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How much support do men need?

If you have ever watched HBO’s Entourage, you are familiar with the character, Ari Gold, played by Jeremy Piven.  Ari Gold is a foul-mouthed, raging jerk with a temper that makes you wonder how he has managed to get through the day without a black eye.  Since he is a Hollywood agent, this behavior manages to work for him in business.

In a recent episode, Ari’s wife walked out on him after his trademark public tirades embarrasses her.  Apparently he felt abandoned by his own wife.  She tells him that she refuses to sit by when her husband is acting like a classless idiot.  He says that is the exact moment when a wife should be supportive. (Paraphrasing)

I know loyalty and support is pretty high on a man’s mental list of what he needs from a woman.  When a man does not feel supported he is less likely to trust his partner to be there when he needs him.

So what happens when a man is dead wrong but still wants to be supported? How should a woman handle it? Does she keep her opinions to herself and offer him support and comfort?

How much support should a woman be willing to offer and provide when she does not agree with what he is doing or how he is handling it?

Is it fair to ask for the same loyalty and support from men that they need and want?

Guys, have you ever dated a woman who wasn’t accepting and supportive? Did you let her know that is what you thought about her?

Ladies, do you think women have a hard time supporting men in relationships? What have you learned about being supportive in a relationship? How did your mothers handle it?

537 comments Add your comment

anonymousella

September 14th, 2010
8:15 am

So what happens when a man is dead wrong but still wants to be supported? How should a woman handle it?

you publicly pretend to support him (be silent while he shows his a**, but give empathic looks to whomever he is berating). then when you are in private, you tell him he was a classless idiot; that you signed up to date a grown man, not a petulant child; that he bet’. not. embarrass himself or you like that again or you will give him a child-appropriate punishment and not take him out with you in public.

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
8:18 am

Good Morning,

“Guys, have you ever dated a woman who wasn’t accepting and supportive? Did you let her know that is what you thought about her?”

Not for long

“So what happens when a man is dead wrong but still wants to be supported? How should a woman handle it? Does she keep her opinions to herself and offer him support and comfort?”

Tell him that he is wrong quietly but forcefully. If you’re in a partnership, a woman should feel comfortable offering her opinion.

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
8:25 am

@Anon

Welcome back, long time no see, and I hope you’re planning on delivering that line bucknekked with beer in one hand and a remote in the other….becuase I really don’t see that working too tough.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
8:34 am

g’morning….

I concur (somewhat) with Anon….don’t act a fool with him, but let him know when you’re alone, that that kinda nonsense won’t be tolerated – and that goes both ways; you show a united front, but behind closed doors you get some “straightening!”

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
8:41 am

Hola!

Dang I was hoping to be first! Oh well.

So what happens when a man is dead wrong but still wants to be supported?
Just tell him you can love him without supporting his bad behavior. Let him know you think he is a good person, but you could not stand up and act a fool with him. End it with, shoot “I had to stay calm because somebody needs to be free in case you needed a bail out from Rice Street.”

How should a woman handle it? please note answer listed above :grin:

Does she keep her opinions to herself and offer him support and comfort? She should talk to him about it, and let him know she is ok with him expressing himself, but he shows all the way out and repeat a few lines for him. If he has cooled off he will see her point…at least a little I hope.

YESSHEISCUTE

September 14th, 2010
8:45 am

lol @ anonymousella

September 14th, 2010
8:15 am
bet’. not. embarrass himself or you like that again

I think that overall was a good answer. That seems to make sense.

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
8:45 am

@DD

That’s a more measured response than I’d expect from you…here, here

Jeff

September 14th, 2010
8:47 am

Given that it is socially acceptable for women to insult men in public, a woman who is embarrassed by her man saying something a**-like isn’t going to get much pity from me. We dont really have a culture that is polite anymore, so it makes sense that people don’t filter what they say.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
8:47 am

IMO, this topic goes both ways. I have some male friends that cringe when it is time to go to their SO’s family reunions, social parties etc., because there is always that one person their SO cannot stand and words “pop off.” At the end of the day, you might need to give the momma or daddy speech, “YOU KNOW SO AND SO WILL BE THERE, PLEASE DON’T GO THEIR SHOWING YOUR AZZ AND GIVING THOSE FOLKS A SHOW AND SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT. JUST STAY COOL AND IF THINGS START HEADING DOWN HILL WE WILL JUST LEAVE EARLY…I DON’T WANT YOU GETTING ALL WORKED UP. :grin:

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
8:48 am

Good morning,

I Need some more Zzzz’s…Um, sounds like you folks have gotten the answer to that question pretty summed up.

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
8:48 am

Morning Peeps!!!

Its simple….If we are down..then we are down regardless…. If I get sideways…have my back, and when there will be plenty of time for a lady to let her man know he was out of pocket. Now by the same token, A guy can’t expect his misses to be with him if he can’t control himself… So he needs to keep an eye out for how his behavior is playing with her and she needs to trust that if he is sideways, there is a valid reason….

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
8:49 am

Dan,

You don’t know me, and you are like a lot fools on here jumped on a bandwagon without even knowing what you are involved in. There is no need for you to try to “expect” a certain behavior from me. Simply put we do not know each other. I would kindly request that you continue being a cheerleader for the team you chose.

LeeH1

September 14th, 2010
8:49 am

Simple. Just date a gentleman. They will sometimes act like an idiot, but not often.

As for other people, male or female, who can’t act properly in public: “The instruction of fools is folly.”- Proverbs.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
8:51 am

GM all

i like the way Anon put it “then when you are in private, you tell him he was a classless idiot; that you signed up to date a grown man, not a petulant child; that he bet’. not. embarrass himself or you like that again or you will give him a child-appropriate punishment and not take him out with you in public.”

@Dan – i hear ya that he aint gona like that line, but really really, too bad, cause he shouldnt been showing his @ss…folks who trip out imo really have no room to complain when they get called on it….

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
8:51 am

So he needs to keep an eye out for how his behavior is playing with her and she needs to trust that if he is sideways, there is a valid reason….

@Simple Man you said it best, he really needs to check himself and his behavior. And, if there is a reason he became heated hopefully he is at the point that he will communicate that privy information to his SO. It will allow her to know that she is not dealing with a mad man. Disclosure is key.

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
8:54 am

@DD

No disrepect intended, in fact it was an attempt to compliment you on your response.

You are correct, I do not know you. And perhaps it was presumptuous of me to extrapolate something about your personality from your previous posts. For all that I apologize.

But, to be clear, Dan doesn’t do “bandwagons” I have now and always driven my own bus.

Again, my apologies

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
8:57 am

Morning all –

It’s funny how a guy can disrespect you in public and then expect for you to sit there and take it. Yes, I might not act the fool in public, but you can best believe his ass will be checked at the first private opportunity complete with a pillow for the couch.

A man who will disrespect you in public is a man who doesn’t respect who you are at all. Make excuses if you want to. He’d wouldn’t be my man for long.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
8:59 am

Good morning everyone!

Support your man publicly and let him have it when you get home. Talk to him about his behavior in public and how he represents you as well. Nobody wants to be associated with an idiot!

D Dub of the MSP (formerly D Dub of the ATL)

September 14th, 2010
8:59 am

Two things, plain and simple:

1. Don’t air your dirty laundry out in public. Get through the situation in public and get home to do the debrief.
2. As a man, if my SO doesn’t support me, how in the $%^*$% do you expect me to support you?

*Sidenote – Expectations of support need to be clearly conveyed by both parties in order for this to work in the first place.

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
9:01 am

Ared…How are you this morning??? And for the record…I would never handle you rough under any circumstance!!! (But somtimes I kinda like that!!! :D :D ) LOL

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
9:06 am

I wanted to touch on these questions as well:

What have you learned about being supportive in a relationship? When I think of being supportive in a relationship (friendships included) I feel like you should motivate and speak life in that person’s plans. I feel like being supportive is assisting that person through obtaining goals i.e going back to school, getting a promotion at work, maybe working on social skills. Overall you are trying to enhance that person and be a firm force that make their lives better, and not some fickle friend only in for the good times. Let’s be clear being supportive is not being a fool, and if you cannot give that person good, sound feedback you are not being supportive. I don’t mingle or be friends with folks that I cannot support. I am either hot or cold, nothing more…nothing less.

How did your mothers handle it? My daddy was an amazing man and he never showed his behind in public. Now he was the “man of the house,” and we were under excellent leadership, however he did not run around showing out being pie he took care of us and home. He wasn’t some loud mouth saying nothing, so my mom supported him in a traditional sense i.e. dinner was on the table, the house stayed clean, she supported him when he was working hard to provide for the family.

Chink

September 14th, 2010
9:06 am

Morning

I don’t know what it is but just because two people are in a relationship dosen’t mean someone automatically has to become the child. If you were by yourself I would “think” being an adult is paramount since it comes with “responsibility” for your actions.

I will support behavior that is acceptable there is no way I can respect a man who all of sudden forgets he is a man and should carry himself as such.

If you want to go all crazy do that on your single time but if we trying to do something together than make sure you are coming correct!

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
9:10 am

My are we getting off to a bad start already or is there some residual bitterness from yesterday? Jeesh…it’s just a blog.

Anyway, I can’t say that i’ve ever even dated a really hot headed dude that acted ‘like and azz’ in public when it was unwarranted. However, there have been times when I was sort of getting into it over the phone with an SO (him being in front of his friends or whatever) and he tries to get snippy with me. The way i handled those times was tell him to stop trying to front for his friends or show out for them. That usually got him to maintain low tone ;-) But for the most part, it’s not about what you say as much as it’s about HOW you say it especially when it comes to constructive (or heyal, destructive in some cases) criticism

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
9:12 am

@DD- agreed, that the idea of support would cover friendships as well. “assisting that person through obtaining goals ” and as Leggs and I were talking yesterday with my house purchase, sometimes its a matter of telling them what htey need to hear not what they want to hear. to me, being supportive in romantic or other setting is having that persons back enough to be realistic about the situation or their behaviour in it…

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
9:16 am

@blue I feel people carve out how they want to handle relationships, but at the end of the day I handle them both the same by that I mean their are core principles that are intact for both.

Fred won “Amateur Night” last night I know you are proud of him!

Mr. Moe

September 14th, 2010
9:19 am

GM folks

I’m new here but for me DD stated it best, disclosure is key, but its a double edged sword. I’m an even keeled, nonchalant guy so if I get to as Boondocks would say, a “n199@ moment”, then I want that to be known up front…now if she’s actually supportive and agrees, then thats going to create a “n199@ synthesis”…and a n199@ synthesis + n199@ moment= complete disaster….thats not what you want.

Trevor0529

September 14th, 2010
9:22 am

Good morning everyone,

Just wanted to say that. I have a busy day today so I will be lurking.

Fred won “Amateur Night” last night I know you are proud of him!

@DD, where did Fred win “Amateur Night”? At the Pink Pony?? :lol:

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
9:24 am

@Trevor that is too funny. I love it Fred dancing at the Pink Pony!!! :grin:

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
9:31 am

@Mr. Moe – that bit on boondocks was hilarious, but ohh so accurate…and yes, hard to maintain a relationship if yall are turning out complete disaster everytime yall are together…

@DD/Trevor – just a shame, gone from doing pony rides at kid parties to the pink pony…but then again Fred does owe me some cash…rehab was not cheap…..

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
9:37 am

@blue he is giving rides and doing a pole dancing number. I heard he was going to produce a derby winner with all the rides…let’s keep our fingers crossed.

Derby

September 14th, 2010
9:40 am

I have been in a setting where my mate has embarrassed the _____ out of me. I did not check him publicly. Like someone else has already said, we both can’t be sitting in the cell downtown :-)

I kept a smile on my face until we got home, can’t argue while driving either….. too dangerous.

We got home and I blasted him….

I would never blast him in public because instead of just him looking like an *ss, we both would. Can’t have that. I believe he appreciates it.

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
9:45 am

This has always been my stand on support

I will have your back in public but behind closed doors I will tell you that you are wrong if you really were in the wrong.

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
9:45 am

For clarification:

The episode referenced had Ari emabarassing his wife via his behavior (toward another woman/women in general), not an attempt to embarass her publicly (per se).

For the former case, I stand by my assessment; in the latter….well that should never happen.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
9:46 am

Like someone else has already said, we both can’t be sitting in the cell downtown

exactly

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
9:46 am

How does that saying go?…’Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference’ lol

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
9:46 am

Oh Good-morning

Please pray for me today, My boss is back to micromanaging and controlling.
don’t know how much more of this I can take. I feel like if she messes up my day, I might have to ruin her night.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
9:47 am

Ared…How are you this morning??? And for the record…I would never handle you rough under any circumstance!!!

Simple Man – In private, you can handle me however you want! ;)

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
9:48 am

Never argue in public, ever. I tend to keep my cool most of the time and if I have to show my mean side, either she knows me well enough to see it building and will somehow use her “special woman powers” to remove me form the situation or if I am to far gone. I give her a look to walk away I am about to handle my business, and in that case she stands off to the side. I can not imagine a situation in which she would not be supportive, we don’t argue in public nor do we involve family, we work whatever out on our own. The most we might do is leave the public area, and take some sarcastic shots in the car on the way home…then once we are home she lets me have it. if I am wrong I will admit it in the two or so days…lol…if she is wrong she will start flirting and acting really goofy and silly. We both are stubborn and won’t hardly ever admit to being wrong but we understand each others way of apologizing and move on. But neing supportive, that falls into yesterday’s core values statement. Know who you are in a relationship with before you go to far and end up in a situation in which support is a question. If your mate becomes non supportive I am sure that there are other issues at hand as well. Once again, A man arguing with a woman is Gay. Say what you have to say or don’t say it. But to go back and forth with a woman..why? Is she challenging your manhood? The answer is a woman can’t challenge a man’s manhood.

truth

September 14th, 2010
9:48 am

When a woman acts like that I kick her @$$ to the curb and get a new one. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

Kym-Dirty Bird can't fly with a broken wing

September 14th, 2010
9:52 am

Good Morning All,

I have to agree with the previous response..no need to set him straight in the public, but behind close doors or at any given private moment, let him know that his behavior was embarrassing and unnecessary. After many blogs we can all agree that men have very sensitive egos and they have to be handled with care. But wrong is wrong. Also I can love any man to death but wrong is wrong. I can only support you so far so if a guy is going around robbing, killing, then the support stops there for me. There has to be a limit to being supportive.

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
9:53 am

“…But to go back and forth with a woman..why? Is she challenging your manhood?……”

I don’t like to argue with my man. If he did something wrong, I’ll address it behind closed doors but I’m not going to have an all drag out fight about it. Nor do I have to be right all the time.
At some point, you have to agree to disagree.

