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Freaky Friday: Whose fantasy is it?

Have you ever wondered if you were too “vanilla” or inexperienced compared to your date or significant other? Would it bother you if you found out that you were?

I ask because a friend of mine went on a first date with a new guy  recently.  He randomly mentioned his rendezvous with two women during the date.  Yes, you read that right. 

I will pause here so you can react with disbelief like I did.

She became “visibly annoyed” and quickly changed the subject, unfortunately she had already heard too much.  Now she can’t seem to shake off the little details he managed to divulge.

Where do I even begin? First of all, why would you even mention your former hook-ups with someone you are interested in?  How tacky is that?  Secondly,  is that some kind of new   compatibility test some people use now?

Mr. Threesome  rambled on about how he was glad he got it out of his system.  Is this the sort of thing that single people want to do before they settle down?  Does sowing your wild oats mean you get to want to live out some fantasy that you have?

He also argued  “they don’t call it every man’s fantasy for nothin”.  I know, charming guy, right? Do you think this is true?

When you are in a relationship, do you think it matters if one person is more  “vanilla” than the other?

763 comments Add your comment

Trevor0529

August 27th, 2010
2:58 pm

Lady..Thank you for the compliment!!

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
2:58 pm

Leggs, I have a bone to pick with her she stood all of us up mainly my brother, because he became the third wheel. LOL

MELO

August 27th, 2010
2:59 pm

Melo, well is the one you are not naming and why wont you name her? Tall, short? Long hair, short hair? Bodacious or toned?

@PR…i told u coz she aint here and hasnt been for a while…wld be manly for her hear that i talked about her..someone is gonna spin it as if i said some scandalous. U know how pple do!

the other ones i named them coz they have all named me in the past. not hiding none….i dont roll with single chics..only do married chics only here :lol:

single chics are just too much stress and nothing to lose! :lol: :lol:

Simple Man!!!!

August 27th, 2010
2:59 pm

“I’ve got about 4mil of his tadpoles swarming in the babybaker at this very moment…” Well damn……..:) :)

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
2:59 pm

@Page1908 ~ don’t we both know it…gotta love her!

@PR ~ she can’t blog from work like she use to.

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

August 27th, 2010
3:00 pm

yes sir swiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! enjoy the season!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

awwwwww thanks Elijah ( I want some of dat)!

NP Trev!

Ok folks enjoy your weekend!!!

my challenger turn 5 monday and her party is sat!!!!!! WOOHOO! she is growing up!

peace!

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:00 pm

wldnt be manly

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:00 pm

I don’t know if I could guess what the women of the blog look like only their demeanors. Well I know what 3 of them look like, make that 4.

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:00 pm

Okay Elijah, now tell me what Lurker thinks. LOL

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:01 pm

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:02 pm

Melo, that is very respectful of you. i would not divulge either who I have met or who I have seen. Unless you have a crush on the one you are not naming. LOL

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:03 pm

Raqi, that is funny. LOL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 27th, 2010
3:07 pm

@Kym… Very funny I am medium complexion, 5ft10in ,never been chubby in my life and I do not wear glasses. If I was 50 I would still be silly cause I enjoy this good land that GOD put my on…Laughter is good for the soul… Life has been very difficult for many and I have blessed to still have a good life and good people in my life….

@Raqi…. Now lurker looks like (Zues King of the Greek Gods) lol

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
3:07 pm

@Trevor..fine…fine..
This whole thang is just proof..ya’ll so sensitive..one had to let me know his toes were tan..sheeh.

I do better with astrology signs anyway.

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:09 pm

I dont care about seeing any of uall except Kimmie!

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:09 pm

Simple Man, actually the average male “skeet” way more than that in one blast. Some die off early while the others try to out run each other to get the prize. I said 4mil as average considering the number of hours passed since they arrived.

Trevor0529

August 27th, 2010
3:09 pm

Kym, its all good. LOL!! You get an A+ for effort.

My sign is Gemini.
:)

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:10 pm

Really I am 4′5inches and 105 pounds with a 16inch pecker……soft. Yes I am all dyck.

I found my horse. YEAH!!!!

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:12 pm

and I am a taupe color LOL

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 27th, 2010
3:14 pm

@Raqi…. Let me add, Mrs. Raqi talks a gooooooooooooodddd game in le bedroom… Probably average at best….. lol

@Kym…No this womn will bring some fire to the bedroom…Anybody with dat kind of passion for football is one passionate woman…. :smile:

@DirtyD… What can I say about this all american woman…. ummmmmm la,la,la, when I think about DirtyD it makes me want to sing a song to her….. :wink:

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:15 pm

Unless you have a crush on the one you are not naming

@PR…if i have(had) a crush i have already taken care of it…i dont like crude sperm in my system

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:16 pm

I think Kym would be thie best in bed, she is kind of under the radar, never has even eluded to anything sexual about herself so that means she is kepping it under wraps for a reason. IMO, lol

2CPTG©

August 27th, 2010
3:16 pm

fa real tho, I think all my blog sisters are quite beautiful….I’ve learned a lot from y’all….

