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Most attractive quality?

One of the best parts of dating someone new is finding out more about them.  It’s really fun when you ask questions and get answers that please you and make you even more hopeful.  At the same time, it can also dash your hopes of going to the next level.

I’m the type that would rather know early if we have good potential or not so I tend to ask a lot of questions.  Not in the investigative journalist kind of way, though.  I just try to include questions in general discussions and pay attention to the response.

Once you get past their outer layer and stop marveling about how great they look, you can learn a lot about a person if you actually listen to them speak. This is why I think people become more attractive as we get more acquainted with them.

What do you think is the most attractive quality?  Other than their looks, what trait do you think really makes someone stand out?  How often do you meet someone with that quality?  Do you feel that you possess it?

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Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
3:44 pm

especially on the yellow meat watermelons.
i just threw up in my mouth a lil bit.

!!!!!!!!!!!

cz you ain’t right :lol:

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
3:44 pm

melo – I’d be a skeleton if he’s purposely trying to hide it and cover it up or pretending it doesn’t exist.

John Edwards is a good example. Plenty of folks knew, but when it was discovered, he denied the kid was his. If he had told everyone it wasn’t their damn business, that’d be different. :lol:

free to be (F2B)

June 8th, 2010
3:46 pm

@leggs…that’s great! nothing like a full belly and a good mind.:)

@JtJ…thank you!:) i am happy about all the new things in my midst. i realized that so much of life was waiting for me. i just had to open up both hands to catch my blessings. i was holding on (tightly) to some stuff that was deterring me from my destiny. i’m on track now.:)

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
3:46 pm

Sorry @czbrat!!!lol. I remember the yellowish-orange(inside) watermelons from when I was little. I think the salt offsets the sweetness…IDK…not my thing either!

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
3:47 pm

The ones that come to mind no one knows about. Not a select group of friends, no one…that’s a skeleton!

Leggs – I agree with that one. In fact, that’s what my original point when I said I didn’t have one. I was saying that there is nothing that NO ONE can ever know.

But I can condede that there are some gray areas. There are somethings I’ll tell my man and closest friends…but I wouldn’t be thrilled to share with anyone else.

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
3:47 pm

@ F2B…you go girl!!! That’s what’s up!!

Professor

June 8th, 2010
3:47 pm

@czBrat for under $500 including air…I love a deal I will check it out…I’m flexible when it comes to saving money

oh yea our neighbor growing up used to put so much salt on her watermelons and plums you could see the salt on the fruit. I bet she has HBP now if she is still doing that

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
3:48 pm

Are people blind in this post.

@it’s me…lurker ~ did you need the previous warnings about long lyrics posted in Braille???

:lol:

Get her Leggs. I mean, can’t y’all just post the link to the daggone lyrics? lol

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
3:48 pm

Yellowmeat is delicious. Taste the same as red watermelon to me.

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
3:50 pm

Did you all read that sad story about the guy taking his gf up to the mountains to propose to her and they both got struck by lightning and she died?? Wow!!

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
3:50 pm

@Carlito took the cake when he posted an entire song in Italian. Yeah, we all read that one from stem to stern.

Where is JJ Evans

June 8th, 2010
3:50 pm

hey ared how you be lady..waving at you still

Senor Cynic

June 8th, 2010
3:51 pm

I don’t care what the women on here put. Women are more shallow and superficial when it comes to the people they date. All women care about is good looks, good body, and makes a lot of money. At least men are honest and will outright tell you those are the things we want. Women try to disguise it with all this malarky that oh I want someone who is funny, intelligent, and honest. They may “say” they want all of those things, but when it comes down to it every woman is looking for physical looks first and money as a close second.

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
3:52 pm

@melo – Good list. Still got an empty closet over here. :lol:

That “confess here on the blog” part was just stupid tho. :lol:

Jeann

June 8th, 2010
3:53 pm

Reason?: Maybe a little more confidence and getting rid of that pitiful me attitude would do it.

Professor

June 8th, 2010
3:53 pm

i just had to open up both hands to catch my blessings. i was holding on (tightly) to some stuff that was deterring me from my destiny.

F2B I love it! You have to open your hands and let some things go

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
3:58 pm

@ARed ~ I’ll take your concession on those “gray” areas. You got my drift, I got yours!

if u smeoke weed but nobody in our cirlce knows, u got skeletons Wow, we now have a circle…that was funny!

@JtJ ~ that was a very sad not going during a thunderstorm. I feel sorry for him because he was going to propose on a site that she truly loved.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
3:58 pm

i just had to open up both hands to catch my blessings. i was holding on (tightly) to some stuff that was deterring me from my destiny.

Worth repeatinig…

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:00 pm

@Senior Chic ~ how about I have a date with a somewhat fat man this Saturday because he’s nice, witty, a gentleman, has great character and has a wonderful sense of humor.

For Real

June 8th, 2010
4:00 pm

“Did you all read that sad story about the guy taking his gf up to the mountains to propose to her and they both got struck by lightning and she died??” – That’s funny! Don’t judge me.

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
4:01 pm

For Real

June 8th, 2010
4:01 pm

somewhat fat aka Pimp Belly

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:02 pm

catching up…..lol

free to be (F2B)

June 8th, 2010
4:02 pm

@professor…thanks! it a process and a good one to release some worn out ideas. i am thankful for the purpose it’s serving. god is good.:)

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:02 pm

Not too much of a Pimp Belly, but he does have a flat a$$.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
4:02 pm

Side note: Ludacris has a collabo with Trey Songz and that ish is hawt….

kimmie

June 8th, 2010
4:05 pm

Hey, it’s a free country. If somebody wants to be shallow, they have a right to be shallow. It’s somebody for everybody out there.

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
4:07 pm

@ Leggs,I too wondered why he just couldn’t wait to go on another day when it wasn’t storming? They said the weather had cleared up some, but still it wasn’t completely over. Sometimes when you have your heart set on doing something, you can overlook things that you should know good and well not to do. Poor soul, I am sure he wishes he could re-do that moment.

@ For Real–I won’t judge you, but I will tell your momma!!

kimmie

June 8th, 2010
4:08 pm

If you’re not blind, you can’t help but notice physical looks first!LOL!!!

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:08 pm

@F2B I know you will be a better person in a better place!

@Leggs~ Prof whispering “Ms. Leggs where are you getting all these dates? I know you said you was going to start getting out in 2010, and you are doing it!”

czBrat

June 8th, 2010
4:09 pm

oh GAWD! Melo you are tooooo much for me today. i laughed so hard i snorted like a pig. folks around here are not used to stuff like that from me.

i just had to open up both hands to catch my blessings. i was holding on (tightly) to some stuff that was deterring me from my destiny.

Worth repeating…

AGAIN.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:11 pm

@Prof ~ I’m trying, but If you really noticed, I’ve been getting out mostly on my own. I haven’t connected with anyone. However, the one taking me out Saturday is interviewing for the position of sugardaddy…his words not mine (LOLOL).

Trevor0529 - The doctoral journey starts today

June 8th, 2010
4:14 pm

However, the one taking me out Saturday is interviewing for the position of sugardaddy….

Leggs, SUGARDADDY?!?!?

Hello everyone!
:)

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:14 pm

@JtJ ~ I don’t mean to make a joke but reading the article I thought of the preacher saying “if anyone objects to this union, please speak now or forever hold your peace.”

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:15 pm

@Trevor0529 ~ you have a question for me (LOLOLOL)?

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:15 pm

@Leggs not the sugardaddy. Tell me this, where is he taking you? I want to make sure he is sugardaddy material (he can’t be a broke sugardaddy in this economy).

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:17 pm

Oh yeah, I did go to the Maysa concert. I plum forgot about that.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:17 pm

@Prof ~ I can’t do broke anymore…been there, still there, don’t need any company!!!

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
4:18 pm

professor lol

Trevor0529

June 8th, 2010
4:18 pm

Leggs, how was the Maysa concert?

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:19 pm

Hey Dr. Trevor!

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
4:20 pm

@ Leggs..I thought about when somebody says ” If you don’t stop lying, God gone strike you dead”. (not in a laughing way, though). I also thought maybe it just wasn’t meant for them to be married….idk…man cannot comprehend what God allows and doesn’t allow.

Trevor0529

June 8th, 2010
4:20 pm

Hey Prof! How are you doing this glorious day?

free to be (F2B)

June 8th, 2010
4:20 pm

@professor, sassy and czbrat…thank you.:) you did my heart a lot of good finding meaning in my thoughts. i appreciate it. the best is yet to come!

o.k. good ppl, i’m off to exercise. i can’t be out there frontin’ on july 4th! LOL have a great evening!

Professor

June 8th, 2010
4:22 pm

@Lady J you know I need to make sure Mr. Suga set Leggs straight especially since he came up with this position. Now we need to find away for me to pass as Lil Leggs so I can get an allowance :grin:

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
4:23 pm

i laughed so hard i snorted like a pig.

Awww bless your heart….yeah when that happens you know it’s good to you…hi-la-ri-ous :lol:

However, the one taking me out Saturday is interviewing for the position of sugardaddy….

Gone on witcho bad self Ms. Leggs…that’s what I’m talking bout.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
4:25 pm

@Trevor0529 ~ the concert was truly very, very nice. She has a beautiful voice, meshing great storytelling in with her songs and very versatile with her vocal range. Must admit, I was blow away when she sang an opera song. Great cheekbones (may even be better than Janet Jackson’s), but her big ta tas were distracting. Those bad boys were humongous….ok back to her voice….definitely worth seeing anything you’re able to.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
4:25 pm

I can’t do broke anymore…been there, still there, don’t need any company!!!

Preach!

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
4:26 pm

It’s nice out.

Alright then. Get it Leggs.

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
4:26 pm

It’s nice outside.

Good luck on your date Leggs.