I think the mistake that a lot of women make is that they have to be right all the time! It doesn’t work that way.
It’s like some women have to be the man in the relationship. That ain’t cool either.

you have to treat your man right and act accordingly or you will be replaced.

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
9:53 am

^ above statement refers to when I’m in a relationship.

abc

September 14th, 2010
9:55 am

Here’s the deal, and all men know it: she could walk away at any time. This is simply a female fact.

The relationship might be the greatest, and the man have no idea it’s even coming; the woman may not even see it coming. But any woman, at pretty much any given time, is fully capable of, and will, walk away. Men don’t really expect it to be any different. Why do you think we go out of our way to not rile you up? That is, if we want to keep you. Otherwise, pfft, go ahead and talk a walk, right?

So, issues of so-called support are moot. A man doesn’t require support, moral, financial, or otherwise. Just don’t be a terrible hindrance, and we’ll call that support.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
9:55 am

“…can’t argue while driving either….. too dangerous.”

This has been my motto my entire life. I’ve seen many fights take place in a car…scary!

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
10:01 am

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
9:47 am

“Simple Man – In private, you can handle me however you want!”

BE STILL MY FOOLISH HEART !!!! :d :d :d

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:01 am

Purp check your email.

Melo

September 14th, 2010
10:04 am

Dang!

It’s like a Creflor Dolla$$ church choir in key this mornig on the blog.
Nobody sunging off key. :lol:

What if a woman acts up in public?
Don’t they say “he’ll hath no fury like a woman scorned”
See, Shakespeare knew that men don’t ordinarily act a fool in public.
Give that to a woman, especially when her flow is falling, acting like she’s got sharp hones on her forehead!

:lol: :lol:

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:05 am

As Purple stated I always felt a man fussing with a woman was a pie move. You can disagree without all the extra when you are in a relationship.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:05 am

I am, what are you wearing?

Diana, okay.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:06 am

It’s like a Creflor Dolla$$ church choir in key this mornig on the blog.
Nobody sunging off key.

@MELO the choir is not on key it was going good until 9:52 and the first tenor monkey showed up. I guess she is waiting for the second one. :grin:

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:07 am

You know I don’t wear clothes before high noon :wink:

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:07 am

Good morning all….

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
10:09 am

HiYas! yawn & stretch

it’s always been my philosophy to stand by my man in public, but if i disagree with him we’ll talk about it in private. and i expect the same.

the character described seems to follow a pattern of behaving badly for no apparent reason. there comes a point i’d have to tell him to grow up and be a better person or he’ll be rowing our ’ship by himself.

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
10:09 am

Dirty Diana ♠ @ 10:07…

Did it just get a little hot in here???

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
10:10 am

@abc

Do you really believe that being a man is being “an island unto himself” without need for any support?

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:10 am

Just heard something HILARIOUS….I was getting coffee in the break room and one of my black employees said she put too much sugar in her coffee. She said….”taste like coffee flavored Kool-Aid, I love it”. I almost fell in the floor laughing!

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:10 am

@White man, are you back????? LOL Please tell me you are not blogging out of the supply closet.

@Simple Man, no it is still cool with a nice breeze flowing.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
10:10 am

There have many a couple of times when me and mine had a conversation after the fact for something that one of us said, especially when an attempt was clearly made to derail the statement.

Bad behavior should not be supported however there is a way to address everything. However repeated arsehole behavior is cause for an arsehole response.

When and/or if he says something that is clearly jerktastic I have no problem saying “you shouldn’t say that” in public. When it’s not that serious yet something that should not be said, mainly something I told him in private and asked him not to repeat (LOL), I try gesture him to “shh”. He will do the same to me. His is usually a look and then rub of his ‘stache. LOL Over the years we have codes for many things that we use when in public. And yes there have been times when I was alone with my girlfriends after the fact that I had to cleanup a statement that my partner made. I have no doubt he has had to do it himself when with his friends.

IMO there is a thin line sometimes in opting to support or not support behavior while in public. To not say something when it’s a really bad situation will make you appear to be a party to the nonsense. However, on the other hand to say something and say it the wrong way can make it look as if you are berating your mate in front of others. You just have to learn and know how to respond and/or react, when, where and how.

As for support itself, I think mates should support the significant other’s endeavors and ideas. Especially when they are in line with the betterment of the person or relationship. However, you should never allow a person to make you compromise your integrity.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
10:11 am

yes, i just got scared by the window washers thumping by…didnt realize that was today…im too high up in this building for random things to be thumping on windows…..

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:12 am

@czBrat hola, would you yell on your man’s behalf in public?

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:12 am

I am white and no I am not in the supply closet.

Mr. Moe

September 14th, 2010
10:12 am

@DD your 10:07…..um yeah, I gotta agree with simple on that one

EastsideSweety

September 14th, 2010
10:13 am

Morning Everyone,
I’ve seen this happen many times and I can’t stand it. I’ve never been one to argue in public. If somethings wrong noone else needs to know and if its that bad we don’t need to go anywhere. Period!! Since I feel like things like that shouldnt happen anyway, I would do one or two things. If i care about him enough we will talk about it at home and hope it won’t happen again, and if I don’t thats the last time we will go anywhere together. I’d prefer not to have any outings ruined because he didnt wear his big boy drawers!!

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:14 am

I had to make sure you were not having a “date” at work in that area you spoke of yesterday.

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:15 am

no no, not today.

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:15 am

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:17 am

Mr. Moe I wasn’t trying to

JetBlue

September 14th, 2010
10:21 am

Okay, I thought for ONCE, this would be an article about how women could and should be more supportive of their male partners………..BUT, low and behold, more male bashing! The title of the article is misleading………where is the love/respect/support for men who DON’T act like fools? Instead, you first blame the man for being “dead wrong” and then ask women how they “cope” or deal with it. BTW, the last few questions didn’t help……the damage was done.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
10:21 am

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
10:23 am

I would like to think that my *picker* works well enough at this point in my life that my chances of being involved with an individual who would behave so badly in public to the point of embarrassing me are slim to none.

There’s a lot to be said for emotional intelligence and emotional maturity.

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:23 am

Isn’t that what all women do? Bash the other sex?

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
10:24 am

Oh…wait…my bad….

Three Words Daily – Laughter’s GREAT medicine.

Hence I get to laugh. LOL!

Dana

September 14th, 2010
10:25 am

Simple Man….is White Man!!!! He posted with the same e-mail address on yesterday as White Man….he just changed the name and used the same numbers….Chile Boo!!!! Go’on some where….they called your story BS yesterday anyway!!!!!

The childish antics of DD are back in effect today. Girl, you need to get a life!!! I bet she keep a list of people on the blog that done crossed her (so to speak) and wait to see them post so she can say something mean!!—So dam* childish!!!!

Always quick to call somebody ugly or revert back to comments about high school…..this right here…speaks of a child-like mind!!!! Regardless of how “grown up” you think you are.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:25 am

JetBlue just gave some interesting feedback. Fellows, do you all agree? I sort of felt this article could go into putting men in a bad light, hence my 8:47 when I mentioned my male friends.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:27 am

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
10:27 am

Dana

September 14th, 2010
10:25 am

No Dana…Simple Man is Simple Man…

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:27 am

Diana, I am trying to remember my passwords..LOL..I had my email “remember” me but somehow that got erased and now I cant remember my own password. I shall win this fight with gmail shortly. LOL

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:28 am

Dana, i have no idea what you are talking about. I am the same White Man as yesterday. honestly.

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
10:28 am

Good Morning All!

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
10:30 am

Morning all!

I’ve never dated anyone that really clowned on me in public. I had one boyfriend that was very opinionated and got into an ugly debate with some of my cousins at a bbq at their house. Of course, I checked him when we got away in private. I told him he certainly had a right to his opinion but he couldn’t stuff it down someone else’s throat in their own home.

I have absolutely no tolerance for ghetto behavior. I carry myself in a dignified manner and I expect anyone with me to do the same. I date men, not boy children. Even kids that are in my care I don’t tolerate showing out in public. For all their faults, I’ve never dated a guy that embarassed me in such a way while we were out, so I can’t really comment.

To me, being supportive of my man and his endeavors, which I gladly do, has really nothing to do with public embarassment. I don’t make excuses for bad behavior off anyone.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 14th, 2010
10:30 am

Morning All!

SexyCool – Im gonna heed your three daily words and stay over here in the cut, laughing!

On topic – I agree with most of whats been stated: save the arguing in public. Totally unnecessary…..

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
10:32 am

Mo – >>>here<<<
LMAO.
:)

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:32 am

So Simple Man is White Man? That is wrong on so many levels.
1) Changing your name. LOL
2)Claiming to be another race and then talking about your “black employees”
3)Why?

Simple Man are you really “White Man”?

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:33 am

Kimmie, what are you referring to?

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:34 am

White man is WHITE MAN…..I am white and work in Gwinnett. I have no idea why you guys are saying I am Simple Man.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:35 am

I am going ot make me an alias “Italian Studmuffin”, but you all would figure it out because I am such a Stud.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:36 am

White Man, what do you mean “you guys”? HUH? LOL

Kym-Dirty Bird can't fly with a broken wing

September 14th, 2010
10:37 am

@SexyCool you laughing cause you got the #one spot in the league this week. That’s alright I am not far behind ya.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
10:38 am

P-Lito – Reminds of that line from Tropic Thunder. LOL!

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
10:39 am

K-to that YM – Yes ma’am. I did that!
Take that! Take that! Take that!
Complete with the Puffy Shuffle.
Really LMAO now!

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
10:41 am

Purple…No, Bru…Simple man is Simple Man… Dana is about as wrong as two left shoes…..

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
10:41 am

@JetBlue – where is the love/respect/support for men who DON’T act like fools? Instead, you first blame the man for being “dead wrong” and then ask women how they “cope” or deal with it – interesting, i think a lot of the women on here do comment on when their SO got it right, but in order to answer the question asked, you head into the not so pleasant territory. tho i will agree, women can get just as stupid as men do where this topic is concerned, and imo should be treated the same way….save the ugliness for the private eye not the public forum

Simple Man is White Man – interesting theory…showing my ignorance here, how exactly are yall checking these emails to unmask the alias’s?

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
10:42 am

White, I gave my opinion about the topic for today. To me, showing my man support has nothing to do with tolerating him acting a fool in public. For him to get mad and say I’m not supportive when I check him on his bad behavior is just making excuses.

Other than that, what are you asking me about?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:43 am

Diana,(and everyone else who has it) I can not remember my gmail password at the moment. You can email me at my for fun email p_rain72@yahoo.com

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
10:44 am

Hola profesora!
now he & i have talked about how i’m not the type to just step back and let him take a hit. he says if i get in the way we’ll both be in trouble. thanx, bloggers, for the posts about one of us staying out of jail. that really puts things in perspective. :lol:

are we really gonna start the day with fights and moniker nonsense? this is soooooo NOT the peaceful tuesday i had in mind.

i think i’m gonna go sit by blue :)

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:44 am

SexyCool, that is what I was going for “Tropic Thunder” LOL

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
10:45 am

@Jaie ~ welcome back…your probationary period has been lifted. Hope you enjoy your residency here in Blogsville.

@Mr. Moe ~ any special b-day plans?

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:45 am

@Simple/White Man the real question is, which one of these h0es are posing as Dana? :cool:

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:46 am

CanalZone, do you need some stress relief? Want me to start with some of my corny jokes?

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:46 am

how exactly are yall checking these emails to unmask the alias’s?

Do you really want to know?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:47 am

Can I ask a candid question and get some real responses from real alias’?

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:47 am

Nice day outside.

Jucee

September 14th, 2010
10:48 am

When the Man is ‘dead wrong’ you tell him and keep it moving.

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:48 am

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
10:51 am

yes please, reign. make me smile! and exactly what is a “real alias”???

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:52 am

Is it wrong to have an oral fixation. I am not talking about with everyone but if you are in a solid relationship or married. Is there something wrong with that?

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
10:52 am

You have the floor.

abc

September 14th, 2010
10:52 am

Yes, Dan, that’s what I think. Support is nice to have, but not essential. It amounts to not much more than a pat on the back or a sympathetic ear, anyway. More important is not to do things that hinder a man. In fact, I’d call lack of hindrance being supportive, in its own way.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
10:53 am

WM, it’s supposed to be BE.U.TEE.FUL out today (and the rest of the week i think).

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:53 am

Purple Rain….I see nothing wrong with that at all.

Dan - simply...

September 14th, 2010
10:54 am

@abc

Thank you for responding, that’s an interesting response to say the least.

Kym-Dirty Bird can't fly with a broken wing

September 14th, 2010
10:55 am

@abc..so other than nagging.. how else could a woman hinder a man?

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
10:55 am

As a woman, I see nothing wrong with your fixation! Nothing at all.

White man

September 14th, 2010
10:57 am

Most women see the oral fixation as a way to have control of her man. Most of the women that I know love it.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
10:58 am

lmao @ leggs!! good morning sunshine!

the strangest things go on in the ladies room on this floor. just say 3 feet under a stall. all three appeared to be wearing the very same shoe. and not a sound came out of that stall the whole time i was in there. wtf?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
10:58 am

czBrat, LOL I did not think that one all the way out. A real alias, I guess the alias that everyone knows you as. LOL Here is the first joke:

Why is a woman like a bucket of KFC? Because once you get past the tender breast and the juicy thighs all you have left is a greasy wet box to put your bone in.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
10:59 am

@DD – naw, i geuss im not really that invested in anyone to know for sure whether its an alias or not

just wonder, and not trying to start a fued with anyone, but donning my blogvest just in case, why bother taking the time to check…i figured it must be something simple that is on the page somewhere already and im just missing it…

@cz – hey lady, other than the window washers (lol) its pretty peaceful here today. come on sit by me…

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:01 am

Purple – That is great.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:01 am

@blue LOL leave that blog vest off, Fred chewed a hole in it so you are not protected at all.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:01 am

czBrat it’s not hard to figure out what is going on in that bathroom. LOL

White Man and Leggs, :) lol

Diana, you have to resend your email to my other addy. I think you already had my Yahoo address from that yahoo group thingy

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
11:02 am

As long as satisfaction of that fixation takes into account your SO’s desires and wishes, it should be no issue.

I have a friend whose husband is in love with her @ss. He used to just walk by and grab it when and wherever he wanted to until it was to the point that she got tired of it. She finally had to communicate with him that even though they are married, she still has some boundaries when it comes to her person. (She also had to break him from the habit of reaching down and cupping her vajayjay while she was sleeping.)

