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Relationship 101: Building trust

I have been thinking a lot about relationships lately.  We may think we want one (at least I do!) but we forget how much work is involved in building a good relationship that actually lasts beyond the “caught up in the haze of love” phase.

After the novelty of a new relationship wears off, the two of you are left with the business of finding out what makes one another tick.  You get to see your significant other deal with different situations  and circumstances, which in turn, reveals a lot about their character.

What surprises me most about being in a relationship is the amount of work it takes to get a guy to open up emotionally.  Sometimes it takes men a long time to trust, especially if he is unsure of how he feels about her.  Is that the case for women? I think it is.  I don’t fully disclose everything to men I date casually.  It takes me quite a while to connect and actually feel safe with a man.

When do you feel as if you can trust someone that you are dating?  At what point do you think they can handle the heavy stuff?

Is there a way for a woman to build trust with a man so that he knows she is reliable and trustworthy?  Can men do things to prove to women that they can be trusted?

Is there

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Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
8:26 am

Good Morning All,

First off I am not sure what heavy stuff I have they would have to come to terms with. But I am pretty much a open book..just not so easy to trust people. In developing a relationship I am all about letting your actions speak louder than your words. What you say you are is nice..how you behave..tells all.

you know me

July 1st, 2010
8:56 am

Disgusted with trust
I’ll trust no one no more
Just went with the flow
Found myself on the floor
When you went away
All my pain went astray
Like it’s a new day
Now I have no one to argue with
Cause I’m not home
Don’t care who your with
Don’t call my phone
Or did you forget
You know your wrong
I’m gone
And your all alone…

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
8:57 am

Trust comes in phases over time.

Phase I. I trust that you will do what you say you will do. For example, you call me if you say you will, you pick up that item on the way home if you say you will.

Phase II. I trust that you have my interests at heart. For example, you will think about what’s important to me, what I like, where we mesh.

Phase III. I trust you with some of my personal issues. For example, you will learn how I have been hurt in the past and won’t exploit that, you will learn what I’m struggling with and won’t try to take advantage of that.

Phase IV. I trust you will my life. You will know my weak spots and tender issues and I trust you will never use them against me. You will know my family and all its foibles and not hurt me with that information. I trust you entirely.

It takes time to move from one Phase to the next, because I need to see that person in many settings over time to know whether moving up a Phase is appropriate. VERY FEW people ever get to Phase IV, but if you do, we will be in it for the long term.

you know me

July 1st, 2010
9:06 am

Very well written Lucinda! I like the phase analogy.

MusingLee "Woods"

July 1st, 2010
9:08 am

Trust that I will hit this *$itch with my 9 iron if I come off of $750 million.

Mr_NYC

July 1st, 2010
9:11 am

Morning all, great post Lucinda.
Its a gradual bridging that has to take place on both parties’ part. Its been said ‘that to have a friend you must be a friend.’ In a similar vein, building trust requires each to open up a bit.

Can men do things to prove to women that they can be trusted?
From my experiences, I’ve learned that the simple act of being a man of your word goes a long way. Many times I’ve been told how much its appreciated when I’m there when I said I would be or called when I said I would, etc. Even if plans change, just open straightforward communication goes a long way.
My $.02

Professor

July 1st, 2010
9:15 am

Hola,

Lucinda Well said!

Now, I trust for the most part, but I am not that ooooohhhhh weeeeee I am a man type girl. With that being said all of that mushy stuff and avoiding red flags is not me. I look at the potholes/red flags and I will go from there. Usually I will kindly ask a few questions and the dude will know I see right through him if we have trust issues.

I think trust issues comes with age. In our early 20’s I think we are more trusting, however in our 30’s we are 30 years of experience and some of that experience is hurt and pain. Most people felt love, pain, regret, cheating and probably a little isolation and loneliness in there 20’s which is now carrying over. That is why self healing and dealing with ish properly is important.

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
9:16 am

Lucinda – Love your post….totally sums it up

‘What surprises me most about being in a relationship is the amount of work it takes to get a guy to open up emotionally’

I have experienced this with the guy i’m dating. He has been very guarded but a while ago he said He loves me like Joel Osteen said you should love folks you care about. Last night he texts me and says I think I lube you…i’m like Um ok??? I wrote it off because i’m thinking “lube”…really? seriously? Then he says, I think i lube you more than Joel Osteen. So i suppose he is feeling some kind of way but is STILL too guarded to actually come out and say it.

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
9:23 am

*…the simple act of being a man of your word goes a long way.*

@Mr. NYC
You said it! That’s Phase I all the way, and it goes a VERY long way because it shows your character as a dependable, steady, honest person. Amen.

@you know, Professor, Slim, thanks for the positive comments! :)

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
9:25 am

One thing that me and mine have always agreed on is trust starts by first doing what you say you are going to do. When you first meet someone you know nothing about them so all you can do at first is take their word for gospel. Being a wo/man of your words means a great deal.

The first look into a person being true to their own words is keeping dates and appointments. It’s just that simple. Once you see that a person shows up when they say they will; call when they say they will you can start to trust them. And it grows from there.

If you can’t trust a person to keep their own word then you definitely should not be trusting them with your “words”. That’s just how I feel.
Trust means so much to me. My marido and I agree to things and I make sure to hold to that. And he the same. We trust each other to do what we say. We can depend on each other. No matter how small the matter may seem to others, we keep our word to each other. To lose that trust will change the dynamics of our entire relationship.

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
9:26 am

@Slim if he’s not saying “I love you”, he’s not ready to say it, and that’s fine. He will when he is. He undoubtedly is ‘catching feelings’, as the old folks say…

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
9:28 am

@Raqi Phase I baby, all the way! Nobody wants to be with somebody who isn’t dependable. It’s disrespectful at its core, and that’s why it is so important.

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
9:30 am

Lucinda – Yeah I figured that too but if a person is not ready to say it, don’t skip around the bush about it…just leave it alone until you are ready. I shouldn’t have to play Wheel of Fortune trying to guess the phrase. lol

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
9:30 am

In order to receive trust one must be trust worthy themselves. Don’t wait on someone to prove themselves trusty worthy before you release your trust to them.

Hello, Good Morning. Hello, Good Morning.

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
9:31 am

Lucinda…he even said once “Olive Juice” LMAO! (sounds close enough but not really) He is silly

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
9:37 am

@SlimOne He’s probably overwhelmed by the idea. It’s hard to say. He might be trying to figure out if you feel the same way before he steps out there with it. Cut him some slack, sounds like he’s trying AND he has a sense of humor, so good for him.

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
9:38 am

@Purple Exactly.

blue

July 1st, 2010
9:38 am

GM – trust definietly starts with showing yourself to be a person of your word. and to be trusted, you must prove yourself the same, i do what i say i’ll do, i am what i say i am. but in being reasonable, there will be times when one of cant keep your word. but let it be for a good reason, there was an accident in front of me so i couldnt get to the house on time to pick you up, not i got caught up with watching the game and figured i was already late so id just head over on the commercial

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
9:44 am

Lucinda – I love you.. That is all.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
9:45 am

@Slim how long have you been seeing him? Do you love him? If you don’t mind answering.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
9:51 am

@Lucinda I like your phrases of Trust.

@Slim ..I agree he maybe testing the waters no one man or woman wants to put their feelings out there to have them stomp on.

MUSING LEE What up homey???!!!

MusingLee "Woods"

July 1st, 2010
9:54 am

Hey Kym! What up sweet thang. I see you’re still holding it down.

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
9:54 am

Professor – Um, We started hanging out about a year but we’ve been seeing each other more consistently for about the last 6 to 7 months. I have feelings for him which I’ve made known to him, so it’s not like he will standing out in the open alone. This is the same guy who says he doesn’t think he’s ever been IN love before. So that’s why I assume the hesitation is there.

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
9:56 am

Morning all –

The key to building trust is to do the things you say you’re gonna do. Being dependable, reliable and honest are essential. No one is perfect, but if your track record consists of always righting wrongs, no one is gonna trust you

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
9:56 am

Lucinda – That post was all the way on point. I think we should do like they do in street ball. After a monster jam like that the blog is over.. Shut down for the rest of the day..

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
9:59 am

@Musing I am fine..What’s in the news with you? How’s the Mrs?

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
10:02 am

@Infamous Works for me, let’s shut it down, I got stuff to do today.

abc

July 1st, 2010
10:03 am

You want a man to open up emotionally? What kind of sissy crap would he come up with then? Men aren’t like women in that regard, and they don’t ‘open up emotionally’.

A man will always figure that a woman could go off on an unreasonable tangent, not be reliable or trustworthy, based on her emotional reactions. Trust doesn’t have anything to do with the way men and women simply are.

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
10:04 am

Infamous – I was thinking the same thing about the blog being shut down after that..Isn’t too much else to say. Is it too early for a topic change? lol

MusingLee "Woods"

July 1st, 2010
10:04 am

Kym, the Mrs. hasn’t kicked me out so I must be doing something right. I’m just staying busy and productive.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:07 am

abc, if I had a twitter account and you had a twitter account I would follow you. (Pause) NO HOMO

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
10:09 am

@abc Men are human and so have an emotional side as well as a physical, spiritual, and intellectual side. You ever heard some of those old school singers like Marvin? Running on emotion.

Not to say women and men have the same balance of all these sides, but they are all there. AND, everybody has a different balance among them all. Some women aren’t very driven by emotion, just as some men are.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
10:10 am

It takes time to move from one Phase to the next, because I need to see that person in many settings over time

@Lucinda!

u killed it there coz really,going on dates as promised and calling u at the promised time aint that hard..most good playaz do that! :lol:

Time is the best tester of all biatchness! :lol:

@SlimOne….are u talking about the same Mr. Chameleon?? :lol:

Good morning Blogettes!

Hwdee Plumbers! :lol:

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
10:12 am

Ghana – Yup ;-)

blue

July 1st, 2010
10:12 am

abc – how does a woman being emotional mean she is unreliable or untrustworthy?
and the idea that men cant open up without going into “sissy crap”? wow, i dont think women are looking for “sissy crap”, no need for you to cry when watching Sleepless in Seattle or Old Yeller. just looking for men to be human. everyone has emotion, and it isnt deadly to show it at appropriate times. IMO, sometimes the emotion a woman is looking for isnt so much crying or the like, but simply empathy to our emotion.

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
10:13 am

Lucinda your 8:57 said it all…

<em.Isn’t too much else to say. Is it too early for a topic change?

You’re right ain’t much else left….ditto on the topic change,to. :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:15 am

Ghana, I have to agree with you male and female players first item on their to do list is build trust.

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
10:20 am

I personally know a dude who makes me wanna bytch slap him & tell him to get himself together because he is always crying about something! It’s just pathetic to be THAT darn sensitive as a man. After the first few times, it may come across as cute…but when you’re crying at a sporting event or something simple, then you have wayyyyy too much estrogen for my blood

blue

July 1st, 2010
10:23 am

what i find funny is men who say “women are emotional, men are logical”. that explains why when the car wont start im at autozone.com figuring out what that noise it makes and your in the driveway cursing and yelling, whacking the battery with a hammer

Mr_NYC

July 1st, 2010
10:23 am

Just my $.02
Men can display emotions. And it is healthy to display them with their women. Didn’t Adam have some flowing words when he was presented with Eve?
Just saying, to connect on this level does not take away one’s manliness. Even if one holds the emotions back as part of some sense of tradition or culture, the emotions are there — you are just hiding them from public display.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:24 am

Make sure you have your favorite blogger email addy and cell number…this blog is on its last leg.

