Freaky Friday: Whose fantasy is it?
Have you ever wondered if you were too “vanilla” or inexperienced compared to your date or significant other? Would it bother you if you found out that you were?
I ask because a friend of mine went on a first date with a new guy recently. He randomly mentioned his rendezvous with two women during the date. Yes, you read that right.
I will pause here so you can react with disbelief like I did.
She became “visibly annoyed” and quickly changed the subject, unfortunately she had already heard too much. Now she can’t seem to shake off the little details he managed to divulge.
Where do I even begin? First of all, why would you even mention your former hook-ups with someone you are interested in? How tacky is that? Secondly, is that some kind of new compatibility test some people use now?
Mr. Threesome rambled on about how he was glad he got it out of his system. Is this the sort of thing that single people want to do before they settle down? Does sowing your wild oats mean you get to want to live out some fantasy that you have?
He also argued “they don’t call it every man’s fantasy for nothin”. I know, charming guy, right? Do you think this is true?
When you are in a relationship, do you think it matters if one person is more “vanilla” than the other?
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Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
1:28 pm
blue, Fred still getting in trouble? He only spent one night with my horse and look at him now. has anyone seen my horse by the way?
DJ Sniper
August 27th, 2010
1:29 pm
PR, in my situation, me and my wife (still gf at the time) had stopped using condoms with each other. When I got with the other chick, I definitely strapped up.
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
1:29 pm
Leggs – I had it all wrong. I thought Fred was a little guy. LOL
I had envisioned a garden gnome or a taller chucky.
MELO
August 27th, 2010
1:29 pm
@DD/Blue??
since its freaky friday, ive got a personal, old work, feeler story to tell u..
proly better and more suited to today….ofcourse with a female.
u’ll luv it.
later
Simple Man!!!!
August 27th, 2010
1:30 pm
Melo @ 12:55….
Like I said, this was her thing so she took the lead and made tha puupy go!!! Did not “eat at the Y” with her cause while we were cool, that was not how we roled with each other…Now she was an oral queen and when ever the puddy was getting beat on, she want to provide a little lip service to the other playa… She and I talked after that and she said that was the first time in her sexaul life she felt completly free!!! She and i are still cool to this day, but we don’t deal on that level anymore. I think she has a steady dude and she is trying to settle down. When I met him, the first thought I had was I wonder if he knows what his girl is down for…..
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
1:30 pm
there is nothing worse than a diabetic pony. Poor Fred.
Shame on Dirty D and Blue
Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)
August 27th, 2010
1:30 pm
it is like she was “eyeing” you the whole time or something
I’ve wondered this over the years but she knows how I feel about that shyt. Every once in a while she’ll give me a compliment that I think is laced with double entendre….but she knows I’d kick off in her azz if she over stepped her bounds. Plus she’s in S.C. and I’m here so we don’t see each other often…
Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)
August 27th, 2010
1:32 pm
I had envisioned a garden gnome or a taller chucky.
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
1:36 pm
@Luvbug, that is funny, a taller chucky! That’s rich.
Fred is going to need a rehabilitation treatment center very soon.
It's me....lurker
August 27th, 2010
1:37 pm
@it’s me…if no one has answered you, Fred is a minature pony who is being led astray by pepperment, sweettarts and energy drinks.
That’s Leggs…you know I’m okay when folks don’t answer…LOL I just keeps right on blogging…LOL
Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.
August 27th, 2010
1:38 pm
I am going to rep Fred once he gets well and sue all ya’ll for Animal abuse.
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
1:38 pm
for you fantasy football lovers out there, my brother sent this
http://sports.yahoo.com/fantasy/blog/roto_arcade/post/The-all-time-fantasy-team-plus-the-busts-and-on?urn=fantasy-265191
DJ Sniper
August 27th, 2010
1:38 pm
Simple, it would be a trip if ol girl has gone all conservative and stuff with the new guy. lol
blue - Waiting...
August 27th, 2010
1:39 pm
@Leggs – no problemo…and Freds already been to rehab once, DD’s trying to make him fall off the wagon..
. hey, whatd i do?
@Sassy – i know right, he’s gonna bite her one day.
@PR – DD got him hooked on candy, its been a bad ride…he went with DC yesterday and ended up in a ladies locker room with panties on his head…did your horse run away?
@DJ – 129 cosign
@Luvbug – LMAO, garden gnome or a taller chucky, lmao
@Trevor – diabetic pony,
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
1:41 pm
Leggs – My false assumption had me crackin up at DC Rose yesterday. I pictured little fast legs running away, hiding here and there…a little jittery dude cutting up. Oh well, a pony is funny too. LOL
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
1:42 pm
…a little guy hiding here and there
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
1:42 pm
@Blue, you let Fred backslide into his wicked ways. tsk. tsk.
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
1:45 pm
blue – Once you mentioned he was fudging his inches, I just knew it was a little dude. LOL
Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm
August 27th, 2010
1:46 pm
between fred, football talk, and 3somes boy i tell ya….freaky friday indeed! lol
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
1:47 pm
All of you are funny!
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
1:48 pm
http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhH8QnhKv303N97aVf
This just goes to show you, parents need to be more careful!
