If you are in a new relationship you probably start to feel comfortable right around the 6-month mark. You relax your look and feel less inclined to impress your mate. I know a lot of times people gain weight because they are happy. When some folks get happy, they eat more and thus begins the process of “letting yourself go”.
Arguably, this relationship phenomenon is a sign of growing closer to each other because you are dropping all the pretense and showing all sides of yourself. When things get too out of hand, though, there can be problems.
What do you do when the person you are involved with has become too comfortable? Is there such a thing in a relationship?
When you are dating someone who has let themselves go or put less energy into their appearance, how do you let them know it’s a problem? Should you let it go so that they won’t get their feelings hurt or a bruised ego?
Would you want to be told that you are letting things slip too much?