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The art of great first dates

Far be it from me to complain about the precious few dates so far this summer. I never want to appear rude or anything but I have to send a public service announcement out:

First dates can make or break your potential romance.

Yeah, I know this seems like a no-brainer, but ask any single person about their most disastrous dates ever. Chances are they were on the one  (and only) first date that failed miserably.

I have wondered why there is so much pressure to impress on a first date. You don’t have to really go all out on some grand gesture. Nor should you pluck ideas from these ridiculous reality tv dating shows.

You know what works best? Normal. No, really! Doing something you have already found to be enjoyable and pleasant. No surprises. No gimmicks. A perfectly normal activity or past time you like to do, but with someone you are really really attracted to.

The more normal the date, the less distracted you are. This way, you can catch any crazy behavior or horrendous manners that the date may display. You could also discover what a complete joy they are to be around.

So let’s dissect first dates today. What is the art of a great first date in your book?

What first date rituals do you go through to increase your chances of being relaxed and ready to charm?

What should you absolutely avoid on a first date?

Do your part people! There are innocent single people being subjected to awful, no good first dates and it is up to us to help them.

Happy Friday!

385 comments Add your comment

Wise Diva

July 16th, 2010
8:32 am

Good morning everyone! So glad to see Friday!! TGIF!

mark

July 16th, 2010
8:48 am

Good morning Ladies!!! my worst first date was when the lady kept sending her food back and that bothers me. your not that picky when your at home eating ramen noodles so why be picky on my dime?

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
8:59 am

Hola!

Mark that is very funny…happy Friday to you!

What is the art of a great first date in your book?

Personally I like to converse, email and a little texting before the first date. If you have a lot of interaction before the date it does not seem like a first date. I cannot tolerate someone being ultra formal on a first date or any dates. My job is stressful and formal, so whether I am blogging, dating or hanging with friends I like to relax, have fun, get rowdy (in a fun way) and just chill. I cannot stand that serious mess on a date. I believe in laughing, smiling and even laughing at myself.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
9:05 am

Oh yea, I like to keep first dates simple. I don’t want an elaborate dinner or some dinner and a movie plan. Meeting for a cup of coffee, or some finger food and a drink is good. If the meeting goes well, you can always extend the date. The key is to find a location where you can venture into other options if the date is going well.

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
9:05 am

Morning
I just like to do enjoyable things that allow both of us let down our “first date” guard. I’ve done go-cart racing, cooking class, picnic, cognac tasting, play, museum, dessert, chocolate buffet at the Four Seasons, festival, whatever. I’m open to new experiences, and I like women who are too.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
9:08 am

GM Diana, Mark, WD -
“Some people are like Slinkies – not really good for anything, but you still can’t help but smile when you see one tumble down the stairs.” – read this today and couldnt help laughing…

anyway, on topic – great first date for me would be one where i can feel comfortable being myself, and feel he’s doing the same. if it seems obvious that your putting on a front, lets not waste our time. Agree with Diana, something not too formal, where i can relax and enjoy some good conversation, flip my hair every now and then and give off a girly laugh without having to try to pretend i speak french when i dont.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
9:11 am

gm Dreams, and everyone else, TGIF

mark

July 16th, 2010
9:14 am

Hey Diana! Hey Blue!

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
9:18 am

TGIF…just wish it was already time to go home. Me sweepy sweepy.

Topic: I don’t have any first date rituals other than to ensure I’m smelling good, looking good and feeling good. I wouldn’t recommend going out on a date when you aren’t feeling on the up and up. I would hate to go out with a dude who was in a bad mood.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
9:19 am

Dreams, how did the cognac tasting date end up? :-D

anonymousella

July 16th, 2010
9:22 am

First date? Something cheap where you can talk and have something to talk about. Coffee, ethnic food (shows you tried and have a sense of adventure), art show, museum, martinis & imax, foreign movie at the high followed by a diner meal, etc.

Kym

July 16th, 2010
9:22 am

Good Morning All,

Q&A Time..

What is the art of a great first date in your book?

In my book a great first date is one where I actually get to see and experience my date in the natural. For me conversation is key..so having a great date means we do things where me and the dude can engage in conversation, interact.

What first date rituals do you go through to increase your chances of being relaxed and ready to charm?

I have no rituals..I am not one rituals..I mean I will do my best to make a good first impression..so I am not coming out of my house with sleep curd on my face..or my hair standing sideways on my head.

What should you absolutely avoid on a first date?
The movies!!! I just have to say I have learned my lesson about movie dates..at least in the begining stages. One you can’t talk to each other during the movie..its dark so you can’t see reaction or expressions. If the movie is boring..I will go to sleep(yes I have done this on a date)..no movies on first dates..after we have established a relationship…ohhh and nooooooo movies at home on first dates either.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
9:24 am

Good morning beautiful blog people!

And a wonderful Friday it is!

Only been on 2 bad first(and only) dates and these both were setup/blind situations. And they were not really bad, just was no chemistry so things were a bit awkward.

I agree Diana, I like to have done a lot of pre-first date talking. That takes the pressure off and usually by the time we get to the first date, we both are really looking forward to it and it doesn’t really matter what we do or where we go. Most have been just meeting up for drinks or light meals. Simple. No tripping over too much money being spent or anything like that. No pressure or big displays.

Like I mentioned to Melo the other day, dating can and should be fun. I’ve enjoyed dating, and will continue to “date” even after marriage.

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
9:29 am

Hey blue. How’s it going?

Dreams, how did the cognac tasting date end up?
Slim you’ll have to come with me to one to find out. ;-)

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
9:29 am

@Dreams – is go-cart racing as fun as it looks?
@Kym – agreed, movies not that great an idea. need something that allows interaction and a chance to learn about each other, altho if you try to take to me to see the newest serial killer chop-em-up movie, well i think ive learned all i need to know…..

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
9:30 am

Dreams – Where are these cognac tastings held?

Run4Life

July 16th, 2010
9:31 am

Please dress to impress, and be on your best manners. I agree with Mark; wherever we go, please don’t be rude to the staff. You don’t have to be formal with a shirt and tie. However, do not just throw on anything like a T-shirt and shorts. I prefer a guy in khaki pants and shirt, or my favorite attire for a first date on guys is nice jeans, button down shirt and sports jacket. Believe me, I will have on a simple but sexy dress for you. And please do not talk about how badly you’ve been treated by other women; makes you appear weak and I’m afraid I may be the next one to treat you ‘not be interested’. Be positive, confident and sexy.

Note: I may give you a second chance to bring your ‘A’ game, but I’ve pretty much made up my mind about you on that first date.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
9:34 am

First date tips:

Be yourself, be easy, and be prepared (for a trip home with her or someone else).

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
9:36 am

@Run

Um, I dig all that (liking a man in khaki’s), but if jeans and a shirt are his style then something gotta give.

It’s great to have preferences, even better to have expectations, but merging either of those with reality is the sign of a mature person.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
9:38 am

Wassup Blue,

Lol at pretending to speak french.

First date tips…

1. Clean out your car! No one wants to sit on that Micky D’s fish filet carton.
2. Keep the music volume down. I am not going to shout over Gucci Mane.
3. Keep the music generic I don’t want to hear “Silk” freak me baby. Keep it light and simple.
4. If you are picking my up you need to ring the doorbell, if you blow the horn I am not coming out. After the date you need to walk me to my door. This is a simple dating rule, but some folks don’t know it.
5. Be on time!
6. Dress for the date. Ladies, do not wear your Prada stilettos to go bowling. Guys do not wear your white linen and ostrich kicks to Big Daddy’s rib shack.
7. Keep it informal do not ask about stuff that is none of your business i.e. how much my car cost, sexual stuff etc.
8. Men, flowers are nice if you are trying to make a good impression. Nothing elaborate a simple bud vase will do.
9. Ladies, if you are at a festival or something and you noticed your date has interest in something it is ok to surprise him later with a small trinket from that event.
Have fun…keep things light…don’t act like a pin is stuck in your behind.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
9:40 am

You don’t have to be formal with a shirt and tie

Laaaaaaaaaaaaawd have Mercy!

Is this the 12th grade class prom nite dating do and donts seminar??………………sworry, im in the wrong spot!

:roll: :roll:
:lol: :lol: :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
9:43 am

@Dreams – is go-cart racing as fun as it looks?
blue Every bit. I always have a ball when I go.

Dreams – Where are these cognac tastings held?
kimmie I haven’t been to any in Atlanta, but when I lived in LA they would have them every few months, usually at some estate. I’ve thought about trying to partner with Hennessy or Courvasier to do something similar in Atlanta. I think Atlanta has the demographic to support something like that. Those events were always catered. Would you be up to the task if I could pull it together? ;-)

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
9:43 am

Is this the 12th grade class prom nite

Melo – If somebody gotta tell grown folks how to dress decent for a first date…well I don’t know. I get tired just thinking about it! :lol:

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
9:44 am

“What first date rituals do you go through to increase your chances of being relaxed and ready to charm?”

Well, back in the day I would typically yank one off before the date, so as not to have too much baby batter in my system, clouding my judgment. But, that’s a given. :lol:

Oh yeah… Morning everybody! :lol:

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
9:45 am

Melo,

This is the remedial/corrective actions class—some folks didn’t master it the first time around.

:roll:
:evil:
:grin:

And, if you are honest you know I am telling the truth.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
9:47 am

Dreams – Catering? On a very small scale, absolutely! :)

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
9:52 am

Um, I dig all that (liking a man in khaki’s), but if jeans and a shirt are his style then something gotta give.
Yeah I’m not wearing khakis to if we’re doing the go-cart thing or a short hike up the north georgia waterfalls.

8. Men, flowers are nice if you are trying to make a good impression. Nothing elaborate a simple bud vase will do.
Double D’s I agree, you definitely don’t want to overdo it on this one. A single stem and a little baby’s breath tends to go over just right.

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
9:53 am

“Well, back in the day I would typically yank one off before the date,”

I’m done…that was funny!

Good morning

Rock Steady, Aretha Frankin, is jamming for you nice folks….

abc

July 16th, 2010
9:55 am

I’d usually take them someplace nice to dinner on a first date, but meet them there — that way we both have an escape route. While most first dates motivate one’s best behavior anyway, it was interesting to me to see how they’d be in a relaxed but fairly formal setting. Per yesterday’s “deal breaker” topic, a girl who can’t be presentable in an environment like that was disqualified — not rudely, mind you, just no further invitations. I’m not Rex Harrison, and this isn’t “My Fair Lady”, if you get my drift.

It would backfire on me pretty often, though. Most of the first dates I went on didn’t inspire any real interest in me, so I wouldn’t ask them out again. That bugged a lot of them, I think because they’d never been on dates where the man was nice and polite, treated them well, and didn’t mind to spend a couple of bucks to do it. They figured I must be interested to be that way. I felt bad about that, every time.

There were definitely some odd first dates, though, especially the ones that came from online personals. Online personals proved to not be for me!

Melo

July 16th, 2010
9:55 am

Keep the music volume down. I am not going to shout over Gucci Mane.
3. Keep the music generic I don’t want to hear “Silk” freak me baby. Keep it light and simple.

@Kimmie/DirtyD??

I think the very first thing to recommend is that pple date in their lane.

