I was reading the news story of a woman who discovered her husband’s wedding to somebody else on Facebook. Clearly there were some signs because she was online searching for clues. It reminded me of when I met this guy who at first seemed so intriguing. He was all vague and a little mysterious. It started out as a playful flirty thing, but then it turned into outright question dodging.
When you meet someone new do you think it is cool to hold back information to make things more exciting or mysterious? I suppose some people can pull that off well. It only seems to be a problem when the person is being mysterious because they have a pretty awful secret they don’t want you to know about.
How would you handle a situation when the person you are really interested in tends to be a little too mysterious? Do you turn into a dating detective and attempt to figure it out? Would you chuck the deuces and cut them loose?
Are you the mysterious one that people always want to find out about? Does it work for you on the dating scene?