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“How do men receive compliments?”…..ummm, same way as y’all! Depending on the female it’s coming from, and what she actually says – granted, anytime someone gives you a compliment it should be appreciated, but it could also be some tongue-in-cheek type statement, which you would take with a grain of salt….

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Good morning all,

Sort of took a little hiatus last week, not that any of yall noticed. But Anyhoo, I give men compliments when I genuinely have a compliment to pay. I complimented a fellow recently and he seemed a bit taken back by it at first. He was like wow, I haven’t had a women say anything that nice to me in while. He was like, we men need to hear those things too. Personally, I don’t say stuff to break the ice with the intent to holla at them…I like to give it and go in most cases. No need to linger on as if they now owe you someting in return.

I hope everyone had a good weekend….dayum it’s almost September

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2CPTG – The dude I paid a compliment too seemed so throwed off by it, but then he almost acted as if he wanted me to keep telling him things about him….”please ma’am, tell me more about my eyyyyes” lol

I notice a guy’s smell, eyes, smile, freshly lined up goatee (especially if it has a bit of salt & pepper in it), physique and definitely hands…don’t go for the brothas with long fanga nails.

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Good morning all!! Hope everyone had a nice weekend

On Topic….What have relations between men and women come to that there has to be guidelines to giving a compliment??? Maybe its me, but I just don’t see whats the big deal with a lady saying to me,” Thats a nice suite” or “Don’t you look nice today”….I compliment women all the time and its just because they are worthy: sad to see thats not the case with everyone…

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There’s a reason to compliment anyone

Some unique physical feature, some article of clothing, a mannerism, whatever it is that person does well (in your eyes).

I pay random compliments, with no ulterior motives 9 of 10 times, as my “good deed for the day”.

Slim, we noticed.

Mornin, folks

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Morning Simple Man!

Had a very fun weekend! Lots of end of summer parties and receptions going on. Someone crowned me a socialite.

How bout you?

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Good morning.

@Slim Seeker ~ I noticed you were gone. Hope you are now refreshed and can honor us with your quick wit!

@im swiss ~ thanks for your post. You and SimpleMan are crazy. I was being nice with my quote, but you definitely broke it down!

On topic: I will compliment a man on his attire, his smell, whatever I feel deserves a compliment. I don’t think men are complimented as much as women are. It’s endearing to see the look of surprise and appreciation on the face of the man. Some are so taken aback they start stuttering their thank you.

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LMAO Good God. It’s hard to even process this line of thinking: “Here is a great guy, he is good to me, employed, hard working, would make a great father, but after reading way too much into his compliments, I don’t think he is sincere enough.,”

Wow. Ladies, once you over 30 you should be thankful a man gives your old ragged self any compliment, much less a sincere one.

This kind of thinking is insane and its why a lot of women are going to die alone in a room of cats.

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Catman Stan, I think it was more about compliments from those in passing!

Let me go sit down with my goldfish! LOL!!

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Well now I may feel a bit special that my fellow blogstown homies noticed I dipped out on yall…uncle died so was a bit out of it mentally.

ARed – um..as far as update, there really isn’t much to tell. He never really had a “talk” with me…not sure if my uncles death put a hindrance on that situation. We talked a little this weekend and discussed how he feels he still is in the dark about what he is here on earth for…seeking his purpose, feeling unfulfilled. He also talked about the demise of so many other people in marriages or relationships, feeling stuck or unhappy. Says he isn’t quite sure he believes in long term relationships because of that…which my answer to that was you can’t take on other peoples failures as your own. Yes you can take heed to the wrong things they do to try to prevent making same mistake. However, you aren’t living their life and can only account for what YOU do when you’re with someone.

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AmazonRed™ @9:28

Went to a birthday party that was supposed to be at one place but dealing with “us”, it ended up being moved at the last minute!!! All in all, it was cool and I can’t ask for more than that!

Morning Leggs!! How are you today beautiful???

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@Slim – we noticed, just knew you had a lot on your plate is all….feel better!

Hey Leggs – everything ok at the homestead?
@Stanley – too early dude, too early….

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Slim @ 9:45…. Maybe its me, but it sounds like your guy is laying the ground work for a quick getaway!!! Any minute now you are gonna get the “Its not you, its me” or “I just need to make sure I can give you what you need” speech……

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Ladies, how about instead of worrying about how a man dresses, or whether his compliments are sincere enough, or that he is too close minded, and the host of other crap you gals worry about over here, you drop that and start worrying about finding a good man to spend the rest of your life with? Good men are hard to find and the more time you spend worrying about how he eats his peas or how nice his handwriting is, the less likely you are to land one.

A guy who saves money by not wasting it on fancy clothes is a guy who is going to make a great partner, not to mention one who probably isn’t interested in cheating on you.

Ever stop to consider that many of you aren’t the prized pig you claim to be. A guy giving you compliments is a guy who is trying to make you feel better about yourself. He sees something on the inside that makes up for the ravages that aging has brought up on your face and body. Maybe he doesn’t sound sincere enough, T.S.

Maybe he isn’t close minded, he just knows what he likes and sticks with it. One of the things my soon to be wife loves most about me is that I pick something and stick with it, like her.

