Rude boys: What did he just say?
I remember when that blasted pickup artist book came out giving otherwise nice men some crazy tips on how to talk to women. Part of the strategy was to insult her to get her attention. I’m sure this went over well with the ladies. I would really love to meet that Neil Strauss one day!
It’s been a long time since I’ve had a run in with a guy who was outright rude. I sometimes get the sense that some men really don’t know how to talk to women. They sometimes try too hard and turn people off. Maybe the rude approach works for some women, though?
Guys do you think that you have skills when it comes to having a conversation? Is the “rude game” actually effective?
Ladies have you ever been out and approached by someone who started out flirting with you and ended up making rude comments? From your experiences, do the men you meet in Atlanta have a good way of interacting with women? Is their approach on point or leave something to be desired? How do you like to be approached?
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Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
8:34 am
Good Morning Blog Family,
I believe I have good conversation skills. It does not show sometimes because I am a reserved person. Honestly, I have not heard of the “rude game” and no it is not effective. If you can’t simply say “Hello. My name is…..” to start a conversation, then you have no game IMO.
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
8:42 am
Good Morning Trevor!!!!!
Good Morning Gang!!!! Have a great Hump Day!!!!! I am off to play in the city and enjoy a “ME” day!!!!!
Peace!
Oh after the antics start of being rude and ugly keep it moving…ignorance is bliss and you can’t entertain foolishness from rude people period! Silence is golden!
Peace!
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
8:43 am
Good Morning All,
Do the men you meet in Atlanta have a good way of interacting with women? Uhhh No. On point..no leave something to be desired..if it is not on point I don’t desire it. For example..the old gentleman I met at the Department Store. He was with his grandkid…who was hiding in the clothes, and pushing the bugging into displays…but i digress. Convo with Grandpa..
Grandpa: why did you pick the yellow polo
Kym: Me and my sister decided on this color for our Dad.
Grandpa: “What are you going to get your husband? (oh lord he is casting out his line)
Kym: No husband
Grandpa: What about your boyfriend?(Still fishing)
Kym: No boyfriend
Grandpa: Oh excuse me you baby daddy’s?(not only are you fishing but you have a ignorant way of doing it)
Kym: Never had one
Grandpa then proceeds to follow me out of the store..grandbaby bumping him in the back of the leg and foot the hold way and hands me his number written on the back of a store coupon.
Grandpa: Call me sometimes..
Kym: Huh?
If you want to get my attention..keep it natural..no pickup lines..or fishing expeditions. How about just coming up to me and saying hello pay me a compliment and for goodness sake introduce yourself. Also please…please..please..speak clearly…What worked for Sha-Sha’s booty(Pause) will not work with me. And try to make your conversation some what relevant.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
8:43 am
Never heard of the “rude game”, I have no idea if it works or not.
blue
June 30th, 2010
8:50 am
GM – be rude to pick up women, is that their attempt at reverse psychology?
AmazonRed™ - Queen of the zingers
June 30th, 2010
8:51 am
Ah…the rude game. If a guy plays it with me, I hope he doesn’t bruise easily when his azz gets rudeness right back!
Morning all.
LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)
June 30th, 2010
8:51 am
Morning Wood Wednsday to all the women of the MIA blog! YEAH
I am the LURKER I have mad conversation skillz. I don’t believe in making a rude comments just because I do not achieve my goal with a woman I tried to have a conversation with…I have to go on to the next one…YESSSSS.
The ATL is the land of plenty and big bootey, so why even get upset and make rude comments just because she did not want to talk to you. YES
NEXT
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
8:52 am
Rihanna likes Rude Boys
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
8:54 am
Hello, how are you. I think your hair is ugly, teeth are yellow and your body has a foul odor. I was wondering if I could have your number so that we may continue this conversation over dinner.
blue
June 30th, 2010
8:55 am
that just seems an insult to a womans intelligence, am i really not supposed to notice that you just insulted me while trying to find out if im single?
blue
June 30th, 2010
8:56 am
morning PR, brought my pygmy pony, lol
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
8:57 am
blue, we shall accept you and your pygmy pony into the fold of the Four Horsemen
Do us Well! LOL
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
8:59 am
Had a thought, what about women who are Rude to good men first then open up and are nicer later. Don’t act like this does not happen. LOL
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
8:59 am
@Purple Rain and blue..apparently if it is working then guys will keep doing it. Not sure why or how its working but..hey if you aim low…you bond to hit bottom(Pause).
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
9:00 am
not bond..bound. Lord..where is my Coca-cola?
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
9:03 am
Kym, by your tagline and (Pause) I see that you watched the show. LOL
“Hello, Chris Hanson…I know who you are and what you do. I did not come here for a childs booty I came here for your booty!”
Okay, maybe it’s to early to get off topic on the blog. But like the new Alicia Keys song “I’m Ready” LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
9:04 am
Hola!
Hmmmmm that rude boy mess is so tired, and it tells me the man does not have any social skills. IMO walk up to the lady, give her a compliment (after all something caught your eye) and let the conversation flow from there. All of that insulting mess just lets me know you are Ike Turner’s nephew. However, this is not the ring of fire to step in.
I hope the blog stay positive today, and on a positive note I have met some good, well mannered, funny, intelligent, sexy, fine, loving, caring, beautiful inside and out
So all in all I will not let a few rude boys cloud the good Kings out there.
brothersKings in Atlanta. I’ve had dudes ask to pump my gas, help with packages, run 10 steps or more just to grab the door, offer to change a flat tire, and when the dude in the mall selling DVD’s got out of hand about five of them looked at him and looked at me and asked if they could help str8-en him.Professor
June 30th, 2010
9:06 am
Carlito~ I like that song too, but I am so not into Ms.
SwizzKeys right now.blue
June 30th, 2010
9:06 am
Kym – amazingly true, it does seem to work, dont understand why women put up with that, if you cant speak to me intelligently what does that say about you, and what does that say of your opinion of me? seen friends fall for that mess, and i just shake my head
PR – 4 horsemen, not sure i can meet the standard. kind of vertically challenged, me and my pony…
Professor
June 30th, 2010
9:10 am
@DreamsM yesterday was crazy on my end, but I thought of something about how we “romance” the past
Shotgun weddings LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
9:10 am
@DreamsM yesterday was crazy on my end, but I thought of something about how we “romance” the past
Shotgun weddings LOL
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
9:10 am
Professor, that whole situation is weird. I use to think she was an upstanding wonderful role model for young women until she went and got pregnant from a married man. I don’t know all of the details but that is what I see looking in.
blue, I hope you and your pony can keep up. LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
9:15 am
@Carlito I totally agree. I don’t care how bad a marriage is you don’t let a married man knock you up. My parents raised me not to sleep with or date married men. I’ve seen married people that would not divorce each other and just started over with other people…that is crazy to me because I believe in ending things right.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
9:17 am
@Purple Rain..I did watch it and I cracked up!! But I guess we can wait until afternoon and the other Boondock fans show up.
blue
June 30th, 2010
9:20 am
seems to me that rude boy attitude works on certain women only, and for the most part are their counterparts, the rude girl. he talks about how stuck up she is, can i have your number, she says i know you aint talking to me looking like that, call me
will try PR, wearing heels today, feeling tall, woohoo lol
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
9:24 am
I am behind watching two episodes of Boondocks. I need to catch up.
“I don’t give to nobody, I just pay the cost to do business.” – Riley Freeman
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
9:30 am
Look here B!tch give me the digits or else.. I dont see how that works but anywho..
Getting at a woman is just like talking to a friend you havent met yet.. Just say “Hey” or whatever it is you say to a babe. If eveything is cool then the convo will go where it needs to go..
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
9:30 am
blue, well you and I are the only horsemen in the Four Horsemen.
Trevor, Good morning. You really need to catch up on the Boondocks. LOL
blue
June 30th, 2010
9:32 am
ooh, i love exclusivity, lol. so then i guess we would be recruiting for the other 2 then….
have only seen one episode of the new boondocks, ive beenmissing it, bummer. hear they ripped on tyler perry this season and now rumor is perry is sueing mcgruder. take a hiatus from the show and come back with controversy, alrightee then
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
9:35 am
Now I will say all that mushy youre beautiful nonsense is a bit much.. I do believe that being a sap will get you pushed out the way for the dude that is carrying himself in a more Alpha male manner.. I look at it like this.. We wanna date each other I dont just wanna date you.. My Johnson is just as important as your Lil Mermaid..
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
9:36 am
Boondocks killed Tyler Perry… Absolutely killed him. And they mustve had some truth in it because he fired his whole staff.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
9:39 am
Infamous, I agree with everything you said…except calling it a “Lil Mermaid” LOL
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
9:39 am
@DK are you serious TP fired his whole staff after the Boondocks episode..aww he is tripping.
RIHANNA
June 30th, 2010
9:40 am
When you sweat yourself, you find yourself by yourself!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A
blue
June 30th, 2010
9:40 am
ouch, gotta see that one. have only seen the one with Tom joining the support group and then going jail with the at risk kids to prove he’s over his fear, too hilarious, are men really that paranoid?
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
9:42 am
Purp – Lil Mermaid sums up the lady parts.. Think about it.. Oh and you can borrow that once you get it.. I’ll start you off.. Wet..
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
9:43 am
Also how he gonna sue..the guy on the show was Winston Jerome….Not TP..also..no references were made even to TP..See just soft..all soft..its satire..humor..dark comedy…pull your manties up(Pause)
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
9:45 am
RiHanna – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEcKTTGo18A&feature=related
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
9:47 am
Rude works in certain settings. And it is no so much as rude as it a path not yet taken. Normally tho it works on the girls that Hi How are you my name is…never works on. Know your surroundings and element and spit how you spit. It is very effective for some strange reason on the broad that every other tried to be nice too and got laughed at and didn’t have a chance on getting the draws.
