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First Loves

Facebook has managed to reconnect me with my college boyfriend.  Ahh the memories of all the firsts we shared.  He’s actually still single and living in New Jersey! We exchanged phone numbers and it is cool to see that he is doing well.

There is always a special place in your heart for the first love.  They teach you so much and in some cases, they are the measuring stick by which all future loves are measured.  Do you have a first love that you would like to catch up to?

What would you want to find out?

Do you remember your first love?  Do you think they set the course of your romantic life? If so, in a good way or a bad one?

Happy Friday!

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SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
1:26 pm

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
1:27 pm

Hm..a dirty sanchez. Let me google that on my blackberry.

Simple Man!!!!

September 24th, 2010
1:27 pm

I am, sooooo Where are “Eating” today???? make is somewhere nice…looking to set the mood…..

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
1:29 pm

:lol: @ Raqi…still getting it on at 82.

czBrat

September 24th, 2010
1:30 pm

All the couples I admire are childess by choice. They spend their weekends LIVING and traveling. That’s they type of life I’d prefer.

ARed, at the risk of discouraging my kids from having kids or making them think it would be a mistake, i advise them to live the life they WANT to live for as long and as much as possible … whether it involves children or not.

i’ve enjoyed peeking in on you guys’ stories of past loves, but like leggs’ said, the day is much too beautiful and the week has been far too long, so i’m escaping this plantation right ……… NOW!

ciao :)

uhuh, SC … gimme the name of that spot so i can check it out. pizza & a cold one on a patio? now that’s whassup! LOL

blue - ™

September 24th, 2010
1:31 pm

@Sexy – swiss has got a good theory, never know with yall if its office friendly…but for me, its usually just lazy, dont wanna take the time to open a new window, search, find one that makes sense…argg..
@swiss – DiSaronno eh? now that could be interesting…

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

September 24th, 2010
1:31 pm

ARed — To paraphrase from Rick James: Viagra is a helluva drug… :lol:

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
1:32 pm

czB – that’s the name of it…Blue Moon Pizza

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
1:32 pm

Or if we have solid money, do the travelling,bingo and other stuff with similar type couples.

You should be doing that now then. Kids shouldn’t put your couples life on hold.

Another thing a lot of my childless married couples have NOW…”solid money” :lol:

Breakingofdawn

September 24th, 2010
1:33 pm

Blue that used to be my drink back in day. When football season starts all I know is Blue Moon beer. Other times I stick with tequila on the rocks with 2 squeezes of lime. If it’s a red box weekend wine it is either a good rhone blend or a chilled gewurztraminer(sp).

LURKER-1

September 24th, 2010
1:33 pm

I AM, you got me on that one :-) The thing is, she knows the answer, just what to AGITATE! Have respect for us boomers, hell I bought ya here :-) I read the other day, “y” generation is also called ECHO BOOMERS.

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
1:35 pm

Cheezeter – Um….wow….and I’ll say that backwards…WOW!!!!!

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

September 24th, 2010
1:37 pm

SexyCool — I take it you googled ‘dirty sanchez?’ :lol:

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
1:38 pm

DreamsMaterialize

September 24th, 2010
1:39 pm

Breakingofdawn I like Blue Moon. They actually have a seasonal variation out called Honeymoon…pretty good. I could go for one now myself.

Kids can add an additional and different level of happiness to your life.
Raqi It’s actually indescribable what they add to your life.

ARed I say go on the date and have fun, if it’s fun. Now if it sucks, kindly bring me back a doggy bag. lol

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
1:43 pm

Dreams – There was no debate on whether on now I was going on the date. But thank you for granting permission. :lol:

I doubt it will suck, my favorite person always comes with me on my dates…ME. :lol: But I’ll see if I can sneak some dinner rolls in my purse. :lol:

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
1:44 pm

Our life is on hold as far as traveling is concerned when school is on. On school holidays and vacations, we travell.
And we will have more time when we both retired to travel as we wish.

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
1:45 pm

Good grief…should have read “whether or not”

DreamsMaterialize

September 24th, 2010
1:47 pm

Breakingofdawn You must be my alcoholic twin. lol I’m a tequila myself, and I have a strong appreciation for the german wines, particularly the spatlese and variations of the auslese.

DreamsMaterialize

September 24th, 2010
1:50 pm

There was no debate on whether on now I was going on the date. But thank you for granting permission.

I doubt it will suck, my favorite person always comes with me on my dates…ME. But I’ll see if I can sneak some dinner rolls in my purse.
ARed Oh you’re welcome. ‘Cause I’m sure you would have declined his offer if I suggested it. lol So you’re telling me all I’m good for is dinner rolls? I was thinking more like duck confit. ;-)

blue - ™

September 24th, 2010
1:50 pm

@Breaking – not much of a wine drinker but im with you on the tequila, either straight or in a good margarita, the peach ones are nice…gotta admit tho, i dont drink often, so it dont take much to make things interesting, lol

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
1:53 pm

Well since we have the drinks flowing, should we light up for old times sake? LOL

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
1:56 pm

So you’re telling me all I’m good for is dinner rolls?

:lol: Yes. :P

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

September 24th, 2010
1:57 pm

“Well since we have the drinks flowing, should we light up for old times sake?”