As a chic u dont want to be waiting for dude and he rolls up ur crib,waiting his car by the kerb,u looking fly and dude is bouncing on his car seat,windows rolled down and he is busy getting down to some gucci Mane..while holding the steering wheel with one hand. U know how they do!! :lol:

some folks didn’t master it the first time around

What have been some of ur worst first date dating moments ladies coz I shudder to imagine that u wld attract guys(at 22 +) who dont know how to dress and behave when they take a girl out on a simple date??

abc

July 16th, 2010
9:57 am

That’s funny, Swiss! I’d forgotten about that… I bet every guy has done that!

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
9:58 am

…north georgia waterfalls.
@DreamsM, I love the north GA waterfalls especially in the spring/fall.

@Swiss™ I thought about you last night, Robin Thicke was on the Mo’Nique show last night. Mo’ told him he had a little black man tucked inside, he corrected her and said,”no I have a big black man tucked inside.” They were talking about his soulful voice, his wife beig featured in his video and the fact that he is married to a sister.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
10:02 am

I think the very first thing to recommend is that pple date in their lane.

Melo,

You make a good point, but a lot of folks don’t know their speed. I was flying down I-75 last night in the fast lane going about 78mph. I had to change lanes repeatedly because some folks drive 50 mph in the fast lane. The point I am making I have seen some educated, well groom men that were not guided early on, AND I know some women that are the same way. Someone did not teach them that social stuff. My daddy told me I could never leave the house going on a date if the guy did not have enough sense to walk to the door. Well I know some educated, sisters that will walk right out of that house and get in that car. smdh

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
10:04 am

abc — Yeah, I’m sure. The key is to do it before you shower. Don’t want to end up with one of those “There’s Something About Mary” situations on your hands…

Dirty D:lol: That’s funny… Although, he’s got to be careful how he phrases that — that’s a statement that could easily be taken out of context to mean something completely different:lol:

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:05 am

As a chic u dont want to be waiting for dude and he rolls up ur crib,

Melo – See that’s the 1st mistake – first date we meet out somewhere. It’ll be a while before you can come to my house.

And yeah, I always date in my lane! No ghetto dudes who can’t dress, blasting the ghetto music. I’ve always gone for the nerd types anyway, who usually play it safe, clotheswise.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
10:05 am

I’ve only received a flower on one first date my whole life. It was a welcome surprise and sort of cute. He had a single rose laying in the car seat for me once I got in. Then we went ice skating in Centennial park…it was a great first date. He got brownie points when he helped to put my skates on as well as helped me take them off when we got done. The date ended as we walked around the park drinking hot chocolate…we even played a little bit on the playground that’s there. Brought out the little kid in us ;-)

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
10:08 am

That’s a nice first date, SlimOne.

@abc/i’m swiss ~ never even crossed my mind that guys did that before the date. Makes sense.

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
10:08 am

“I’ve always gone for the nerd types anyway, who usually play it safe, clotheswise.”

Well, hello there, kimmie. How you doin’? ;-) :lol:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
10:09 am

Good morning Folks, by the way! :-)

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
10:09 am

@Dreams – gotta try that then. wann try paintball too, but admit, a litle scared, i heard those things sting lol.
@Diana – right on with the list. can i just add to that no taking 18 phone calls while we’re out. unless your doctor on call, leave the calls and texting till later please. especially if you feel the need to talk to whoever about our date, not cool while im sitting right there.
@Leggs – went to download my Sheila E yesterday, and my modem was out, gotta wait till tomoroww for them to come fix it :( . so sad in my Sheila E’less world, i wanna play air drums….will settle for Phil Collins-In the Air Tonight….

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:09 am

Well I know some educated, sisters that will walk right out of that house and get in that car.

Diana – They talked about that on Micheal Baisden yesterday. The subject was “My son/daughter is dating a thug/hootchie and I don’t approve”. This lady called in, 20 yrs old, and said her mom didn’t like her boyfriend. She said dude used to pull up to the house and blow the horn! And she would go! Micheal & George told her don’t she EVER tolerate that type of behavior again.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
10:10 am

@Slim

Was there a second date? 3rd?

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:12 am

Just fine, Swiss! With yo fine, smart self! :lol:

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:15 am

Slim – That sounds perfect!

I got flowers on the first date once in my life also – my SO brought 3 pink roses! My favorite and I had not told him!

Yes, I knew then things would probably work out well!

Melo

July 16th, 2010
10:17 am

@Leggs!

I never did..not consciously like that.

Ofcourse My God always took care of me smetimes as I slept,dreaming and waking up with slimmy jelly all over my nethers. :roll: :shock:

Nice feeling if u remained asleep but never good but messy when u suddenly woke up nutting,only to find out how the gods have fooled U! :lol: :lol:

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
10:18 am

swizzie…your 944a. NEEDED the laugh. Thanks!

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
10:19 am

Melo,

I will say the theme from my worst dates came from guys trying to hard and being too formal. I have more funny moments than worst date moments.

Funny moment I went out for sushi with this guy. He played like he loved sushi, and it was a hot day and I just wanted something light. Well I order sushi and iced tea…he ordered a drink and some sushi. When the order came I used my chopsticks and he tried to use his chopsticks…he eventually used the fork. I could tell he was out of his element and I tried to make him comfortable. Anyway he started to spread the wasabi on his sushi…I mean a lot. I said, you must really like that wasabi it is very spicy…he said I like spicy. Well he put the sushi in his mouth and he looked like a cartoon turning hot, drinking everything on the table…when it was over he said YOU KNOW I DON’T EAT THIS STUFF WHY DIDN’T YOU STOP ME!!!! I laughed so hard and we had a good time and went out for a long time…he was able to rebound and we did not take it serious.

M. (pronouced M dot)

July 16th, 2010
10:22 am

The 1st dates go wrong because of one word wise mentioned in the post. IMPRESS!

Guys,

You dont have to impress these women. Be yourself and go with the flow. Also you have to have the attitude that if she is not feeling you, something must be wrong with her, so if it does not go well, dont beat yourself up about it.

1. A good first date should be a cool laid back, NON-FRANCHISE restaurant/establishment. Instead of taking her to Chilis, Applebees, Starbucks, take her to that cool coffee shop that has a mellow vibe or a cool place in a different part of town. You want to show her youre different.

2. Let the conversation flow and you the guy direct the conversation. Ask questions that make her appear interesting and you to appear interested.

3. Go somewhere fun to get them more relaxed, an arcade would be perfect!

4. Lastly avoid any crass inuendos, off color jokes, assumptions, stereotypes, etc. It should be fun and light hearted.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:24 am

Guys,

You dont have to impress these women.

Women,

You don’t have to impress these guys! :lol:

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
10:28 am

Okay so,

Is this Ozzie and Harriet? Is the first date the beginning of the rest of our lives? Does this impact our children? Future generations? The environment?

Or is it a chance to figure out whether you’re meeting a friend, or someone that you may want a deeper connection to?

I mean really, to put more thought into a first date than you would any other event is slightly silly. If the vibe is right, whatever you do on a first date will likely be “cute” in looking back on it anyway.

Just DTM

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
10:29 am

Blue-yes I agree about the phone calls unless you are a doctor.

Kimmie-My daddy would have pulled me back in that house, and my mom would have fainted. I learned early on a man or boy must pick you up at the door.

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
10:29 am

@kimmie ~ I was listening to the show yesterday. I find it extremely disrespectful to honk your horn and not come to the door to pick up your date and say hello the parents. If anyone is taking my child out, you best believe they will be ringing my doorbell and walking her to the car and walking her back to the door after the date (that is when she starts dating).

I had a first date at a poolhall. I had a blast. Lo key, nice music and good drinks.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
10:30 am

@DirtyD..10.19??

as young male adults, I will say that those are some of the pressures we face(d)..trying to impress a chic by appearing to know and like everything that she does for fear that if we are honest,we will lose her.

I remember dating a chic and asking her out even when i knew i didnt have enough money for the two of us and then suggesting to go to a favrte restraunt that the young ones of our age particualy liked.

The pressure of not having enough money to wiggle with is really a muth*)&%$#@! Sometimes I would just get to the place well ahead and wait and then lie that Im done eating coz i was really hungry and just order for her.

What can u do when u want a chic so so bad?? :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
10:30 am

Wowwwww.

First date flowers are a rarity?
First dates at the movies?
Dudes blowing their horns outside?
Cats showing up in a tuxedo and top hat to go to the Decatur Arts Festival?

We seriously have to raise the bar.

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
10:32 am

She said dude used to pull up to the house and blow the horn! And she would go!

:shock:

czBrat ... in a 3 year engagement

July 16th, 2010
10:33 am

GM All!

the brat is treating herself to a much needed long weekend because the stress of work & home issues were about to make me POP!!! i’m hoping that some quiet time and a day with my mama will get me right as rain.

anywho … on topic: i’ve not had any bad first dates, but i would advise the singles out there to avoid doing the age-old movie bit. you have to be able to talk in order to get to know each other. like DD said; keep it light, do something fun, chillax and enjoy the moment.

been sitting here checking out a few episodes of a show called ‘the locator’. had never heard of it before. apparently this guy is an expert at finding people. all i can say is, these moments of folks finding long-lost family members has me close to tears … and ya’ll know i don’t do mushy! :cry:

carry on.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:34 am

Leggs/Diana – Yeah, my parents did not play that mess! They wouldn’t have allowed me to leave the house if he honked. Folks knew better than to roll up to my parents house raggedy like that anyway – it starts with the parents. They should command respect first and that extends to the daughters. Dudes know early on those they can get away with that mess with and those they have to come correct with.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
10:35 am

Dan in real life – yes there was a second date…we went to the movies and dinner. The guy was a bit on the CONCEITED/ARROGANT side so that was short-lived. He would constantly talk about himself and once we were watching a movie at his spot, someone was blowing up his phone. He told me I should answer it and tell the chick to quit calling..and he went on to say that if someone was blowing up my phone, that he would answer it too. I’m like WHOA, Slow your roll kimo sabie…you won’t be answering my phone, especially not at this juncture. But back to the ‘constantly talking about himself deal’…i even did a little experiment once. We were on the phone for about 40 minutes and not once did he really ask me anything about me. That whole 40minutes he talked about himself. :roll:

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
10:38 am

Dan – cosigning 1028a.

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
10:39 am

@blue ~ Phil Collins is a good. Su Susudio has a great beat. Put that behind Shelia E and rock on!

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
10:39 am

@Slim

Good that you found that out, and I like the experiment…

@Dreams

Yeah, unfortunately, flowers on first date is corny these days. Sending flowers on a Tuesday to woman you like – not so much.

But flowers and tuxedo’s on a first date are both on the other side of “trying too hard” (differing degrees though).

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
10:40 am

Leggs — That little pre-date ritual can help a dude out in a couple of ways:

1) If you’re not sure whether you’re going to get some (at least on this date) it can help prevent you from acting too thirsty & killing your chances of ever getting some.

2) If you do get some, it will help you last longer & improve your chances of getting more in the future.

:lol:

This is knowledge every young dude should have…

Kym

July 16th, 2010
10:41 am

@Dreams I am glad you said festival..I think I am going to head downtown this weekend to Centennial Park and check out the music and artist Market for National Black Arts Festival.

Kimmy

July 16th, 2010
10:41 am

Hi,
Keep it simple. First dates should be a time to get to see and know the person better. I usually suggest either we go to his favorite place or opt to try something we have both wanted to try. Either way I spend my time on these dates observing their attitude, how they treat people they encounter and how they treat me. I have had disaster dates, but we laughed so much about it when we told people about the date that it was hilarious.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
10:43 am

@Swiss

Yes, knowledge that every dude should have…

Man stop! Next thing you know you’ll be telling ‘em about….

