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First Loves

Facebook has managed to reconnect me with my college boyfriend.  Ahh the memories of all the firsts we shared.  He’s actually still single and living in New Jersey! We exchanged phone numbers and it is cool to see that he is doing well.

There is always a special place in your heart for the first love.  They teach you so much and in some cases, they are the measuring stick by which all future loves are measured.  Do you have a first love that you would like to catch up to?

What would you want to find out?

Do you remember your first love?  Do you think they set the course of your romantic life? If so, in a good way or a bad one?

Happy Friday!

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kimmie

September 24th, 2010
3:21 pm

Melo – I think imma watch the 1st Wall Street tonite. SO has it on Bluray. Get me something good to eat. Sounds like a plan!

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
3:21 pm

Purple, aersol deodorant is all both of my boys use.

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:22 pm

It doesn’t look right when the Janitor here at work is the sharpest dressed person. He is way over dressed to be a Janitor. Alligator shoes, linen pants and shirts. man, just clean the bathoorm empty the garbage and vacuum. No matter what pants he wears his junk is always protuding. LOL So when we had a company function we were all wondering who invited him and he had on Spandex and a Derby hat. He kind of looked like Eddie Long style of dress.

I am whatever you say I am

September 24th, 2010
3:23 pm

LOL @ Purple

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
3:24 pm

Slim, Lever 2000 is what we use. I use a very light scent body wash after I have bathed with soap.

SlimNumeroUno

September 24th, 2010
3:25 pm

Mo – did you grandpaw have a special rag he used to wipe his fanga off after he did an application? A cousin of mine used to use it and one day he forgot to wash his hands, messed around and put his hand in his eye…WHEW, he was miserable!

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:25 pm

I will share to much info:

Slim, 1 Ply will have you messed up because it breaks off, and leaves little crumbling pieces in your butt crack. That is not good if the wife wants to jump your bones when you get home, or when you wipe with some good paper and you find that there are remnants of the 1 ply left. So it’s best to do a booty check before you leave the bathroom

Sometimes when i Can’t find my deo I will grab my wifes and use her’s. She always busts me because there would be one strand of hair or something on it. Heck if Im in the shower without a razor I will use hers also. LOL

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:27 pm

I Am, he had on some pants a spandex shirt and a derby hat. He stood by the dj all night

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
3:28 pm

and leaves little crumbling pieces in your butt crack

Purple, if you are that dry you need to get some wetones or cottonelle wipes. LOL

kimmie

September 24th, 2010
3:29 pm

Imma get out of here. Everyone have an enjoyable, safe weekend!

Be easy!

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:29 pm

Raqi, I wipe it till everything is bone dry. LOL

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 24th, 2010
3:29 pm

SlimOne – you are a mess! LOL! I dont know about the rag but that man wouldnt use nuthin BUT Tussy

As for the Dove, my skin can be really dry and Lil Mo has eczema….Dove is it….

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:29 pm

kimime, go follow your man. LOL j/k

SlimNumeroUno

September 24th, 2010
3:30 pm

‘So it’s best to do a booty check before you leave the bathroom’

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!! :lol: How do you explain having someone walk in with you turned with your back to the mirror and your cheeks spread apart trying to look in your booty for a paper trail? :lol:

(EL in mirror doing booty check – in walks young mentee)

Boy: Ohhh, excuse me Bishop I didn’t realize you were in here..Um…sorry

EL: Uh, don’t mind me son. I was just looking for my keys. You think you can help me find them?

:shock: :lol:

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:31 pm

Slim, you made me make a laugh like a little kid. LOL

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
3:31 pm

@Ladies

Get a deo that is clear and don’t leave white skum under ur armpits!

I don’t care how u smell, that white gunk under your arm pits looks awful!

Breakingofdawn

September 24th, 2010
3:31 pm

I recorded Grey’s since CSI was on I do miss Grissom. Rather enjoyed PP, tonight my man Jimmy is on the only reason why I’m recording The Outlaw. That man is some kinda fine I can’t start to define.

Mo, so did my grandmother. Betta not bring nothing else in da house but some Tussy. I don’t like wet roll ons or sprays; a nice leave no white marks stick and I’m good.

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:33 pm

Melo, I hate being somewhere and you see women raise her arm os something and you see those white lines from deo…or even worse she has stubble under there

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
3:38 pm

Slim, your shot at EL made me think about the things one do for love.

i.e. checking out that strange spider bite/hair pimple for them in the strangest of places. LOL

SlimNumeroUno

September 24th, 2010
3:38 pm

Stubble has nothing on this chick who sat across from me at a wedding wearing a strapless dress…homegirl had some much hair down there, she could’ve donated it to locks of love. :lol: I’m looking at the dude she’s with like DUDE!, do you not see the pits on this chick!!!

Breakingofdawn

September 24th, 2010
3:38 pm

Slim your hilarous. Lever 2000 is my favorite, can’t use Dove it drys my skin out. I’m frugal on lots of household things, however I am not cheap on my lotion. The body shop gets me good for body butters when the went to $20 a piece I tried not to buy them. That lasted all of a week or two.

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:41 pm

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
3:41 pm

P-Lito – I don’t like seeing dudes with too much hair under their arms. I always wonder why NBA players don’t shave….and er um…don’t let there be little deodorant balls sticking to that Don King.

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
3:42 pm

Leggs/Amred/Raqi – Did you guys watch the Greys & PP season premieres last night? I don’t want to spoil it if you have not.

kimmie – I am too behind of PP, so I only watch Grey’s now. I watched it!!!

