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You had me at hello…on Aisle 3

The night I went to The Gold Club for Jezebel Magazine’s Most Eligible party, I was scoping out the crowd to find a few singles to interview.  I was mingling and chatting people up when an adorably fabulous woman came up to me and we got to talking.

She gave me a business card and I gave her mine, telling her about the Misadventures in Atlanta dating blog.  She immediately lit up and excitedly told me that she was newly married and very happy.  She recounted the sweet sweet story of when she met her new husband at a grocery store (!!) and that she really believes that she found the true love of her life.

She told me that when they met she didn’t call him right away, she waited a few days   After she finally called him back, they scheduled a date. Their first date lasted hours and within a few weeks…they were engaged.

This is when she called her husband over to introduce us.  They told me that he literally had his entire house packed up and was scheduled to leave Atlanta.  The day he met her? He canceled the move – without even knowing if she would call back! Talk about serendipity, right?

I suppose some would classify that as love at first sight;  or at the very least, smitten in a grocery store!  Do you believe in love at first sight?

I know I am hopeless romantic and this kind of love story is what I love to hear about to satisfy my curiosity about how people meet and fall in love.  I just think it is possible to meet someone and immediately feel as if the person is right for you.

I have met only one man that I felt that way about instantly.   It didn’t work out but that intense attraction I felt was a first for me and I was not at all prepared for it! Have you ever felt that way about someone when you met them?

Guys, if you met someone that really blew you away, how far would you go to get and keep her?  Would you rearrange your life or postpone a major move in an effort to make it happen with the woman of your dreams?

345 comments Add your comment

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
8:31 am

Good Morning MIA Blog

I have met someone who really blew me away, but she didn’t feel the same way. At this point, I probably wouldn’t postpone or rearrange anything in my life for someone else, especially for someone who didn’t call me back until days later. That’s a red flag that she’s either not really interested or she’s playing games, either way, I’m not interested anymore.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
8:51 am

I believe in love at first sight. If that situation were to happen in my past, I would have bet the farm on going after it.

mark

July 13th, 2010
8:52 am

i havent met that special lady yet! that had me at hello but i hope to find her soon!

Good Morning everyone! Hey Leggs!

kimmy

July 13th, 2010
8:56 am

I’ve never had love at first sight, but I think it was more of an instant interest at first sight. I wanted to know more and those situations have never worked out so that’s as close as I’ve gotten. I think there are people who know from the instant they meet that they are meant to be together. I wish it also worked the other way so people wouldn’t end up wasting their time with people who they aren’t meant to be with.

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
9:02 am

GM all – not sure im one for love at first sight, maybe more like attraction at first sight. not like “i wanna jump your bones” attraction, but more the sense that something draws me in that persons direction. always been cautious about that love word, and even so, ended up using it at the wrong times lol

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
9:12 am

Good morning ALL!!!!

Hey Mark.

I love stories like that. I believe in knowing he or she “is the one” with the first encounter. Then, start to build the foundation for a lifelong relationship/marriage with each other. Yeah, I definitely believe it exists!

@MyItalianStudmuffin ~ who you kidding? In your past you were afraid to commit (LOLOL). I can see you in corner chewing your nails wondering “should I go after it, should I not.” Just messing you first thing this morn!

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
9:18 am

Good morning erybody

I have seen so many people in love with the idea of being in love that they believe damn near every encounter is “love at first sight”. Maybe I will gain some insight today.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
9:22 am

Leggs, I knew it I just wasn’t man enough at the time to go all in, if I could go back I would have trusted myself the first time. :) I was our own worst enemy. LOL

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
9:27 am

pr – i was our own worst enemy, guilty of that myself once upon a time, seems like forever ago

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
9:29 am

Morning Blogsville,

This story reminds me of how my dad met my mom.

They both grew up in the same town and went to the same highschool but they never socialized-they had different social circles.

They went on to attend college and marry different people and they both ended up divorced.

So, skip to their 30’s they happen to meet up at a party. My dad was not happy with were his job had relocated him and was about to put in a transfer but declined when he met my mom. They dated and within a few months or so , they were married. They’ve been married for almost 35 yrs now.
My dad told me that if he had not met my mom that night, he would’ve put in for a transfer and probably would be living in CA.

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
9:29 am

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
9:34 am

Morning beautiful people!

I don’t think it’s really “love”, but like kimmy & blue said, an instant interest or attraction, something that draws you to the other person. I’ve had that instant connection, and while we dated awhile, did not marry. I would not say that was a failure – you can have the attraction for someone, but it takes the same things regardless of how you felt when you met for the relationship to work.

I think both people have to be open enough to act on that initial attraction too. If you are fresh off a bad breakup or going thru a divorce, or if dude in the story had been intent on going thru with his plans to leave Atlanta – things may turn out differently. Sometimes it’s all in the timing.

Mike P – What would send a red flag up quicker for you in these 2 scenarios: 1 – the lady in the story called guy immediately once she got home from the grocery store that day or 2 – she waited a few days to call? If she did 1, she may come off as too eager and desperate or 2, too laid back or playing games. You see, you’re da–ed if you do and da–ed if you don’t in this situation. Her now husband didn’t take a few days hearing from someone whose basically a total stranger as a red flag. He was open.

Kym-Counting it all joy baby! Counting it all joy!

July 13th, 2010
9:36 am

Good Morning All,

Awww what a sweet story. I can’t say I believe in love at first sight..but I do believe in destiny..and that everything that happens in our lives serves a purpose. No matter how small or chance the meeting. While I have had the displeasure to meet some characters in my time on this big blue ball, I have also had the pleasure to cross paths with some wonderful people. So I think love at first sight is more than possible. As for me I have not met or experience that feeling for a fellow. I have over time developed the “attachment” to 3 men. Who have each in their own “special way” created a connection..that so help me I can’t seem to break.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
9:36 am

Hola!

Cool story.

@Dig so true!

@Purple yea right

I will lurk on this one I want to hear the guys POV on how far will they go for love.

Chink

July 13th, 2010
9:39 am

Morning

Hmmm Love at first sight ….I have only 1 guy who made me head over heels but the timing was bad and then another opportunity came and the timing was bad again. I always wonder where he is…

But I am open to the feeling of “connecting” not really in the love at first sight thing.

I think someone has to be a hopeless romantic to believe in love at first sight meaning you have to be open to the possibility.. all the time.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
9:41 am

Diana, for sure :)

Kym, destiny, I like how you described that. Did you see “The Boondocks?” Uncle Ruckus actually fell in love with a woman who was not white. Now that I think about it Grand Dad fell in love at first sight in that episode and messed it up. The Boondocks, episode falls in line with today’s topic. Wise Diva, did you watch “The Boondocks” this week, then write this article? LOL

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
9:42 am

@Dirty D- Wat up baby

Kym-Counting it all joy baby! Counting it all joy!

July 13th, 2010
9:47 am

@Purple Rain..Morning! No I missed it and didnt DVR it..I was out of town for the weekend and all I wanted to do when I got home was sleep. I am really just going to have to buy this season when it’s all said and done.

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
9:47 am

Do you think facebook, myspace, or twitter helps destiny along? Chink you don’t have to wonder where he is, go facebook buddy

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
9:48 am

@PR – seriously, rufus fell for a nonwhite, he must have fell and hit his head, still havent caught up on boondocks, arggg

abc

July 13th, 2010
9:50 am

What a bunch of aholes in Bookman’s blog. My goodness.

Love at first sight? Sure, why not. I can’t say it’s ever happened to me, but I’m sure that for others it’s like that.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
9:51 am

Kym, it was a normal episode but still funny. So you really did not miss to much it comes on again. 7/17@11:30 and 7/18@2:30am

R.I.P George Steinbrenner, you made the Yankees!

SlimOne...still buzzed

July 13th, 2010
9:52 am

Good morning all!!! I need a nap already.

j-mike

July 13th, 2010
9:53 am

i believe it happened once for me, during freshman year of college- we ended up dating after she returned back from summer break but sadly, things didn’t work out the year after and she returned home. so i’m a little more pessimistic about it now, but we’ll see what happens.

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
9:53 am

@ Dig That…LOL @ facebook… my exes keep finding me there.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
9:54 am

blue, yes he asked her to marry him. LOL

Dig That, I think those social media sites do nothing to help relationships.

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
9:55 am

@I am- Some folks we wouldn’t mind seeing again and some remind you instantly why you ran from them

Suzanne

July 13th, 2010
9:55 am

My husband always claimed it was “love at first sight” for him. He loved to recount the story of how we met on a blind date arranged by a neighbor of his and the neighbor’s daughter, with whom I worked. He was very resistant to blind dates, after several disastrous “fix-ups” he had experienced. So when his neighbor, Eddie, told him it was “all arranged” and there was no way to cancel the date as I was out of town (this was the era before cell phones!) he relunctantly agreed to be there when I arrived, although he was none too happy about the prospect. As he recounted it, he was sitting on the front of his houseboat, fishing, dangling a bare foot in the water when I came down the dock walkway. He took one look, and realized he had made a miscalculation, and should really have paid attention when Eddie and his other neighbors told him to spruce up a bit! I saw this previously non-chalant guy leap up from the deck of his boat and dash inside. My thought? “Wow! I must have scared him off!” But he returned, more graciously attired, and we spent a wonderful afternoon, cruising the lake and socializing with other boaters. He was so smitten, he made me 3 lunches that day! And after 3 weeks, invited me to attend his high school reunion with him. We married a year later, a marriage that lasted 19 years, ’til his death two years ago. What did he give up? Well, certainly the life of a carefree bachelor. But I, at the time, had 4 children, ranging from preteen to late teen, still in the house. This was something he would never have taken on,had he seen it in a Match.com profile, but having met me, he invited us all back out to the boat the very next day after our blind date. He was a wonderful dad to the kids, and a wonderful husband to me, all because of that initial sensation of “love at first sight”.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
9:56 am

Wassup Dig! I think facebook is really helping it along. I am hearing stories of couples reuniting in their 50’s and 60’s so you know the young ‘uns are on it. LOL

Sassy Me..Chocolate cutey

July 13th, 2010
9:59 am

I’ve never had that Kismet, we were meant to be together feeling from someone I’ve just met….sounds nice n romantic but I’ve yet to experience that. Honestly, I wonder how I would handle that if/when it ever happens.

