Morning!!!!

What have I learned?

Well…..I’ve learned to slow it down…

That’s all I wrote…….

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Good Morning Good People!!!!!!!!

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dammit EMOTIONS that is!

logic is sexier than emotions! geesh! lol

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~Confidence is sexy, Awareness is key~

discipline and awareness brings new results……..I am trying it out and it is sustaining even at my darkest hour! be true to who you are…….your values are important and shouldn’t be comprimised if you don’t want to comprimise your worth!

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Good Morning!

I would tell my younger self plenty! Mainly:
_ don’t waste time on situations that will not be beneficial to you. I mean emotionally, spiritually etc…

_ If you have to MAKE It work leave it alone!

_ always stand on who you are,

_ don’t be so in love with having somebody in the light that you overlook what’s done in the dark

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~~~~ Instead of playing the “right-wrong” game, honor the variety of life strategies. Your path isn’t for anyone but you.

Do you but be responsible, logical, and learn through each encounter to forever be a better person for better results…….the power in change lies within you not society!

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ok ladies yalll truly know LEO’S RRRRRRRRRRRROOOOOOOOOOOOOCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKK It DAILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don’t get it twisted! LMBAO! ok back to blogging! -Lady Lioness!

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Scorpios corner the passion (and maybe bring the freak a little too).

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When u start BEING it, you’ll start SEEING it—————practice, practice, practice! with learning you have to practice what is being taught!

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PK you ALREADY know it was STRESS FREE, DRAMA FREE, Good girlfriends makes the journey great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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’slim this is natrual honey Iam still sitting in the bed and hadn’t touch the floor!’

All I can say is WOW! You might want to bottle that ‘Natural honey’ and start selling it. I sure could use an extra shot in my cup of joe right about now. (That’s what 3 days of Dark Chocolate will do to ya)

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Slim you know i am a busy buzzing bee that is me!!!!! chile please you got a sistah thinking how to patent my stuff bc it is sweet! LMBAO SILLY! girl stop cutting up too damn early! LOL

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Kym re: “frankly I think they are the weaker and more confusing sex”.

Whoever claimed different? I agree that men are weaker (more needy), but confusing…back up the bus there, ladies hold all records for that category. Men are like Labrador Retrievers, simple and loyal. Just feed them, pat them on the head once in awhile, and talk nice, and they will follow you anywhere and jump thru every hoop.

Now women on the other hand, even confuse themselves.

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@ Kym…oh and one other thing, just playing with ya

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Suprinsingly, my vision in my 20’s about dating, relationships, have not changed that much…I knew then that marriage was something that I wanted and even after a failed marriage, I dusted myself out and got back out there. No relationship can sustain when there is no direct communication and honesty about feelings and emotions. It can only stay bottled up for so long until it blows the lid off…LITERALLY!!

I would have told my 20-something to slow down and go ahead focus on school more than trying to be this-do-it-all-for-my-husband type wife! No relationship means you have to lose focus of yourself and who you are.

Everything we go through in life, we should learn something from, be it good or bad. I take everything as a learning experience and seek to find a different, better way to do it!

Side note: I learned my dang lesson Sat @ The ATL Summer Jam when I hurt my ankle wearing these silver heels before we even made it to our seat!! The concert was GREAT nonetheless!!

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JTJ is was a great concert honey!!!! I truly enjoyed it!!!!!

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@RandyT I know you are joking…I am still smiling about the great weekend I have.

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chink good post!

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Good morning. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, WD. EMBRACE EACH YEAR. EVERY YEAR IS A BEAUTIFUL YEAR. TRULY!!!

I’m pretty much the same as I was in my 20’s. I didn’t really throw caution to wind. I had my fun, but was careful on most fronts. I have learned:

1. To love myself first.
2. Laugh a lot
3. This too will pass (don’t make yourself sick over a situation)
4. People will disappoint you
5. Love yourself FIRST!

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‘4. People will disappoint you’

Leggs – this is still a hard one for me to adapt to at times…but a work in progress I am.

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yep leggs we can’t avoid disappointments in others or ourselves….it happens but keeping it moving makes it bearable!

Ared your post is real talk! good one!

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Happy Birthday WD, the blog has been a trip, and you are responsible, thanks.

@ ARED …on a serious note, you bring up a very good point that should be noted by all when you said “it can’t be all them it must be me”. When we (and I mean me also) find ourselves in repeated situations, it is a hard but necessary thing to ask, “what is the common denominator here???”. A fact of life is that the person in the mirror IS the common denominator. We are where we CHOSE to be almost always, consciously or subconsciously.

Again, I mean me also.

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Happy Birthday ! I’d tell my younger self that God loves me. I didn’t have an understaning of that until way late.

Enjoy your Birthday

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I would just like to say that blogging with you guys truly keeps me from going bonkers at work. Between this blog and my podcast..lives are being saved.

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abc

great post!, I don’t feel so bad now. My daughter will be 22 when I turn 45, and at this point i’m really weary about having another child for the reason you mentioned:

“it’s like getting your life back. You have the means and health to enjoy it. A lot”

I am always aware of the fact that if i do get married, that because I already have a child (and possibly he will also) that alone time some couples have right after marriage won’t be an option for us, we would have to get it on the “backside” when the kids are grown and gone.

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~Listen to the music your heart is singing and the hear the dance of your soul~

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Lady J

yes they are growing fast. My daughter is my only child but she has siblings on her father’s side. So it’s not like she is a true only child. Funny thing is at first she wanted a younger sibling, now she is getting older and realizing that would cut into some of the stuff she wants and gets to do etc…. Wise Child

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1. Understand what you really want.
2. Understand what are deal breakers for you.
3. Understand where you can compromise.
3. Understand where you cannot compromise.
4. Understand your weaknesses.
5. Understand your strengths.

I have learned that these 5 concepts capture almost everything that matters.

(And, men ARE like golden retrievers — feed ‘em, pat ‘em, throw a bone every so often, speak gently… that’s all that’s really needed.) Love you men!