As I read back on this, I am once again LMAO.

JetBlue

September 14th, 2010
11:02 am

Yep…..most dating “advice” for women is about addressing men’s shortcomings……..whereas dating advice for men is about ways to make women feel special (or MORE special).

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:02 am

Want another joke?

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:03 am

SexyCool- are you male or female?

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:03 am

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:05 am

Diana, you have to resend your email to my other addy.

@purp that is too much work. :grin: I was actually responding to your email

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
11:05 am

Purple: Right now I’m wearing nothing considering you still haven’t come correct on my cheerleading uniform! :-D

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:06 am

SexyCool, sometimes I just wake up wanting to. SOmetimes I wake her up other times I let her sleep. I am like your friends husband. Somtimes I will just grab it and massage it, if we are laying down, in the car, or if she is just walking by me. She always wears a swim suit or sexy bra and panty set whenever we are home what are we supposed to do. Or if we are on the way back home she will just say she is hot and slide her bra and panties off if she is wearing a dress. She has not told me that my actions bother her but last night while I decided to let her sleep I was wondering if something were wrong with me. LOL

abc

September 14th, 2010
11:06 am

Ways I’ve been hindered in the past are being forced to make career and life changes to accommodate her career; being restricted from activities that I needed or wanted to do in order to satisfy her demands; necessity of figuring out where all the money goes because the books she keeps don’t tally; generally getting hassled up because she would invent a bunch of needless drama. Thank you, God, that my girl in nothing like all of that! She is a gift and blessing. Actually, I’d say her presence is supportive just because she’s so good. But I think it boils down to never being a hindrance, really; I never talk about work anyway, or things that are going awry for me personally. I tend to not think about those things when I’m around her and at home. That could be supportive in itself, too: the home she makes is like a shelter from stress.

JetBlue

September 14th, 2010
11:06 am

122 comments……….mostly a bunch of “hellos” and “hi-ya” doing’s………can you say ADHD? LOL! Stick to the subject people……………this ain’t facebook!

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:06 am

does anyone work in the Gwinnett area?

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
11:07 am

i should have known what was coming, reign, but yeah .. go for it.

Dana

September 14th, 2010
11:07 am

I still stick to my opinion ….Childish at best!!!!
DD, please believe there are more people who read this blog daily than that actually post. I have posted only a couple of times, but felt the need to address your childish antics. I know I am not alone, because slowly others have started to address it, too, and there seems to be a consensus. You are the only one who comes in here DAILY looking for a catfight. Yes, this is a blog, and yes, it is for entertainment, but some days you can just come in looking to start going in on people just because you don’t like something they admitted to on the blog. I am sure most people don’t lose no sleep over anonymous comments made on a blog and be prepared the next morning with a quick come-back to get back at somebody…but you obviously do!

You take other’s people shared experiences and what they choose to reveal on the blog and then you try to make snide remarks as if you scooped some dirt on them and can use it against them. If someone decides to share their personal experiences, they obviously felt comfortable enough to do so. Not knowing that some childish person is going to come back later and act like …Ooooh, I got some dirt on this person….she used to sleep with married men, or she had a one-night stand. You seem to want to fixate on people’s indiscretions, as if you have none of your own. NEWSFLASH—–You got some indiscretions, too!!! Now, if you are really content with your life and have never done anything wrong, then more power to you. Keep living long enough, and all those “ I have never done this or that”, will possibly happen. You may be smart and wise to say “No, that will never happen to me”, then just keep it moving and be the best Diana you can be. Just don’t be quick to look down your nose at others, just cause you “ aint never done it”. That is all.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:07 am

I am, keep waiting I am enjoying the nothing. LOL

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:08 am

Here is my next joke:

Mirrors can’t talk, and lucky for some, they can’t laugh either.

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:09 am

LETS START A NEW TOPIC……

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
11:10 am

@DD – Ha HA!! What Fred doesnt know is that was a bait vest, cause i knew he’d do that!! i even had it Bedazzled, cause he’s distracted by shiny things….now hes got the old Bedazzled one and i am sporting me brand new blog vest, un-Fred tainted!!
@Sexy – agreed…fixation is cool as long as your SO is on board…if at some point you sleeping with your hand on her boobs gets old for her, then you may have an issue but till then your all good!

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:11 am

Dana, you sound angry early this morning. We all agree it is a beautiful day. Now calm down, and change your moniker back afterall we know who you are, and what you do.

Now let me ask you this, are you gay or something? Why do you keep sniffing around my feet like you are trying to lick my toes or eat me?

Sorry in advance if you answered these questions, your rant was much too long to read. I am glad you know my importance writing all that ish just for me, TRICK!!!!! :cool:

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:11 am

Be nice to your neighbors. They are the only ones who will know the difference between your good screams and your bad screams!

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
11:11 am

Purple , you ain’t gonna have me out here trying to cheer with nothing but some pom poms on
LOL!

Melo

September 14th, 2010
11:11 am

@SexxyCool?

does he grab it in public or at home?

does he go there in bed with the mouf or with Johnny?
For a moment I thought by being in love wit her zzz u meant phuckinh the dudu hole!

CzBrat
what three people in the stall are u talking about? Treason over there by the job?

Purple? Oral fixation? What’s that
I thought, like in ur situation and mine oral is part of the tab?

Lemme know coz I’m actually considering to upgrade to gold standard!

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:12 am

Tube of Vaseline: $3….Box of Condoms: $12….Three Gay Porn magazines: $11. Make your parents think your brother is gay: Priceless!!

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:12 am

DD…WOW, nice post “lick my toes or eat me?”

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:12 am

LETS START A NEW TOPIC……

Ok, go for it! Tell us something good.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
11:13 am

P-Lito – Sounds like she is a bit encouraging to me.

WhiteDude….really?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:13 am

Melo, go ahead an upgrade LOL

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:15 am

LETS DISCUSS ORAL FIXATIONS….

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:15 am

@White Man, thanks!

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:15 am

SexyCool, survey says you are right. :)

And to all of you selfish women who just agreed you need to be fixated on your man more stop being takers. LOL

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
11:18 am

Melo – LOL!
It was happening mostly at home. And in bed, he would just cup her up and leave his hand there – all night if she let him. He wasn’t trying to caress her or excite her or anything – just hold her….there.

And whereas I have no issue with TheDude *worshipping* certain of my lady parts at random times, I could sympathize with her plight.

Because, quite frankly, there are times when I am not feeling sexy or touchable and just want to be to myself and my partner should be able to recognize and respect that.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:19 am

Knock Knock
Who’s there?
Tamara!
Tamara who?
Tamara the world!

tamara…tomorrow…get it?

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:20 am

SexyCool – see that may be the difference. Men are usually either always feeling sexy or touchable. I am the same way. I love to just carress or hold her. It may not be to excite her or anything, it just feels nice.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:21 am

Bedroom Golf

Each player shall furnish his own equipment for play, normally one club and two balls.
Course played on must be approved by the owner of the hole.
Unlike outdoor golf, the object is to get the club in the hole and keep the balls out of the hole.
For most effective play, the club should have a firm shaft. Course owners are permitted to check shaft stiffness before play begins.
Course owners reserve the right to restrict the length of the club to avoid damage to the hole.
The object of the game is to take as many strokes as necessary until the course owner is satisfied that the play is complete. Failure to do so may result in being denied permission to play the course again!
It is considered bad form to begin playing the hole immediately upon arrival at the course. The experienced player will normally take time to admire the entire course, with special attention to well formed bunkers.
Players are cautioned not to mention other courses they have played on or are currently playing, to the owner of the course being played. Upset course owners have been known to damage a player’s equipment for this reason.
Players are encouraged to have proper rain gear along, just in case.
Players should assure themselves that their match has been properly scheduled, particularly when a new course is being played on for the first time. Previous players have been known to become irate if they discover someone else playing what they consider to be a private course.
Players should not assume a course is in shape for play at all times. Some players may be embarrassed if they find the course to be temporarily under repair. Players are advised to be extremely tactful in this situation. More advanced players will find alternate means of play when this is the case.
Players are advised to obtain the course owner’s permission before attempting to play the back nine.
Slow play is encouraged; however, players should be prepared to proceed at a quicker pace, at least temporarily, at the course owners request.
It is considered outstanding performance, time permitting, to play the same hole several times in one match.
The course owner will be the sole judge of who is the best player.
Players are advised to think twice before considering membership at a golf course. Additional assessments may be levied by the course owner and the rules are subject to change at any time. For this reason, many players prefer to continue playing on several different courses

ddfan

September 14th, 2010
11:21 am

@Dirty Diana ♠
8:49 am comment to Dan. tell him :)

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:22 am

SexyCool, recognize that we men don’t care. LOL

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:23 am

Purp when you have to issue a get it? Let’s just say hmmmmmm nothing. Give us another one so that I can keep your record going.

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:26 am

ddfan…LOL

I don’t mind these fakers and haters, and h0es ridin’ on that 1978 Gremlin-stationbandwagon, but I have to check them at some point. :cool:

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
11:27 am

WhiteDude – I see where you’re coming from. In fact, I rather enjoy just holding TheDude.

However, females most often have a bit more going on body-wise. After a workout or a day of sitting on it when Aunt Flow is in town or when I’m just feeling in need of a shower, or tired from dealing with @ssholes at work all day, don’t just walk up to me and start touching on me in certain places.

In fact, just last week, I’d come in from my softball game and when TheDude went to hug me, I said to him, “I’m stinky.” Which he now knows is my cue for….”No hugs right now, Dude.”

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:31 am

SexyCool – To which my answer would have been “go take a shower and come to bed naked. We can hold each other then”. ha

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:31 am

Q. How do men get excersize at the beach?
A. By sucking in their stomachs every time they see a bikini.

Q. What’s a man’s idea of helpin with the housework?
A. Lifting his legs so you can vacuum.

Q. How do men define a 50/50 relationship?
A. The cook/we eat; They clean/we dirty; They iron/ we wrinkle.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
11:32 am

Which is exactly what I did.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
11:34 am

@PR – lol, you just on a roll today?

Melo

September 14th, 2010
11:35 am

@Sexxy?

I can sympathize coz most days, a hand on my body feels heavy when I just want to lay down.

I hope uall are feeling as good as myself coz I got a 3.00 am and my bedroom was breezy chill so I’m really stressfree.

Pudsy at a mere arms length is real cool.
:cool: :cool:

:lol:

Dirty Diana ♠

September 14th, 2010
11:35 am

Purp Purp you must have stolen my copy of 101 jokes. :grin:

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:36 am

Men love a womans body….of all shapes and sizes. We love to touch and look. That is just a mans way.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
11:37 am

“most days, a hand on my body feels heavy when I just want to lay down.”

That’s a very good way of putting it.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:37 am

Ok a few of you may get this one.

A dyslexic man walks into a bra.

LOL

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:39 am

Diana, I love that site

SexyCool, a womans body out our disposal is one of the reason men stay faithful and or get married. LOL not the only reason but a major factor.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
11:42 am

@melo – most days, a hand on my body feels heavy when I just want to lay down – i feel ya…
@PR – no cracking jokes on the dyslexics man…sniff sniff…lol

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:45 am

Q: Did you hear about the dyslexic Satanist?
A: He sold his soul to Santa.

Kym

September 14th, 2010
11:46 am

Okay Diana/Professor/ or whatever other psycho moniker you plan to come up with this week to feed your need for attention..lets get something straight. I have no need to change my moniker on this blog..Why should I? Those who know me..know me..those who don’t.. don’t really care so really the I did of changing my moniker to get into a typing battle with some low-rent hoochie on a blog..requires energy I don’t have and time I am not gonna waste.

If I have learned one thing in my 38 years is that if I make a mistake I own up to it..if I fall short or have short comings they are my own. If I can share something with others..that is my testimony and I make no apologies what so ever for anything done in the past. Because that has no determination of my future. So why you think the mere words you type on a screen would cause me or anyone else on this blog such angst only you know. Everyone else is doing just fine. If anything they laughing at you and not with you. Because here you sit trolling and strolling for attention under a false name, on an anonymous blog..really? You think by calling me or anyone else out on their past is some how shaming us? Please..The only shame I feel is for you really..shame, and pity cause this blog is really the only place you have in your sad little existence to stand out. You wanna stand out..then in order to stand out you got to be willing to stand down…drop the chip on your shoulder..the false bravado that you carry to cover your insecurities, and instead of using spite to cover your obvious envy..start counting your own blessings instead of worrying about how others got so blessed. Then maybe just maybe you wouldn’t need a virtual pat on the back to stand out.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
11:47 am

English is very strange
Did you know that “verb” is a noun? How can you look up words in a dictionary if you can’t spell them? If a word is misspelled in a dictionary, how would we ever know? If two mouses are mice and two louses are lice, why aren’t two houses hice? If Webster wrote the first dictionary, where did he find the words? If you wrote a letter, perhaps you bote your tongue? If you’ve read a book, you can reread it. But wouldn’t this also mean that you would have to “member” somebody in order to remember them? In Chinese, why are the words for crisis and opportunity the same? Is it a coincidence that the only 15 letter word that can be spelled without repeating a letter is uncopyrightable? Is there another word for a synonym? Shouldn’t there be a shorter word for “monosyllabic”? What is another word for “thesaurus”? Where do swear words come from? Why can’t you make another word using all the letters in “anagram”? Why do fat chance and slim chance mean the same thing? Why do overlook and oversee mean opposite things? Why do people use the word “irregardless”? Why do some people type “cool” as “kewl?” Why do we say something is out of whack? What is a whack? Why do we say something’s out of order when its broken but we never say in of order when it works? Why does “cleave” mean both split apart and stick together? Why does “slow down” and “slow up” mean the same thing? Why does flammable and inflammable mean the same thing? Why does the Chinese ideogram for trouble symbolize two women living under one roof? Why does X stand for a kiss and O stand for a hug? Why doesn’t “onomatopoeia” sound like what it is? Why don’t we say “why” instead of “how come”? Why is “crazy man” an insult, while to insert a comma and say “Crazy, man!” is a compliment? Why are a wise man and wise guy opposites? Why is abbreviation such a long word? Why is dyslexic so hard to spell? Why is it so hard to remember how to spell MNEMONIC? Why is it that no word in the English language rhymes with month, orange, silver, or purple? Why is it that the word “gullible” isn’t in the dictionary? Why is it that we recite at a play and play at a recital? Why is it that writers write but fingers don’t fing, grocers don’t groce and hammers don’t ham? Why is the alphabet in that order? Is it because of that song? Why is the plural of goose-geese, and not the plural of moose-meese? Why isn’t “palindrome” spelled the same way backwards? Why isn’t phonetic spelled the way it sounds?