SexyCool - Joy bubbles over.

July 13th, 2010
10:00 am

kimmie – “an instant interest or attraction, something that draws you to the other person.”

That describes my initial reaction to TheDude. (sighs)

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
10:03 am

@kimmie

(Mike P – What would send a red flag up quicker for you in these 2 scenarios: 1 – the lady in the story called guy immediately once she got home from the grocery store that day or 2 – she waited a few days to call? If she did 1, she may come off as too eager and desperate or 2, too laid back or playing games.)

that’s a trick question… of course scenario 1 would raise a red flag quicker… because of the word “immediately.” But check it, in this given scenario of wise diva’s story… I’m guessing the man told her that he was leaving town, I know I would have. And given that, If she arbitrarily waited a few days, I’d have no choice but to assume she wasn’t interested, I would have left town as scheduled.

Why couldn’t she have called after a few hours later, or an agreed upon time-frame, or the very next day even??? Why does your scenario only have a choice between immediately or a few days later?

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
10:04 am

Morning
That’s a very romantic story, but I don’t completely believe it. He was all packed and ready to move, but cancelled the same day he met a random woman who he didn’t know would even call? I’m not buying that. The only way I can see this is if he’d been watching her from afar for a long time without her knowing and finally decided stalk bump into her at the grocery store. I think they threw that in there for the Hollywood effect. I’m glad they’re happy though.

Needless to say I don’t really believe in love at first sight. I might feel a connection with you upon meeting, but that’s a far cry from loving you and knowing I could spend the rest of my life with you. I’d love to be proven wrong though. ;-)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:05 am

Sassy, it would probably scare the crap out of someone at first until they realize what is going on. LOL

No Yankees fans, is this a Braves town? Even if you don’t like the Yankees, Steinbrenner made the Yankee business a powerhouse and he was good for baseball.

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
10:05 am

GM All!!

awwwww! i just luv that story WD!
i’m with those who have already said that it was more like instant attraction when our eyes first met. the love took time.

brb

Shari

July 13th, 2010
10:05 am

I got cheated in my love at first sight. Could not see straight or speak as fireworks were going off. The guy turned out to be married..hoping to meet someone again who affects me like that!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:07 am

Does a man choose a wife, or does a woman choose a husband. If a divine being that you serve “told” you that someone was your spouse to be, would you act on it. What if that person was “just not that into you”? What if you knew someone was to be your spouse, but you were to messed up and didn’t want to make the move towards marriage?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:08 am

Shari, sounds like it was love at first sight for you and business as usual for him.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:10 am

David Stern fined Gilbert of the Cavs, 100k

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
10:10 am

I am – Nice story.

I’ve never loved a guy at first site or been loved at first site, but I believe it can happen. I think it’s more likely to happen after you’ve had a round in love already. You probably have a clearer picture of what you want and have a good rhythm about sustaining a longterm relationship after you’ve gone through the fire with someone and made your costly mistakes…ones you’d never repeat.

Sassy Me..Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
10:11 am

The guy turned out to be married..hoping to meet someone again who affects me like that!!

Yeah just make sure he’s single…

Melo

July 13th, 2010
10:12 am

Shari, sounds like it was love at first sight for you and business as usual for him.

:evil:
:lol: :lol: :lol:

@PR..boy u brutal! :lol:

Gmorning folks!

Melo

July 13th, 2010
10:13 am

I think it’s more likely to happen after you’ve had a round in

@Luvbug!

Boy :roll: :roll:

:lol: :lol:

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
10:14 am

@Suzanne ~ loved your story. There are men who aren’t afraid to date a woman with more than one child. Glad you found your mate and sorry you lost him in flesh only!

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
10:14 am

Why you rolling your eyes Melo??

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
10:14 am

R.I.P Mr. George Steinbrenner!

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
10:14 am

Thanks Luvbug.

Dig that, yeah quite a few of the exes I wouldn’t mind seeing again…
But being that I am in the present, I can’t go back.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:15 am

Melo, I have been sour as of late. Let me know if I get out of line with people. Sometimes I do not realize it until it is to late.

Facebook, Myspace and Twitter, I am sure there is plenty love at first sight, that goes away really fast once the person they are in love with denies the “friend request” LOL

SlimOne...head in the clouds

July 13th, 2010
10:15 am

Dreams – i’m pretty much with you on the Love at first sight deal. It’s really hard for me to swallow that concept. I believe you can have a great chemistry on your first meeting but that hardly constitues love.

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
10:16 am

@pr – marrying rufus? ewwww…. never know when hes lookign at you…steinbrenner – all i know about him and the yankees i learned from seinfeld, probably not the best source lol

the facebooks and twitters are what you make them. if you choose to do something stupid out there for the world to see, and nothing good comes from it, thats you and not social media.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
10:17 am

@PR ~ I use to keep a compostion book where I kept a journal on the Yankees. I had every player down, their shirt number, their RBIs, HRs, Strikeouts, etc. I followed the Yankees and The Mets!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:19 am

Leggs, I like the Twins and Yankees. Steinbrenner was a good guy for baseball. LOL Trump got his coin phrase “You’re fired” from him.

blue, his name is Ruckus, lol

Run4Life

July 13th, 2010
10:22 am

I’ve had instant attraction for about three guys…you know, the chemistry is right between us. We dated for a few years and at the time time I thought each was my soulmate. I believe you can have more than one soulmate.

I met this guy out for drinks on Sunday as casual friends. I was attracted but thought he may be a little geeky. We had engaging conversation, and he hugged me at the end of our our date, and I felt chemistry with him whereas I hadn’t before. Has anyone been hugged by someone and because of that hug it turned out to be a long term relationship? I’ve been able to tell chemistry with a first kiss but never a hug.

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
10:23 am

PRaing Uncle Ruckus is a fool man. lol And why does grandad always listen to Riley? kym I’m going to buy Season 3 for you for Christmas. lol

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
10:23 am

lol, dont know why i keep calling him rufus, always do that and get corrected at home too, lmao

We knew it was right from "Hello"

July 13th, 2010
10:24 am

I met my wife of 10 months, almost three years ago. At the time I was working a part time gig, in addition to my day job, and she came in as a prospective client/customer.

From the word “Hello” there was a chemistry; unknown to the other, we were each feeling a confidence inside that the person before us was “special”, and that they would have a profound impact on our lives.

We each had matters to deal with; post divorce finances that looked like “mud”, the fading embers of a love grown stale, or the unresolved anger left by a relationship past. As a year and some months went by, we exchanged occasional e-mails and infrequent phone calls; with each moment of contact, the original excitement and facination returned, never fading and never quite out of mind.

In March 2009, we had our first date. At some point in the evening of that first date, I looked accross the table, warned my guest I was about to “break the rules of dating”, and I asked her out again. No questions, no doubts, no waitng to call her 72 hours after the date; it was right and in accord with a “higher” plan; a perfect plan; HIS perfect plan.

The rest of the story is a “whirlwind” and 5 1/2 months later I married her; everything had fallen into its proper place and in accord with that perfect plan.

The list of potential issues was long, and there are still debts to pay; but wach morning I wake beside my best friend and each night I fall asleep beside her;

Life is Good! (and she had me from “Hello”)

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
10:25 am

Has anyone been hugged by someone and because of that hug it turned out to be a long term relationship?
Run4Life Come give me a hug and let’s see. lol

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:26 am

I went to the strip club and fell in love at first sight after I left I realized I just fell into debt. LOL

Dreams, that show is hilarious. Grand dad is always listening to Riley and trying to be cool. LOL

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
10:28 am

Uncle Rukus (said with complete sincerity): Well, that’s understandable. You a coon.

Horribly funny!!

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
10:28 am

I have to agree with DreamsMat’s 10:04 post. I don’t think any man would have stayed in town for a women, at least in that scenario as stated… I just don’t buy it.

PR…( If a divine being that you serve “told” you that someone was your spouse to be, would you act on it. What if that person was “just not that into you”?)

I have found the women of my dreams… Everything about her seemed perfect, i knew she was the one for me, I was willing to give up everything for her. But it wasn’t instant “love at first sight” tho. We met through mutual friends, then we become really good friends, we got closer, we started do everything together and things were going great. Then I realized one day that I was completely in love with her, I was in too deep, I couldn’t pull out. So I made my intentions and desires known; long story short, we are no longer friends, I don’t see her anymore, I don’t hear from her anymore, birthdays, holidays, nothing.
All my efforts didn’t amount to anything and it cost me a close friendship. The funny thing is every fiber in my being told me that she was the one, the inner voice, that divine being, or whatever you wanna call it, all told me she was it, apparently, divinity ain’t got nothing on free will.