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:16 pm

Elijah I have never stated that I was good, bad or average. Anything you may think is an assumption at best.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:17 pm

Mike Singletary?? I’m flattered…lol

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:17 pm

Melo, I am just bothering you. It is funny to me because this is the first time I have ever seen you use restraint when talking about something. So I figured you really like this person or you hold her in a very high regard. :)

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:20 pm

fa real tho, I think all my blog sisters are quite beautiful

@2CPTG©??

u dont think their long term singleness(since uve known them) says anything about their sexual competency in bed or none there-of, do u??

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:20 pm

2CPTG, reading here for a few year I have actually learned some things from a few of you all. You, Infamous, ABC, and some of the ones that were here way back when. Daskrait(?), Carrington, AggressivelyWitty, I can’t think of that other guy’s name.

I have picked up a few aha’s from PoppaG also.

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:21 pm

So I figured you really like this person or you hold her in a very high regard

@PR..the latter.

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
3:22 pm

@Trevor..aww the twins..yeah you are reserved..alright..slightly crazy too. Gemini’s will go from extroverted to introverted quick..The quiet observer..sneaky..can be blunt and direct..but capable of compassion. Creative…

Prince is a Gemini

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:22 pm

Raqi, I remember you saying that yours was so good that it could bring world peace….or maybe I didn’t hear you say that. LOL

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:24 pm

@PR…the most important nugget(stat) u shld get from all this convo is that i do have access to all these women…..all of them! :lol: :lol:

Kym-I only look sweet and innocent.

August 27th, 2010
3:25 pm

@Poppa G..Thank goodness one of you was okay with your description..

I think a few folks on here have seen my pictures I know I facebook with a select few..

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 27th, 2010
3:27 pm

@Mrs. Raqita…. I am j/k… You are one of my favorites. I really enjoy reading your comments regarding your marriage.. Very insightful information you have the basics on how to make it work…. I like that…. :smile:

I bet It’s me Lurker…. Will bring the fire too… Although guarded she brings a lot of intelligence and common sense to the party. Plus this lady is very classy. :wink:

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:29 pm

@ Melo, what kind of access do you have to BMW?

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:29 pm

Purple Pain, I have never made a statement like that. That must have been during a conversation you had about me offline with someone else. Sorry, wasn’t me.

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:29 pm

Kym, I was okay with your description of me. What you have over there that you are hiding all innocently.

Melo, I see clearly now. You are the man.

Raqi

August 27th, 2010
3:30 pm

Elijah, we are cool.

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:31 pm

I can say that I have gotta a few aha’s too.

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:31 pm

Melo, what kind of access do you have to BMW?

who is asking……??

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:32 pm

Yes Raqi, I was in the Middle East Promoting world peace. But I did not think you would go for it. LOL (you do know I am joking right) I was never in the middle east, but I bet you are “relaxing” :)

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:32 pm

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:34 pm

@Page
why u ask..

Poppa Grande

August 27th, 2010
3:34 pm

Mike Singletary was one of my favorite players….so being mentioned with Singletary…yeah…

I am 6′8″ and 271 lbs. Think LeBron with less tattoos. Even same complexion. Right now I have a little afro, too.

Page1908

August 27th, 2010
3:35 pm

You said earlier that you had access to all three: Leggs, BMW and Scool.

It's me....lurker

August 27th, 2010
3:36 pm

Wow, I stop to work and ya’ll have turned over 2 more pages.

I hear you Elijahman. I’m liking your Elijahman, can’t speak too much to LURKER YEAAAH though. Although you can hear the freaky sneaky coming out of Elijah. I wouldn’t peg me as being guarded. I’m reserved. Only a couple of really cool cats have been able to tap my core.

Leggs

August 27th, 2010
3:36 pm

@PoppaG ~ how are you feeling? Have you taken a nap?

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:37 pm

PoppaGrande, you are taller than me.

MELO

August 27th, 2010
3:37 pm

@Page….i said All these women(not just those 3)..even urself since i am talking to u, i guess…

why u ask about BMW especially..u sleeping tgether??

Purple Rain

August 27th, 2010
3:37 pm

Any Jets fans on here? Thoughts on Revis and etc?