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Natural Tapering Off

A caught an episode of the TBS show My Boys recently that addressed a common thing that happens with couples: The natural tapering off  aka The NTO.  You know how it is when the novelty has worn off (no pun intended) and the hot and heavy shifts to “lucky if it’s steady” stage?  Yeah, it creeps up on you pretty fast.

There really is no way to avoid The NTO because, well it’s physically impossible to maintain the same intensity and frequency.   Oh you probably have the very best intentions to!  It’s just that random things such schedule conflicts, varying libidos, work distractions, etc. all conspire against you.

What if it’s not just due to these things though?

If you have hit a tapering off period way too soon, should you be concerned?  What would you do if your desire to rip your date’s clothes off wanes soon after you two have become exclusive?

Do men notice when the natural tapering off stage begins?  I think women don’t realize it as quickly as men do.  What do you guys think?

How do you handle the dreaded NTO?

300 comments Add your comment

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
3:42 pm

Melo – Edgy, risky, call it what you want! An exclusive club, those “Oval” members! Lol!

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:42 pm

Thanks 2x DreamsM honey I was too lazy to even look up the correct spelling Appalachian, but I knew you had me! :wink:

DC Rose

August 25th, 2010
3:43 pm

It’s all fine and dandy outside the bedroom until you have to lie about it in the emergency room.

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:43 pm

@Sassy – patience is mine! lol

How can you date Flavor Flavs left-overs?….

@Simple Man – well alrightee then…
@Dreams – ;)

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:43 pm

What Monica did was risky. Edgy is practicing S/M, or something along those lines….that’s edgy IMO!

It's me....lurker

August 25th, 2010
3:44 pm

Maybe I’m reading backwards but I thought a man would run from a manhole sized, abyss type snatch. To me that would be indicative of much much much action of all sorts over the years.

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:45 pm

@swiss – :P
@Leggs – his problem is we have no fence, i say so what ;)

DreamsMaterialize

August 25th, 2010
3:46 pm

Double D’s you all good…actually didn’t notice how you spelled it. You having a good week?

How can you date Flavor Flavs left-overs?…
blue you really think she let flav hit that? I don’t think she did.

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
3:47 pm

I think it was the ULTIMATE show of power when Bill Clinton poked that cigar up inside Monica and then asked her to “rap on the mike” while he chewed and tasted that coochie soaked cigar….

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:47 pm

How can you date Flavor Flavs left-overs?….

Exactly, have you seen his little dirty fingers they look like black and milds? :???:

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:49 pm

dont think she let him hit it, but he touched her and tongued her, thats close enuf for me…remember flavor flav = greasy old leprechaun. black and milds, lol….

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:50 pm

Now picture me this and u see how Tiger is so none street….white boys can be so cool… :lol:

the President is milked in the oval by a tramp,he gives a tv prime time confession and dusts hisself, and moves on, scot free,flying all over the world,making campaign stops all over usa,Secretary of State on deck,the third(??) most powerful person in the usa govt, still his wify…….

and Tiger looses 75 mil$ over some tramps! has to go for sex therapy…

I will take Bill anytime! :lol:

how bout u folks?? :lol: who u (P)(L)ick ladies?? :lol:

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:50 pm

@blue ~ so if you should roll off would you roll down into the woods? Hell, life is short – Go For It!

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:51 pm

Dreams it is super duper busy on my end and will be that way the next few weeks. How are you doing? I think Flavor touched Hoopz a little

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:51 pm

@DirtyD ~ black and milds are an understatement. They look like ET fingers…

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:53 pm

@Leggs – not gonna do anything wild and crazy, but should be able to get some simple stuffed accomplished out there, lol. besides, should things get outa hand, trampolines right by a big tree, that’l break my fall lmao.

Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)

August 25th, 2010
3:54 pm

so what do u say of Monica,crouching on the carpet on all fours to mouf milk Bill under that Big oval presidential desk??

I don’t have anything against gettng your freak…to each his/her own…however you decide to do it.

As far as Bill’s concerned…Imma quote comedienne Sommore…“Hell that man is the leader of the free world…shyt he deserves to have his d*** sucked,shyt y’all know what Hillary ain’t doing it”…end quote :lol:

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
3:54 pm

Melo – your 3:50 – you got a point

Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)

August 25th, 2010
3:56 pm

remember flavor flav = greasy old leprechaun

For real right?! Kinda reminds me of one of those California raisins…remember them? But you know what…he looks just like his mama.

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:57 pm

Lets not forget Monica’s bj skills got her an endorsement with Jenny craig and her own line of purses. So she gave the head man the goods which worked out for her.

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:57 pm

@DD…

I will answer u this way..if I have to work on urs a lil to fit in mine,i will take urs everytime,anytime than the puddsy that makes my wang go in shooop(dissappearing) then slobs out coz there is no grip on it.

by the time u nutt,ur hands are all wet,slimmy and messed up from her slime,jostling ur wang back in every 3 strokes coz it keeps popping out.

cant have that!

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:58 pm

California raisins are on point!