Wise, does an excellent job. I think it would be great if they gave her a male counterpart to help balance the topics out.

Wassup Sassssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssy

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
10:24 am

@Musing GOOD Job! Good Job!

Well we could talk about Elin Woods payday. 750.00 million dollars to keep quiet and go away..I could do that!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:31 am

Professor, that would be awesome for wise to have a Male counterpart. But why is the blog on its last leg, did I miss something?

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:31 am

Elin is the real winner, shoot her deal is going to be worth more than Lebron James.

To do List

1. Pick up some fruit
2. Have cars detailed
3. Get hair done
4. Get a pedicure
5. Find a super rich man that will cheat.
6. Find out Elin’s atty
7. Go to the spa
8. Pick up a few things for my trip
9. Do the remix like Michael Douglas’ ex-wife, and ask for more money 20 years later

10. LOL all the way to the bank.

:wink:

MusingLee "Woods"

July 1st, 2010
10:34 am

Musing now calling Elin the 750 million dollar coochy.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:37 am

Purple,

It is solely my opinion that the blog is on its last leg due to the following:

1. We have overdone the going green approach on here with all of these recycled topics.

2. The topic changes from the readers are coming earlier and earlier.

3. Like a fire we need an accelerant…we need to add some wood hence my suggestion.

Shall I list more?

CoolShadow

July 1st, 2010
10:37 am

More kudos to Lucinda for her posting…

What surprises me most about being in a relationship is the amount of work it takes to get a guy to open up emotionally. Sometimes it takes men a long time to trust, especially if he is unsure of how he feels about her.

ABC brought up an interesting point, because I’m not predisposed to open up emotionally to anyone. I have the ability to trust without opening up emotionally. In general, it takes time, extrinsic proof and instinct to gain/earn one’s trust, varying by the individual. Usually it takes me a while to learn to trust someone; however, there are a rare instances where I immediately clicked with someone and the walls of distrust came down relatively fast compared to someone I may have known 10+ years.

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
10:37 am

Hey Blog Peeps!

Okay Lucinda! Yeah, that pretty much sums it up! Nothing to see here, move along!LOL!!

Got a few well-deserved days off, so I’m blogging from home.

So what’s the next topic? Elin? Well, nothing really to say about that. This is one area where I do understand where dudes come from. Cause if I was a billionaire, say I was Oprah & was married to Stedman and we got a divorce. I was told I had to pay Stedman most of my hard-earned fortune. Yeah, I’d be mad!

It’s cheaper to keep her! And I mean KEEP her, do right by her & respect the marriage.

With such reckless behavior, he knew what he had to lose. Most folks won’t see even 1% of the kind of money he’s made. Don’t really feel sorry for him.

abc

July 1st, 2010
10:39 am

blue, acting on emotion rather than rationale makes for an unreliable and untrustworthy outcome. Women are prone to act on emotion. Most men aren’t. It’s not to cast aspersions. But, men expect that a woman will have episodes of sufficient emotional malaise — ergo, self-induced drama — that an reliability and trustworthiness goes out the window.

Men don’t deal with emotion the same way women do. Talking about it is unnecessary. Men talk about how to fix problems, not just to share, or relate, or commiserate. To men, problems suck. Emotional problems especially suck. We don’t want to have any, and if we do, we don’t want to share them with you. You’ll just whack us over the head with them, anyway!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:39 am

Professor, I understand. :)

Going Green, LOL

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
10:39 am

Professooooooooooooooooooooooor whats uuuuup!! You know you’re not right for that list but uumm you girl Elin is about to get PPPAAAIIIIDDD!! With all of that “extracurricular activity” Cheetah had goin on there’s no way she was getting anything less than $750 million.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
10:41 am

Yeah I must shout out to the paralegals who work for Elin’s attorney(I know the head attorney did research jack) They found out Tiger had more cash all over. (He is suppose to be working on a golf course in Dubai)..still 750 million..no book deals, no appearances on Oprah,..

Elin just wanted Tiger to keep his women away from the kids..which I don’t think will be a problem..hell he was just Rick Ross ‘em anyway..(Shout out to Riley Freeman)

Randyt (is it Friday yet?)

July 1st, 2010
10:42 am

Morning All …good topic.

First, I liked what Lucinda said a lot…much wisdom.

Trust and vulnerability go hand in hand. My big issue witt trust is not infidelity, I would just leave her, one strike and she is out. My issue is can I show vulnerability and her not use it against me. Trust, to me, is when you can expose your “soft underbelly” and feel with a high degree of comfort that the SO might sympathise or even empathise, but not wield it as a weapon against you in the future. Trust is the foundation for any relationship I want to be in…without it, one is asking for a lot of pain and hurt.

Oh and one more thing, IT HAS TO WORK BOTH WAYS!!!

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
10:43 am

Find a super rich man that will cheat.

@Proff??

super rich and whose intelligence is one dimensional.

u gotta be a real succker to value a coochy u hardly ever phluccked and a mouf that didnt knock ur socks off… at 750 mil$

most of these cross race unions are about exotic displays the other is giving while the other was curious and pleasantly surprised, pleased and dont wanna go back(ive heard) :lol: :lol: well,money too..(cant forget my gold diggers) :lol:

Tiger’s outsourcing has cost him dearly!

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
10:44 am

Enter your comments here

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
10:44 am

@Kimmie Tiger will not be hurting for cash..Elin thought he was worth a billion..turns out he got more than that…and considering his branding..he will make that up in no time. Speaking of which I am going to have to go buy Tiger’s new golf game..might as well help the bro..get back on his feet..LMAO

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
10:44 am

Like a fire we need an accelerant…we need to add some wood hence my suggestion

Well since you mentioned “wood”….I really wish it would either rain and get it over with so the sun will come out or I need to make a phone call…..oh wait I don’t have anybody to call…which could either be really good or a perfect storm for trouble ;)

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:45 am

Girl I need to go to the club sit in VIP with a neon sign.

Help Wanted Sign

I started to post an ad, but I will past.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:47 am

@Purple :grin:

@Sassssssssssssssssssssssy call that boy toy and give him one for the road. He will thank you later in my Drake voice. :grin:

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
10:48 am

To Professor’s points about the blog recycling – hey abc, we’ve beat that horse to death on here many times too, the old “men are logical, women are emotional”. Yada, yada, yada

Randyt (is it Friday yet?)

July 1st, 2010
10:48 am

Caveat about Tiger. He better get his head back in the game (golf, not the other) or he will be last year’s news. He is losing that control he had before.

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
10:49 am

Waving @ Professor and Sassy!!!!

Howdy Blog Crew!!!!!

Trust starts with yourself and the ramifications you submit to others will determine your trustworthiness!

I’m trusting each of you will have an AWESOME 4th of July!

Peace

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:49 am

I think Melo or MR LURKER would make an excellent addition to the blog.

I know Melo got that paper so Ajc Cox better not offer him any peanuts as the salary. I want Melo to post raw and uncut the same way he blogs.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:50 am

You want man emotions, allow me to share. This blog usually has some good advice:

I promise on Mary and Joseph’s baby Jesus, that if this woman I married criticizes me one more time I am going to go crazy, I have tried to talk to bring it to her attention only to be cut off every single time. 95% of the time she opens her mouth she is complaining or just “talking at me” and I can’t tell her a darn thing. I am starting to get quiet and just stay to myself. Is this part of pregnancy or do I have bigger issues. I called her doctor and he says that it will go away after the first part of the pregnancy but this stuff is about to make me go crazy.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:52 am

Randyt, I think Tiger needs to just be single and have all of the women he wants. He seemed to play better when he had a bunch of women.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
10:52 am

@RandyT I think he will eventually..I told someone I think after his dad died..Tiger just started wilding out. I think Papa Woods provided him with the balance he needed..but when died Tiger was just kind of lost. He just needs to get pass all this foolishness and get back to what Daddy told him.

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
10:53 am

Tiger will not be hurting for cash

Kym – That’s why I don’t feel a bit sorry for him!LOL!!!

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:54 am

If you women want an emotional man as the counterpart I would like to officially nominate Ms. Man she is emotional as a woman, but tough as a man. He will let you know if your purse and shoes match, while giving you the male opinion.

Does anyone second that motion????

Wassup Lady are you ready for NOLA? Be safe and have fun.

What time is it?

July 1st, 2010
10:55 am

Men and women have been hurt in past relationships with trust issues. I think that it is hard to trust anyone in your present relationship if you keep thinking about past trust problems. No one is perfect. We will always be to cautious in current relationships if we keep comparing them to past failures. Remember, all relationships are failures, until you find the one that works. I lay my cards on the table. I let the woman that I like make an informed decision to be with me or not. Flowers on that date always help, when discussing issues.

MusingLee "Woods"

July 1st, 2010
10:56 am

Elin got me considering finding some rich chick who can pay me down.

Musing: Baby I got a plan..Imma get me a suga momma, get paid like Tiger’s wife.

Mrs. Musing: Sounds good to me what do I need to do

Musing: First you need to become a billionaire.

Mrs.Musing now slapping the black off of him.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
10:56 am

@Purple Rain..yeah you can’t reason with hormones..LOL!! Dude you have a double whammy going on..the honeymoon is over and you got more people coming..

Randyt (is it Friday yet?)

July 1st, 2010
10:56 am

@ PR …it will probably pull back some soon (right now she is probably miserable and this damnable heat isn’t making her any more comfortable). However, there is a phase during childbirth which turns women into the meanest biotches you can imagine or just a little while 15 minutes or so. It is called ‘transition’ and is when her contrations start coming quickly if I remember correctly. She will let you know that you are the biggest “bastard” she ever met and it is all your fault that she is there (which is partly true actually). Just keep smiling and know that soon the drugs will kick in and she will mellow out. ;-)

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
10:58 am

Kym, does it really end or does it stay this way. I have been calling associates and friends from work begging them to do stuff so that I can get out of the house. I am starting to work later and later before I go home.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
10:58 am

@Kym I heard Daddy Woods did his cheating thing as well.

@Carlito I wish I could tell you about what you are talking about. You know Professor has never had a bun in the oven. :grin:

On a different note: There is a Christian blog I read often and participate in as well. The topic today is about clingy women as it relates to not allowing friends or boyfriends/husbands a certain amount of space. The blog is for women, so all the topics are directed at women.

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
11:01 am

call that boy toy and give him one for the road.

I did Professor….that’s when I had “the neighbors know my name” in my moniker either last week or the week before.

Heeey Lady!! Have fun on your trip to NOLA :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:01 am

I used to not being home and us up under each other all of the time, but not now. That’s why I am always in the garage or yard just dilly dallying around doing nothing, hoping she will fall asleep. If I leave home to go do something, she is calling me saying she is missing me. When I come back home the “talking at” me starts right back up. To myself I think “I should have stayed at the lake” at least I have some well maintained fishing gear.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
11:03 am

I have been calling associates and friends from work begging them to do stuff so that I can get out of the house. I am starting to work later and later before I go home

@Barney :grin: Purple take your tail home. Being gone might make it worse if she is sitting home wanting you and you are off somewhere tinkering with some friends. She will see through that mess. Hopefully it will be over soon. If you don’t want to be in the house do some stuff in your garage or plant a garden.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
11:03 am

@Purple Rain..dude buy yourself and ipod..this helps with tuning us out. It will go away…Preganacy has stages…right now she is adjusting just like you…well more than you..but still..it will past..just wait until the sex stage kicks in..by then you will be acting funky.