For every dumb thing here you ladies come up with to judge a man and use an excuse to discard him, I can tell you why it might be a good thing to be looking for.

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Says he isn’t quite sure he believes in long term relationships because of that…

Well, I’m glad he tried to communicate with you. You gonna stick it out?

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@Slim

My condolensces for your loss…

@Leggs

Press charges, plain and simple. Sometimes in the village community buttwhoopings are completely appropriate.

@SC

Isn’t a good feeling to pass along joy?

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Good men are hard to find

Steamer – And just how would you know this?

That whole diatribe above was the classic loser vent, by the way. Like blue said, too early in the day. You’re a laughing stock on this blog now, in case you hadn’t noticed. The only “help” you off is a good laugh!

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Slim – So sorry.

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kimmie, if you are content to die alone that is your business. Some women aren’t. If I had a dollar for every woman who thanked me for opening her eyes to what was an inevitable path to catladydom I’d be a very rich man.

A lot of people wonder what happened to to society, why no one ever tries to help anyone anymore. Are we more selfish? Probably, but actually it is because of people like kimmie who attack those whose only goal is to help others.

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Slim – I’ve heard that “you deserve” speach before. I guess he sorta did have “the talk” then, in a round-about way.

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Have a good day!

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Leggs – Ironically, my subdivision had a meeting last week with the company that’s going to install security cameras there. One of their representatives was at the HOH meeting telling us how they will work. We had some issues with teen vandals, but our neighborhood watch is VERY strong and with the cameras will be even stronger.

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Steven Q. Stanley @ 10:04 Exhale Bru…..Now go in the bathroom and sit in the stall for a minute…Find yourself!! The anger will subside…it always does!!

Leggs, Ambience closed down!!!! Guest were starting to show up and the doors were closed…Management would not give a straight answer but did move all scheduled events to Obsessions on Glenwood! Now I still showed up because it was my brother, but that place was hoochie central and wayyyyyy out of my comfort zone!

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@Slim ~ too funny, because one of the Detectives said “whoa nelly, where you from?” I wasn’t necessarily cussing a lot, but spewing disbelief that this punk robbed me all the while pointing my finger at his mother!

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Slim – I’m sorry about the passing of your uncle as well. May he R.I.P.

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@Leggs – “you don’t know me very well and I’m not sure if you know what an oxymoron is, but you can’t use “good boy” and “robbed me” in the same sentence. ^5, lol. so sorry you went thru this. our house was robbed last year, and it left us all a bit shook up. had mr.blue sleeping on the couch with his gun for a bit talking about “i wish they would”…no brick they just kicked in my front door. never caught em tho, just had to replace all my stuff. Flad you got it all back
@Slim – sorry about your uncle followed by mr.not-sure-what-i-wanna-talk-about. chin up, sunshine on the other side. just join me in complimenting Stanley —
@Stanley – you sure do bring a laugh to a Monday morning!

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Leggs, it does trip me out when parents of kids like this use that “but he’s such a good kid” line when their child does something like this. I will give those parents props for owning up to their son’s mistake instead of defending him and acting like he didn’t do anything wrong like some parents do.

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*playing catch up*

Maybe its me, but it sounds like your guy is laying the ground work for a quick getaway!!! Any minute now you are gonna get the “Its not you, its me” or “I just need to make sure I can give you what you need” speech……

This is pretty much what happened to me and my guy. Some of my guy friends did think I should stick it out. But I couldn’t. There are so many guys who meet a girl and are SURE that they want to be with her. I deserve to have that as well. And not be lingering in doubt and hope.

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“Daaaammmnnn Girl! You look good enough to F*** on film”

Yep, that’s an example of what not to say

I’m sayin!

Sometimes I wish it was appropriate to slap a man.

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Those boys should be added to the Worlds Dumbest Criminal’s Show…how do you rob your neighbor and hope to get away with it…where dey do dat at?

I mean really? And those mama’s are usually in on it. She didn’t say ANYTHING when her house had a whole bunch of extra inventory.

We had a neighborhood thief. And the mother lied about her son and his whereabouts when the neighbors came looking for his ass. They were renters so they got the boot!

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“Daaaammmnnn Girl! You look good enough to F*** on film” always wanted someone to say that to me…..

i dont really get the point tho, of stuff like that. i mean what was he hoping would happen, she’d hand him a card with her number and address and say meet me at 9, and bring a camera? now he just looks like an idiot, and any woman whos heard about him wont talk to him either…

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In regards to the guy who told the girl she looked good enough to do on film: Somewhere, there was a woman who responded positively to such foolishness.

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i mean what was he hoping would happen, she’d hand him a card with her number and address and say meet me at 9, and bring a camera?

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‘my parents were suspicious if we had an extra paper clip they know they didn’t buy for us’

kimmie – that’s how my mom was. I’ll never forget when my sister stole some of the teachers colored chalk from class. When my mom noticed it and questioned my sis about it, she lectured her first about stealing, whooped dat azz, then made her take the chalk back to the teacher telling her what she did and apologize. That was a lesson i witnessed and didn’t have to experience for myself…bc if mom tore dat butt up like that over some chalk, hell if i was going to try to top that.

