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Natural Tapering Off

A caught an episode of the TBS show My Boys recently that addressed a common thing that happens with couples: The natural tapering off  aka The NTO.  You know how it is when the novelty has worn off (no pun intended) and the hot and heavy shifts to “lucky if it’s steady” stage?  Yeah, it creeps up on you pretty fast.

There really is no way to avoid The NTO because, well it’s physically impossible to maintain the same intensity and frequency.   Oh you probably have the very best intentions to!  It’s just that random things such schedule conflicts, varying libidos, work distractions, etc. all conspire against you.

What if it’s not just due to these things though?

If you have hit a tapering off period way too soon, should you be concerned?  What would you do if your desire to rip your date’s clothes off wanes soon after you two have become exclusive?

Do men notice when the natural tapering off stage begins?  I think women don’t realize it as quickly as men do.  What do you guys think?

How do you handle the dreaded NTO?

300 comments Add your comment

Kym

August 25th, 2010
2:33 pm

@Dreams..look dude if that is how they are going to create jobs..then don’t knock the Feds hustle.

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
2:33 pm

If Puddy is addicting, The I would be jonesing like Pookie from New Jack City!!! :D

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
2:34 pm

That DEA stuff is garbage.

Garbage and an insult

R♥qi

August 25th, 2010
2:35 pm

kimmie, exactly.

MELO

August 25th, 2010
2:37 pm

Is there such a thing as gettin too much coochie?

@2CPTG??

no too much if the two of u are in sync, i wld think.

too much is a function of what the other is feeling..if her cootie starts redding on the edges coz of too much stretching and shes in pain..then its too much for her….or if ur wang starts hurting from it after a day of romping……as long as the edge is there in u to phlucck some more..no too much to speak off..just more testesterone than other folks.

too much or how much is a subjective thing…

As of Tiger, he wasnt getting coochie..he was getting blow jays..i never read anywhere where they said he phluccked these sluts..it was more of abuse(in his mind)..him paying sluts to slob him as a golf relaxer. :lol:

Judaism my arse! :lol:

The key is not entertaining that thought

im thinking about sex right now but not thinking of anybody succking my nutts…..Tiger had the time,money and freedom to do it and did it.
Sex thoghts come and taper off during the day..u dont have to have a perfomance to justify the thoght.

No addiction nor sickness there..its normal behavior in my view.

You can question his decision making,not his over energized stamina or frequency. What he did is every man’s “ideal” dream….

We just dont all take a thoght to fruiton and do it coz we dont have to.

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....

August 25th, 2010
2:41 pm

@swiss – tank u berry much…a 5ver ehhh…ive got $1.82 and my cherry lipgloss :(

LURKER (I want some of dat)

August 25th, 2010
2:43 pm

I bet when the following happen this is the conversation that took place….

I bet when Mrs. Raqi and Mason were about getting it on the following conversation and thoughts too place…

Raqi: Mason you have never been ridden by a stallion like me have you, huh, yea take that, yea boy you cannot handle this stallion….. ahhhhh

Mason: (Thinking in his mind) Whew it’s a good thing I never told Raqi about those 2 sistas who rode me and put who put the Booty clap on me…It makes her more like a colt I am just going to think about those 2 riding me while my wife is doing her little stuff…. Oh myyyyyy :lol:

Mason: Now talking while doing the do….That’s right baby you are the best rider I’ve ever had… he,he,he,he….. :lol: :lol:

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
2:48 pm

@SimpleMan ~ his office has taken my number down and insists he will call me back. I don’t want to call him at home for a matter that has nothing to do with me. Must keep that trump card locked up until it’s needed.

