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Spooky single behavior

I know we all like to think that we are perfect and have absolutely no problem at all getting a date. The reality is that every one of us have our own set of unique issues. Sometimes we are the reason a relationship doesn’t work out. Yes, we are the misadventure for someone else.

Don’t believe me? Just take a couple of hours and interview your last three exes. I’m sure you will be enlightened! We are flawed and beautifully human and that’s a great thing. Sometimes taking a little self-inventory and doing a self-assessment can go along way. Are you showing some scary spooky behavior that may be ruining your chances at romance?

Halloween is just days away, so what better time to figure out your own scary behavior! I’ll start: I think a lot of men get spooked when I get all argumentative. I admit that I can get too caught up in being right (um, when I’m right, that is.) and I don’t know when to shut up and listen. My ex gave me a little advice about that “too passionate” about what you believe in and as hard as it was to hear it, I got what he was saying.

Now I won’t just keep quiet to appear as if I have no opinion, but I have learned to pick my battles, and communicate more effectively. I don’t always get it right but I’m making an effort so I think it counts for something.

What about you? What do you think you have done or are doing now, that could spook a potential?

373 comments Add your comment

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
8:36 am

Opening the door…Turning on the lights….

These weekends gotta last longer…..

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
8:40 am

g’morning….’sup Simple Man….how did things go with your new blog wifey? everything aiiight?

“What do you think you have done or are doing now, that could spook a potential?”
I’mma no-shyt kinda guy, so when chics see I’m not the one for it, they take their shyt elsewhere! And that kinda spooks ‘em…

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
8:40 am

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
8:41 am

Whats good 2Can???? U put it down this weekend???

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
8:42 am

whats up TOS…..sigma in the bldg

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
8:47 am

Que Paso!!!!!

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
8:51 am

Hello georgous!! ( I am)…How was your weekend?

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
8:54 am

Hombre…..whatchu know bout “TOS”…….

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
8:55 am

naw, Simple Man….I ain’t “put down” shyt! ain’t seent my wifey since Friday…..kinda mess is that?

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
8:57 am

Sorry to hear that….Lit them up at “Casa de la Simple this weekend!!!

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
8:59 am

what you know about it….lol…i am the original ish talker…the one from the east….the man that went thru hell on an island only to be labeled a devil dawg…the one that was once called skeeta boo…..thats what i know about that TOS!!!….they tried to ban me player..but ya know

Blackfoote

October 18th, 2010
9:05 am

Morning:

Women are spooked because being single I’m always accused of having multiple lady friends. When I show them that it’s not what they think I’m no longer spooky I’m now mysterious. And it goes on and on.

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:07 am

@blackfoote…..secretly women like that you have lady friends….they want to feel like they have won something or have a person of value……we all want what other have..human nature..so the next time…say yes i am dating…i have found no on that fits my lifestyle or standards..then enter her spirit on what you want…and watch the game unfold:-)

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
9:08 am

well, well, well,……welcome back, Hombre….don’t let ‘em keep ya down, playa!!!! stay “low” and you’ll be aiiight.

Blackfoote

October 18th, 2010
9:10 am

What up fellas besides (I am) we the only dudes in here? Where are all the ladies today?

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:14 am

@2 – i am still waiting for diva to help me out…lol…whats good mayne….i finally meet some new blog folks..they were cool…did not get to chop it up much with them…it was my bday weekend so i was on the move…

@blackfoote…where the ladies at…lol…are you gonna stick in your bid when they show up?

blue®

October 18th, 2010
9:15 am

Morning all,

i want to go back to bed….

scary behavior, hmmm…let me think…

YesSheIsCute

October 18th, 2010
9:19 am

I’m here just being shrewd because there are a couple of trolls/people with multiple monikers on here….

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:22 am

i am no troll…i am an OG blogger..i am the 3rd and 13th letter :-
)

Simple Man!!!!

October 18th, 2010
9:24 am

Hello Blue!!! How was your weekend???

Delight23

October 18th, 2010
9:24 am

Morning All. First,I agree these 48hr weekends aint hittin on NAY-THAN.