Happy that my Delta Sorors are representing on Thursdays! Shondra on Grey’s and PP. Kelly Smith Beaty on the Apprentice and Stacie on Real Housewives of DC!

Dana

September 24th, 2010
3:43 pm

Oh SNAP!!!! 4th Man came forward to claim he had a relationship with EL!!!! LAWD JEZZZUUUUUSSSS!

SlimNumeroUno

September 24th, 2010
3:43 pm

‘things one do for love’

Raqi – you are absolutely right about that. I have a friend who had some booty issues and her bf helped insert a suppository for her. :shock:

BOD – I either use Coco Butter or baby oil gel to lube myself up. I’m sensitive to loud fragrant smells so i have to tread carefully when I do the whole scented lotion stuff

Leggs

September 24th, 2010
3:45 pm

@Mo ~ lil leggs’ doctor told her years ago to use Dove soap for a particular eczema she was experiencing on her face. That one little message from the doctor has convinced her she can’t use anything on her body but Dove.

I forgot about The Apprentice :sad: Hopefully can catch it over the weekend. All the good shows are coming on at the same time on the same day.

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
3:45 pm

SCool?

Men don’t shave. I don’t

I prefer a woman not to shave down there!

As long as it’s fresh!

Your dude shaves armpits?

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 24th, 2010
3:47 pm

Melo – that clear deo is not the solution!! If you have sensitive skin that stuff is a no-go! I knew a friend that used that and ended up with a horrible rash. Clear deo and shaving dont work well together. Just get some deo from Kiehl’s if you want the no mess or one that isnt clear but goes on clear.

SlimOne – that baby oil gel is the ISH!!!

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:47 pm

I dont shave to skin but I have to trim it down about halfway

SlimNumeroUno

September 24th, 2010
3:48 pm

I know many dudes who shave their armpits…most of them visit the gym often so I assume that’s why. I personally don’t want to see a dude with a bush under his armpits…if i’m laying in his arms I don’t need his under arm hair tickling my nose. lol

Melo – some dudes actually do prefer you to have hair down yonder…what is that all about? A request has been made to me before to let it grow back.

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
3:48 pm

No. He’s not very hairy. But…I have dated a couple of guys who shaved their underarms…not clean…but took a pass under their arms with their clippers. Said it helped them apply deo better.

Leggs

September 24th, 2010
3:49 pm

@SlimNU ~ I had some issues w/#2 years ago and had a longtime gf insert a suppository…sure did. You do what you have to do when you have to do it!

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 24th, 2010
3:50 pm

Leggs – well I also am not one for using harh stuff on babies. I was already using Dove but when Lil Mo’s was diagnosed with eczema then we both used it. As Lil Mo has gotten older I havent switched, HOWEVER…Lil Mo is only 5…at 10 or 12 I might be buying lever 2000

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:51 pm

SexyCool, that is true. I am not hairy but the places I do have hair it grows long, I have to keep it cut.

Slim, I don’t like a baldy on a woman I like some hair down there. Not a bush but some hair

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
3:52 pm

It never Rains but pours?!

This man might as well commit suicide!

He’s done!

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:52 pm

Leggs, you had a girlfriend insert your suppository? (to busy laughing to respond)

Leggs

September 24th, 2010
3:53 pm

@SexyC ~ I was talking with a friend 2 days ago about landing strips and she frowned much like a prude would. I asked if she’s ever shaved and the look she gave me made me laugh. She said “hair is meant to be there for a reason and whatever that reason is I’m keeping mine.” I almost lost control of my car I was laughing so hard.

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
3:56 pm

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
3:56 pm

Men that shave their pits???? Oh no.

I ain’t try to get with Ruppart from Survivor but I likes my man manly. Nicely groomed face stubble is HAWT. And don’t go shaving your arms and legs either.

Simple Man!!!!

September 24th, 2010
3:56 pm

I don’t shave my pits but I trim them….I did the complete shave down town for the first time last summer…. ( Did I just go TMI?)

Leggs

September 24th, 2010
3:56 pm

@PR ~ yes, I was living alone and I was impacted. I couldn’t do it myself because of the pain….she did it for me! She’s the kind of friend that instead of trying to bail me out of jail, she’ll be sitting in the cell with me laughing at the shyt we got outselves into!!!

Luvbug

September 24th, 2010
3:57 pm

This man might as well commit suicide!

Dang!!

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:58 pm

LOL, Simple Man I have done that before a few times, the sex and oral was spectacular. But when it grows back is the most uncomfortable thing, people thing you have crabs or something because you are scratching that itch so much

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
3:58 pm

LOL Leggs. I will never do fully bare down there again but it has to stay maintained and trimmed. Nothing peeking pass the panty lines.

Leggs

September 24th, 2010
3:58 pm

I hope they don’t start coming out of the wood works like Eldrick’s lovers did. That would be a travesty!

Simple Man!!!!

September 24th, 2010
3:58 pm

SlimNumeroUno, I fall into that group!! Like at least a little hair…

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
3:59 pm

Leggs, I have a friend still in jail over some stuff we did together…but let me tell you he would not do that for me…nor would I want him to. We did not attend the LongFellow institute

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
3:59 pm

@Slim?

I think a lil bush is sexxy!

I don’t want my woman all clean down there looking like a lil baby!

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
4:02 pm

Hey homie can you help me with this suppository?