Freaky Friday: Whose fantasy is it?
Have you ever wondered if you were too “vanilla” or inexperienced compared to your date or significant other? Would it bother you if you found out that you were?
I ask because a friend of mine went on a first date with a new guy recently. He randomly mentioned his rendezvous with two women during the date. Yes, you read that right.
I will pause here so you can react with disbelief like I did.
She became “visibly annoyed” and quickly changed the subject, unfortunately she had already heard too much. Now she can’t seem to shake off the little details he managed to divulge.
Where do I even begin? First of all, why would you even mention your former hook-ups with someone you are interested in? How tacky is that? Secondly, is that some kind of new compatibility test some people use now?
Mr. Threesome rambled on about how he was glad he got it out of his system. Is this the sort of thing that single people want to do before they settle down? Does sowing your wild oats mean you get to want to live out some fantasy that you have?
He also argued “they don’t call it every man’s fantasy for nothin”. I know, charming guy, right? Do you think this is true?
When you are in a relationship, do you think it matters if one person is more “vanilla” than the other?
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Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:27 pm
Willie Dynamite
Yeah, I could do that at any major school though.
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:27 pm
Willie, I can’t blame anyone for getting their money but I think all salaries rookie or vet should be perfomance based with a standard base for each position. Kind of like base plus comission
Page1908
August 27th, 2010
4:27 pm
OK, will do. And, you’re right about being sensitive. LOL *shrugs*
DC Rose
August 27th, 2010
4:28 pm
@Blue – I admit it. I’m not sure how much info. I can put out about it. One of the swords might be a blogger.
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:28 pm
I think that the rookie pay scale should be slotted like it is in the NBA. Then, you get the big bucks in contract number 2
MELO
August 27th, 2010
4:28 pm
but I don’t have anyone’s email and nobody has mine
@Luvbug??
that was just one form of access..if not i can hit u up here..thats access….
u didnt attend Atlanta Public School system did u??
CRCT test Qstion: define Access? :
12th grade teacher with eraser and pencil in hand
Luvbug answer sheet:
penetrationfingeringkissemailLuvbug(thinking)
3Some??
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:29 pm
@Luvbug – lol, i hold doors open for old people and help the neighborhood boys with their football arm! lol, i could see wanting to keep your self image in tact…did i miss the impression of me? was it flattering or wow that chick is crazy?
Simple Man!!!!
August 27th, 2010
4:30 pm
blue @ 4:17 I was ready to give up some more of my stories as well!!! I kinda gotta be careful ’cause I don’t want come across as a PERV!!!
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:30 pm
CanalZone, I have been good. I’m home to help the family square hay bales and we finished early. Being here now is making us realize how much I really miss it.
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:30 pm
@DC – i could see that. email me! blue73079@yahoo.com
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:30 pm
Blue…sports and adventures go together like peanut butter and jelly. Look at Tiger Woods. He had plenty of “adventures”.
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
4:31 pm
@WillieD ~would you leave the end of the day quote? Thank you.
@PoppaG ~ just in case he popped in for a quick second, and is not returning, would you mind being my wing man and leave the end of the day quote. Thank you.
2CPTG
August 27th, 2010
4:31 pm
“did i miss the impression of me? was it flattering or wow that chick is crazy?”
naw, you open for honesty?
fa real, lil mama you come off aiiight…..
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:32 pm
DC Rose, I appluad you for admitting that
How many guys was it?
AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!
August 27th, 2010
4:32 pm
ARed, I ain’t seen’t you yet….
You aren’t missing anything.
Your © is missing…
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:32 pm
@Simple – seeming like a Perv…hmmm. wondering now what exactly makes you a Perv considering all thats been discussed here already….
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:32 pm
Tiger Woods is back on top of the leaderboard right after his divorce was finalized. LOL
2CPTG
August 27th, 2010
4:33 pm
“Your © is missing…”
good eye….that’s how you can tell I’m on a different computer….
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:34 pm
I also think Reggie Bush and Mayo screwed USC. They are paying the price while those guys are not really losing a thing.
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:34 pm
@PG – lol
@2C – awww, thanx!
Page1908
August 27th, 2010
4:35 pm
LOL @ “you aren’t missing anything”. Come on ARed!! lol *shrugs*
czBrat
August 27th, 2010
4:35 pm
awwww. that’s sweet reign. you thinking that’s a better place to raise the bambino?
Poppa Grande
August 27th, 2010
4:36 pm
Quote: If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There’s no point in being a damn fool about it. -W. C. Fields
Luvbug
August 27th, 2010
4:36 pm
Melo- You’re waaaay out in left field. I know what access means and your post was misleading PERIOD!!! Why you going ape sh!t on some nonsense anyway?? It’s not that serious. It’s been corrected.
Now why don’t you smile and be useful in some other way sir!!!!
blue- I skimmed through the posts as they came. I think you were labeled in a good light though.
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:36 pm
…stepping in.
@Melo did you ever tell that story if so, point me to it, if not I don’t like to be teased.
