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Freaky Friday: Whose fantasy is it?

Have you ever wondered if you were too “vanilla” or inexperienced compared to your date or significant other? Would it bother you if you found out that you were?

I ask because a friend of mine went on a first date with a new guy  recently.  He randomly mentioned his rendezvous with two women during the date.  Yes, you read that right. 

I will pause here so you can react with disbelief like I did.

She became “visibly annoyed” and quickly changed the subject, unfortunately she had already heard too much.  Now she can’t seem to shake off the little details he managed to divulge.

Where do I even begin? First of all, why would you even mention your former hook-ups with someone you are interested in?  How tacky is that?  Secondly,  is that some kind of new   compatibility test some people use now?

Mr. Threesome  rambled on about how he was glad he got it out of his system.  Is this the sort of thing that single people want to do before they settle down?  Does sowing your wild oats mean you get to want to live out some fantasy that you have?

He also argued  “they don’t call it every man’s fantasy for nothin”.  I know, charming guy, right? Do you think this is true?

When you are in a relationship, do you think it matters if one person is more  “vanilla” than the other?

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It's me....lurker

August 27th, 2010
3:38 pm

I’m willing to be my next check that PoppaGrande knows the “ballplayer” here.

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:39 pm

Is Page a guy or a girl?

Trevor0529

August 27th, 2010
3:39 pm

aww the twins..yeah you are reserved..alright..slightly crazy too. Gemini’s will go from extroverted to introverted quick..The quiet observer..sneaky..can be blunt and direct..but capable of compassion. Creative…

@Kym, this describes me pretty well.
:)

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:39 pm

Leggs

No, nap. I made a trip to Cumberland Mall’s Costco. Got some stuff to throw on the grill and some wine. I am gonna grill some veggies in balsamic vinegar…and I got a London Broil to throw on the grill too.

It is relatively nice outside. Nowhere near as hot as it has been this summer.

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:39 pm

PoppaG, I was telling Tazzee one day that even in the amount of time you have been married (10 years) and I have been married (almost 5 years) no one ever beyond learning something new from someone else.

While I ignore a lot that is said here, I do have those that I do give thought to what they say.

You remember that time I mentioned about wanting my husband to put the moisturizer on my back? Your comment helped me to understand how he must have felt at that time.

2CPTG©

August 27th, 2010
3:40 pm

“Is Page a guy or a girl?”

all woman!!!!

’sup sis, you’on fool wit ya boi, no ‘mo, I see….it’s cool.

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:40 pm

Is Page a guy or a girl?

@PR..im thinking girl but lets see…..

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:40 pm

LOL Melo! omg.

PR- Girl.

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:41 pm

@ 2CPTG- dude where have you been!! Don’t act brand new with me, dude. LOL smh

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:42 pm

My mistake, I thought Page might have been here boyfriend on here defending her honor or to see if she was cheating. LOL

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:42 pm

I think that Revis deserves it. However, the Jets have themselves to blame. Rex Ryan spent all last season talking Revis up and calling him the best defensive player. Then, the Jets went to him to negotiate (not the other way around). If you call him the best player, you need to pay him like the best player.

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:42 pm

No, PR actually, she is my bff.

2CPTG©

August 27th, 2010
3:43 pm

Page, you know how I do….kinda like that dude at church….
may not see him every Sunday, but he’s still a member; and when he does show up, he drops some’n nice in the collection plate…..

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:44 pm

LOL @ 2- now you know I know how you are for, what, years now, dude!! Email me dude!! Don’t slack. LOL

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:45 pm

PoppaG, they just made the center I think it was the highest paid center in the league, do you thiin what they are doing with Revis has anything to do with the collective bargining of next season?

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 27th, 2010
3:46 pm

@Kimmie…. What can I say about this queen… Very classy, intelligent, and extremely unselfish… I believe she is open to pleasing her so/future husband. This lady is a trooper will get on the front line to help you…..

@PurpleR…. I did once read Mrs. Raqi….. Counany could bring peace to the middleEast… At times when she get the BIG Bobbleheadess and forgets what she types… :lol:

2CPTG©

August 27th, 2010
3:46 pm

I gotcha Page…..I’ll be home in about 30 minutes….I’ll holla then..

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:46 pm

I’m willing to be my next check that PoppaGrande knows the “ballplayer” here.

It’s me….lurker??

“ballplayer” rubs u a ceratin kinda way,mentally.

why dont u let him wipe the cobs this one time..i bet u both of u will performe on the job waaaay better after that! :lol:

its stressful harboring all that sexual angst tween u two.

and u dont even have to come on here and say none..just KIM baby!

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:47 pm

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:47 pm

@PR ~ Page is an old head on here. Not as old as some, but old nonetheless. She is known for OMG, OMG, OMG all day everyday. :lol: :lol:

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:48 pm

Raqi

yeah…I remember that day.

Yeah, we never are too old to learn from others. My parents have been married for 43 years and now that they are entering retirement they are traveling and learning new things from other people and new experiences.

AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!

August 27th, 2010
3:49 pm

is ARed worth trynna find?

