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Most attractive quality?

One of the best parts of dating someone new is finding out more about them.  It’s really fun when you ask questions and get answers that please you and make you even more hopeful.  At the same time, it can also dash your hopes of going to the next level.

I’m the type that would rather know early if we have good potential or not so I tend to ask a lot of questions.  Not in the investigative journalist kind of way, though.  I just try to include questions in general discussions and pay attention to the response.

Once you get past their outer layer and stop marveling about how great they look, you can learn a lot about a person if you actually listen to them speak. This is why I think people become more attractive as we get more acquainted with them.

What do you think is the most attractive quality?  Other than their looks, what trait do you think really makes someone stand out?  How often do you meet someone with that quality?  Do you feel that you possess it?

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For Real

June 8th, 2010
2:22 pm

“thatngs u arent proud to share!” – Legal or illegal is what governs what I will share and what I will not share. Pride has nothing to do with it at least for me.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
2:23 pm

Slim LMBAO! Not! I will just fall back on the lyrics no problem at all! majority rules on the playground! LOL

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
2:23 pm

Storytelling time:

One time at White Waters, I called myself getting on the DragonTail with a two-piece on….I get out of the pool after riding down the slide waiting on rest of my friends to come down. A dude walks up to me and dayum near touches my boob and says, ‘Hey yo itty is out’. I look down and my whole right boob(the biggest one of the two) was out. :shock:

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
2:25 pm

Lady J – You knows I jus like ta flucks witcha ;-)

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
2:25 pm

melo – Well who is “proud” to share the areas where they did stupid stuff? Doesn’t mean it doesn’t get shared tho.

As for secrets, there is nothing that I can say no one else will ever know. I might not tell it to the world, but I’ll tell it to someone.

Melo

June 8th, 2010
2:26 pm

knowingly doing something shameful because you knew better but decided against it.

@Its me lurker??

u jumping ahead of urself. we want the shameful stuff..thats skeletons…….

its skeletons coz u never felt and proly still do have apprehension in exposing it

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
2:26 pm

i know slim chica! and it is funny as hell! lol

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
2:26 pm

:lol: @ “the biggest of a the two.”

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
2:26 pm

Legal or illegal is what governs what I will share and what I will not share.

@ For Real :lol: ,

I like to give folks the “nunya dang bidness”, just because people don’t go around telling every person they encounter about something they did doesn’t make it a skeleton IMO. Also somethings are just not relevant to your relationship with certain people. (male or female)

i'm swiss

June 8th, 2010
2:27 pm

“A dude walks up to me and dayum near touches my boob and says, ‘Hey yo itty is out’.”

Slim!?! That was you??? ;-) Nice tit-tay, BTW… :lol:

For Real

June 8th, 2010
2:28 pm

For Real now placing all the lyrics (raised at that) to Man in the Mirror on a big azz paddle standing over a pantless LadyJ in the assumed position while wearing no pants.

For Real: Didn’t we tell-you-about-posting-all-those-long-azz-song-lyrics

LadyJ: For Real I think you using the wrong end of the paddle.

For Real: Hearme,hearme, hearme, hearme, hearme, hearme

outgoing

June 8th, 2010
2:28 pm

Letting go baby if you move forward I’m yours 150% and then some

Melo

June 8th, 2010
2:29 pm

I might not tell it to the world, but I’ll tell it to someone.

@Ared….

u and Leggs and myself are in agreement. about that….Finally.

skeletons do get shared smetimes but not necessaruly to everybody….smertimes its only to pple who share the same perspective,history of debauchery etc…….

:lol: :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
2:29 pm

just because people don’t go around telling every person they encounter about something they did doesn’t make it a skeleton IMO. Also somethings are just not relevant to your relationship with certain people. (male or female)

PrincessNik – I agree. That’s the point I’m trying to make.

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
2:30 pm

Hey there Lady J

Melo, yeah the juicy stuff makes for an interesting read.