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
9:48 am
@Kym- I heard that too. Fired his entire staff and is suing. Must be some truth. A nerve got struck. Wait a minute, that means he is hiring.
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
9:49 am
Kym, I guess since it was implied that it was Tyler Perry is why he is suing.
Boondocks is supposed to be edgy, dark humor. I have to agree with though. TP needs to man up. Its just jokes.
Mike P
June 30th, 2010
9:51 am
I’m sad to report that the rude play works much better then being nice… nice will get you friends, it doesn’t get you the girls. idk maybe it has something to do with the person’s overall personality. Being rude doesn’t mean putting down the girl or belittling her. tho, JMHO.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
9:51 am
“Lil Mermaid sums up the lady parts.. Think about it.. Oh and you can borrow that once you get it.. I’ll start you off.. Wet..”
Ummmm…. … Scaly, & smells like fish???
blue
June 30th, 2010
9:53 am
side not, maybe anyway, when did it become ok to walk up to a woman, dressed for the office,not wearing club clothes or rollers in her hair, talking about “eh shawty, let me holler at you for a minute”? im not a shawty, dont wanna b hollered at, intelligent english please
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
9:55 am
Swiss, half woman half fish. LOL
Why is Tyler Perry suing him, they didn’t use his name. When The Boondocks, satired R.Kelly, they actually used R.Kelly’s name. LOL
blue
June 30th, 2010
9:55 am
not = note
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
9:55 am
@DigThat..if he hiring you gonna have to give up the bootay…(Pause)..to get a job!!! LMAO!!!
Trevor..implied how..he is not the only black dude making plays..Kenny Leon has True Colors Theater….he needs to get over himself quick fast and in a hurry. Crying over Boondocks jokes…come on…
M. (pronouced M dot)
June 30th, 2010
9:56 am
Wednesday…
That rude approach is lame and PUA’s try to use psychology to talk to women rather than logic.
I think when I talk to women, I just talk to them, let the conversation flow, ask questions to make her seem interesting, ask questions to show her that I am interested, be inquisitive, but also not to talkative or nosey.
There are rude girls also. A lot of them have this fake diva attitude, celebrity wannabe mentality. Its really corny and ladies cut that garbage out.
I went out with a woman once who just moved to Atlanta and who had just got out a relationship and it was horrible! She seemed cool over the phone but was a rude jerk in person. First she was super bitter and not ready to be back in the dating scene. She had a negative attitude the entire date which didn’t last past appetizers.
She said all guys are cheaters, she hates guys in Atlanta because they are all on the down low and she even said, “who knows, you may be on the down low”. I checked her quick. How are you going to talk slick and make judgments on someone you just met? Who are you?
That was our first and only date out and which is why I stand by my theory that every woman doesn’t deserve dinner on the first date. Some women are starbucks women, panara bread women, or maybe just a walk in the park lol…
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
9:58 am
Morning!
Whats rude to some women may not be rude to others..e.g….
Hey shawty!! ..thats rude to some sophisticates and non ghetto types…..
What sets off an angry woman may just be something very innocuos and innocent,esp if u try to infuse some humour to set it off.
How are you doing??…… may just be ur best bet at starting that convo altho it wont set u apart and certainly wont make her remember you coz its just blah.
maybe rude but at least there was a compliment in there as well!
But if she reallly strikes u as somebody with an amazing silhoutte and u dont wanna pursue her anyway..just tell..”daaaamn, u got some amazing real estate there on ur behind”
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
10:00 am
Some men are just rude by nature. Some I have found view women as subordinates in their rudeness.
There were these two guys that are associates of my husband that came to dinner one evening. One of them was extremely rude and I could tell he viewed women as low grade. My husband had to quickly intervene before I ripped that jerk a new one.
So while some may feel that being the “bad or rude” boy will get the girl, some guys are just rude.
Like some women are just wicked.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:00 am
“You are ugly but your body is nice, I will still hit it but don’t expect us to be out in public ever”
Is that rude? LOL
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:01 am
Raqi, so you are just going to pop in like I haven’t been missing you and just start talking. How Rude! LOL
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
10:06 am
@Kym, when they showed the play scene of Winston Jermome’s “madea” character with the gun in the beginning of the episode. That is an implied reference to Tyler Perry.
Are there other playwrights who star in their own plays, dress in drag as a gun totting older woman who takes no mess? I know of only one.
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:07 am
Swiss – I have a million of em.. Snapdragon, Chonky Monkey, Slice of Pizza, Ewok or Chewbacca, Pi-uski, That Grape Ape, Gorgeous Grove, Your Girlfriend, Lil mama, Lil nasty, crevice, oil can.. Whatever comes to mind..
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
10:10 am
DK — I respect a dude with a broad vocabulary… But, um… how many Chewbaccas have you run across?
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:12 am
@Trevor Ohh I know it was TP implied..but I just don’t get with ole sensitive dudes..and firing people at the compound cause you paranoid..is weak. He already was on the respect bubble with me..but now..Now he just Tyler P..aka Winston Jerome..
“You want Mango, Peach, or Strawberry lotion..I can mix you up a combo..” LMAO
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:12 am
Trevor – Well who is Gangstalicious? Booty booty butt cheeks.. Could be anybody.. He didnt say his name soooo… And besides Saturday Night Live has been doing it for years and people have wanted and tried to sue them but its parody…
Professor
June 30th, 2010
10:13 am
Hmmmmm
I am not a fan of Madea or TP plays. I have enjoyed a few of his movies, but those chitlin’ circuit plays are not my thing. I’ve seen the Boondocks once and it was not even an entire episode (my brother told me to turn over there), and it is not my cup of tea.
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
10:14 am
@Kym- In that case I will stay where I am or file sexual harrassment charges against TP. Your honor I need 29 million dollars cause this MF TP ask me about my balls. LMAO!!!!!!
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:14 am
Gangstalicious!! Homies over H__ -_ Do the Homie.. Do the Homie!!!(Pause) Do the Homie!!!..LMAO!!!
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
10:15 am
Follow-up question, DK — When you do run across those Chewbaccas… how long does it take you to get out the door if it makes that Chewbacca noise right as you’re about to give it a lyck?
shaun
June 30th, 2010
10:16 am
Morning All, on the topic of Rude Boys, that I am not. I am too suave with my convo for that nonsense. If a lady can’t appreciate the good in me, why would I waste my time and energy on negativity… I have heard of those who are turned on by this type of behavior, all I can conclude is that something has happened to them in the past to drive them to this point.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
10:16 am
Women like rude!
They just dont want rude from everybody tho..just the favored ones!
If u rude her up and she likes u..the wide smile is ur “comeon.come get me”
U just go with the flow.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:17 am
@DigThat..you don’t get off the compound..with TP..Once you in you get a TP issued tight pink sweater, fruit lotion of your choice and a monogram Gangstalious manbag..with rhinestones..bling bling..!!!LMAO!!!
blue
June 30th, 2010
10:17 am
has a pimp named slickback made an appearacne yet this season?
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
10:18 am
@DK, good point on Gangstalicious. Boondocks pushes the parody envelope off the table. No need for Tyler Perry to be so sensitive about a cartoon.
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:18 am
Swiss – I used to run across those Chewbaccas alot.. Hey I dont mind a little coverage on the Mound as long as its maintained.. Nothing overgrown and unkempt.. And no BB’s outside the bikini lins.. Actually no BB’s brush it, blow dry it or comb it..
Oh I forgot my favorite… A juicy ripe Peach.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
10:19 am
He already was on the respect bubble with me
@Kym when I read he made his associates call him Mr. Perry I laughed. I guess I am used to corporate America everyone is on first name basis. I have a few folks that will try to say Ms. Professor or somethig like that to show respect, and I let them know quickly I am plain Professor…first name only please.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
10:23 am
@Dig that well we need to send you over there to TP I will make the arrangements for a 25% cut
Your honor I need 29 million dollars cause this MF TP
@GHANA I’ve seen women file compliments against the lame at work, and the lame was just saying the same thing he heard the cool man say. However it just didn’t sit well.
blue
June 30th, 2010
10:26 am
love the guys who start out rude, get no play, and get ruder
(and louder) still. is that supposed to make her change her mind? just make her punch you instead. gotta say to them sometimes “at what point did this look to you like it was working?”
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
10:27 am
get out the door if it makes that Chewbacca noise right as you’re about to give it a lyck
@Swiss/DK??
please translate for me coz i aint following ur convo,which im eavesdropping on…
Chewbacca..whats that?? u talking pubic hair?? and BB??
(forgive my ignborance)
I know u talking about a wangpad. but??
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:27 am
Oh and my personal Favorite.. Thugnificient..
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
10:28 am
has a pimp named slickback made an appearacne yet this season?
Not yet. but he is due to return soon.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:28 am
@Professor..he was on the bubble with me because just as the Boondocks show pointed out..He always made his bad men the dark skinned bros..and the lighter hued brother was always coming to the rescue..(ie..Shamar Moore, Rick Fox..etc) He is soft and color struck..that right there bugged me. Plus Madera was not getting wiser just more foolishness. Hey I am glad he got out of the back of his car..and got his own thing going..bring jobs to the community..yeah yeah..but still something is a bit off with his azz(Pause).
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
10:30 am
@Proff??
at work is never a good thang..no matter eye candy it looks to u….
better wait till she hits the parking lot maybe or u meet her while shes driving outa the lot..going home and u just drop a quick one for her to ponder for the nite!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:30 am
Gangstalicious=Bow Wow? LOL
R.Kelly was R. Kelly
Thugnificent from Terra Belle Georgia. LOL, who was that?
Rev. Rollo Greenlove, who was that?
