There comes a time in a relationship when you realize how much the two of you differ. For a lot of people, this creates an impasse. For others, they find a way to adapt and see it as a challenge to grow with their mate.
This is something that I think women kind of struggle with because we view relationships differently then men. I learned the hard way that you can never change a man. This is not a reflection on male stubborness, it’s more about a woman understanding that she should not want to change a man at all.
Why would you fall for someone and then try to change them? That makes no sense!
Men are fascinated by women who do not try to change who they are. I think that accepting each other the way that we are is one of the by-products of being in real love. Not infatuation, lust, or deep like.
I think men and women should figure out the difference between challenging their mate and changing. There is a difference, don’t you think?
Have you ever met someone who challenged you?