Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to the people that you appeal to you the most? The fact that many of us singles think we have a type makes me wonder if we think about why. Why does the person with the sense of humor seem to appeal to you more?
If we think about what gets our attention, does it matter why? I ask because figuring out what is behind our attraction may explain other mysteries. Such as, if this type attracts me, why doesn’t it seem to work out?
Reflect on the type of people you have dated and remember what made them stand out to you. When do you know that your attraction goes beyond the “nice to look it” phase?
Why do you think some relationships end when the attraction seems to fade or wane?