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cool list lucinda!!!!!!

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Lady J

same with lil mama, her dad’s side of the family is HUUUUUUUGE!!

his grandmother has about 15 kids, and each of them have at least 3 kids, and then the great grands child a family cook out is sooooo big its unreal.

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family is priceless!!!!

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i am watching black men revealed on tv one interesting show……..

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@ Lucinda…great post!!

And….HAPPT B-DAY WISE DIVA!!!! Enjoy your day!!

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What I have learned:

1. There will be haters throughout your life (esp. if you’re happy)
2. Find the silver lining in all things (sometimes, breakups need to happen)
3. You are not a product of your environment, rather a product of your expectations! Keep your expectations high and you’ll yield better results.
4. Love yourself!
5. Even when down, love yourself!

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yes indeed!

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JtJ – I missed Donnell Jones and Faith. Boo face got delayed with work.

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I learned that sometimes it takes a while to get to the right person,place or thing..and to not lose faith in my meantime.

Happy Bithday Wise Diva!

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speaking of which the guy is 4 years younger and after having a few conersations I was no longer interested……maybe one day I will date younger but not any time soon……just chilling out……lol

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@ Slim…I like family reunions,too…but it takes a lot to get our family together..almost too much.

Monique was 2-3 rows ahead of us…she looked so short. Sista got down during that MJ tribute, though. Security had to put a halt to all the people bombarding her for pics & autographs, though. The occassional breeze felt good and made it all good!! —They reall need to space the seats, though! I got tired of bumping the guy next me, we were shoulder to shoulder..uugghh!!

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meant lawn ok i need some breakfast! lol

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@ Lady J…We said next time, we are definately getting lawn seats or the table seating.

They upgraded one lady and bet you she returned to her seat on the lawn after seeing how tight the seats were up front.

@Mqew…My relationship with Christ was definitely strengthened and developed during my 20’s. Although, I saw some crazy stuff going on the church, which kind of made me pull away from the church for a little while, I am gald I experienced it, so I would gain the spirit of discernment!

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JtJ – I was raised in the church… I was the kid that was ALWAYS there, and couldn’t attend school activities because of it; so I resented that. In turn, I spent my 20’s successfully avoiding my ‘call’…

It’s great you were able to embrace it that early…

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I’ve learned that love has a mind of it’s own ~ not that we don’t chose who we love, but we have no control over if they chose to love us back. The man that I love has finally opened his heart to me and I’m scared…go figure.

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Sidebar @RandyT ~ I noticed your moniker last week and the innuendo I pick up is men are men and sheep are scared because these men are into beastiality. I know I’m warped, but was wondering what does your moniker actually mean?

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Dirty Diana Chris was all that!!!!!!!! Hola to you too chica!

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@Hope you are on point with this one. That is why I believe that timing has everything to do with love. I remember being a teenager and seeing this lady cry her eyes out while I was working at the airport. She had a few people around her, and she kept saying “falling in love was the worst thing I could have done, and everyone told her not too.” Apparently she was in the military or something and she would be thousands of miles away from her beloved. If timing would have been on their side who knows….

I’ve learned that love has a mind of it’s own ~ not that we don’t chose who we love, but we have no control over if they chose to love us back.

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What do you think of their chances against Uruguay?

@Swiss??

they are playing some good carpet football(Ghana) but they dont have a potent strike force to pounce on half chances and make them count,esp in bigger stages like the world cup,where defences are tighter.So im not overly optimistic.

Im sad for the USA in some respects.Their patriotism is to be emulated as is their enthusiastic support base,all over america,africa included.That should help popularise the sport here.

But in a way im happy America are out. Their televsion commentaries are so ignorant and overly biased due their basketball and football experiences which make them whine everytime a referee makes a bad call.

Soccer fans the world over know that bad calls are part of the human experience otherwise reducing a soccer match to a baskeball/american football type, slow,stop and go type of scenario would make soccer such a caricature sport.

I was really tired of their whining..the tv sports castors (USA)..glad that their team is coming home.

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Place and keep God first and foremost….always! No matter the situation, circumstances, no matter the people or persons you’ve loved or love. He ALWAYS provides the right answers or guidance for navigating.

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@Hope

Be cautious, be brave, but most of all be true to yourself.

If he’s offered you himself (or a part of himself), the choice is yours whether or not to accept it. Do so fully informed though, know this man and know thyself.

Good luck!

(Oh, good morning folks! And congrats to CSC on her accomplishments!!)

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@RandyT ~ thanks. I thought so. Okay, more sheep than pretty women…got it!

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it’s me …..lurker true indeed 10:50!

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I was part of the BET awards last nite.

I think Chris Brown was faking his way back to recognition and stardom with that rehearsed cry. No wonder John Legend,if u guys were watching,almost laughed and resisted coz he was on camera.

But my best perfomance was by Pickpocket aka Diddy and his group!

It was Amazing! That man never goes outa business..He is like The Donald.

Love his entrepenuership!

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Really, Melo? You’re okay with calls that bad (and that frequent) being just part of the game? It’s the same old stodgy attitude that MLB has. How hard is it to just look up on the big screen and get it right?

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@GHANA ~ they’re tearing Chris apart on the Radio and TV talk blog with Rodney Ho. Apparently, quite a few think his tears were fake and his way of catapulting his career back on track.

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I am so tired of Alicia Keys that it is not even funny. That entire Swizz beats thingy got me.

I enjoyed seeing Jeezy on stage…”12:45 ’bout that time.” I love that song.

@Ghana I am amazed at out folks want the money and stardom so bad that they will still sign with pickpockets diddy.

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Whoever it was earlier today that commented on being raised in the church, I agree. Yes we know church kids sometimes turns out to be the worst and yes, we can all agree that as a kid or young adolescent you just didn’t get why folks was keeping you from having fun like the other kids but coming into your own and womanhood, the lightbulb comes on and you can’t help but look around appreciate the balance and guidelines instilled. When you have your kids do you come to fully understand that same firm hand that guided you through is the same exact hand they’ll need as with anything, love life and living happens to us all.