DreamsMaterialize

August 25th, 2010
2:48 pm

Dreams..look dude if that is how they are going to create jobs..then don’t knock the Feds hustle.
kym I’m all for job creation, and if they need more people who can adequately decipher what these cats are saying on wire taps, then by all means hire more. But leave “Ebonics” (really don’t like this word) out of it. It really has nothing to do with “Ebonics”. What is an “Ebonics expert” anyway? You can go to ten different hoods in Atlanta and find differences in speech and lingo, and those could change again next week. Even if said “expert” had mastered the “Ebonics” of all ten of those hoods, put him in East LA, and he’s probably clueless about “Ebonics” used there and thus not an expert. Instead, they should just say they need more people who are familiar with local/regional vernacular and idioms.

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
2:52 pm

Note to self….Do something nice for Leggs… And then do something REALLY nice for Leggs…:D

R♥qi

August 25th, 2010
2:55 pm

I remember my dad telling my younger brother that “being a man is not about how much “puddy” you can get but rather knowing when and being man enough to walk away from it”. That’s what I try to teach my sons.

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 25th, 2010
2:56 pm

@It’s me….Lurker….. Do you have that addicting luv going on?

Tiger was doing what a lot of men in his position do, when the women start lining up and all you have to say is say, Hi my name is Tiger and the g-strings start dropping it becomes hard to resist…
Your ego starts raging out of control…

MELO

August 25th, 2010
2:59 pm

What is an “Ebonics expert” anyway?

@Dreamz??
I dont see anything wrong with that statement becoz the lingo is foreign to the person needing of the advice. The fact that some slang words(ebonics) change frequently is neither here nor there.

If i took u to my zulu home today after 11 yrs of absence, i bet i cant understand some of the words the street pple use these days. And Dreamz will be saying,”melo,what are they saying” all i can do is pick the gist of the discussion but not pick it apart completely.

If they can get some one in Atlanta who is from the hood who can decipher some of the stuff,good enough!

Nobody says they have to have a 100% competency to be hired. And like the article suggested,whats spoken in LA as far as ebonics is concerned is not the same as in ohter hoods elewhere,so they will get “experts” in thopse areas.

And like most “experts”,once these pple come on board,they have to update themselves with changes in lingo etc. That mneans keeping their ears oin the ground.

I wld take that job if they wanted somebody part time.

Now who has a dicionary?? :lol:

i'm swiss™

August 25th, 2010
2:59 pm

“ive got $1.82 and my cherry lipgloss”

You put lip gloss on your cherry, blue??? Niiiiiiiice…. :lol:

2CPTG©

August 25th, 2010
3:01 pm

Fellas, any of y’all ever ran up in some Big coochie? talkin bout HUGE…wide, and deep….how’d y’all handle it?

i'm swiss™

August 25th, 2010
3:04 pm

2Can — It’s not nice to talk about Slim like she’s not ever here… She can hear you…. :lol:

Luvbug

August 25th, 2010
3:04 pm

Kimmie – Yeah, I think most everyone here can say we have at least one person in the world we can count on no matter what. Imagine if we couldn’t.

Sex addiction??

See that’s why so many are against free healthcare in the US…we just making up stuff now.

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:04 pm

@blue ~ it’s air drums time…almost like clockwork on Michael Baisden’s show.

It's me....lurker

August 25th, 2010
3:05 pm

Elijah – Addiciting might be a wrong choice of word….for me that is

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:06 pm

…stepping in catching up.

@Melo that DEA stuff is crap. Not to mention every sub-group has their own lingo. The last time I checked they did not have someone interrupting “cool beans” etc.

@Dreams you should have added the Appalachia (sp) to your list of places that need someone to translate. I was watching a special and ABC had to put the writing on the bottom of the screen, because they assassinated the language.

As for Tiger/Elin I really don’t care. Tiger has never given the sisters much thought, and I refuse to spend my free time thinking about him. On the Elin tip, she got off lucky with all of that money. I heard something on GMA that she said she believes in love…she should probably shack so the next man want runoff with that cash.

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
3:06 pm

Melo – When I read your 2:37 about Tiger all I could think of was Bill Clinton saying he didn’t do the deed with that woman, Ms. Lewinsky!LOL!!