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
10:46 am

Kym festival is always a winner.

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
10:48 am

Oops, my bad, Dan — You know since I’ve left the game & move up into the commentator’s booth, I just can’t keep my mouth shut about all the inside info… I’ll lock it down… ;-) :lol:

Steven Q. Stanley

July 16th, 2010
10:48 am

Blowing off a second date because the first date did not go well is a great way to ensure you die alone. You know what, when two people go out the first time, it is usually going to be awkward, it’s just the way it is. If you go out with a guy and the first date is a little too perfect, he is probably a player.

Not saying first dates can’t be great, but sometimes they are going to be awkward because one party is shy, nervous, or whatever. You can miss out on a quality mate by being upset the first date didn’t go great. A lot of women have these unrealistic ideas of telling their granddaughters how awesome their first date with their grandfather was, and if it wasn’t perfect, they have to move on. Well guess what ladies, if you wait until 50 to get married you aren’t going to have nay grand kids.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
10:49 am

@Swiss??

Is that ritual something that uall wld talk about openly with ur buddy friends??

In my situation,culturally,thats smething we wld clown somebody(friend etc) about if we heard or knew they did it..something that “loser dudes”,who cannot score on gerlz, would do…..

hmmmmmmm..this world????

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:50 am

Yeah, unfortunately, flowers on first date is corny these days.

Personally, I appreciate flowers any time!

Most ladies I know would appreciate the gesture and not find it corny at all. Unless she just doesn’t know any better.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
10:51 am

She said dude used to pull up to the house and blow the horn! And she would go!

WTH – if parking the car to meet me at my door is a waste of time for you, keep on driving. horns are for emergenciess and road rage, not first dates.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
10:51 am

Well guess what ladies, if you wait until 50 to get married you aren’t going to have nay grand kids.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

what a pick up from the pause button of yesterday!

Kym

July 16th, 2010
10:51 am

Happy Friday Grim Reaper!!(I mean Stanley Q)

@Dreams oh I love a festival..I swear I don’t make enough money to support all my habits.

Run4Life

July 16th, 2010
10:52 am

@Slim ‘he went on to say that if someone was blowing up my phone, that he would answer it too. I’m like WHOA, Slow your roll kimo sabie…you won’t be answering my phone’

So funny!!!

abc

July 16th, 2010
10:52 am

BS, Steven Q Stanley. If you’re not into them, you just aren’t into them. It doesn’t really matter if the reasons why are rational, emotional, chemical, real or imagined. There is no reason to waste your time and theirs.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:52 am

You only have 1 time to make a good first impression.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
10:53 am

@Melo – lol, anybody come up with a theme song or catchphrase for the Capn (Stanley)?

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
10:54 am

This is knowledge every young dude should have…
Yeah swiss but it seems the women are saying there’s a different kind of dude out there now. Apparently, dudes now are rolling up on their bicycles wearing swim trunks, honking the squeeky horn, and making chics ride on the handle bars.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
10:55 am

I humored, (and I mean humored :lol: ) that mess yesterday. But not today.

This is a fun topic and I hope we keep it fun.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
10:56 am

@Kimmie

That axiom hasn’t been proven.

You can make a good impression on the 14th time seeing a person. You can make a whole bunch of bad impressions first though.

Kym

July 16th, 2010
10:57 am

Oh my goodness Russell Gunn will be at the park tomorrow. I love him..dang gone..I am going to have to miss him this time cause I am not..going to leave my house Saturday.

abc

July 16th, 2010
10:58 am

Here’s my own personal theme song:

I was a mean old man
I was an ornery cuss
I was a dismal dan
I made an awful fuss
Ever since my life began
Man, it was ever thus
I was a nasty tyke who was hard to like

I had to misbehave
I did things in reverse
Refused to wash or shave
I was horrid to my nurse
I got back what I gave
Which only made me worse
I had to have my way
Which was bleak and gray

Who gets a second chance?
Who gets to have some fun?
Who gets to learn to dance
Before his race is run?
Who gets to shed his skin?
Who comes up born again?
Who was a mean old man
’til you turned him into a golden retriever puppy dog

Please

July 16th, 2010
10:58 am

@STeven Q-Blowing off a second date because the first date did not go well is a great way to ensure you die alone——–Man–cough—sorry wrong word 4 u— there u go again. YOU ARE GOING TO DIE ALONE NO MATTER WHAT UNLESS YOU KILL HER ALONG WITH YOURSELF, I wouldnt be suprise if you did because you sound real CRAZY. Please SEEK HELP

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:00 am

Dan – There is only one first time tho.

I meant it really tongue-in-cheek. I’ve given quite a few 2nd, 3rd & beyond chances to make a good impression and I know I’ve been given the same courtesy. We’re all human. :)

Please

July 16th, 2010
11:01 am

STEVEN Q Well guess what ladies, if you wait until 50 to get married you aren’t going to have nay grand kids….. Not all women want kids let along grandkids, how delusional u are, lol.

czBrat ... in a 3 year engagement

July 16th, 2010
11:02 am

awwww. abc, i like that! what’s it from?

Please

July 16th, 2010
11:02 am

@ABC—-BS, Steven Q Stanley. If you’re not into them, you just aren’t into them. It doesn’t really matter if the reasons why are rational, emotional, chemical, real or imagined. There is no reason to waste your time and theirs…THANK YOU ABC- A REAL MAN SPEAKS.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:05 am

If you’re not into them, you just aren’t into them. It doesn’t really matter if the reasons why are rational, emotional, chemical, real or imagined. There is no reason to waste your time and theirs.

Bears repeating!!

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
11:08 am

@abc – i like your theme song :)

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
11:10 am

I don’t go into a first date expecting it to be perfect…matter of fact, I don’t go with an expectation to begin with as to not add more nervous energy to the date. I assume the dude will at least be respectful but if he isn’t, then the first date becomes the last date. ;-)

Run4life – the dude is hilarious…he’ll text me from time to time seeing if I want to meet for a drink or so. But recently he asked me about hanging out with him and I told him I wasn’t sure. He came back with: Well let me know soon because I don’t want to double book. :lol: He cracks me up. I told him if he already had something more definite, then he should go with that because I’m just a possible. (Felt like I was playing a hand of spades. lol) He even found that funny.

My cousin told me a friend of hers went out on a date with a dude. They live 45 minutes apart so the guy drove to her side of town. After they went wherever they ended up going, buddy was trying to spend the night. So of course the chick was like, Hayo naw…so he left and went home. The next time they spoke he said he needed to talk to her. He said he asked all his friend their opinion and went on to say he couldn’t believe he made him drive all the way back home after going out and didn’t give him any bootay. :shock:

So is the going rate for puddy dinner and a movie these days?

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
11:12 am

Yeah, unfortunately, flowers on first date is corny these days.
Dan, kimmie The single stem Oriental Lilly hasn’t failed me yet. Of course, I admit to being a little corny in some ways. Can’t be Biily D all the time. lol

Dreams oh I love a festival..I swear I don’t make enough money to support all my habits.
Kym I tell myself this all the time. Festivals can definitely eat up your money. So will estate sales.

Kym

July 16th, 2010
11:14 am

@Dreams…ohhh man!! Estate Sales(Yard Sales for wealthy people) now I might leave the house for one of those this weekend. >>nope got to be strong..wont even watch QVC..(naww no need to lie)

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:15 am

Dreams – I don’t find it corny at all, was just responding to Dan. And yeah, I and most women I know would be absolutely giddy if a dude showed up with an Oriental Lilly!

Billy D all the way! :)

Melo

July 16th, 2010
11:15 am

@Slim??

but u cant blame dude for playing spades with u coz u played spades with him to begin with..I told him I wasn’t sure

what is a dude supposed to do if u tell him something as indefinitive as that…..??

Chicks uall funny for real..the hand u gave him is the hand he played u…..

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
11:15 am

Wow Swiss/Abc – LOL. I’d have never guessed that one.

So far, first dates have usually been basic for me…movies, dinner, game places (I can’t think of what to call places where you play pool, putt putt or the like)

I’ve not needed to dress up on a first date yet.

Dates have usually been more elaborate after we’ve decided to go forward.

Guess I’ve been missing out on the action. :sad:

Run4Life

July 16th, 2010
11:15 am

@Slim.

I know, right?? Guys believe they are the only ones that got it going on. I think they truly believe that we are waiting around for them to call us, and we jump at every opportunity. No thanks…I can buy my own dinner and movie.

Really show me that you are interested and things are different this time around. Pursue me…you know, follow, chase, hunt, trail, etc.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
11:18 am

@Dreams – Lilys are my faavvorite, stick with the lilys
@Slim – loved your ice skating date, so simply yet it stands out. but this mess with the double booking, id have the same answer, dont let me keep you. and can you stay the night, on our first date, ok, that just tells me what you think of me…

czBrat

July 16th, 2010
11:18 am

Slim, that guy is ridiculous and his friends are azzes too. what grown up is actually expecting sex as a reward for an evening out? and as for the dude you dated, sounds like that ‘test’ approach we’ve talked about. he’s trying to see if a little competition will get you to bite. LOL

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:19 am

Slim – The 45-mile dude – ridiculous! smh

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
11:19 am

So is the going rate for puddy dinner and a movie these days?
Slim Actually, it’s dinner, a movie, AND a 30+ minute drive. If you live down the street, then you have to do dinner and a movie 2 times. :-)

abc

July 16th, 2010
11:21 am

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:22 am

@Dreams

I had to google oriental Lilly, who is you dating that would know what that is?

We need to hang out buddy, Ion know no chicks like that…

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:28 am

I liked ABC’s poem.

First date? Easy.
Meet at venue, no pick up or drive bys.
Light/easy conversation, fun things about you/him or her.
Somewhere fun and enjoyable
Everybody stay upright….no horizontal nothing.
No grouch/negativity.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
11:32 am

Melo – i’m not blaming dude for playing spades with me at all. So I think you were mistaken when you assumed that I cared. lol I didn’t type all the minor details of our conversation but in response to your post….OTAY ;-) Whenever a dude is last minute all the time on asking you to do something, you best believe you were not his first choice. We know where each other stands and it’s definitely not on the active batters list. More like the injured reserves… :lol:

‘Actually, it’s dinner, a movie, AND a 30+ minute drive. If you live down the street, then you have to do dinner and a movie 2 times’

Dreams – you have me cracking up! :lol: You know how they have those little wallet sized tip cards that show you if your bill is X amount then your tip should be Y…well I guess you need to mail me one for the DATE to ARSE calculations card.

DATE
Coffee/drinks = church hug
Dinner = reverse church hug & a kiss
Dinner & Movie = hand job while in theater or afterwards on ride home
Dinner,Movie, & Drinks = Tonsilectomy
Dinner,Special event, drinks = back seat of my jeep action
Vacation = PUDDY-Free-for-ALL Black Card

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:32 am

He said he asked all his friend their opinion and went on to say he couldn’t believe he made him drive all the way back home after going out and didn’t give him any bootay

Amazing! You gotta now give out azz because somebody drive 45 minutes out of their way?

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
11:34 am

“1) If you’re not sure whether you’re going to get some (at least on this date) it can help prevent you from acting too thirsty & killing your chances of ever getting some.”