For Real

September 14th, 2010
11:53 am

“Yes, Dan, that’s what I think. Support is nice to have, but not essential. It amounts to not much more than a pat on the back or a sympathetic ear, anyway. More important is not to do things that hinder a man. In fact, I’d call lack of hindrance being supportive, in its own way.” – Dayum I find myself agreeing with abc….. What’s happening to me?

Slim: Why didn’t you hit me up on the blog flight? Dayum!!! I missed a good one.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
11:54 am

@PR – You would put that out there just when myboss comes in..now im sitting at my desk with this “What in the He!! is wrong with him, ROFL” look on my face and shes looking at my like ive lost my mind…..granted she didnt read that last entry of yours, rofl….

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
11:55 am

@PR ~ that wasn’t nice. I have never been with a white man!

@Dana ~ interesting post, and you didn’t sound angry at all. You were merely stating your opinion!

Melo

September 14th, 2010
11:56 am

Purple??

Where did u copy and paste that 11.47 from??

:lol:

DC Rose

September 14th, 2010
11:56 am

Hi everyone!

Purp I like your style. Peace keeper instead of people eater.

White man

September 14th, 2010
11:59 am

Leggs – you have never been with a white man?

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
12:02 pm

Ok, so for those who were here yesterday and saw my scenario with my friend and his wife…update today is they’ve had the talk…he says she acknowledges that she has been “neglectful” lets say but tells he cant seek relief specifically with “strippers and the like”, but beyond that really has nothing else to say….his opinion is that she is setting a trap? im at a loss for words there…opinions?

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
12:03 pm

Nope, but now that PR has planted us in the bathroom together, whatcha got to show and tell!

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
12:04 pm

DC Rose, thank you :)

Melo, I don’t remember I was just browsing the web and saw it then pasted it here. LOL

Leggs, Did I say you had been with a white man? It’s not like you will start liking mayonaisse if you do. LOL

White man

September 14th, 2010
12:04 pm

Who is PR? I was just wondering.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
12:04 pm

SexyCool and White, yeah sometimes the touching while appreciated is unwanted and sometimes inappropriate. Like just a mere few minutes ago I was making copies at the copier and the boss man walked up and patted my hinny. I reminded him that I work for him on Tuesdays that is sexual harassment. LOL He laughed and asked who is going to fire him. I am, sucka, I own half of this company. LOL

But seriously, there are times when you just want to be not touched. And getting touched while asleep can be bothersome some days.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
12:07 pm

@blue ~ that’s horrible. She acknowledges her neglectful way and tells him he is not to relieve himself with “strippers and the like” and women wonder why men run into the arms of other women. She is delusional and trapping herself for a lot of grief down the road when he does stray. The male appendage is like a boomerang, it’s going to find something to circle around sooner or later!

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
12:07 pm

:cool: a hit dogbytch will holla! I guess we all know from your 11:46 Developmental Studies class that KYM is DANA. :wink:

Now go find that woman’s husband and lay under him another 5 years and stop sniffing around me. You little monkey-reject. He chose his wife now you are mad that you spent five years of your life chasing a dream either wet or dry. Sweetie you can’t get time back, so stop wasting it with folks hubby’s and these long azz essays to me on the blog.

Ciao :wink:

White man

September 14th, 2010
12:08 pm

I have never been with a black woman either.

White man

September 14th, 2010
12:08 pm

I have never been with a black woman, so I guess we are even.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
12:08 pm

I am PR and not Puerto Rican

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
12:09 pm

The longer the lines
The more I am on these h0es mind!
And, it is all the time
:grin:

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:10 pm

:shock:

what is really happening?…….

Tookie

September 14th, 2010
12:11 pm

Kym you seem mad at DD for not being a fool’s fool

For Real

September 14th, 2010
12:12 pm

Blue: Tell your friend to try his best to fix the issue include counseling and if that doesn’t work, he should be prepared to leave the relationship.

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
12:14 pm

Sasssssssssssssssssssssssssssssy

Did you go to FSO? I missed it, although I really didn’t want to go anyway.

Melo

September 14th, 2010
12:16 pm

@PR??!

I’m going take a dump and I hope by the time I come back my renewal and re-invogaration will fuse thru the blog!

:lol: :lol:

Let us all quash the beef unless u females know something we menfolk don’t know.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
12:18 pm

Sexy….you still in here?

Da hell goin on in here? Do we need to go “old school” on ‘em????

White man

September 14th, 2010
12:19 pm

Heading to lunch, be back in a while…

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
12:20 pm

Leggs – Here you go!!

http://www.testcafe.com/sex/

http://www.allthetests.com/quiz13/quizpu.php?testid=1112764441

Blue – Did the guy say it casually or seriously let her know that she is on the outs if she keeps that up?? As in, this is not an option.

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
12:21 pm

Let us all quash the beef unless u females know something we menfolk don’t know.

@MELO I don’t know anything about this h0e name KYM, she jumped off ol’ girl’s husband and tried to do a “jump” on me. We’ve never had a conversation or met in person. It seems to me she is still uptight about munching on that woman’s husband’s dingle ling. That is not my problem, because what I say about mistresses shouldn’t bother a secure woman that got it together. :cool:

Hell maybe I remind this monkey-h0e of the wife? :???: I don’t know.

All is well on my end, how are you?

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
12:22 pm

@PR ~ I said I have NEVER been….

@WMan ~ PR and Purple Rain are one and the same.

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:22 pm

Did you go to FSO?

No I never made it Dianaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..my mom and aunt had me hemmed up on the southside chauffering them around….aint nuthin like family..

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:23 pm

Da hell goin on in here? Do we need to go “old school” on ‘em????

??????

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
12:25 pm

Sassy…..can’t reveal…

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
12:26 pm

My wife makes my lunch but sometimes I run out to get fast food, she would kill me if she knew that. Does that make me a cheater, because we don’t eat fast food.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
12:26 pm

Slim….don’t forget your therapy session this afternoon….you’ve come too far to quit now….

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
12:27 pm

Leggs, what about a Olive man?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
12:28 pm

Melo, enjoy your dump. LOL Are you one of those guys that stink up the bathrrom at work? LOL

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
12:29 pm

I’ve never had an Olive man, either, I have only witnessed the attributes of my fine black mandingos. Anything is possible going forward, but right now, only them.

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
12:31 pm

Sassssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssy

Saturday I was too tired, and I had a lot of stuff to do, because I have personal trip and a business trip coming up. On Sunday I just wanted to watch some football and chill.

@Purp I used to work with a man that did that…only his wife did not pack his lunch, but she made him bring food from home. He would sneak out with us from time-to-time. One time I yelled, “hey gloria good to see you.” He almost pissed in his pants…that was his wife’s name and he thought she was there…lol. We all laughed so hard.

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:31 pm

@2C….Shyyd no pressure…it bursts pipes…

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
12:32 pm

Sassy!!! Whats for lunch darling???

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
12:35 pm

Purple – Funny you should mention the bathroom.

I am on the lookout for our little Ms Bathroom Terrorist, blowing up our spot and disappearing. I think she may be in a different unit and may be trying to protect her image in her own by letting it loose in our bathroom.

I’m checking shoes and everything. Oh, I’m gone catch her…if it’s the last thing I do.

She must have cut out a crawl space or something cuz she is definitely laying low.

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:39 pm

On Sunday I just wanted to watch some football and chill.

That’s pretty much all I did,too Dianaaaaaaaaa. By the time the fam left my house I was through dealing…

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
12:40 pm

@Leggs – male appendage is like a boomerang – too funny, mayhave to use that one later…the whole situation is just crazy to me, how either of them think it will work this way…oh, and ime olive men can be a handful ;)
@For Real – i see what you mean about counseling, tho my honest opinion is time to let it go, tho not sure if as a friend your allowed to say that one, lol
@PR – CHEATER!! j/k
@Luvbug – checking shoes and everything! d@mn!! whatcha gona do when you catch her?

EastsideSweety

September 14th, 2010
12:41 pm

I’m checking shoes and everything. Oh, I’m gone catch her…if it’s the last thing I do.

That’s me at work. LOL. Esp if I know you came “visiting” from another area.

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:41 pm

Whats for lunch darling???

I’m keeping it simple,Simple…I have salmon and veggies…how about u?….

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
12:44 pm

Sasssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssy

Sundays were made for a little football. I promise you I make tracks back and forth to the kitchen every timeout. I had to hit the track hard yesterday all because of football Sunday :cry: you know I am not fond of working out.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
12:46 pm

I don’t think it’s time to let it go….it’s time for deep tissue, peel back all the layers counseling sesion to the root of the problem. No doubt she has lost interest in her husband, but not him as a provider. She is tolerating him now…no one likes to be tolerated!!

Melo

September 14th, 2010
12:46 pm

@White man?

ur 12.08 response to Leggs was interesting, hope she is intrigued.

@DD?

I’m gon hold ur left hand and Kym’s right, me’ in the middle and hope uall will respect my intervention.
Now, I font want to go into the details coz I ain’t Dwight Eubanks but when a Zulu tells a female to chill I expect all females to chill for zulu respect sake!

Are we all clear??? :lol:
So what’s the topic for today?
@PR? My dump is he’ll stinky! A co worker met me’ in the restroom and asked if I’m okay this morning?? I sain NO!
He said Why?

I tol him why he thinks I wld be okay when I’m coming there for some moments of solitary confinement and sequestration!
:lol:

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
12:48 pm

Can’t eat what I would like to…so I guess guess i will settle for this fruit bowl……. :D :D

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
12:49 pm

Blue- We’ll have to negotiate her guest pass…out in the hallway, of course…I aint trying to get the pinkeye from her legal poop remnants.

Maybe something like, “Listen up (Sleeper Cell). I know nature gets the best of us all, but you gotta take that else where. We (the women in our unit) can spare a day or two a week, but everyday between 8-9 and 1-2 is waaay to much to ask…especially since your bathroom is much bigger than ours. I mean, what we suppose to do if we all get hit with it at the same time? We can’t have everybody on extended sick leave. You understand right?”

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
12:51 pm

LuvBug, so you are the one tring to crack the case of the Doo-Doo bandit??? LOL

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
12:51 pm

I had to hit the track hard yesterday all because of football Sunday

Yeah after this weekend with my peeps I have a whooole lot of repenting to do at the gym…..I’ve been challeeeeenged so now I have to bring it. I’m about to go to the gym and run my three miles and maybe a little more cause I feel so guilty. :(

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
12:57 pm

Lmbo at Luv: I aint trying to get the pinkeye from her legal poop remnants

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
12:58 pm

<—-trying to play catch up on this blog
….Purple's commentsnovel ain’t helpin much either…lol
<—-going back to work

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
12:59 pm

Simple Man – Well…you know. LOL

Seriously, I could take it better if it wasn’t so frequent and lethal.

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
12:59 pm

Enter your comments here

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
12:59 pm

why did the blog eat my comments :evil:

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
1:00 pm

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
1:00 pm

okay….I’m trying to play ketchup on this blog and purple’s comments novel ain’t helpin
:evil:

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:00 pm

btw, Jaie, welcome, you’ve crossed the burning sands…..

I’on know who made Leggs the Dean of Pledgees, but you had the shortest time on “line” that I can ever recall….

oh, you can just call me Big Brother 2, I don’t mind.

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
1:01 pm

Can’t eat what I would like to…so I guess guess i will settle for this fruit bowl…….

:oops:

u so naaasty ;)

a treadmill calleth…and I must answer….read y’all in a bit….

Sassy Me...built for comfort not for speed :-)

September 14th, 2010
1:02 pm

I’m trying to play ketchup

that’s so cute….

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:02 pm

But Sasssssy……..LOL :D :D :D

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:03 pm

@Melo ~ I see you don’t have my interest at heart. You hope I’ll be intrigued by a known swinger who has to have a NU NU every so often so he can see the “cum” scrunched up face with he releases…not my cup of tea.

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
1:05 pm

LOL, thanks Sassy

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
1:06 pm

okay….time for nap lernch! :lol:

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:07 pm

@2C ~ ARed suggested I at least give her a 24 hr probation period. Next time, it will be longer for all others!

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
1:10 pm

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
1:11 pm

Thanks 2CPTG© ;)

Big Brother 2, huh?

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:11 pm

“@2C ~ ARed suggested I at least give her a 24 hr probation period. Next time, it will be longer for all others!”

I swear, this “intake process” ain’t hittin on shyt!!! we need to get back to hazing and what not….these newbies got it easy….

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
1:12 pm

wake up , I Am. How are you sleeping in the middle of the day?

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:13 pm

Yes, Jaie (pretty moniker, btw)….Big Brother will suffice for now.

Melo

September 14th, 2010
1:13 pm

@Leggs? in fact I do have lotta confidence in ur sexual hypnosis and I know that once White takes a dive, if not ur morals but ur gyrations will set him him on the str8 and narrow!! He won’t need no other adventures.

They don’t call u Sexxyleggs for nothing!!
:lol:

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:16 pm

@2 . . . i love you! nigga where you been??? haha…

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:17 pm

Cute comeback, Melo!

@2C ~ must admit, she is one newbie that pretty much slid into homeplate w/o any grass stains on her uniform!

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:17 pm

Say beautiful…..How is that hyper sex drive thing working??? :)

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
1:17 pm

For Real – my bad dawg, I wasn’t able to come tell you about the blog fight because I had this toe nail I had been trying to bite off all morning. I finally got it too…you wanna see it? lol

2CPTG – Therapy Session noted and scheduled

Just came back from having my lunch outside and now I don’t really wanna do shyt else for the rest of the day.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
1:17 pm

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
1:17 pm

Leggs- I’m not sure if my 12:20 pm posted. It has a message ‘awaiting moderation’. I assume my links were too risqué.

They were the silly test links I mentioned yesterday. If you’re still up for it…google ‘sex test’ and click the one that references ‘The Sex Test’ (testcafe.com)…and ‘Are you a freak’ (allthetests.com)

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
1:18 pm

Slim, relax a little

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:19 pm

@Simple Man . . . it’s still outta control! ugh. she has a mind of her own.

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:20 pm

Slim…it really is nice outside….What you wanna do???? :P

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:21 pm

Beautiful, so how are you handling that??? I gotta believe the fun meter is off the charts at the Casa de la Beautiful….

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:22 pm

@Luvug ~ thanks. I’ll take the test this evening.

