Happy Monday everyone!
I’m hanging out in south Florida this week so our good friend and commenter Mr. M. is stepping in to kick things up… from a man’s perspective:
At one time in all of our careers, someone (employer or potential client) has requested a reference. They want to know not only to get an idea of all the good reasons for explaining their experiences with you, but also for any bad experiences of working with you.
What if we used this practice in dating? What affect could this have on the dating
What if you met someone and they asked to speak to people from your most recent
relationships? Would you provide their number? If not, what makes you fearful to provide information?
Wow, Mr. M. is suggesting that we actual provide dating references? I don’t know about this one, I shutter at the thought of the things my ex before last would say about how things went. If you end things on a good note, are you certain the person would give you a good reference to your new potential romance? Would you trust them to tell the truth, as they saw it?
I can’t wait to see what you guys think about this one. Discuss! Oh and I will be checking in during the day, hopefully from a beach chair with a fruity drink in hand!