I have never felt this way about anyone before or since and probably won’t again.

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
10:29 am

Run4Life brings up the topic of soulmates, how many folks really beleive they exist

Melo

July 13th, 2010
10:30 am

Awwwwwww,Nice story Hello..even myself am tempted to crwwwwwwwwwwwy!!

oghhhhhhhhhh..oghhhhhhhhhhhhh.

nice tho!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:31 am

I have hugged women before and “felt” something.

I went to get my head shaved ball and the lady aske to keep it and donate it to Locks of Love, that was pretty cool. :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:31 am

ball means bald

Run4Life

July 13th, 2010
10:32 am

@DreamMaterialize….Very funny.

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
10:33 am

Ummm Mike P…Let’s not jump off the cliff please. I imagine you are too young to think you will NEVER feel that way for someone else.

NEVER?? Come on now. Maybe not tomorrow, but NEVER is extreme.

Kym-Counting it all joy baby! Counting it all joy!

July 13th, 2010
10:35 am

@Purple Rain..okay I will set the DVR. Now why are you over there with the baby blues?

Sultana

July 13th, 2010
10:36 am

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
10:40 am

Hello, that’s just the sweetest story. i’m so happy for you, and you sound completely head over heels!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:40 am

Mike P, have you tried to go get her? Maybe she was scared.

Sassy Me..Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
10:41 am

I’ve been able to tell chemistry with a first kiss but never a hug.

Run4 I’ve got a male friend like that…the chemistry was instant and we’d just met. When I say chemistry I’m talking intense physical attraction to the point where even now when we’re around each other it’s electric. I’m smiling now as I type these words. We never dated b/c the timing never seemed to be right but when we’re around each other it’s magnetic…once our eyes meet OMG…

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
10:41 am

Reign, that IS pretty cool!

k bloggers. let’s say i have this ‘friend’. she’s in this great relationship with a great guy, but things are moving a little too fast for her comfort level. they’ve been together about 1.5 years and he’s been talking marriage for the past 8 months. is there anything wrong with waiting? do you risk losing The One because you want to take things slowly? i’ve told her that if slowing down brings things to an end, then it wasn’t quite right to begin with. should i be encouraging her to jump in before it’s too late?

Melo

July 13th, 2010
10:42 am

Love at first sight is more of an after thought after the initiall contact has turned out to be something positive and long lasting.

Nobody can never tell how a date is gon turn out,unless they are a sooth sayer or some kinda of prophet.

Telling the story,after the facts in this dramatic kinda way is what makes the luv stories interesting.

I made a connection with most females I dated during my time and went on to have some pretty nice romantic times with some of the females.Things is,with all of them excpet one,it didnt last all waaaaay long.

Only one,that I met after her modelling show was over, made it to wife!

Luv at first sight?? Dont know..but when I saw her, I wanted her,then got her!

AmazonRed™

July 13th, 2010
10:44 am

Morning all –

Cool story WiseDiva! I hope it works out for them.

I have a few friends who had totally given up on dating, had planned to move and make a fresh start, and then met the love of their life.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:44 am

Kym, just some family things. :)

czBrat, there are two sides of that coin. To soon or waiting to long can both be damaging.

Chink

July 13th, 2010
10:46 am

Dig…I am in a relationship now so poor timing – no facebook request from me :)

Kym-Counting it all joy baby! Counting it all joy!

July 13th, 2010
10:47 am

@Dreams I will take you up on that offer.

@Mike P..if you had that feeling once you can have it again. While I believe in destiny..I can’t wrap my head around the idea that my destiny is tied to only one guy. Again I have felt “connected” (ok my psychic/past lives beliefs are showing) to more than one guy.

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
10:48 am

So Melo, you don’t think that some people may authentically believe that they’ve experienced love at first site?

I guess I’m counting it true because I think it’s true for the people who believe they’ve experienced it.

CoolShadow

July 13th, 2010
10:51 am

My love at first sight story happened with my first love. I saw her when she boarded a bus and I was overtaken by something before I even thought of saying hello. It was something about her that I had never felt before about other girls and wasn’t quite sure how to process what I was feeling. I caught on her commuting routine and it took me about six weeks to build up the courage to say something to her. When she got off at her stop I did as well and finally said something to her, inviting her to lunch and she accepted. At that encounter I treated her to lunch but I was so smitten I took at most two bites of my lunch and basically wasted it. It took a few months for finally connect and my first love instincts became justified. Unfortunately a combination of youthfulness, immaturity and relocation derailed our relationship.

I’ve made a major sacrifice for another relationship for love but that fell apart. Now making sacrifices for love will get fleeting consideration at best and summary dismissal at worst.
I’ve never had a love at first sight experience since then. These days there might be a strong interest at first sight but I even try to temper those feelings until I find out more about her.

Kym-Counting it all joy baby! Counting it all joy!

July 13th, 2010
10:52 am

@Purple Rain you see my status message..you better count it all joy. We all go thru..heck right now I am questioning all I know about myself in my professional life. But each time I feel like lashing out..I have to count my blessings. One thing I learned this past year(oh I count years from birthday to birthday) is that I can not control what others, think, feel, imagine or believe of me. <<<This is hard for a control freak…but gradually it is sinking in. Now I don't know what is going on..but I do know from what you have shared here on the blog..you have many blessings to count..so you might want to get cracking on the countdown. Believe me it helps.

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
10:53 am

@cz – id say slowing it down may be a good idea, but she has to be careful how she approaches that topic. if she isnt careful about it, it will come across as if she wants out and not just slower. agreed tho too slow or too fast can both wreck a true thing

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
10:54 am

i’ve told her that if slowing down brings things to an end, then it wasn’t quite right to begin with. should i be encouraging her to jump in before it’s too late?

cz I agree with you in that if slowing things down brings them to an end then dude wasn’t sincere in the beginning so with that being said ….I don’t think it would be right to encourage her to “jump in” if she’s not comfortable.

Kym-Counting it all joy baby! Counting it all joy!

July 13th, 2010
10:54 am

Mannn I typed a great response to you Purple Rain..but alas the blog ate it.

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
10:57 am

cBrat – Did he give her an option/ultimatum or is she guessing her options??

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
10:57 am

Kym, I knew it would have been great. :)

I don’t think a person should place their SO in an eternal waiting pattern, I think they both need to come to a mutual agreement.

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
11:00 am

PR,
Yes I have tried, and tried, and tried; all to no avail. As a friend, she started to become less predictable, less reliable, more flaky, shown displays of being emotionally, physically distant, was more and more “forgetful,” of the things we had planned. Then she became un-friendly, unapologetic, mean, and more combative. PR, every man as his “no more” breaking-point before he loses his self-respect. There wasn’t more I wanted to do with her, she became a “tool” and I then realized that I was only one holding up/ holding on to the “friendship.” (learning moment for me). It was time for me to check out. so I went… This was a few years ago, she’s married to some other man now.

i'm swiss™

July 13th, 2010
11:01 am

I think “love at first sight” is a bit of a misnomer. I believe in intense attraction at first sight and in recognizing the potential for something special at first sight, and felt both of those fairly strongly with Mrs. Swiss. But how can you possibly be truly in love with someone without at least some time to learn who she/he really is?

Off topic: My company is looking for a technical trainer. Coolest company in the world, seriously. Some travel required to client sites, mostly university campuses. Need a strong web development (XML, XSLT, Apache Velocity, etc.) and technical training background. If anyone is interested or knows of someone who might be, let me know…

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:02 am

Mike P, I understand. Well my words may not mean anything but do not give up. You know yourself and it is a big world. Hopefully one day you will know another love and it will be more than the one you knew previously.

Melo

July 13th, 2010
11:03 am

you don’t think that some people may authentically believe that they’ve experienced love at first site?

@Luvbug??

I donk know what to believe other than u dont know its luv at first sight untill well after the facts.

U see a woman,u like some about her,u make the approach,she receprocates nicely and things develop to where u two are an item……

oghhhhhhh,it was luv at first sight is just a romantic story told that most women luv to hear….how can u luv a woman u just eyeing,when u dont even know if she wipes good??

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:05 am

Love has different meanings to people.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:10 am

Love is like playing the lotto. Some people do not believe in playing it.(Does not believe in love) Some play it faithfully waiting to win the big game.(In and out of relationships) Some only play cash 3 or the scratch offs (Just dating) Some win the big game first try. (Love at first sight) Some invest their money in more stable ventures than the lotto.(The methodical lover)

:)

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
11:13 am

@melo – Love at first sight is more of an after thought after the initiall contact has turned out to be something positive and long lasting.

never really thought of it that way b4, but can see your point. what if you say its love at first sight, and when you get to know them their a fatal attraction boil your rabbit type?

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
11:13 am

Okay Melo. Here’s a challenge that you exceed the ability to meet. Recreate your “interested at first sight” story about Queen to a love at first sight story with all the animated bells and whistles.

Actually, that challenge is open to any male blogger here.

Melo

July 13th, 2010
11:17 am

what if you say its love at first sight, and when you get to know them their a fatal attraction boil your rabbit type?

@blue-7/30??

exactly my point.! Luv is tested…

can u luv her when u realize her azz is smelling funky all the damn time??

