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Freaky Friday: Whose fantasy is it?

Have you ever wondered if you were too “vanilla” or inexperienced compared to your date or significant other? Would it bother you if you found out that you were?

I ask because a friend of mine went on a first date with a new guy  recently.  He randomly mentioned his rendezvous with two women during the date.  Yes, you read that right. 

I will pause here so you can react with disbelief like I did.

She became “visibly annoyed” and quickly changed the subject, unfortunately she had already heard too much.  Now she can’t seem to shake off the little details he managed to divulge.

Where do I even begin? First of all, why would you even mention your former hook-ups with someone you are interested in?  How tacky is that?  Secondly,  is that some kind of new   compatibility test some people use now?

Mr. Threesome  rambled on about how he was glad he got it out of his system.  Is this the sort of thing that single people want to do before they settle down?  Does sowing your wild oats mean you get to want to live out some fantasy that you have?

He also argued  “they don’t call it every man’s fantasy for nothin”.  I know, charming guy, right? Do you think this is true?

When you are in a relationship, do you think it matters if one person is more  “vanilla” than the other?

763 comments Add your comment

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
10:03 am

2CPTG, that could be possible also. She could have asked for more than she expected to get.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:05 am

I was waiting for Melo to chime in. He never disappoints.

@Truth ~ since you came back and celebrated your b-day home, it’s a safe bet you painted the town every color of the rainbow.

Also, smoking jacket and ascot can be a visual stimulation (esp. if that’s all he’s wearing). But, must admit, nothing comes close to your toolbelt and boots!

Thanks for asking, lil leggs is great. She’ll be 16 on Sunday. Woo Hoo. She’s hoping to find a car in the garage. I’ve been telling her one will be there, my car!

@SimpleMan ~ you know you are hilarious!

abc

August 27th, 2010
10:05 am

Yeah, lurker… it goes both ways. If the shoe fits. Excessive focus on sex is almost a comical caricature of a man, and frankly, most men can’t back it up. They lie about it. Kind of funny.

Not like me, of course, what with me being all that, a bag of chips and a jumbo coke. :-)

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:05 am

Kym

Not that I know of…she is one of my wife’s Spelman sisters. Now, she may teach. I haven’t asked, though.

kimmie

August 27th, 2010
10:08 am

Truth – Yeah, pass the collection plate. I keep getting patch jobs, but it’s an old unit they don’t make anymore. The newer units are “green” and don’t require freon. They are also alot more expensive. I got ceiling fans in every room and my boss gave me a window unit he wasn’t using so I have it in my bedroom. I just can’t afford a new unit, so I’m saving to get one next summer. In the meantime, I’m just making due.

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
10:08 am

She’ll be 16 on Sunday

For real? What happened to 14 and 15? LOL Man how times fly.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:09 am

@Truth ~ since you vested in lil leggs in the very beginning, her first cross country race is next Tuesday. She’s finishing it a little over 13 mins.

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
10:10 am

Not like me, of course, what with me being all that, a bag of chips and a jumbo coke.

Alphabet Man I bet your wife is a lucky lady. Your sense of humor seems to be very unexpected. LOL

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:10 am

Kym

Does your son play offense or defense? I played both, but most people say that smart people play offense and those with good reaction skills play defense. Many folks thought that I was a better Offensive Tackle than defensive line.

It is good that he found something that he enjoys. As the old sayin’ goes “Football is just life marked off in 100 yards”. It kept me out of a lot of trouble. I would have benefitted from it even if I didn’t get a college education and a little bit of a paycheck in the pros.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:11 am

@Raqi ~ Tell me about it. I was surprised when she wanted to bring cupcakes to school this morning (thought she outgrown this). I was up last night making red velvet cupcakes for her. Then had to get up at 6:30 to make bacon and pancakes for her breakfast. Man, what would I do if I had more than one. LOL, probably the same thing!

Luvbug

August 27th, 2010
10:11 am

most men can’t back it up. They lie about it. Kind of funny.

I’ve been advised on several occasions, by several people, to avoid guys that brag about their abilities. I’m told they usually don’t stack up.

It's me....lurker

August 27th, 2010
10:12 am

ABC – Not like me, of course, what with me being all that, a bag of chips and a jumbo coke.

Alright now, go ‘head and toot your horn.

Well I’ve my morning drink and fruit an dnow gotta get some work done today. Maybe when I come back think will be shaking

AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!