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It’s me – I do agree with your 10:46!

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Dirty Diana~1x for Chris Brown & Lady-learning is forever!

Good morning!!

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MQEW – You know we NEVER “get” the grown folks when they’re holding you back but you can certainly come to appreciate it later in life.

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@Swiss??

all the rules in soccer are in black and white but in a 90 minutes game,everything is up to the referee’s(and 2 assistants) interpretation of them…..

the foul tackles,offsides,penalty kicks,added time,..u name it.Thts up to the ref.

there are bad calls when teams score or when a foul is awarded..which can also result in a free kick being awarded and a goal being scored.

So where does it end if we were to ask for tv replays for every conceivable foul that can be committed in soccer??…

why not just have a machine do the refereeing then??

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I’ve learned the older a woman gets without getting married the less likely she ever will. A woman of 30-40 has met dozens of great men her lifetime, and she turned them all away because they weren’t perfect. Now they are all married and the only thing left is the scarps.

My girlfriend’s sister just turned 26. She barely even dates. Why? Because no guy is good enough for her. She just bought her first cat and is preparing for a long lonely life. Meanwhile her younger sister is going to be getting married soon. Why? Because her sister realized that why I am no means perfect, I am a pretty good guy. I am no Prince Charming. But I treat her right, I am loyal, I have ambition and a good job, and we share some common interests.

This blog and the comments has been a great look into why so many women die alone, despite dreaming of their wedding day since they were 7.

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“…but their skill with the ball at their feet is not what it needs to be at that level of play.”

You can say that again. Comparing the U.S. guys with Germany on those breakaway goals yesterday, for example, and it’s night & day. Like they’re playing 2 different games…

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@ i’m swiss

I’ve reffed soccer, and coached it. No question that the (non)goal in the England/Germany game was one of the worst ever. The problem with soccer is that the game moves so much faster than anything we Americans are really used to. I am not sure of the answer truthfully. I think a replay system with VERY limited access (like the (non)goal) could be challengeable, but not much more. Where I have a problem is more with the US game where the ref NEVER had control of the game and it looked like the WWF in the penalty box. I did not question his missed call as much as I questionsed his letting the game get out of control. Bad calls are part of the game.

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Folks need to leave Chris Brown alone, lil dude got caught up – it happens; especially in light of his life of late. Plus, for any performers, when that feeling hits you, there’s nothing you can do, it takes you.

As for Jay and Beyonce “boycotting”, um, that threat was used last year and BET capitulated; figured it wouldn’t work 2 years running.

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PrincessNik, I was waiting for one of them to pass out from inhaling all that smog…LOL…looked like it sort of got out of hand. I truly love that song tho, had me dancing in front of the tv last night.

I thought Alicia looked good last night…glowing i suppose.

Regarding Chris Browns breakdown…I wonder if the tears were really for MJ or if it was because he felt overwhelmed to finally be back out again since all that Rihanna drama.(trying to gain a bit of sympathy) He’s really been struggling to gain folks approval for a second chance for a while now. Either way, his MJ moves were on point.

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A woman of 30-40 has met dozens of great men her lifetime, and she turned them all away because they weren’t perfect. Now they are all married and the only thing left is the scarps.

LOL. A more realistic scenario is the girl that let a guy string her along for years. Or dated a guy with commitment issues in the first place. I guess those are the “scarps” guys.

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thought Trey Songz mama was his escort for the night
@DirtyD

me too..i wasnt feling her dress tho so much that i thoght that was her hoochie at first.

@Randyt? u on point. Soccer players are taught to play to the whistle.

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preach leggs I see right through him surface @ best…..

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being forever remembered as the douche who blew the perfect game

@Swiss??

maradona scored against england with his hand in 1984(the famous hand of God) went on to demolish germany and win the world cup and is regarded as one of the best,if not the best ever.

There is no perfection in lyfe!

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NM is a mess sorry I dig lil wayne but that chic is beyond over the top it is ONE lil kim and that is all with that! lol

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Amazon, getting played by players is common for women who are goign to die alone. Players lie and make themselves out to be this “Prince Charming” the Die Aloners are looking for. It’s easy to spot a good man and spot one that is only interested in the booty. But delusional women who are looking for that perfect guy just can’t see past their own unrealistic dreams. So they get played a few times and die alone.

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I sure wish Prince performed last night..but Stevie’s intro for him was funny and so on point. He is the last of the music makers..real music..real bands..I hope his little speech about the future being in good hands was not some kind of weak goodbye..cause I just know he has a catalog of unpublished stuff so he can come on out with a new album anytime now. Welcome back El Debarge!!

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“There is no perfection in lyfe!”

That is very true, Melo. But that’s no excuse not to try to get it right as much as possible. That’s the frustrating part for me — the fact that it would be so easy to correct. I agree that you can never get every call right, but you could sure as hell get a lot more right simply by taking 2 second to look at a replay. (We’re clearly never going to agree on this….)

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The living room did look funky with all the strob lights (LOL).

@ Leggs, it reminded me of my days in the predominately “swiss” clubs with the techno music blasting

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when Diddy asked us to turn off our lights, lil leggs jumped up and started screaming.

I had to cut my eyes at Diddy. Dirty Diana does not get up for stuff like that, shoot I need a small child to handle that request

@melo I wonder how old she was when she had Trey to wear a dress like that and enjoy the show and stuff.

I enjoyed watchin T.I. he looked good running across that stage. Plenty of engery that is a man for ya!

@PK what was Lil’ Kim’s comments? I don’t keep up so I missed that…

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@ Ghana/i’m swiss

I wondered how many Amereicans knew had that we were screwed when that US player lost the ball in midfield. The goal was just an offshoot of that bad midfield play. It was so obvious that Ghana had numbers immediately and we were doomed.