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Elijahman if you’re reading this…aaahhhh you’re so sweet. I left early Friday and was just reading over Friday’s blog.
I’m loving you’re Ode/Want Ad to Lady Lurker. Boy you better stop

It’s Me…..Lurker…..How are you doing with your grown, cute and sophisticated self?
This is for you……. YES it is LADY LURKER….
Lady Lurker….You seek a grown, intelligent man who knows what he wants and treats you like a lady, because of those thoughts (You have my attention, Now What) well it my turn to make sure you know that ( I am ready to meet the one).. and yes Lady Lurker you will not have to worry if ( I am Off the Market and if I am going to act like it) because you are so special it is my honor to go off the market and wait for our luv magic to be created. Although I work a lot, you will not have to worry about a career affecting our luv life, because you will become my career and I plan on putting a lot of time and effort in succeeding in this career. Their will (Not be too much Mystery) because I will put it all on the table so I can shared something special with a grown sophisticated lady Lurker…. ;Wink:

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Now, don’t be posting this same ad to another lady or blog…lol

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Leggs – Do you trust the Dad in your home repairing your wall?? I’m not sayin…I’m jus sayin.

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Yeah Leggs, if she didn’t bring her sons by their ears to confess and apologize and do your house work for a year…then her ass knew about it…or at least looked the other way. I mean, even if they hid the stuff in their rooms, that juice was sitting up there in the fridge!

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‘Maybe it’s time for you to pull Omega man off the bench’

Insert evil laugh here —->

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Ared – It will take a minute to get that chocolate out of my system tho

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Hey all.
Wondering why compliments seemed focused on the physical. What about compliments about character or behavior ? Those get much more play with me be because then I know somebody has been paying attention and thinking about what’s important. Not to say I don’t want to hear that I look nice from time to time, but rather hear something else.

As for neighbor boys break in, at least mama is making some effort to do the right thing.

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Melo
Is there anybody you wouldn’t do??

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SlimSeeker @ 10:49… My dad used to tell me and my brothers…” The fastest way to get over someone is to get on top of someone else”….

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“how the compliment is actually received depends primarily on the type of compliment you’re giving and the type of woman you’re complimenting.” …….repeats “and the type of woman you’re complimenting”….Some women can not take a compliment without thinking there is an ulterior motive. I compliment as I see fit I am not obligated to give them, but if you act with a foul attitude when I give you one, that would be the last.

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@Lucinda not Luvbug

sorry

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Melo Lucinda asked you that one.

But regarding your followup question…what else could ‘do’ mean?? LOL

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I am so fearful of rotts! I know they can smell my fear so I don’t go around any! If any of my friends own them, I’ll have to meet them outside. I couldn’t go in. I believe I’m scared of all dogs, except the tiny loud yipper yappers!

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Some women can not take a compliment without thinking there is an ulterior motive.

Purple – But that’s their issue, not yours. There are some men that think that as well. Hey, I said you look nice, keep it moving, I’m not booking a hotel room, alright?LOL!!

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I used to have a Rott and it was one of the best dogs I’ve ever had…playful, friendly, yet protective. If I told him to watch Melo in a crowd, he would not let him move…he wouldn’t disturb anyone else. lol

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what else could ‘do’ mean??

@Luv??

cld mean chatt up,kiss,flirt with etc….

what does she mean??

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kimmie, I have you to see or hear of an experience when a guy got downright rude because a woman gave him a compliment. LOL

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you means yet

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My Doberman and Rott are very playful but trained well. If I am angry or if Julia is upset they are on guard with whatever it is bothering us. I swear if they are in the house or outside they hear everything. If someone comes close to our property line they are ready to commence to taking them down unless I am acting calm. They like the little guy who waters my yard and cuts the grass after they have seen him interact with me and Julia. Now when he comes over he is fine but if he brings his little friends to help him with the yard they go crazy and I have to put them up. My dogs eat live and play for free, all they have to do is protect the house and the wife while I am away.

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@kimmie ~ that’s my premise as well. They can “snap” on any given Sunday. It’s their nature. That’s why I don’t understand people who sleep with the dog on the bed with them. The dog could wake up at any moment, c.o.c.k his head to the side thinking “I think I will take a bite out of my master’s head!”

Lil leggs has a cat and I think that cat will jump and claw me in my face any day now.

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I am not excusing their behavior, I am not rude to women. But if you open the door and she gives you that “look” or whatever random situation there is no excuse for even thinking their is an ulterior motive. yes it’s the not door holder/opener. The point I was making is that I have yet heard a situationYin which a guy thinks that there was an ulterior motive. Guys do not automatically think that a woman is trying to get in his pants if she does or says something nice. Maybe MELO. LOL But most women have a guard up and think way past the stitaution. Either A) he is trying to “get some” or B) She goes home wondering if the guy really likes her and will she see him at the grocer again etc…LOL, don’t act like it doesnt happen

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Leggs, a pet is a direct reflection of the owners care for that animal. Some people should not own certain types of animals. And never ever treat an animal like a person especially certain breeds, those animals will act out more times than not.