August 27th, 2010
10:12 am

There have even been cases where parents have driven their kids to houses to break in.

PG – Leggs had a break in last week. She’s okay and got her stuff back. But it was the next door neighbors kids and we all feel that the parents were in on it!

It's me....lurker

August 27th, 2010
10:13 am

Luvbug – That’s what my mama always said. Anybody that goes on and on and on is making much ado about nothing

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
10:13 am

@PoppaG..yeah I really think I know her..for sure. Not alot of Spelman sister judges in Clay Co. I am glad nephew is doing better. I have been in the Clay Co jail..for a tour..scared me.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:13 am

It’s been a long time since we reached the 2nd page a little after 10 am. NICE! Freaky sex will do it every time!

kimmie

August 27th, 2010
10:14 am

Actually, when I read what happened with Wise’s friend, I did not have that sense of :shock: everyone else has. With so many folks willing to actually do the deed on the first date, why is some dude making a crude remark such a surprise?

I guess I have become somewhat jaded, which is sad. Nothing surprises me anymore!

MELO

August 27th, 2010
10:15 am

2CPTG©??

another thing,if dude may have heard thru the grape vine that “so and so” knocked her,then that “other homie” and “that one too”,then dude was proly trying to quicken his own turn around.

so many scenarios we can play on this one.

its just normal shock and awe style dudes play…norman schwarzkopf style..to soften puddsy access!

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:16 am

Leggs

Well, I wish the future Vet. a happy birthday.

The cupcake request may be related to the whole Sweet 16 thing.

My parents gave me a car for my 16th. Unfortunately, it was a hot wheels car at the bottom of a huge box.

kimmie

August 27th, 2010
10:16 am

There’s that old saying “An empty wagon makes the most noise”!

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
10:17 am

@Poppa G he plays offensive..he loves it to. He gets to pull..he started out pretty timid cause he was scared he was going to make his teammates mad hitting them in practice..now he goes all out. They play their first official game tomorrow. They are all so hyped. Wish he would get hyped like that about World Geography and English.

The Truth-Playing in the sand again :(

August 27th, 2010
10:18 am

Leggs, how far is she running in 13 minutes? I may tell you how far I ran in 15 mins, but I may not. It wasn’t pretty. A few more years and your going to be single again. Better tie atlanta down.

Kimmie, I’m taking up collections as we speak. We gotta get my wittle luv dubs outta the heat. Btw, I dont see you with a window unit. Hmmmmmm

Kym, you livin in my old neighborhood? just checked mls and they are givinh homes away in the old s/d.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:18 am

Kym

Yeah, you probably know her. She is a Delta, too. She does a lot of community things, too.

I haven’t toured the current Clay Co. Facility. However, I toured the one that was in Lovejoy.

The clank of the door closing seemed to have left its mark with him.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:19 am

@ARed ~ if that mother calls me one more time apologizing and saying how embarrassed she is, that her son is a good boy and was probably led by his friends to rob me, I am going to scream. I can’t wait for the court date.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:20 am

O-line is a thinking man’s position. After all, O-line knows where the ball is going. I hated pulling which is probably why I liked defense better. I was good at pulling, but I just hated it.

I wish him and his team well.

MELO

August 27th, 2010
10:20 am

to avoid guys that brag about their abilities. I’m told they usually don’t stack up.

@Luvbug??

its a lame move anyway for dude coz if he does and chic stays..her anticipation of pleasure is heightened to ‘nother strato level which dude obvioulsy wont reach…its like digging ur own grave….

beter to get to it with some mystery in the bag and then when u hit it…BAM…. BAM….. BAM …..her eyes and nose are wide open!

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
10:21 am

@Truth..yep I am down in Hen-ray Co..I got a pretty good deal on my homestead..bought mine from the government. Thank you Fannie and Freddie.

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August 27th, 2010
10:23 am

I can’t wait for the court date.

LOL. That’s why she keeps calling Leggs.

Her son needs to learn consequences for his actions. Even though you weren’t home you could have been, some one could have seen him and used violence to stop him. It could have ended badly.

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
10:23 am

Thank you PoppaG..later this afternoon we will discuss how the Bengals have become the drop zone for the NFL’s crazies..all ya’ll need is Randy Moss and ya’ll have a full deck..

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:24 am

“My parents gave me a car for my 16th. Unfortunately, it was a hot wheels car at the bottom of a huge box.” I almost peed on myself!