LOL, Why does Tyler Perry think he will get more respect than other people the Boondocks have went in on and used their real name. Here are a few Cornell West, Oprah, Maya “and still I Rise” Angelou, Usher, R. Kelly. Man, ph*ck Tyler Perry, he can eat a dyck. PAUSE….NO HOMO
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
10:31 am
I gotcha, DK… I like a little grass on the playground myself. That Chewbacca image just had me picturing one of Melo’s hot and wet mangrove swamps…
Dang, all this talk of pretty pink knob-gobblers… Ahhhh…. I do love the smell of p-dussy in the morning… Smells like victory…
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
10:32 am
you don’t get off the compound..with TP..Once you in you get a TP issued tight pink sweater, fruit lotion of your choice and a monogram Gangstalious manbag..with rhinestones..bling bling..!!!LMAO!!!
@Kym- (PAUSE) Hell to da naw. Hilarious
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:32 am
Since when has a cross dressing man been a messenger for Jesus, I am not saying it could not happen nor do I understand the Lord’s ways. But I am sure he told you to do something else before he told you to dress up like a woman to spread his word. IMO
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:34 am
Swiss, yes it does. She can’t get pregnant while pregnant so I am really letting it flow now. LOL
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
10:35 am
Ladies have you ever been out and approached by someone who started out flirting with you and ended up making rude comments?
that was all day, every day in NYC & at the HBCU here in atlanta. i think some environments just breed anger and insecurity.
Coca-cola??? Kym, didn’t WD say no profanity on the blog?
GM All!!!
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:36 am
@Purple Rain..Rev Rollo..was Al Sharpton..Aaron M. was at one of the State of the Black Union events with Al Sharpton..yep Aaron laid into them..
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:37 am
On another note.. Im glad Chris Brown rocked out with his C— out the other night.. I’ll also have ya’ll check out the Dueces video… He goes hard on this one.. Just really pay attention to the subliminals..
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:37 am
Kym, and he really laid into BET. LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
10:39 am
@Kym I never liked that about him either, but I really didn’t want to go there…I am glad you did
He is too big to be so soft.
@Melo yea I agree holla at her in the parking lot or at QT not at work, tho. Wrong move all together. Not to mention I’ve seen folks be ok with the flirting and stuff,but when they are about to get fired they say, “y’all didn’t do anything to Ghana when he asked to see my Chewbacca, and Swiss was there and they all just laughed and looked at my Slice of Pizza and talked about my oil can while I was still eating my ramen noodles in the breakroom.
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:39 am
Purp – You got a baby on the way.. Oh Ok so that explains the shotgun wedding.. Ha!!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:39 am
Infamous, I saw the entire awards show last night. Chris Brown was awesome.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
10:40 am
Hey czBrat!
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:40 am
@CZbrat..this is Atlanta, GA..This is Coca-Cola country…Matter of fact I am going to get one with lunch today.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
10:40 am
Personally I don’t comprehend men demonstrating “rude” nor do I understand women who want to project an “attitude” (okay maybe good looking female cop with handcuffs perhaps arouses me but other than that nope
Truthfully neither work for me and I have no need, reason, or place in my life for either. Too many nice, normal people available to deal with azzaholas.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:42 am
Infamous, I obviously shot my love gun in her the weekend of or weekend before. My Sex Pistol is not firing hollow points. LOL
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:43 am
And I learned from the blog that due to my lack of weed consumption nowadays that my bullets are more potent.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:44 am
So we can deduce that smoking weed is a form of birth control. I think I am on to something, women can get BC pills prescription so can I get a weed prescription for birth control?
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
10:44 am
@ I’m swiss, okay re the Mermaid thing, which half would you prefer to be the fish, the top or the bottom
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
10:46 am
Three Words Daily – Faith. Hope. Love.
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:46 am
Purp – Well you know what.. Get ready for the best thing thats ever happened to you.. when you hold the child for the first time your life will fall into focus.. Not that it wasnt already but just wait.. A unconditional love like you never knew.. They are truly a blessing..
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:49 am
Sessy – Simon and Garfunkle… Nice..
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:49 am
Infamous, I hope so. This is very new. I did not want a kid at all but now I have embraced it a little. We decided to keep it so I think it will be great.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
10:49 am
@ DK Absolutely true. Whatever is number two in your life is so far down the scale as to not even count. I’d walk out in front of a truck for any one of my kids and never blink an eye.
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
10:50 am
Hola Profesora!
OMG … there’s an heir to the purple throne on the way already??? well CONGRATS Carlito!! that’s awesome
yeah, yeah, Kym. be a rebel. come enjoy the smooth taste of Pepsi.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
10:50 am
@PurpleRain..Children are blessings..true..but they spend your money.. go to camp and throw paint all over their clothes..which means –because they don’t barely like to wash now–..they will have paint in their hair for days….oh sorry..yes Children are blessings.
THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING
June 30th, 2010
10:50 am
Randy – I was about to say.. and have said.. For his life I would gladly give mine..
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
10:51 am
PR??
I read smewhere last nite(MSN) where they said that women who prego must resist weed coz it has negative effect on birthing etc…smoking cigs has a negative effect of lowering sperm count n men.
I have always believed that coz i dont smoke and dont drink..i mean not beer!
Coz everytime I nutt..the flow is kinda heavy a lot…(4) times…. waaaaaaaa(pause) waaaaaaaaaa(pause) waaaaaaaaaaa(pause) waaaaaaaaaaa!
And the clean Up??…2 heavy bath towels!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:52 am
Infamous, I just listened to that Deuces song by Chris Brown. He went in on Rihanna, it reminds me of when Justing Timberlake went in on Brittany Spears with “Cry Me A River”.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
10:55 am
“okay re the Mermaid thing, which half would you prefer to be the fish, the top or the bottom”
Randy — Well now that all depends on the type of fish… You know koi have some powerful suction in their mouths & no teeth… I’m just sayin’…
Prof — What flavor is your slice of pizza?
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
10:56 am
@PR- Congrats man. Get ready. Life is really about to change my friend.
@Brat- No Pepsi
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:56 am
GHANA, she doesn’t smoke. I was the one who partook of the earth. LOL
CanalZone, thanks.
Kym, I am glad I always save my salary. Our plan has changed we are not moving to Florida in a few years but we are moving back home. So that our child can group up around family and all that comes with it. We do not know anyone down here at all, plus I like the idea of moving back home deep down. I wont have the career that I have been chasing but it is a small trade off and there is always work on the farm
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
10:59 am
Dig That, thanks
Swiss, the only thing you are going to be getting from a mermaid is a bj. The top half is woman and the bottom half is a fish. LOL, first horses now fish.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
10:59 am
@ PR Go ahead and get plenty of sleep, you won’t get another good night’s sleep for about 20 years or so. Oh and those feeding at 10, 2, and 4 at night. Sound like a break in in between…not. then they want to polay and just about the time you get almost to sleep it is that time again.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
11:01 am
@PurpleRain…family is key for child rearing.
blue
June 30th, 2010
11:01 am
“Too many nice, normal people available to deal with azzaholas.” absolutely
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:02 am
Randyt, it’s going to be an adjustment all the way around. I have never been kid friendly. LIke that commercial says “I am going from Dude to Dad.”
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
11:02 am
Okay now..that the kindle is under 200.00 dollars..do I buy it now?
Dare I wait for the Xmas bargains..Ohhhh decisions decisions..
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
11:03 am
Morning Good Blog People!
This topic is boring.
I’ll lurk.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
11:03 am
@ blue unlkes they are your boss
and even then there are limits.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
11:05 am
“This topic is boring.
I’ll lurk.”
Don’t lurk so fast, kimmie… It’s past 11 — we’ve moved on to babies and euphemisms for p-dussy. Join us…
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:08 am
Rudeness – will get you igged.
Boondocks – I miss them! Don’t have DVR anymore and my butt is sleep at 11:30.
It’s 11am and its not burning up? Maybe I’ll go shopping….
blue
June 30th, 2010
11:10 am
Randy – there is that, lol.
PR – a midget, congrats! they’r wonderful, tho those days when they’ve cut a chunk out of their hair on the schoolbus or tell the nurse at the pediatrician that u slammed their hand in the trunk (it was an accident, honest) will have you wanting to bury your head in the sand, lol
Mike P
June 30th, 2010
11:11 am
Kimmie, i agree, this topic is very boring… it didn’t take very long for the subject to change.
Besides, everyone knows that men will do whatever it takes to get what he wants, even if it means being a little rude sometimes (myself included).
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
11:11 am
Swiss – Neither topic interests me, Swiss!
You all know cooking excites me though! Check out the recipe for Cucumber Mango Salsa on allrecipes.com – it’s great on blackened or grilled fish and chicken! I made it this past weekend and it was tasty!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:11 am
blue, LOL
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
11:12 am
“I am going from Dude to Dad.”
@PR- I feel you. I was the same way about not wanting kids and everybody thinks I would have like 10 by now cause I loved women and got a lot pudussy, but never wanted to leave any DNA in the coochie. I have one child and my stupid a$$ had a field day in booty because I went with her to the doctor and was there when he told her she couldn’t have any children. She was sad but all I could think about was skeeting freely. Now I want to sue the doctor for the misdiagnosis and I blame Jodeci, but I do love my baby.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:14 am
DigThat, LOL. I hope I will be a good father and husband.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
11:16 am
@ PR I hate to sound trite but child raising is “the toughest job you will ever love”. Hard work if one does it right and is really a father and not just a sperm donor. When it really hits you is when they are maybe 5 or so, and you have them in youth athletics and the pride you feel when they tear up another defense on the soccer field, or a little later when they hit the winning run, or the winning basket. No rush like it.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
11:17 am
I went with her to the doctor and was there when he told her she couldn’t have any children. She was sad but all I could think about was skeeting freely.
@Dig That?? why were u at the doc anyway asking that??
that reminds me of a dude i went to high school with back in the day. He had an ugly girlfriend and he was a “show off” kinda guy and the running joke at school with the boyz was that she told him she cldn’t have any babies..so he was free to sling it and hit as he pleased!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:19 am
Randyt, it feels like I should be doing something now but I do not know what to do. The only thing I have been doing is looking into 529 Plans for it’s college tuiton
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:20 am
Kimmie – Mango salsa with cucumber sounds deelish! I like Mango, corn, and black beans with a few other fav veggies.