Melo

September 14th, 2010
1:22 pm

@Daamn Simpleman! U keeping a tab of all the oversexed 40+ club females! :lol: :lol:

I don’t know if u can handle Beau tho! :lol:

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:24 pm

@Simple Man . . . my 2 will prolly be back in a minute, so i can’t go into details right now. hehe…

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:24 pm

Melo…Hyper-Sexed 40+ year old women are The Best thing EVER!!!!

DatinVet

September 14th, 2010
1:24 pm

What do you mean, “When a man is dead wrong”? Since when has a women ever admitted a man was right? Therefore the question should be “How much support does a man need?”

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:26 pm

Note to self…..have Beautiful e-mail me so that I can get all of the really NASTY details and either meet for for drinks or really get to know myself!!!!

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:28 pm

@SimpleMan ~ hope you have lots of frequent flyer miles to get with Beautiful.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:28 pm

Hey Beautiful; how have you been, lil mama…..

ummm, holla at Simple Man……..He pays!!!

Melo

September 14th, 2010
1:29 pm

@Simple??

can’t wait for Queen to reach that milestone..2 more years to go.
My fridge will be stoked with all the exclusive energy dranks u can think of.

Better pound that thang a lot for a few more years be4 it goes
kaput!

Than maybe bench her for a younger one! :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
1:31 pm

Beautiful is on fire, but you are my number!!! :oops:

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
1:31 pm

Than maybe bench her for a younger one!

Don’t play like that Melo.

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:32 pm

@2 . . . oh its like that??? you pimp’n me now? lmbo.

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:34 pm

@SimpleMan . . . smh. you don’t know what you’re saying. you must not like it here! lol.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:35 pm

“@2 . . . oh its like that??? you pimp’n me now?”

Nooooo, lil mama; but dig this…….he likes to treat; so what I’m thinkin’ is, go ahead and go out with him….get all nice and full, then call Daddy as soon as he drops you off….

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:36 pm

@2 . . . make sure you go back and look at your hits on my page, k. :)

Melo

September 14th, 2010
1:38 pm

@Luvbug?

I’m giving that thang a luge of proly 12 more years. After that, not many females at 50 are still naturally well oiled in there and throbe in return when throbe.

Where as myself, at say 63, I may look grey in my hairs but my waist is fiya!!!

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
1:38 pm

‘relax a little’

Purple – I AM relaxed, that’s the problem because my ITIS is kicking in big time. I sure could go for a good book, a hammock and a margarita.

‘it really is nice outside….What you wanna do????’

@SimplemMan – Normally certain breeds don’t go into heat until the spring time. You are an anomaly it seems. lol However, I need about $400 to get my 30,000mile service done on my car. Whatchu got on my $20 homie?

Beautiful

September 14th, 2010
1:38 pm

LOL! see, das why i love me some 2. mmmmmmmuah! LOL!

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:39 pm

“@2 . . . make sure you go back and look at your hits on my page, k”

like Dee Jay from “Hustle and Flow”…..now that’s a bottom bytch for ya!!!!

White man

September 14th, 2010
1:40 pm

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
1:45 pm

Im gonna heed your three daily words and stay over here in the cut, laughing!
Mo I think that’s how I blog-met you, sitting in the cut with popcorn. I didn’t even have a blog vest then…come to think of it, I think I still don’t have one. lol

I swear, this “intake process” ain’t hittin on shyt!!! we need to get back to hazing and what not….these newbies got it easy…
2C don’t think I ever crossed. wait, have I unknowingly been on line all these years? lol

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
1:47 pm

playing catch up..
@Leggs – She is tolerating him now…no one likes to be tolerated!! – yeah, thats what im thinking, but this stuff hes telling me has me like ???? hes coming up with scenarios talking ’bout how he wouldnt put it past her…im wondering why would you stay with someone you suspect of being so conniving?
@Luvbug – We (the women in our unit) can spare a day or two a week, but everyday between 8-9 and 1-2 is waaay to much to ask… LMAO…. what do you come back with when someone says that to you??!!

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
1:48 pm

Naw Dreams, you crossed, my brother!!! But we got some folks on here who went underground, now flossin’ like there shyt is legit….don’t e’eem must know the grip (handshake)!

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
1:49 pm

‘wait, have I unknowingly been on line all these years?’ :lol: :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
1:51 pm

Naw Dreams, you crossed, my brother!!! But we got some folks on here who went underground, now flossin’ like there shyt is legit….don’t e’eem must know the grip (handshake)!
2C lol sound like them Morehouse “alphas” from around ‘95.

White man

September 14th, 2010
1:52 pm

Is it better to give or receive?

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:53 pm

@blue ~ when someone is in pain, they will justify events around them to make it a little better in their mind. The heart is still heavy. Anyone can rationalize until it becomes Truth in their mind!

He doesn’t want to leave his family without truly working throught things. But, it takes 2 to make a marriage!

Melo

September 14th, 2010
1:59 pm

@Blue?

How close are u to dude to tell u bedroom stuff like that?
If he’s telling u means he’s got a real problem and nine months or more for a married man is waay too long.
How about u hook him up?

Does the wife and itself talk?
If not,even better! Shove it and just give dude an assist.

He’s gon thank you!!! Stress kills.. Let him release some.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
1:59 pm

@Leggs – yeah, some merit there. im thinking best do the split while the midget is tiny, not wait till hes bigger…..trying not to overstep what i say with him cause even tho we’ve been friends for years, im sure at some point if i say what im thinking, if i were a dude he’d be punching me in the head, lol….

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
1:59 pm

You are giving horrible advice today, Melo!

White man

September 14th, 2010
2:00 pm

There is NO way he waited 9 months

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
2:01 pm

Sooo Slim…Why you gonna handle me like that??? I might be down to drop you off at the office in the morning after after an unbelievable night of rabbit dancing…Hell If I am still breathing hard I might set you up with a ride to the shop to get the ride when its done, But as far as paying for te service you gots to get that other buster to take care of that :D :D :D But You are down with me regardless!!! LOL

Melo

September 14th, 2010
2:03 pm

@Leggs!??

If it were a woman dying slowly like that for a year, being sexually marinated for nine months coz of the man’s trifling and still no pipe, u wld advise otherwise and advise she just stay, talking talking talking to no end???

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
2:06 pm

But as far as paying for te service you gots to get that other buster to take care of that
Didn’t you promise Slim the world to be on your squad? You can’t renege now. lol Pay up homie.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
2:06 pm

I wouldn’t advise her best male friend jump her bones for a quick lube job in the hopes of relieving stress.

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
2:07 pm

Off topic: I received flowers from an “secret admirer” on Thursday, the note read “Please know that I’m overwhelmed everyday by your presence. I dont mean to be rude or intrusive, I only wish to pay you a compliment and thought you should know that you lighten up someone’s day … everyday.”
My name was spelled incorrectly so I automatically threw out the possibility of it being “Daddy.” I work in a 18 floor building so ‘figured’ it maybe someone from there whom has passed me coming and going.
Anyhow, I left the flowers at work and never spoke of it to him to avoid argument or interrogation in which I had no answers too.
Today I found out the flowers were from him. Now he is disappointed that I never spoke of receiving them, and stated that had I asked he would have told me that they were from him.
Would any of you have taken the flowers home not sure if they were from your SO? Would you have told him/her of the flowers? If so, what if you had told them about the flowers and they were not from them?

Am I the only one who thinks this was a loss-loss situation? Lol.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 14th, 2010
2:08 pm

Dreams – and Im still holding it down over here. I dont know if its the weather or what but err now and then, you have to peek in before you start blogging. Never know whats poppin off. lol

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
2:09 pm

There is NO way he waited 9 months
white man you’re right about that.

blue why is your boy still in that marriage? do you think he hasn’t gotten any from ANYwhere for 9 months?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:09 pm

Jaie, I woulod have taken them home and been honest, you did not provoke anyone into sending you flowers

Slim, you off the roster?

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:11 pm

@2C ~ ARed suggested I at least give her a 24 hr probation period. Next time, it will be longer for all others!

Leggs – You decided on 24 hours! I would have suggested at least a week! :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

September 14th, 2010
2:11 pm

*yawn* :shock:
I’m awake

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:12 pm

‘Didn’t you promise Slim the world to be on your squad? You can’t renege now. lol Pay up homie’

Dreams – you keep that up and I just might have to do some serious consideration for hiring you to lead me….something like a manager of sorts. ;-)

Jaie – I surely hope this “Daddy” person isn’t trying to holla at a friend of mine. She got flowers sent to her job today that basically says the same thing. lol

Melo

September 14th, 2010
2:13 pm

@Jaie??

Ur So thinks u cheating, no wonder he spelled ur name wrong to plant it nicely like that!

What SO sends flowers incognito to somebody they truly expressing their luv to??

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:14 pm

Simple Man – What did I tell you about those hoes! Angie Beautiful is not on the approve list of women you can converse with!

I turn my back for one second… :lol:

White man

September 14th, 2010
2:15 pm

Any other white people online?

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
2:16 pm

@Melo – ive known him since freshman yr of high school, more than half our lives, so we tend to talk about a lot of different things…
@Leggs@Melo – yeah Melo, advice is a no go for me there, tho i will admit i have asked the Q of why he is staying faithful at this point…not ladylike i know, but d@mn….
@Dreams – not sure why the holding on…i have the feeling that may be one of the “gets a dude punched” questions so havent asked it to the point yet…doubt he’s stepped, he aint a good liar, lol
@Jaie – i woulda taken them home, like PR said u didnt make anyone send you flowers, and besides if he hadnt sent them it’ll remind him others are watching so he better act right, lol

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:16 pm

Purp – naw, i’m still a part of the squad. But don’t let Simple Man hear us because I’m trying to swing a deal in my favor…a $400 deal. :evil: lol

Dirty Diana

September 14th, 2010
2:16 pm

Would any of you have taken the flowers home not sure if they were from your SO? Would you have told him/her of the flowers?

@Jaie, I’ve had that happen before twice I took the flowers home and once I sold them to my brother and he gave them to his GF.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:18 pm

I finally remembered my password, I had to go through the security questions I set up

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:19 pm

White man – Please explain your constant desire to seek out other “white folk” that live in Gwinnett. Are you feeling outnumbered? Uncomfortable? Matter of fact, have you visited our blog tanning salon yet? lol

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:19 pm

$400, you are worth way more than that

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:20 pm

Thank you Slim. I don’t understand the obsession of seeking other white people or why the name “White Man” was chosen out of the billions of choices available in this world. I mean really.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
2:20 pm

Jaie – My first thought was like Purple Rain said, took them home. But you and only you know what the situation is at home. I may have taken them home and said “Thank you baby” and ran up and gave him a kiss. When he asked how I knew they were from him, I would have replied “who else could have sent them?”.

I had a friend who’s husband is very jealous. She was at Home Depot buying some plants for her garden. A guy started talking to her and told her about a sale they were having on the same flowers at a nursery down the street. He offered to show her where the place was and she followed him in her car. She said he offered to pay for them but she declined. She bought the plants and excitedly took them home. She told her husband the whole scenario.

He made her take them back to the nursery. Even though the man didn’t buy them for her, he made her take them back.

:shock:

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
2:21 pm

@Jaie ~ I wouldn’t have taken the flowers home, and knowing me, probably would have told him about my secret admirer. I say that cuz when I was married, I would tell him about the bldg flirts (that what I called them). But to be honest, I think I did that so he would know others admired me even though he did his best to make me beleive no would want me other than him. (He thought I was one of those weaklings that fell for bullcrap like that.)

@ARed

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:21 pm

We have had the “n” word today, a white movement trying to get started and a few more cat fights. I can skip over the cat fights, no problem. The other stuff is just ignorant.

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
2:22 pm

@Slim I would ‘hope’ Daddy knows what a good catch he has and wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize that.

@Melo I asked him why he would do that. He stated that he assumed that I would automatically know whom they were from being that they were my favorite flower. It crossed my mind, but at the same time the incorrect spelling of my name had me unsure.

White man

September 14th, 2010
2:22 pm

Why do black men pretend that they do not like to give oral?

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:23 pm

PRain – I am also suprised that the n word made it through the blog filter. I am not surprised at the person who stated it though. *shrugs*

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:24 pm

Purple – I know I am worth more than $400 but i’m currently exercising the Nickle & Dime method. Mama ain’t gotta get it all at one time lol

Ared – Yeah, it’s like every 30 minutes he’s sending out smoke signals for another familiar ‘face’. lol This is a melting pot blended blog…we can’t help what color the soup ends up being once all the ingredients are thrown in the mix. ;-) I wonder if he’ll feel better if we all change our monikers to the colors that we are. :lol: that would be funny actually. No one would know who the next person was, unless of course they started another blog fight. lol

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:25 pm

I would probably want my wife to bring them home, if she did not and I was the one who sent them I would think she was sneaky. Or if she did not tell me about them and I was not the one who sent them I would wonder what else is she hiding. So Jaie I do understand your lose lose. When in doubt just be totally honest next time, then he can’t be mad at you.

Kimmie, that is a tad bit overboard, he made her take the flowers back?

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
2:26 pm

Jaie – If he ordered the flowers over the phone, the person taking the order could have misspelled your name.

My first and last names are very common, yet folks misspell them all the time.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
2:28 pm

Purple – Yeah, he was a bit irrational like that. But I don’t know what goes on in their house and in their personal relationship. I got a feeling either he has a guilty conscience or she has done something to make him suspicious. Or both.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:30 pm

AmazonRed, she called me one when I first joined also. Oh well.

White Man, why do you seem to make your blogging experience about race?

Melo

September 14th, 2010
2:31 pm

@2.20 Kimmie??

I think ur friend was wrong on more than one level.
First, don’t she know her husband? She married him she must know he’s jealous but loves Jim all the same.
She should have simply gotten the address and Kim.

Secondly, if u know ur Hubby is this way some thangs that come her way uninvited by her adobe be openly disclosed coz she will be put under interrogation if she does. Don’t tell ur man that some random dude passed a sexy comment on u :shock: for example or asked to pay? Coz he knows when guys ask to pay they are looking for an opening!

Lawd have mercy!!

Ur stories are hilarious sometimes.

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:32 pm

Jaie – I’m sure it’s just a coinky dink…enjoy your flowers. But did you ask him why he spelled your name wrong? Seems like he was testing you.

Purp and Ared – yeah I saw that word posted and was surprised to see it made it through.