Simple Man!!!!
August 27th, 2010
1:48 pm
Leggs,You have not given up on me have ya???
blue - Waiting...
August 27th, 2010
1:54 pm
@Trevor – its not me, its Diana…and now DC with the energy drinks. Ive got him doing yoga every morning, even put him on my Wii fit…tho it has no setting for ponys, just cats and dogs, and since the kids already put my dog on, i had to put Fred in as a cat…said he was a bit overweight for a cat…but i digres….
@Luvbug – yep, lol
Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.
August 27th, 2010
1:54 pm
I know what I always wonder about..just what do the blog guys really think about all the blog ladies? I mean its hard to know folks from just chatting but opinions and conclusion must have been drawn.
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
1:56 pm
Leggs, I linked that here two weeks ago. LOL
blue - Waiting...
August 27th, 2010
1:59 pm
@Kym – interesting question, have wondered what opinion has been formed of me sicne i started in here…
@PR – forgot to tell you, i finished GOW2, started on GOW3
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
2:00 pm
@Blue, you have Fred doing downward facing dog every morning??
How is his breathing and meditation practice going?? Obviously not well if he is drinking energy drinks and popping mints.
It's me....lurker
August 27th, 2010
2:00 pm
I had a long post about my childhood friend that was a stripper…that I lived with a couple of weeks until my place was ready…she use to hook up with the QUIET STORM DJ and MONIQUE (some chick she knew)…they’d pick up about 3ish…after his shift.
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
2:02 pm
blue, awesome
It's me....lurker
August 27th, 2010
2:02 pm
Well Monique would pick her up…he’d meet up with them….she was a switch hitter
2CPTG©
August 27th, 2010
2:03 pm
“just what do the blog guys really think about all the blog ladies?”
is Slim’s CT really that big???
Can Raqi do all the shyt she be talkin bout?
Is it true whether or not, “sheiscute”?
Is “Beautiful” really beautiful?
Is Mo’s booty all that?
how far can Leggs spread them legs?
is ARed worth trynna find?
and, which ones will really shake some’n!!!!
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
2:07 pm
Oh did you, PR, I must have missed it.
Are you on the mushrooms, putting Fred in as a cat! Treatment will never work.
Raqi
August 27th, 2010
2:07 pm
2CPTG, nah I am really a nun. LOL
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
2:09 pm
Treatment will never work.
Awwwwww Leggs, don’t say that. When there’s a will there’s a way.
2CPTG©
August 27th, 2010
2:10 pm
Raqi…..gal, you know I don’ had my eye on you since you were “scorned”…..so you already know what it is! Mase just beat me to the punch….you’da been RCPTG©……plus, member all them stories bout how you used to sashay around the bank you worked at…..gotta nice memory!
Simple Man!!!!
August 27th, 2010
2:10 pm
Kym @ 1:54 the One Question I have about the blog ladies applies across the board… I wonder if you ladies are as easy to converse with in person and I wonder if she has soft hands????
Raqi
August 27th, 2010
2:10 pm
A nun with really nice legs. LOL
blue - Waiting...
August 27th, 2010
2:11 pm
@PR – taking some getting used to on the new look tho…
@Leggs – no shrooms, it was the only way to get him on the Fit, it was either that or put him in as a person, and that would just be wierd……
ok, couldnt say that with a straight face
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
2:11 pm
My thoughts on the blog women hav mostly revolved around how good in bed they are. I have also had some thoughts that some of them are pretty cool, but since I really don’t know any personally that well. I just think about sex with them. LOL, you asked.
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
2:13 pm
@SimpleMan ~ not at all, you’re interesting.
Raqi
August 27th, 2010
2:14 pm
2CPTG, maybe we can get together in another. Mase just reminded me a few days ago that I am his for the next 52 years. LOL But If you are willing to wait I will be more than happy to be yours and all yours at the ripe ole age of 94. LOL
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
2:14 pm
And I couldn’t read that with a straight face.
2CPTG©
August 27th, 2010
2:14 pm
PR, ain’t that the truth…..some of ‘em just exude sexiness…
Raqi
August 27th, 2010
2:15 pm
2CPTG, On here I am not allowed to mention that bank, the person I met there or anything that transpired from there. LOL
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
2:15 pm
ripe ole age…that’s an interesting phrase because at that age, you’re pretty ripe!
MELO
August 27th, 2010
2:15 pm
just what do the blog guys really think about all the blog ladies?
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
2:15 pm
2CPTG, i am nto going to lie I have come up with a reason to sample each and every one of them. LOL
2CPTG©
August 27th, 2010
2:17 pm
PR, trust me bro, I know…..they all have qualities I admire…
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
2:18 pm
No women have said what they think of the guys. I am sure you ladies have your thoughts, Kym answer since you asked the question. lol
Raqi
August 27th, 2010
2:19 pm
LOL Leggs, yeah ripe was exactly the word I was going for.
2CPTG, stop by my blog, check out the picture in the upper right corner, add 52 years to that…make that 53 years Imma need a year to mourn… and that will give you an idea of what you will be getting.