@Luvbug..I dont get the challenge?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:18 am

Luvbug, I can’t do it.

Chink

July 13th, 2010
11:18 am

Nice Analogy PR (lotto)

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
11:19 am

@Hello ~ NICE!

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
11:19 am

Melo – Retell the story of how you met and became interested in Queen, but in an elaborate “love at first site” way.

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
11:20 am

Why not PR??

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:30 am

Luvbug, I don’t have a story that is relative.

SlimOne...head in the clouds

July 13th, 2010
11:30 am

PeePee – Love the lotto analogy. Guess I tend to play the same numbers waiting on it to hit….but every now and then i’ll do a cash 3 or something. Some folks like to do only quick picks….Guess your numbers hit but you chose the annuity payout option lol

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
11:31 am

Melo

July 13th, 2010
11:32 am

Retell the story…….but in an elaborate “love at first site” way

@Luvbug!??

I could and to appeal to female sapppy feelings,be elaborate enough to invoke the feelings of desire i had for her,watching her as she glided on the ramp and me imagining how she could be my future wife and the wonderful lyfe we could have tgether.

1. the story wld be a contrived one coz my feelings for her(desire and lust) then had nothing to do with luv..the luv came after i started relating to her

2 the story wld be good for single folks(esp ladies) just so it puts them(mentally) in a situation where they dont get jaded about single lyfe and marriage and proly make them hope to be in a similar situation some day,if they are looking to be married some day.

3.Its just a good story..it never happens like that in reality..unless u look back and imagine then and now,assuming u are in a happy place.

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
11:32 am

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:33 am

SlimOne, “playing the same numbers, waiting on them to hit” That should be added. (That would be the personn who refuses to change anything about them at all) Good one SlimUno

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
11:34 am

:razz:
:neutral:
:eek:

don’t mind me, im just testing these text-icons

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
11:35 am

Mike P – I’m sorry that happened to you, but I see now why you come across as a little bitter. I’m sure there’s more to Wise’s story too, but why would she call him days later if he had told her he was leaving the next day? See, you just don’t want to give a woman any credit! I’m sure there’s more to your story too – we’re only hearing your side of it. Either way, she’s moved on and married someone else. Don’t continue to give her power over you and your future happiness by thinking every woman you meet is suspect and will hurt you like you said she hurt you. Life is short – enjoy it and don’t give her the power!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:35 am

Has anyone made a spouse out of a wh0re (knowingly) and it worked? Or has anyone married and stayed happily married to someone in which you had sex to soon. (notice this is not gender specific)

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
11:38 am

Purple – If they married and are happy, then the physical itimacy didn’t happen “too soon”. They did what worked for the two of them, without judgement.

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
11:39 am

thanx Sassy & blue. no, Luvbug. no ultimatum. he’s fully committed with no time constraints. he just wants to be hubs & wifey now because he knows she’s the one. she’s not stringing him along, but she and i are a lot alike in that we really enjoy our independence. i was afraid i was advising her based solely on my own pov.

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
11:40 am

Hey swiss?
What other positions does your company have open?

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
11:41 am

@MikeP ~ that’s what most of us did when this new blog format opened. We played.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:43 am

I need suggestions for a weekend romantic get away this weekend. Driving distance(no more than 6 hours), leave Thursday and come back Sunday night.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:44 am

kimmie, I agree, I just wonder where others get the “need to wait longer” or “this is to soon” stuff from.

AmazonRed™

July 13th, 2010
11:44 am

Do you think facebook, myspace, or twitter helps destiny along? Chink you don’t have to wonder where he is, go facebook buddy

I think it can. My sister and another friend reconnected with old sweethearts from school and now they are married. Another story I read was after a “missed opportunity” in exchanging numbers led to the woman finding the guy on FB and reconnecting. They are engaged now.

Elijah ( Today is a good day!)

July 13th, 2010
11:45 am

Hello superstars of the blog world!

On Topic: I do not believe in love at first sight but I believe a very intense attraction can happen whenn you first meet someone. Also, if you life is balance and drama free then you are more likely to be ready for a love at first sight meeting.

A special hello to Free2b! How are you doing beautiful lady? :smile:

On that note I am gone!

Make today your best day!

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
11:46 am

PR.. I hear that Calloway Gardens is a nice retreat for a couples weekend :)

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
11:46 am

Carlito: Romantic getaway: Go to Savannah

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:49 am

What is there to do in Calloway Gardens and Savannah and do they have high end resorts there with amenities?

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
11:54 am

Has anyone made a spouse out of a wh0re (knowingly) and it worked?

I’ve asked that question on here before. I think it depends on your definition of whrre. A lot of folks get soiled and spoiled leftovers…remember one man’s junk is another man’s treasure.

Purple Hilton Head, Calloway or Chattanooga.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
11:55 am

Purple you should google. Calloway is an hours south of Atlanta it is about nature, good food, trails and they have a spa…laidback and relaxing

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:55 am

Pluses for Hilton Head and Savannah because they have water sports :)

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
11:56 am

no, Calloway gardens isn’t a high end resort.. its more of a relaxing, secluded location with different gardens as the theme, they have many hotels and cottages there and they have a man-made beach out there too… I’m sure you could use some peace and quite and your SO will love the beauty. Go google it up and check it out and see if something you’d enjoy going to.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:56 am

Diana, Calloway is to close, that would feel just like driving to work and back home, plus no water :)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
11:57 am

Mike P, I googled it. I am going to pass on Callaway. Thanks you for the suggestion.

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
11:57 am

Purple – 11:44 – You know where that mindset comes from! LOL! Several sources! Some of it comes from men judging women that “give it up too soon” and didn’t make them “work for it” – thinking “she does this with every dude” though he was a very willing participant! It comes from experience – most of time, things work out better if you wait and get to know someone and what their intentions are before taking things there. A lot of times things won’t ever “go there” after you find out a few things!

It’s about maturity and understanding what works for you and what and when you feel comfortable sharing with another person.

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
11:59 am

I have not been to Calloway Gardens in forever. What’s goin on over there these days.

Melo

July 13th, 2010
11:59 am

@PR…Kirk Franklin’s wife aint here..he is the only one that i know of who has publicly professed to his prior whrrishness.

I dont know what the wife wld say tho!

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
12:00 pm

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
12:01 pm

@Dig That~ IMO Calloway is a lot of fun spring and fall…Christmas is a fun too because of the Holiday lights. I love Christmas lights and hot cocoa. :grin:

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
12:01 pm

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
12:02 pm

Mike P I see you are having fun! :cool: :grin: :evil:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:03 pm

Maybe this will help, we want to swim, shop and get a massage. The hotel needs to have enough amenities just incase we decide not to leave the room for a day.

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
12:03 pm

where’s Hilton Head? I’ve heard it was a cool place, but never been.

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
12:04 pm

LMBO!! @ dirty diana

Mike P

July 13th, 2010
12:05 pm

how did you bold my name? @ddiana

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:07 pm

we want to swim, shop and get a massage. The hotel needs to have enough amenities just incase we decide not to leave the room for a day.

@PR…have u been to lake Lanier..right here in GA?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:08 pm

How do you make the faces :v

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:08 pm

PR go to Chateau Elan. it may not be much of an out-of-town drive, but it’s a very nice, romantic getaway.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:09 pm

Melo, that is to close to home. Same shopping areas as home

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
12:09 pm

side rant – black and white do not make hispanic. just because i am not bright white or obviously black does not mean i speak fluent spanish. i cant give you directions, translate for you, or give tours to spanish speaking clients. i speak high school spanish that i learned 14 years ago! arrgggg :x
anyway, sorry, back to your regularly scheduled program…..Calloway gardens was it?

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
12:09 pm

Swissie sounds like someone needs the “cheat sheet”…lol

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:09 pm

CanalZone, what is that?

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:14 pm

@Dee??

so Calloway Gardens is only an hr down on I 85?

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
12:16 pm

Carlito: Savannah is about a 4 hr drive south of Atlanta.
They have Tibey Island, the Beach, ghosts tours, and romantic restaurants.
you can stay in a hotel or rent a condo, bed and breakfast that have ammenities.

I went there 2 yrs ago and would love to go back.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:16 pm

blue, someone has thought I was hispanic and started speaking to me in spanish. Julia and I were the only non-hispanics there so we played the role well, until it was time to order. Then the gig was up. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
12:16 pm

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:16 pm

I Am, can you drive to the island or do you take a ferry?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:18 pm

I Am, grazie

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:18 pm

it’s a winery/vinyar/hotel north of atlanta. only about 30 minutes up 85. you can hike the property; wine tasting/vinyard tour; cooking classes (where you get to down all the wine you can handle while you’re cooking & dining :) ). they gift each of you a bottle of wine after the class, and the rooms are beautiful. they do have a spa but i’m not sure about a pool. there are restaurants & bars onsite with live music as well.