I appreciate what you’re saying and again it makes sense. BUT, it seems like you’re saying if one doesn’t pre-cum, controlling the “horny” factor is difficult to do. Sorry, I had to laugh at the visual of a man twitching in his pants being all fidgety. Is this really hard for men to do! :wink:

@Melo ~ was in the elevator when this guy asked about my workload today and if I was able to help him. Told him I had a lot to do, that I was getting a stomach ache. He said “well, the angst of having a lot of work to do on a Friday may contribute to your stomach ache.” I laughed out loud and he looked puzzled. Had to tell him I know someone who uses the word “angst” often!!

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:34 am

I had to google oriental Lilly, who is you dating that would know what that is?

Dan – They were used in my youngest brother’s wedding. I see them in nicer floral arrangements.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:36 am

@Slim/Lurker

Now really, if dude had said “meet me half way”, then he’s either cheap or don’t wanna ‘chase’.

So he makes the (required) extra effort to drive 45 minutes one way and then can’t get no love? An offer to the couch? Something?

Y’all are killin me…

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
11:37 am

It’s lurker…the funny part was the fact he went back to discuss with his boys if he was crazy to feel shafted for not getting any arse. He said all his friends agreed that she was wrong for making him go back home with blue ballz.

Fellas, do you REALLY expect to get some on a first date?

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
11:38 am

Off Topic – I’ve been telling this chick that I play softball with that I would hang out with her for drinks sometime. Now that she’s actually texted me and asked me to hang out this weekend, I’m realizing that I don’t actually like her enough to spend time with her outside of softball.

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:39 am

Ummm, halfway? Azz? Halfway? Azz. I’ll take the “meet me halfway” Alec.

Heck no. No love on the first day….cause you drove 45 minutes. Heck I’d rather just give you some ON THE FIRST DATE cause I like you. But not cause I’m obligated cause you drove for a date in which you participated as well.

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:40 am

Dan – my 11:39 was for you :)

Slim – It’s getting cwazier by the minute

Rick James

July 16th, 2010
11:40 am

Fck yo’ couch!

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:40 am

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
11:41 am

‘Now really, if dude had said “meet me half way”, then he’s either cheap or don’t wanna ‘chase’’

Dan – I am perfectly fine with MEETING the dude at the spot we plan to go to OR meet up with him at some location then ride with him on to our destination. There isn’t really much to do in Conyers so i don’t expect a dude to drive out to timbucktoo just to turn around back towards the city, THEN have to bring me back that way. So if I can drive to meet up with a dude at, lets say, Atlantic Station and is able to make it back to my crib…then a grown azz man can drive 45 mins for a date, then take his butt back home afterwards without the expectation that you gonna spend the night. Just sayin’

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:41 am

Fellas, do you REALLY expect to get some on a first date?

Slim – The less-impressive dudes do I guess, especially since some women have set the bar so for the rest of the ladies out here.

:shock: smh

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:42 am

@SC

Go on the date…

@Lurker

I figured. And that’s prolly the reason he went home with desert d@@#k, she’en like him.

abc

July 16th, 2010
11:43 am

Well, first dates where I didn’t get some, I always thought it was because I didn’t want it. Plenty of first dates, I did. I can’t say I expected it, but I didn’t expect not to, either. A few times a chick would tell me “I was starting to think you never would!”. For the most part, I always found the girl to be pretty much ready even before I was.

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
11:43 am

The DATE!?!?! Huh???
Methinks you misread my post.

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:44 am

He either misread or changing topics..LOL

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:45 am

“she’en like him.”

That works

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
11:46 am

@SexyCool – lmao, how you gonna get out of that one?
@its lurker – agreed, obligated? makes it seem more like that probation period when you start a new job than a date.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
11:46 am

Fellas, do you REALLY expect to get some on a first date?

@Slim??

depends on how u appeared to him??

and a guy can only ask!

45 minutes tho aint that much of a drive….it takes me about 35 minutes to work,in good traffic..so an extra ten minutes?? i cant expect no bootey for that unless from jump, when we met,u were smelling of and dressed like a wang and puddsy smoothie! :lol: :lol:

@Leggs LOL

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:46 am

No “he” didn’t

You’re playing softball with another woman, she asks you out for drinks? What do you think that is? Keep in mind that it is 2010….

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
11:48 am

blue730 – I just texted her back and told her that I’m off alcohol for the rest of this month because I’m trying to reach a weight loss goal (which is the truth).

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
11:48 am

Well, first dates where I didn’t get some, I always thought it was because I didn’t want it. Plenty of first dates, I did. I can’t say I expected it, but I didn’t expect not to, either. A few times a chick would tell me “I was starting to think you never would!”. For the most part, I always found the girl to be pretty much ready even before I was.

Every bit of this is funny to me and seems slightly unbelievable. I know all women aren’t saints, but I can’t imagine women throwing it out everywhichaway being the norm.

Not saying that you’re saying it’s the norm, but that’s how it reads on my end.

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
11:49 am

LMAO – Dan, *YOU* stoopid.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
11:50 am

SexyCool ??

how about telling her that ull be out with your Dude this weekend..u kill two birds with one stone in case shes a switch hitter.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:51 am

Dan – That’s the misadventures of living in Atlanta. EVERYTHING is probably 45 minutes away, depending where you live & where you’re going. Heck, I WISH my commute to work was just 45 minutes away! So no, it’s not like dude had to walk 10 miles in the snow! Even then, it would have been his choice.

A stand-up, classy(Oriental lillie bringing) dude isn’t going to expect a woman to put out on the first date just because he drove 45 minutes or 2 hours and yall know it. He had the choice of either driving 45 minutes or keeping his dating options around the corner if he’s that tired. And yeah, unless he’s stuck in a snowstorm, uh, no couch either.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
11:51 am

‘Well, first dates where I didn’t get some, I always thought it was because I didn’t want it’

abc – I’m not exactly why but this is hilarious…lol

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:52 am

@Melo

UNless she wants to play on that team…what part of 2010 aren’t y’all getting?

Melo

July 16th, 2010
11:53 am

For the most part, I always found the girl to be pretty much ready even before I was.

@abc??

were these prostitutes,loose women or upstanding chics ur age coming outta good homes??

Melo

July 16th, 2010
11:54 am

what part of 2010 aren’t y’all getting?

@Dan..

I miss the qstion…UNless she wants to play on that team are u quoting me here?? I never typed that??

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
11:55 am

abc/melo/fellas

What are reasons that you would pass on poking the puddy?…especially if the chick is obvious with it.

Purple Rain

July 16th, 2010
11:55 am

Just finished a round, the wife is at the Spa and my employer thinks that I am working from home. LOL, no just checking emails to give the impression that I am. :)

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
11:56 am

Luvbug – your 11:48 – I agree.

But yet, we have such an “air” about ourselves at times!

smh

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
11:57 am

blue 7/30 – makes it seem more like that probation period when you start a new job than a date.

Exactly

abc

July 16th, 2010
11:59 am

Slim, it brings to mind the chick who told me all about her and her kids’ arrest and prison records, then inviting me to her place. She turned one way and I turned the other coming out of that parking lot. Or one where she was really pretty and sweet, just not my type personality-wise, and I thought it’d be wrong to take advantage. Lots of times, a man just plain doesn’t want it from a first date — especially from a first date! The illegal immigrant from Chile that had someone else pretend she was her until we actually met was a doll, but I didn’t want to deal with her immigration status — that’s probably the biggest online fraud I encountered. The bombshell from the gym that couldn’t stop talking about herself was just a turnoff, it wouldn’t have been worth having to listen to her talk that much more. There are lots of reasons why.

Purple Rain

July 16th, 2010
11:59 am

Slim, If she were trying to just put it on me, I jut would not want it. I like to the first time to feel like some sort of achievement by me, not a gift or mandate.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
11:59 am

Kimmie – It may be true. I’m learning day by day that the norm on this blog is somewhat different than what I experience in my life. I’m obviously disconnected. LOL

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
11:59 am

@melo

Unless she wants to “play on the team” [of SC and her guy]….come on man!

@Kimmie

If she can expect, hope for, flowers; I can have my expectations too. Nah!

@Slim

She’s either not cute, breaf stank, or the dude hasn’t had enough alcohol….<– only 3 reasons

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
12:00 pm

Melo — In case you haven’t noticed, I have no shame. So, yeah, I’d discuss that w/ pretty much anyone & they can think whatever they want… ;-) :lol:

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:01 pm

it brings to mind the chick who told me all about her and her kids’ arrest and prison records, then inviting me to her place. She turned one way and I turned the other coming out of that parking lot.

LOL

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
12:01 pm

If she can expect, hope for, flowers; I can have my expectations too.

Melo – Then he needs to KEEP HOPE ALIVE! :lol:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:02 pm

What are reasons that you would pass on poking the puddy?…especially if the chick is obvious with it.

@SlimOne??

I wld not poke a prositute’s puddy unless I initiated the transaction…condsider that in the same vein with a chic I am with…..

I personally wld want to poke the puddy that I pursued and gave indications first that I wanted it and then got the affirmitive response….

Anything unsolicited and downright given on a platter to me is suspicious,no matter that she was as genuinely thirsty as I was…..

If she is my girlfriend,thats different.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:04 pm

@SC – good one…side note – dropping the alcohol really works for yuor diet? ive heard thats plenty of empty calories, but am partial to me peach margaritas and tequila shots when we head out….

speaking of heading out, anybody know a good pool hall? my pool cue is gathering dust……

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
12:04 pm

I’m learning day by day that the norm on this blog is somewhat different than what I experience in my life. I’m obviously disconnected. LOL

Luvbug – Girl, naw, I bet a lot of this is probably wishful thinking!

But yeah, I guess I’m disconnected too! And don’t feel a bit bad about it!LOL!

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
12:06 pm

@7/30

It’s a joint on Peachtree right by the military surplus store, can’t think of the name.

CoolShadow

July 16th, 2010
12:07 pm

What is the art of a great first date in your book?

Engaging in simple activities in which you can interact with your date to confirm your initial impression and to see if there will be a second date. Avoid high-cost entertainment if possible to minimize your frustration should the date not go well. Strike a balance by not coming off as a cheapskate but not flossing like you’re a trust fund baby.

What should you absolutely avoid on a first date?

Movies unless it’s one you both want to see. If it’s dinner & a movie, do the movie first so you can discuss the movie afterwards. Also, don’t make the event too exotic if the person doesn’t reflect the openness to your activity, i.e., if she’s a strict chicken & waffles girl you might want to reconsider that Mediterranean restaurant.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:08 pm

@Dan..i hear u..maybe Scool shldnt be close minded about it either….good fun! :lol:

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:10 pm

It’s a joint on Peachtree right by the military surplus store, can’t think of the name

blue 7/30 – I think it’s Barley’s Billiards….check the net though to be certain

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:10 pm

@abc – lmao, thought this one was bad enuf “the chick who told me all about her and her kids’ arrest and prison records, then inviting me to her place”, but “The illegal immigrant from Chile that had someone else pretend she was her “, too funny…
@luvbug@kimmie – if this stuff is the norm, im too scared of being single again….think id get left in the dust with the old cat ladies…

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
12:11 pm

Avoid high-cost entertainment if possible to minimize your frustration should the date not go well.

This is a great suggestion, Coolshadow!