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*thing

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Diana

Basically lil Kim blasted her during a radio interview for not paying homage and being respectful to the female rappers who came before her

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DreamsM,

Same here I missed out on some wonderful chances that would have made some great memories. The funny thing is I don’t remember what I made on those test, quizzes or finals. A little more play would have made me more diverse in some areas. Just a little extra here and there. I guess I need to remember that now.

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Dreams M & Diana

I had the same issue. I should have played a little harder also.

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I wondered how many Amereicans knew had that we were screwed when that US player lost the ball in midfield.

@Randyt??

they know now..thats the learning process. The midfield is considered the engine of the plays..the transmission so to speak.
Thats why the USA coach had to pull out the Clark guy..he wasnt good at retaining and distributing the ball.

@DirtyD
I wonder how old she was when she had Trey to wear a dress like that and enjoy the show and stuff.

Proly very young. She looks young proly under 40 or just a lil over.
She has a hardknock look on her face tho..its good Trey can give his mum a break from working and stuff..(assuming ofcourse that she has been retired)

@Ared??
was so happy to see El Debarge.

has he been on drugs or smething..his aging dont seem right..like he has been living in some trailer park?

been broke or what??

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guess Lil Kim doesn’t get the respect like that because biggie wrote her lyrics

Speaking of them,

I had the opportunity to watch Notorious, the movie the other day. It was a lot better than I would have thought it addressed quite a bit of stuff…….

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Trey is 25 so his mom is probably early to mid 40’s

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PK that is a good movie! I love that era of music and rap!!!!!! love it!

someone explain that dougie fresh stuff i was lost #dontjudgeme lmbao!

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yep pk his mom was alright she looked her age early 40s…..

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i just dig lil wayne period I am anal! lol

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melo lmbao @ you they said cocaine or crack he was on too funny with your assessment! but he rocked it last night like old times! i believe in second chances for all! lol

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ared too damn funny!

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Lady J, i was feelin wayne more back in the days when Cash Money was Huge, you know the “hot boyz” phase.

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Doug E. Fresh is about 44

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@PK that movie was cool, but I am a ‘pac fan and they had him looking like a little rat in that movie. Not to mention they had lil kim looking easy.

I don’t think like Trey songz mixing in that purple rain

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Confession: I AM A NEW PROCLAMED USHER FAN!!!!!!!!! My lawd whomever the lucky person be I tell ya “There Goes my Baby” will set the tone to a great night until then youtube ROCKS! HA!

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see dd biggie was first with me then pac! lol

hmmmmm don’t throw tomatoes but I barely do TI! dont judge me! lol

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2DqwOXDEFQ

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cool pk you my chca honey!

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now that old pal of the departed Gary Coleman really seemed like he came outta prison in time for the BET awards..rocking his cheap,wrinkled brown suit!

(kinda hard to laugh)

whats up with prison time and drug abuse with all these seemingly famous black folks??

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melo that aint funny lmbao though! lol

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melo it maybe hard dealing with the fame, the failures, they get older, people and family use them, drugs are available and so on…..their life of fame is sometimes destructive

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MJ
Biggie
Mary J
Temptations
Chuck Berry
James Brown

Chica!

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Riddle me this, who is officially responsible for Jermaine Jackson’s hair? I really want to know who is slicking his hair down with brown gel and a toothbrush, placing the wraping paper around it, and sitting him under the dryer on high heat. Afterwards he gets some sheen, holding spay and a little of the black color out the spray can.

Who is the stylist on record

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professor LMBAO @ you and @rickeysmiley!!!!!!!!! LMBAO!

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Dan,

Not saying i wanted to blow off stuff, i just would have had a little more fun. I think overall I had a pretty decent mixture, but i passed up some trips to Myrtle Beach etc….I’m proud of the fact that I finished “on time” and had the 2nd highest GPA in my major (my study buddy beat me out by .11 )

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@ Professor

Prince
Biggie
Mary J
Temptations
Lil Richard
James Brown

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PK I transfered and finished on time with a Cum Laude honor and played my behind off too and traveled to away games honey! I did that and don’t regret not a sec often stuck in that era chasing that high of freedom!

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Pardon me…. it was Dooley’s Junkyard Dawgs, not Big Bad Leroy Brown…

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@DirtyDiana??

even Jermaine’s face looks caked up with that make up. If he didnt have a skin disease growing up,then ogh my God…

his face is jerked up

his hair is jerked up

did he ever do druga at all..never?? I wldnt buy that.

That one is Joe Jackson’s kid for sure..the others??

Its 50/50

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drugs

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Would y’all wear a Jermaine Jackson

@ Professor ~~~~~ hayo to da naw! all that “product” would fry your brain in this GA heat! not to mention its just not cute.

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professor stop lmbao!!!!!

PK it was NOTHING for me to go home to and I never went back literally to visit on holidays but for a weekend of leisure I visit with my out of town folks that is how I know about the 559 gal! I was in the A!

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LMBAO @ melo!

PK I wished I would have played in DC more but in 2011 with the two conventions coming up I will be up and down the east coast! ha! playing as an adult will make it even better! lol

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did anybody go to the Ken Ford benefit concert on friday?

we did..it was nice.

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@PK

I’m saying neither did I (blow off stuff), I just took for granted that I could party all weekend, not have to study, and take the tests with the memory of class and what I read.

I think had I taken the time then to develop study habits I would’ve faired better when having to use the habits vs. relying on my memory.

@Diana

Um, adult men don’t emulate other men. To do so is not an homage, but an admission of some “tendencies”. You see kids biting styles, but once you’re grown you find out what works for you and stick with it. **Note: this generalization is formed froma a number of conversations about beer, food, and clothing preferences from my contemporaries.**

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Oh, and Mrs. Swiss is doing well — getting back to her old self. Thanks for asking, Dirty D.

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PK you know I am NOT a metro chick! Columbia and Charlotte is BORING to me! lol

SWISS GO GA TECH BABY! ha!

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meant are boring to me! geesh!

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Dirty D — That’s a very generous offer, but I’m gonna have to pass.

Lady J — 30-24. 8 out of 9. We. Run. This. State.