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:20 pm

I am, i thought of tybee as a good option too, but i wasn’t sure about the distance. i think you can make it in about 5.5 hrs. Savannah is cool, but it’s stinky :( you’re better off going a bit south to brunswick or north to hilton head.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
12:21 pm

I used the thingy on Swiss sheet…you use the “strong” around the words you wish to bold it seems funny but it is

enter the words you wish to bold just take the “” and the spaces out

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:21 pm

CanaltotheZoneBreezy, grazie. I am impressed with the Tybee Island area :)

mqew

July 13th, 2010
12:21 pm

My SO had me when I saw him. I was at the top of the stairs and he was walking up them to come to my roommate’s party. I was stopped in my tracks!!!! :lol: :lol: It was def love at first sight for me. We have never ever forgotten that night. I remember it like it was yesterday. I think his love at “first” sight came when he first saw me in my G without all the heavy artillery ie winter clothes :lol: :lol: :lol:

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:23 pm

Professor, i find it easier to bold with the “b”. but then, i’m kinda lazy :lol:

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:24 pm

@PR..

one place I wanna go with my babe on a romantic gate away is Amelia Island off the east cost near Jacksonville FL…

Ive heard its splackalisciously nice over there.,even the pictures look it.,…Jacksonville is about 6 hrs..dont know Amelia.

Also try Reynolds plantation..its about an hr or so on I -20..been there with Queen..u will be enthralled..there is water,massage,the food is off the chain if u are in the hilton and u cn play water sports on Oconnee lake….thats an awesome place. Truth introduceD me to it.

Julia will def luv that place… Queen and I had some of the most awesome eeky eeky there..it forces u to!

Yeah we bombed spitfire on their towels and sheets! :lol:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:25 pm

Ok maybe Hilton Head, did not like the lodging on the island to much

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:26 pm

Melo, off to Google Amelia Island.

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:27 pm

Melo, we’ve done amelia too. it’s verrrrry quiet, relaxed and beautiful. definitely a good option if you want to get away from it all.

i’m gonna have to loook into reynolds. is that west toward villa rica??

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
12:28 pm

Melo it is…I love walking the trails…eating some good food and getting a massage at the spa. It is a fun place to enjoy the person you are with, be lazy, not dress up and just enjoy nature.

Mike P I forgot what I was going to say

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
12:31 pm

Hilton Head is in South Carolina.

@PR ~ Chateau Elan may be up your alley and what you’re looking for!

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
12:33 pm

czBrat I don’t think they had the “b” option on the cheatsheet when I started using it because I am lazy too.

@Purp- I am thinking about spending a weekend in December at Calloway gardens…away from it all…Christmas lights…fireplace…hot cocoa

mqew

July 13th, 2010
12:33 pm

PRain – Try Sandestin Resorts. The Baytonne Wharf Village is where we stayed. I absolutely loved it. It has different areas, so it’s your choice of the scenerio you want to stay…. We had a condo that we loved… Went to Destin to get some strawberries, wine, champagne, seafood (well I don’t know about that now, but) cause the condo had a kitchen then dining area that let out to the patio that led to the beautiful pool area…. Loved it!!! Then we could walk down to the Baytonne Wharf area and do a lil shopping or have lunch/dinner there…. I’ve been trying to go back! You can swim, bike ride the resort, or fish…..

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:33 pm

@Czbrat..east wards towards Augusta

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
12:34 pm

@pr – lol, thats a good one, but dont now enuf spanish to fake it, lol
ive heard tybee island is nice, isnt there another island over there, simon something?

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:35 pm

@Czbrat..how long is the drive to Amelia??

@Dee..i think my kids and Queen will luv the flowers..I dont know if i wll luv it but i will take one for the fam.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:39 pm

You all are making it harder to choose, but now the beach is a great idea. Off to google sandestin

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:39 pm

@PR..I can hook u up a deal on Hilton Head if u want..thats my spot….u get to live in pvt gated commty and have pvt beach.lemme know..thats 5 hrs drive

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:42 pm

Melo, send me the link please.

You all are making it hard, we are just going to go to the Holiday Inn on Peachtree and walk around Piedmont Park. LOL j/k

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:44 pm

mqew, sandestine is great! he’d probably have to stick to the pools since it’s on the gulf. the oceanfront resorts & condos are awesome. another good option in that area is santa rosa beach. and that might be about an hour closer. it’s more quaint than the touristy destin area.

melo, you should be able to make amelia island in about 6 hrs.

profesora, let’s think of it as being more efficient.

mqew

July 13th, 2010
12:44 pm

PRain – I just looked at their website, and it looks like we stayed in the Village at Market Street Inn. I loved the fact that our patio led to the pool/jacuzzi area…

Melo

July 13th, 2010
12:45 pm

@PR..there u go

.http://www.spinnakerresorts.com/

let me know when u settle on where u want to stay

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:45 pm

Sandestin looks nice but after reading the reviews on the area. “They cleaned up all of the tar balls”,”Only a few tar balls every 2 or 3 feet” etc. I am going to pass on that area.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
12:47 pm

mqew, thanks we could go and not get in the “beach” and just do the pool. Plus I bet I could save some money since they are needing business.

Melo, thanks :)

mqew

July 13th, 2010
12:51 pm

PRain – It’s so much to do in the Village area that we had to “make” ourselves just do the beach… So you don’t have to go to the beach. The Village was like ten minutes from the beach, but both are still on the resort. They have shuttle buses. Between the pool, biking, and tennis we did do… we were good.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
12:53 pm

czBrat post the code so I can stop typing all this extra stuff…lol

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
12:58 pm

just use the letter “b” instead of typing “strong”. same way “del” works instead of typing “strike” to cross something out.

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
1:01 pm

Czbrat: Tybee island is right there in Savannah

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
1:01 pm

huh

huh

okay gotta go run my tre…

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
1:02 pm

Well dang then Melo. You’ve thought of all the reasons to hold in your heart flutters. It’s officially dropped then.

I know you at least considered it for a second though. LOL

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
1:02 pm

lurker_1

July 13th, 2010
1:05 pm

PR, may I suggest Kiawah Island in SC. It’s about 10mi south of Charleston (sp?). Rent a condo or villa and just relax. If you like biking, they have several trails all over the island and it’s private. You can go into historic Charleston for dining and the market. We love that place!

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
1:05 pm

here’s an fyi that most of you probably already know. if you don’t mind spending 90 precious minutes listening to a sales pitch, take advantage of a super low rate at a resort (or sometimes hotel), by booking a timeshare tour during your stay.

just a suggestion from your former sheisty friendly neighborhood timeshare saleswoman. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
1:06 pm

Gotcha…thanks Brat

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
1:09 pm

Hilton Head dooooes seem nice.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
1:10 pm

lurker_1, I am off to google. Thank you :)

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
1:11 pm

@luvbug I think you should post your quote again.

@Sassssssssssssssssssy just call me a little slow but your 1:01 and 1:02 confused me.

@Where is Been Lurking today????

Zsa Zsa

July 13th, 2010
1:12 pm

A woman wants one man to satisfy her every need. A man wants every woman to satisfy his one.

With that being said, I have had my share of failed loves and I have loved every one of them. Does that make a woman a whore? No, It makes her human and I agree with the person who said that One man’s whore is another mans housewife. Be very careful about judging. Most men only make hateful statements about women because they hate them or want them and can’t have them.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
1:15 pm

@Luvbug ~ seeing your name reminded me to see end of the day quote. I like, I like! Thank you! I have the black man’s disease after eating good food. I am so so sleepy…time to go for a walk around the campus!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
1:15 pm

lurker_1, that is very nice there.

Ballwood

July 13th, 2010
1:16 pm

On topic: I thought it was love at first but then I find out that I can generate the same feeling with a bottle of vanilla scented lotion.

Pee-Are: Macon it has an ocean and you can ski if you want.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
1:16 pm

@Dirty D ~ sounds like she’s been nipping at the bottle, doesn’t it!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
1:16 pm

My brain is mush, to many options. You ladies know how we men get when we have to many options. LOL I am done thinking about it. I might just go to good old expedia and choose. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
1:18 pm

Macon, LOL that is south Atlanta. LOL We have a lake here in Dawsonville. :)

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
1:18 pm

thanx, I am. i was thinking tybee and st. simons were the two islands right off the coast of brunswick.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
1:19 pm

I saw one place I think it was Amelia Island that had a golf and tennis package, we do both. There has to be some good food and shopping in Jacksonville?

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
1:22 pm

JOB ANNOUNCEMENT:

Department: Data Systems – Title: Software Architect

Description: Position Summary: Responsible for direction and coordination of the software architecture environment of applications developed by the Data Systems team. Assures integration and interoperability between internal and external software applications running on all current and future operation systems. Serves as the technical team lead by applying expertise in software development and software architecture practices. This role reports to the Manager of Data Systems and works with the Project Leads and Data Administration area to define and coordinate architectural standards and methods, including the implementation of repeatable development processes and methodologies.

Education: Bachelor’s Degree in Computer Science or Information Technology related field.

Just in case you know of anyone…it’s hard out there!

Melo

July 13th, 2010
1:29 pm

@PR

If u do Ritz carlton either Reynolds or Amelia,the food is off da meter..i can testify about Reynolds.All the places i recommended to u have golf,shopping,tennis….did u check the different rental plantations on Hilton head spinnaker web site i send u?

Ritz Carlton Amelia Isl is 259.00 a nite,i just checked it..if u go there and solidify that prego,Julia might just give u twins instead! :lol: she will be so happy!

now making a big fam in one pop..u wld be the champ! :lol: :lol:

@czBrat..that lure of a free nite for a sales pitch is how I came to own my timeshare

Wise Diva

July 13th, 2010
1:36 pm

is it 5 yet? Geeeezzz, I swear it’s almost not worth it to go on vacations. LOL Trying to stay sane over here! How are you guys doing :)

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
1:37 pm

CZBrat: I’m in need of a vacation.
I’m open to a sales pitch

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
1:39 pm

@czBrat..that lure of a free nite for a sales pitch is how I came to own my timeshare
but we still cool right melo? :lol:

my resort sales stint was actually very brief. didn’t like the tactics. i did resale for several years and luved it! still miss it actually.

