Freaky Friday: Whose fantasy is it?
Have you ever wondered if you were too “vanilla” or inexperienced compared to your date or significant other? Would it bother you if you found out that you were?
I ask because a friend of mine went on a first date with a new guy recently. He randomly mentioned his rendezvous with two women during the date. Yes, you read that right.
I will pause here so you can react with disbelief like I did.
She became “visibly annoyed” and quickly changed the subject, unfortunately she had already heard too much. Now she can’t seem to shake off the little details he managed to divulge.
Where do I even begin? First of all, why would you even mention your former hook-ups with someone you are interested in? How tacky is that? Secondly, is that some kind of new compatibility test some people use now?
Mr. Threesome rambled on about how he was glad he got it out of his system. Is this the sort of thing that single people want to do before they settle down? Does sowing your wild oats mean you get to want to live out some fantasy that you have?
He also argued “they don’t call it every man’s fantasy for nothin”. I know, charming guy, right? Do you think this is true?
When you are in a relationship, do you think it matters if one person is more “vanilla” than the other?
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MELO
August 27th, 2010
4:49 pm
@DD..i was gon tell u a stroy,REe 2CPTG’s qstion about anybody sleeping with somebody at work..
will do that another day when the topic fits it.
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:49 pm
you know like small to large or large to small? Does that stuff even make a difference?
@purp, if you can work it on beat and give some good 4-play and Y service with average size you are good. I don’t think any woman want to see a slim jim or a horse dinggy in her. Nice size is key.
Page1908
August 27th, 2010
4:50 pm
LOL ARed ohhhhhhhhhh ok. So am I!
LOL @ 2! exactly!!
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:50 pm
You all have a nice weekend.
‘ a presto’
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:51 pm
@DD – thanx, i try to be cool
. now i will hav to confiscate the contraband….
@PR – never had multiple men, multiple women yes
@Elijah – poor Fred is not in a condition to date right now….
@Leggs – i got him home, he’s out back now watching the chipmunks in the tree. think he’s finding his zen place…
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:51 pm
Sorry to hear that, Purple Rain.
Kym
August 27th, 2010
4:52 pm
Are ya’ll still playing guess that blogger..or have ya”ll moved back to sex..7 pages I am guessing sex.
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:52 pm
MELO…BOOOOOOOOOOOOBooooooooooooooooooooObooooooooooooooooooo
I just boo’ed you
Simple Man!!!!
August 27th, 2010
4:52 pm
Leggs, Where are we doing happy hour today???
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:52 pm
@Kym – sex brings the masses together
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:52 pm
Quote #2:
Life must be lived as play. – Plato
I believe that this true. You only get one shot at life.
czBrat
August 27th, 2010
4:53 pm
Reign, you’re in my prayers. when you’re ready, you’ll know.
Hola Profesora!
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:53 pm
Everyone loves sex….
It is just degrees of kinkiness that separate us.
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
4:54 pm
Finding his zen place….you guys are bonafide!
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:54 pm
@blue look out your window again, because Fred is over here showing his stuff trying to get “my little pony’s” attention. He is doing the electric slide for her.
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
4:55 pm
@SimpleMan ~ happy hour is in my living room…it’s cheaper.
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:55 pm
what have you been up to czBrat?
MELO
August 27th, 2010
4:56 pm
@DD..i didnt do it at work tho..but with a work mate!
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
4:56 pm
Oh no, Fred is galloping around The ATL. Find Fred and secure his safe being.
Elijah ( I want some of dat)
August 27th, 2010
4:56 pm
@Note to Self… DirtyD loves foreplay…Make sure you give her plenty of 4-play then you can get it all night longgggggg!!!!!!!!!
@So blue did you enjoy the women in the 3-some? I know Mr. Blue was geeked…..
Kym
August 27th, 2010
4:57 pm
@PoppaG..this is quite true
MELO
August 27th, 2010
4:57 pm
@blue – i may do something,with u in my mind..
good week end!
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:57 pm
MELO, you did it with a work mate….do tell on Monday! Start us off with a freaky tale. I’ve done it on my lernch break, but not at work.