@Truth ~ I started to state I don’t know the course. Last year she did it in 16 mins. That’s all I know. Yeah, in a few more years I will be single again (LOL). I’m mentally preparing myself for it right now. I can give more time to dating and not so much to parenting (will need to learn to do this from a distance).

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:26 am

Leggs

Leggs had a break in last week

Sorry to hear that! We got hit up earlier this year. We got our laptop back. Thank you lojack for laptops!

I got an extra Louisville Slugger if you want some revenge. A wooden bat won’t kill’em but make ‘em walk with a limp for a day or two.

Luvbug

August 27th, 2010
10:27 am

Melo – Not the BAM…BAM…BAM eyes and nose wide open play. LOL

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
10:28 am

Man, what would I do if I had more than one.

Leggs twice or three times as much. LOL

I’ve got to run out for a while but I have something to tell you when I get back. ‘kay?

kimmie

August 27th, 2010
10:28 am

Leggs – On a related note, how about I was telling my SO about your robbery incident. He told me his sister-in-law’s teenage son came at her with some stupidity a few years ago. He asked her to give him some money and when she refused, he said he then would have no choice but to begin robbing and stealing! Never mind getting a job or cutting some lawns to make extra money. Robbing and stealing! :shock:

AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!

August 27th, 2010
10:29 am

kimmie – How can you survive out here without AC?

kimmie

August 27th, 2010
10:30 am

Louisville Slugger

Poppa, I got one right by my bed!!

i'm swiss™

August 27th, 2010
10:30 am

Now, this is a protest I can get behind — I guess turnabout is fairplay :lol:

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 27th, 2010
10:31 am

@ARed, thanks for the answer!

@PG/Ared as for crime there was a church on the news, where thieves broke in and came back the next day to steal more. The last I heard APD wasn’t sure if the thieves came back, or if the thieves on the second day were a new set. Even Lyfe had problems with break-ins to his home.

Oh yea, I have an associate that lives in Riverdale not far from the airport. They were having problems in their sub-division about two or three years ago with break-ins. Long story short, the breaks-ins were teens going in stealing electronics and game systems. The problem ceased when one of the boys got shot by the homeowner.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:31 am

ARed</strong.

Kimmie is a native…she can hang..

I don't use my a/c in my car much. My wife, on the other hand, couldn't survive without it.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:32 am

@PoppaG ~ thanks for the b-day wish. She’s excited.

@Truth ~ a lot of practice and pain. She’s so skinny! Perhaps the wind is carrying her. Wait, there isn’t any wind (LOL).

AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!

August 27th, 2010
10:32 am

Ared, yeah, Im trying to do three. I have alot of ground to make up. Did you move? Sounds like mexicans if they’re stealing ac units. You over by Cascade United?

Truth – Nope, I haven’t moved. I bought here in the SWATS 3 years ago and yes I live by Cascade United.

Luvbug

August 27th, 2010
10:33 am

I don’t know if you wanna get behind that swiss. Did you skip the pictures??

kimmie

August 27th, 2010
10:33 am

Amred- It’s working, it’s just chugging along! By the time I get home in the evening it’s cooled down a little, so between it chugging and then the window unit and ceiling fans, I’m making due. It’s wonderful at my SO’s house on the weekend, though! :) He just had to get TWO new units that he’s trying to get paid up, otherwise he’d have gotten me one.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:34 am

Yeah, I think that one’s that broke into our house were kids. They took the 22 in flat screen in our bedroom, but left the GPS that was sitting next to it. They had no idea or need for it.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:34 am

@PoppaG ~ I have one by my bed.

AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!

August 27th, 2010
10:34 am

Kimmie – I saw your 10:08. Playing catch up. At least it’s starting to get cooler!

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:35 am

Yeah, I have a Louisville by our bed, too. The wife likes it. I like the 9mm.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
10:37 am

@PoppaG ~ out of everything they took, get this, they took 2 jugs of juice out the fridge, thirsty little bas@$(*)$ds! They didn’t take the mini cam for the laptop though. I’m just glad they didn’t drop my dang tv.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
10:38 am

Kym

yeah, Marvin Lewis thinks that he can save everyone.

However, T.O. is crazy, but neither he nor Chad Ochocinco have legal problems. The same can’t be said for Big Ben…

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
10:38 am

When In Doubt Whip it Out,