Randyt (is it Friday yet?)

July 1st, 2010
11:04 am

Re Tiger, statistically given the numbers he put up (women now, not golf) I think it is likely that he must have slept with a few ladies here on the blog even. Okay, ‘fess up, which one or ones of you had “private lessons” from Tiger too???

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
11:06 am

Okay, ‘fess up, which one or ones of you had “private lessons” from Tiger too???

:shock: Whatchu talkin’ bout Willis? You know good and well Cheetah doesn’t like sisters…

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
11:08 am

@PurpleR??

they do that when prego..it should end smetime unless she was already temperamental be4 the prego. And u know they emotional,so its a compicated combo of hormones.

During the duration of the prego(9 months homie) she may wake u up during the middle of the nite,ask u to go to Kroger to get her some special food she is craving.
Just do it without saying none… :-)

Does she do that when shes in Space on her monthly cycle??

Its too bad u aint on weed anymore..this is the time to smoke to calm ur nerves! :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:08 am

Professor, my yard is perfect and the garage is excellent, because I have been out there so much. LOL

Kym, I am required to service her twice a day or all heck breaks loose. I feel like a piece of meat and not in a good way. I know some may think I am crazy or question my man card but it is no fun when it feels like a chore.

Randyt (is it Friday yet?)

July 1st, 2010
11:08 am

Now Sassy, you can confide in me, no one will know, I promise ;-)

blue

July 1st, 2010
11:09 am

PR – agree with Kym, can’t really fight the hormones. dont know what she was like b4, but at least some of that she now cant help. u dont get the morning sickness, craziness of something moving inside u, and all the other ish if being preggo, this is part of your contribution to the cause, lol.she probably doesnt like it anymore than you do, its pregnancy crazy, and they dont make a pill for it.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
11:10 am

No matter what Tiger did.. Elin dont deserve 750 million dollars.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
11:10 am

@Sasssy I was thinking the same thing, Tiger said, “If you black get back.” LOL

@Melo not the weed :grin:

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
11:11 am

@Professor I do support a male’s perspective will bring a new swing to MIA! While I’m an avid fan and as some have expressed to me the topics are running together….we have great male lurkers and bloggers and maybe they will email WD more with topics.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:11 am

Ghana, she is not this bad on her monthly when she had them. I hope it goes away because this is not cool.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:12 am

I just think she is taking advantage of the situation, but as a man I can’t say that to her.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
11:14 am

@DK..I knew that was coming..why doesnt she deserve 750million. I think its a small price to pay to keep her off Oprah.

blue

July 1st, 2010
11:14 am

agree with Professor, running from the house wont help, just too much potential to add fuel to the fire.
if she wants you to go to Kroger in the middle of the night, put your shoes on and go, and when you get beck and she doesnt want it anymore, just put it in the fridge. just do what she tells you and you should make it to the other side, lol
got 3 midgets, and hubby is still alive cause he just went to DQ when i asked him to, lol

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
11:15 am

You know good and well Cheetah doesn’t like sisters…

Sassy – LOL!!! Okay!!!!

But yet a lot of them like Cheetah try to say WE’RE the golddiggers! Hummmmm…. Whose looking like a fool now? :shocked:

Randyt (is it Friday yet?)

July 1st, 2010
11:16 am

PR, they are right, just hormones. you will see them once or twic more in a way that will really have your head spinning. One is “transition”. As the contractions start coming faster and harder during childbirth there is a release of hormones that sometimes has a woman going totally bonkers and calling you every name in the book. Lasts maybe 15 to 30 minutes but will seem longer. The other one is the weird one, ‘post partum blues”. Not every lady gets them but many do. Post partum blues are a couple of weeks aftr childbirth. You will be sitting at the table, or watching television or something, and all of a sudden she might burst out bawling. your first reaction is going to be “what did I do this time” and she will say “nothing” which she wilss say in normal arguements. Then you will ask what is wrong, and she won’t have a clue. It is the weirdest thing you can imagine. If you have any doubts about women’s hormones being real before, this will end that fantasy forever.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
11:18 am

@Purple, well you can always come help me weed the flower/garden beds, mop and wash the cars. :grin:

@lady it would be great if some of our blog men or lurkers sent wise some topics. Do you think we need a Ms. Man?

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
11:18 am

Good morning!

@Lucinda ~ excellent summary of the phases of trust. Loving it.

@Kym ~ Elin is one smart cookie

@MusingLee ~ I totally understand! But, you continuously walked the golf course with the wrong women. $750 mil….sure hope it was worth it….Tiger Woods is the fool of all fools (and I don’t care how much money he has left).

Trust, I must be honest, since I’ve been solo for so long, trust is going to be slow going. I just hope I don’t stay on Lucinda’s Phase I too long!

{{Midnight viewing of Twlight Eclipse was so much fun. This is the best of the 3 thus far. The kids in the theatre pretty much behaved themselves. I was with some diehard Twlight fans. So glad I steered clear of South DeKalb Mall and Stonecrest.}}

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
11:19 am

No matter what Tiger did.. Elin dont deserve 750 million dollars.

You’re right probably not…BUUT b/c of what he did(heyal look at how much he did) she’s going to get it. Also keep in mind that as soon as the scandal broke they renegotiated the terms of their prenuptial agreement…AND if he can afford to give his main wHOre 10 milli then know and understand that his wife and mother of his children are gonna come up something hefty….when the dust clears…

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:20 am

She’s the type who will just up and go on her own even though I offer to go. I offer to go she says she doesn’t know what she wants, I offer to drive her and she says she wants to be alone. She comes back with a bunch of junk food that she is interested in for about an hour. Then, once it’s been here for a few days I eat it and she tells me that I am not eating healthy and that I am gaining weight. LOL, this stuff is crazy and humorous now that I am reading it as I type it. I just have to saddle up on my own, my horse said he will come back once I am ready to grab my balls again. LOL

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
11:21 am

Happy Mid Year!!!

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
11:21 am

Thanks Ladies I’m def ready NOLA!!!!!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:23 am

If A Ms. Man started to co-facilitate this blog, I’m gone. LOL

So basically you all are telling me to just deal with it and do what she say’s? My response to that is “side eye” LOL

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
11:25 am

@PR????

this is the time u shld really grow up…very soon, u going to find out if marriage was an accident or mistake for u or u really meant it.

Its good at least u have pple here advising u on it. Me?? I gave her a lashing one nite on our first prego, be4 i realized she wasnt herself when she did what she did. I had noone to advise me.

Its a small price to pay. I thoght u enjoyed it when u were on ur horse phluccking her??

That there is the result of that phluccking my friend! :lol:

Professor

July 1st, 2010
11:26 am

@Purple I thought when women crave they know what they want. :???: You know I don’t know just asking.

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
11:26 am

Purple – I’m sorry you’re dealing with all that, but your 11:20 is funny!

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
11:26 am

we have great male lurkers and bloggers and maybe they will email WD more with topics.

I hope so….we’ve recycled more than a few topics here.

La Professoraaaaaa you dead wrong for Ms.Man…lol. For some reason Ms. Sophia(formerly of V103) comes to mind.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
11:27 am

Melo,

Did you tell her you were sorry for giving her that lashing?

blue

July 1st, 2010
11:28 am

once sent him to Jersey Mikes for a sandwich, sent him back because they put white american cheese on it instead of yellow. nevermind that i had horrible morning sickness and wouldnt be able to keep it down long anyway. he didnt complain, just went. he got his out of it tho, used me being “preggo crazy” to get free nachos w/fixins everytime we went to the movies. he’d just tell them “she’s pregnant man, you know how THEY can be, dont send me in there and the nachos aint right”. i swear he gained 10 lbs, all of it nacho cheese

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
11:29 am

LMBAO!!!! You know I love my Ms Men! LOL sure why not! LOL!

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
11:30 am

Elin is just 30 so she can hop back out there and snag her another rich one..I don’t think Tiger will ever marry again(Lawd I hope not.) He got two kids one of each..go one golf your game..build your brand..screw a few..and drop off at IHOP and keep moving..Lesson learn..I don’t feel sorry for him..I just think he was push to hard to fast..maybe if he got to play a bit more..as a young guy..then maybe he would have picked better..I don’t know..

I wonder if I can get my son in as a Shaolin(sp) Monk..naww I am going to by some H-O- N-O M-O spray and see if that will keep them away.

abc

July 1st, 2010
11:32 am

Yeah, when my ex was in her 3rd trimester with my youngest she blew up at me and called me every name in the book. Selfish, lousy husband, bad father, on and on. In spite of my familiarity with the pregnant chick hormones roller coaster, and both of us knowing full well that the hurtful words were without any basis, it stuck with me. Our marriage sucked after that.

One more reason for me to be glad I’m a guy. It’s GOOD to be a guy! It would totally suck to be a woman, in my view.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:33 am

Ghana, I won’t find out if marriage was a mistake it was not. I will find out if having a child is a mistake.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
11:35 am

Did you tell her you were sorry for giving her that lashing?

@Proff??

Im not sure what I told her after that but u can be assured she got good wood to calm her nerves! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:36 am

So you all would agree to some Ms. Man addressing relationships with Wise Diva. That’s would suck even more for the men of the blog. We will really be out numbered then. I say “NO to the Homo”!!

Professor

July 1st, 2010
11:38 am

Not Ms. Sophia…LOL if we get a Ms. Man I want one that is classy and educated not some loud mouth Nelly type.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
11:41 am

@Professor..RuPaul maybe??LOL Okay I am in serious need of a Sundae.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
11:43 am

Forget Elin and Oprah.. She dont deserve 750mill.. She aint swung no golf clubs. Tell me why she deserves 750 cause she laid on her back and had kids.. She doesnt need that much money to raise those kids. Its messed up some chicks think of their babies as pay checks.. Foul if you ask me.

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
11:43 am

Hello Carlito! :)

You would be surprised @ some ms men they are not all gay and can spin relationship stuff….I will stand on this william on girlfriends wasn’t gay. Ha!

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
11:44 am

if we get a Ms. Man??

@Proff

but what difference wld a Ms Man to WD..they wld be both females,the other, a female in a male body

We need WD “promoted” upstairs and a new fresh blog admin in her place. (I wldnt want her laid off in this ecnomy)

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
11:46 am

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
11:46 am

What it do? What it do blog people? YESSS, YESSS

@SlimGina….After dating dude for 1yr and then giving him 3 days worth of that vast ocean/marshland you walking around and he still playing games. Worse you falling for that foolery.
You are in trouble!!!! Wake-up and smell What the ROCK is cooking. YEAHHH

@Lucinda….That was some heavy ish, I will have to get my act together fast….. YEAH :wink:

@WiseOne….How did you let DreamsM go to the Dirty Diana? YESSS

@Professor…..I am still working on my comedy routine, so you need to enlist Ghana he can work until I get my peeps at the state department to revoke his visa. YES keep it coming LURKER.

@Purple….You are too funny! First you were enjoying the freedom of flowing with-out protection, now you complaining. Do your duty as a husband and please dat bootey and whatever else is required.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
11:48 am

Why did Tiger not get a pre nup anyway??

he is such a fool really to put himself in that situation….

How u gon promote a nanny like that??

some of these athletes are just so damn dumb it makes my bones hurt!