I’m hard to find? Plenty of bloggers have met me and I believe my pics have been passed around like pills at the free clinic. :lol:

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
3:49 pm

@PurpleRain I have nothing to hide..asking anyone I look like Mom’s Mabley..headwrap..and false teeth. Yall have a good one.

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:50 pm

LOL Leggs! and you know I say OMG OMG OMG in real life like 1,000 times a day. along with: dude, kick-azz, totally, and no way.

LOL you gotta love the Cali talk. LOL

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:50 pm

@Elijah??

u know i got no beef with u,except for one thing…u want to rub on all the females without sticking ur efforts on none..i hate that!

that kinda disturbs the other fellas……placing platitudes on every girl walking.

just pick on one girl maaayne and throw ur fishing line!

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:50 pm

@PoppaG ~ I haven’t grilled one time this summer. I should do that 2nite. Treat lil leggs extra special all weekend (like I don’t already do that). Thanks for the idea.

That wine is going to knock you out this evening. Will definitely feel like you’re sleeping on Cloud 9.

It's me....lurker

August 27th, 2010
3:51 pm

Melo, no rubbing at all dude…everybody ain’t a slave like you. I said that based on how PG is always mentioning somebody he knows, some place he’s been, something he’s done, something he’s experienced. Not saying in a bad way but his blog persona and my coworker seem to be the same. Plus mentioning the people and places I can safely bet they do. Especially my coworker, it’s his life duty to touch, be touch, socialize, get around, be known, be a mentor, be a life coach, know somebody that knows somebody….that’s why I said it. Cut it out

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:51 pm

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh ARed, I am gonna find you! lmao you are a mystery woman. LOL

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:51 pm

@ARed ~ that is too funny. You know where I stand on that gatekeeper position.

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:52 pm

Leggs, lol old people pop up and I think they are new :)

Kym, I am on the way to your house to see what I can find, take those false teeth out. LOL

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:52 pm

@Page, you esp. say “No way” all the time…you are funny.

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:54 pm

@ Leggs- dude, no way! LOL omg a dude said something one day to me and i was like no way and he just gave me a blank look.

Simple Man!!!!

August 27th, 2010
3:54 pm

Note to self….Remember the way the ladies describe themselves…Just in case…

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:54 pm

PR…

I think that the uncertainty about the collective bargaining affects the structure of the deal. The highest paid CB is Nnamdi Asomugha at 15.1 million a year. Having two players as the highest in their position would be fine this year since there is no cap this year, but they have no idea about the cap in the future.

Luvbug

August 27th, 2010
3:54 pm

Not all the women Melo.

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:55 pm

We have to choose just one blog woman? That is no fun. LOL

Grilling is fun but smoking is where it’s at.

Willie Dynamite

August 27th, 2010
3:57 pm

Afternoon All,

peeping in for a sec

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:57 pm

I’m going to buy a Green Egg PR. Probably next bonus!

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:57 pm

I wonderf if there will be an 18 games season. I read that there was a meeting in Atlanta of the NFL owners and Goodell to discuss the matter more.

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:58 pm

Leggs, your meat will be good in that Green Egg

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:59 pm

@WillieD is in da house. Hey, how are you doing?

This has definitely been the week for blog reunion. 2C started it off.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:59 pm

PR…smoking takes more time than I’m willing to commit..:lol:

It is good though.

It has just too hot for me to grill until now. Last thing I want to do is pass out and be the only one home until the wifey gets home. 95+ degrees and heat from the grill is just a bit too much for me at my age… :lol:

AmazonRed™ - vanilla with sprinkles!

August 27th, 2010
4:01 pm

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh ARed, I am gonna find you! lmao you are a mystery woman. LOL

Ha ha ha…you come and get me as long as you are bringing tostadas. ;)

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
4:01 pm

@Page ~ I can hear you in my head…

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 27th, 2010
4:02 pm

@Melo… You are one hilarious dude from the Mother Land…. This is a dating blog….and I along with Mr. Lurker will date a lot of the blog women…..j/k

@PurpleRain……Just one blog woman is no fun……

MELO

August 27th, 2010
4:02 pm

everybody ain’t a slave like you

@its me…lurker??

i like ur very elaborate explanation :lol:

@Luvbug..Not all the women Melo?

why not when I converse with u here mon to friday…

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
4:02 pm

There will be an 18 game season. No one is selling out their preseason games. So, they will just change two of the preseason games into regular season games. It will happen, but IMO the owners can’t lockout the players and then ask them to play more games. Owners need to make sure that a deal is done so that football goes on without a workstoppage.

They will need to expand the rosters to include more players because more games equal more injuries.

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
4:03 pm

PoppaG, I am not missing the Georgia heat. I actually had to wear a jacket lastnight

Willie Dynamite

August 27th, 2010
4:04 pm

Hey Leggs – I’m good, just been working me like they dont know bout the emancipation proclamation. How you and lil leggs?

Luvbug

August 27th, 2010
4:04 pm

Melo – You don’t have non-blog access to me and other ladies here. Posting is a lot different than knowing.LOL