PRain – Hey, I’m here to tell you that it is a hard adjustment to make, however it doesn’t last long and it’s worth EVERY second!!!
(Actually, I’m talking out loud to myself, because that is the advice I need at this point 
)
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
11:21 am
mqew??
u prego??
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
11:22 am
When dealing with women, I believe real recognizes real. The key is to get them to listen, and then say something relevant. Generally speaking, your audience dictates your approach. Upscale females tend to respond well to uniquely phrased compliments. Typically, comments on their skin, teeth, or the way they move (the words graceful or regal work well here). Follow that with a little humor and then professionally introduce yourself and you should be in there. Hood chicks are different and in my opinion more difficult to infiltrate because they have been hardened by life and disrespected by men. One should still lead with compliments, but it should be phrased crudely (i.e. “ Damn! You got a phat azz”), follow that up with a subliminal message of possible financial assistance. Often, I would ask if she “could do me a favor”. Tell her when she gets home, to write my name on a big envelope, then put every bill she has inside, place it by the door and let me know when it’s ready. Tell her she needs to do that every month. Let her know she’s too fine to be paying bills. That should get you a smile and an introduction. These are examples of ways to initiate a conversation, inevitably one’s personality or lack thereof, will determine what happens next.
blue
June 30th, 2010
11:23 am
just do yourself a favor PR, when your in the delivery room, and you think you oughta hold her hand, JUST SAY NO. hubbie tried that, tried to tell him it was a bad idea, he did it anyway. still telling me 10 years later a broke his hand
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:23 am
mqew, I like have a plan and not it seems like I have nothing to do to get ready. I guess that will come.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:24 am
Randyt – I agree, most that expressed having a kid is easy, probably isn’t doing it ‘right’….
PRain – Maybe there’s a Dad Camp somewhere in the metro area
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:25 am
blue, I want to help pull the baby out.
DuShawn, you pay women’s bills who you just met?
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:26 am
Ghana – Yes very!!! Labor is 7/23
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
11:26 am
Hey DuShawn!
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
11:26 am
@PR only thing youcan do is keep involved with your lady and let her know you are feeling it too. Maybe go to the birthing classes at the hospital and stay engaged. By the way, a funny movie (okay, is a chic flick but a good one) is called “Nine Months” with Hugh Grant, Tom Arnold, and Julianne Moore (oh and Robin Williams as a weird Russian gynecologist, very funny). Hits on a lot of the feelings and thoughts that come with the whole situation. It is all good.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:27 am
I can not wait to see if it is a boy or girl, regardless of which it is. The first thing I am ordering is some Vikings gear, we should have just won the super bowl right before the baby arrives. LOL
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
11:27 am
I have an emailed 20% off your entire purchase coupon for the Polo Factory Store for this weekend only.
Email me at cscfromajc@yahoo.com if you would like me to forward the email to you.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:28 am
And we have to get a car with a back seat. I have a pickup truck and she has an Audi TT. I am looking at getting her a Maxima, those are pretty cool.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
11:28 am
mqew…u married now or “it just happened??”
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
11:30 am
“Purple Rain” That’s the bait and switch. Personally, I have not done any of the things I described in decades. I no longer have the energy nor the desire to try that hard. I was just departing a little game to less fortunate.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:31 am
Prayers for Randall Cunningham and his family.
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
11:31 am
mqew – I seeded & chopped up some tomato in it as well, per one of the bloggers on the recipe site and it was great! I ate it on some blackened salmon. I’m trying to spread my wings & mainly my SO’s & his family and try some different things instead of the same old southern meat & potatoes, though there is nothing wrong with that! Especially the way I grew up & how I cook, it was alway prepared in a tasty yet healthy way. I just crave more variety.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:32 am
DuShawn,
Because I was going to send a hood rat your way and slide some of my bills in that same envelope. LOL
blue
June 30th, 2010
11:32 am
pulling the baby out, well alrightee then. just dont head down that way till she gives you the thumbs up, women get wierd at that moment. just do what she tells u and all will be fine, lol
shaun
June 30th, 2010
11:33 am
Congrats PR, welcome to the club. One piece of advise, if you are gonna video tape the birth, dont turn the camcorder on until the baby sticks his head out, cause you will run out of tape like I did, because I started it right when the DR came in. LOL
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
11:33 am
Wimbledon update: Federer is out!
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:33 am
Ghana – ummmmmm I’ve been married for……13yrs. We planned every detail November 6th 2009 to have this chica
No “just happened” here!
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:34 am
What happened to Randall Cunningham, or his fam?
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:34 am
kimmie, what is the website for the cooking bloggers
Professor
June 30th, 2010
11:35 am
Tell her when she gets home, to write my name on a big envelope, then put every bill she has inside, place it by the door and let me know when it’s ready. Tell her she needs to do that every month. Let her know she’s too fine to be paying bills. That should get you a smile and an introduction.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:35 am
mqew, 2 year old son died in the hot tub
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
11:37 am
Purple – allrecipes.com
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:38 am
Kimmie, thanks. I will use the same name that I do on here.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
11:38 am
@kimmie I just bought a new cookbook I saw on QVC. The Pioneer Woman’s cookbook.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:39 am
Kimmie – Try my fav salsa then…. well if you like avocados.
Avocado, black beans, super sweet corn, red bell pepp, jalopeno pepp or serrano, cilantro, grn or red onion with a touch of lime, honey, and cumin. Ridiculous with salmon!!!! Don’t like avocado, use the mango….
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
11:40 am
Kym – Do you like it? What kind of recipes are in it?
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:41 am
PRain – WTH!!! I can’t even imagine…. the guilt they must feel…
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
11:41 am
Prince, where is ‘home’? (and p.s. please don’t call your baby “it”)
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
11:43 am
ummmmmm I’ve been married for……13yrs
@mqew! Congrats….
I was gon give u the congrats anyway..just wanted to make sure u have ur child support lined up str8,if u werent married.
I dint know u been taken 13 loooong years???
So its working for u right?
Professor
June 30th, 2010
11:43 am
http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/ex-qb-cunninghams-son-drowns-in-hot-tub?GT1=39002
@mqew his two year old son drown
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:44 am
Kimmie – that does indeed sound good. Try this salsa recipie one day:
Avocodo, black beans (rinsed), corn, red bell pepp, green or red onion, jalopeno or serrano pepp, cilantro, a little lime, honey, and cumin.
AMAZING on salmon and very refreshing just as a reg dip!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:44 am
CanalZone, Saint Paul, Minnesota. What am I supposed to call it until we know what it is?
mqew, somehow the baby got back there and drowned.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
11:45 am
@kimmie it’s on the way. The author was featured on QVC..(yes I watch QVC..its only a problem when the boxes come everyday)..she calls herself an accidental country girl cause she was on her way to Cali for school..stop off in Oklahoma..met her hubby, a rancher and never left. She does the meat and potatoes stuff..here’s a link
http://www.amazon.com/Pioneer-Woman-Cooks-Recipes Accidental/dp/0061658197/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1277912633&sr=1-1
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
11:45 am
It’s coincidental that you all would be talking about online recipe sites today.
Just this morning, while watching GMA, I made the decision to get rid of this big A box of cooking books that I have because I never look in cookbooks for recipes anymore. I *always* look online.
Kym-You Can't Have My _ _ _ _ _(Pause)
June 30th, 2010
11:47 am
Okay I forgot how to set links..ugh…
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:47 am
SexyCool, you should choose a meal a week form the book. And use it. LOL
abc
June 30th, 2010
11:48 am
Is the topic inspired by Rihanna’s ‘Rude Boy’ single?
Her concert in Atlanta is about to be canceled due to lack of ticket sales. The tune itself is yet another fairly bland tribute to horny chicks. Gettin a bit old. She looks like a freak show to boot.
Rudeness is a dumb approach. If you think you have to resort to rudeness to get a reaction from a chick, chances are she’s the wrong chick to approach, anyway.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:48 am
Ghana – Met him Dec 95′; love at first sight
Well for me at least. He claims he just loved the way I treated him and didn’t really SEE me until later… when I took my braids out and he saw me in my undies without the heavy winter gear 
blue
June 30th, 2010
11:51 am
used to let my midgets listen to her, back 4 “umbrella” and the like. but an 8 yr old girl walkin around singing “come on rude boy”, i almost fell over. hadnt heard the song yet myself and the little know it bakcwards and forwards. decided time to keep her away from the midgets, just a bit too adult for me.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
11:51 am
Hey, OnAHorseDude, I have about 20 cookbooks. If I did that, I would be about halfway through all of them by the time Jesus comes or calls.
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
11:51 am
Her concert in Atlanta is about to be canceled due to lack of ticket sales.
Maybe its just me, I think Rihanna needs counseling. I know its has been a year since her incident with Chris Brown but something does not look right with her. I’m sure this subject has been beaten to death here in Blogsville (no pun intended)
j-mike
June 30th, 2010
11:51 am
Neil Strauss’s book, The Game, is actually a good read. what he is referring to is called a “neg”- neither an insult nor a compliment. attractive women hear the same stuff all the time. what this does it puts them in their place. it takes attention away from them, which they so desire.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
11:52 am
Professor/PRain – I don’t care how it happened, I know that I would never be able to forgive myself for that one…. NOT NEVA!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:52 am
SexyCool, what types of cookbooks are they anything international?
j-mike
June 30th, 2010
11:53 am
an example could be like: nice nails, are they real or fake? or ” i like your skirt, i just saw three other women with the same one”.
