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Most attractive quality?

One of the best parts of dating someone new is finding out more about them.  It’s really fun when you ask questions and get answers that please you and make you even more hopeful.  At the same time, it can also dash your hopes of going to the next level.

I’m the type that would rather know early if we have good potential or not so I tend to ask a lot of questions.  Not in the investigative journalist kind of way, though.  I just try to include questions in general discussions and pay attention to the response.

Once you get past their outer layer and stop marveling about how great they look, you can learn a lot about a person if you actually listen to them speak. This is why I think people become more attractive as we get more acquainted with them.

What do you think is the most attractive quality?  Other than their looks, what trait do you think really makes someone stand out?  How often do you meet someone with that quality?  Do you feel that you possess it?

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Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:27 pm

anytime you’re able to….

@Prof ~ look at you trying to get a cut. :wink:

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
4:27 pm

Sorry…it told me it was a duplicate… :lol:

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:27 pm

slim where are you we have 30 mkin bring it on honey lmao

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:28 pm

dammit 30min

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
4:31 pm

Slim is now shallowly looking for a guy with long pockets but a short weenie…the shorter the barrel, the lesser the recoil. :lol: j/k

Melo

June 8th, 2010
4:33 pm

Leggs, SUGARDADDY?!?!?

@Leggs??

What,hes about as old as Rev Lowlery?? :lol:

czBrat

June 8th, 2010
4:34 pm

the one taking me out Saturday is interviewing for the position of sugardaddy…
now you know you just proved Señor Cynic’s point, right?

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:35 pm

Melo

June 8th, 2010
4:36 pm

but a short weenie…the shorter the barrel, the lesser the recoil

@Slim??

I amm thinking u just tricking,trying to get the most from him,move on and minimize the mining damage to ur cherry wet lands??

the spill in the gulf is teaching a lot of women some thangs! :lol:

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:36 pm

@czB ~ no, I’m not. He said women are looking for physical looks first and money second. I’m looking for money first. :wink: :lol:

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:38 pm

What,hes about as old as Rev Lowlery??

I :grin: so hard I :cry: on this one!

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:40 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: ~ Don’t worry, Prof. Anyone who knows me here, know I don’t do old.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:40 pm

yall stop lolololololol

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:41 pm

@Leggs “know you don’t what’?

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:43 pm

@Leggs I am moving to fast.

I wanted to ask you about the Sr. men that claim just because there is snow on the roof doesn’t mean the fire is out in the chimmney or however that mess go

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:43 pm

I don’t hang or date people who act old! A lot of men Rev. Lowrey’s age walk with canes…not my speed at all!

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:43 pm

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:45 pm

Leggs if you can get me a ROI I will buy the wheelchair for him so he can put that cane down. Will you promise to push him?

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
4:45 pm

LOL @ fire in the chimney. Call the fire department. :lol:

I heard it was “fire in the furnace”

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:45 pm

I believe that statement. Snow on the roof doesn’t necessarily equate with one’s ability to steam up the sheets.

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
4:46 pm

Get her Leggs. I mean, can’t y’all just post the link to the daggone lyrics? lol

Posting the link is too easy…LOL

Senor Cynic All women care about is good looks, good body, and makes a lot of money.

You’re kiddng right. And what man uses a different list…for women? Seems to be by your list, women and men are looking for the same thing…in women

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:46 pm

@Prof ~ I never agree to a promise that I can’t keep. Lips are zipped on that one!

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
4:47 pm

‘I amm thinking u just tricking,trying to get the most from him,move on and minimize the mining damage to ur cherry wet lands??’

Melo you’re so smart…now come here and let me pinch your left booty cheek…but that’ll cost ya $15 tho. :-D

Melo

June 8th, 2010
4:48 pm

Leggs/Proff??

when u have to say to him:

u done? and ur looking up like :shock: he says yeah…….. and u like :evil: :oops: :shock:

hes a daddy daddy sugar. :lol: not sugar daddy!!

that means more daddy and less sugar! :lol: :lol:

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:48 pm

:cry: there goes my cut aka allowance :cry: I am doing bad money wise on this blog melo igg’ed me on the $200 too

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:48 pm

Its me lurker too damn funny chica! LMBAO!!!!!!

The side show is killing me yall stop! lololololol

DreamsMaterialize

June 8th, 2010
4:50 pm

Leggs you got you a potential sugar daddy? I see how the game goes. I think I’ll put out a few RFP’s for sponsors since the market is coming back. lol

Reason?

June 8th, 2010
4:50 pm

I can see where your co-worker is coming from, I guess. I just don’t understand the whole “I don’t want you but I want someone just like you” argument.

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
4:51 pm

Does sugar daddy equate to cougar?