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#random Why is it so hard for MV#7 to cut these people loose? Dog fighting with him. Using him. States evidence against him. Now one of them gets shot at his bday party and violates his conditions for probation. Dude is a dumb-ass.

back to music and college era! lol

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Um….

Who say something ’bout Geechie? You wanbeef, come gitsome!!

Dontbetalkinboutmepeople

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Dan see my 12:21!

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@Purple you know me…this is professor.

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Lady J

I’m from a quite lil place, but ummmm i hated going to Orangeburg, had a homegirl who lived in rowesville right outside of o-burg and we did all we could to get back to the Metro! My BF was a Dorm Director at clafflin briefly and I hated visiting him there LOL in 6 years i probably went to orangeburg about 8 times.

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Lady J, Vick was not there when it happened and it was a guy who turned state against him. So Vick is entitled to have a birthday party and he can’t control who shows up after he is gone from the venue. I really doubt that he invited someone who was a former friend but testified against him.

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@DirtyD??

I cut my hair off completely..no additives and no styling/cuts etc etc….or i just let it grow…

I dont put sheen or anything else on my hair and if at all..old reliable vaseline!

@Dan??

To do so is not an homage, but an admission of some “tendencies”

I see pics of hair styles at the barber with young guys and adult guy models on there. Who are they marketing to if not to adult folks as well??

I dont do styling tho,so i dont really care but………………….??

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Never mind

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girlie I am the coordinator for our 2010 homecoming tailgate and parade logestics for our alumni chapter and it is something to look forward to! SC State Bulldogs LOVES ORANGEBURG! the 101 degree summers too! it is HAWT there! lol

Homecoming will ROCK and next year I celebrate my 10year anniversary! Can’t wait!

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Topic change please

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PR associations are a killer to those skeptics don’t ya think???? when it is OVER it should be OVER in a sense….know better do better my take…..

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???

what would you like to talk about?

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puff, puff, cough, cough — Reuben Houston — puff, puff, cough, cough, bam!

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anything other than random convo

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Lady J, so you are saying that he should not have a Birthday Party? Even though he was hosting his football camp earlier that day and had other players in town to celebrate with him?

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???

u know the blog is a free for all after 11am, so feel free to introduce a non-random topic

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Any recent blog hookups? Scandal?

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JtJ you better not put that hairstyle on his wife. LOL. Can you visualize waking up at night and seeing that hair with a scarf tied around the edges?

Monica was wrong for that big ol’ jacket.

Ghana-my point exactly on the models in the barbershop. Somebody is asking for the fade and the curve part.

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???, that seems kind of random. Let’s talk about people who thrive on scandal and other people’s business. LOL

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Lady J, trouble can find you anywhere IMO. If he had the party at his home that fool probably would have found a way to come.

Leggs, I am saying by kid #6 at least any woman should know not to have unprotected sex with him because he is good at making babies. LOL

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monica can sang though! the sistah can blow!

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13 kids is a bit much. LOL It is not the 70’s or 60’s

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MELO I AGREE!

PR true, true, sadly true! a low profile is key in certain circumstances! can’t feed the media jack!

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Dirty Diana,

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Im sure some hospitals in atlanta have burn units where pple lost their hair in a fire.
That Janelle Monet girl needs to shave off her hair cap and donate some hair..

Im surprised uall aint talking about that hair piece.

Girl needs to lead with her sanging,not that hair forehead!

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Lady J, Monica can go. That little bitty body and such a huge voice. I saw a special where her mom mentioned she would sing the songs in the car on the way home from her mom’s choir practice. Monica was like a baby girl in the backseat of the car hitting all the notes the grown ups missed.

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Ghana, people used to laugh at Prince for how he wore his hair. LOL

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PR someone mentioned last night the way we look @ Kayne is how yall viewed prince then

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Sassy, is the Blog Bouncer

I want to know, how come it seems that many men started wearing a bald head after Jordan made it popular. Before then even if they were balding they tried to make it look good. And my other question is what is with butt implants? I saw this ladies butt at Church yesterday and it did not look correct, it was pointy.

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Leggs Prince is SOOOOOOOOOOOO Pretty-That is all!

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Lady J, I think Kanye is smart and talented and growing before our very eyes. Media has a way of letting the world into someones personal life now. Unlike when we grew up when we only saw people on Dance Shows and heard them on the radio. Entertainers had way more privacy then, IMO

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no have not inqured and it is ugly period……..lol! Professor!

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cool PR!

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I didn’t realize this was an awards show recap blog….

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@ARed ~ yes indeed, and some of that stress lead to some dumb decisions on his part, seeking refuge in drugs and doing a stint in jail. Oh well, hopefully his road is a little less bumpy because his performance was like he was never abssent from the stage.

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Purple Rain..those pants were his way of saying kiss the right rub the left. I know last night he was saying he was pretty wild in his day..(lawd why did he have to sound like Daddy Prince)..but I love him because he was different. He always seemed true to his music and that is why he is and always will be his Purple Badness..I was crying when Patti started singing because..I remember an interview she did on Arsenio Hall..and said how she and Prince were close..no better person to close out the tribute than Mama Patti!!

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hmmmmmm ready to embrace NOLA for the Holiday weekend! YEAH!!!!!

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I remember an interview she did on Arsenio Hall

now that’s a throwback!

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Either way Lady it’s just wrong…all kinds of wrong. Sometimes I wonder if he looks in the mirror and says “Man,I look good”….and says it with confidence.

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I do not know of any man that can wear butt out pants and not be called gay except for Prince. LOL

I agree and that’s always troubled me. The man is 5′3…wears heels and weird clothes and always had a dime piece on his arm…. I don’t get it.

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his performance was like he was never abssent from the stage.

Leggs – I loved seeing him so much I was willing to forgive BET for all their transgressions!