Second, I’ve been told I have a tendency to dimiss too quickly and harshly. :roll: I have a very low tolerance for BS. I have learned to quit cutting people off and getting ghost so fast…ok, I’m learning.

Blackfoote

October 18th, 2010
9:26 am

Hombre:

I will be here when they show. And stick in my bid?

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
9:26 am

Good morning everyone!

Spooky behavior…hmmmm, not that I can recall.

@Hombre ~ I missed seeing you there. I was told you left about 15 mins before I arrived….Again, Happy B-day!

Entire weekend was filled with meeting some of my favorite bloggers. MUAH!!!

YesSheIsCute

October 18th, 2010
9:28 am

I wasn’t accusing you Hombre…just based on the responses of the last post…makes me realize there are some weirdos. Now I remember why I stopped moderating forums lol. But for the most part everyone here has interesting things to say and interesting advice to give.

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:28 am

smh at this self hate

The outspoken Cincinnati Bengals wide receiver, who’s been linked to model Jessica White, has hired Kelleher International to help find a main squeeze who looks like bodacious Kim Kardashian — “who I happen to think is gorgeous,” he said.

Kelleher, run by mother and daughter team Jill and Amber Kelleher, has 18 international offices and charges clients anywhere from $15,000 to $150,000

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
9:30 am

Good morning, blue! How was your weekend?

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:31 am

@leggs…yes that sucked…sorry about friday…i was running late and i had to catch ken ford..lol. Yes i was there i meet tazz finally and kimmie…very nice women…i was there with my girlfriend..i was so hungry i left but i did go back

Delight23

October 18th, 2010
9:33 am

Plastic understands and relates to plastic. I have this thing about murky waters. Saves everyone else the headache of having to wade through the BS. To thine own self be true. ((shrug))

blue®

October 18th, 2010
9:36 am

hey there Simple Man…weekend was cool, met some new people who seem to be just as off kilter in the flesh as they are on here, so Cool Beans (off kilter works for me, lol)

like Delight, i have a low tolerance for BS. add to that stupidity,indecisiveness, and ineffeciency, i have been told can make me a bit intimidating at times
also, have had a tendancy in the past to find guys who arent comfortbale with the fact that i have some very good (and old) male friends who treat me as one of the guys. im figuring they were here b4 you, get over it, they seem like its some demerit on my side…who knows…im sure there are more, let me think….

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
9:36 am

I’m mad cause I didn’t get no invite….yeah, I’m hatin’ this morning….shame on you, Leggs!….and SexyCool….:twisted:

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
9:37 am

@Hombre ~ didn’t the hostess/b-day lady look MAR VE LOUS!!!!

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
9:37 am

blue, you got an invite?

czBrat

October 18th, 2010
9:39 am

HiYas!

my scary? i tend to take that independent woman thing a bit too far. dude has to remind me that he is also in it because he WANTS to be; not because he HAS to be. that usually settles my feisty @ss down a bit.

i agree, these monday mornings just keep comin round way too fast.

Blackfoote

October 18th, 2010
9:40 am

Leggs:

Morning hope you had a wonderful weekend.
Oh hell there was meeting this weekend? Was it secret?…..LOL

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:40 am

@leggs…she sure did :-)

Blackfoote

October 18th, 2010
9:44 am

2C:

I’m with you on this one bro, an invite how bout you just don’t know and I thought me and Leggs were going to be cool.

blue®

October 18th, 2010
9:48 am

@2C – yeah, i think just to make sure i really wasnt some troll lurking around, lol
@Leggs – looks like you may have to do another one, cast a wider net, lol

2CPTG©

October 18th, 2010
9:49 am

Blackfoote, I was cool with ‘em……. :???:

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
9:50 am

i dont see why the blog does not have a standing friday meet and greet along with a spot thats ours…might be a good idea

2CPTG© -- hatin' this morning!

October 18th, 2010
9:51 am

Happy Belated Birthday, Sexy…… :neutral:

kimmie

October 18th, 2010
9:52 am

Morning beautiful people!!

Not feeling the best this morning, but I am fighting it! Maybe I’ll feel better after getting this coffee in.