M. (pronouced M dot)
June 30th, 2010
11:55 am
@Dushawn
“The key is to get them to listen, and then say something relevant”
I think you got it all wrong. You are supposed to be doing the listening and let her do the talking. That makes her seem interesting and you interested in her. Not running your mouth and telling your business.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:55 am
Trevor, she probably needs another beating to knock the sense back into her that Chris Brown knocked out. What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing she hasn’t been told twice already.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
11:55 am
@ Sexy Cool I saw that same segment of GMA…felt guilty and ready to rent a dumpster and toss it all. I have so much crap, too many clothes, etc. Funny, but the “freest” I ever felt was when I didn’t have anything after my divorce (furniture, money, even a real mattress for over a year). Now I have three of everything, and more clothes than Imelda Marcos had shoes. Goodwill is going to have to make some room this weekend. I need the room and the writeoff.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
11:56 am
Mqew~ I would never forgive myself either, and I don’t think I could live in that house. I would have to move.
This story tripped me out too
http://network.yardbarker.com/nfl/article_external/Ex_NFLer_On_Boyfriend_Accuser_I_Still_Love_Him/2814824
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
11:56 am
PR – I will have to look. Send an email to my addy and I will let you know in the next couple of days or so.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:56 am
I’M ON A HORSE
My previous blog entry should get things jumping. LOL
blue, that is how you ride your horse around this territory
j-mike
June 30th, 2010
11:56 am
good point M.- it’s also like making statements, rather than asking her open-ended questions. me personally, i go with the cocky/funny approach.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
11:57 am
SexyCool, Okay.
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
11:58 am
Kym – I just went on her website – the recipes read very good and the pictures of the food look great too! Will definitely be trying some of her stuff out! Thanx!
SCool – I look online a lot for recipes too, but I can’t bring myself to give up my collection of cookbooks! I do need to organize and file the recipe cutouts that I have a ton of!
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
11:59 am
Tell me about it, Randy. I felt the exact same way when I sold my house and downgraded to an attic apartment. Hell, I even felt like I had lost weight.
Now I try to only buy things that I need, things that need replacing or upgrading and then when I do buy something, I toss something in the trash or put it in the Goodwill bag.
I hate having too much stuff.
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
12:00 pm
Trev I think both could use therapy…….it was a traumatic event and recovery is ongoing……I think…..
mqew
June 30th, 2010
12:01 pm
Why do I lose my innanet connection when the home phone ring… that ain’t right
What I said was…
Ghana – Is it working? Fuch yea it is! It had better be… all the dang blasted work we put into this… and i mean WORK, hard work, labor work, this ain’t no game type of work! We decided a long time ago that there was not going to be an out…. we took divorce out the equation as an option!!
Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)
June 30th, 2010
12:01 pm
. but an 8 yr old girl walkin around singing “come on rude boy”, i almost fell over.
First I
but now 
at the visual….a parents’ 24/7.
Swissie are you still watching Wimbledon?…is the the year of the upset or what? Several top seeded players are OWT but it’s been nice watching the quality/caliber of play seen thus far.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
12:01 pm
Chris Brown had to get therapy as terms of his probation. Rihanna just started wearing less clothes…lol
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
12:02 pm
kimmie – I have a few recipes that I use repeatedly.
I laminated them all and keep them in a drawer in my kitchen. (Although, I’m thinking of moving them to one of those pretty flowery photo boxes, especially since I already have one sitting on top of my cabinets as decoration.)
blue
June 30th, 2010
12:02 pm
lol PR. sounds like something hubbie would say. we got to talking about that mess with Rihanna an Chris, he says “i wouldnt hit her. i’ll just throw her, let the wall hit her..”
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
12:03 pm
hen I took my braids out and he saw me in my undies without the heavy winter gear
@mqew ??
WHAT??
u mean he had to wait for u to undress(undies?) to appreciate ur beauty and sexxiness….??
incidentally, i met mine in ‘95 too..february tho….in march/april..we were an item….
that cootie been good to me……..
Sassy Me...You know I'm BAD :-)
June 30th, 2010
12:03 pm
parents’ *job* is 24/7.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
12:04 pm
blue, I would not ever hit a woman, but if she pissed me off I would not stop something form hitting her. LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
12:05 pm
@Lady you came in through the back door LOL
blue
June 30th, 2010
12:05 pm
his reasoning exactly, lol. just reminded him that he aint the only one from nyc, so dont get any bright ideas, lol
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
12:05 pm
SCool – I had all my cake business recipes laminated. I’ve accumulated more, much more, since then. I also have a few other recipes that I use all the time. I really need to sift thru all of them & eliminate!
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
12:05 pm
Speaking of come on lines, I always liked the joke about the man in the suit on the corner.
A beautiful dime piece, dressed like something out of Cosmo came up to the corner. The man turned to her and said, “you are absolutely one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. If I gave you $100,000 would you sleep with me”.
She looked at him and thought, he didn’t look that bad and $100,000 was a lot of money, so she said “yes, I will sleep with you for $100,000″.
The man looked at her and then said, “okay, then would you sleep with me for $25 then”.
The lady was furious, slapped him and said, “what do you think I am, a wh0re”.
He said, “we have already established that, we are just negotiaing the price now”.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
12:08 pm
Sassy — I’m actually in the office today, so I’ll have to review the game tape on DVR tonight. Been following the scores from today’s matches, though. I had a feeling Fed was going to go down, though. Wouldn’t be surprised if Rafa did today, too…
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
12:09 pm
What’s poppin’ Prof!!!!!! Just briefly chiming’ in as I am playing out and about…..lol
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
12:10 pm
i do something similar, kimmie. all of my cookbooks are lined up around the tops of the cabinets, mostly decorative. the recipes i use often or print online i keep in a binder on the counter for easy access. i can’t part with my collection either.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
12:10 pm
Trev I think both could use therapy
@Lady J??
Chris is done with therapy..he just needs money right now!
Rihanna?? dont care!
Professor
June 30th, 2010
12:14 pm
@Lady nothing at all. My mind is on lunch right about now. I agree, both need therapy. Chris with all that d@%^$
is not over it either.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
12:15 pm
@Kimmie?
I dont cook much but i keep my recipes in my head..in fact, i just contrive them..generally, i know what i want to cook(the ingredients) and figure out the rest as im doing it,based on how im feeling about the job.
Funny thing is,everytime I cook,Queen says,”baby,this tastes so good,u must cook often”
My mama raised me well!
blue
June 30th, 2010
12:16 pm
i could really use a pb&j right now. with a glass of chocolate milk, crazy straw so i can blow bubbles in it….feeling the inner child today
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
12:16 pm
Melo, I don’t use cookbooks I never make a meal the same way although I do want to try some different things.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
12:16 pm
I happen to think Ri-Ri is one of those artists that tries to hard to be edgy and avant garde.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
12:17 pm
Ghana – he indeed had to wait, but he didn’t mind. We both wanted each other to stick around
Prof – that football article reminds me of the Football tv series that was cancelled because it was airing to much of the NFL’s dirty laundry
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
12:17 pm
“M.” “You are supposed to be doing the listening and let her do the talking…..” I agree. Once you have engaged her in conversation the work is done, you’re in there. I was describing ways to initiate the conversation. If it’s a real competitive environment one needs to say something that’s creative and different yet genuine. To some, that requires thought and effort, to others it’s a natural gift.
A wise man once told me “if you treat ladies like whores and whores like ladies, both of them will love you forever.” It may sound ridiculous on the surface, but the statement actually has relevance. If you treat a woman in a way that she is unaccustomed to, it makes you different and more interesting. This may be the mind set of men that approach women rudely. I have witness guys say some crazy things to classy women. I just knew they were gonna get cursed out, but surprisingly the chick was not offended and rewarded his abrasiveness with her presence
Professor
June 30th, 2010
12:18 pm
**too** not to
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
12:18 pm
blue, I could use some p and a bj also, LOL
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
12:19 pm
“M.” “You are supposed to be doing the listening and let her do the talking…..” I agree. Once you have engaged her in conversation the work is done, you’re in there. I was describing ways to initiate the conversation. If it’s a real competitive environment one needs to say something that’s creative and different yet genuine. To some, that requires thought and effort, to others it’s a natural gift.
A wise man once told me “if you treat ladies like whores and whores like ladies, both of them will love you forever.” It may sound ridiculous on the surface, but the statement actually has relevance. If you treat a woman in a way that she is unaccustomed to, it makes you different and more interesting. This may be the mind set of men that approach women rudely. I have witness guys say some crazy things to classy women. I just knew they were gonna get cursed out, but surprisingly the chick was not offended and rewarded his abrasiveness with her presence.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
12:19 pm
@mqew I so agree, and the funny thing is I actually enjoyed that show. I love all things NFL.
DreamsMaterialize
June 30th, 2010
12:20 pm
Hey Everyone
I’m not sure what the rude approach is, but every woman is different. I’ve had comments misinterpreted before by women before. It happens though. I’ll say this though. If a guy approaches you with some off-the-wall shyte, and you’re wondering what the h-e-l-l-l is wrong with him, just know that he probably wouldn’t be trying it on you if it hadn’t worked on someone else.
Btw, Boondocks has been funny as h-e-l-l-l. They destroyed Tyler Perry. I just wish this weren’t the last season.
Oh, and congrat Purp on the new arrival. As soon as you hold your child something will kick in inside you, and you’ll immediately have a renewed determination in life.
Rude Girl
June 30th, 2010
12:20 pm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sM9XLaMwTdQ
blue
June 30th, 2010
12:21 pm
PR – boys r nasty, lol.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
12:22 pm
he indeed had to wait, but he didn’t mind. We both wanted each other to stick around
@mqew??!
are u a proponent of the 3 + months puddsy_baiting_delaying tactic/rule??
( I hope by answering, u wont mind the stoning from the “pudsy_fling_it_ now” crowd)
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
12:22 pm
Are my post being censored and deleted or is this thing not functioning?
kimmie
June 30th, 2010
12:23 pm
Melo, I love it when men cook! All thumbs in the kitchen is not cute.