:grin:

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:58 pm

“california raisin” :lol: :lol: :lol:

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
4:00 pm

The California raisins are at least cute, you know ugly-cute! LOL!!

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
4:00 pm

ugly cute = a monkey!

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
4:01 pm

greasy old leprechaun

:lol:

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
4:05 pm

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not
@ 3:39

A lotta kids does not equal a big shapper hole!!! Lotta kids just means you have had plenty of practice and you should have some skills!!!

MELO

August 25th, 2010
4:06 pm

Shaq has no class,never mind his money!

MELO

August 25th, 2010
4:11 pm

deep and wide caverns.

:lol: :lol:

I was gon tell uall about some knowldege I heard from my african bros,but u gon roast me so ill stop.

Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)

August 25th, 2010
4:13 pm

Hasta Mañana blog familia!!!

2CPTG©

August 25th, 2010
4:17 pm

“I was gon tell uall about some knowldege I heard from my african bros,but u gon roast me so ill stop”

damn, now you gettin’ all sensitive on us, bruh???? spill it, we’re like fam too!

MELO

August 25th, 2010
4:26 pm

@2CPTG©

well not sensitive but ..if it were just us bros, i wld want to ask u and compare ur notes to what i was told.

i’ll leave it for another day,when we have a blog meet ,bros, face to face.

Daaamn, i didnt ask Demi that, last time we met! :lol:

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
4:30 pm

@Melo ~ that’s called “dangling the carrot.” It’s bad bidness to post something on the blog you want to discuss only to snatch it right back w/o saying anything. Not a good look in real life and cause for blog shrapnel in Blogsville!!

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
4:33 pm

@Melo you know I love your stories do tell

@Simple Man thanks for clearing the air…if you read the post I referenced that is where I got my information from

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 25th, 2010
4:35 pm

Quote of the day!

Good Puddy will make u lose your mind! j/k

Don’t rob yourself the joy of this season by wishing you were in the future or past one.

@It’s me….Lurker….Don’t rob yourself of this present joy…. Let me put it on ya… :wink: :lol: :smile:

Folks have a safe ride home and a great evening! YEAHHHH !!!

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
4:36 pm

Oh snap…quote bag has been stolen and posting all willy nilly taken place!!!

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
4:40 pm

@Leggs – blog shrapnel 8O . ouch…. note to self – dont start any stories not willing to finish….

Luvbug

August 25th, 2010
4:41 pm

LOL @posting all willy nilly

I did like the quote Elijah…the first one…now the second is tween you and Ms. It’s Me. :lol:

MELO

August 25th, 2010
4:44 pm

@DD/Leggs..if u know what a boomerang is, i didnt want the story to come back at me….

I’ll just leave u with this story to appease u:

A PhD graduate and an ordinary man went on a camping trip, set up their tent and fell asleep.
Some hours later, the ordinary man woke up his PhD friend: “Look up at the sky and tell me what you see?”

The PhD man replies: “I see millions of stars.”

The ordinary man asks: “What does that tell you?”
The PhD guy ponders for a minute and says:

“Astronomically speaking, it tells me that there are millions of galaxies and potentially billions of planets.

Astrologically, it tells me that Satan is in Leo.

Time wise, it appears to be approximately a quarter past three.

Theologically, it’s evident the Lord is all-powerful and we are small and insignificant.
Meteorologically, it seems we will have a beautiful day tomorrow….. What about you— What does it tell you?”

The ordinary man is silent for a moment, and then speaks: “Practically . . . . . . . . it tells me that … some jokkers stole our tarp bra” .

Come on Man!

Be educated in the right way and not go beyond the boundaries!

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
4:46 pm

What, what, substituting another instead of sharing the first one you wanted to ask questions about. Not the same thing, not the same thing….BANG, BANG, BANG!!!!!

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
4:51 pm

@Leggs@Melo – lmao, was thinking that was funny, but that sure didnt sound like what he was talking about earlier …. the real story melo?

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
4:52 pm

Leggs @ 4:46 LOL!!! MAN DOWN! MAN DOWN!!!! :D

MELO

August 25th, 2010
4:54 pm

@Leggs/blue…ima go home,prime my nutts and test their strength and theeen..if i think i can handle ur blog arrows,will spill it tmrw,after 2.00 pm!

aaaight!

good nite

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
4:57 pm

@melo/Leggs – hmmm, Leggs, can he be trusted?

It's me....lurker

August 25th, 2010
4:59 pm

Elijahman – @It’s me….Lurker….Don’t rob yourself of this present joy…. Let me put it on ya…

“…..this present joy” what’s that? Do tell.

Luvbug – I did like the quote Elijah…the first one…now the second is tween you and Ms. It’s Me.

Watch out now…LOL

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
5:00 pm

goodnight Blog People…lets c what tomorrow brings!

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
5:03 pm

Carry a Heart that Never Hates.
Carry a Smile that Never Fades.
Carry a Touch that Never Hurts

Yeah, he can be trusted after he washes his hands from playing with those nutts!

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
5:03 pm

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
5:05 pm

Say Leggs, Are on for breakfast in the morning?????

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
5:05 pm

Should be Are WE on for Breakfast in the morning???