I don’t believe for a minute that’s all Tiger got from all those women, especially those he saw on the regular, not the one night stands. But if so, that ain’t worth the $100 million! :lol:

Luvbug

August 25th, 2010
3:08 pm

So who do they hire to translate for drug deals in trailer park meth labs?

Boy, that’s a loaded question…but I’m not a racist.

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:10 pm

“being a man is not about how much “puddy” you can get but rather knowing when and being man enough to walk away from it”.

@Raqi…u dad was a smart man..and considering that u were present when he told them that!

Saying otherwise within a woman’s earshot wld have messed a woman up! :lol:

See,he didnt tell them to Run Away from puddy nor to hit one time and run………he left the “How much” to them.

Your brothers will have to run based on their individual levels of libido and puddy utility. :lol: :lol: its no different to what my dad told me….

A woman is like a snake,she will lure u and ensare and entangle u with puddy if u not careful..so hit with moderation. :lol: :lol:

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:13 pm

Dirty Diana??

If they have more white collar folks in their employ than blacks reg folks, but they have crime from black hood folks,wldnt that make sense?

Its like america fighting a war in Iraq/afghanistan but they dont have enough Arabic speaking speaking pple to translate for them..i see it the same way…just a need.

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 25th, 2010
3:16 pm

I remember my dad telling my younger brother that “being a man is not about how much “puddy” you can get but rather knowing when and being man enough to walk away from it”.

Note to self….Check the man law book for this quote from Raqi.. The leader of WLM!!! :smile:

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....

August 25th, 2010
3:19 pm

@swiss – shoulda seen that coming i guess, lol. now the edible panties are strawberry, and the body butter is vanilla…dont think that makes cherry, maybe more like a strawberries and cream….
@Leggs – air drums make the day go by so much quicker. sure makes folks passing my cube wonder what the he!! is going on…that and when i do that ragdoll yoga position…

we still on Tiger and ebonics?

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:19 pm

Fellas, any of y’all ever ran up in some Big coochie? talkin bout HUGE…wide, and deep….how’d y’all handle it?

@2CPTG©??

I be scared..like “wooo,we,my god daamn it!”"

I have ran in some coochy , i wldnt characterize as Huge but just sloppy maintained…”ran thru”..as Rell wld have said….

when a coochie has no more grooves,no tight grip on the wang,it aint real fun! :lol:

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:20 pm

@blue ~ I’m here waiting to hear that decision.

I had to put this Kem CD down twice. #5 is no joke!

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:23 pm

I have heard stories over the years by guys belitting canon-size puddies, but never really thought they actually existed! :lol:

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:25 pm

@Leggs – me too :( . havent heard from them yet. telling myself this is my chance to work on my patience…sometimes things take longer than we expect, right?

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:26 pm

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:29 pm

canon-size puddies

@Leggs..in my experience,big girls come very tight,lil petite girls swallow u whole! :lol:

petite means,”tread with caution..u might fall into the sink hole!” :lol: :lol:

@Kimmie..Bill’s case was one of risk taker..some pple are edgy like that.u know like phluccking in the stair case/elevator stuff or in the alley, chic’s back against the wall ,while standing or doggy..etc Idi one chic aginst the tree, one time..slip and slide..sweet!

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 25th, 2010
3:29 pm

@Leggs…. Yes it tis some Canyon size puddies out here, Some women who have naturally child birth with multiple kids have some deep and wide caverns.

I was once in a newly discovered cavern and while exploring found the missing BD…. :lol: That’s bay daddy…. :smile:

Entainment report:

Shaq is dating Hoopz from the Flavor of Luv show….Hoopz must have the goodie, goodie but what took Shaq so long to get it…. ummmmmmm

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:32 pm

@Melo ~ I wouldn’t necessarily classify that as being “edgy”. It just feels a helluva lot better and the sensation lasts a lot longer when it’s done outside the bedroom!

Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)

August 25th, 2010
3:33 pm

Yes blue it is…..patience is a virtue I’m working on.