I use most recipes as a general guide if it’s something I’ve never made before. I always add my own twist and I can judge just by reading if it’s going to turn out good or not. Now baking is kind of a different story, especially with cakes and breads. It’s kind of like chemistry. You have to have the right amount of baking powder, salt, etc or things won’t turn out well. I know what I can play with in baking, like I always add more flavoring than the recipe calls for, but I don’t play with the leavenings.
Cooking is fun and relaxing to me!
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
12:23 pm
Girls have cooties
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
12:23 pm
“M.” “You are supposed to be doing the listening and let her do the talking…..” I agree. Once you have engaged her in conversation the work is done, you’re in there. I was describing ways to initiate the conversation. If it’s a real competitive environment one needs to say something that’s creative and different yet genuine. To some, that requires thought and effort, to others it’s a natural gift.
A wise man once told me “if you treat ladies like hoes and hoes like ladies, both of them will love you forever.” It may sound ridiculous on the surface, but the statement actually has relevance. If you treat a woman in a way that she is unaccustomed to, it makes you different and more interesting. This may be the mind set of men that approach women rudely. I have witness guys say some crazy things to classy women. I just knew they were gonna get cursed out, but surprisingly the chick was not offended and rewarded his abrasiveness with her presence.
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
12:25 pm
Melo he does need the money and the Rhi isn’t my fav but she does need some counseling…..prof I’m baffled my me day got turned upside down to a work business day…..I tell ya bad timing! I have to stop my hair appointment for a meeting and to sign a contract for my july job just wished human resource called yesterday when I was clear! LOL! But I’m glad folks work with me and not against so im$ bout to jet…..will peep in later
kimmy
June 30th, 2010
12:27 pm
What happened to putting your best foot forward…That is the right approach. You never get the 2nd chance to make a 1st impression. Rude does not work for me or any women I know.
blue
June 30th, 2010
12:29 pm
yep, and yall keep coming back for more, lol
am i the only one who thinks Rihanna and Ciara are inches away from playboy or the pole? i mean with Ciara, 1st “i didnt pose nude for that cover shoot” and now Ride? and Rihanna, well it was mentioned earlier her therapy seems to be less and less clothes…
Steven Q. Stanley
June 30th, 2010
12:31 pm
A woman with no sense of humor ,who can’t laugh at herself, she is doomed to die alone.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
12:34 pm
@DuShawn..the blog is using new technology,not the old one so tamper ur words down a notch..thats proly why.
@kimmy all chics like compliments esp as pertaining to some dressing of their topography…thats given.. hood chics dont have much to work with and lead with their geography so rude ref to their phine topography works best for them.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
12:34 pm
I have some pole therapy for Ciara.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
12:40 pm
Yes, Ghana, I believe both should wait… wait for what/when can/should only be answered by them. 3 months, 2 months, 6 months??? Don’t know it all depends on the couple…
blue
June 30th, 2010
12:44 pm
ghana – always love compliments.
think some guys just dont know how to compliment without being crude
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
12:46 pm
@mqew??
I dont mind waiting….it makes my w&*#@!*.grow fonder!
mqew
June 30th, 2010
12:48 pm
Ghana – Goes both ways, the “angst” as you put it was definitely an aphrodisiac
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
12:52 pm
SexyC… did your yahoo spam me??
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:02 pm
I don’t know. I don’t have your email address. If you received an email with my name on it, it wasn’t me.
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
1:04 pm
It is nice and cool outside
Purple Rain
June 30th, 2010
1:06 pm
Rihanna looks a little “special edish” to me.
blue
June 30th, 2010
1:06 pm
grabbing some food, bbl. pr – watch my pony
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
1:07 pm
mqew??
u know what i need now, after being with the same woman for 15 years,is a married couples peer group to bounce off ideas with.
I dont bang as often and it gets to me mentally smetimes….wanna know if its part of the journey or there is sme wrong with me or what.
I got the mind for it,the imagination etc..i see it mentally..no doubt but aint got the deep down sexxual volcano in me that I used to have… to want to bang it every day like that. U feel me or u feel the same way with ur boo??.
Picture me like eff eff ,nosing and brushing my lips an nose on my Queen’s nana and then saying..”phluck it..im gon to bed…!!”
Is that normal??
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
1:07 pm
I hope it stays like this through the weekend. I need it to be at least 67 degrees when I run the Peachtree Road Race on Sunday.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:09 pm
Trevor – what wave are you in?
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
1:11 pm
I am in Wave H.
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
1:15 pm
@SexyC, what wave are you in?
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:15 pm
I’m so jealous. LOL!
I had a mail-in registration, which combined with me being a first-timer, put me in Wave X.
Oh, well to that. My bestie and I will be walking it anyways since she just had a lipo/tuck about a month ago.
Completed my first 5k last weekend and will now be completing my first 10k this one. I am pretty geeked!
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
1:15 pm
no worries. i was trying to email you for the polo discount.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:16 pm
Oh…let me look again.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:17 pm
Trevor – you will probably be at home with your feet on the couch by the time I get done.
DreamsMaterialize
June 30th, 2010
1:17 pm
Completed my first 5k last weekend and will now be completing my first 10k this one. I am pretty geeked!
SexyC Congrats on the accomplishments. So, once you’ve conquered the 10k are you moving up to the 15k? half marathon?
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
1:18 pm
This is my second Peachtree. After I did the race last year, I started running ever since. It is a lot of fun.
@SexyC, is there a half marathon or marathon in your future?
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
1:20 pm
I met the coolest couple today. They met in college. Not only are they the same age but their birthdays are on the same day. But get this, they were born at the same hospital.
How cool is that? Sharing the first days of your life with the person that you will one day marry and be parted by death.
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
1:21 pm
“M.” “You are supposed to be doing the listening and let her do the talking…..” I agree. Once you have engaged her in conversation the work is done, you’re in there. I was describing ways to initiate the conversation. If it’s a real competitive environment, one needs to say something that’s creative and different yet genuine. To some, that requires thought and effort, to others it’s a natural gift.
A wise man once told me “if you treat ladies like prostitutes and prostitutes like ladies, both of them will love you forever.” It may sound ridiculous on the surface, but the statement actually has relevance. If you treat a woman in a way that she is unaccustomed to, it makes you different and more interesting. This may be the mind set of men that approach women rudely. I have witness guys say some crazy things to classy women. I just knew they were gonna get cursed out, but surprisingly the chick was not offended and rewarded his abrasiveness with her presence.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:22 pm
Well, Dreams, I am most proud of the fact that I ran the entire race. Before Saturday, I had never in my life ran more than about two miles. (I’m a new runner.)
Once I got started, I just made up in my mind that I was not going to stop running until I crossed the finish line. My unofficial time is 38:42.
My immediate plan is to get a few more 5k’s under my belt, learn to run them more efficiently. And hope to be able to be at a 10k total running completion by next year’s Peachtree.
I don’t think I have any plans past a 10k. But….never say never.
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
1:23 pm
you will probably be at home with your feet on the couch by the time I get done
I will probably be on my second beer but not at home.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
1:24 pm
Ghana – Dude, you just getting old thas all
I take it as, it’s just life. It comes and goes in waves. I was watching the Brandy show yesterday and her Dad seems like he was an ole Q-Dawg type (actually saw the omega sign on his hand) ANYWHO, he wooooed his wife into signing on with HIS program, AGAIN and got her to leave the BIZ alone and concentrate on them as a couple and as individuals.
Hell, I was ready to go to Memphis to be with him, or where ever the hell they were… He laid it down with so much sincerity that I’m sure it’s going to be on and popping in their bedroom after all that…
AND… Brand and RayJ WISH they could sing like their Dad. Dude put it down. He’d put some of these old heads trying to merely stay in the game to shame!!!!!!
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
1:24 pm
Raqi, did they recognize each other?
j/k
see, now that’s what i need is a running partner to keep me motivated! s/o hates running.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
1:26 pm
I just hate it that Tiger Woods methods of relaxation(BJ_ yoga) have been exposed as morally wrong that he cant do it any more and be on top of golf like he used to be.
His golf life has spiraled and he aint firing on all cylinders.
@Swiss/Randyt/Anybody??
do uall think he is better served(from a golf perspective) if he divorces,gets real with it and gets a woman(black or white as long as she is superhead material) who understands and services him accrording to his sexual desires,thereby relaxing him better and improving his golf game??
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
1:26 pm
SexyCool and Trevor I will be cheering for you two from the comforts of my big comfy chair in my airconditioned house while sipping on a nice cool Lipton tea as I surf the channels going pass Channel 2 every so often.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
1:29 pm
RAQI – I was trying to contact you a few days ago… Preggo related… What’s the best way? Is your email out there already and you don’t mind blasting it, or would you prefer to contact me? simplynd@gmail.com
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:29 pm
czB – I didn’t see an email from you.
There are several running clubs in the metro area that you could look at participating in. TheDude runs in one downtown and I am actually considering looking into the South Fulton Running Club.
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
1:30 pm
LOL czBrat. It’s funny because they lived in a close enough radius to be born at the same hospital but they did not go to the same school as kids. They just so happen to find themselves at the same University. Now they are married with a set of twin boys that are in the same gymnastics class as my little one.
Living near each other they probably were at some of the same venues at the same time many times and never met or noticed each other.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
1:31 pm
mqew??
this is ur first??
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
1:31 pm
mqew, raqicasi@gmail.com
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:32 pm
Which reminds me – Rock, I tried emailing you back yesterday and kept getting an error message.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
1:34 pm
Melo — Hellz yes, I think Tiger needs to just drop the pretense & be the freak that he is. He’ll be happier, all the hoes that are now missing out will be happier, his golf game will improve. And as for sponsors, who cares of the stuffy corporate types drop him — he can take it in a whole different direction. “Hi, I’m Tiger Woods & I use Extenze…”
There’s still endorsement $$ to be made for a man-ho… 
Along those same lines, I never understood all the uproar about Clinton and
the jizz recepticleLewinski… That story about him getting a BJ in the wee hours of the morning while on the phone w/ a congressman & eating some delivery pizza… I salute you, Mr. President!Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
1:35 pm
Once you start running, you become addicted. Now I am looking for another race to do later this year. Probably go to Myrtle Beach in October for the Mini Marathon(1/2 marathon).
mqew
June 30th, 2010
1:38 pm
Ghana – Nope I am a stay at home mommy with a 3yr old. Although he will indeed start school Aug 1st!!!!