White man – maybe you should try a more color conscious blog forum. I have not met a black man that denied eatin it before they beat it.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
2:33 pm

out of meetings for a bit.

saw your post, jaie, and i agree with PR’s 2:25 exactly. if i didnt mention something like that to s/o (and he’s the actual ‘admirer’) he would immediately know that i am capable of hiding attention or advances from another man. not cool.

but, as kimmie said, that’s all based on how things work between you and yours.

now what’s all this about whites and ‘n’s and color markers on the blog????

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:33 pm

kimmie, good perspective on the relationship and mispelled name.

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
2:33 pm

>em>Why do black men pretend that they do not like to give oral?
white man It’s 2010…doesn’t everyone give oral? I thought women who didn’t give psychiatric evaluations went the way of muzzle-loading rifles, and I thought dudes who didn’t pleasure their woman went the way of the betamax! You’re telling me their still around?!? lol

I am also suprised that the n word made it through the blog filter.
ARed but you can’t write r.i.d.i.cu.l.o.us or other seemingly innocuous words.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:33 pm

AmazonRed, she called me one when I first joined also. Oh well.

:lol: :? :lol:

Clearly she is not my favorite person.

White man

September 14th, 2010
2:33 pm

Just trying to make conversation…dont be so sensative.

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
2:34 pm

@DD, LOL at taking them home and selling them to your brother who then gave them to his girlfriend! Love it! LOL.

@Leggs I agree that I maybe should have said something about receiving them.

@Kimmie True. That didn’t cross my mind.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:35 pm

Slim/Dreams – Don’t even entertain such statements. Why would he even care?

@Dreams – The damn AJC. That really should be one of the first words blocked. I’m scared to even test the “er” version. I don’t want to get my feelings hurt. :arrow:

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
2:35 pm

Jaie, I would not have taken the flowers home however, I would have told my husband them. I would have said something like, “You know the strangest thing happened to me today. An admirer sent me flowers”. And left it at that.

But let me ask you, did he send them to try to entrap you or just being an admirer? If it was just to express his admiration I would think he would want you to know they were from him. Most women love to receive just because gifts from the SO, so I would think most men knowing that would want it to be known the gift is from him. But that’s just MO.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:36 pm

Are there any other Italians on this blog?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:38 pm

Melo, Melo are you around?

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
2:38 pm

Slim I told you we could get that money. We can do it big…but you gotta trust me Slimmy baby. ;-)

Melo

September 14th, 2010
2:38 pm

@Jaie?
Do as PR suggested next time when u don’t know!!

‘honey I like ur flowers, mwaaaaa’

Honey:’it wasn’t me’! Who gave u this??’

‘Ooghhh’ :lol:

He may sulk at the attn but will love the honesty.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
2:38 pm

Ur stories are hilarious sometimes.

Melo – Hillarious and true! LOL!! And yes, I agree with you. She knows she got a fool. I think she does that ish to get him riled up. I’ve seen her in action.

I had to stop inviting her out to things. I would invite them both and he would decline. Then the day of the event he would sulk and call her every 5 minutes. Got on my nerves.

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
2:41 pm

@Raqi – Most women love to receive just because gifts from the SO – say it again Sam…

now the question that ive never been quite sure on, are guys the same way? cause if not i could be saving myself a lot of cash…….

Melo

September 14th, 2010
2:43 pm

Here PR, here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
2:43 pm

I’m scared to even test the “er” version. I don’t want to get my feelings hurt.
ARed lol I feel you. I guess we’ll just stay in the don’t-ask-a-question-you-don’t-want-to-know-the-answer-to camp together.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
2:44 pm

czBrat, I agree that not mentioning it may make a SO feel that you are willing to conceal such events. However, I also think that when it means very little to you, i.e. receiving anonymous flowers, we tend to dismiss those events from our mind. Usually a few seconds after we hear the thump of the that thing hit the bottom of the trash can.

Now if it happened again coming from a “secret admirer” that would be cause for concern. That would alert me to stalker behavior.

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
2:45 pm

Purp…. I I know I made some offers, but I don’t think Car repairs are on the list…

ARed….I’m sorry…Your aura overwelms me and when you are not around, I fail to think clearly….Please forgive my shortcomings… I am going to Destin to play golf the 30th thru the 3rd…Why don’t you let me take you with as a means to make it up to You????

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:47 pm

Are there any other folks with two eyes, two hands, two ears, and two left feet out there?

Are there any other folks with stanky farts out there?

Are there any other chicks with phatty catty’s out there?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:48 pm

Melo, check your email now. LOL

Are there any reformed weed smokers on this blog? LOL

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
2:49 pm

anyone out there with split ends?

anyone out there with hammer toes?

anyone out there driving a black, japanese suv …. newer than 1999 but older than 2006?

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:50 pm

I am going to Destin to play golf the 30th thru the 3rd…Why don’t you let me take you with as a means to make it up to You????

Simple Man – Are you treating me to the spa while you play golf?

If so, I’ll think about it! :lol:

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:50 pm

Are there any people with a negative bank account balance?

Anyone on here with change for a dollar?

Anyone here that forgets to flush sometimes?

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:51 pm

’cause if not i could be saving myself a lot of cash’

@blue – a just because gift doesn’t have to be expensive. I once bought an SO shot glasses engraved with his initials on them, just because. Or stopped and picked up an SO’s fav sushi with a bottle of wine…sent a just because card with a nice lovers coupon inside :mrgreen:

White man

September 14th, 2010
2:52 pm

Simple…what course are you playing in Destin?

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
2:53 pm

Blue, I think they do when it is something that they could actually use. Or better yet something they like.

My husband would probably find it cute if I sent him flowers, but he would really appreciate it and more than likely thank me if I sent him two tickets to [insert event of interest here] just because. Or maybe one of those edible arrangements which he does like and I have sent before.

Other than that I know my husband would prefer I not spend the money on something that he doesn’t want or like. Heck saving money is a gift as far as he is concerned. LOL

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
2:54 pm

“Are there any reformed weed smokers on this blog?”

Hunh? somebody called me?

ARed, while he’s playin golf, holla at me….I’m right ’round the corner!!!

White man

September 14th, 2010
2:54 pm

Raqi….I am sure he would much rather you spend the money on some nice lingerie.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
2:54 pm

Purple – I have change for a dollar. 1 nickel, a dime and the rest pennies. The pennies are brand new, not the old, dirty ones.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
2:55 pm

ARed, while he’s playin golf, holla at me….I’m right ’round the corner!!!

2Can…how are you right around the corner?

And are you trynna pimp me too? :lol:

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
2:55 pm

@Slim – oh yeah, i know doesnt have to be expensive, but if thats just a chick thing i can stop all together. i like the engraved shto glasses :) .mr.blue collects shot glasses too, tho they always have something retarded on them, lol

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
2:57 pm

LOL @ Ared. caught in a tug of war and feeling pimped. :lol: it’s good to be desired by many but had by only a select few.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
2:58 pm

i think men always appreciate any sign that you’re thinking of them.

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
2:59 pm

Anyone here like to smell other peoples shoes, underwear, or belly buttons?

Anyone drink out the juice cartons when no one else is home instead of pouring it in a cup?

Anyone enjoy a nice thumb in their arse when getting hit from the back?

This reminds me of playing Questions back in school…we’d be half wasted sitting around asking QUestions. Sometimes the questions would be so crazy that it would throw the next person off to want to answer it, and they’d have to drink drink drink!!! lol

Anyone here forgot the name of the person that they last had sex with?

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
2:59 pm

kimmie, but my dollar is wrinkled.

Melo, you are welcome. LOL

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:00 pm

Slim, LOL

CanalZone, hold up a sign for me mami

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
3:01 pm

“how are you right around the corner?”…..from Destin….Panama City Beach…

And nah, I’m not trynna pimp you! He’ll be on the golf course, you can tell him you’ve set up the spa appt, and I’ll be out in the parking lot waiting for him to leave…..just look for the short dude in the ‘86 Buick Regal, with 30’s and vogues, a ragtop, and bass that’ll make ya heart skip a beat….

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:02 pm

Have a good evening my friends. Everyone love someone, ready set go!!

White man

September 14th, 2010
3:02 pm

I love that area.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:03 pm

2CPTG, nope nobody will notice you like that in the parking lot of the Golf Course. LOL HA HA

Melo

September 14th, 2010
3:03 pm

PR?

Queen has such terrible double flashing standards. She won’t flush the cotton bowl with a her wiped face gunk to my dismay sometimes but lemme not flush my golden pee, she pouts.

I hate seeing brown tissue with gunk in the toilet bowl!

Naaaaaaasty!

How many of u guys get a kick phlucking another man chic??

am asking for info only, I don’t judge other men on this at all.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
3:03 pm

Purple – Wrinkled money spends the same!

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
3:03 pm

are you a side sleeper reign? preferably a right-side sleeper so we can spoon.

any right-side sleepers out there? maybe we can make the next issue of guinness.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:03 pm

LOL White Man. I have a ton of lingerie already, so buying more, not much of a gift at all. Now if I told him I bought it on sale, well I then would have to try to decipher if his woody is from the look of the lingerie on me or from the thought of knowing that I saved us some money again. LOL

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
3:04 pm

@Raqi Per him sending them as admirer was to show admiration. He says he was trying to do something sweet and thought that he had put enough clues for me to know they were from him. He stated he has no reason to think I am doing anything.
@Melo LOL.

The flowers yes were my favorite but as @Raqi says I would think most men knowing that would want it to be known the gift is from him. Over the weekend he never spoke of them so come Monday morning, favorite flowers or not they weren’t from him (or so I thought) so I trashed them. Out of what I felt was respect for our relationship I had no reason to keep them.

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
3:04 pm

Purple – I have change for a dolla but I can only pay it to you in gum. And yes, I, SlimNu is a recovering ’schmoker’…Oh, and I don’t forget to flush sometimes…I just choose not to. ;-) (If it’s yellow, let it mellow. If it’s brown flush it down) j/k

blue – yeah I just went out and found some nice plain shot glasses then took them to THings Remembered in the mall to have them engraved. I got the one with the little silver color added to the engraved part so that it would show better.—>Inexpensive

White man

September 14th, 2010
3:05 pm

Raqi….that is hilarious….good one.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:05 pm

cz, I will sleep on whatever side you need me to, LOL

Melo, I don;t like messing with another man’s girl….unless I don’t know the man….j/k….maybe

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
3:05 pm

ARed… You can do your thing all day! Massage, facial aroma therapy… the whole nine. Thinking dinner on the beach, Couple of nice bottles of wine…. and for Breakfast…..

Whiteman… Baytowne Golf Club

White man

September 14th, 2010
3:06 pm

Ok I dont think i have ever played that one.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:06 pm

kimmie, the pop machine at works wont take my wrinkled money

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2010
3:07 pm

2Can – Call 4Real the opening line is at 250-1

Dirty Diana ♠ Who let the dogs out? woof woof

September 14th, 2010
3:08 pm

czBrat!

now what’s all this about whites and ‘n’s and color markers on the blog????

I wish I knew, but I will say this it left me speechless, and that is difficult to do. :wink:

@Purp

Anyone on here with change for a dollar? I actually need change for a dollar while you playing. LOL

anyone out there with split ends?

anyone out there with hammer toes?
too dayum funny

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
3:09 pm

Willie D…..what’s up pimpin….

I ain’t callin For Real…sucka still owe me from last year….

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:10 pm

I don’t have split ends, I wish my hair would grow back quicker okay I have to leave.

a presto

Chazz Palminteri a/k/a Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:11 pm

Purple Rain
I am 1/345676th italian… does that count?

Raqi

Other than that I know my husband would prefer I not spend the money on something that he doesn’t want or like. Heck saving money is a gift as far as he is concerned. LOL

Those words are mighty familiar. :lol:

It's me....lurker

September 14th, 2010
3:13 pm

What’s crackalackin up in here. Been in meetings/luncheons allll day. Whew I’m tired.

Purple Rain

September 14th, 2010
3:13 pm

Poppa Grande, mio fratello

It's me....lurker

September 14th, 2010
3:13 pm

I can’t even read today, now I have a dentist appointment.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:16 pm

Sorry, ARed ~ had to make a mad dash to a meeting. I meant to say when Jaie came on, she seemed so sweet and smitten by the blog I thought not to put her through a tough screening process. I think I was elated that one actually came out of Lurksville asking for a vest that I threw caution to the wind…It won’t happen again. All newbies “mettle” must be assessed before they can actually don a vest. (Assessment process usually takes 2 weeks).

I have since made this correction in the WLB…all in agreement please say YAY! I need a quorum of at least 8 to make this official.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:16 pm

2Can…you live in Panama City? I wish I had known that when I was there in August. I made the requisite stop at Pineapple Willy’s!

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:16 pm

‘86 Buick Regal, with 30’s and vogues, a ragtop, and bass that’ll make ya heart skip a beat…
2C bruh you know you ain’t gettin’ nowhere near a resort parking lot with the ol’ skool gangsta mobile. you might as well have a ‘85 cutlass. lol

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:17 pm

Purple Rain

Have a good afternoon, bruh..

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:17 pm

Jaie, yeah he should have told you. However that was nice gesture.
I love lilies so if I received them as a gift I would know they are from my husband or brother even if they came without a card. Anytime I have received flowers from a man I was dating and I had not yet told him lilies are my favorite, it was a gift of roses or carnations.

If I was to now anonymously receive lilies just because and they not be from my hub or bro, I would first assume they are from someone from my past.

Which again would be a cause for concern. LOL

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:18 pm

ARed… You can do your thing all day! Massage, facial aroma therapy… the whole nine. Thinking dinner on the beach, Couple of nice bottles of wine…. and for Breakfast…..

That sentence better end with “Waffle House” Mr. Fresh! :lol:

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:18 pm

Hey Poppa, any news to share yet?

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
3:19 pm

Purple – The pop machine won’t take your wrinkled dollar, but I will! :lol:

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:20 pm

I meant to say when Jaie came on, she seemed so sweet and smitten by the blog I thought not to put her through a tough screening process.

:lol: That’s why she asked you and not someone like me for acceptance. I would have made her run laps and fetch my dinner! ;)

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:22 pm

Anytime I have received flowers from a man I was dating and I had not yet told him lilies are my favorite, it was a gift of roses or carnations.
Raqi If I send flowers, they’re almost always lillies, oriental stargazer lillies to be exact. Sometimes I’ll do orchids. you have good taste. ;-)

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
3:23 pm

@Leggs/ARed – so how long has this blog been going on?

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
3:26 pm

@Leggs Thank you! I am not here to start any issha’s.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
3:28 pm

has anyone seen those ‘tobacoless cigarettes’? are people seriously pretending to smoke penlights now?

