Does attraction ever make sense?
Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to the people that you appeal to you the most? The fact that many of us singles think we have a type makes me wonder if we think about why. Why does the person with the sense of humor seem to appeal to you more?
If we think about what gets our attention, does it matter why? I ask because figuring out what is behind our attraction may explain other mysteries. Such as, if this type attracts me, why doesn’t it seem to work out?
Reflect on the type of people you have dated and remember what made them stand out to you. When do you know that your attraction goes beyond the “nice to look it” phase?
Why do you think some relationships end when the attraction seems to fade or wane?
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287 comments Add your comment
DreamsMaterialize
September 17th, 2010
3:55 pm
Raqi
you sending email presents? can I get a “hey how you doing” email? lol
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
3:55 pm
Interesting…I use the term “real estate” in terms of how long a person knows another!
It's me....lurker
September 17th, 2010
3:56 pm
But the hot grits drove home the point like no other!
I bet the did….
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
3:57 pm
No doubt he bust his arse trying to get out that shower.
It's me....lurker
September 17th, 2010
3:58 pm
Butt cheeks and elbows
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
3:59 pm
Yes indeed, yes indeed!
Melo
September 17th, 2010
4:00 pm
@Leggs?
When the hormones are ravaging ur body that’s like feeling a migraine and foregoing the Advil!
Punishment!
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:01 pm
Dagnabit, I thought I was going to a party tonight only to learn it’s next Friday!
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:02 pm
@Melo ~ well, thank goodness I don’t go through anything you just described and I don’t take any medication of any kind for anything!
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:05 pm
@Melo ~ you talk like hormones are little battering rams reeking havoc on a body…it doesn’t work like that for all people. Even 2CPTG understands it’s mind over matter and being true to YOURSELF! I’m glad your married because if you weren’t, pretty sure you just might be on some medication yourself due to lack of control!
Raqi
September 17th, 2010
4:07 pm
Hello Dreams.
yawn
September 17th, 2010
4:07 pm
Yawn, this has been very boring, where is the mess starters
kimmie
September 17th, 2010
4:09 pm
Raqita – You’ve got mail.
I’m bout to roll out. You guys have a great & safe weekend.
Be easy!
It's me....lurker
September 17th, 2010
4:09 pm
Speaking of Jheri Curls, what about the dudes that would come into the hair salon to get set on rods and sitting under the dryer
It's me....lurker
September 17th, 2010
4:10 pm
Think I’m going to cut out now
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:10 pm
Square Biz is playing…to this day, I still don’t know all the words! Much like Strawberry Letter 23.
Melo
September 17th, 2010
4:11 pm
@Leggs?
yes if I weren’t married I would get the right medication.
can’t fight nor suppress the feeling, either u masturbate or u stick it. No point in taking artificial suppressants and going against
nature!
I am a stick it guy!!!! And Atlanta would be a perfect host city.
Too many biting fish in the joint.
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:14 pm
@Melo ~ you are funny. No one’s talking about artificial suppressants. Who wants to take a suppressant. The medication I’m talking about you might be on is that pill/ointment that cleans up diseases.
Hmmm
September 17th, 2010
4:17 pm
Don’t Stop the Music…thanks for taking us down memory lane!
DreamsMaterialize
September 17th, 2010
4:18 pm
sup Raqi. I just saw you giving out attention and figured I might as well get in on it.
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:18 pm
We can’t bring them back, they have to come back on their own, just like they left on their own!
Hmmm
September 17th, 2010
4:18 pm
@Melo, Its easier for men to stick vs. women getting stuck!
Melo
September 17th, 2010
4:19 pm
@Leggs?
Ohhh, that would be par for the course.
No risk, no gain. U know how the saying goes.
A woman is supposed to be enjoyed, by any means necessary!
(well, that’s up to the two to decide,doggie,missionary,69, u name it)
Hmmm
September 17th, 2010
4:20 pm
@Melo, lifetime supply of penicillin for you my friend
I saw you and him walking in the rain
September 17th, 2010
4:20 pm
Did w8 get dem leggs
Melo
September 17th, 2010
4:21 pm
@hmmm?
Why u say that?
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:22 pm
“No risk, no gain.” May work i nthe boardroom, but not in the bedroom!
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:23 pm
@I saw ~ happy to say NOPE!
Melo
September 17th, 2010
4:23 pm
@Hmmm?
if u condemn me’ to penicillin, that means u denigrating all thee disease-lee females out there, maybe yourself included.!!
Leggs
September 17th, 2010
4:42 pm
Good night everyone!
“Count your blessings; not your problems
Enjoy the weekend…weather is going to be fabulous!
LURKER-1
September 17th, 2010
6:49 pm
Leggs, I think when the truly right man comes along and everything falls into place, he will consider himself a very lucky guy.
hung knee lo
September 18th, 2010
9:39 am
check this out , hung to the ground…….nice un………..
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September 18th, 2010
9:39 am
Enter your comments here
Damon Evans Daddy
September 18th, 2010
10:21 am
this blog makes me want some red panties !!!
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September 18th, 2010
10:21 am
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nelson
September 18th, 2010
5:32 pm
let me tell you, money is the only thing that matters, look at all the big money people Ted Turner, Michael Douglas, Phil Spector, these guys have the most beautiful women in the world all the rest can only dream, and may be get a little shack someplace.
Sting
September 18th, 2010
11:19 pm
If you love somebody, set them free.