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
1:40 pm
@Swiss..u right!
besides, this moral pretense in america is just some American Republicans’ attempt at monopolizing some good sexual stuff…..
otherwise how do u explain them condeming such stuff in public and them partaking of same in private?
Tiger needs to team up with Diddy, and be real about it! That will get his game back to where it was.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:41 pm
Trev, I felt a tremendous sense of accomplishment. And I am reall starting to enjoy it. After Saturday, I finally feel comfortable calling myself a runner.
However, right now, I simply cannot put my mind around running 13.1 miles, but we’ll see.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
1:42 pm
Trevor – Once you start running you become addicted <——- That right there is a damn lie
I run because I HAVE to! I run because I'm a lazy workout person AND I love food! It's the all-inclusive go to workout… Don't want to be fat, well run for a 1/2 hour 4 days a week…. you'll be good. But, I HATE running. Hate, hate, hate it!
czBrat
June 30th, 2010
1:42 pm
how do u explain them condeming such stuff in public and them partaking of same in private?
i believe that’s actually the definition of religion, not politics. but i could be wrong.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
1:43 pm
“otherwise how do u explain them condeming such stuff in public and them partaking of same in private?”
Melo — True… Although, to be fair Repubs usually prefer to partake of young boys or strange dudes in airport bathrooms…
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
1:43 pm
^5 czBrat
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
1:43 pm
BJ in the wee hours of the morning while on the phone w/ a congressman & eating some delivery pizza
@Swiss..only
the jizz recepticleLewinski and Clinton could pull that one off.He gangsta and still my favorite, black Prez!
mqew
June 30th, 2010
1:49 pm
Trevor – Running is done by me only to keep the weight off. I hate it! It’s the perfect lazy workout to me. All it takes is 30min (3miles) 4 days a week. Addictive? No! Effective? Yes!
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
1:49 pm
SexyCool and Trevor, I used to run every morning some 10 years ago. It was my way of clearing my head. Now all the running I do is behind a one year headed for the door or the stairs. I couldn’t get back on that pavement even if I wanted to.
I ran a couple of years ago one morning and my thigh muscles were throbbing and tingling. I haven’t did again since.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
1:52 pm
mqew – and ^^THAT is why I run. LOL! It’s an effective workout. Saturday was the first time that I really enjoyed it – AFTER it was over.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
1:55 pm
that’s actually the definition of religion, not politics
czBrat!
u close. Religion= Republicanism and some ….I recently found out(was told) that one of my church pastors has a child outta wedlock…he never ever talks about it..ever!.
I am a strong proponent that every pastor must put all their ish on the billboard in and around the church so pple/parishoners can make their own minds/decisions.
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
1:57 pm
@ Ghana& I’m Swiss
I agree with take the divorce, write the checks so he can keep his kids in his life, and be the freak that he is. The dude has more money already than most countries in the world so what else could he buy even if the endorsements drop off, so he might as well be who he is if that is what he wants. The only caveat is what persona does he want to someday explain to his kids. If it does not matter to him, then lay pipe daily…if he wants to be the best father, then keep it on the sly and make it his life and image the legacy he wants to leave.
@ I’m swiss I’m an independent, not Republican or Democrat (basically fiscally conservative, and generally despise lemmings for any party who can’t think for themselves and need Fox or MSNBC to tell them how to think). That said, it seems to me that most politicians of all parties are almost always hypocrites and wh0res, regardless of party affiliation.
i'm swiss
June 30th, 2010
1:59 pm
Randy — True… I guess I just notice the religious right hypocrisy a bit more, because I’ve been surrounded by that particular brand my whole life…
Randyt (is it Friday yet?)
June 30th, 2010
2:06 pm
@ I’m swiss
I agree. It PO’s me even more when they talk the talk but don’t walk the walk, especially conservatives. Personally, I am for term limits top to bottom. One sniff of the intoxicating effect of Washington and they forget everything they promised, or to give them probably more credit than they are due, they forget what they themselves once believed.
I was never a Bill Clinton fan particularly (or George Bush Jr. either), but I liked him the most about a year or so ago. He was being asked “why”, and his answer was “just because I could”. psossibly the most honest and truthful statement I have ever heard a politician offer.
Side bar: I was in a tavern in Oxford England a year or so ago tht claims to be the place where Slick Willy smoked but did not inhale. I may ahave accidentally inhaled once or twice myself…purely by accident of ocurse.
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
2:07 pm
Wow… this blog has truly lost its steam
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
2:08 pm
Randyt??… most politicians of all parties are almost always hypocrites and wh0res,
Liberals are openly,blatant wh0res..Period!
(granted,hollyweird is an extreme example of them)
Professor aka Dirty Diana
June 30th, 2010
2:12 pm
Ghana, those billboards will look like Jimmy Swaggert (sp) from back in the day. I’ve heard some stuff about one major
p.i.m.ppreacher around here and it was not nice.GHANA
June 30th, 2010
2:19 pm
Jimmy Swaggert?
@Proff??
he was on Larry king not too long ago and him(Jimmy) and wife are still tgether after all that gay romp confessions!
(shout out to all the single ladies with “bail out and walk ” manifestos if future hubby cheats)
mqew
June 30th, 2010
2:20 pm
SCool – If you can enjoy that crap, you are well on your way to live a healthy fulfilling life
I wish I could! I just know I have to. Especially when baby girl is born. I’ll be out there in the heat.
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
2:27 pm
@mqew, and this heat is no joke to run in.
LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)
June 30th, 2010
2:34 pm
I can believe this ish, DreamsM has pulled the Professor (aka Dirty Diana). Professor did you go to New York last week? Dammmmmmmmm dat DreamsM is one smooth intectual!
@Free2b….What is happening with you today? Are you coming to the ice cream social?
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
2:49 pm
mqew – When are you due?
mqew
June 30th, 2010
3:00 pm
SCool – I am scheduled to deliver July 23rd. (My due date was Aug 1st.)
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
3:01 pm
Whew. A break. I see we have some runners here. Trevor those 5K and 10K’s are no joke. I haven’t done it in so long, but there is definitely a great sense of accomplishment.
@mqew- I didn’t know you were knocked up, I mean pregnant.
@Raqi- Wassup stranger
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
3:04 pm
mqew, July 23rd? You must be really enjoying this sweltering summer we are having. LOL
My first son’s birthday is in July and if nothing else I remember being miserable those last couple weeks leading to him being born.
blue
June 30th, 2010
3:04 pm
why are there still so many people at work this close to a holiday, shouldnt they all be on vacation by now?
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
3:05 pm
DigThat, hello. How are you these days?
Please
June 30th, 2010
3:05 pm
@Steven Q. Stanley. Why are you always stressing on some woman dieing alone? We all going to die alone, just like we came into this world. So let it go you sound pathetic.
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
3:06 pm
@Raqi- Finally doing some work. I guess it was about time I EARN my pay
lurks
June 30th, 2010
3:07 pm
DUSHAWN..Wow… this blog has truly lost its steam. I SO AGREE.
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
3:08 pm
Where is resident event planner, Leggs? I am volunteering her to put together a blog baby shower – she could even do it virtually. We could just send you e-gift cards for where you’re registered at.
Leggs – you are hereby called to action!!!
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
3:09 pm
(Did I just end a sentence with a preposition?)
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
3:13 pm
I was at this social function recently and noticed this chick sitting alone, on the verge of tears. I met her once or twice before. It was common knowledge amongst my crew that she was the mistress of one of our potnahs. He was in the venue, ignoring her and mingling with the other guest. I slid up to her as the first tear ran down her cheek, handed her a tissue and told her she shouldn’t let it show like that. I went on to say I didn’t know her name or her business, but I watch people. It appeared to me that she and my potnah were having some issues. I told her she was too strong, elegant and classy to let any man’s behavior leave her publicly shaken. I told her to pull it together, suck those tears up, and not to let him see her like that. I also reminded her of how she was killing that sundress and her pretty brown legs were saying something! She smiled and thanked me. Shortly thereafter, my potnah came over and joined us. He saw she was upset and ignored it like a pimp. The verbal band aid I had just applied to her self esteem kicked in and she began to tell my man that she was too good to be treated like this. I excused myself, chuckling under my breath as I walked away, thinking this is too easy. A few days later, I told him about our conversation. He laughed, and asked if I wanted her? I responded with a resounding “Hell No”! She’s fine and pretty, but she’s also one argument away from keying your benz and calling wifey. You can keep that head ache. This story has no moral or purpose, I was just thinking about the incident and thought I would share.
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
3:14 pm
DigThat, I have been working too. At home. LOL I am pretty much done with my project here. When the plumber leaves I just need to go down and give it a thorough cleaning.
Next I will start on my garden. Since it is already summer I will be planting some bell peppers, squash and cucumbers. I am not looking forward to the heat but I like doing stuff around the house.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
3:16 pm
Raqi – I leave the house either at the crack of dawn or after 8pm
Last night I went to Wally World at 9pm…
This heat is not my friend. And, I’d rather keep it to myself how miserable I truly am
DigThat – Knocked up indeed! Not sure what me and SO were thinking….
Professor
June 30th, 2010
3:17 pm
MR LURKER I was in the A last week. What are you talking about? Don’t make me slice you. YEAHHHHHHHHHHHH
@melo I hate I missed that show. I have an excellent Jimmy Swaggert impersonation, “I am sorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry I sinned against youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.”