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
1:41 pm

I am, my best advice is to take advantage of the freebie (or cheap) vacation deal with the tour but DON’T buy. if you really want the timeshare, buy it on the resale market.

and USE IT! otherwise it’s wasted $$ no matter how good a deal you got.

Skeptical

July 13th, 2010
1:44 pm

I am skeptical about love at first sight. I felt like I connected with past partners initially then after talking to them regularly within the month I knew how long if it would work out.

Melo

July 13th, 2010
1:45 pm

@czBrat??

.
our sales guy was the best..no pressure,laid back dude.

now,3 years after that, we went on another sales pitch here in GA up north in the GA mountains….we let the lady talk and talk and taaaaaaaaalk,while listening attentively…we just wanted a weekend afternoon gate away of free lunch and drives…she was made when i turned her down as soon as we sat down and she asked.:

so how did u like it??

I said Nope, I dont like it..there is nothing attrative for me here!

:evil: :evil: :evil: :shock:

Wise Diva

July 13th, 2010
1:47 pm

hey Leggs, thanks for posting that! Can you email me info on where to apply for that? Please and thank you! wise.diva@gmail.com

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
1:51 pm

I said Nope, I dont like it..there is nothing attrative for me here!

I did the same on my free getaway to Vegas and another one to Florida.
Hilton Head is great though. I also second what someone said about islands off the coast of Charleston…beautiful, and the local Gullah food is awesome. The Biltmore Estate in Asheville, NC is a great trip as well. Now, if you’re trying to travel a litte bit, Martha’s Vineyard and Nantucket are wonderful in the summer.

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
1:51 pm

LOL @ melo. that’s the way to do it.

cool so many IT opportunities circulating. i need to network some insurance or property management angles.

lurker_1

July 13th, 2010
2:01 pm

Dream, I can second the Biltmore Estate in Asheville. We went in Oct and colors were breath taking. Ironic, the guy who told me about Kiawah Island also told me about the Biltmore.

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
2:02 pm

Wise you job hunting on your employer’s site? j/k lol

Swiss I might have someone interested in the position you posted earlier. Hit me at DreamsMaterialize@yahoo.com and let me know the procedure.

Zsa Zsa

July 13th, 2010
2:02 pm

The longest journey you will ever take will be between your own heart and your own mind. Real Love does not have time constraints. Its truly unfortunate when we give up on one person who would never give up on you.

Been Lurkin

July 13th, 2010
2:16 pm

Hello all.
@Dirty Diana – I been here, just been lurkin lol kinda busy at work so havent gotten a moment to say hey to all.

Dirty Diana

July 13th, 2010
2:23 pm

Hey Been Lurkin!

Purple anywhere with roomservice and a massage is good so you will be fine…even if it is macon.

@DreamsM you listed some great options

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:28 pm

Good Afternoon Good People!!!! ;)

Dirty Diana

July 13th, 2010
2:30 pm

Hey Lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
2:31 pm

OK, back from lunch with a WTF moment for today:

NM man set on fire after losing drinking bet
A 47-year-old man’s friends set his prosthetic leg on fire after he lost a drinking bet, causing him to suffer severe burns to his buttocks and lower back. Dona Ana County sheriff’s deputies found the man naked on the side of U.S. Route 70 with his prosthetic leg in flames. Deputies learned that the man and his friends were drinking Monday and bet that whoever drank the least would be set on fire.

abc

July 13th, 2010
2:31 pm

Macon! That’s a laugh. Not exactly a vacation destination. I’ve lived down there, it’s an okay place to live, I suppose.

Callaway is probably more for golfers; Hilton Head has the beach, resorts, and golf; Chattanooga is more of a day trip, really. I spent a weekend there once, it was sort of, eh, y’know. Incline railway, Ruby Falls, Rock City, Aquarium, Lookouts ballgame, not much else.

Melo

July 13th, 2010
2:31 pm

How can something so familiar be so strange

@Lady J?? :roll:

yeah,it can be esp when u havent had it in a while!

but that dip always makes ur whole body shudder,dont it..oogh,the shongololo-electricity running donw ur spine!

:lol: :lol:

Sassy Me...Chocolate Cutey :-)

July 13th, 2010
2:31 pm

just call me a little slow but your 1:01 and 1:02 confused me.

Dirty Di I was trying out the other ways of bolding and striking through stuff that’s all…

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
2:33 pm

Good afternoon, Lady!

Dirty Diana

July 13th, 2010
2:34 pm

abc, he asked for a suggestion not a summary of the options listed.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
2:35 pm

@blue ~ people do the stupidest of things. What a dumb a$$ bet to make. Liquid courage will have one doing the dumbest of things. Bet they made that dumb bet after drinking a few.

Dirty Diana

July 13th, 2010
2:36 pm

@Sasssssssssssssy thanks

@Melo I think Lady is talking about something else. Lady I know what you are talking about we are >>>here<<<

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:36 pm

hi Leggs!!!!

what’s going on professor catch me up!?!

@melo LMBAO! I totally forgot about that geesh! lol

Dirty Diana

July 13th, 2010
2:37 pm

Lady I need someone to catch me up I am behind on the blog today

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:38 pm

thanks professor honey! LOL!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:39 pm

oh okay well really no need I am just passing through waving @ my peeps!

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
2:39 pm

Most are giving PR suggestions on where to take a few days off with Julia.

New Edition ~ Candy Girl is playing…oh my, mentally went way back! (LOL)

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
2:44 pm

Candy Girl
You are my world
I neeed your love
Each and every day!

Love New Edition!!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:44 pm

thanks leggs honey!!!!! Where is PR!?! Hey PR!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:45 pm

kimmie I love them more honey! lol

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
2:51 pm

What you all know about the NE?

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
2:52 pm

Lady – How about one of my coworkers told me her 13 yr old daughter was crying the other day over Justin Bieber! Said she just wants to meet him so bad!LOL!!!

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
2:52 pm

hi Lady – ok so passed on Despicable Me, saw the new Predator movie instead. Turned out to be pretty good

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:52 pm

They are from Boston like you boo! lol how are you DreamsM!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:54 pm

Blue I keep getting out of the movies bc I am taking that chic on a beach vacation that includes her bday party so no movies yet! Glad you enjoyed it honey!!! how are you doing?

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
2:55 pm

Ok, people. I had to laugh at what my coworker just told me. For you guys, how many would really tolerate a conversation like this:

Setup – both are living together:

Man: I know about the 3 last dudes you were with before me. How does my “size” stack up to theirs?

Girl: Well, you know _______ was long and thick and I liked what we did together.

Man: How about _____. How was he built?

Girl: He was good. Thick and thick.

Man: Oh, what do you think about my “size”

I am not BSing. She is actually having this convo with her mate. Is this not strange???

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
2:55 pm

@Leggs – that was my thought too, mustve made that bet after the drinks already started flowing. but some friends huh, started to take him to the hospital and flaked, left him on the side of the road! boys can be so dumb lmao

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
2:55 pm

kimmie NE makes me tear up too shhhhhhhh though! lol! “I thought it was me”

Melo

July 13th, 2010
2:56 pm

@DertyDee?Lady J??

there used to be a radio program sponsored by a sugar processing company back home tjhat used to be run on weekends. It wld run on saturdays mid morning..around 10.00am

It was very popular. The radio dee jays wld take the program mobile to different city areas and hoods and pple wld form crowds as they ran contests,inviting folks in the crowd to answer qstions and then win prizes..of bicycles,wheelbarrows,sugar cases etc.

And the dee jays wld ask general qstions and ofcourse some tricky ones.

On this one satruday really,the dee jay had a simple qstion and wanted to give away the daily prize…

“Who is going to answer the first qstion today?”" —the dee jay implored and this middle aged woman came forward..”its me my son,its my turn today,the woman smiled and shouted! steping to the front of the crowd.

Dee Jay! ok mama,ur qstion today, “”which animal,when provoked raises its big head? :-)

the woman thoght long and hard..it sounded like a real easy qstion but this Dee Jay was known for asking tricky qstions..so she thoght long and hard,silently..whimpering in angst on occassion. and couldnt believe he wld ask that kinda of a qstion anyway.”aaghhhhhhh”" she sighed.

she had the answer but wasnt sure the Dee Jay WAS really serious bout it”

Mama ::” my son, im shy to answer that one! :-) :lol:

DeeJAY : Mama,are u sure u going to let this prize of 50 kilograms of sugar go? Dee jay enticing Mama and yeling to the crowd:

“Do u folks know the answer to the qstion??”

Crowd: all in unison: YEAAAAAAAAAAAAH(yelling)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mama: My son,please….im shy..aaagghhhh,cant do it! (yelling) U cant do that to me!”

Dee Jay: Mama, u hear the crowd,they know the answer,if u wont answer, im gon let another contestant take the prize,im giving u one more time..last chance for u mama”

Mama: Yelling her lungs Out ……. ITS A DYCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKK!

:lol: :lol:

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
2:56 pm

Dreams – I love them, their music is fun! I like them better than Boys to Men, seriously!

Cause if it isn’t love
Why do I feel this way?
Why does he
Stay on
My mind?