Leggs & Hombre & your lady it was wonderful meeting you lovely people! SO and I really enjoyed ourselves. SO & Taz really hit it off, discoving that they are Clevelanders and from around the same area!

On topic – I have my faults like everyone else, but I don’t think I have anything that would be clasified as “scary”. But it’s somebody for everybody out there, including the scary. And I really could care less what some ex said about me. I keeps it moving!

I am whatever you say I am

October 18th, 2010
9:53 am

Simple dude:
This weekend was great. I went to the airshow. OMG those planes are sick!!!!! It was a lot of fun despite getting sunburn.
I then spent the night over at my cousins house. THey had a bbq and I took little I am with me.
He loves his cousins and it’s cute when he tries to do what they do.
I snapped a picture of little I am trying to break dance with his cousin.
They looked so cute with their legs up in the air trying to spin on their backs.
Little I am is also attached to his older cousin and I swear he stalks her. Whenever she is not in view, he will call out to her . Poor girl can’t get a break but she loves him too.

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
9:56 am

@2C ~ I didn’t think you were in Atlanta to attend. I am sorry. Going forward, whether you’re in Atlanta or not, I will send the invite to you and you can decide if you want to attend. I humbly bow my head for your forgiveness. :wink:

I sent the invite to everyone I had an email address for.

@Hombre ~ that standing Friday meet and greet sounds good. A regular spot and one can show up or not. Interesting.

@blue ~ it was fun. You are crazy, fun and down to earth. I like that.

czB ~ love you!

@blackfoote, we cool. I thought most knew about the meetup. It’s been discussed by many. If you have an email you’d like to share, I put it on the list. Two of the most craziest bloggers showed up, Dan and DemiGod! Dan was told he couldn’t use any of his big words for the evening. :lol: :lol:

Leggs ™

October 18th, 2010
10:01 am

@blue ~ lol at “cast a wider net.” I invited over 30 ppl.

@kimmie ~ it was especially FABULOUS meeting you. Too funny, cuz blue’s SO and I found out we are both from The Bronx with him being from 176th Street and me 205th Street. We did the finger handshake. :lol:

Delight23

October 18th, 2010
10:04 am

blue®: like the rest of your list :-) Indecisiveness will illicit a quick good-bye from me. Be a man/woman. Make a dang decision. I’m not perfect and I don’t expect you to be. Mistakes are a part of life. That riding the sideline non-sense will get you cut quick without a look back.

Blackfoote

October 18th, 2010
10:05 am

The Bronx:

I got cousins at the corner of Westchester and Parkchester.

Mrs. Tazzee

October 18th, 2010
10:08 am

Good Morning Folks! Just wanted to stop by to say

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SCool on your official day.

hombre after all these years it was great to finally meet you face2face. Happy Belated Birthday to you.

kimmie Hubby and I are STILL tripping on the face that your SO and I went to the same high school. Small world! I enjoyed hanging with you guys for a bit.

Leggs Lovely as always.

Sorry – don’t have much to add to the topic. Diva already hit on mine – my passionate way of relaying my point of view has been viewed as argumentative. I’m still working on that one but my hubby knows the difference between my passionate discussions and arguments.

Hombre

October 18th, 2010
10:09 am

@leggs…it will be cool…folks can show up bond..etc…plus it gives everyone a “something to do” on friday….

blue®

October 18th, 2010
10:11 am

@Leggs – thx, crazy, fun, down to earht, describes me to a T…(ok, if i were more awake i sooo could take that sideways, lol). over 30 people, whoa…ok then, may have to get brutal with it next time, they pay more attention when you pull out the whip….wait, maybe i am waking up…huh…
and so what about you Bronx people with your finger shake, lmao! making us Queens people the minority for once, lol
@Delight – yeah, i cant do it…”make a dang decision” exactly…and dont expect me to make them all, im aint your momma…if you want me to make them, i will but no bytching when you dont like what you got….

czBrat

October 18th, 2010
10:13 am

hugs back atcha, leggs. and i cast my vote for hombre’s suggestion as well. the meetup was just the right kind of no-drama good times. :wind:

now …. where oh where could mama Evy be on this lovely monday morning??? :lol: :lol: