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Dating: What have you learned

It’s great to be alive and well to see another birthday today! When I was younger I remember being in such a hurry to grow up and brag about my age. Now I pretty much dread it and try to avoid acknowledging how close to 40 I am getting *cough*.

I once wrote about what I would forewarn myself  about if I had a moment to speak with my “younger self”.  When thinking of everything I learned in my 20s about dating, sex, and relationships, what could I say? If you take all the pain and heartache away from our experiences, we probably would not be the same people.  What would you say to your younger self?

You know they say that we are the sum of all our experiences. I suppose that is true in many ways, but what lessons can we take from it all?

I have been writing here for 5 years and I have learned a great deal about love, relationships, and men from the dialogue we have here!  What have you learned?

Happy Monday & Happy Birthday to Moi!

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GHANA

June 28th, 2010
4:07 pm

@Arted??

did u manage to go out smewhere and watch the soccer game on saturday??

DreamsMaterialize

June 28th, 2010
4:08 pm

Especially me, cause I don’t bring drama.
kimmie I know you don’t. You seem like a class act. ;-)

AmazonRed™ - Good times

June 28th, 2010
4:11 pm

melo – Yes, my friend had a cook out so I rolled through there. Watched it on a 52 inch flatscreen with a plate of shrimp skewers! :lol:

Leggs

June 28th, 2010
4:13 pm

I do have a stomach ache.

Oh no, have to design jock straps for the horses backside!!! I might just get rich. I can patent and sell all over the world! But then, someone may put out a hit on me for messing with their fun times.

Dan - simply...

June 28th, 2010
4:14 pm

@kimmie

If you’re the type (as you’ve said before) to state facts and no “go on and on” then that’s not listening, that’s the strategy session.

And again, I agree with Dreams, you seem like a class act.

You, and a few others…

GHANA

June 28th, 2010
4:15 pm

a plate of shrimp skewers

@Ared?? glad at least u left with ur tail down and defeated but with a filled stomach,nonetheless! :lol:

@Dreamz??
You seem like a class act

look at my boy,angling for bootey just in case her dude steps off the steep slope into the cliff! :lol: :lol:

Leggs

June 28th, 2010
4:16 pm

“Where is everyone, in the bomb shelter?” CLASSIC!

Some are finding they’ve misplaced their vests and won’t come from under the bed, and the others are behind this cement wall peeping!!!

i'm swiss

June 28th, 2010
4:18 pm

“Some are finding they’ve misplaced their vests and won’t come from under the bed, and the others are behind this cement wall peeping!!!”

And I got distracted by some good p0rn & lost interest… :lol:

AmazonRed™ - Good times

June 28th, 2010
4:19 pm

glad at least u left with ur tail down and defeated

melo – That would mean I actually gave a shyt about the game. I didn’t. :lol:

GHANA

June 28th, 2010
4:19 pm

where is Luvbug??

tell her i miss her

Professor

June 28th, 2010
4:23 pm

Melo, I was wondering about Luvbug too.

@Leggs some people are catching up on their workload it is almost 5 o’clock. :wink:

GHANA

June 28th, 2010
4:24 pm

@Professor/Ared??

remind me around 2.00 pm, i wanna ask the blog folks a Big qstion.

GHANA

June 28th, 2010
4:24 pm

that is tmrw by the way

Leggs

June 28th, 2010
4:29 pm

You’re taking porn over the antics of Blogsville. :wink:

Professor

June 28th, 2010
4:32 pm

Melo, will do!

Wise Diva

June 28th, 2010
4:37 pm

Thanks so much everyone! I appreciate the birthday wishes!

I am going to announce the winner of last week’s contest (totally forgot, I’m getting so forgetful in my old age! My apologies on that. I will get it together, LOL I promise!

Leggs

June 28th, 2010
4:47 pm

Where’s your blogproof box, WD?

AmazonRed™ - Good times

June 28th, 2010
4:50 pm

Wise Diva makes empty promises! I won’t hold my breath lady! ;)

Leggs

June 28th, 2010
4:57 pm

“When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on.” ~ Thomas Jefferson

Have a great evening!!

Lady-PYT-RIP MJ

June 28th, 2010
5:04 pm

really wow lol if you say so I am not hard to find at all!

good night! :)

Wise Diva

June 28th, 2010
5:06 pm

Yeah it’s so not intentional, I have all these ideas and get sidetracked. I wont promise anything anymore though! We are on the see how it goes plan until I get it together. Ha!

Wise Diva

June 28th, 2010
5:08 pm

Leggs, I was on the iphone, didn’t log in properly. I swear I’m not drunk blogging … Not yet !