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
11:49 am

Ok I can’t see lol….going to play yall! Be easy crew! Bye

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
11:50 am

Tiger Had a pre nup. Thats why shes not getting that money. Now the Dream didnt get a pre nup before he married Christina Milian… So he might be Bamboozled and run amuck..

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:52 am

Lurker, I try and stay positive but it’s wearing me thing today. LOL

Lady J, I dont care what anyone says. If a female term “Ms.” is associated with the title of a man, he is gay. Show me one non-gay guy who is fine with being called Ms Man and I will eat my words.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:52 am

Thing means thin

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
11:56 am

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
11:57 am

The money is hush money…period..Hush your mouth about what happen with the marriage the cheating all of it. She got shut the h up money. period. She says she is worried about his women and lifestyle affecting the children..which she knows that is not going to happen..a real dad maybe a hoochie catcher but he is not going to bring the hooch around his kids..but i digress.. I say 350 mill is divorce settlement..the other 400 is shut up!

lurker_1

July 1st, 2010
11:59 am

PR: This was my situation. Two days after my wife told me that she was pregnant, my company told me I was being transfered to ATL. We were living in Macon (about 90 mi south of ATL). I moved in with my brother in Ellenwood and she moved back to her mother’s house (Milledgeville). That’s where her job was located. So for the entire nine months, we only saw each other on the weekends. Man, it was great!! because we were so glad to see and be with each other. Almost like dating again. My mother-in-law caught all the hell that you are dealing with, not me. I was told how she would curse me, but I wasn’t around. Our daughter was born three weeks early and when my wife “water broke”, I had to drive all the way to Milledgeville (about 90 mi) and bring her to ATL where our daughter was born (Crawford Long). Twenty-five years later, some how, we are still standing and daughter is doing fine. However, we had been married four years before we embarked on that journey. MUCH LUCK TO YOU AND YOURS!!!

Jus sayin'

July 1st, 2010
11:59 am

What’s killing this blog? Replaying the music awards intricate detail by detail for hours and hours on end This is a relationship blog and people wanting to dish and read about relationships is what keep people coming back. Might be trashy but it works. Jus sayin’

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
12:00 pm

Christina Milian??

wasnt Miriah’s man boning that girl be4 Dream??

I dont understand dudes who crave chicks that were knowingly getting their cootie slayed my some other well known dude or a dude in ur hood circle.

I dont get that mentality.

If i have to slay “new” cootie,it gotta be “fresh” to me..the moment i know the previous tenant..my dycck just recoils! :lol:

I guess i am like Buster Ryhmes..cut from a different cloth! :lol: :lol:

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
12:00 pm

Read my lips, Elin will not get 750 million. Tiger has a pre nup. Besides the court docs are sealed and no one knows exactly what she is getting. This is not public information, I am sure if some of her lawyers leak this information Tiger’s lawyer would eat them alive. YEAH Lawyers are good for something I think.

On another Note….Serena Williams bootey will give you more better blues bootey…..YESS

@Kimmie and Kym can you explain why you think Elin deserves half this man’s fortune? They just go married 5 years ago. CaucasionWood slinger had made a lot of his 1 plus billion already.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:00 pm

Kym, do you think there are some dark secrets he has hidden? I mean why pay her hush money the whole world knows what he did.

Lady-Solid as a Rock

July 1st, 2010
12:01 pm

We need to talk when time permits PR after the holiday! That’s all lol!

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
12:02 pm

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:03 pm

lurker_1, Congrats on 25 years. :)

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
12:10 pm

Tell me why she deserves 750 cause she laid on her back and had kids..

Because Cheetah stepped out……ALOT and sometimes WITHOUT PROTECTION and some of the chicks were doin porn so there’s no telling what he could’ve taken back to his wife and fam. :shock:

And as far as the prenup goes please let’s not forget that it was re-negotiated(at Cheetah’s behest) as soon as the main h** came out of the wood works. As a matter of fact if he can afford to give Uchitel 10 milli you best believe his soon to be ex-wife and mother of his children will come up something proper-like… Men you can cry and whine all you want but it is what it is and Elin IS the “750 milli woman”…

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:10 pm

Lady J, okay. LOL

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:13 pm

Tiger might as well “OJ” his wife, OJ got off and white people like Tier way more than OJ so he will probably get off as well. No risk no reward. LOL

There’s my horse. LOL

MusingLee "Woods"

July 1st, 2010
12:13 pm

If I were Tiger I’d give Elin 30 mill and that busted azz cadillac she made me wreck.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:15 pm

If I were Tiger I would do her like Allen Iverson did his wife, kick her out with what she came with…nothing. Leave her naked outside the front door. LOL

Giddyup

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
12:16 pm

Tiger might as well “OJ” his wife,

:lol: :lol:

SlimOne

July 1st, 2010
12:17 pm

‘After dating dude for 1yr and then giving him 3 days worth of that vast ocean/marshland’

LURKER – Um….3 days worth of marshland??? Whatchutombout willis?

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
12:17 pm

blue

July 1st, 2010
12:17 pm

ok i think it was Katt Williams (maybe?) who was talking about prenups, said basically, if u aint had ish when i met you, y i got to give you half my ish when u leave? i need a prenup that says your ish cant mess with my ish

Professor

July 1st, 2010
12:18 pm

@Kym actually my first choice is a strong, educated man that is willing to bring some life to this dry place. However we had some women talking about a man that is sensitive so I said Ms. Man is an option.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
12:18 pm

@Sassy….Rumors can’t believe everything you read. Unless someone pulls a bank statement from Tiger’s account. Rachel may have gotten 1 or 2 mil. Elin is not getting $750 mil this is not public information. I guess you are going by what the Enquirer writes, yea that is a credible news source. YEAHHH :wink:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:19 pm

mqew

July 1st, 2010
12:21 pm

PRain- Dude let me punch you in your chest at least twice a day for the next 4 months so you can get use to it. Its going to get worse before it gets better… Please believe. You aint seen shyt yet! Ken has went to walmart Mcdonalds Wendys and Taco Bell in one evening.

Just wait till she’s uncomfortable 24/7 and aint a damn thing you or her can do about it. You have a long 10 months to go! So stop complaining! Its to early for that!!!!

It was a bad time to quit though… It could have helped, A LOT :lol: :lol:

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
12:22 pm

Lurker actually that came from a credible source I.E Gloria Allred….YEAHH. Eat a fat d***…..YEAHHHHHHHH! :lol: ;)

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:23 pm

mqew, I am just going to volunteer to travel with work more. :) LOL

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:24 pm

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
12:24 pm

Gotta go run my 3 miles….lawd help me. Read y’all in a bit…if I don’t faint..

Professor

July 1st, 2010
12:26 pm

…stepping in.

@Melo :grin: good point We need WD “promoted” upstairs and a new fresh blog admin in her place. (I wldnt want her laid off in this ecnomy)

@MR LURKER why do you insist on giving me away to Dreams? You know it’s all about me and you. I was unaware of how quickly you would give Dirty Diana me away :cry:

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
12:28 pm

@Slimone….You stated you had 3 days of some dark chocolate this weekend, thus your weariness on Monday. You know your puddy is a large wet marshland. YEAHHHHH :smile:

@Professor you and DreamsM can tell us about your dating adventure! :lol:

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
12:28 pm

Tiger is just paying for coming to the game late..when u grow up sheltered,u dont experience what folks ur age go thru under normal circumstances…and joining the bandwagon when u are in ur 30s will hurt u.

He needs to be real..pay no hush money coz there is nothing hush to hide..God invented sex for man,that aint new.

He is just wasting his money on lawyers and that nanny for no good reason. Trust me,she aint making him diner nor breakfast at home..why is he even letting her live in the same house.

Does she not have self esteem to move away?? Really?? After ur cootie has been relegated to the bench for 6/7 sweet whrress??

Gimme a break!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:31 pm

Ghana, Tiger needs his people to call OJ’s people.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:32 pm

Or Bill Clinton’s People

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
12:35 pm

I never said Elin “deserved” the $750 million. I actually said if I was in a similiar situation, say I was a married Oprah going thru a divorce & was told I had to pay out half my fortune, I would be mad.

Whether she deserves it or not, I don’t really have an opinion on. Instead of asking does she deserve it, I ask Tiger was all that a$$ worth $750 million? If it was, he’s more stupid than I thought.

What really trips me out is when black athletes & entertainers claim they don’t want sisters cause they think we’re too materialistic or loudmouthed or not submissive enough. They look down their nose on us & then turn around and get GOT like Tiger did!

It’s all hillarious and won’t affect my life one way or the other.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
12:36 pm

Actually MR LURKER I am waiting for you to reveal your identity as TheDude and tell us about your PSH adventures. :wink:

Melo that 12:28 is on point. We need to market you. I bet a lot of lurkers are out there nodding their heads to that one.

free2be

July 1st, 2010
12:40 pm

@sassy…you picked a good day to do a midday run. it’s not too hot out there like it has been. have a good run!:)

good afternoon all!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:42 pm

Aren’t there more black athletes married to black women than there are who aren’t?

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
12:44 pm

What really trips me out is when black athletes & entertainers claim they don’t want sisters cause they think we’re too materialistic

LOL kimmie, and they end up paying half of the material possessions to the none sisters.

blue

July 1st, 2010
12:45 pm

im a mixed-race woman, and wonder if the attitude that black men need to marry black women isnt a just bit racist.

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
12:45 pm

What up erybody!!!!!

“Tiger is just paying for coming to the game late..when u grow up sheltered,u dont experience what folks ur age go thru under normal circumstances…and joining the bandwagon when u are in ur 30s will hurt u.”

@Melo- Mayne you said a mouthful. I’m seeing dudes in that predicament now but to ruin some good things because they are late bloomers.

Elin can’t be getting $750mil. R u kidding me? Ain’t no coochie worth that. She didn’t swing one iron. Oh well.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:46 pm

I am intrigued, do some athletes say they will not date a black woman for a fact or is it assumed that when they date someone outside of their race that is the mindset? I heard the same argument about Kobe, but his wife is not white nor black.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:48 pm

blue, I think it is very racist. But that is just me and my thoughts, which I am entitled to. Maybe that needs to be placed in the wedding vows, taken before God or whomever. Love and marry your own race and no others. LOL

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
12:48 pm

PurpleR??

I wld say Bill Clinton’s people coz i dont belive in that murder stuff OJ must have planned. i understand his angst tho for doing it.

Did u see Bill on tele with Terry Mcculafe in South Africa,jest enjoying themslevs during the USA/Ghana game??….

I know Hillary dont make grits for him but i doubt he cares tho.

And they lie about their married life so well..such pretenders!! :lol: :lol: I bet Hillary has no vagina..i got a good instinct on that bet..she so cold! Nice but cold! :lol: :lol:

@Proff

We need to market you

OK..i pay in kind! :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:49 pm

If Tigers, wife was Black, Asian, etc. He still would have done the same thing and his wife would still be just as hurt and bank will still have taken the hit.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
12:49 pm

@Purple if I can find this email I will send it to you I hope I can find it.

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
12:51 pm

blue – Folks should marry who they want. You love who you love. I have an issue with ANYBODY that gets with another race and proceeds to put down their own.

Purple – I think most are married to sisters but that’s not my point.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
12:51 pm

@PR ~ I just read your posts and you are funny. Your horse left cuz you have no balls, you have to service her 2x a day (what a chore), you’re gaining weight because of the junk food she brings home and doesn’t eat and you’re miserable trying to find chores to do to stay out of her way….this is a hoot!!!