Until I saw some of that ghetto drunken after party show…

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@??????

here is some scandal for u then:

I looked at it,it promised to be juicy..was looking all shiny on the outside…i gave it a good look..then decided,let me cut it open…

It was red inside, juicy..i was salivating..i gave it a lil lick..oghhhhh,agghhhhhh, i sighed…in this heat,i needed some..a lil some to cool me off

i took a lil bite..ogghh,it tasted so good..i decided, i was gon reserve some for after dinner…..my mouth was just so full of saliva at that point…

so i took one big bit to cool off thangs………

aghhhhhhhh,so sweeeet!

That Water Melon!

Lernch!

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ared same here I happily turned my tv off! I guess diddy really can throw an after party like no other! lol

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AmazonRed, I don’t understand, but I agree. LOL

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Kym, no Patti has all of my respect.

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@AmazonR..I told my friends I gave BET 3 hours parole because of Prince. Now back to my regularly schedule of igging them.

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Kym I will watch again when The Game comes back on! Can’t wait! but I don’t do BET trust! TV One I can do!

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Well gang! I will be back in a while. I am going to find some lernch. That &^%#$#_@ melo made me want some watermelon, or at least a watermelon fizz.

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@AmazonR..I told my friends I gave BET 3 hours parole because of Prince. Now back to my regularly schedule of igging them.

Kym – Right. I was actually cool with reading the awards commentary on FB and watching True Blood instead. After it was over, the channel flipped and El was there! I mean, someone at BET had to pull him from a halfway house somewhere and get him sober like Pookie in New Jack City.

I might actually go back and watch the repeat of the show, seems I missed some prime veiwing. I heard Queen Latifah finally outted herself.

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yes ma’am!

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@JP ~ apparently you haven’t been here long. This blog is a recap of anything going on in the world, be it award shows, reality shows, cooking shows, political debates, book reviews, whose cd is dropping, you name it, it’s discussed here.

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I heard Queen Latifah finally outted herself.

Yeah she slid it in under the door real quick….if you weren’t paying attention you would’ve missed it….even then the people that caught it was like “umm okaaay soo tell us something we don’t already know”…

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even then the people that caught it was like “umm okaaay soo tell us something we don’t already know”…

Right.

They replayed it on V103 this morning…so if she wanted to be sly with it…she’s been outted again.

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@Sassy okay I must have missed it. Was it when she was dressed like Cleo from Set it off? I thought it was an act? I swear when I watch BET I try not to concentrate to hard..for fear of being sucked into the Matrix.

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I heard it this morning on V103,too AmRed…I guess she just wanted to do it on her own time whenever whe felt like it….cause she sure as heyal didn’t surprise anybody. Now that I think of it I’ve(we all probably have) always known Elen,Clay Aiken and Ricky Martin were as gay as the day is long since I saw them and so did their peers but nonetheless they still chose to “come out” anyway via various outlets.

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should’ve been *she*….

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???/JP

what do u guys want to talk about,thats topical??

not some 15 months old ish!

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???

Who are you and why are you on here acting like we work for you.

Either get on board with what’s going on or get off.

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LadyJ The whole rap game is pretty much “surface @ best” right now. I think Drake has skills, and I like that he’s not afraid to be smart. I’ve heard some rappers in interviews and been amazed at their ability to articulate because their music and lyrics are so dumbed down. Plies is one of those people. Why can’t they just be openly smart? Jeezy is one of those people too, although I think he’s embracing it more of late. He’ll also sneak in some gems on the sly to let you know he’s smarter than the average rapper. “I got a black Bentley, I call it Phantom of the Opera” let me know he knew a little something.

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@GHANA ~ knew it was watermelon before getting to the end. It sounded just like watermelon and nothing else (LOL).

Thanks, I will delete the after party as soon as I get home and not even watch it. Wasn’t sure what it was going to be like so I taped it. Should have known.

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Leggs – Only watch the afterparty if you like watching trainwrecks. Like seriously, some of those fools had to be drunk. And I can’t believe Academy Awards nominess like Taraji P Henson were acting so…common….:lol:

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AmazonRed, wasn’t she nominated for a movie about a pimp? LOL

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Who are you and why are you on here acting like we work for you.

Either get on board with what’s going on or get off.

@ARed that is a good one!

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Either get on board with what’s going on or get off

Okay-kay-kay?! You tell ‘em AmRed…it’s a blog geesh.

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Wimbledon update: Roddick’s about to go down…

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@DreamsM,

Phantom of the Opera has been around and is common knowledge. These rappers need to tell me more than that.

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@Dreams

Kayne is the one that took the hits for the young cats to be smart and successful.

Yeah, you have Mos, Talib, even the God himself, but few (since Ra) would dare to go out like that.

And you’re right about Jeezy more than you know….

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Oh, I thought she may have been nominated for Hustle and Flow. I thought that movie won some kind of award. LOL

PR – It did. The Six Mafia won the Oscar for the song “It’s hard out here for a p.imp” from that movie.

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Ared I saw that mess. The funny thing is I answered Carlito, but if I would have seen the other one I would have left Carlito in the dark

Nothing against you ‘lito

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FYI – The blog monster likes to eat the word “p.imp”

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Roddick’s about to go down…

Noooooooooo

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Well, well…. Roddick stays alive for the moment… 5th set!

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I love Plies

I’m surprised by this, Prof.

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“Or the couple with the mutant child”

Um, yeah…. That scene was a little close to home… I grew up in Small Town, GA, after all…

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@ Prof and Sassy

For the record, I learned all of those the HARD WAY.

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please do not loan your horse to anyone else

And get it said, Leggs. It’s clear some of em just want attention tho. I threw em a scoobie snack today.

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Well, well…. Roddick stays alive for the moment

@Swiss??

u watch tennis??

arent u glad Roddick dont take coc. or any other banned narcotic……otherwise his whole face and eyes wld look really scary if he did they got dilated more than they do now when playing tennis!

check his eyes!

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After listening to T.I on countless interviews, I became intrigued. Like some of his music. He speaks very well. Now Tiny, well the jury has fallen into a coma!!!

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Here’s my thing on Plies;

Either he’s mocking the genre in a very profitable satire enterprise or,

He sincerely disdains most of his “fans”. Either way, he’s on “the list”.