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:12 pm

Pool…”Corner Tavern” or Midtown Corner Tavern….corner of Huff and Ellington Blvd. Downstairs underneath Condos. It’s a’ight

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:12 pm

blue-7/30 ??

which side of town u on?

abc

July 16th, 2010
12:13 pm

Yeah, that Chilean girl was hot, too! If she’d just have been honest, and legal, we probably could have gotten along just fine. I’d have taught her English. :-)

I think that’s one reason she had someone else pose as her, online and on the phone — she was self-conscious about her English skills.

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
12:13 pm

While I am aware that there are *many* butch chicks that play softball. This chick is not bi or gay – at least not from any vibe that I get.

I played in an extra game with one of her teams a few weeks ago and she said that she owed me a drink for coming out and at the time, I said yes. I changed my mind. That is all.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
12:16 pm

blue – I think it might be more prevalent than yesteryears, but not the norm at all for those with class. Class never goes out of style.

But yeah, if that was the expectation of all I met, definitely would have to go the cat(or goldfish) route! :lol:

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:16 pm

blue-7/30

I’ve been to two places, but my suggestions wouldn’t be of much help.

— One was a pool hall on West Peachtree (I think…I remember it being in that area), but I can’t remember the name of it. It was adequate.

— Another was a bowling alley that offered pool out in the boonies somewhere. Don’t remember the location of that one either. It was the same…adequate.

I am bad with locations. I’m a chronic passenger.

abc

July 16th, 2010
12:16 pm

…she’d leave me VM like “ABC, why you no call? You no like me?” That’s the part of first dates I really, really didn’t like, was women who would want a second date, and I’d have to let them down. I got really tired of that. Online dating was especially low percentage as far as wanting 2nd dates, the main reason I gave up on that in fairly short order.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:19 pm

Barley’s Billiards!!

It’s me – Thanks. That’s the name of the first place I was trying to remember.

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:20 pm

Who schedule conference calls at lunch time? If I didn’t think my manager was somewhere watching from NC, I’d drop this call.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:20 pm

@its lurker – I know where Barleys is, always thought ti was just a restaurant tho, gotta see
@melo – im southbound, clayton co way
@luvbug – chronic passenger, lol

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:21 pm

Luvbug, sometimes I walk on my lunchbreak and if I’m REALLY walking 2 or 3 miles, I often pass that plac. Some of the guys here though hang out there…they seem to like.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
12:22 pm

For some reason when I read abc’s 11:43 I pictured him looking like an older Alfred Neuman

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_E._Neuman

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:22 pm

@abc??

was online partly the reason why u were scoring on first dates all the time??

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:22 pm

blue – check it out…they like it here.

That Corner Tavern is fairly new. I’ve gone. There’s always a nice crowd starting Thursday through Sunday

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:23 pm

@abc??

100 % batting average :lol:

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
12:23 pm

blue – Yeah, alcohol is a diet killer. Crazy calories and then the way it metabolizes in your system….not a good idea when you’re in super serious fitness mode.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:24 pm

@its lurker – im more familiar with the Army store (they have handcuffs for me ;) , and U.S.M.C stuff for the mr), but Barleys does seem to be pretty popular

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:24 pm

im southbound, clayton co way

@Blue??

sworry,cant help u….. :lol: :lol:

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:25 pm

“ABC, why you no call? You no like me?”

Stop it abc. Just stop it!! LOL

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:26 pm

blue – handcuffs eh?

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
12:30 pm

abc – I remember awhile back you dismissed it when the topic was online dating. Kinda looked down your nose at it. Most of the time you come on like you have such high moral standards – won’t even watch Tiger or other scandalized sports figures because of their loose standards.

Yeah, just what I thought.

abc

July 16th, 2010
12:30 pm

Melo, it did seem like all the online dates were ready to go on the first date, yes. I only did the online thing for a couple months, 10-12 chicks. But it’s always been my experience that there was never any hesitation on the part of chicks on first dates, online or not. I remember one who said, “but you won’t respect me if I do!”, and I said, “hey, I don’t respect you now!”. Bingo.

That one was a long, long time ago! I would sometimes tend to go on rampages in my younger days.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:30 pm

it’s me – Yeah, I enjoyed myself when I went…casual…easy environment…and the person I went with was both casual and easy to be around, so it was a win win.

It wasn’t crowded when I went though. I imagine it can swing slightly uncomfortable if the crowd is too big and unknown…but that’s me.

CoCo

July 16th, 2010
12:31 pm

@Dan – for Mr. Grumpy – Happy Friday!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FlLH-WmAvc

abc

July 16th, 2010
12:31 pm

Kimmie, I’d say that I don’t comment much on things I don’t know anything about. I was a mean old man, I was an ornery cuss.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:33 pm

@its lurker – can do all kinds of fun things with them, gotta be the steel ones tho, those rubber things are cr@ppy.
had to replace mine last year after some crazy stole mine. bad enuf they took my Wii and my laptop, but who steals handcuffs out of the master bedroom? just ewwww

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:33 pm

Luvbug – No crowds for me either. Too uncomfortable.

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
12:35 pm

Interesting assessment @12:30 Kimmie…I was thinking along those lines,too.

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:36 pm

just ewwww

I know right…he probably smoked them. My welcome mat was missing from my porch and I said, they probably rolled it up and smoked it and my daughter fell out. I say that to everything cause only crackheads(not literally) steal.

No hand cuffies here….don’t like feeling chained (no pun)…LOL

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:36 pm

@abc – I remember one who said, “but you won’t respect me if I do!”, and I said, “hey, I don’t respect you now!”. – what was her expression then, cause i can imagine anyone overhearing you burst out laughing

Melo

July 16th, 2010
12:37 pm

@abc…..10-12 online chicks??

:evil:

Daaamn, u waz a player abc!!!

how many u score on land(onshore) be4 u got the current??

CoolShadow

July 16th, 2010
12:37 pm

What are reasons that you would pass on poking the puddy?…especially if the chick is obvious with it.

@ SlimOne

Although from a utopian standpoint that may seem like it would be great for first dates, the reality is that it would throw up my suspicions, especially if there was no mutually sensual vibing going on. If her persona reads needy and stalker-like, then I’m not taking the bait.

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:38 pm

blue – satin scarf maybe

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:38 pm

@its lurker – lol. once i got over being angry, just had to laugh tho, cause i still have the keys, have fun with those dumb@ss!!!

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
12:38 pm

had to replace mine last year after some crazy stole mine. bad enuf they took my Wii and my laptop, but who steals handcuffs out of the master bedroom?

Dayum where they do that at?…

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
12:38 pm

remember awhile back you dismissed it when the topic was online dating. Kinda looked down your nose at it.

@Kimmie I remember that, but I did not want to say anything.

@abc lately you have been talking out your mouth and both sides of your neck. I guess if you blog long enough the truth comes out!

wassup sasssssssssssssssssssssssy

abc

July 16th, 2010
12:39 pm

Blue, she laughed, and it was on.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:39 pm

I hate to say it, but that crossed my mind too kimmie. How does a person who presents himself so poshly attract such an ‘interesting’ bag of women?

Hell, I’m not hoity-toity, but I have yet attracted a street roamer or real life thug. I’ve not specifically turned them away. They don’t even approach. They look and be like, “Heyal naw. I’ll pass on her”. :lol:

I can’t say that reflects good or bad on me, but how’d he end up in dating scenario with these folks?

For Real

July 16th, 2010
12:39 pm

What is the art of a great first date in your book? – DAA: Drug, Achcohol and a good Alibi

Sex on the first date? – See above

What should you absolutely avoid on a first date? – Running out of gas while driving the get-a-way vehicle

What are reasons that you would pass on poking the puddy?…especially if the chick is obvious with it. – If I believe she is going to cause me problems afterwards. I try to avoid those chicks with the Jesus-Cudda Cat.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:40 pm

@its lurker got those too ;)

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
12:41 pm

Jesus-Cudda Cat

Please explain

abc

July 16th, 2010
12:41 pm

Now, how can I say anything about online dating if I’ve never done it myself? I think it’s a drag because that’s my experience. What a zoo. It’s shopping for people in an online catalog, only you wind up with sweater when you ordered a golf shirt. False advertising.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:43 pm

who steals handcuffs out of the master bedroom? just ewwww

Yeah – That’s crazy!!

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
12:44 pm

Hell, I’m not hoity-toity, but I have yet attracted a street roamer or real life thug. I’ve not specifically turned them away. They don’t even approach. They look and be like, “Heyal naw. I’ll pass on her”.

luvbug – Same here, sister!

Dudes know

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:45 pm

@Sassy – clayton co! lol, one of the reasons mr.blue’s ready to go back home now lol. took my laptop, dig camera, handcuffs, sons DS, my Wii and all the games, tried to take my desktop but couldnt get it out of the desk. was reeaaal special, and not birthday special

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:46 pm

If I believe she is going to cause me problems afterwards. I try to avoid those chicks with the Jesus-Cudda Cat.

Problems as in she’s crazy and may eventually be obsessed with you, or her hot pocket may be so good that you may be obsessed with her??

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
12:48 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: @ “hot pocket”

I’m gonna have to start using that one….

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:49 pm

Hooot Pocket!!

Run4Life

July 16th, 2010
12:49 pm

Wow! I had no idea that women were giving it up on the first date. I haven’t done that since college. No wonder I have such stiff competition when trying to date the ‘bad boys’. I am sure they get bored with me.

I won’t normally give it up until I begin to really start feeling someone, which is about 4 or 5 weeks, if you make it that long. Usually first date is a hug, second date is a smack on the lips just to see if I’m feeling you. If I’m not feeling you, then maybe a smack on the 3d date, and then no 4th date. I know…I take no prisoners. LOL

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
12:51 pm

hot pocket, lol, now i got the commercial jingle running thru my head “Ding, HOT POCKET”, lmao

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
12:52 pm

Dirty Di-anaaaaaaaaa what’s going on chica?!

blue/it’s me satin scarves are the isht…if you tie them right of course they’ll do the job but when things get to poppin they can come off quickly…

Run4Life

July 16th, 2010
12:53 pm

Wow! I had no idea women were giving it up on the first date. I haven’t done that since college, but I was married for a long while between. No wonder I have so much competition with the ‘bad boys’. They probably get bored with me. LOL

On a first date, the guy probably gets a hug if he hasn’t been too offensive that night. Second date is a smack on the lips to see if there is any chemistry. If I am not feeling you by the third date, then you get another smack. Then there is no fourth date. If I like you by the third date, then you get a full fledged french kiss you will not forget. j/k. I know….I take no prisoners.

For Real

July 16th, 2010
12:54 pm

Jesus-Cudda Cat according to Webster means: Females that believe their puddy is sooooo that it can change lives. Amen!

“Problems as in she’s crazy and may eventually be obsessed with you” – No not obsessed… If she think sex is a binding agreement. aka..Now that we had sex when can I meet your mamma
“her hot pocket may be so good that you may be obsessed with her??” – No such thing.

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
12:54 pm

Me, too, blue:lol: I’m headed straight home today & telling Mrs. Swiss to drop them drawls so I can snack on her Hot Pocket! :lol: :lol:

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
12:55 pm

@CoCo

Thanks…I’m not grumpy though

However, we are accepting mood changing applications…..