If I’m not mistaken, she’s in her first trimester, and all this is new to her as well. As the months go by, she may either mellow and relax into the pregnancy or you may have to buy some jock straps to protect your balls!!!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:52 pm

So, if you have two black parents you should marry black?

Two white parents you should marry white.

Two asians, marry asian..

etc, etc

What about when the parents are not the same? Because if Tiger Woods father would not have married outside of his race we would not have had a Tiger Woods, or for that matter a President Obama.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
12:53 pm

“What really trips me out is when black athletes & entertainers claim they don’t want sisters cause they think we’re too materialistic” Materialistic, yeah right. Kimora has that corner on lockdown!!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
12:54 pm

kimmie, I understand what you are saying now. I am asking what athletes or entertainers have actually put down a certain “race”. I would like to know because I would not like to support them financially anymore.

Leggs, pray for me. LOL

blue

July 1st, 2010
12:55 pm

PR – yeah, ive wondered that one too. i mean, i have a black parent and a white parent, which side do i marry to without being pegged for switching sides? heard so many people say over the years that black men should/but dont marry black women, but at the same time if their confronted with a white person who isnt interested in marrying someone black, their wrong. dont understand it.

Musing "Ghandi" Lee

July 1st, 2010
12:55 pm

True love knows no color. But self hate usually keeps one away from those who resemble themselves.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
12:56 pm

Melo,

Tell us more. You are crazy we will get sued, we need to find a way to get you on. Hillary doesn’t have a veejay LOL. :grin: You are crazy zulu

blue

July 1st, 2010
12:57 pm

and i think any woman, black, white, asian, whatever, would want her pound of flesh after what Tiger has done. bad enough if it were just average joe and jane dealing with their mess at home, but having it all out in the public eye cause hes famous, what woman of what race wouldnt want to be paid?

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
12:58 pm

@Professor…..Damm Dirty Diana you are gooooddddd! Naw I am not TheDude, but I am seeking PSH abilities in my next conquest. YESSSSSSS

@Kimmie can you please elaborate regarding the BLK entertainers or Blk athletes who talk about sista’s being gold diggers? I would say wealthy men of any race who have those thoughts would can the women who are the same race gold diggers base upon the way they act.

@Sassy,Sassy you really need some consistent dizzle don’t ya! :wink: :smile:

kimmie

July 1st, 2010
12:59 pm

Purple – Charles Barkley & Dennis Rodman are 2 atheletes that immediately come to mind. Wesley Snipes made some nasty comments in Ebony a few years ago & his career has not been the same since.

Gott run, probably catch you all later.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:00 pm

blue, I hear Native American women would not want to be paid. LOL

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:00 pm

Kym, do you think there are some dark secrets he has hidden? I mean why pay her hush money the whole world knows what he did.

I think Tiger has to build his brand back up (Schools, golf courses, shoes, video games..etc) he don’t need Elin showing up on Oprah or the View crying and snotting about how she was done wrong, he doesn’t need her to get any million dollar book deals to blast stuff out about their marriage..like he said what happen with him and Elin is ultimately between them. His lawyer have him thinking on future money..this too shall pass.

Professor

July 1st, 2010
1:00 pm

@Purp Tigger didn’t get go with either race he went str8 swiss when he married.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
1:01 pm

I have an issue with ANYBODY that gets with another race and proceeds to put down their own

@Kimmie/PR/blue??

for the most part,mixed marriages arent real….

asians marry for papers

white chics marry black athletes for money

poor/middle class black dudes dont marry fly/phine white chics..they marry trailer park types or left overs..why ?

There are very few cases(in my melo stats sheet) of genuine mixed race unions in my view.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:03 pm

@Purple Rain…alright back off the Native American jokes..

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:04 pm

He went after what he wanted, I see no problem with that at all. LOL he did not put down a particular race did he to get him lumped in with the likes of Rodman or Charles?

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
1:04 pm

Kimmie, my brother once told me that the only men that complain about and avoid the sistahs are the ones who don’t want to answer the sistah’s 5 questions. Who? What? When? Why? and How? In other words the men that have crap to hide. LOL

However while the non-sistahs may seem less invasive they usually ain’t nobody’s fool. A former non-sistah co-worker told me once that she never questioned her husband about his cheating because as long as he got it somewhere else she didn’t have to worry about him trying to get it from her. LOL

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:05 pm

Kym, darn I thought that one was safe. My apologies, sort of. LOL

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
1:05 pm

@Kym- How much worse can it get? My biggest question is why did he even get married? And it was no shock he didn’t marry a sister, however if he did then this probably would have never happened or he would have been much more discreet with the indiscretions.

blue

July 1st, 2010
1:05 pm

lol PR, naw, maybe not cash but best believe you wont find your horse or your pony where you left it ;)

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:06 pm

If a minority person finds love outside of their race does not mean that they have a negative view of their own race. Male or Female, it is idiotic to assume so based off appearances.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:08 pm

blue, LOL.

Are there any Candians on here can I talk about them? I am from “South Canada” so is it safe? lol

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
1:09 pm

however if he did then this probably would have never happened or he would have been much more discreet with the indiscretions.

DigThat, you know why? Who? What? When? Why? and How?

LOL

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:09 pm

@DigThat I am not going to agree with that..because I think even if it was a black woman he still may have cheated..or slipped up and got caught.

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
1:10 pm

PR, be careful what you say about Canadians, eh.
:)

Professor

July 1st, 2010
1:10 pm

MR LURKER I knew you would enjoy that laugh. YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :grin:

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
1:11 pm

Look Tiger was not around a lot of sista’s during his upbringing which probably had a lot to do with his father mentaly retarded outlook on life. Tiger needs pootang to release all that tension and energy. Tiger was dycking these women while he was dating Elin. These women are his consistent jump-offs.

Can any of you women speak on those who state they do not want a sista’s because she is a gold digger?

Some of you women blog with passion as if it happened to you. Live in the present not the past. A lurker quote of the day! YEAHHHHHHH

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:11 pm

How many people think that their bloodline is pure with just their race?

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
1:12 pm

black chics marry white guys for paper

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:13 pm

I have read women on here state that they were willing to try to date outside of their race. And it was not because they were putting their race down.

blue

July 1st, 2010
1:13 pm

ghana – just wow, thats all i have for that. my parents are both from queens, ny. no need for papers, both from poor fams so no money, been together 30 years. it can happen with no hidden agendas.

blue

July 1st, 2010
1:13 pm

alright, this panini is not gonna cut it for lunch….bbl

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
1:14 pm

How many people think that their bloodline is pure with just their race?

I dont think..

I lknow!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:15 pm

This solution causes more of the same problem. Better find love where it’s real and not defined by color.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
1:18 pm

both from poor fams so no money,

@Blue??

one of them was trying to come up..trust me….30 years…?? u think it was just courage and luv to switch to the other side back then when race was such a big issue??

have a heart to heart with the black parent,they will tell u.

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:18 pm

Ghana,I knew you would say something..lol I have read some of your comments about “African-American” women in relation to African Women. Not chirping on you bro, outside of sex which race of women would you date. Also I have a question, I know some white people form Africa. WOuld they be considered “Africa-AMerican” if they married another white person from Africa gained citizenship and birthed a child here in the states?

Lucinda

July 1st, 2010
1:19 pm

Why are Americans so obsessed with issues of race? It’s tiresome.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:19 pm

blue, sorry Melo says that your parents were not in love. LOL

Professor

July 1st, 2010
1:19 pm

Ghana,

Women marry for paper let’s just be real about it. Anna Nicole Smith (Bless the dead) married that old man (bless him too) for the mighty $$$.

Now, it is time for all the men with real paper to say hello and list their worth, assests and holdings so we can acknowledge you. :grin:

Melo list your cows too!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
1:20 pm

This solution causes more of the same problem. Better find love where it’s real and not defined by color.
@Purple you are dropping some golden nuggets today……. You best believe that is what life is all about! YEAAAAAAAAA

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:22 pm

Professor, you are funny. LOL

There are plenty of people within the same race who are just trying to come up for the riches. They are groupies of every race at concerts, clubs and sporting venues.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:25 pm

Melo..not everyone comes from a family that welcomes imbreeding..joker!

I mean seriously I think if Tiger was going to cheat..he would cheat no matter the race of the woman he married. As for the Who? What? Where? When? That didn’t work for Juanita Jordan, Shaq’s wife(who’s name I forget) nor Eddie Murphy’s wife(who’s name I also forget) BB King has 16 kids..and two wives..not all 16 are split between them..again..Don’t make me bring up Ray Charles either..he was blind and cheating.. Come on now..

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
1:26 pm

So what he cheated.. That aint worth half his fortune.. 9 times out of 10 she knew about it anyway.. He cheated so that should cost him 750million. Boy thats funny cause I bet if Stedman was trying to get 750 from Oprah ya’ll would be hollering bloody murder.. Just caus you opened your funky lil legs and had a baby doesnt entitle you to my lifes earnings.. It just doesnt.. Ya’ll already know how I look at that situation.. It wrong on so many levels and the fact that women have been conditioned to think they are entitled to a dudes money like that cause he dont want you anymore is insane..

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:27 pm

LURKER, I am all philosophical sans weed. LOL

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
1:28 pm

@Raqi ~ that’s true. Some marry, but want the prestige and not the sex!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:30 pm

Infamous, good points! And I know for a fact Oprah cheated on Stedman, I saw her on the Dave Chappelle show, Dave gor her pregnant, so he thought. But it ended up being Dr Phil’s baby. LOL

I wonder if people would be upset if Oprah had a white boyfriend, or the the fact that Condileeza Rice does.

Ladies, Italians are the best of both worlds, we are white but think we are black. LOL

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
1:32 pm

As Tiger himself has stated, his sense of “entitlement” help propel his sexual appetite. He was going to cheat no matter what, but if it wasn’t thrown at him so much he might have refrained from having affairs with “some” of those 14 bimbettes…Yeah right!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:33 pm

Just a shade away from black, asian, indian or white, whatever you need me to be. LOL

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:34 pm

@DK and Purple..alright guys what exactly would be a fair sum for Elin to recieve in this case.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:34 pm

Leggs, women are throwing at men who are worth about $9/hr might as well throw it at someone who is worth multiple millions. Kudos to those h0es for not phlucking the dude on fries at McDonalds. LOL

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
1:35 pm

@PR
Not chirping on you bro, outside of sex which race of women would you date

black…..

I luv to see phine white skin on tele(Dianne sawyer,elizabeth vagas, Christina romans etc) but my wang aint accustomed to putting it down in white so its unconsionable for me to switch and date white) no hate just sticking to my lane :lol: :lol:

wld they be considered “Africa-AMerican” if they married another white person from Africa gained citizenship and birthed a child here in the states?

African american is not an African creation..it was coined by Jesse and them..so I wdnt know! To be real with u tho..very few whites from Africa are that secure in their skin to call themselves African. They may say they were born in zimbabwe/south africa but not call themselves african.
Its rare!