I have heard stories over the years by guys belitting canon-size puddies

I’ve heard them,too…wonder howthey found out?….was it mid-stroke?….and if so did they stay and finish the deed.

Elijah ( I want some of dat)

August 25th, 2010
3:33 pm

That’s baby daddy and entertainment report….. Note to self ….Check spelling before sending a blog-out….

SlimNumeroUno

August 25th, 2010
3:34 pm

I missed all the posts in between.

@2CPTG – I still have the t-shirt booth but right now I’m renting it out for illegal child labor. Do you know any elementary school drop-outs looking for work? If so, send me their info please.

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:34 pm

@Elijah ~ I need to make myself that same note!

Sassy Me...Fire n Ice :-)

August 25th, 2010
3:35 pm

what took Shaq so long to get it

I don’t know how close you’ve been following Hoopz in the news but baby gurl been….busy.

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:35 pm

MELO or just maybe the white officers understand the trailer park folks etc. I am not going to put all the crime on blacks and say whites are doing the white collar stuff. I get the GA sex offender registry in my inbox daily, and most of the sex offenders are the trailer folks that come through. So, who is deciphering their lingo? I know the DEA is federal, but this seems like a problem most law enforcement would face.

kimmie

August 25th, 2010
3:36 pm

Melo – I think Bill was always a womanizer. I do agree he probably got off on the riskiness of the Monica thing though. Here you are, the most powerful man in the world, in the Oval office, probably talking to some prime minister or king on the phone, getting it on at the same time!

Simple Man!!!!

August 25th, 2010
3:37 pm

Leggs @3:20 Went to a party for a buddy a bit ago and the stripper had no problem taking about 2/3 of an Absolute bottle!!! Now If that does not qualify as Big Ol’ Puddy, then I don’t know what would!!!

DreamsMaterialize

August 25th, 2010
3:37 pm

Melo You didn’t say anything different than what I already said. It just means they need someone more familiar with the scenarios they’re trying to investigate. What do you call a white person who translates english of Appalachians (shout out Double D’s)? Nothing…there is no word for it. They are just a person who is familiar with local Appalachian vernacular and customs.

dont think that makes cherry, maybe more like a strawberries and cream…
blue sounds delicious…lemme get a taste. ;-)

blue - Expecting a Decision Today....Waiting..

August 25th, 2010
3:37 pm

@Leggs/Melo – yes it does! been trying to talk mr.blue into making use of the trampoline, but he wont cooperate…..

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:38 pm

the sensation lasts a lot longer when it’s done outside the bedroom!

@Leggs..well,if u say so but the man showing his behind in the open like that?? i dont know…

so what do u say of Monica,crouching on the carpet on all fours to mouf milk Bill under that Big oval presidential desk??

ladies chime in.u too Kimmie.thats not edgy??

i'm swiss™

August 25th, 2010
3:39 pm

“maybe more like a strawberries and cream…”

blue — You provide the strawberries… I’ll bring out the cream… :lol:

i'm swiss™

August 25th, 2010
3:39 pm

:lol: Sorry, blue, it was too good a set up to resist…. ;-)

Dirty Diana ♠ Maybe, maybe not

August 25th, 2010
3:39 pm

I have a question for the guys. It seems like the Big-Giant-Swallow you whole snapper is not in demand. I know some of you say you like a lady with experience, does all of this experience give them that big thang down there? Also, when you deal with a lady like MR LURKER/ELI said with many kids do you find the experience make up for her having a big snapper hole? Just asking…

Leggs

August 25th, 2010
3:40 pm

Things can go wrong on that trampoline…preferrably want to use things, places, gadges that won’t help land you on the ground on your bottom nekkid! Unless he’s an exhibionist, he won’t go for it…you never who’s looking out the window.

MELO

August 25th, 2010
3:40 pm

What do you call a white person who translates english of Appalachians

@Dreams?? i dont know the slang word for the Appalachians but if there is one,im sure i wld want somebody to trnaslate for me coz I aint Apalach and wldnt understand.