YAY
wait. what exactly am i voting on?

Melo

September 14th, 2010
3:29 pm

@Blue??

they don’t have the correct answer, those two u asking! I do

Ur Hubby around??
I may have to slide u a lil discount for giving u the info.

What’s ur schedule.. U still house hunting?

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:29 pm

@Leggs/ARed – so how long has this blog been going on?
blue “The blog is eternal; without beginning or end” I believe that’s in Genesis: Chapter 1 Verse 2 of the MIA Manuscript. I think SexyCool may have actually written that chapter…at least I heard that’s what 2C said. lol

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
3:29 pm

AmazonRed™ @ 3:18 I was thinking room service on the balcony…. But if Waffle House is what you want…. Then who am I to judge…. LOL

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:29 pm

@Jaie ~ only a newbie would say that (LOL).

Jaie

September 14th, 2010
3:29 pm

@ARed I wouldnt mind shedding a few pounds. How many laps would suffice?
I am having Chipotle for dinner, would you like something?

@Raqi & @Dreams Stargazer Lillies are exactly what they were!

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2010
3:30 pm

2Can – working hard like my name Toby on this end. How N.FL treatin ya? The plan still coming together? You might as well chalk up that lil dough, 4Real done spunt it on a 1/2 of 1/2 of pint.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:30 pm

Raqi

No news except I had to go down and meet with my teenage nephew. He has let his obsession with boobies become a problem. He lets them distract him so much that it has become a problem in his grades. It is natural for a teenage boy to have interest in the girls, but he cannot let it be such an issue.

Let’s just say that it was an interesting discussion.

I learned way more than I expected to learn. :shock:

Seriously, he is football player and he is 5′11″ at 14 years old. Girls are calling him quite a bit, and my sister has taken his cell phone (I didn’t think that he need one to begin with). There are all kinds of pics texted boobies on it too. My sis had to meet with the girl’s mothers.

As the old sayin goes, if it ain’t one thing, it’s another.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
3:31 pm

Dreams – Stargazers were the flower of choice in one of my brother’s wedding. The colors were fushia and cream and they had stargazers and cream roses.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:33 pm

@czB ~ :lol: :lol: You know I wouldn’t put a vote out there that was off the wall. All newbies must go through, a minimum, a 2-week screening process before they can don a vest…(I have one Yay!)

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:34 pm

DreamsM, yeah very nice flowers. Those lilies have said “I’m sorry” for the marido a couple of times. LOL

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
3:34 pm

Leggs – That’s right, you can’t be giving out vests all willy-nilly!

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

was thinking room service on the balcony…
Simple a little servicing on the balcony ain’t neva hurt nobody. lol

@Raqi & @Dreams Stargazer Lillies are exactly what they were!
Jaie you know I sent you those flowers, stop playing. your man’s just trying to take the credit. Lillies are my steelo. sorry for mispelling your name though. lol

Melo

September 14th, 2010
3:35 pm

2Can is in Panama city but he got such blog credibilty!

That man has some blog #}%^#]?~|# misadventures history!

The Rev Lowery of the blog.

That’s some ooomph!!

:lol:

He is the

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:36 pm

An obsession w/boobies at 14…that is funny and sad at the same time!

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:37 pm

Hello Kimmie…..have the UGA fan’s started yelling that the sky is falling yet? On one hand, I am glad that South Carolina (Spurrier) has decided to use a running game. On the other hand, I don’t expect it to last, Spurrier loves to throw the ball. He will crack and it will cost us. So, Dawg fans shouldn’t fret. South Carolina has won the September SEC championship before, but we haven’t played in the SEC championship game in Atlanta, yet.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:39 pm

@kimmie ~ I thought about that!

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:39 pm

AmazonRed™ @ 3:18 I was thinking room service on the balcony…. But if Waffle House is what you want…. Then who am I to judge…. LOL

Simple Man – Let’s go with your suggestion. You’re the man and all. :D

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:39 pm

@ARed I wouldnt mind shedding a few pounds. How many laps would suffice?
I am having Chipotle for dinner, would you like something

Jaie – I like you!!!

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
3:39 pm

@melo – asking the wrong two am i, lol? working on a house as we speak, and freaking out at the same time….
@Dreams – Genesis: Chapter 1 Verse 2 of the MIA Manuscript – lol, did you all contribute to this document?
@Leggs – this new screening process, it isntretro-active is it…if not then Yay!! lol
@PG – ahhh, the old boobie obsession…im with you tho, they dont need a phone that young, just trouble in the making for the most part imo….

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
3:40 pm

Leggs – YAY (even though I think i got hazed for a longer period of time) I suppose it took a while for ya’ll to get used to my sense of humor. :-D

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:42 pm

Leggs

That is exactly how I feel. I am happy that he has an interest in them. However, it seems like yesterday that he was more interested in watching Scooby Doo and the Superfriends on Boomerang with me.

Now when mentioning the Wonder Twins, I have to make sure that he is talking about Zan and Jayna. Not something else.

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:42 pm

kimmie I knew you’d be onto the stargazers. That’s my run-o-the-mill game. I’d have to come with my break-glass-in-case-of-emergency game for you. ;-)

The Rev Lowery of the blog.
melo you a funny dude man. why he gotta be rev. lowery though? lol

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
3:43 pm

Ared @ 3:39 Since you are taking all of my suggestions…. I got this list over here…..

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:43 pm

Poppa, your nephew sounds like my oldest. LOL I have to remind him at least once every other month that I am not sending him to school to major in women nor partying. Thankfully my brother is up there with him and keeps him in line for me.

And my 15 yr old? Well let’s just say the boy needs his own phone line.

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
3:45 pm

Someone I know works in the school system and you’ll be surprised how many nasty pic issues they end up having at school. When I was that age, the sight of anything below the belt was just gross to me…now it’s more like you go into a hypnotic trans when you see a good one…be like, oooooohhhh this is niiiiiiice :lol:

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:46 pm

This new law is NOT retroactive….I now have 3 Yays!

@PoppaG ~ gave a new meaning to Wonder Twins. Dang, for a meeting to be called it must be pretty bad. That’s too young to be that obssessed. Hope he reels it in very soon because he’s going to be bulldozed as he gets older….

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:46 pm

your man’s just trying to take the credit

LOL DreamsM, how many men have really actually taken credit when he knows it wasn’t him? Your lady be all happy and whatnot and you reaping the benefits on someone else’s dime. LOL

Melo

September 14th, 2010
3:48 pm

@Dreamz??

U know other than the Rev there aren’t many with credible knowledge like that of the civil era, much like our blog.
All we got is Willie D( John Lewis) and 2Can( Rev lowery)

:lol:

U know Jesse was busted for padding/embellishing his civil rights resume. :lol:

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:48 pm

My nephew just went on his first date during Labor Day weekend. My sister and the girl’s mom both accompanied them and sat with them. Movie and Ci Ci’s pizza….. The girl just turn 15 that weekend.

I wasn’t sure that I agreed with it, but I guess that it might be better than them sneaking around. They both know that the parents know each other and will call each other.

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:49 pm

lol, did you all contribute to this document?
blue no, my writings weren’t cannonized at the ecumenical Atlantan Council. My work is considered a part of the gnostic writings. lol

Alias Moniker 1

September 14th, 2010
3:50 pm

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:50 pm

Dang, for a meeting to be called it must be pretty bad.

My sister and mother asked me to talk to him. It was one test, but we wanted to get the point across early.

Alias Moniker 2

September 14th, 2010
3:51 pm

Melo

September 14th, 2010
3:52 pm

@Dreamz??

I think PR can safely take the Jesse blog equivalent.
Not dark not white… Much like Jesse who needs to be asked, dude did u have martins blood on u or not?

:lol:

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
3:52 pm

I wasn’t allowed to date until 16 and even then it had restrictions on it.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
3:53 pm

Melo, I lived in Atlanta up until ‘07…my mom passed away, and I moved back here to handle the homestead….so my blog credibility is in tact…

blog started in March ‘04….

and yes Ared, I live in Panama City; the city where you come on vacation, and leave on probation!

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:53 pm

:lol: @ Alias 1 and 2 ~ thanks…that makes 5.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
3:53 pm

wait, ‘03 the blog started…..shoot, I’on know, I was smokin’ back then!

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:54 pm

Your lady be all happy and whatnot and you reaping the benefits on someone else’s dime. LOL
Raqi shey MY woman, so I get the privilege of taking credit for all works/deeds contributing to her overall happiness. It’s in the contract! lol

All we got is Willie D( John Lewis) and 2Can( Rev lowery)
melo are they the only ones left? dang, I hope the blog doesn’t end up like the SCLC once they’re gone. lol

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
3:54 pm

Dreamboat – You know me well! :lol:

Poppa – I’m acting like football or any other sport did not take place this past weekend, because EVERYBODY lost! Even both of SO’s kids soccer teams lost! Misery love company!LOL!!

The only winner this weekend was my SO – he tested for and recieved his black belt.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:55 pm

Tony Gonzalez day (yay Cal!) is this Sunday. They’re selling his jersey on Falcons 365 for 50% off. They don’t have jerseys in small. But they do have youth sizes. Would a youth size look crazy on a grown woman? Even a flat chested one? :lol:

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:56 pm

LOL DreamsM.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
3:56 pm

I live in Panama City; the city where you come on vacation, and leave on probation!

There were a lot of mullets there! The beach was nice tho. Florida beaches have Cali beaches beat. I hate to admit that.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
3:56 pm

Melo, you forgot about Coretta Scott, aka SexyCool….

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
3:58 pm

@kimmie ~ congratulations to Mr. Kimmie. A 2 hr test. Glad he passed…now he can break things with authority (and a certificate showcasing his accomplishment).

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
3:58 pm

Florida beaches have Cali beaches beat. I hate to admit that.
ARed hard to beat that pacific sunset though.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
3:59 pm

Amred – That shirt will work. Flat or not, they’ll still know a lady is wearing it!

I used to love Ralph Lauren polos, but the shirts in the boys dept were cheaper than the womens shirts when I was in high school, so that’s where I got my shirts!

Willie Dynamite

September 14th, 2010
3:59 pm

Melo – dayum not John Lewis. C’mon man

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
3:59 pm

Poppa, my son had his first non-chaperone date just recently. We let him go to the movies with the girl he likes. Before that she either came along with us when we went out to dinner or lunch on a Saturday or he tagged along with her and her family.

We allowed him that one alone date but I let him know that he will be 16 before it happens again. LOL

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
3:59 pm

Kimmie….Morehouse was the only metro Atlanta football team to win. Get your affairs in order because the world is nearing its end when Morehouse is the only team to hang your hat on.

Congrats to your SO. I wished that I kept up my martial arts. I actually liked Aikido, but my schedule was just too busy. I felt like I was half-azzing, and I don’t believe in half-azzing at all.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:00 pm

Leggs – Good thing he’s a nice guy, cause to hear him hit those practice sheilds, he could kill somebody!

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:01 pm

Thanks Kimmie – I’m concerned about fit. I’ve ordered kid sizes before, and while they fit in the torso, the opening where the head goes is smaller, and the sleeves are shorter. I don’t want to be walking around in an awkward looking jersey. LOL

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
4:01 pm

@Dreams – lol, im sorry you were shunned
@2CPTG – wait, ‘03 the blog started…..shoot, I’on know, I was smokin’ back then! lol, k so i’ll go with ‘03-04…
@kimmie – congrats to the SO!

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:01 pm

kimmie, blackbelt? That’s great.

However you know I am deathly afraid of men that have been trained to kill. LOL

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:01 pm

ARed

There were a lot of mullets there!

They don’t call it the Redneck Riviera for nothing…:lol:

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:02 pm

Get your affairs in order because the world is nearing its end when Morehouse is the only team to hang your hat on.
PG sad, funny, and true all at the same time. lol Now, if the weather stays warm for homecoming, AND we win, then you’ll know the stars are in alignment. Partying will be off the chain.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:03 pm

Raqi

Well, I guess that was exciting for him.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
4:03 pm

hey leggs, take that “yay” on Ared’s 3:55.

Florida beaches have Cali beaches beat. I hate to admit that.
ARed hard to beat that pacific sunset though.

ditto on all those statements.

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
4:04 pm

Melo, what’s even more ironic, is my company is HQ’ed in Atl, so I’m always in and out….

ARed, you gettin’ this???? We can do lunch in midtown, and be back in Fl in time to do dinner on the beach!!!

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:04 pm

Leggs/Poppa – I will send along your congrats.

Me & the kids will be testing for the black in March. After that, I’m going to give it a rest and pursue some other interests. But I intend to keep up my skills though. Like you with Aikido, I let my piano skills go and I regret it. Years of lessons.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:04 pm

Poppa, my son just walked in the door with his cell phone stuck to the side of his face talking to that girl. He just saw her no more than 1 minute ago. Her mother carpooled this week. I bet he dialed the number as he stepped out of the car.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:04 pm

Yes Leggs – I am a “yea”

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:05 pm

Dreams

Partying will be off the chain.

That will happen no matter if the team wins or not. My wife went to Spelman. So, I went to a Morehouse homecoming with her and noticed that most people didn’t even go to the game. They shut Lowery down. It was some good eatin’ and sippin’ going on, though.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:05 pm

ARed, you gettin’ this???? We can do lunch in midtown, and be back in Fl in time to do dinner on the beach!!!

I got it. :lol:

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:05 pm

Well, I guess that was exciting for him

Poppa, imma tell you like I told him when he said his time out with her was fun. “It better not have been too fun exciting!!!”.

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:06 pm

@Dreams – lol, im sorry you were shunned
blue oh don’t be sorry. the Truth isn’t always right in front of you…have dig deep to find it. That’s where my teachings come in. When your ears are ready to receice, then the teachings will become available and you will understand. lol

Melo

September 14th, 2010
4:07 pm

@Ared??

U think guys find the Florida beaches(sp) sexier too??

what do u hear from the dudes??

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:07 pm

blue – Thanks

Raqi – Part of our pledge is that we not misuse what we learn in class. We are to use our skills in a constructive manner.

But I feel you – if he wasn’t so mild-mannered I would be concerned!

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:09 pm

most people didn’t even go to the game. They shut Lowery down. It was some good eatin’ and sippin’ going on, though.
PG Yeah this is true. Of course when the weather is nice, it takes it to a different level…something about the heat and the sippin’ together. lol

Luvbug

September 14th, 2010
4:12 pm

Awww. I can’t catch up. What’s the topic?

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:12 pm

My YAY makes 7….come on people, I need that YAY!