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Leggs – my Rott used to sleep in the bed with me until his azz got too dayum big…hogging all the covers, sprawled all over the bed, having crazy dreams kicking me in the middle of the night…Oh hellz naw! LOL!
I do have a cat that I’ve had for about 6/7 years. He is pretty cool but every now and then he will bite yo azz just to keep you on your toes. Just like a child, I will whoop my cats behind if he steps out of line or put him on punishment (solitary confinement) lolol – oh and he is declawed in the front…not the back legs tho

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Guys do not automatically think that a woman is trying to get in his pants if she does or says something nice.

Purple you really believe that? No guys at all think that? Okay. I have some swamp land I’m looking to sell but haven’t had any takers. You interested? Some guys, and I say SOME, will take a smile as an invitation, much less a compliment. Just because you aren’t that way doesn’t mean some dudes aren’t.

If a woman frowns or reads all you mentioned into everyday politeness, again, she has a problem or maybe hasn’t been taught any better. Nothing to do with you.

And no, I haven’t had a guy to frown or be rude to me when I complimented him, but I have had some to think I was trying to flirt or get with them. I just laugh it off and keep it moving if they couldn’t see it as it was intended – simple human kindness and nothing more.

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kimmie, give me an example other than saying it has happened in that swamp area you are trying to sell me. Or can anyone give me an homest example of them complimenting a guy and he just acted rude or thought you were tying to “bed” him due to you giving him that compliment.

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Next time a woman compliments me I am jst going to say “I’m married” and walk off. LOL and be rude while doing it. LOL

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Melo – You don’t strike me as a dummy, unless you have someone ghostwriting for you every day on the blog!LOL!! You can read body language, you know when someone is flirting with you. You men kill me with trying that “deer in the headlights” mess – that tie compliment was incidental to the flirting going on! Nothing to do with the random compliment a person may give to someone in passing.

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kimme, us men haven’t killed you yet…you love us, you just dont like to give the majority of us ANY credit at all. LOL (yes I am picking on you today)

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‘Next time a woman compliments me I am jst going to say “I’m married” and walk off’

Purp – you’re crazy…lol Reminds of the time this creepy looking dude gave me a compliment at the gas station. He just kept standing there staring at me…but after he gave his compliment he didn’t leave. Finally I guess he builds up his courage to ask me my name. I told him it was Stranger. LOL! Then i was like, what are you trying to sell me…he claimed he wasn’t selling anything but he wanted to take me to dinner. I said, well the person i’m dating may not like that too much. So he went on to say, oh…bf huh? Well if either of you are in the market to buy a car, here’s my card. lol

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Dan, how are you being “hazed”?

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You can read body language, you know when someone is flirting with you

@Kimmie??

dont assume things..coz us men dont know everything and some of uall “come-on” ways..

Raqi broke down the hair flip come-on while chic is looking at as one example, some other day..an example of one flirt mode I personally didnt know off.

call me a dummy then!

So why dontuall break down other female “come-ons” disguised as comps??

@blue/Leggs??

I kinda thoght that altho i figured she was just being too brazen,doing it in the doc’s office.

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kimme, us men haven’t killed you yet…you love us, you just dont like to give the majority of us ANY credit at all. LOL (yes I am picking on you today)

Purple – LOL!! Hey, I absolutely LOVE men, and I give credit where it’s due – to the vast majority of the men I come across! They have some sense! It’s the small percentage I go back and forth with with you about! Now how about giving us LADIES some credit?

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Dan, how are you being “hazed”?

Probably in his head. Life ain’t broke any of us who are still standing right? So you aren’t special…

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Melo – There are certain come-ons that are common, but each woman’s style is different. All up on you with the chest is brazen though, you shouldn’t have any questions about that!

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@PR

It’s work isht. Nothing too serious

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Leggs – Earlier this year my house was burglarized. Thank the good Lord the idiots ran back out. I guess they couldn’t get the alarm to shut off so they snatched the key panel out of the wall….not knowing that’s not what shuts the alarm off. IDIOTS

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MY 12:06 was to Lurker-1 11:58….I could have very well missed pertinent details. I haven’t gone back to read anything.

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@Melo – some women are like that, brazen as all he!!, half the thrill is seeing if she’ll get caught. some women are more low key. there are all different types of us out there…
@Leggs – I think the ? should be what dont they take as a come on? i was told that putting my fingers in my hair and pulling it back when it starts to fall in my face is a come on. really?

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Hey there Purple Rain! How goes it?

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“I always sit with my legs crossed and I use to rub them while I talked.” Hmmmmmmmm …..Yeah, that will do it!!!

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Amazon, it’s going as the crow flies……straight.

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@blue ~ you’re right. I remember I use to stick the tip of my tongue out at the corner of my mouth when I was in deep thought. This guy asked me to stop doing that because it made his mind wander. I didn’t say anything because I was in

@it’s me ~ glad they were scared off before ransacking your home.