Raqi
June 30th, 2010
3:18 pm
LOL SexyCool. My mom would have asked you “what’s behind that ‘at’? LOL
That’s a good idea about the virtual baby shower.
Mqew, I think your baby will be the second baby born on this here blog. Register somewhere and let some of us send you a gift.
I love babies. Not trying to have another one, but I love them.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
3:21 pm
@DuShawn you should have told her the next time when she cannot stop
go to the ladies room or go home. Big girls don’t 
in public like that over a
manhusband.GHANA
June 30th, 2010
3:21 pm
@DuShawn.
Oprah had a segment on mistresses on her show yesterday,if my tele recordings are to be believed. When i got home around 7.30,Queen had Oprah on and i was asking Queen to take that off coz i was ready to watch my taped soccer.
Some of the mistresses were really pretty and that made me listen a lil bit. These succkers..they always turn against their male hosts and rat to the wives coz they got nothing to lose and at some point begin to hate the reality of their “usefulness”!
mqew
June 30th, 2010
3:24 pm
SCool – Actually, you sound like a Chicago-an
We love saying… Where you at? 
I just registered at Target. I was going to go shopping this week… I keep putting it off. I was advised to try A.J. Wright as well… haven’t been there, so we’ll see. It’s one a Stonecrest near me…
Professor
June 30th, 2010
3:25 pm
I am tell the GED’s and HS grads vs. the folks that graduated college.
The GED’s cannot distinguish formal vs. informal…
…brb in 30 minutes
Professor
June 30th, 2010
3:25 pm
***I can tell***
SexyCool - Living on a cloud.
June 30th, 2010
3:25 pm
mqew – I’m from the country. We just say “Whey you?”
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
3:27 pm
@Proff!
I sinned against youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
hes a smart dude, Jimmy. Now using his gay pimping as a way to make money!
clever guy!
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
3:28 pm
@mqew- I think I have a good idea what you guys were thinking and not thinking about.
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
3:30 pm
“hate the reality of their “usefulness”!
lol… well put. The surprising part was that this was no young, gullible female. This was a grown 30 something intelligent, corporate exec type, with expensive shoes, European whips, and a fly cut.
She’s a bad chick.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
3:32 pm
Whew! Trying to stay cool with my 2nd Vanilla Caramel Drumstick
(Ok so I’m inside with the air on 75 
)
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
3:33 pm
This was a grown 30 something intelligent, corporate exec type, with expensive shoes, European whips, and a fly cut. She’s a bad chick.
And she relegated herself to “jump off” status?? Not a good look.
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
3:34 pm
What’s poppin’ crew???!!!????
Proff what’s good?
mqew
June 30th, 2010
3:36 pm
SCool – I had to read/say that out loud to get it
Trevor – I’m with you. Ain’t that much game in the WORLD!!!
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
3:42 pm
DuShawn good to read ya its been a minute!
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
3:43 pm
And she relegated herself to “jump off” status??
@mqew/Trevor??
I never been in a jump off’s brain so I wont proclaim like I know but i think smewhere in their logic is the hope that if I trick him good,do all the “right things” and dont nag him,im gonna win him outright at some point!
And I have a feeling it has worked with some men.No wonder some(most) of them get an epiphamy at the end,begin to hate themselves and him and end up getting to the wife.
What could prompt that if not a desire to be The One!?
I could be wrong.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
3:47 pm
Ghana – I can’t even imagine. I’d hope this would be one of the lowest points in her life where she’d need to re-think the male species cause chica don’t have a clue!
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
3:50 pm
My statements may misrepresent that young lady. A lot of dudes wouldn’t stand a chance in hell with her. Just so happens, Most of my potnahs are some extraordinary men. Dog just really got her goin. She is under his spell. I watched her sniffing behind him all night. It could happen to the strongest woman. To be honest, I don’t know what had her so upset.
Trevor0529
June 30th, 2010
3:55 pm
@DuShawn, your potnah must have a strong mouthpiece to have her be in that position.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
3:57 pm
He laughed, and asked if I wanted her?
@DuShawn!!??
he was proly late on her mortgage and unlike most months when he pays on time and she was fussing coz she didnt want to have a report on her credit. They are so fragile,u know..never mind the outside shine.
Glad u passed on his offer.
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
4:00 pm
This was a grown 30 something intelligent, corporate exec type, with expensive shoes, European whips, and a fly cut. She’s a bad chick.
Those are usually the ones that are jump offs. All that pretty exterior does is conceal empty and lonely interior. We had this conversation before.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
4:04 pm
Du – As I said, Ain’t that much game in the WORLD!!!
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
4:05 pm
@Ghana- It worked on Swizz Beats.
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
4:06 pm
@GHANA,
“proly late on her mortgage” could be. You never know, but I doubt it. At the risk of sounding like a nut pulla, Dog is a fly dude.
A lot suits, expensive toys, and a real humble and genuine personality. Women gravitate to the brother. Imma a helluva mufa myself, but I gotta give dog his props.
mqew
June 30th, 2010
4:11 pm
T’aint (it ain’t) that much game in the WWW!!! <—-whole wide world
It just isn't….
mqew
June 30th, 2010
4:12 pm
It just isn’t….
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
4:14 pm
Ghana- It worked on Swizz Beats
there u go.
there are so many men out there so theoretically,if we all were to be matched,some women is gonna have to go without.
If it were me and im in the same situ, I wld want to out compete somebody! Whatever means necessary!
jes saying!
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
4:15 pm
Every female who is reading this has cried over a man. If you haven’t, believe me, your time is coming. This chick just happen to reach that point in public. I don’t think anyone else was paying attention. She got it back together quickly.
Dig That
June 30th, 2010
4:30 pm
@Du- I doubt he was the first dude and won’t be the last she cry over.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
4:33 pm
Every female who is reading this has cried over a man
@DuShawn!
My wife’s single female mates at work are always lamenting,she tells me,at the afr/american men’s lack of comitment to longterm relationships and marriage.
Their line is always, “not looking for a serious relationship at this time”….euphamism for “just looking for bootey!”
I bet that crying is gon continue!
DreamsMaterialize
June 30th, 2010
4:34 pm
It could happen to the strongest woman.
This is the key. Smart, educated, successful, well-off does not elevate you above potential jump off status. Lots of women would (have) put all those things on the line to be with the cat they thought was the one.
It's me....lurker.....grrrrr, another day like yesterday, after my 2 hour client luncheon
June 30th, 2010
4:40 pm
Wow… this blog has truly lost its steam
Ain’t that the truth. Although reading Dushawn’s story, I can’t believe, no matter the exterior and possesions, she’s all that. Look how easily ole boy was ready to hand her off. Any woman worth their worth and known to said man or their man, would be treasured. That might seem sappy but no way in heck a man gonna hand a woman he treasures. He didn’t offer up the wifey I see. Just my opinion.
Elijah ( Today is a good day!)
June 30th, 2010
4:45 pm
Good Afternoon folks!
Reading some of these stories it would seem like men have made the ladies the enemy.
Hola Professor!
Hello Sexy Sassy!
Hello Kimmie and Free2b!
Professor
June 30th, 2010
4:46 pm
I am back…what’s popping blog folks?
Professor
June 30th, 2010
4:47 pm
Hey Elijah!
Professor
June 30th, 2010
4:49 pm
GHANA my thing is this if you want one thing (relationship/marriage) and dude tells you he is willing to give you something else (wimpy weener on Wednesdays) you made the decision to take door #2. Why settle?
Elijah ( Today is a good day!)
June 30th, 2010
4:50 pm
Hello Lady Lurker, I am not sure her credentials has anything to do with her worth. The reason the guy is able to make the handle off statement is because he has more then one and she does not rate high among those ladies he is already dealing with.
This lady may suffer from self-esteem issues or some other mental/emotion issues that allowed her to be put in that position. This guy broke her a long time ago and now it took another man word’s to make her look at her own reality.
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
4:51 pm
Proff!?! LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
4:53 pm
Elijah we need more men like you.
GHANA
June 30th, 2010
4:54 pm
Why settle?
@Proff??
coz in settling u being practical at times,preferring live amunnition to a lyfe less BOB….. .
seriously u give urself a chance,just in case dude changes his mind or when u get a better offer??
seems logical to me,never mind some dont want to be real about it!
DuShawn
June 30th, 2010
4:54 pm
@Elijah, that’s exactly what’s up.
It's me....lurker.....grrrrr, another day like yesterday, after my 2 hour client luncheon
June 30th, 2010
4:54 pm
Hey there Elijah…how are you. I agree with your 4:50 assessment. Not to beat up on her, as I don’t know her but handed off like nothing is just awful to me. Honestly think about it, he was willing to hand her off to the same type situation…another married dude. A lack of self esteem indeed. I hope she truly wakes up.
Professor
June 30th, 2010
4:55 pm
@Lady you know I told the truth why are you laughing. I thought DuShaun mentioned his homeboy was married. Today was busy so I could have misread. BTW, where are those worksheets?
It's me....lurker.....grrrrr, another day like yesterday, after my 2 hour client luncheon
June 30th, 2010
4:55 pm
Elijah we need more men like you
Absolutely…I’m agreeing
Lady-Wednesday Lover
June 30th, 2010
4:59 pm
LMBAO CRCT has passed on to the higher level GHGT and EOCT ha!
LOL Good Night!
free2be
June 30th, 2010
4:59 pm
hey elijah! what’s up, everybody?! i know i’m super late. just thought i’d drop in and say hi.:)
free2be
June 30th, 2010
5:01 pm
hey professor!:)
Professor
June 30th, 2010
5:01 pm
Ghana, it seems like those that settle gets burned. They fall in love and still yearn for more. I guess I don’t get it.
Lady~ Not the GHGT. I am done on that one. LOL
Professor
June 30th, 2010
5:10 pm
Hi and bye Free2Be I am trying to beat the rain home.