They only call themselves African (that) when they are facing reverse discrimination and the cameras are on and rolling!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
1:35 pm

@Purple…..Speaking of weed, did you get rid of your stash yet? If not I have found a home for it. YESS

@Professor….My assets are worth about $10,000,If we join my total of $10,000 to your $990,000 and that will give a MIL….. That would makes us a power couple….YESSS :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:36 pm

Kym, A plane ticket back to Switzerland or wherever she is from and child support. They should yank her citizenship and everything since she is divorcing him. LOL I need to ask Julia if I can try and date Elin so that I can bring some of that 750mil back to our household. LOL

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
1:38 pm

not everyone comes from a family that welcomes imbreeding..joker
@Kym?

most families dont

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:41 pm

LURKER, (points at my eyes then your eyes) LOL as an attempt to not conduct a transaction on the internet because I am sure that will bring unwanted attention. LOL

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:42 pm

And you all think Kym named “Purple” Rain because of Prince. LOL

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
1:43 pm

Kym, I agree. Who a person is with has no bearing on them cheating. If they are a cheat they are a cheat and will do so whichever way they can. Women and men of all races have been cheated on and men and women of all races have cheated. No one particular race have that “stop cheater” power.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
1:43 pm

Yank her citizenship. Get a grip. I believe she was a citizen before marrying him. She’s entitled to much more than child support for putting up with his trifling behind. Hell, sometimes you get more money in punitive damages than you do for the actual crime against you!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:46 pm

Nope, just take care of his kids.

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
1:46 pm

@Ghana and Kym I agree about the imbreeding.

I have a question for blue, but I will pass.

@Purple, how are things with your brother and the black lady next door?

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:46 pm

And why is she not facing any charges for attacking him with a Golf Club?

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
1:47 pm

Because he chose not to file any charges against her!!!

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:49 pm

@PurpleRain..he wants to be near his children..per the reports from “The Sun” Elin can’t take the kids to Sweden..they have joint legal custody so Tiger has say so in his kids lives and Elin has physical custody. Child support is fine..but that’s it..no spouse support?

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
1:49 pm

@LURKER LOL I wish I could find this 990K you speak of, but send me your 10K via pay pal while I look for my part. YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :grin:

MR LURKER where did you go on vacation a while back? Did you go to South Africa and watch the world cup?

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:49 pm

Professor, they keep in touch is all I know. Julia knows more about that than me, they are associates now and Arturo is coming here for the 4th instead of Boca. Maybe there is a love connection.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:50 pm

Ya’ll know she chased him with that golf club..LMAO!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:50 pm

Kym, some other rich guy will wife her. LOL

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
1:51 pm

Infamous, why shouldn’t she get half? Aren’t you the same one that made the statement about once married all incoming monies and royalties become “ours”?

Remember back to when I asked you if you thought it wrong for a woman to save money in a separate private account given to her by her husband for her spending pleasure. You said a woman does not have that right to not tell her husband about that account because it all communal property within the marriage. If what you said then is true, Elin deserves half because as Tiger’s wife it’s “their” money and not “his” money.

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
1:52 pm

Leggs the state should have picked up the case against her and those gold clubs. I’ve seen them pick up cases on every other person. I say arrest that clown too and take his crazy tail behind her for giving false information.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:54 pm

I’m with Professor, lock them all up. Tiger may be a h0E but he is not physically abusive like his wife.

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
1:54 pm

Carlito get an update and let me know on Tuesday. I am just nosey like that :grin:

Raqi

July 1st, 2010
1:55 pm

Kym, she was probably just fed up. I guarantee you he had been warned. LOL

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
1:56 pm

@Purple Rain I am sure her next hubby will be from Sweden or Africa..maybe France.

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
1:57 pm

Carlito I just feel that the law should be applied fair and consistent. Both of those clowns should have gone to jail, and let the judge and DA figure the rest out. I know this sounds harsh, but call DFACS for the kids that is how they do it any other time.

Tiger is going to mess up again…just watch. He is an OJ in a different form.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
1:59 pm

Professor, I just sent him a text he sent me one back asking “Why?”. So knowing my brother something is going on usually he would just talk about a woman. When he gets protective he likes them. LOL

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
1:59 pm

@Kym that heifer is not going to marry again. She is going to let one of her good friends nannies take care of the children and she is going to sail in Nice with some rich man on a yachet. They are going to shack, hump and get down while spending a little of the Tiger woods dough

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:01 pm

Purple well I hope he is happy. Thanks for checking on it for me…I am too nosey I know.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:01 pm

her next hubby will be from Sweden or Africa
@Kym??

Africa??

if its me and i make her my second wife, u know it aint about luv nor her cootie coz as u know, Tiger said her cootie aint that good nor worth it (not in as many words but as many whrres) so it will be coz of that 750 mil$$.

which again proves my earlier point….black on white is all about money Not Love!

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:02 pm

Melo,

Would you marry Elin?

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:02 pm

@Professor ~ I thought of the state taking up the case since Tiger didn’t, but knew they wouldn’t because it’s Tiger!!! Any other joe blow, they may have.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:05 pm

“He is an OJ in a different form.”

You are absolutely correct. Can’t stay out of the limelight. Needs to hear his name, feeds on the accolades, and need to park his wang in somebody. He’s paying someone a lot of $$ to remain quiet. I know of no sex addict that quits like that. He’s sexing someone!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:06 pm

Professor when we were home for fathers day he did not have a girl with him, like he usually does. I am just realizing that, something is up. LOL

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
2:07 pm

Maybe Plies summed it all up. He said white girls fun because all of them swallow. But I’m sure he can’t speak for them all. Surely maybe 2 or 3 of them might not..LMAO

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:09 pm

Elin is to Tiger as Diana was to Prince Charles!

2 Ximes birthing machine..thats it.

@Proff..

u mean wld i marry her as it stands now….??

I wldnt marry anybody if they were in her place now and got divorced.

I dont phluckk openly recycled shytt!

(didnt u read my earlier submission that??)

:lol: :lol:

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:09 pm

Leggs you got it. He is getting his hump on believe that, and I he is paying her hush money too. I don’t think his wood is good, tho.

There was a madam on ET talking about how much he spent at the brothel. The strip clubs are hurting in this recession he could have made it rain and took home ten girls and saved 55K. In the end, he will throw away his fortune on women, sexxx, lies and hush money.

Talent down the drain.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:09 pm

Just like OJ and can’t stay out of the limelight? NOT
Oj was in clubs out partying doing everything in the public eye. Tiger Woods was never in the Public Eye like that except when he was competing on the golf course. He was not out and about on the club scenes and a media who)re. If those women would have not said anything nobody would have known at all Tiger Woods is very private in his life. He only made one statement months after the incident blewup. Limelight seeker he is not. Not at all like OJ.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
2:09 pm

@Melo ..yes African..Don’t play Seal married a white woman(and she keep popping out babies)..well he is african and brazilan according to Wiki..either way my money is on some dude from overseas snagging Elin..although Professor has a point..she could go single and just mess around with the pool boy.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:10 pm

Dig That, if I had said something like that I would be in trouble. LOL, this blog needs more women of different races. LOL

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:11 pm

Melo–

I didn’t read your previous post, but a veejay with $750 mil in the bank sounds like marriage material.

Just like tiger WOOD is still marriage material for some folks.

Kym--Elin Woods is the Winner!!

July 1st, 2010
2:13 pm

@Purple exactly Tiger doesn’t seek the spotlight..I know that his mama is not doing right by him at all. She looks to passive..Black mama would have been there..patted her baby on the back..kicked the wife and said don’t give that hooch a dime….LMAO!!!

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:14 pm

Long story short, Tiger has plenty of money and will continue to make more and more money. This is just a speed bump in his life even though it is $750mill. He has a team and you better believe they are looking out for him and that’s how they make their money. If they gave her $750mill, she probably could have had over a billion, think about it. Tiger is going to be Tiger and Elin is just in a better position because he cheated, but she would have been even more set if she did not get divorced. Tiger keeps on living his life.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:14 pm

@PR ~ Ok, limelight bad choice of a word. I know he’s not a partygoer. His ego will have him in the media one way or another. That’s what I meant. There will be another scandal because that rip in his armour will never be sewn properly!

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:15 pm

@Kym I’ve seen some Africans with white women. Look at boris kujoe I think his dad is African. Sade is mixed with African blood too.

When it is all said and done folks mix and mingle the way they want too.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:15 pm

Seal married a white woman(and she keep popping out babies)..

@Kym

i alwayz wonder at that union…and then the baby popping is just sme else to marvel and wonder!

there are 2 possible scenarios to describe that union:

1) True luv

2) white girl wanted to experiement on black initally at first,got hit by the black mandingoness Thick and like the saying goes.”once black hits white,there aint no going back” and then luv came later after that!

:lol: :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:15 pm

Kym, you are right. Imagine if that were your son. You would be in the trenches making sure that she didn’t get 750mill any woman would if her son were in that position. LOL

Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)

July 1st, 2010
2:17 pm

but she would have been even more set if she did not get divorced.

:shock: Better off than 750 milli? NOT!!

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:17 pm

I meant to add that maybe some countries in Africa or more or less against the mixing, but it happens.

Tiger is case study material just like OJ

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
2:18 pm

Raqi – Yes that was me.. And yes its not cool to hide your money from your mate. Im sure she knew how much money he had or has.. I just think you leave with what you came with..

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:18 pm

Black mama would have been there..patted her baby on the back..kicked the wife and said don’t give that hooch a dime

@Kym!

I support ur motion! :lol:

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:19 pm

Ghana, I think it is true love seal is hard on the eyes. If I wanted some African wood, I would have found a handsome woodpecker and not seal

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:19 pm

Leggs, I disagree. How long has he been Golf’s Golden Boy? Since 1996, that is 14 years or so. This is the only time he has been in the news and he just did not start being a wh0re he just slipped and got to comfortable, the kind of guy he is and how he is so protective of his image I seriously doubt he would make the same mistake of letting his transgressions get out, but then again this is the only thing he has done besides winning that has been in the media’s eyes. So now that he is single he can do whichever women he chooses and if he is single why is that news that he is starting to pimp openly if he does. He is single now he can do whom and what he wants. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
2:20 pm

Raqi – Yeah and again its ok for a woman to hide money but a dude is supposed to be honest and forth right about all his pennies.. Utter Nonsense..

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
2:22 pm

If I was Tiger.. Ya’ll would now see me jumping all the chicks I wanted to.. I wouldnt even hide it anymore. I would be out in the open with it.. Im known as a Fcuker so I’ll be one..

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:23 pm

Tiger is the first Billionare athlete and that is from salary of winnings not counting endorsements and everything else he has going on.

blue

July 1st, 2010
2:23 pm

so still on Tiger i see. i just figure hes probably wishing he never crashed that car in to the tree….

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:24 pm

When it is all said and done folks mix and mingle the way they want too.

@Proff??

dont ever ever believ the hype. It looks all sexxy and nice now when u look at Boris or Sade but when that union was done back then by their parents, it wasnt necessarily luv..it was a skewed union…one trying to come up,the other just experimenting coz a white girl happened to be inrigued….

If it were luv why u think Barack’s father went back home??

Those relationships are not what u guys see now….i dont buy it.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:25 pm

Limelight, meant spotlight…thanks. He’ll be back.

@PR ~ that’s my point. He slipped, big time. He cannot dot his “i’s” and cross his “t’s” with the same vigor. Eyes will forever be on him and his behavior. He wasn’t watched closely before as he will be going forward. “…make the same mistake of letting his transgressions get out.” Again, my point, he didn’t let them out, he slipped and will slip again. His armour is shattered.

But, you do have a point, he will be single soon and can do whatever he likes. Nonetheless, to keep his sponsors, he is going to have to keep his true “nature” under wraps. He will mess up again. It’s inevitable, even if it takes another 14 years at which point I will find you and give you a forehead kiss saying “my Italian Studmuffin, you were right!”