For Real

July 16th, 2010
12:56 pm

“Wow! I had no idea women were giving it up on the first date. I haven’t done that since college” – Example No. 5 million and 13 of women irrational thinking.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
12:58 pm

back from lernch

SO the consensus is a line from Tu Pac….”tease me, cause I don’t want it if it’s that easy”

You don’t want it on a Gold Plated Platter because that brings about cause for concern…yet if she is closed up and iron clad, you trip to your boys about how you spent $19.50 on the movies and about a quarter of a tank of gas on your 45 minute drive, but didn’t get no Puddy for the date expenses….Interesting.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
12:59 pm

No such thing.

Okay Real. I’m sure that’s never happened to you. Maybe others…

Aint that right Steve Q??

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:00 pm

Slim – Yet we’re the ones that are irrational! :lol:

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
1:01 pm

but when things get to poppin they can come off quickly…

LOL Sassy, Precisely :) I don’t like feeling restrained…it makes me feel clostrophobic. Closet, cuffs, small room, prison…no can do.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:02 pm

@Slim

Don’t believe the hype.

Ain’t a dude on here that has or would turn sex down on a first date.

As for the dude’s that “feel some kinda way” about it, they have no sense of self. An actualized person can accept and appreciate someone acting on their desires, without judging them.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
1:02 pm

@lurker@sassy – lol, they have their place, and yes keep the keys handy. trust if i tried to put them on the mr, would not go over well lol
@kimmie@slim – dont you just love the logic?

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
1:03 pm

@Blue I am not saying that this was your situation, but a lot of times when break-ins like that occur it is usually someone that has been in your home. A lady at my job experienced something similar and it was the older brothers/cousins of her son’s friends. I guess they knew about all the electronics through the kids talking about what games and systems they played.

@luvbug I don’t think too many people are pulling real life thugs (sterotype version), however must are pulling the those that are educated with, with limited social skills etc. I would venture to say if a woman has pulled all of these wonderful, educated, top notch men in the past–why is she still single? If she does not want to be married, why is she not in a long term exclusive relationship (similiar to how the gays do it…buy houses and cars together). IMO

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
1:05 pm

’she think sex is a binding agreement’

For Real – like that comedian said once, if we have sex…WE GO TOGETHER! lol

lil lurk

July 16th, 2010
1:07 pm

dudes who caint say no or always tryin to hit on the first date just aint used to gettin any on the reg

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
1:08 pm

Jesus-Cudda Cat according to Webster means: Females that believe their puddy is sooooo that it can change lives. Amen!

Gotcha

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
1:10 pm

“Ain’t a dude on here that has or would turn sex down on a first date.”

True, Dan. Even if I wasn’t attracted to the chick at all… Hell, I’ve already wasted a night on this trick, I’d might as well nutt…. :lol:

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
1:10 pm

@Diana – thats been our thought too. esp since we always have a house full of kids from the neighborhood. they kicked in my door shortly after i went to work. our guess was they knew the routine of when we left in the morning, and figured the house was empty.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
1:11 pm

‘Females that believe their puddy is sooooo that it can change lives’

Angels come in many forms. ;-)

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
1:13 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: —-> swiss I think I almost heard you say that. But if you aren’t attracted to a chick, how are you able to Rise to the occasion?

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
1:14 pm

Dirty D – Yeah, that’s a reasonable question, but my response to abc was based on his blog presentation to date being extremely critical of behaviors that he’s only now admitting to participating in. If you act superior, are hyper critical of those you feel are inferior and date the same supposedly inferior folks, it’s misleading to people who accepted your first persona.

Every none-thug is not a topnotch guy…and every single person claiming to pull topnotch guys (which I have never claimed) is not downing others while knowing they’ve been carrying on relationships with people they’re constantly downing.

IMO, the subjects are apples and cars difference.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
1:14 pm

@swiss – d@mn, y’all really will stick that thing anywhere wont cha? lol

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
1:15 pm

Slim “Jesus Cudda Cat” — If I can rise to the occasion for my hand, I can rise to the occasion for a real, live hot pocket — no matter what kind of she-beast it’s attached to… :lol: :lol: Just close your eyes & use your imagination…

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
1:17 pm

if we have sex…WE GO TOGETHER!

I haven’t heard that phrase in sooo long….to cute :lol:

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:17 pm

I would venture to say if a woman has pulled all of these wonderful, educated, top notch men in the past–why is she still single?

Diana – I know you were talking to Luvbug, but I agreed with her earlier post on this. I took her post to mean she didn’t get approached by thugs or dudes with thug-like tendencies or dudes that presented themselves like thugs. Neither have I. Don’t mean that every dude that steps my way is marriage-material, just decently respectful.

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
1:17 pm

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:18 pm

@Swiss

for that 1:15…..{slow clap}…..

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
1:21 pm

she-beast….just d@mn :lol:

Kym

July 16th, 2010
1:22 pm

Okay what’s the topic now…are we all still going to die single and alone..or have we moved on?

Melo

July 16th, 2010
1:25 pm

Ain’t a dude on here that has or would turn sex down on a first date.

@Dan

ewwwwwwwwww @ u buddy!! :lol:

since I became a mature adult..28+, and was so confident in my game and that any girl that accepted my date potentially liked me and i could smash, I wasnt that thirsty to want anyhting and everything that was presented on a platter.

There are plenty chics that I wld meet,exchange cards with and they wld subsequentlyblow my phone up repeateadly untill they gave up and others who wld do crazy just for me to hit…

I passed! I swear!

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
1:25 pm

it’s me…lurker silk work well too. Ask some of my neckties how I know this. lol

But if you aren’t attracted to a chick, how are you able to Rise to the occasion?
Slim we get woodys eating a bowl of cereal or doing absolutely nothing at all. sometimes attraction has nothing to do with it. Also, a dude can turn down puddy whenever he wants. I know lots of chicks think their cooch is platinum laced with diamond topped with sun glazed sapphire and that only a gay dude wouldn’t want it, but it’s not true.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
1:25 pm

i’m swiss/Dan – You will take it even if you can sense that the lady wants a relationship with you and not a one night stand??

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
1:27 pm

Kym – the men are all talking about the hoit pockets they like to eat…which flavor do you like the best :lol:

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
1:28 pm

Dreams, silk ties? I sure they’ve all had a “turn.”

Woodys? If the wind blow, it’s an occasion….LOL

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
1:29 pm

@Blue yep I bet is was some of those kids.

@Kimmie/luvbug As for the sterotypical “thug” which I hate using that word, because Bernie Madoff is a thug (I digress). Most guys that are thugs are looking for a women that fits into his world. Again, as stated in my post I don’t think too many women are pulling (sterotypical thug), must are pulling the undercover thug, you know the wolf in sheep’s clothing. Instead of pulling the *thug* in the box chevy, we are pulling the same mentality with a college degree riding in a BMW.

That is my point, I hope you ladies get it.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:29 pm

@Melo

Really? “Ewww”? From you?

Stop it.

But to each his own.

@Luv

Informed consent

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
1:31 pm

swiss – I bet Mrs Swiss stays in stitches cuz yous a skrait nut in a hut. :lol:

Dreams – I guess i’m thinking from a womans POV because if i’m not attracted to a dude, I feel totally disgusted if he tries to be intimate with me. I recall this one dude who I totally enjoyed talking to, hanging out with, etc but I just wasn’t physically attracted to him. When he tried to push up on me I felt like Celie from Color Purple…he was trying his best to talk me into it but it wasn’t happening…then the fact that he started breaking out into a sweat when we weren’t even doing anything made it worse. :shock:

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:32 pm

We went from dudes being miffed cause a lady wouldn’t give it up on the first date as payment for dude’s gas he burned driving 45 minutes to her house

to

dudes talking about not turning it down if it was offered on a first date, silver-platter, paper plate or napkin on the first date!

Hillarious! :lol:

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
1:33 pm

“…the men are all talking about the hoit pockets they like to eat…which flavor do you like the best “

There’s probably no need for me to answer this, but I will anyway: Dark-chocolate, with the cherry center. :lol:

Kym

July 16th, 2010
1:34 pm

@Slim honey I don’t eat hot pockets..real or renamed to mean something else.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:36 pm

@Kimmie

That’s a gross misreading (at least from my perspective).

The conversation evolved from dude “expecting” something on a first date, to expectations in general, to would a dude turn down sex on a first date.

To my mind, no one was mad at ole girl for her decision.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:39 pm

@Luv

I’ve never taken what wasn’t offered to me. So “take” it? No. Will I accept her offer? Yeap.

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
1:39 pm

“…yous a skrait nut in a hut”

That’s funny, Slim… “Nut in a hut” is Mrs. Swiss’ pet name for me when I’m up in the hot pocket… Small world… :lol:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
1:41 pm

@Dan??

for a guy to be batting 100% all the time or most times on a first date like abc was pulling,a cpple of things gotta be happening:

1. the chics are well below ur proper league..so all the time.they gotta be thirsty..

2 u dating pros(if there is ever such a term)

cause while i can accept that ur league chic here and there may feel u that much to want to smash,how many chics on the regualar are like that unless there is smething wrong with them morally???

And they want to go to ur crib,theres or the hotel/motel all the time….

Then u gotta check ur dating pool…its corrupted!!

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
1:42 pm

hot pocket, nut in a hut, y’all r a mess, lmao

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:42 pm

Diana – When you put it that way, yeah I get what you’re saying. A thug isn’t neccesarily dressed in thug attire(wolf in sheeps clothing).

Just haven’t been stepped to in the manner described by some today, that’s all. They seem to know I would not fit in their world. Not to say every man has been perfect and some haven’t tried to push things fast.

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
1:47 pm

Happy Friday Good People!!!!!! Who’s going to Chastain this evening to see Frankie Bev & Maze this evening!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
1:48 pm

“Wow! I had no idea women were giving it up on the first date. I haven’t done that since college, but I was married for a long while between. No wonder I have so much competition with the ‘bad boys’. They probably get bored with me. LOL”

Now, I understand! :wink: :wink:

“he was trying his best to talk me into it but it wasn’t happening…” Dang, if a person has to be talked into it won’t be good sex!

czBrat

July 16th, 2010
1:49 pm

Most guys that are thugs are looking for a women that fits into his world. Again, as stated in my post I don’t think too many women are pulling (sterotypical thug), must are pulling the undercover thug, you know the wolf in sheep’s clothing. Instead of pulling the *thug* in the box chevy, we are pulling the same mentality with a college degree riding in a BMW.
luv that post, profesora! immediately brings to mind all three of the guys i’ve dated seriously since my divorce. although i would never claim to like the bad boy type, they generally end up having that edge.

and wth is a chocolate/cherry hot pocket? should i even ask :shock: just never mind.

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:50 pm

To my mind, no one was mad at ole girl for her decision.

Dan – Sorry I didn’t put lol at the end of my post.

Cause I was joking. It’s not that serious!

LOL :lol:

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
1:52 pm

Kym – it’s just COOOOMMMEEEDDDYYY. ;-)

‘Dark-chocolate, with the cherry center’

swiss, yeah she told me how you like to partake of the cherry center first and eat the outsides last….sort of like how I eat my oreos. :lol: and Nut-N-ah-Hut gave me a crazy Mental picture. :shock:

LURKER (I want some of dat)

July 16th, 2010
1:52 pm

Happy FREAKY Friday……3 daily letters……P S H. that is good for us men! YESSSSS

@ Women Lurker…….Silk satin scarfs are coming to you via UPS for a Monday delivery I will take you out this weekend so you will not feel you gave it up to fast…. Because LURKER wants the puddy… YEAH :wink: :wink:

@Slimone…..I guess Dry Humping was not enough for dude huh? He should have fed you more liquor…If you talk game is not woking go to the alcohol….It works 90 percent of the time..YESSS

@LURKER wants it on first date, the 2nd date and the 3 date to see if the puddy gets better with age……YESSSS

@Luvbug…..So you want to be handle like a thug in the bedroom huh? I see you need that bootey spank……YESSSS :smile:

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:53 pm

then the fact that he started breaking out into a sweat when we weren’t even doing anything made it worse.