DC Rose
August 27th, 2010
4:57 pm
@Blue – the public version…
Girl it was all fun and games. We started out laughing about it. I dated one, but was attracted to both. We laughed through most of it. It was kinda sexy having all those hands on me. My SO did get a little jealous during it. The minute the vibe changed it was pretty much over. But it was good while it lasted. ; – )
If I were you, I’d plant seeds so your man initiates it. As much crap as they talk, it takes a certain type to be OK with man/man/woman.
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
4:57 pm
I said it earlier and I will say it again.
Fred will be dead by December
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blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:58 pm
@DD – FRed, thats a Bad Fred…. oh what am i gonna do with him, you try and you try….and look what they do…may be time to get one of those electric collars like they have for dogs that bark too much….
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
4:59 pm
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:59 pm
One more quote:
If you are in a position to talk behind my back, then you are in a good position to kiss my azz
MELO
August 27th, 2010
5:00 pm
@Good week end folks!
Love uall blog females..YES…Uall!
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
5:00 pm
Trevor…LOL Fred will be alive and well in december I just called See’s to order his Chrim-mus candy.
Simple Man!!!!
August 27th, 2010
5:01 pm
Leggs @ 4:55…Is that an offer??? Say the word and we may have some stories for the next NC-17 Blogg!!!
2CPTG
August 27th, 2010
5:01 pm
hol’ up…..did I miss some’n….DC Rose, you’ve had a 3-some???? dammit man!
DC Rose
August 27th, 2010
5:01 pm
Trevor – I think you’re threatening Fred. He is hopped up on energy drinks and sugar. He keeps a knife under his saddle. You should be careful. He’s short, but he’s fast!
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
5:01 pm
need a Fred lojak…..
@Elijah – i enjoyed it, like DC said was kinda sexy having all those hands on me…
@Melo –
@DC – i could see that, takes a certain kind of person to deal with jealousys that may arise. there have to be rules in place and adhered too, you dont follow you get benched….
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
5:01 pm
Toodles, and happy weekend all!
I am going to _____________ and ___________and ________________some more.
From the window to the wall!
Kym
August 27th, 2010
5:03 pm
Ohhhh now that’s a keeper PoppaG I could have used that one earlier this year!!
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
5:03 pm
You have a good weekend too MELO (In All Caps)!!!
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
5:03 pm
@DC rose you are going to have to tell us your story on monday @Blue you are going to have to post the rules @Melo we want your story too, @me dirty d I will bring fred his fix.
I am out for real this time I need to get this par-tay started.
MELO
August 27th, 2010
5:04 pm
@DC Rose..u let 2 men hit ur hole in one session??
scandalous!!
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
5:04 pm
@PoppaG ~ I definitely like your last quote.
@DirtyD ~ don’t hurt him. Hell, break his face.
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
5:05 pm
thought i put the rules out there already…..i dunno…am i the only one left?
MELO
August 27th, 2010
5:05 pm
@Luvbug??
say u lub me publicly then i know u aaaight!
czBrat
August 27th, 2010
5:07 pm
I’ve been up to my eyeballs in classes. but i just completed another designation and am looking forward to the $500 bonus WOOHOO!!
what you been doin, D?
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
5:07 pm
MELO!!!!
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
5:08 pm
@blue ~ you did put the rules out there. I’ve done 3 scandalous things in my time that I would never repeat on this blog, but damn I had a blast doing it.
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
5:09 pm
And nobody got hurt..that’s the key.
Trevor0529
August 27th, 2010
5:10 pm
@DCRose, I am not threatening Fred. I have “concerns” about what you ladies are feeding him. That little guy will run off to Tennessee being so hyped on energy drinks and mints.
Oh yeah! I WISH THAT PONY WOULD TRY AND STICK ME!!
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
5:10 pm
@Leggs – lol, 3 scandalous things, you kept count? never bothered to keep count on mine, just enjoyed the flow….
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
5:11 pm
@Trevor0529 ~ I’m taking out a grant to open a free clinic for all ponies addicted to energy drinks and peppermint. Apparently there are many more out there like Fred…Who knew!
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
5:12 pm
3 immediately popped in my mind. If I think hard enough, there may be one or two more.