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Melo since you mentioned it, for some reason, I get most compliments from nurses in the dr office. I like your shirt, I like your socks. Once, the nurse at the nursing home where my mom was living, asked how I was doing and I said not too good. She looked me up and down and said, you look good to me. Recently, I was at the dentist and his assistant was massaging my biceps as the dr was shooting me up. That felt pretty good . I NEVER TAKE OFF MY RING!!

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What if she’s got a man? A husband? Older than you? Ugly?

@Lucinda..so ur qqstion is if a woman has a husband,she ugly,older than me is she phuckable??

hell ya..even Urself is phuckable…..

are u hitting on me??

u give me a “ho compliement” and then u asking me if all those categories are phuckable…are u implying u fall in any of those categories??
except fo “ugly” and “fat”, I wld say u game and very phuckable indeed!!

what color panties u got on?

:lol;

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Lurker WTF ? MassAging your bicepts and the dentist let that go on?? Hope s/he’s paid up the insurance policy

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Funny. I can see how biting the lip can have a man experience sexual, what’s the word Melo, ANGST!

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Melo you funny. You know I got a man so no game here.

Not fat or ugly or old either. Just wondering if you ho-y-ness has any limits..

If I were free, I’d hit on PR Feeling that Italian vibe….

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Purp – I will put you On-call.

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@Lucinda…u only co-ho with the lighter shades..i get it!

If two cppled up pple feel it in them to co_ho..no problem with that.

Just wondering if you ho-y-ness has any limits..

those two I gave u(ugly and fat) as well as everybody else not giving me unnecessary compliments…..esp single females.

some men u can just tell they arent in ur lane,u single females.

Keep ur comps to urself…Unless!

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Walking now with one arm aroun Lucinda and the other around Slim, Looking over my shoulder at Melo and Swiss “Later guys!”

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@PR. You married so I’m not hitting on you, don’t plAy that.

But, if you weren’t ….

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Just wondering if you ho-y-ness has any limits..

comedy……

On the serious, Leggs sorry to hear about your home break in and glad you’re pressing charges.

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Lucinda, at first I didn’t want to believe it but it has happen twice over a year period. His other assistants don’t do that. To be honest, I just think she’s one of those sweet and naive young ladies.
She is 37 and we both have a 25yr old daughters but I am 53.

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Note to self… Work on my game so I can be a “MAC” like Purple rain….

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Lurker, she had a child at 12? She is 37 and you are 53 and both of you all have 25 year olds? Heck, if you were to romp go with her 25 year old daughter her mom has been in business since age 12 alteast so she is worn out, then again it would be kind of creepy have sex with a 25 year old and you actually have a 25 year old

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Lucinda, I speak it better than I do English.

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Simple Man, when the waves hit I ride it. I think this is a one in five year occurence for me. The blog ladies are just giving me blue balls until I get home. LOL

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PR. I melt at the sound of your voice

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“…makes me go home with my ego boosted…” Are you sure it’s boosted and not full ready to erupt! Sorry, couldn’t resist!

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Sei un uomo molto bello, PR

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Kym, I thought Brett was not going to come back but T. Jackson played well yesterday.

Lucinda, come whisper something in my ear.

Melo, skin tone has nothing to do with wang slangin. I was told that for a fact. LOL

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Lucinda, sei una donna molto bella te stesso. È meglio smettere prima che ti togli da qui.

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Leggs, I say you should take her to court with you and she can witness the other cases going on. I will say that the court system down here is really soft of people. Those kis will probably only get probation.

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Lucinda, che cosa vuoi?

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I love your second point, PR, but Kym, you too have a good reason I hadn’t thought of. I watch Disorder in the Courts on tv and anything can go wrong on any given day.

No, she isn’t in need of the “scared straight” approach. Excellent point, Kym!

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Melo you know my man got mad skillz,

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@PR ~ the two 16 year olds may get probation, but I doubt the 19 year old will.

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Leggs – I can respect Kym and PR’s points. Whatever you decide, she does need to see what being a “bad” boy represents – the real, not the glamourized version. These are the same dudes that start out “borrowing” money from girl’s mama’s to pay for their dates, like that little boy did! Sorry I went there, but lil Leggs needs to know sometimes all those behaviors have a way of tying together.

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Kym I saw this one case recently where a guy in the middle east caused someone to be paralyzed from an accident or something. So guess what the criminal is having surgery so he can be paralyzed to. Although if it were eye for an eye her in the states i would be dead now.

Leggs, they give adults probabtion here as well. He won’t get anytime. I am sure the legal eagles on here will agree.

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Lucinda, potrebbe essere necessario a scrivermi i vostri desideri prima che io vada preso il via il blog con la mia risposta.

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@kimmie ~ exactly my point, they all have a way of being tied together. Exactly! EXACTLY! They had to discuss for him to even agree to pay me back, so if a small fry like him doesn’t have any qualms about borrowing money from the mama, there’s no telling what he won’t have qualms about doing as he gets older!!!

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Leggs, how did Old West make you think of New York, which is very far east. LOL

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same dudes that start out “borrowing” money from girl’s mama’s to pay for their dates, like that little boy did

@Leggs??

that lil boy that wanted to borrow money from u dont have stealing/robbing qualities…dont listen to Kimmie.

what u can read from him are potential playa qualities instead..using future mom-in law’s money to date her daughter,while losing none

Kinda like that “why buy the cow when the milk is free” mentality!

see..u neeed a man sometimes to read these things!