@Raqi/PoppaG ~ my child just turn 16 and asked if she can now have a boyfriend. I’m sitting here reading you guys and thinking of her rapidly growing boobies biting my nails…..

Melo

September 14th, 2010
4:13 pm

Sorry to hear of ur loss 2Can.

I used to lurk when u were much more active. That’s when the blog was the blog I guess when Sexxyleggs and the honchos found it fit to bench pple like me’. Lol

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:15 pm

Raqi

At 15, the wind blowing from west to east can be “exciting”…. :lol:

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:15 pm

Leggs – YAY

Melo

September 14th, 2010
4:15 pm

@Leggs?
So what did tell her?

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
4:16 pm

that’s cute kimmie. i suppose things could get verrry interesting if yous decided to practice at home (while angry :shock: ))

s/o is taking boxing lessons. i’m looking forward to checking out one of his sparring sessions, but it was hard enough getting used to being with someone so muscular … now this. :/

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:17 pm

U think guys find the Florida beaches(sp) sexier too??

what do u hear from the dudes?

melo – Huh?

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
4:17 pm

yeah, I was “all the way live” back then…..

do you remember when the AJC banned me? I think I have the dubious distinction of being the only blogger to get banned….

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:18 pm

Raqi when I was at The House, alot of dudes majored in Spelmanology. I admit to taking a class or two…ok maybe I minored. I also dabbled in Clarkology, Agnes Scottism, Emoryology, Geogia Stating, even took some out of state classes. lol

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
4:18 pm

I gotcha yay # 8… There you go Leggs…

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:19 pm

but it was hard enough getting used to being with someone so muscular

Brat – Same here, but I got used to it quick! Cause I’m getting a little flustered just thinking about my SO’s chistled arms. Oh my…….

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
4:19 pm

history is always interesting, lol
@2CPTG – banned by the AJC? and i missed all this wonderful entertainment…..

DC Rose

September 14th, 2010
4:19 pm

Is lurking really a bad thing? This blog has value. The insight and opinions you guys share are extremely helpful in navigating through some crazy things. Some days you do nothing more than validate that we’re not ALL crazy for thinking and feeling whatever silly things are floating through our minds.

IMO lurking is like sitting in the back of the classroom taking notes for the test of life.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:19 pm

LOL Leggs I think I was 16 the first time I let my boyfriend feel me up. In fact a whole lot of feeling me up was about as far as it went aside from some intense kissing for a whole 3 years.

Oh yeah, there was some dry humping in there too.

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
4:20 pm

2C – Did Rell ever get banned too?

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
4:21 pm

blue….I’m a lot tamer, and calmer now….plus, we’re talking what, 6, 7 years….I “growed” up alot since then!

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:21 pm

Slim – I think he did.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:22 pm

Danggit Elizabeth just walked in the room. Now I am sad. She will be 16 in less than 15 years. :sad:

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:22 pm

Is lurking really a bad thing?
DC Rose nothing wrong with lurking. The only time it’s annoying is when a lurker ONLY comes out of lurksville to criticize/judge someone else, but they never contribute to the discussion.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:23 pm

LOL DreamsM. Are you my brother? That is definitely the same subjects my brother majored and minored in.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:23 pm

Dreams

i never spent anytime at Spelman until I after marrying my wife.

Now, Ga State did have some classes that were worth putting on the schedule. UGA is very nice, too. GA State had the most diverse curriculum though. Something for everyone’s taste…. :grin:

South Carolina was ok. Just not very diverse.

So, I concur that GA state was pretty good.

Raqi

September 14th, 2010
4:23 pm

Poppa, yeah I know. I have two sons.

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
4:24 pm

this strong, buff guy has turned out to be kinder and gentler than the guys in my past who were basically my size (give or take 4 inches and 50 lbs) LOL. dunno why i spent so many years shying away from big dudes.

oh. now i remember … cuz i’m a brat and i dont wanna get squashed like a bug.

time for the last meeting of the day.
ciao!!

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:26 pm

New section has been added and approved.

All newbies must blog for 2 weeks straight before they can get a vest. If you can’t hang for those 2 weeks, because feelings got hurt, Blogsville cannot be your home!

@Melo ~ I’m in Raqi’s boat. I know his parents well and I know him, told her there will not be any unchaperone dates just yet. Heck she’s only been 16 for 2 weeks….she’s more like 15 still. I’m new at this and I just don’t know…I don’t trust these horny arse lil boys!

SlimNumeroUno

September 14th, 2010
4:26 pm

DC Rose – all I can say is lurk with caution. Being a little bit crazy is one of the requirements in order to cross over here. lol

Melo

September 14th, 2010
4:26 pm

I’m so looking forward to the lotto drawing tonite. I am feeling a strong millionaire status feeling!

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:26 pm

@2C ~ sorry, but I think Rell was banned for awhile????

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
4:27 pm

DC, just remember that from time to time your input could be beneficial to someone else navigating madness. so take plenty of notes, and chime in when the spirit moves ya.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:27 pm

Melo – Pass some of that feeling this way!

blue - ½ -n- ½

September 14th, 2010
4:28 pm

@2C – lol, well i suppose growing up does have its place…

nite all!

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:28 pm

Raqi

Danggit Elizabeth just walked in the room. Now I am sad. She will be 16 in less than 15 years.

I remember when my dad coming home one day when my sister and I were kids and he got straight out of his car and made my sister get off her bigwheel and sent her to her room. I later learned that he had seen his niece get out of man’s car scantily clad in a mini-skirt. He then lost it and wanted to lock my sister up. I think that my sister was 4 at the time. He later admitted that he was wrong that day, but at that moment realized that my sister wouldn’t always be his little girl. It was one of few times that I’ve seen him cry that wasn’t because of the death of a loved one.

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:29 pm

LOL DreamsM. Are you my brother?
Raqi I might know him if we took some of the same classes. lol

So, I concur that GA state was pretty good.
PG They did have a pretty good curriculum. Of course you could find some real good electives out of state at ’skeegee, NC A&T, FAM, TSU, Southern (love those Belles).

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:30 pm

Oh I see you guys already spoke on Rell.

kimmie

September 14th, 2010
4:30 pm

Dog Poppa, now you got me a little teary eyed!

SO’s little girl is just perfect at 8 years of age.

I just can’t think about that!

Anyway, gotta go.

Be easy!

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:31 pm

Big Wheel, 4 years old, displaced scaredness….too funny!

DreamsMaterialize

September 14th, 2010
4:32 pm

I don’t trust these horny arse lil boys!
Leggs Sorry to say, but ain’t the boys. Well, we are horny, but those girls be on it sooner I think. A girl initiated my first kiss in elementary! lol

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:33 pm

LOL. I never knew Rell was banned.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:34 pm

Dreams, I must agree. I had so A&T Aggie pride on more than one occasion.

Too many relatives at FAMU and Bethune. So, I really was cautious around there. I had one experience where a FAMU female with whom I exchanged numbers later turned out to be a cousin. It was kinda awkward meeting at the family reunion. I never called her (which I know ticks some females off), but it turned out to be the best non-call or non-hookup ever.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:35 pm

I now look at my child and worry (well, I’ve been worrying for quite some time). She’s growing up and that dang body is forever changing. I did tell her, among other things, that just because a boy likes you doesn’t mean you have to go out with him! Take the compliment and keep it moving….

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 14th, 2010
4:35 pm

Dreams – LOL! see you enjoyed college life huh? :smile:

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
4:36 pm

Blog start was April 2004.

Toucan, you are one of the few that was banned. Rell was banned recently – not sure if it’s still in effect.
There was one other person that I can confirm was banned and that was the dude that was stalking the chick up at Carrington’s job.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:36 pm

Dreams

A girl initiated my first kiss in elementary! lol

Same here! I was more interested in my GI Joe and Masters of the Universe collections until that time.

DC Rose

September 14th, 2010
4:37 pm

@Leggs – I caught a 13 year old girl climbing into my sons bedroom window. He was 16! I let her get all the way in – he was helping mind you – then turned on the lights and called her parents to come get her. The girls are boldly FAST. Keep doing what you’re doing with Lil Leggs. Us parents of boys really appreciate it.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:38 pm

SexyCool – Why was he banned recently? He was pretty tame recently, for him. Did he buck up on WiseDiva or something?

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
4:40 pm

Just came from the final venue meeting for my sister’s wedding on Sunday.
HOW EXCITED AM I!?!?!?!?!

TheDude is taking me to the Public Enemy concert tonight.
“Don’t believe the hype – its a sequel.”

Totally loving life these days!

2CPTG©

September 14th, 2010
4:40 pm

I knew Coretta Scott would know the details…..a true matriarch!

Melo

September 14th, 2010
4:40 pm

@Leggs?!

My 16 year old can sneak all she want, not agreeing to dating. She can date her SAT tutorials and school.

I have put her on a punishing SAT schedule for Saturday and Sunday.

If she’s horny enough to come outa it wanting a date more power to her !
Told her if she don’t make it to college, she out of my house and I mean it.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
4:42 pm

ARed – I am not sure. He had been coming over less frequently and flying under the radar a bit.
(looks around….shrugs)

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:43 pm

@DreamsM ~ I realize some of the lil girls are fast learners too, but I don’t see mine like that (LOL). No, we all don’t say that cuz some of the mommies out there know their daughter is fast and furious to go.

Suffice it to say, all of them are young, ready to explore, and clueless…

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:45 pm

@DC Rose ~ WHAT, a 13 year old climbing into his room. I will slap the skin of lil leggs face…..

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:46 pm

I will slap the skin of lil leggs face…..

:lol: Damn.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:46 pm

I was 13 when I first dipped my pen in some ink.

We were both very busy, but found time to get that in. One day football practice ended early and her dance team (I think that they were called the drill team back then) had an early ending practice too. We just didn’t call our parents until we were ready.

So, we were fast back then, too.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
4:46 pm

Wow, Leggs! That’s a new way to say “Slap the black off ya”

DC Rose

September 14th, 2010
4:47 pm

Leggs – it took everything in me to act like an educated adult. I wanted to snatch her bald.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:49 pm

@Melo ~ between track, SAT prep, chores and learning how to cook…my child really doesn’t have time to date…she doesn’t know this, but I do.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:51 pm

And the good part about all that is she believes I will do it….I truly believe it is beneficial for your child to be afraid of you…not deathly afraid, but afraid! I sure do.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
4:52 pm

Leggs – I like to think of it as respectfully afraid.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:52 pm

I can see Leggs having a talk with Lil Leggs like Claire Huxtable did when Vanessa and friends went all the way the Balitmore for a concert when Claire thought that the girls were going to party in town.

She did the “answer me when I ask you a question!” and when Vanessa tried to answer Claire to Vanessa to “Shut Up!” . I only had one of those instances in my life and it was not fun at all.

But slapping the skin off…..I don’t see that from Leggs. I don’t see her going quite that far.

For me, the “i am disappointed in you” speech was more effective, than the physical stuff. The physical pain usually wore off pretty soon, but the disappointment stuff stuck with me for later decisions.

Melo

September 14th, 2010
4:53 pm

@Leggs? Way to go on that.

Now if they want to break it off when they get to college like Ared did, that’s good company to be in.

:lol: :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

September 14th, 2010
4:53 pm

Damn… Dip out for a minute and now Poppa Grande talking about when he first hit sumthin…. damn I remember my first time… I was 15 and my brother was 17…I caught him and a girl that live up the street fuggin in out attic… I said i would tell my dad unless she called her sister down ther to hook me up too!!! The sister was not that attractive, but hey her girl parts were Beautiful to me!!! LOL

His Woman

September 14th, 2010
4:53 pm

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:54 pm

@DC Rose ~ and we need parents like you too that can remain calm and not go ballistic even when the situation calls for it. Kudos to you and your reaction! Proves your level headed knowing your battle is probably just beginning.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
4:56 pm

PG – that was my favorite all time episode of The Cosby Show.

Claire kept saying to Vanessa, “Oh but you wanted to go and have Big Fun.”

To this day, that is how I describe it when I’ve had a GREAT time or expect to have a GREAT time doing something. That I’ve had Big Fun. Or that we are “Going off to have Big Fun.”

And I always think about Claire and Vanessa and I always giggle just a little when I say it.
(giggling)

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:56 pm

I like that….respectfully afraid. Yes indeed!

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
4:58 pm

SexyCool

That is indeed one of my favs, too. Obviously…I remember it.

DC Rose

September 14th, 2010
4:58 pm

My son is still respectfully afraid of me. And he doesn’t live in ATL. Makes me laugh.

But he does everything possible so I won’t be disappointed in him.

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
4:59 pm

@PoppaG ~ I remember that episode. When she said SHUT UP, I cracked up.

I’m stern and mean to a certain point. Ok, perhaps I won’t slap the skin off, but I would want to. I look at it as disrespecting yourself climbing into a boys room AT ANY AGE!

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
4:59 pm

PG – That Cosby show episode when Vanessa went allllll the way to Baltimore really proved that my mother was Claire Huxtable. When she got right up in Vanessa’s face and screamed “GO TO BED!” I felt that. That was my mom too. :lol:

Leggs

September 14th, 2010
5:00 pm

Every day renew your purpose because without purpose your life will be empty.

Good night everyone! Enjoy the evening.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
5:00 pm

I agree..

Leggs… I know that you wouldn’t slap the skin off.

You catchin’ a case would not help matters anyway.

SexyCool

September 14th, 2010
5:03 pm

Toucan – I’m sending you an email in just a bit.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
5:03 pm

I love my mom, but she was more like Rochelle Phillips, the mom on Everybody Hates Chris.

AmazonRed™

September 14th, 2010
5:04 pm

Reggie Bush has volunteered to give his Heisman back.

Big fat cheaters.

Poppa Grande

September 14th, 2010
5:06 pm

He should give it back…if he was ineligible then, he shouldn’t win it .

czBrat

September 14th, 2010
5:11 pm

honcho no-show = meeting canceled :)

leggs, SC … that’s what i’ve told my kids. “have a healthy fear of God and a deathly fear of me”.

Lord Velonese

September 14th, 2010
6:27 pm

Well, when a woman is wrong I let her know, I don’t believe in smacks on wrist. When I’m wrong I don’t get smacks on the wrist, so there is your Equality for you.

A Fact

September 14th, 2010
11:14 pm

“How much support should a woman be willing to offer and provide when she does not agree with what he is doing or how he is handling it?”

Isn’t this pretty much all the time? Practically speaking, women tend to disagree with their spouses often. If they acted against it all the time then things just wouldn’t work. Assuming a woman picked and chose when to disagree, it should be done behind closed doors.