Slim – eeewwwwww!!!!

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:54 pm

@Melo

I never said I was batting 100 percent

What I stated was “that no dude on here has or would turn it down”, granted, using ‘has’ was a bit presumptuous on my part, but the point still stands.

If it is offered (which it isn’t always), then few dudes (that I know) would turn down sex.

abc

July 16th, 2010
1:54 pm

Luvbug, I can’t really speak to what you may or may not have thought my persona was all about. I’m just words on a screen here. I stand by whatever I’ve said, though.

Melo, I wouldn’t say that in my dating experiences I had 100% success. Sex wasn’t my only criteria, anyway. I’d say I was 95% or better, though, in getting whatever it was that I was after. I wouldn’t say that was due to any deficiencies in the women involved. I’d say it was because we were simpatico. Some people don’t connect as well, and many have difficulties when dealing with the opposite sex. I’ve never really had that problem.

Meeting women is easy, all you have to do is have a general idea of what they want, and be willing and able to provide it. What do women want? Most of all, security. You have to be able to capture their interest, in at least a couple of ways, and you can’t be a toad. Even some of the toadies have success with women due to being interesting, and willing and able to provide that which women want the most.

Kym

July 16th, 2010
1:54 pm

kimmie

July 16th, 2010
1:55 pm

Melo – Your 1:41, I agree. Somethings definitely “off”.

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
1:55 pm

“LURKER wants it on first date, the 2nd date and the 3 date to see if the puddy gets better with age” <– that's funny

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
1:56 pm

Oh no, Slim, you got it backwards… I like to slooooooooowly work my way around the chocolate exterior, so that by the time I get to the cherry center, it’s ripe & juicy… :lol:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
1:59 pm

Dan??

during my days with my boys,the joke always was,if a chic is that thirsty that she wants u to score that much,she must have an STD bothering her,so she needs somebody scratching her from the inside to ease that angst..RUN… :evil: :evil:

(kinda like the angst u get from the itch inside ur ear) :lol: :lol:

RUN wld still apply today! :lol: :lol:

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
1:59 pm

@swiss – see, now when SO of bloggers get jumped when said bloggers get home, folks like you will be to blame lmao, cherrys and hot pockets…..

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
2:00 pm

@melo

Again, that’s you.

I’m not going to litigate my decision making process with you homie, so let’s just agree to disagree.

abc

July 16th, 2010
2:01 pm

Dan, I’ve turned women down lots of times. Maybe they were married or otherwise attached, maybe they didn’t appeal to me, maybe I just plain didn’t feel like it at the time — mostly, I’ve turned it down because of being unwilling to get wrapped up in their lives. Once I was past the age of 21 or so, I started to find that it came with some implied or explicit obligations. I wasn’t always willing to fulfill the obligations, so I’d turn them down.

Once a couple of married chicks — married to friends of mine — had a contest among themselves to see who could score a short list of men they considered would be the most difficult to get. I was on the list; neither of them got it from me. They put concerted effort into it, too. I was well past 21 at that point, though — maybe stuff like that works on kids, but not on a grown man — at least, not on this one.

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
2:01 pm

Wassup erybody

Who schedules damn near an all day meeting on Friday. Whew!!! I skimmed thru a little and this is hilarious.

How is Friday treating erybody?

Kym

July 16th, 2010
2:01 pm

I am so bored..where is Stanley Q? I need a laugh to get to the end of the day.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
2:04 pm

I’m not going to litigate my decision making process

@Dan!!

OK its adjudicted!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

(on the legal tip uall) :lol:

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
2:04 pm

Now this ABC I can believe. Somethings may be tempting but you gotta weigh the pros and cons. Sometimes, it just ain’t worth the trouble.

Once I was past the age of 21 or so, I started to find that it came with some implied or explicit obligations. I wasn’t always willing to fulfill the obligations, so I’d turn them down

Why did I laugh when I read this —>where is Stanley Q? I need a laugh to get to the end of the day.

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
2:04 pm

‘I guess Dry Humping was not enough for dude huh? He should have fed you more liquor…If you talk game is not woking go to the alcohol….It works 90 percent of the time’

LURKER – No dry humping at all…didn’t get to that point…and after drinking a whole bottle of wine I still was saying N to the izzO lol

swiss that post reminded me of that Tootsie Roll pop commercial with the Owl in the tree tombout how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop. :lol:

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
2:05 pm

I am so bored..where is Stanley Q? I need a laugh to get to the end of the day.

Ditto…

Dan - simply...

July 16th, 2010
2:05 pm

@abc

You’re deviating from the bell curve.

Of course on the edges there are decisions made for specific instances, but at the crest of the curve (generalities) is where this conversation was going, not the statistical deviations.

In specific instances, specific people do specific things…..

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
2:06 pm

If ya’ll gonna summon Stan the Silly man, please let me get some M&Ms or something so I can munch and laugh. He was hi la ri ous yesterday

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
2:06 pm

blue — You’re welcome. And tell mr. blue (balls) he owes me a beer. ;-) :lol:

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
2:07 pm

all of this pontificatin n what not…give me a break.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
2:09 pm

@swiss – i see between you and melo im gonna have to find a new name for him, lol

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
2:09 pm

Dry humping?

Dirty Diana

July 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

hey czbrat…

@Lady wasssup up Diva! You better have a hall pass or excuse stepping in late missing homeroom.

@Kimmie…yes it is busy at work today, and I did not read all of the post…I just popped in.

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

“…that post reminded me of that Tootsie Roll pop commercial with the Owl in the tree tombout how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop.”

Slim — I knew there was a reason that commercial always used to give me a woody….

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
2:10 pm

Stan the Silly man

Okay soo Stanley Steamer = Stan the Silly man….comedy :-)

Kym

July 16th, 2010
2:13 pm

@Sassy..are you going to play internet scrabble..now? LMAO!!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 16th, 2010
2:14 pm

DD too funny I have my pass signed by my favorite AP honey!!!! I am str8!!!!! What is going on with ya!!!! I am sorta kind of catcching up and still lost lol…….but i think i have a good overview…….

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
2:15 pm

First dates: Think outside the box. Dinner dates are okay but they are so played out.

I had a date where we grabbed a bite to eat (Geisha House), saw the Bodies exhibit, and finished the night off at Intermezo.
Yes, we did dinner but the bodies exhibit was thinking outside the box and I had a wonderful time.

blue-7/30

July 16th, 2010
2:15 pm

alrightee, checking out, everybody have a great weekend!

Kym

July 16th, 2010
2:15 pm

@Sassy I say that because we all on big word alert right now..

Dan honey its Friday..big words are banned on Fridays

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:16 pm

the normal first date hmmmmmm……..have anyone spent 2 hours chatting it up at the gas pump @ QT???!!!???

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
2:17 pm

1….slurp!
too hoo hoo….slurp!
thrrrrrrrreeeeee…..slurp!

Kym

July 16th, 2010
2:18 pm

Good grief Tiger you are nine shots off the lead..

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
2:18 pm

I am – me loves some Intermezzo’s…can be a bit pricey tho.

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:20 pm

slim very pricey but a great spot…….lol

It's me....lurker

July 16th, 2010
2:23 pm

Okay soo Stanley Steamer = Stan the Silly man….comedy :) :)

I was torn between the two

Dirty Diana

July 16th, 2010
2:26 pm

Lady two hours at QT…hmmmmm

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
2:27 pm

I say that because we all on big word alert right now..

I know right?…

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:29 pm

hmmmm what DD……

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
2:29 pm

Dan honey its Friday..big words are banned on Fridays

!!!!!!!!! SassaFrass blog hollering…stop it I say.

Dirty Diana

July 16th, 2010
2:30 pm

Lady,

I had a melo moment!

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:30 pm

i am sitting her blogging with a 4 year old playing in my hair….lol……yawn….i want to go to sleep….pray i make it to chastain! lol

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:31 pm

oh my ok got you! lol

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
2:34 pm

Dirty D – Got your point. :lol:

I rarely pull an undercover thug either…average in character

One can only guess why many in the average pool (such as myself) are not in a relationship or married. A person would only know that by spending time with me…or they can assume I’m crazy, diseased, ugly, broke or (insert negative comment). LOL

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
2:35 pm

If there were no big words, it wouldn’t be Dan and it would be someone posing as Dan.

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
2:38 pm

Lady J — I’ve never spent 2 hours at the QT, but I’ve spent hours at the CT on many occasions… :lol:

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
2:39 pm

Luvbug, I can’t really speak to what you may or may not have thought my persona was all about. I’m just words on a screen here. I stand by whatever I’ve said, though.

abc – Fair enough. Not that you care or should care, but neither interpretation I have of you is bad. I’ll just skip past any future bible scriptures you post. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Man, yall have been typing…I’ll see if i can catch up.

2CPTG©-----hunches on the first date!

July 16th, 2010
2:39 pm

Afternoon, all…..

Don’t most women say/agree that they know immediately whether or not they wanna fvck you? Analogous (big word?)to the old saying, that a man can talk himself outta the draws, if you know she’s feelin you, then why not play it cool and get some???? Nine times outta ten, if she’s in her sexual prime, she’s ready anyway!!!!

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
2:40 pm

‘but I’ve spent hours at the CT on many occasions…’

Swiss gets the FABULOUS FREAKY FRIDAY BLog Award…..

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:40 pm

swiss you are a NUT!!!!!!!! i mean meeting someone and the convo goes from one subject to the next and its engaging convo and before you know it time has passed lets say hmmmm hour and 15min lmbao!

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:41 pm

hmmmmmmmm…………………………………

Willie Dynamite

July 16th, 2010
2:43 pm

Afternoon All,

peeking in just for a moment. Too much to even try and read.

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:44 pm

i guess the point i am making is when you least expect it and not even thinking about it or trying to floss to meet n greet someone is always noticing the true you per se……hmmmmmm yall i am just talking out loud disregard me i need rest……lol

czBrat

July 16th, 2010
2:44 pm

I rarely pull an undercover thug either…average in character
luvbug, i think i get that because of my tats. the fearless corporate guys think i’m a closet freak :lol: those who are truly straight-laced steer clear.

now, how do you define the average pool?

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
2:46 pm

@2- Nail on the head. They usually know from jump if you getting it.

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
2:46 pm

@Lady- 2 hours at the QT? How did that turn out?

2CPTG©-----hunches on the first date!

July 16th, 2010
2:48 pm

“They usually know from jump if you getting it.”

yep, so all you gotta do is roll wit’ it….and look forward to the “after-party”!

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:48 pm

i am pondering it know dig that it was good convo though……..how are you doing buddy?

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
2:48 pm

Staaaaaaanley

Steeeeeeeeeeamer

Come out and plaaaayaaa !!!!