DreamsMaterialize

July 13th, 2010
2:59 pm

They are from Boston like you boo! lol how are you DreamsM!
Lady Now you know I know where they’re from. I’m actually related to one of them, believe it or not. lol I’m fine though. How are you? When we going to Cape Hatteras? ;-)

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
3:01 pm

i screamed and i am done melo your a hot azz mess it is too damn hot honey! lmbao!

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:01 pm

Lady, i wanna beach vacation :( , gotta drop some hints,bdays right around the corner….Predator turned out to be pretty good, but can someone please tell me why people bring their little ones(im talkign like 8 and 9)to the 10pm showing of aa R rated movie? wasnt 5 min in b4 the four letter words strted flying, and all i could do was look at the kid next to me lol

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
3:02 pm

DreamsM book and i am there honey!
listen which one honey shoot you should have came to see The heads of State with ya gal! lololololololol

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
3:05 pm

Lady – I was thinking about this crazy skit Saturday Night Live did when Justin Bieber hosted.

Tina Fey played this teacher that had Justin in her class. She secretly had the hots for him and they would play her secret thoughts out loud. Justin didn’t make it any better for her because he would say these little sweet flirty things to her and she would be all hot and bothered! He would look at her and say you’re so pretty. She would think, “he’s so sweet and innocent, like a baby bunny smelling a flower”! It was hillarious!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:06 pm

Lady, Hello.

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
3:06 pm

Enter your comments hereBlue my bday is around the corner too and look @ dreamsM asking about Duck, NC!!!!! WOOHOO!!!!!! (Outerbanks) geesh!

Blue I hope you all can go one!

i'm swiss™

July 13th, 2010
3:08 pm

Dreams — You’ve got mail.

i am… — Right now, the only other position we’re hiring for is an engineering intern. Although, we have a sister company (in the same offices) who are also have a couple of positions open:

2. Pardot Client Services Coordinator and Support:

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/client-services-coordinator.html

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/client-support-rep.html

3. Pardot Sales Associate – We are currently recruiting for Sales Associates in both Atlanta and in Tallahassee.

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/sales-associate.html

Let me know if any of those look appealing.

Sassy — Did you say someone needed the cheat sheet?

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
3:09 pm

Hey PR how are you doing?

kimmie you are schooling me you know I am lost with JB! LOL funny skit though! lol

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:11 pm

Leggs, why would any man ask his woman about her previous man’s size. That is stupid.

i'm swiss™

July 13th, 2010
3:12 pm

Dreams — You’ve got mail.

i am… — Right now, the only other position we’re hiring for is an engineering intern. Although, we have a sister company (in the same offices) who are also have a couple of positions open:

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/client-services-coordinator.html

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/client-support-rep.html

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/sales-associate.html

Let me know if any of those look appealing.

Sassy — Did you say someone needed the cheat sheet?

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:12 pm

Lady, day to day :)

i'm swiss™

July 13th, 2010
3:13 pm

Dreams — You’ve got mail.

i am… — Right now, the only other position we’re hiring for is an engineering intern. Although, we have a sister company (in the same offices) who are also have a couple of positions open:

http://www.pardot.com/company/careers/

Let me know if any of those look appealing.

Sassy — Did you say someone needed the cheat sheet?

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:14 pm

@PR ~ I think so too. She’s telling me that they are open with all questions to one another. I don’t understand that because even if you have the nerve to ask particular questions, anybody thinking about the ego crushing aftermath you will have to deal with after answering those dumba$$ questions if hurt feelings should arise?

I don’t care to know the size the the honey pot before mine. The thought would never, ever even cross my mine. To be honest, I don’t care the size of any woman’s body parts who he’s been with me before. Why waste my energy on dumb stuff like that…women don’t do that!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
3:15 pm

keep moving forward sir! :)

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:16 pm

didnt think men really were all that interested in anyone elses size, or for that matter any particulars about an ex….

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:17 pm

She is actually having this convo with her mate. Is this not strange???

@Leggs??

she works at ur job??

so what did she tell him?? both are stupid

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:20 pm

Yes, she works with me. She told him what I put in that skit. It was her actual conversation. All I can do is SMH!!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:20 pm

I guy wanting to know a previous guys size probably likes to take it up the poop chute.
:razz:

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:22 pm

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:22 pm

@Leggs??

what did she tell him about his package?? I dont see it there.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:23 pm

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
3:24 pm

yall be easy! peace!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:24 pm

Self Esteem issues, you should serve your lady so well there should be no questions about who gives it to her the best. Make a name for yourself.

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:25 pm

@pr – nice to see mine wasnt the only mind that went there, sounds like he’s scoping out lol.
@Leggs – agreed, most definietly dont want to hear about ms.whoever b4 me, dont need to know the size of anything or any tricks she could do, anything else, keep that to yourself please

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
3:25 pm

Leggs, are these young folk?

Stupid! Plus, red flags would go up for me if a dude is so interested in knowing about some other dude’s body parts!

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
3:25 pm

whoa! i see things have really picked up this afternoon. Leggs, i bet there are women who try to compare breast size. not me personally (i’d never win :( ), but i bet it’s done all the time.

any guy asking to compare his size to someone else’s has already been told he’s not the most impressive stallion in the stall. i wonder if your co-worker had the guts to confirm it for him.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:26 pm

@Melo ~ sorry. She told him he wasn’t as thick as the first guy, but she liked what he brought to the bedroom.

I can’t imagine having a convo like that with the person I’m with. My ex husband use to ask about someone from my past and I shut him down with the quickness saying I’m not about to have this convo with you. End of discussion!

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:26 pm

All that says to me is INSECURITY…..

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:28 pm

@Kimmie..i bet thats a 36 + woman..lil girls dont do that

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:29 pm

i think my first question at that point would be why do you wanna know? then, do you really think im gonna answer? thats just asking for an argument, hurt feelings at best

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:29 pm

I really do not know what else to say about that. I have been asked if I have “hurt” other women by a current before.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:31 pm

She’s 37 and I believe he’s 32?

@czB ~ you might be right on the breast issue. I was so tiny (plums), but I never asked about another woman’s. I just worked with what I had.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:32 pm

Props, to all of the “little” guys before me who make me seem so “big” now. LOL

I remember when dating a woman asked me my “size” I said I don’t know. I don’t have a reference to judge it against, I don’t go around sizing up other guys “peckers”. How is a guy supposed to know how his sizes up against other guys?

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:32 pm

She told him he wasn’t as thick as the first guy

@Leggs??

that has to be some of the dummest stuff i have ever heard about 2 pple living tgether. And for her to even contemplate pacyfing his ego like that with that response….they gotta be two such low life and low esteemed pple that found each other.

so the first guy made a real good impression on her! LMBOFF! he dont even get it!

:roll: :roll:

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
3:33 pm

guys, if you’re rocking her world and making her cross-eyed in the bedroom believe me, she’ll tell you. if she has no particular comment other than “it’s good” …. don’t ask for further details.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:34 pm

Or rather he worked with what I had!

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:36 pm

@Melo ~ I know they’re not low life…just too carefree for me. I wouldn’t have a convo like that with ANY man ever. If my man should constantly ask, may be grounds for ending the relationship because I can’t be someone that insecure. No doubt it will affect the relationship going forward.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:37 pm

Melo, maybe her hole is to big and worn out and he feels lost in the ocean, and wants to know what happened to her elasticity and if she can even feel him. LOL

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:40 pm

@pr, if you really broke it down for her “well im bigger than _____, but smaller than ______, guess im about even with ______” she’d of looked at you like you were insane lol
@cz – right on. she’ll tell you if your on point, but if she has nothing overly spectacular to say, dont push your luck. if she answers at all, shes trying to be kind, keep pushing and she’ll blast ya

kimmie

July 13th, 2010
3:40 pm

No doubt it will affect the relationship going forward.

Leggs – No it won’t – crazy folk like that belong together and love mess like that!LOL!!

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:42 pm

@PR ~ I tend to side with your reasoning because I know some thangs this chick has done back to back to back back in the day and a new trick she pulled afew weeks ago. Yeah, I think you are on point.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:42 pm

blue, aren’t I supposed to be critiquing a video for you? LOL

kimmie, or he is going to try and break her back or give her more oral. LOL

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:43 pm

She’s 37 and I believe he’s 32?

@Leggs??

the only other scenario i can think of is if the guy aint serious about her..he dont care coz to him,hes is playing.

That age difference may be the reason..she may be thirstier fro him than he is for her.

Melo, maybe her hole is to big and worn out and he feels lost in the ocean and if he feels that way,all the more why he wld ask that in a non caring way…i hope she aint being strung along,like the topic yesterday!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:46 pm

Leggs, LOL “back to back to back back”

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:46 pm

@Leggs??

3.42 spill it! she aint here u know! :-)

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:47 pm

LOL, this is funny. “Baby, am I bigger?” Only thing worse than that is a guy telling her it’s big and she says “No it’s not” LOL

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:49 pm

@kimmie – there is the philosophy like finds like, or crazy and insecure finds crazy and insecure lol
@pr – critiquing, there was that wasnt there lol….which one you want, the french maid or the librarian?

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:49 pm

@kimmie ~ I said it would affect MY relationship going forward if I was involved with a man that constantly kept asking me the size of partners over the years.

i'm swiss™

July 13th, 2010
3:49 pm

“How is a guy supposed to know how his sizes up against other guys?”