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:26 pm

Ghana, Are you saying that there is no genuine love that brought any interracial couple together?

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:28 pm

People love their players. jack nicholsan, george clooney, frank sintra, elvis etc. Tiger won’t have a problem about his escapades moving forward. LOL

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:28 pm

Ghana, I think it is true love seal is hard on the eyes

@Proff?

so hard on the eyes I kinda feel obligated to apologize to his white girl for his African mis-representation!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:29 pm

If it were luv why u think Barack’s father went back home??

He wanted to get back to his other wives. Who knows? Good point melo.

blue

July 1st, 2010
2:29 pm

PR – agreed, sure he still has plenty of groupies out there ready to jump on the bandwagon. he just needs the type of sponsors now that help clean these things up not drop the talent lol

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:29 pm

Leggs if you find me and give me a kiss on my forehead that means that you will have had to wrap those leggs around me to get that high up. And you are not just getting away with just giving me a kiss. YEAHHHHHHHHH!!!(Like LURKER)

Professor aka Dirty Diana

July 1st, 2010
2:30 pm

so hard on the eyes I kinda feel obligated to apologize to his white girl for his African mis-representation!

well dang…lol :grin:

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:36 pm

OM Goodness, :lol: @PR! Again, you have a point because you are tall.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:36 pm

Are you saying that there is no genuine love that brought any interracial couple together?

@Purple Rain??

untill I see a proliferation of Julia Roberts type white girls with Denzel Washington type black men…iam sticking to my theory! :lol: :lol: :lol:

(regular For Real type black dudes hooking with (2 xtimes waist) Rosie O’donnel type white chics will not advance the True luv theory very well)

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:39 pm

Everything is relative…if Flava Flav can get some love, anybody can!

blue

July 1st, 2010
2:40 pm

lol Leggs, he sure does draw the ladies doesnt he

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
2:40 pm

Leggs, true.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:42 pm

@blue yes he does, along with {{since I’m the holder of the vests let’s put two on}} that roach looking dude, lil wayne (I apologize to all his fans in advance)!!!!

blue

July 1st, 2010
2:45 pm

falvor flav always has the dirty old man look. wayne, dont know what it is, that tatts? ive got my tatts too, but all over my face, i think not lol

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
2:45 pm

Any black chic that hooks up with a white man is a phluckking trifling gold digger whrre untill she proves otherwise!

With the passage of time!

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
2:45 pm

No need to apologize, Leggs. Lil wayne does look like a roach.
:lol:

I’m just sayin!!

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
2:47 pm

Haaaaa, haaaa, haaaaa, haaaaa, haaaaaa {{cough, cough}} haaaaa, haaaaa!!! (Trevor0529)

blue

July 1st, 2010
2:49 pm

wait, choking on my coke now, lmao trevor

Professor

July 1st, 2010
2:58 pm

(2 xtimes waist) Rosie O’donnel :grin:

Lil Wayne is sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxy

@Ghana don’t call her a f-ing, trifling, gold digging wh0re. Shoot I was thinking about looking for Ryan seacrest or somebody. j/k :grin:

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
2:58 pm

ghana it seems to me you are saying that black men don’t even have ish to be dug so if a woman wants to have something she should go white. i guess i did the right thing.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
2:59 pm

Trevor – as a first timer, I have no idea what to expect on Sunday. Do you mind filling me in a bit? Passing along any tips?

If you would prefer, you can email me at cscfromajc@yahoo.com to discuss offblog. (I don’t have a preference either way.)

Thanks.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:02 pm

@Prof ~ a lot think he’s sexy. Sexy is in the eye of the beholder. Not only that, $$$ usally make most look sexy even when they’re not!

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
3:03 pm

@SexyC, first thing is have fun. Be in the moment. Enjoy the sights as you walk/run down Peachtree Street. Look ahead of you and watch the 55,000 people running. Just enjoy the race and the moment.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:04 pm

black men don’t even have ish to be dug.. so if a woman wants to have something she should go white

@white man’s wife??

doint even have ish??..where did i put black men down?? or black women or white women or white men??

I int putting nobody down…..by the way..I am a black man too…??

I miss ur point!

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
3:07 pm

How did that “roach” get two women, who are attractive IMO, pregnant? THAT makes no damn sense.

@Prof ~ Lil wayne??? Sexy??? For Real tho’??

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
3:07 pm

@trevor- did you participate in the race?

@Ghana- what is she talking about?

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:08 pm

@SexyC ~ Trevor0529 is exactly right. Enjoy the moment and marvel at all the other runners around you. When I run the 10Ks, it’s exhilarating. Pace yourself, drink plenty of water, and watch that person in front of you. Don’t worry about that person on your sides or behind you….focus on the finish line!

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:08 pm

Okay…let me ask some questions.

I am Wave X. The start map shows X as being all the way back at the intersection of Ptree Rd and Ptree Dunwoody. Does this mean that when I arrive, I should proceed (or will be directed) to walk my ass all the way down there? or can I just hang out in the mall area until my wave start time?

And since my wave time does not start until 9a, I’m thinking it does not make sense to arrive any earlier than 830a. What say you?

I am considering carrying a small back pack (especially since I am walking). Is this a good idea or not?

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
3:10 pm

@sexyC, do take MARTA to the starting line. parking is a hassle.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:11 pm

@Proff??

his music aside..wld u let Lil Wayne have it.

wld u lay with a dude that tatted up??

(assume I aint judging u) :lol: :lol:

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:11 pm

I’m not talking about the other participants (at this point). I just want to know what to do/expect when I get there.

I’m considering going to the race seminar for first timers the day before – if I don’t have too much going on Saturday. I just want to get some insight into making sure that I’m doing what I’m supposed to.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:11 pm

MARTA is definitely the plan.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:11 pm

What you plan to have in your backpack??? You really don’t want anything to weigh you down, even walking.

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
3:12 pm

You said ~Any black chic that hooks up with a white man is a phluckking trifling gold digger whrre ~ as if 1) all white men have money which they do not and 2) getting with a black man does not give a gold digger that opportunity. those are your words

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:12 pm

Attending that first time seminar sounds like a plan.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:13 pm

My ten pound hand weights.

Um. Yeah, no……….
My ID and my camera.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:13 pm

“what I’m supposed to be doing”, that is.

blue

July 1st, 2010
3:14 pm

dig the tatts, just not all over the face

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
3:14 pm

I am Wave X. The start map shows X as being all the way back at the intersection of Ptree Rd and Ptree Dunwoody. Does this mean that when I arrive, I should proceed (or will be directed) to walk my ass all the way down there? or can I just hang out in the mall area until my wave start time? you could probably hang out in the mall area until 15-20 minutes before your start time. There will be volunteers in the start area that could help you with that question a lot better.

And since my wave time does not start until 9a, I’m thinking it does not make sense to arrive any earlier than 830a. What say you? I agree. no need to rush down there.

I am considering carrying a small back pack (especially since I am walking). Is this a good idea or not? Good idea. I saw people with backpacks last year running or walking.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:15 pm

Thanks, Trevor.

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
3:16 pm

@SexyC- It sounds like you are really ready for it. I haven’t done it so long but it is a lot of fun and healthy.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:17 pm

The handweights sounds good.

Trevor0529

July 1st, 2010
3:21 pm

@SexyC, are the hand weights ten pound each? If so, keep in mind that you will be going up “cardiac hill” and there is another slight hill after that. if hills don’t bother you, then bring the weights with you.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:23 pm

I was being a smart ass. No weights. Just my camera, my ID, insurance card, emergency contact card, some cash, my sunblock and a handtowel.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:24 pm

@white man’s wife

all white men have money which they do not

most white men who marry black women have a lot more money than the black chics..in fact most black chics who marry white men have nothing on them..check ur stats……no black woman will marry a white men jus for luv..thats rare. In fact they marry white men(for the most part) with a whole loooooot of money.

getting with a black man does not give a gold digger that opportunity

there arent as many opportunities for a gold digger with black men…for obvious reasons..we have less money,relatively speaking.

so a black gold digging trifling whrre will either want to follow the ball players and other athletes,which is some competitoin on its own or try trap the black executives or go white where the money is regular in corporate terms but still way more than she is used to.

Either way, its a come Up for her!

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:26 pm

Okkaaaayyyy! Then you’re carrying all the necessary papers and ID. Don’t forget your dental insurance card! Your AARP card….whoops, you don’t have one of those yet. :lol:

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
3:27 pm

Have a wonderful 4th, blog you next week.

‘a presto’

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
3:27 pm

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
3:30 pm

Melo, I really want see those statistics next week. I think they are coming from your mind. Most inter-racial marriages stateside are due to military families in which both are active duty. That is a statistical fact.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:32 pm

That is a statistical fact.
@PR??

unless u have a reputable website to steer me to for ur stats and reference, I presume u getting urs fom the stats database called ur lyfe.

Me too! :lol:

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:35 pm

I think they are coming from your mind
@PR..

MY mind..??….thats not a bad database tho PR consdering what I see,hear and experience and then retain….

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
3:38 pm

Melo, but you are speaking on them all in general term not just what you observe, there is a whole world that is not under your eyes observation. I thought you were talking about all relationships, when in reality you are just talking about what you have observed. My mistake, on the misunderstanding. :)

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

July 1st, 2010
3:38 pm

Sessy – Dang she is setting it off.. Dang she got some big balls..

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:39 pm

A database spewing stats witnessed by one man. Think about it, how credible is this information if he hasn’t traveled around the world and back with a group study to back up his analysis. I’m just wondering….

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
3:41 pm

ghana, if you have kids i hope you do not teach them that they will be better off financially only if they marry white. i did not marry my husband because he is white nor because i felt that white men have more to offer financially. i did marry him for love and have loved him for 13 years. we don’t teach our children that one race is better than another or one is inferior of another because no matter what color you are or who you choose to love and marry you have to work for what you want.

Beautiful

July 1st, 2010
3:44 pm

hey bloggers! gonna read topic to see if i should comment.

Purple Rain

July 1st, 2010
3:45 pm

That’s why you have to fill out your census forms. LOL

So Swiss’ wife married him for his money? Swiss give me a loan. lol

blue

July 1st, 2010
3:47 pm

well said white mans wife.
there just seem to be so many views this way that blacks get what they can from whites and thats the only reason they interact. how about simply being people, and treating each other as such, and loving each other as such.
ghana – wonder if you believe in love at all, or is it simply love of money

Professor

July 1st, 2010
3:48 pm

…stepping in.

@Ghana???

his music aside..wld u let Lil Wayne have it.

wld u lay with a dude that tatted up??

(assume I aint judging u

LOL, I would not he is too young, too short and too rich crazy. I don’t do junkies.

@Trevor, I think Lil Wayne is cute and an excellent performer

You might want to add some speedstick in that bag if you are going to catch the train back home, there is enough musk on marta. jus’ sayin’

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:48 pm

Melo, but you are speaking on them all in general term

@PR..wld it be practical for me to list every relationship i know of, on here,even if i wanted to??

@white man’s wife
i hope you do not teach them that they will be better off financially only if they marry white

NOOOOOOOOOO..they learn by some form of osmosis..why wld they even go there(laaaawwwwwd) when they aint seen it in their family??

why wld i teach them anything about luving and then put money in there too…ur logic is everywhere and not making sense..im sorry.

if at all, I am going to tell them NOT to be blinded by what seems like luv and to have their eyes open all the time…..Thats what i do.

No woman is going to luv me more than I luv myself! I am so arrogant about that.