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Lei è una piccante uno, divertente flirtare con te.

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Melo – You are right too, except note what Leggs said – he & lil Leggs had to have a “discussion” for him to even agree to pay her back! That might not seem tied to future criminal behavior at first glance, but kids being raised to think that kind of stuff is okay only contributes to a slacker, freeloader mentality. The fact that somebody ELSE worked hard to aquire things is of no importance to them.

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@Kimmie/Leggs

That’s junior pimpin right there….that’s all that is…

Why work or even spend my money when she can get it?

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@kimmie ~ exactly! Where’s the pride. You shouldn’t be agreeing to borrow money from anyone to take a chick out you like!

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Si, e caldo

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so paralyzing criminals, borrowing money for dates, and foreign languages….did i miss anything else while i was gone?

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took that to mama

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@Melo ~ I see your point, but where I stood I took it that my child was greedy, wanted to see this boy come hook or crook!!! Selfishness is something she learned all on her own. I did silently question why she was comfortable in asking me!

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but if left unchecked(that adventerousness) cld do damage later.

Melo – That’s all I’m saying!

And yes kids will be kids, but you gotta check um!

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Melo – Would you have given that lil boy DAP if the shoe was on the other foot and that was YOUR daughter he was practicing that cheap pimp move on?

Don’t bother to answer – I’m sure you’ll find a way to justify it. All u men stick together!

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@Kimmie..read 2.10

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“Beautiful”….come back, I wanna ask you some’n…..where’s Raqi…

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Lucinda ardente is better caldo is more “luke warm”

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@Kimmie

Never said it was “cute” (because I only use that word when referring to myself).

As Major Colvin said “They are not training for our world, they’re training for there’s. They know exactly what the world expects them to be. And this here, this is practice.”

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blue, sorry…I’m easy. LOL

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Those kids that broke into Leggs house didn’t just become “bad” kids

@Kimmie…i wasnt talking about those..I was specifically commenting on u tying the borrowing kid to the stealing kids.. and u excalating his borrowing to potential thief…

the borrowing kid did nothing wrong,broke no law..his request was just lame and pimpish….

even when u counsel a kid,the counseling has to be tempered by and measured with the offense..Really.

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Dan – simply… @ 2:21

Nice way to work in that quote from “Bunny Colvin”!!! All ways down with references to The Wire!!!

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@PR

Forearm across the back of the neck when she tries to “raise up with dignity”.

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Thanks Dan,

I’ve found my foot on a throat while scissoring. I was just given that some thought on if it were normal or not. LOL

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@PR – well alright this time…dont make me use the cuffs….and no, havent tried the elbow or foot to the throat…little too far for me…tho a scarf around the throat does give a little leverage…..
@Melo – agreed. counseling has to be tempered by and measured with the offense. too easy to lose their attention already, even more so if they feel you are lumping them in a group that has nothing to do with them. i dont quite see broke boy on hte same level as B&E boy….
@Lucinda – i think you’re right, i’ll let ou be my Rosetta Stone, lol

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@blue ~ no, she’s not. I told her it’s not a good look so early in her dating experience. Never borrow money for a dude so he can take you out. If he can’t afford to date you then you don’t date him.

@kimmie ~ yes, she too made a mistake!

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you should tell that story in here, it is a riot. LOL

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@Leggs – good deal. thought from comments she was sticking with him. thinking of the mistakes i made getting my dating legs, afraid to see what my girls do…and if they go for a dude like their dad, aww he!!, not everyone can handle those like him

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Lucinda, pressure needs to be applied to the sides of the neck and not the front

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If I had a daughter i would put her up for adoption

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tho a scarf around the throat does give a little leverage…..

@blue.u bad!

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Never borrow money for a dude so he can take you out. If he can’t afford to date you then you don’t date him.

Worth repeating….

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Woo(ing) is a natural by-product of your feelings for her.

If think about her and send a text, flowers, or fight the urge to go and see her, it’s not necessarily ‘wooing’ in that sense. I think it’s more expressing how you feel about her in the way you treat/speak to her.

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@PR – it aint been that funny trying to pick a new table. he wants a glass one like we had waaayy back when we first got hitched. you tell me, how well is a glass table gonna fare in that scenario?
@melo – me? nope, but i do have several scarves at the house…..

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Some say the throat press enhances sensitivity

@Lucinda??

who are these “some”,so lib with their opinions about it,but not enticing nor convincing u to partake of same “enhanced sensitivity”?

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Slim, I walk in and pull all of my clothes off in one fell swoop. That’s how I woo her.

To your question, I woo her by making her breakfast sometimes or just buying her cards randomnly, sending flowers to her job. Always speaking life into her, tell her how wonderful she is to me, smack her on the butt or if she is sitting beside me and I am hard i put her hand on it and just show her what she does to me whenever I am around her. I dont let her carry anything mentally or physically except her purse and car keys. I care for her more than I care for myself…and that is a small example of how I woo Mrs G. I will just scream “I love you” from the basement or wherever I am when I feel.

