I have observed a few things in the men I am meeting on the dating scene lately. Whether it is unspoken or not, men seem to look at how amenable a woman is. It’s almost to the point of testing how accommodating we can be. When they spot a complainer, or a woman who constantly has negative things to say, it is sometimes a red flag for guys.
It’s all really interesting to me because I think women do the same exact thing in other ways. For instance, a woman wants to see how generous a man is. I’m not only talking generous with money, although that is also part of it. A man who is generous with his time, attention, and feelings (yes fellas, FEELINGS) definitely gets our attention.
It seems to me that everyone has something to prove in a dating relationship. Why does it seem that we end up proving all the wrong things, though?
Do you get a sense that you have something to prove? Even when just “being yourself” is what you focus on, are you proving that you are the right person for your date?
When we are just dating each other, do we really have a responsibility to prove anything? Other than just relaxing and having a good time, what is your purpose on a date?