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
3:50 pm

your comments read like you don’t feel that black women are deserving of having anything. why aren’t black women allowed to have without being called a gold digger? do you feel white women that marry men white or black with more money are gold diggers too or are they more deserving of it?

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:51 pm

So Swiss’ wife married him for his money?

@PR..if u read carefully, i stayed away from labelling “ALL”…..so as not generallize like that….and i said unless i see a proliferation to back ur theory….so far? none

there are exceptions to every rule ofcourse..thats standard.

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
3:54 pm

you said ~Any black chic that hooks up with a white man~ if that is not a generalization i don’t know what is. you are a sad individual.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:55 pm

do you feel white women that marry men white or black with more money are gold diggers

@white man’s wife??

a lot of them!

u don’t feel that black women are deserving of having anything

to state a fact or what i consider a fact is not stating that the contrary is true….

If i said u didnt drink water today, it dont mean iam saying u drank wine! :lol: :lol:

so if black chics who go white are mostly gold diggers, how am i saying they dont deserve anything??

What shallow logic/ thinking is that??(if it can be called logic at all)

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:56 pm

Why do I hear Alfred Hitchcock/Melo laughing in the background after white man’s wife’s post……

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:57 pm

Not Alfred Hitchcock, he doesn’t laugh…meant Vincent Price!

Professor

July 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

white man’s wife are you black, white, blue or what????

Why do you label yourself as white man’s wife? Do you feel linking yourself with a white man is important.

I am leaving in 10 minutes…I hope you respond in time.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
3:58 pm

you said ~Any black chic

@white man’s wife

but u didnt finish the quote…quote me in entirity…

I put Time in there didnt I..??

go back and check.. there was a condition i put which u left out in qoting me! :lol:

(are u fighting this argument for urself or 4 one of ur kin)?? :lol:

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
3:59 pm

I thought white man’s wife was a black woman.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:00 pm

Giving herself that moniker to dispute what Melo has been saying.

SexyCool - Living on a cloud.

July 1st, 2010
4:00 pm

Yeah. I, too, thought white man’s wife is a black man’s daughter.
couldn’t resist…..

Professor

July 1st, 2010
4:01 pm

Leggs, I just want to make sure, because she seems proud to be married to massa white man.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

Don’t worry women I am working on revoking Mr. Ghana permenant resident card, just give me 3 more months, although he probably will blog for South Africa. YESS

@Professor……Las Vegas land of sin, sin and more sin. Although I did not win any more the shows were very good. Good pootitang in Vegas! j/k YESSS,YESSS

@Leggs….I want my wang in a women too, I guess me and tiger are the same!
@Leggs can you help a brotha out? ZIPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

@Prof ~ LOL…she is proud, but more importantly I think she’s trying to tell Melo not all blacks marry white men for their money. I got the impression her man isn’t swimming in money, but they’re swimming with love and respect for each other.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:04 pm

@White man’s wife??

If u black and married white and u did that for the right reasons(luv) u did the right thing.

There arent many tho like u..thats all im saying…and im entitled to my opinion

U wld be one of the exceptions….

If i hurt u, I am sorry! and didnt mean to.

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
4:05 pm

“Why do you label yourself as white man’s wife”

@Professor- Stay out of my head

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:06 pm

@LURKER ~ I can help the right brother out, not the “right now” brother!

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
4:09 pm

Enter your comments here

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
4:09 pm

i am a black woman that is married to a white man and i find it sad that a man who i assume is black with a name like ghana cannot think better of his own kind. i did become offended by his statement because it is not true for all black women that marry white. reading his comments make me believe he feels that white is better than he. to me white is not better and black is not worse because i see people for who they are.

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
4:10 pm

I believe I use to have skewed thinking about race and relationships, but now I have truly come to realize throughout travels of life that love can transcend color.

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
4:12 pm

i am not proud to be married to white man that’s just stupid. i am proud to be married to a man that has proven to be a good man but not because he is white. i commented using white man’s wife because i am a black woman and want him to know that i feel his sayings are off base.

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
4:12 pm

@white man’s wife- May I ask what attracted you to your husband?

Professor

July 1st, 2010
4:14 pm

Leggs I got what she was trying to say, but I’ve never heard of all that pride and accolades because you ride a white horse.

Peace! y’all be easy.

Ghana hold it down.

MR LURKER I will chat with you on Tuesday.

out!

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
4:15 pm

ghana i am not hurt but yes i did find your statement to be offensive. what if i started making generalizations about black men based on the few out of millions that i have met? i would be wrong to do that and would never do that.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:15 pm

reading his comments make me believe he feels that white is better than he

@white man’s wife??

why do u put what u “”feel”" in there and not what u read.

luv who u luv coz u love them…..race has nothing to do with it

but black folk/women who do, do it for money mostly…not all but most!

How?? for the life of me that statement labels every black woman, i dont understand it.

I am not responsible for ur guilty conscience!

If u dont have any guilt,so whats the problem??

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:16 pm

Dig that, that is growth.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:18 pm

@white man’s wife…came out wrong, “proud to be married to a man not because he’s white. That was my mindset but didn’t type it that way. I apologize, didn’t mean to offend you.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

@White man wife

i wld not be offended by any generalizations of black men by u….i wld argue my case with u.

using emotions is a weak way to argue a case and an attempt to use other options and not LOGIC to win the argument

its like a woman giving bootey to try get a job!

white man's wife

July 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

we were on the same team when we worked together and over the years we grew to like each other. he was one of the nicest men on our team and i liked that about him.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
4:19 pm

@Professor I will be in the mountains next week returning on Friday. Professor don’t make me come after ya! :lol: I am ready to bring you an apple for ????

@Leggs…..If it’s good to me I can be Mr. Right! YESSS I need to sample first to see if you still go it! :lol:

Beautiful

July 1st, 2010
4:20 pm

*When do you feel as if you can trust someone that you are dating?*

the first thing i did was look at the company he keeps. *thumbs up!* that was the only thing i needed to place everything on the table . . . all of me. *shuddup Melo!!!* i believe one has nothing to lose. my gut also helped me with trusting him immediately. it felt good and comfortable. he made me feel good about being open and honest as well. he has a bad habit of throwing what i say back in my face, but it is what it is. i said it and i have to take the consequences for it.

i will trust you one hunnid until you give me a reason.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:21 pm

Dig That

July 1st, 2010
4:25 pm

@Leggs- I remember about 3 years ago I went to a family reunion and one of my closest cousins had been out of contact with the family for years except for me and when he came in he came with this white girl and seemed like everybody stopped talking and music stopped. LMAO!!!! Nothing but stares but I took her in the back and made her feel comfortable and out of all the trifling women he had been with before she was very geniune, pretty and smart. It just seemed like a great match for him and they got married and I just felt so much different about it because when it comes down to it, we have to choose the person that is good to us and good for us.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:27 pm

@Dig That ~ nice you opened your eyes. Some never do. Looking back at all his other women, you realized skin color doesn’t make the person, their heart does and how they treat others! Glad to read you made her comfortable.

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

July 1st, 2010
4:30 pm

On another note. here is a woman who luvs the brotha’s. Kim Kardashian is spreading the luv to the football players. It pays to play a sport. YEA

@Slimone….Where you at? You let a immature man work that bootey all weekend long, now you are wonding why dude is playing games?
You need to come and lay on my couch so we can talk……I can help you..heheheheh :lol:
YESSSSSSS///////ZIPPPPPPPP

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:36 pm

You sound like a foreigner with all tht YESSSSSSSS at the end of your sentences.

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
4:43 pm

Busy day today, haven’t kept up…anyone talking about Damon Evans of UGA? Nice guy…smells like a real scandal. :-(

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:46 pm

@Ared??

DUI..is real easy unless u are diligent on taking a couple glasses of water after a nite club sojourn be4 u drive home.

Ive driven home a lil tipsy myself

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:48 pm

ohh lawd..and a white chic to boot!

DreamsMaterialize

July 1st, 2010
4:48 pm

Hey Everyone
Yeah I know I’m late. Man everything gets discussed on the blog. Trust, sports, divorce, racial unions…and that’s just today.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:48 pm

@GHANA ~ a lot of people who drink has made it home by the hair on their chinny chin chins one time or another!

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
4:49 pm

Yeah, I’m more concerned about this passenger and why that person went to jail too! This is what started the Steve McNair scandal!

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:50 pm

@ARed ~ he passed the breathalyzer but the officer thought it malfunctioned. All I saw when I read that was the officer punching that young girl in the face! They don’t care.

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
4:51 pm

I know a DUI can happen to anyone, but it’s bad when the person is responsible for overseeing hundreds of student-athletes and gives a “don’t drink and drive”message before each game with a zero tolerance policy.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:52 pm

It’s even worse when he’s being ticketed for a DUI and he wasn’t drunk!

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:53 pm

is he married..hope hes not

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:53 pm

Sorry, not drunk, but under the legal requirements.

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
4:53 pm

Leggs – The story I read said he refused the breathalizer.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:54 pm

The story I read said he passed it.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:55 pm

The article in the paper this morning said he passed the test but the officer didn’t believe the results!

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:56 pm

I drink lots of water be4 deciding to go home and wait 30 or so minutes to shake off the gin .. and in the car, I keep those windows all the way down for fresh air.

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
4:57 pm

melo – Yes he is married.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:57 pm

u talking about 2 dufferent stories Ared and Leggs..

leggs u talking abpout the Bannister case

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
4:57 pm

hes married…to a black woman….

Game over with that white whrre in his car

game over

Lurks

July 1st, 2010
4:58 pm

On another note. here is a woman who luvs the brotha’s. Kim Kardashian is spreading the luv to the football players. It pays to play a sport. YEA

She’s a bonifide HO. No quams about it. Nasty Nasty Nasty

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
4:59 pm

melo – I am hoping there was no other woman in that car, black or white! Dang it…

Lurks

July 1st, 2010
4:59 pm

Trash would be a compliment for those Kardashian girls and their mom

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
4:59 pm

“True discovery consists not in finding new landscapes, but in seeing the same landscape with new eyes.” ~ Marcel Proust {{dedicated to DigThat 4:10 and 4:25}}

Loving me, loving you! Enjoy your evening! Nite.

GHANA

July 1st, 2010
5:00 pm

good nite folks!

damn Evans..

500k?

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
5:01 pm

@GHANA ~ thanks…I see that now.

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
5:01 pm

$550,000 a year melo. That just kicked in today! I guess he was celebrating that… :shock:

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
5:04 pm

@ARed ~ If he’s been preaching don’t drink and drive to his players, a married man, gets busted drinking and driving, with a woman in his car that’s not his wife, his credibility is shot. He may not recover from this one???

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
5:05 pm

And, his mugshot speaks volumes!

DreamsMaterialize

July 1st, 2010
5:08 pm

Good Night Everyone

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
5:08 pm

I’m just hopin he was blinking in that mug shot pic. :lol: But yeah, it looks REAL BAD for this brother.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
5:11 pm

Perhaps he is blinking because looking like that, surely you can’t drive, let alone walk straight. The picture is a setup.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
5:12 pm

And, he looks to have “sleepy eyes” anyway????

AmazonRed™ - Go Elin!!!

July 1st, 2010
5:17 pm

Dammit, the girl in the car was 28…he’s 40.

Leggs

July 1st, 2010
5:23 pm

12 year difference isn’t too bad. LOLOLOL. He’s pulling a “Morgan Freeman” without being her godfather!!!