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SlimSeeker @ 2:42

How do I WOO a woman????

Simple man: So Leggs, would you like ro come by my house so I can make you dinner this weekend???
Leggs: I don’t know….can you cook??
Simple man: Why don’t you come over and taste this Lobster bisque and see for yourself???
Leggs: Shall I bring the wine??
Simple man: You bring the wine…We can work on desert when you get there!!!

That is a classic Simple Man!!! Woo …. LOL

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Leggs – Last thing I’m going to say on the subject cause look like you got it all handled well. I speak from experience because my SO dealt with with this same exact type of situation with his oldest daughter, who is now almost 20 and her child’s father. The signs were all there when she started messing with him. He stays in run-ins with the law.

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It’s all spontaneous, Slim. That’s why ya do it.

It’s different for each man/woman combo.

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@2 . . . you smell nice 2day! its been a minute. whatchu wear’n?

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Simple Man – You really gotta be able to cook to make lobster bisque! Did YOU really make it?

If you did, I’m impressed!

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Melo, your wife is trying to bribe you into a yes with sex?

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lmbo!!! i’m over here waiting for my notifications. rotf.

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That is a classic Simple Man!!! Woo ….

@Simple Man??

are u wooing to get cherrie on that day/nite or just so u can roll with Leggs on a permananet basis for a minute??

i know u said u max rotation cycle runs about 3 months!

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Why thank you, Beautiful, and I mean that literally!

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so u can roll with Leggs on a permananet basis for a minute?? Does this sound funny to you as much as does to me a permanent basis for a min! WOW!

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kimmie

August 23rd, 2010
3:05 pm

My parents raised 3 boys….dada always said you have to know how to run a functioning household because you can’t be sure that you will find and woman that will do it like our mom did… Now I go out two or three nights a week but when its time to really impress the softer sex, I always fall back on my kitchen skills, Gret seafood and rich deserts are a great way to impress a date..especially when she comes over before that meal is done and just sits in the kitchen and lisens to George Howard and Tasting as I prepare dinner…

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Tasting what as you prepare dinner…mental pic of you hopping around kitchen while she’s crouched down on a pallet zooming around as you move around. Sorry, sorry! Just being bad (LOLOLO)! Words are not my friends today!

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I want to spend the rest of my life with you…tonight…just got the oxymorons flowing today dont we…

@PR – yes, women try bribing yall with sex…and yes, good portion of the time it works

and for the men out there, dont yall try the same thing at times?

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@Leggs..3.27 for 3 motnhs is longterm for some.

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Let her ask you while phlucking you

@Swiss..as long as i recognize thatim being gamed..there is no erection.

Unless she wants to shove my hand down there….

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2TCPTG – Yep it’s me Slim1

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@For Real ~ I am so sorry, but I love that sign and I definitely can see me doing it!!!!

Just received a call from his mother asking what time I would be home because she wants to bring him over to sit and talk with me. One thing I do know, you won’t be coming inside myself to sit and talk with me. If I do talk to you it will be in the street in the middle of the cul-de-sac (where this wannabe crook belongs).

Sure wish I had one of those posts where you put your head and arms through the holes while people threw rocks at you. Can’t think of what that is to safe my life!!!

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kimmie, George Howard is one of my favorites!!! Even though his greatest hits is 10+ years old, It stays in the rotation at my house!

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queen to bring in her sister for added persuasion

@Swiss..that wld be a winner!

Now,what they do ‘tween and among themselves,2 of them, as they enjoy ME,thats on them..they arent my daddy’s kids,SO I wont care!

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For Real – duly noted

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Slim: http://news.yahoo.com/nphotos/Trapped-dolphins-rescued-Bolivia-river/ss/events/sc/082310boliviadolphin

I know the whereabouts of a trapped African American Dolphin do you want to help with the rescue efforts?

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@Leggs – mr.blue has a plaque for he keeps out in the garage
“Posted: Trespassers Will Be Shot, Survivors Will Be Shot Again”

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Leggs: Or get a big azz neon sign that flashes “THEIF NEXT DOOR” with a big fanga pointing at their house.

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My cousins up in DC used to call their dad Dada.

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Tiger Woods and his wife are officially divorced.

thats good news indeed…cnbc.com

At least now he can get on with his game,get agood team of stress relievers and right his ship.

Go Tiger!

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‘do you want to help with the rescue efforts?’

Yes but only if I get to swim with it afterwards…I just bought a crotchless 8 piece turtle neck bikini

‘Or get a big azz neon sign that flashes “THEIF NEXT DOOR” with a big fanga pointing at their house’

DOn’t forget the huge industrial sized spotlight….the one they use to call Batman in for reinforcement

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I love the word “mommy!”

@Melo ~ there are 3 cops in our subdivision. I should knock on one of their doors to futher scare this young punk. One thing I cannot stand is lack of eye contact. He won’t be able to look at me therefore I won’t be able to believe a damn thing he says!

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@PR ~ I’m thinking along the same lines. I’m beginning to think it’s useless to meet. There really isn’t anything he can say to me.