:lol: PR — You should have told that chick, “Well, when me & my buddy _____ were double-teaming the last ho I dated, mine looked a little bigger…”

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:51 pm

@Melo ~ flip the script…he’s crazy about her and she’s not completely on the same page.

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:52 pm

@Melo ~ have to laugh at you because you always make sure the man is the one using the woman. It’s inconceiveable for you to think the woman is using the man!!!! You never post he’s the one more thirsty than what she is!!!!

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:52 pm

blue, french maid :) When can I view the video? I prefer blu ray format but if you do not have that I have an upscaling dvd player that will convert standard def to a 108-p Hi- Def signal

Swiss, two girls and one guy is awesome, two guys and one girl is gay. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
3:55 pm

Leggs, you can count on Melo for the man being used by the woman and kimmie for the woman being used by the man. LOL

Melo

July 13th, 2010
3:56 pm

You never post he’s the one more thirsty than what she is!!!!

@Leggs??

I do! but men have sexx thirst..All men do…females have marriage thirst..thats the difference.

He is using her,never mind he seems thirsty to her..he is learning thanx to her storied background.

i'm swiss™

July 13th, 2010
3:56 pm

PR — How about two girls & one cup? :lol: (If you don’t know, google it… and have a barf bag handy…)

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
3:57 pm

@Leggs – good one, we can be mischevious in our own right lol
@PR – french maid, good choice, have to see what i can do lol.
so it is true that most men will go for the W/W/M scenario then?

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
3:57 pm

:he is learning thanx to her storied background.” Although we would phrase that “checkered past,” you are absolutely right, Melo. He is learning.

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
4:00 pm

@swiss – im scared too look that up, something says the barf bag wont be enuf….look away lol
actually met a gyu a while back who actually was opposed to the W/W/M thing, had me wondering is all…thought most men were up for that one

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:01 pm

Melo great story! You have the best stories.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:04 pm

@Leggs I am with melo she is stretched wider than a rubberband that will not go back to shape…that is why ol’ boy asked her

Melo

July 13th, 2010
4:06 pm

@Leggs?

im waiting on the back to back to back to back to back!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 13th, 2010
4:09 pm

What it do people of the MIA blog? YESSSSSS :smile:

@Dirty Sexy Diana…… mrlurker007@yahoo.com is the email address and turning you inside out is my game….YES j/k

@Leggs….Dude better leave well enough alone before she tells him she starred in Debbie does Atlanta…… YES :wink:

@ We can ask For Real he got lost in Conyers on Slimone Ave for 1 week. That was some big shut yo mouth stuff…

They just found Slimone ex-flame from College 2 yrs ago. He has been missing since their last and final encounter.Dude tried to hit it while Slimone was sleep and went into the Burmuna Coochie Triangle..

When Slimone awoke just thought dude went home but,always wonder why he never called to say goodbye..Once For Real went in for his 30 pumps he heard a voice because dude had made it to the edge of the Burmuda SlimCoochie Triangle.

For Real ask Slimone where is that noise coming from….
SlimOne said I don’t know but I have been hearing it a lot lately.
For Real; began to use his club house lawyer skills and notice the noise was coming from DL….For Real then reach down and a hand grab his hand being startled For Real jump back and DUDE came-out……..

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
4:11 pm

Swiss, I have seen 2 Girls one cup. LOL

Melo

July 13th, 2010
4:12 pm

she is stretched wider than a rubberband that will not go back to shape

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

:roll: :roll: :roll:

guy will get it in as the chic is laying on the bed,then stop the throb after making 2 quick ones:

Dude: “Maqueeta”…..?? (wang still in vejay,back str8 up, both hands pivoting on the bed,on either side of lady thighs) as he points to lady veejay) “what is this?? ..as he is pissed off at the wide swath of potato juice :evil:

and slowly withdraws wang without Nutting! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
4:12 pm

@Melo ~ let’s just say she was a “slut pup” back in the day (somewhat still is) with no shame in her game to this day!

blue-7/30

July 13th, 2010
4:14 pm

just checked the time, running late, goodnight all!
@Diana – sounds about right, got nothing but an echo in there…
@Lurker – shame on u, lol

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
4:14 pm

geezus Lurker. thanx for the laugh. that woke me up just in time for this boring azz meeting.

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
4:16 pm

Maaaaan…30 minutes meeting that last 2.5 hours…whyyyyy?!

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
4:17 pm

Whew what a day!!!!!

@Leggs- that is just retarded.

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
4:18 pm

czBrat – I see you got caught in the meeting matrix too. LOL

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:18 pm

Wassup MR LURKER aka ZEUS What are you up to?

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
4:19 pm

well, luvbug, i guess it’s tag & i’m it. i’m hoping mine will run right to quittin time. LOL

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
4:21 pm

@DigThat ~ all I can say is “different strokes for different folk.”

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
4:22 pm

@blue ~ you’re relatively new here. I’m leaving in 15. Would you leave the end of the day quote? Thank you.

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:24 pm

@Dig, Melo, Leggs, Purple, Dreams, czBrat, Luvbug, Lady and Pk

What kind of man would ask that kind of question (leggs co-worker man asked):

a). moist man

b). a pie man

c). looney man

d). ___________ fill in the blank and let me know

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
4:25 pm

peeping in mr lurker too funny!

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
4:26 pm

I am shaking my head @ that story leggs!

hmmmm professor a pie man I say! LMBAO!

Melo

July 13th, 2010
4:29 pm

so Halle is a swicth hitter now or has always been?

@Diana looney man I think.

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
4:29 pm

Diana, he is gay

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:30 pm

@Lady LOL at a pie man that’s my answer too!

Leggs

July 13th, 2010
4:30 pm

d) – an insecure man! A man who’s afraid he doesn’t have a firm grip on his woman nor the relationship!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 13th, 2010
4:30 pm

@Blue7/30…..Blue there’s more to cum….. YEAHHHH :wink:

@CZbrat……. I need some assistance with the Espanol women….Hola, Gracias… :smile:

@Dirty D……I am just trying to practice my comedy routine…. Way too much typing… :wink:

@Lady-J……What it do MIA planner? I see you are enjoying your summer. :smile:

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
4:31 pm

Asking how you rate is already suggest a ‘delicate’ nature, but asking the size…hmmmm

Professor, I vote ‘I’m not gay, my best friend is’.

Lady-How can something so familiar be so strange...hmmmmm

July 13th, 2010
4:32 pm

LMBAO I am! too funny!

Melo

July 13th, 2010
4:32 pm

hmmm Luvbug,thats susp!

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:34 pm

@LURKER give us one more comedy skit…I want to see if it is time to send you to open mic. I will have Lady plan a blog section so we can cheer you on…

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
4:39 pm

Melo- Come to think of it, maybe it is what you suggested. A guy may ask because he’s trying to figure out who’s too big or too small. He may have been used to less worn women and is a little confused about the situation.

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
4:40 pm

@professor- I can’t begin to understand the logic of that

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 13th, 2010
4:41 pm

@Dirty Diana….. I gotta roll-out, but more is coming. I am researching some material on some past bloggers. Thank you LURKER needs the compliments to keep it coming…..YEAHHH :wink:

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:44 pm

Luvbug Dude is a sweet potato pie he is concerned about her giant sink hole, but he is worried about the size of the other dudes bat so her is pie

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
4:45 pm

@Leggs- but what kind of chick is she for actually entertaining the conversation. Or not questioning herself why dude is all excited and wanting to know bout the past dyck in her life. Gay

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
4:47 pm

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:47 pm

@Lurker I know this is your show, but don’t make me point you to some material…plenty is out there…LOL :grin: YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :grin:

Luvbug

July 13th, 2010
4:48 pm

Professor – That’s what I thought at first, but guys aren’t as stupid as they pretend to be sometimes. He may feel it worth looking gay to avoid straight out asking ole girl why her cooch so out of shape.

Melo

July 13th, 2010
4:48 pm

@ Luvbug

could be..a tight solid fit lubed nicely by some drip drip squirt on the edges is always appreciated altho some women clearly pine for some “push the envelope” veejay stretchings……Ive heard! LOL

Dirty Diana 101° ♠

July 13th, 2010
4:49 pm

Purple why are you pausing??? :???:

Melo

July 13th, 2010
4:52 pm

to avoid straight out asking ole girl why her cooch so out of shape

@Luvbug…u on it,desribing that coochie, betean to a pulp

Dig That

July 13th, 2010
4:58 pm

@Melo- But how long did it take him to ask? We talking like he just got the booty yesterday and want to know why the coochie so stretched out today.

I am whatever you say I am

July 13th, 2010
4:58 pm

Swiss! I’ll check the site when I get home.
THanks!
Nite all!

Melo

July 13th, 2010
5:01 pm

@Dig That?

not long..read 4.12 pm

good nite folks

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
5:03 pm

Diana, I got the from The Boondocks, when there is gayness around or subject matters you have to say “pause”. She should have said “pause” when he asked her that. LOL

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
5:05 pm

Size matters…….to him “PAUSE”

Purple Rain

July 13th, 2010
5:23 pm

Miami has taken Cleveland’s center also. LOL

czBrat

July 13th, 2010
5:25 pm

coming up for air. this meeting’s gonna go until 6 i’m sure :(

lurker, cuando tu quieras.

professor, d)a man in denial.

LOL @ Reign

ciao!!