@Blue give this to to Fred!
@Elijah I see you are cranking it up today
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:37 pm
CZ, we lost the baby a few months ago, a few people here knew and thats why I ignored people when they asked. I am able to deal with saying that now.
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:37 pm
Luvbug is spicey. LOL
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:38 pm
@Luvbug – now why dont you smile and be useful in some other way – lmao….i think i may have to use that one at home sometimess…..add that to my repertoir of colorful sayings..
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:39 pm
Melo, I don’t think you have anymore access to LuvBug, LOL
Elijah ( I want some of dat)
August 27th, 2010
4:39 pm
DC Rose….Have you blog on here b4?
@Blue….Now did you enjoy yourself? Was liquor involve? How did you get yourself in the flow?
Lurker will be taking notes….. hehehehehehe!
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:39 pm
@DD – it better be an apple your waving…..
czBrat
August 27th, 2010
4:39 pm
i’m so sorry PR. would not have brought it up. please accept my apologies and my sympathy. how is julia?
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:40 pm
She is fine, wants to try again. I don’t want to.
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:40 pm
czBrat hey lady!!!!!
@DC Rose now tell us which blog man reads like one of the swords!
I admit it. I’m not sure how much info. I can put out about it. One of the swords might be a blogger.
Elijah ( I want some of dat)
August 27th, 2010
4:41 pm
@Melo….Why are you blowing it with Luvbug…. She was kinda feeling you even entertaining some of zuluish…..
@DirtyD….Where have you been?
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
4:42 pm
@DirtyD ~ he chickened out on the story. He should be tarred and feather than placed in the stockade….is that what they’re called?
2CPTG
August 27th, 2010
4:42 pm
oh yeah, Dirty D, you write like you’re sexy too!
MELO
August 27th, 2010
4:42 pm
@PR.on Tiger, i will be watching this wee end.Seems like the wif cleared the house in time..
@Lubug..access means and your post was misleading PERIOD!!
I stick top my post..u are the one who read too much into it.
u gave Access a connotative meaning…not my fault.
@Diana…Luvbug killed the mood…u know how a guy wants to sexx and the chic keeps talking about some else or startting an argumaent for no good reason…i killed the story…
blue - Waiting....
August 27th, 2010
4:42 pm
@PR – lo siento mucho….
@Elijah – yes alcohol involved, tequila (my poison of choice) can be a powerful thing……did have a good time tho, not an everyday thing mind you, but an interesting change of pace….how did i get in the flow, lets just say that those lifestyle parties DJ was talking about, they have clubs like that too, can be a very intersting place even if all you want to do is watch….
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:43 pm
@Blue….Now did you enjoy yourself? Was liquor involve? How did you get yourself in the flow?
@Elijah/Blue I can respect blue she reads like she is cool with who she is, and there is nothing wrong with adults getting it on. Shoot I remember one experience where dude didn’t know what he was doing, and if I had been smart I would have phoned someone to fill in his shoes.
As for Fred I am giving him his “fix” for the weekend: peppermint, spearmint, orange slices, spice drops, blow pops and energy drinks c/o DC Rose
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:44 pm
blue and DC Rose, did you arrange the guys buy wang size, you know like small to large or large to small? Does that stuff even make a difference?
MELO
August 27th, 2010
4:45 pm
I don’t think you have anymore access to LuvBug,
@PR..she blows hot and cold,im learning her!
Elijah ( I want some of dat)
August 27th, 2010
4:45 pm
@PurpleR…Sorry to hear about your loss, blessing to you and the misses!
@I luv football season…. How about going over to one of your boys house and there is 3 fine females…..Whoosa…. it’s gonna be a good day….
@Blue and DC Rose….Are you trying to hook-up for Mr. Fred? Hot damm… How did I miss DC Rose le freakkkkk in the La Sheetss…
Leggs
August 27th, 2010
4:46 pm
Oh my, poor Fred…he needs to walk around with a bag on his tail. Sorry!
AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!
August 27th, 2010
4:46 pm
LOL @ “you aren’t missing anything”. Come on ARed!! lol *shrugs*
You know I’m plain and homely looking Page!!!
Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
August 27th, 2010
4:47 pm
DirtyD….Where have you been?
@Elijah…working!
@2CPTG…thanks suga!
Luvbug killed the mood…
@MELO that is unacceptable you are the viagra of the blog…I expect for you too keep it up and go hard even when others go limp…you are zulu you got that fire!
he chickened out on the story. I am getting tired of him not telling the story!
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:47 pm
Elijah, Thank You.
Willie Dynamite
August 27th, 2010
4:48 pm
Plain and Homely aint neva stopped a dude. Trust that we know what happens when we tap on the break in case of emergency glass .
2CPTG
August 27th, 2010
4:48 pm
ARed, you fulla shyt! you damn near had Rell stalkin’ yo azz……naw, you ain’t no plain jane……
Purple Rain
August 27th, 2010
4:49 pm
Scared to try and again and fail, don’t like my emotions messed with like that.