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@Leggs/PR – agreed, best resist the temptation to smack the shyt out of him, next thing you know the mom will be trying to press charges against you. just tell them stay off your property, parents and child included. they can mail you the check…

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Things Leggs theif can say to her:

It wasn’t me!

It ain’t my fault!

My father makes me call him Memaw!

I’m dyslexic!

It was the African American Dolphin and em!

I’m homeless!

Obama did it!

My mamma make me sleep on Glen Beck sheets!

I got restless leg syndrome!

Cocain is a helluva drug!

We ain’t have no tissua at the house!

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‘how’s that “CT” holdin up? ain’t heard ’bout it in awhile…’

@2CPTG – that statement is hilarious in itself… ain’t heard bout it in a while—> The CT is skrait pimpin’

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April Fools!

I said SWEAT!

Red light, green light!

Rock, paper, scissors!

Gooney, Goo-Goo!

I was PMSing!

I was trying to kill that fly on your window!

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@Leggs/For Real – lol, maybe he takes Ambien, you know they say that stuff has you doing all kinds of things in your sleep…

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Dreams – That “it worked on someone else” is one of your favorites, that’s why I put it out there! But “worked” is relative and I really think alot of it is for shock value!

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“The CT is skrait pimpin’”

I see……”juicy got ‘em crazy!”

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2CPTG – on no you didn’t pull out 357 B Angie B…lol (Slim not trying to find an old lepard skin cat suit, some long lee press on fanga nails, some hazel eye contacts and the herr gel to put some fanga waves in for a bomb azz herr do)

Ladies, can I borrow one of yallz booty pads…can’t really rock a saggy cat suit

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You know you my buddy, Dreamboat!

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I can’t imagine a grown man saying “dada” my nephew says that…lol

papa, dad, daddy…daa daa

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See the problem started when they allowed women to start voting……..now they really think their opinion matters

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@PR ~ don’t mean to burst your bubble, but most women know you’re lying through your teef or merely got caught up in the “stroke.” And, women know men don’t believe that crap either unless “it’s really the first time” doing something. In most cases you’ll know what’s what.

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It;s me, I think it is cultural. It’s weird to me to hear someone call their father “dad” souns so impersonal

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Heeeyyy… Yaaaaaaa.. (Don’t want to meet your daddy, OHH OH)
Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. (Just want you in my Caddy OHH OH)
Heeeyyy… Yaaaaaaa.. (OHH OH, don’t want to meet yo’ mama OHH OH)
Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. (Just wan’t to make you cumma OHH OH)
Heeeyyy… Yaaaaaaa.. (I’m, OHH OH I’m, OHH OH)
Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. (I’m just being honest OHH OH, I’m just being honest)

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You thikn we care what comes out of our mouths, women are usually done by then and since we don’t give parting gifts we just say something. LOL, better than saying “don’t let the door hit you with the good Lord split you” See I am a refined man.

And you know the woman you are dealing with is a pro when she gives you a wipe off with just hot water and a rag. No soap at all because she knows that leaves evidence

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kimmie, she should have sat on that little asian lady

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Does anyone else get nervous when you are on a flight and there is more than one obese person on the same side of an airplane?

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@blue..comement on that 4.37 please

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Dad rings impersonal to my ears as well. Much like caucasians saying “Mother”

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Slim, if that were the case I would get up and go wash myself off, with water only and then check my hair, my body and my clothes to make sure none of her hair was on me. Or, i would have the usual soap that I use at home at her house. LOL

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@Melo – hey, lol, why’d i get singled out?

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Leggs, that is why you dont let her spill or spit it back on you. Paint her or make her have a gulp. just hit her on the top of the head and she will gasp causing her to swallow.

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@PR??

u think like a black man.

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Had to laugh at hit her on the top of the head. Meaning once ejaculated and it’s not all swallowed, you can probably easily find a few spots on the pants or draws. From the stories I’ve been told not all pull their pants all the way down. It’s not always done in a bed

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Leggs a proper lady does not spit. LOL

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Melo check this site out, I would love to go on vacation to this resort

http://www.owk.cz/

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LOL

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I think i’m going to dip out on yall right about………….NOW! Yuck!

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just hit her on the top of the head – well alrightee then….
just saying if shes the side chick anyway, why is she wiping you down? you know where the bathroom is…isnt that written in the side chick by-laws somewhere…

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blue, man is King wherever he does his do. Besides, why risk it if you are not getting king treatment

Melo, it got quiet. I may be telling to many secrets. LOL

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I couldn’t find anything about BJ’s so when I came across this I liked it.

<strongRaising teenagers is like nailing jelly to a tree.

Good night and takes for talking with me through this craziness!

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@PR…some of ur pronouncements tho wld be a quick way for a chic to get to ring status….swallowing,throat numbing,good warm water wipe down,tongue ring,vejay ring,throat tying etc….

just saying…

Good nite all!

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My bad PR, you said SO’s mama and/or daddy

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I say Mrs/Mr. so and so

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its me – my SO parents have been on a first name basis from day 1, only got one mom one dad.

vejay ring – aww he!! no, just owww. tried the tongue ring once, thinking about doing it again….may need to be like crazy drunk this time tho, lol…..

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