am I today? :lol:

I know I can always count on SWISS and MELO for some perverted banter! :lol:

Melo!

October 18th, 2010
4:06 pm

Swiss?

where us PR…thoght he was gon pick up the bestiality story on ajc front this morning….yep, a grown man caught plucking a byaatch(dog) and heard moaning!

This world?:

Men on men(EL to Boys)
Women to women
Men to dogs

and u say Melo is bad?!!!

be real people!
:lol:

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
4:07 pm

We aim to please, BMW… we aim to please…

How you doin’, by the way? You are still going to come over & join Mrs. Swiss for a dance number in the shower once we get that skripper pole installed, right? ;-) :lol:

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
4:08 pm

Melo — Maybe the dog was in heat… don’t judge…. :lol:

blue®

October 18th, 2010
4:11 pm

@i am – i think you’ve probably hit it on the head. the girl needs therapy, not to be stuck in teh middle of a lawsuit, which she will most certainly be. mom is sueing for $3 mil!!, howd she come up with that figure??!!
@evy – you bet it does, i hear them telling each other “remember what mommy said, shes not taking you to the doctor, and ms glorias (neighbor lady) car is gone, i dont think shes home” lmao

Melo!

October 18th, 2010
4:11 pm

Hey BMW!!!!

I know u gorgeous but ur junk is equally baaaad!

These dudes don’t even know that!

Simple, keep ur hand down!!
Ared is lurking and watching..

:lol:

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
4:13 pm

Melo….Forgot about that….

evy

October 18th, 2010
4:13 pm

@ simple 3:52: hmmmm…do you not think that might depend somewhat on how many women your ‘horizons’ were ‘expanding’ over?

blue®

October 18th, 2010
4:14 pm

random: blonde oreo cakesters are not “the original oreo”…

evy

October 18th, 2010
4:15 pm

@ blue: lmao! too funny…does it work on mr. blue too?

evy

October 18th, 2010
4:15 pm

@ blue: blonde oreo cakesters are not oreos.

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
4:16 pm

evy…Just you…:D :D :D

evy

October 18th, 2010
4:18 pm

@ simple: awwww…i’ve always wanted to be someone’s other one-and-only…

blue®

October 18th, 2010
4:21 pm

@evy – sometimes! lmao
now i want oreos….brb

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
4:22 pm

@Incoming from a White Woman ~ are you still here?????

BlackMagicWoman

October 18th, 2010
4:27 pm

SWISS…you are a hot mess! :lol: I will be attempting my first pole dance class since my injury tonight. This ought to be good. I have to have another surgery though.

MELO….awwwww, thanks love! I think…..

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
4:28 pm

“…anyhow, hope u find somebody to nurse ur udder!”

No! that was not funny :evil:

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
4:29 pm

That was VERY FUNNY….

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
4:30 pm

Blue: I wonder if they use a chart to determine what figure the should sue for

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
4:30 pm

No Leggs. That was NOT funny!

blue®

October 18th, 2010
4:31 pm

i go for the oreos and these people have peanut butter cakesters…WTH??? oreos should be black and white and crispy, thats it! i was so disgusted i opted for the white cheddar popcorn instead….

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
4:32 pm

BMW: I have found that wearing boots while pole dancing is better than wearing the heels with the ankle straps to protect from bumps and bruises.

Go on Swiss….enter something smart.

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
4:32 pm

Ok, not to you, but it was to me…it’s all good!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
4:33 pm

BMW — Good luck! And you know if you need to use our facilities during your skripper pole rehab, just say the word… :lol:

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
4:35 pm

“Go on Swiss….enter something smart.”

Sorry for the delayed reply, i am… I can’t type fast with 1 hand… :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
4:36 pm

Swiss: at your 4:33 and 4:35: Drums : BA DUM DUMP!

blue®

October 18th, 2010
4:37 pm

have a friend who was a stripper, she got mad at me cause i go to hang with her one night, and say i wanna see that trick where the hang from pole like, but i kept turning around every time she did (had some spectator distractions as dudes dont know how to behave when they see a chick in a strip club with no man) , she musta done it like 3 or 4 times, by the time i actually saw it, she wasnt going high enough for me, i jokingly told her no tip…she beat me up for that one…..

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
4:39 pm

Anybody who goes as Snooki this Halloween will be Spooky!

Trevor0529

October 18th, 2010
4:40 pm

Anybody who goes as Snooki this Halloween will be Spooky!

Heck, anyone who looks like Snooki is spooky!! Come to think about it…Snooki is spooky!!

:lol:

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
4:41 pm

My point, Trevor0529, my point. :lol:

BlackMagicWoman

October 18th, 2010
4:43 pm

I AM…thigh high boots? I always wear akle strap heels.

Melo!

October 18th, 2010
4:45 pm

No problem BMW!!

u know I have professed that I won’t attend a blog meet unless u are there?!

don’t want to lower my standards.. .lol.

no offense to anybody… :lol:

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

October 18th, 2010
4:47 pm

“…thigh high boots? I always wear akle strap heels.”

Got dammit… Y’all are gonna make me walk out of this office w/ a boner… :lol: I’m giving Mrs. Swiss your names when she asks me why I’m carrying her off to the bedroom while’s she’s trying to watch her soaps on dvr… :lol:

blue®

October 18th, 2010
4:48 pm

thinking thigh high boots are the one thing i dont have in my shoe collection, must find a pair…Thanks I AM!!

BlackMagicWoman

October 18th, 2010
4:49 pm

MELO….you always make me laugh! :lol:

SWISS…boy you need some help! :lol:

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
4:54 pm

Good night!

Dancing: the vertical expression of a horizontal desire legalized by music. ~ George Bernard Shaw

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
4:58 pm

Yea BMW! you gotta wear the thigh highs.
I have always worn ankle straps and would come home with all these bruises (some are still there!)
When I saw a girl that had thigh high boots – it made sense :idea:

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
5:00 pm

Blue! saw some bad A** thigh high boots in DSW yesterday.
Pick me up a pair when you go shopping!
My new car note has put my shopping sprees on hold :sad:

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
5:01 pm

I’m out!!!
Folks be good

Melo!

October 18th, 2010
5:03 pm

If I am is still getting bruises that means she’s still an amateur?!

Girl u ain’t arrived yet!

Pole hoes know their game. :lol:

blue®

October 18th, 2010
5:14 pm

am i all alone in here? looking left ← , looking right → , side eye ↔ …lets see what trouble can i get into…..

evy

October 18th, 2010
5:18 pm

blue! nobody said you could play with that!