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thanks dreams for your assessment and I concur!

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@ I’m swss

Although in the interest of personal safety and sanity, it is not a good idea to tell them that.

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I learned all of those the HARD WAY.

Maybe the road could’ve been a little smoother but either way you still learned…some men NEVER get it. I applaud you!!

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Now Tiny, well the jury has fallen into a coma!!!

u goin to hurt some pple here on the blog with that !

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@ Sassy,

I am afraid that by the time most men figure it/women out, they die (spoken while checking pulse to make sure I am still here

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duall buy this music or u get it smewhere for free??

Plies etc?

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Afternoon People!

I missed the awards show, but will be able to easily catch it because they will replay it about 12 times a week for the entire summer!!

Love me some PRINCE! I like the early, more contraversial Prince songs too!

Late on topic – I take this blog as a fun form of entertainment and I get some valuable tips on things that are not relationship-oriented. Good recipes, concert news, housekeeping tips, shopping and sale tips, etc. I have made a few nice friends friends on the side. As for relationship stuff – it has just confirmed a lot of stuff about men that I already knew or suspected. I had made most of my mistakes with men before I started coming here – the main one being wasting my time in dead-end stuff, trying to make unworkable stuff work. It’s nice to have a place to hear about other’s ideas on things. All in all, it’s fun!

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Swiss, you have ashy feet? LOL

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@ Dan the reason goes back to a simple question…what does reason or logic have to do with a woman anyway? Not saying it is right or fair, not saying that it makes sense, just saying it is one of those things that is what it is….and fighting is like trying to teach a pig to sing, it frustrates you and irritates the pig.

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advice I can pick up from older people with more experience is a plus.

@JP

BUT u need to contribute so as to perpetuate the discussion. Ask qstions etc…

A silent baby never gets fed! (Zulu saying)

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Swiss what did you think of the Isner/Mahut match?

Even though I wanted him to win his next match I kinda knew he wouldn’t…I mean how do you come back strong after a three day/fifth set match?

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Seriously Dan,

I first heard about men screwing up by trying to fix things, by hearing a talk about Dr. Laura Schlesinger (mean biotch sometimes) and her book, “The Top Ten Things Men Do to Screw Up Their lives”. This one was Number 1.

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JP – It can be frustrating on here when there is a good topic going, the posts are flowing nice & then it stops, especially when it changes to something you are not interested in!LOL!! But if you’ve been reading this blog for awhile, you should understand this already!

Plus, I hope you have other more consistent and reliable sources for relationship advice.

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JP so why are you just reading and not actually responding..this is not an advise colunm like Dear Abby, this is interactive. But since you are seeking advice..here’s a tip..try not standing on the sidelines pouting because things are not going your way. Because based on your response to Leggs..it sounds to me like you are just that type of dater..you want to watch from the wings and if the show is not going according to your plan rather than play an active role..you pout and throw darts..like ARed said jump in and contribute or pack up your blues and move on.

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Ladies, when I say something rude like me not listening to woman I expect you all to rag on me, it is no fun when you all steal my power by not responding. LOL

You got that enough when you first got on here. You passed your initiation.

Besides, you’re Julia’s problem now anyway.

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JP, my advice to you is not to piss off these women.

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Randyt (is it Friday yet?)??

how did Dr. Laura figure out men anyway, so much as to write books abouit it,when shes so ugly??

unless its becoz men used her as a phckking bag??

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Did Dan just call JP on the sly?? LOL!!

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Sasssy I am going to have to check your DNA, because I think you are right.

@Randyt you are correct, sometimes we just want you all to listen and not go in fix it mode. We want to talk and we want you all to listen. It is as simple as that nothing more…nothing less.

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call JP a punk on the sly!! Sorry still laughing.

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JP, my advice to you is not to piss off these women.

If he’s been reading for a while, he knows which ones to avoid like AmazonRed

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Phantom of the Opera has been around and is common knowledge. These rappers need to tell me more than that.
Prof I feel you, but I also realize these cats aren’t scholars. I just want them to not feel like they lose credibility for showing that they actually have some smarts. I’m not expecting them to be Carter G. Woodson on a track, although it would be a refreshing change. lol

Dan I’m not sure what Plies’ angle is. It just irks when you hear all these cats talking about keeping it real, but they’re dumbing down their lyrics for acceptance. That would be the opposite of keeping it, imo.

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@Dan at some point a woman would like to know that the man she is with will listen to her problems..just listen! Just like men like to blow off steaming..so do women..and frankly while making the beast with two backs gets some men on a more even keel..sex is not always the answer for women.

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ARed thanks for that update! lol

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I totally understand, Dan. In a perfect world…
Believe me, I understand.

@ Melo aka Ghana, she learned by watching men screw up their lives. Women are peculiar, but I doubt anyone else has noticed that

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wow hmmmmmmmmm okay….

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If sex is not the answer to everything then you are doing it wrong.

Baby you had a rough day at work and you and your sisters are arguing? Why don’t you lay down on your stomach for a little while, with this pillow under your hips.

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I’m not trying to use this blog as my Bible for dating….Just check it frequently to get another point of view. After college I didn’t put any focus on dating, and just enjoyed being single in a new city and doing things that made me happy. I started dating a girl a few months back and have struggled with losing the freedom I had in my early 20’s. I have never settled and finally found a great girl, but having a tough time getting my priorities in line. I just don’t want to risk losing something great because I’m too selfish to make changes in my personal life. Need to start focusing more on “we” than “me”….

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PR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! babies are made that way lol! so don’t be surprised! lov ya! lol

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AmazonRed, it is such a pretty shiny halo, but whys is your whole head starting to smoke? LOL

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pk I concur! lol

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Lady J, so a woman should not have many problems unless she wants babies. LOL

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lucinda! i screamed! he likes his girl honey! lol

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@JP,

Seems like you assessed your own problem, what the issue?

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@Lady that’s a whole other issue now!! call 911, quickly

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lmbao

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I am going to have to check your DNA, because I think you are right.