I had a dude I know about 70 gazing at me in CVS that I wanted to puke…seriously. Not only did look, but he gazed. Not, take a stolen glance but a gaze, like licking your chops gaze all the while standing sideways cause he was too old and too fat to put weight on both leggs all the while getting a buttload of prescriptions filled. What did I do? Cause he kept staring, stood directly behind him. I figured if he couldn’t stand on both legs at once he dang sure couldn’t look directly behind him, unless he turned around the way around. After he made his purchase, he limped out of the store. Nasty buzzard. Ugh

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
4:54 pm

RFP’s …request for proposals…LOL

Lady J – If anybody looks for the physical, it’s men. I mean we all do but men are physical creatures.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
4:55 pm

After he made his purchase, he limped out of the store. Nasty buzzard. Ugh

That’s just all kinds of nasty wrong….all kinds..

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
4:55 pm

LOL It’s me….lurker. Old nasty gazers are the worst…especially when you can tell they want to approach…and you have to give that mean look to let him know to not even step in your direction.

Ugh indeed!!

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:55 pm

@it’s me….great definition of old…I don’t hang with those type of buzzards. Mine are still getting their feathers. Not interested in those who feathers have all been plucked! Not appealing!

DreamsMaterialize

June 8th, 2010
4:56 pm

Not, take a stolen glance but a gaze, like licking your chops gaze
It’s me
At some point you probably get to an age where you figure you’re to old to care about protocol. What does it really matter at 70? You have nothing to lose. I might have pinched your butt. ;-) Would you knock out an old man? Even if you did, I’d probably be too old to care. lol

Drew

June 8th, 2010
4:56 pm

I merely want someone that is genuine and normal. Too many people try to be somebody they aren’t and simply say what others want to hear. I want to know what someone is like is when things aren’t going there way or they have a bad day. Anybody can put on a good show for a brief period of time, but relationships are hard work. You better find someone with the mental fortitude to know who they are and be confident with that person enough that they’re relatable and pleasant on a daily basis. I can find things in common with almost anyone, but if someone is dishonest or fake then what’s the point?

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
4:57 pm

Luvbug – and you have to give that mean look to let him know to not even step in your direction

Yes ma’am, I did it and he was not deterred. So, I thought I’ll position myself directly behind this buzzard and if he can spin his neck he deserves a look but given that he’s barely hanging on he can’t twist/spin and remain standing.

Sassy – That’s just all kinds of nasty wrong….all kinds..

Amen, Amen and Amen….ugh

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:57 pm

too fat to put weight on both leggs all the while getting a buttload of prescriptions filled.

@lurker…I bet he had some viagra in the mix since he is looking and stuff.

That reminds me…this old man (about 77-79) a friend of the family told my aunt he started to beat the sh!t out of his doctor. My aunt is a nurse was alarmed and concerned, so she asked him why. He told my aunt he requested a Rx for viagra and his doctor told him NO he did not need that because it would counter his other meds. He told her on the nights he used the viagra he would skip his other meds. She told him NO and the problems that would cause…he later changed doctors. I think he was too shame to go back.

Barry

June 8th, 2010
4:58 pm

I see another relationship blog has been taken over by black women. Why is it that every talk of relationships black women go into a frenzy? If you can’t find someone typically it is because you have some qualities about yourself that are flawed.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:59 pm

@Barry, you came too late to the party. No blog jacket for you!

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
5:00 pm

Dreams – At some point you probably get to an age where you figure you’re to old to care about protocol. What does it really matter at 70? You have nothing to lose. I might have pinched your butt. Would you knock out an old man? Even if you did, I’d probably be too old to care.
lol

Now THAT was funny. I would have beat him like he stole something…lololol

Leggs – I see some pretty nice looking middle aged dudes that still got a couple of rounds left but I’m with you. At some point it’s just plain ole nasty. Folks wearing diapers, dentures, wheelchairs, canes….uh uh, heck no.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
5:00 pm

it’s me..you have time to leave a quote…quickly!

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
5:01 pm

The topic is most attractive qualities not why can’t black woman catch a man.

Melo

June 8th, 2010
5:01 pm

@Its me kurker??

forgive him,he wants a wet one too!!

good nite uall!

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
5:02 pm

Most people say that it is the intellect which makes a great scientist. They are wrong: it is character.

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
5:03 pm

Professor – I just bet he did. He had beautiful hair…indian in his family as they would say and really long plaits but NONE of that was impressive nor did it take the edge off the nastiness I felt being gazed at.

77-79 and substituting his meds for viagra? OMGosh, what are we coming too. Let me have an attack, let my blood sugar level sky rocket, let my fluid build around my lungs but let me get my viagra on….OMGosh.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
5:03 pm

where’s your quote it’s me….?

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
5:05 pm

Quote for the day:

If you can’t be with the one you love, you’ve got to love the one you’re with.

I kid I kid

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
5:05 pm

They should stop covering viagra. Whatever happened to personality?? :lol:

Melo

June 8th, 2010
5:05 pm

Let me have an attack, let my blood sugar level sky rocket, let my fluid build around my lungs but let me get my viagra on….OMGosh.

ill leave the quote for her based on that above:

Pudssy is King!

:lol: :lol:

czBrat

June 8th, 2010
5:05 pm

one, just ONCE i would luv to see a man like barry step to a table of black women and spew that kind of sh!t.

go back under your rock, little man. grown folk are talking here.