(Luvbug now clinging two small porcelain cats together)

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:49 pm

2 i so don’t want to say you are correct buddy close your ears lmbao

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 16th, 2010
2:50 pm

Two hours?!?! At a gas pump?!?!

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
2:50 pm

Wat up Lady. Everything good mama.

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
2:53 pm

ummmmm don’t focus on the time but time had pass for the both of us as we chatted……just like meeting someone on asle 3 in the store and chatting……..

2CPTG©-----hunches on the first date!

July 16th, 2010
2:54 pm

Lady R…yeen gotta say it, I already know….cause, “logically, we learning these gals biology, and obviously, well…..”

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
2:56 pm

(Luvbug now clinging two small porcelain cats together) – Priceless!

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
2:56 pm

Kym

July 16th, 2010
2:58 pm

LMAO @ Luvbug..not your china cats..girl..those are the ones..you imaginary grandkids bought you!!! LMAO

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
2:58 pm

@2- and you were right on point about the other part too. Dudes act like I’m their hero because how I handle my biz and the results, and ask what do I do. That I can’t really answer. It is a mastered art, but not sure of the formula. I roll with it. And when I observe I LMAO because I watch so many other cats talk themselves right out of the booty. Had it and lost it.

@Lady- We meet people in the strangest places. It sounds like a good start if you hit it off like that. What do you think kept the pursuit from going further?

Melo

July 16th, 2010
2:58 pm

meeting someone on asle 3 in the store and chatting……..

@Lady??

is that a new new u just met…i hear u on that.

most times when the convo rolls like that, its a good set up for the next date..thats when u can expect to hit them draws on count tow(2),unless u don slip real bad.

2CPTG©-----hunches on the first date!

July 16th, 2010
2:59 pm

oh, and Willie D…I know it’s been awhile, but ummm, ‘member that lil wager we had goin….”For Real” owes us some money!!!!!

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
3:04 pm

“Swiss gets the FABULOUS FREAKY FRIDAY BLog Award…”

Thanks, Slim. But why is this trophy shaped like a big, floppity, run-through labia? :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
3:05 pm

What do you think kept the pursuit from going further?
Man I talked myself outta the booty. I think it was the part when I said “So, we been talking for 2 hours at pump #7. You need to let me pump mo’ than ya gas.” Lady? :-)

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
3:05 pm

thanks dig that and not sure…..

melo hot mess and ok!

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
3:05 pm

now, how do you define the average pool?

now, how do you define the average pool?

cBrat – He generally falls within the majority average in career, character and looks. Like most of us, he may lie, fall short or be annoying in a mild way from time to time, but doesn’t swing out of the statistical norm on most accounts.

For me, it’s ranged from some college to degree…average ride to lower luxury…national average income to slightly above…lies here and there to cheated…low key to professional social…none violent…average looks 6-8. They couldn’t fit in a street or corporate gang.

Outside of that, a couple of braggers turned away early on.

Melo

July 16th, 2010
3:06 pm

How about a pool party in summer like this..its too hot out there people.Any establishement out there hosting one??

with a pool party, with folks dressed in swim gear,u get to do the screeening all at once and completely so u dont even have to do date 2 if u arent feeling the nekked parts.

:lol: :lol:

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
3:06 pm

dreamsM too funny men are men…….

Willie Dynamite

July 16th, 2010
3:08 pm

2Can – yeah its been awhile. Hope all is good on your end. Mayne, I asked 4Real bout my money and that fool ducked out and took off on me. Done changed his name and went into hiding. HaHaHa

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
3:09 pm

thats when u can expect to hit them draws on count tow(2),unless u don slip real bad.

MeLO, mElo, MELO!! LOL

2CPTG©-----hunches on the first date!

July 16th, 2010
3:11 pm

Willie D, all is well ’round my way….trynna make a power move so I can get back to Atlanta on a full time basis….

SlimOne

July 16th, 2010
3:12 pm

‘But why is this trophy shaped like a big, floppity, run-through labia?’

Swiss – well you know we just pass the trophy around for the next winner…Melo had it last…so you might not want to know. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

July 16th, 2010
3:13 pm

Lady How you doin’ today? you ready for the weekend?

2C, WillieD what’s good man.

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 16th, 2010
3:15 pm

Awww “The Steamer” never came back to make us laugh,huh? Hope he didn’t die alone sumwhere….

Have a good weekend y’all.

Willie Dynamite

July 16th, 2010
3:19 pm

2Can – Good Look, handle ya biz man.

DreamsMat – wassup Man, you still holding it down in here. I’m good on my end.

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
3:19 pm

dreamsM I am fine yep ready to jam to some good music and go to savannah tomorrow and enjoy….it has been a good summer….how are you doing?

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
3:22 pm

ummmmm don’t focus on the time but time had pass for the both of us as we chatted……just like meeting someone on asle 3 in the store and chatting……..

Lady it sounds like you two hit if off

Melo, wassup with you and this pool party. Usually we don’t let the married misters come to those types of gatherings.

@Dig that how are ya’?

Melo

July 16th, 2010
3:22 pm

Melo had it last…so you might not want to know. LOL

@SlimOne??

not me!!

why u think Swiss is asking about the trophy run_ thru condition.His Johnson is in it as we speak. :lol:

He is the self proclaimmed SelfPleazer..didnt u read his morning pronouncements??

His now trying to see if u have some spare wet blankets so he can shove them in there to tighten his wang grip.. otherwise he defaults to his usual Pleazerself.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
3:24 pm

Wet blankets….? Not a bad idea…

Melo

July 16th, 2010
3:25 pm

Usually we don’t let the married misters

@Diana..observation only sweetie…

I do the Clinton if u invite me..

See and stare but dont touch nor pleasure urself any other way!!

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
3:25 pm

we will see chica logic over emotions………lololol

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
3:27 pm

Wassup Dirty. I’m good. Same Shyt Different Toilet Stool.

Dig That

July 16th, 2010
3:30 pm

@Lady- How long are you going to be in Savannah?

i'm swiss™

July 16th, 2010
3:31 pm

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
3:36 pm

i will be back first thing monday morning to be a work on time lol………….

Lady-Resilient!!

July 16th, 2010
3:39 pm

ok good people off to chastain!!!!! have a great weekend folks!

peace!

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
3:40 pm

Pool Party? Melo there?
Awww Lawd!!! My eyes will die if I have to look at dude in his speedo and taco meat

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
3:44 pm

Bye Lady!!!!

Melo

July 16th, 2010
3:47 pm

My eyes will die if I have to look at dude in his speedo and taco meat

@I am whatever??

whatever… I’ll be looking at the other thirsty stay_fry chicken on there in the late 30s to 40s age group so I wont have time for u….

But if u are starring at me instead,the back of ma head will feel heavy and that tells me,u need some,so that will be on u babe……

u can wait for me dwnstairs by my ride! with ur long stanky leg,perched tatas and high heels self (wink)

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
3:49 pm

Barf @ Melo
Throwing up now!

Melo

July 16th, 2010
3:53 pm

Throwing up now

@I am…

u damn right..my Dycck will give u morning sickness..i dont play!!

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
3:57 pm

Melo/I am…

I am going to host a pool party just to see you all interact with each other. LOL

Where is

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
3:59 pm

Throwing up now

@I am…

u damn right..my Dycck will give u morning sickness..i dont play!!

dang not morning sickness i thought you would say something else. I am going to give both of you passes to get in White Waters :grin:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:09 pm

@DirtyD??

u aint right if u got a pool and u not inviting none of us for a pool side party and grill

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:18 pm

Melo,

My sister has a pool…I need to get something going and charge a cover fee.

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
4:23 pm

Okay…I read Melo’s post and it put me in an early grave.
It’s official- I am grossed out beyond repair :evil:

2CPTG©-----hunches on the first date!

July 16th, 2010
4:25 pm

Dreams, what it do, kinfolk…..me, chillin….

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:26 pm

I am…you gave him the punch line.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
4:26 pm

LOL Melo – You inviting Queen to the pool party??

correction: moderate to slight BELOW average income to slightly above

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:28 pm

it put me in an early grave

@I am..

see..u cant handle a Big Rig….u still on the up and up……………

:roll: :roll:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:30 pm

You inviting Queen to the pool party??

@Luvbug??

why u think i cheat..asking me all those qstions….

where is the partey first?? then ask me about the other stuff later…..

If i bring someone else, it dont mean im sleeping with them…..

I need a pool thang tho for real..cant wait for my week vacation………….

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
4:32 pm

Melo – I aint say all that. I just want Queen to have fun too.

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
4:33 pm

…and it was one question. LOL

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:34 pm

I just want Queen to have fun too.

@Luvbug

she went out last week with her gerlz, I stayed at home now its my turn to go out to the pool party with my blog girls too…………….

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:39 pm

correction: moderate to slight BELOW average income to slightly above

@luvbug that average income is low…I don’t want you dating no po’ man now :grin:

@Melo, the next time there is a pool party I am going to let you know. I will survey the crowd to make sure it is worth your while, though (I am will be on the list).

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:41 pm

If i bring someone else, it dont mean im sleeping with them…..

Melo,

Don’t bring sand to the beach if you are not bringing queen you might as well roll solo.

why u think i cheat.. :shock: I don’t know but tell us we are all ears

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:41 pm

@Dirty??

preciate

@Luvbug??

u look out for me too girl..

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:42 pm

Don’t bring sand to the beach if you are not bringing queen

@Derty..thats whats up!

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
4:44 pm

Dirty D – It’s a part of my history, so I had to count it..especially during the early 20s. LOL

I’m guessing the incomes. One I’m sure made less than average, but damn if he didn’t spend like he was doing it. :lol:

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
4:46 pm

Okay Melo. I’ll bring binoculars, just in case you’re a sneaky one. LOL

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:47 pm

If ur toes aint curling, he aint doing it right

if u eyes aint closed and ur mind aint seeing stars and imagining things,he aint doing it right

if if ur mouf is completely closed he waisting his time

if u dont gasp nor oogghhh uggghhhhh when he nutts,his necta dont stick to ur uterus and got no bite

if ur butt dont tighten,as he throbs it in….consider it time wasted.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:51 pm

@luvbug I think me, you and I am should work on throwing melo a pool party. We could invite Been Lurking, let melo give us his guest list of zulu brothers, and some more people. I will bring the cards so we can play spades :arrow: and see what happens :arrow: been lurking might see her man there :arrow: I am might see melo in a different way. We will add MR LURKER to the list too.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:52 pm

How old are you luvbug

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
4:54 pm

Melo, if you go to the pool party where a shower cap for your bald head taco meat

Luvbug

July 16th, 2010
4:55 pm

WHY You think I cheat??

Young 30s.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 16th, 2010
4:56 pm

What are y’all doing for the weekend?

Melo

July 16th, 2010
4:57 pm

Nice weekend folks….

@I am..I will wear a nice swimming trunk and u can pine 4 my frontal junk ! :lol:

Leggs

July 16th, 2010
4:59 pm

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane..

To realize
The value of one-second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident.

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more when
You can share it with someone special.

Enjoy the weekend!

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
5:00 pm

Melo: don’t nobody want that pinkie sausage

I am whatever you say I am

July 16th, 2010
5:00 pm

Melo,
don’t nobody in blogsville want that pinkie sausage! :mrgreen:

Melo

July 16th, 2010
5:01 pm

pinkie sausage

@I am??

its not pink, it is dark angry glowing black! :lol:

(dangerous)