Professor we need to go on the Maury show…lol

BlackMagicWoman is just “on” all of the time.

Funny you should mention that.

Professor, Sassy are a handful when you all decide to let go on someone.

As long as you stay in your lane…we cool like the other side of the pillow…

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If I want my man to help find a solution, I will lead off with something like, “I wonder what you think about _______”, thus soliciting advice and suggestions. Otherwise, I’m just venting.

Simple system. It works.

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I need some advice.

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Lucinda…what you got. Your posts are usually on point so I’m sure whatever’s going on you already have it figured out.

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Lucinda, why don’t you lay down and put this pillow under your hips. LOL, just joking

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@Kimmie, Lucinda, et al.

Is all I’m saying. If I can’t help(ie you don’ want me to), I can’t really actively listen. So why do that to yourself or me?

And yeah Kimmie and PR, I know the difference, but when I vent, it’s just that and when I need help, it’s that. I don’t mix the two.

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And I’m not arrogant…just really self assured after years being proven correct.

And that’s not arrogant.?..for real Dan pull your pocket ditionary out and look it up…then again maybe that’s the reason your relationshp is as awesomeas as it is…good for you puddin’…good for you.

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PR never mind, didn’t know there was a mrs. LOL!

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Lucinda, no charge for therapy It is how I give back to society. LOL

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Lucinda, she respects my work…just don’t tell her. LOL

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Off-Topic but not really..apparently I perfectly capable of having long term relationships..not one..but two men who I can’t seem to shake have made guest appearances in my life in the past two weeks. Riddle me this men folks..why do you keep coming back? And don’t say cause we let you..cause I am being as horrible as I possible can short of kicking them in the family jewels and still…

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pr you are funny you crossed my mind in my class last thursday! therapy rocks! the act of counseling is not giving advice it is listening and helping the peron apply their own way to cope with their current emotional state!

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Happy Monday everybody!!

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@Professor

arrogant: “making claims or pretensions to superior importance or rights; overbearingly assuming; insolently proud”

I make no contention that I know anything about anything but Dan. I routinely post about and condition my comments with “things I have personally heard” or “I feel”, etc.

I can’t speak to but about 3 or 4 fields of study, careers, etc. becuase I’ve done them.

And yes, I’m quite arrogant about me, knowing me, and loving me. And thank you, my relationship is going along swimmingly.

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Kym, just ignore them completely. If a man gets any reaction it is still a reaction.

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Roddick’s out.

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If I can’t help(ie you don’ want me to), I can’t really actively listen.

I just don’t really get this, but do you, Dan.

Example – My SO got a call that a pipe burst while he was at work today. The water company had to shut off the water. He had to leave work and get a plumber over there. I’m not a plumber and don’t know of any good ones. He already has a plumber he has used before and does good work.

There is nothing I can do to fix this problem for my SO. So should I not be able to actively listen since I can’t do anything about it?

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Riddle me this men folks..why do you keep coming back?

@Kym??

its positives all around you and in my estimation..means good potato salad on ur part!

U that good!

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Potato. Salad.

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Riddle me this men folks..why do you keep coming back? And don’t say cause we let you..

Kym I’m wondering the same thing myself. Within the last month I’ve had two exes(one from high school and the other from college) guest appear and I’m like I don’t dislike them but I don’t want a relationship with either one. I don’t backtrack…never have. Once we’re done…we done.

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Kym, you the type of girl that they want to eat all of your bubble gum. LOL

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The type of girl you wanna chew all of her bubble gum (yep)the type of gurl you wanna chew all of her bubble gum. I’m the type of girl ya wanna take to ya mama house, t-t-t-take to ya mama house.

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Roddick’s out.

dayum…dayum..dayum(said in my Florida Evans voice)…

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@Kimmie

Has he called you to converse about it, or did he simply react? In your situation he may not need to vent unless his plan falls apart, in which case it’s a vent/strategy session.

When some ladies want to go tangents about office politics or that “[chick] you just can’t stand” (and you all have one), that’s when a cat like me gets lost, I got nothing.

That’s not the only instance of course, but if there is a problem that you don’t want help with, I do not understand the need for you to tell me knowing that I want to offer advice.

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Kym, agree to go out with him. Don’t dress up and have bad table manners, burp, fart and etc. Dig up your nose and pick a winner then rub it on his lapel.

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Pardon me, but what in the hell got caught up in your dictionary azz??????

Dan, I don’t comment or acknowledge you, so whatever ish you are smoking you can take it elsewhere. What real man is on the blog with this kind of weak ish? Grow some NU.TS and hit me back later. If nothing else I will send a donation so you can buy some from Planters (the little peanut guy with the cane) you monkey azz, fish-eyed, butt kissing moron.

~ciao~

@Professor

arrogant: “making claims or pretensions to superior importance or rights; overbearingly assuming; insolently proud”

I make no contention that I know anything about anything but Dan. I routinely post about and condition my comments with “things I have personally heard” or “I feel”, etc.

I can’t speak to but about 3 or 4 fields of study, careers, etc. becuase I’ve done them.

And yes, I’m quite arrogant about me, knowing me, and loving me. And thank you, my relationship is going along swimmingly.

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@Kym

I never leave….(your mind at least)….

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i will catch you on email sir….

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Professor, let’s listen to some Usher and bob our heads

Kym, I think that bubble gum song the girls is saying she “taste” good. The married guy, just tell his wife(some guys need some help being faithful) and the other guy just needs to get a clue. I have no idea on the advice to give, change your number maybe?

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Lady J, Okay

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@Purple I am good. Just wondering why this sucker is using my name in vain?? Because, I don’t associate with nut-less men in no form or fashion.

I will take your advice and listen to some Usherrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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What??

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Because, I don’t associate with nut-less men in no form or fashion.

Professor chile, we’ve gotta be some kin….gotta be

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I thought Dan was the one that was always saying nice things and all of the ladies loved him.

In my King Joffrey Joffer voice (Coming to America) WHO TOLD YOU THAT?

j/k

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