Good to you vs. Good for you
There comes a time in every person’s dating career when you have to stop dating inappropriate people. I know we like to think there is something about those folks that bring you thrills and excitement, but trust me that grows old really fast. Besides, you can’t compare the excitement you feel when you are with the right person!
It’s not always easy determining who is good for you because a lot of us get caught up in how “good” they make us feel. How do you know when you are dating someone who is good for you? When do you figure out they are the marrying type vs. the dating type? I’ve always heard that men know almost immediately which category they will put a woman in. What’s their secret?! (Seriously guys, spill it).
If you are trying to weed out the inappropriate people (crazies, hot and little else to offer, etc.), what do you observe and pay attention to the most?
If you are seeing someone now, are they good for you? How do you know?
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blue-7/30
July 26th, 2010
5:55 pm
hes only about 23 pounds, but he thinks hes a Rottweiller, lol
Melo
July 26th, 2010
5:57 pm
yeah, weather guy said rain all week
thats good..maybe we can now have sex for a change!
czBrat
July 26th, 2010
5:57 pm
@ 6 yrs old i can see why he’d get antsy. we have a westie. i think he’ll be 5 in december. also about 22 lbs.
hmmm. fellow nyc/atl transplant & dog lover. something tells me you’re aight.
get home safely. ciao!
czBrat
July 26th, 2010
5:58 pm
awww. sorry, melo. have you been in the dog house lately?
Melo
July 26th, 2010
5:59 pm
too hot to phluckk…to much sweat dont add a good scent to all that good good..hopefully i be horny when it starts raining and is cooler
blue-7/30
July 26th, 2010
6:00 pm
yeah, hes hyper by nature. we keep him outside during the day bring him in at night and when it rains. he doesnt like staying in the house all day. lol, that does kind of sum me up
!. home safe to you!
czBrat
July 26th, 2010
6:01 pm
who’d a thunk you’d be so picky about getting laid. well, enjoy the rain.
blue-7/30
July 26th, 2010
6:01 pm
melo – favorite pasttime when its raining
blue-7/30
July 26th, 2010
6:02 pm
lmao cz, seems to me you take it as it comes right?
Melo
July 26th, 2010
6:03 pm
who’d a thunk you’d be so picky about getting laid
I wish I were u S/O czbrat!!
maybe we meet one day
blue-7/30
July 26th, 2010
6:05 pm
trying to get mr.blue to go for in doing it in the car down by the lake. so far doesnt seem to be working….lol
blue-7/30
July 26th, 2010
6:11 pm
well, if anyones left, goodnight!
DatinVet
July 26th, 2010
7:34 pm
Ladies and Gents, it’s simple. A good potential mate will be able to accept delayed gratification. Ladies, if a man paws all over you from the start, he is not a good choice no matter what. Men, if you can get her in the sack right away, she is not a good choice. There will be many temptations after marriage and you have to have a partner than can control themselves. Like I tell my sons, if it is easy to get a girl in bed, she will have little resistance to men after you marry her. Like I tell my daughter, if he respects you, he will touch you when you want, where you want, even after marriage. A man will be respectful to a woman he really wants. If I had a first date tonight with Angelina Jolie, do you think I would fondle her or be on my best behavior?