Oh, my bad… I thought we already had… puuuuuufffffffff

Breakingofdawn

September 24th, 2010
1:58 pm

One of my nieces says “auntie you a gun tooting drunk” its hilarous but has some truth in it. I love a good glass of red wine and a book, or tv show. I feel like mixed drinks(margaritas, daquirs, etc.) are just reasons to run to the bathroom way to much. So I prefer to get straight to the point w/tequila, never ever a hangover either.

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
1:58 pm

pass it Swiss!

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
1:59 pm

If Lindsey got sent back to jail, Clifford’s ass is in big trouble. LOL!

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2010
1:59 pm

since y’all ain’t talkin bout nuttin…lemme see;

First I brought y’all “random thoughts,” then, “that’s what’s up,” now…

“That don’t look right!”

1. If you get food stamps (bless yo heart!), don’t throw a bar b que EVERY month!

2. If you’re grown, and still livin at home, your car should not be better than your parents’.

3. If you’re a professional athlete making millions, your parents should not still be livin in the hood.

4. If you live in a mini-mansion, you should have it fully furnished.

5. If you drive a luxury car, your “check engine light” should not be on.

just somma my random ramblings….

DC Rose

September 24th, 2010
2:01 pm

I could go for an adult beverage right now.

Willie Dynamite

September 24th, 2010
2:01 pm

SC – yeah he gon take a nice ride. I’m disappointed in that cat. C’mon Man

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
2:02 pm

To your number one…Why the folks with the EBT card always have a cart FULL of junk food and don’t shop with coupons?

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2010
2:04 pm

SexyCool….That don’t look right!

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
2:04 pm

If I didn’t want kids, I would not be married.

I would have 2 German shepherds and 2 rotweillers instead.

No need to bring a human stranger in my life!

God said ‘go out thee and multiply!’

I follow to the tee!

DreamsMaterialize

September 24th, 2010
2:05 pm

So I prefer to get straight to the point w/tequila,
Breakingofdawn my kinda girl. lol

Dang ARed. Can I at least get some butter with the rolls, and a lil bit of gravy to sop?

1. If you get food stamps (bless yo heart!), don’t throw a bar b que EVERY month!
2Can How about selling ‘em for half off? lol

LURKER-1

September 24th, 2010
2:06 pm

6. You drive a luxury car and it’s 100 damn deg and ALL YOUR WINDOWS ARE DOWN

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2010
2:07 pm

Dreams…..think I don’t be lookin for a hookup!!! shyttin me!

LURKER-1

September 24th, 2010
2:07 pm

Oh, I forgot, they’re going GREEN

AmazonRed™

September 24th, 2010
2:07 pm

If I didn’t want kids, I would not be married.

To each his own. You should marry because wanting to make a lifetime commitment to another person, and not just because you want to spread your seed. No need to bring little human strangers in to your life when a mate is just gonna come 2nd to your kids.

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
2:08 pm

2Can?

Number 5 don’t look bad to me’. How u gonna stop a car computer from doing it’s duty, forewarning you of some not right?
Unless dude has check light for a whole month and still driving it.

i'm swiss™ (but you can call me Mr. Goodnight)

September 24th, 2010
2:08 pm

Here you go, Purplepuuuffff, pufffffff, pufffffff… Don’t “Bogart” my bud, though… :lol:

2CPTG©

September 24th, 2010
2:09 pm

my point exactly, Melo….yeah, the warning light is there for that reason; But to keep rollin’ like that???

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
2:10 pm

making life long commitment to 4 dogs! :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

September 24th, 2010
2:11 pm

2can…may I add to your list…..If you high end car gets a flat, Please don’t ride for a week on a doughnut….

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
2:11 pm

Add this to the list. If you get gas just fill up the tank, $10 on pump 5? Really? LOL

Breakingofdawn

September 24th, 2010
2:12 pm

#2. So very true I know a chick(with a good job) living at home at 36 years old driving the top of the line Infinity. I just don’t understand the concept at all. Why not have a decent reliable car and live on your own? But she was raised truely southern, you go from your parents home to husbands home and he better be tithing right. Come to think about she is a Birth-er.

Dreams I don’t drink to get drunk with tequila but just to feel that bit of numbness it can bring quick-like.

Willie Dynamite

September 24th, 2010
2:12 pm

2can – Switching to ebt cards messed up a thriving black market bizness. Now the hookup is a lil mo personal.

SexyCool

September 24th, 2010
2:13 pm

BIRTH-er….passed out…please resuscitate!

Melo!

September 24th, 2010
2:15 pm

Drive a luxury car but don’t have $800.00 to buy 4 michelin

Or ur gas is always never above a 1/4 tank

Purple Rain

September 24th, 2010
2:15 pm

Swiss, we have a double rotation going, I’ve brought bud too.

Add this to the list. If you have a car with dents or a cracked windshield get it fixed.

Raqi

September 24th, 2010
2:17 pm

It’s actually indescribable what they add to your life.

Well, DreamsMat, what I do know is they add a load of crap to your life. LOL The green foul smelling running all out the pamper when you pick ‘em up and on my hands so that I just had to put her in the tub load of crap. How’s that description for you.

Every time we travel she gets diarrhea. It never fails.

Tazzee Mae, she loved that cornbeef at Corky and Lennys. I got up from the table to go to the powder room and asked my brother order for me. When they brought my plate there was this humongous sandwich on there. I couldn’t eat all of it so I brought it home with me. That’s what I had for dinner last night and Elizabeth wanted to help me eat. Maybe that’s why she has the runs. LOL Just kidding. The sandwich was good.