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
2:31 pm

skeletons do get shared smetimes but not necessaruly to everybody….

Melo – No…I do not agree. Because if you can share it…it’s not a skeleton. Skeletons get exposed, not shared.

Raymond

June 8th, 2010
2:33 pm

sense of humor and self-control. This is what a lot of people mean by x-factor. Men don’t have these 2 qualities are setting themselves up for dating failure. You have to be funny, confident and a little bit mysterious.

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
2:34 pm

Melo – Guess my skeletons and I will promise to tell you if you’re right or wrong. :lol:

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
2:34 pm

ROTFLMBAO @ YOU FOR REAL!!!!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!

i'm swiss

June 8th, 2010
2:34 pm

“Skeletons get exposed, not shared.”

ARed — True, true…

For Real

June 8th, 2010
2:35 pm

Story: One time I was at White Water and this slim chick with a itty and bitty was wearing a two piece and I told her she could have this Watchamacallit if she can reach it. While she was reaching for the candy I slide her bathing suit top off to the side exposing her itty but her bitty got stuck.

Melo

June 8th, 2010
2:35 pm

Because if you can share it…it’s not a skeleton

@Ared??

selective sharing..if u share sme to a friend for whatever reason but u consclously decide not to share it to another friend coz u dont want them to hear about it..its a skeleton.

or say smething is known in ur fam but not shared to a spouse ..its a skeleton….

A skeleton is not shared indiscriminately. If shared,it may be targetted sharing.

Ofcourse smething thats commonly or widely known within ur circles is not a skeleton.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
2:36 pm

dag time is fying by today! that is when you having fun! lmbao!

For Real

June 8th, 2010
2:37 pm

Ared: Zippppppppppppppppppppp!!! Is this a skeleton?

OneChris

June 8th, 2010
2:38 pm

sense of humor and easy going * No I am not that way thus I am attracted to it

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
2:39 pm

melo – We’ll have to agree to disagree. I’m not with you on that.

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
2:43 pm

All skeletons rattle the same, whether known or not.

i'm swiss

June 8th, 2010
2:43 pm

“Zippppppppppppppppppppp!!! Is this a skeleton?”

For Real — Nah, man. That’s just a bone. :lol:

Any

June 8th, 2010
2:44 pm

I knoe Im a day late but who did self-claimed SEXYCool have to talk about this time at the meet & greet & was W8 there? just asking, thanks :)

AreYouSerious

June 8th, 2010
2:44 pm

Honesty and a sense of humor. Yes, I possess both qualities so I definitely need those in a man as well.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
2:45 pm

daggit meant flying ……off to dunwoody ready yall in a few! lol

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
2:46 pm

i’m swiss – well thank you kind gentleman. I guess all those times I let my cousin suck on them actually paid off. ;-) (j/k)

Slim is now spanking For Real with the right side of the paddle but on the front side of him dancing around like Diddy tombout “take dat, take dat, take dat”. :mrgreen: :lol:

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
2:47 pm

Hey gang!!!

@ Slim…I had that happen to me before, too. Only difference I was at a bowling alley with a spaghetti strap shirt and I bowled a stike and turned around to gloat in JT’s face. There was a bunch of kids from their Prom there and I turned around jumping up and down….the look on those teens faces was PRICELESS!!!

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
2:47 pm

sheesh meant read! damn!

Professor

June 8th, 2010
2:50 pm

@Melo thanks for the story you have some good ones! :grin:

@Fo Real here’s your answer.

Why does it always have to be the man is taking away something from chick? Why isn’t it a willing exchange of mind, body and time?

I am not saying the man is always taking anything. It’s kinda like riding in a car where you have passengers, a driver, folk in the backseat and another culprit riding hogtied in the trunk. Now, depending on who you ask in the car some folks will say it was a great ride, while dude in the trunk will not have that story. The moral of the story is I cannot change someone’s perspective of what reality was for him/her.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
2:53 pm

Exactly, Melo!

free to be (F2B)

June 8th, 2010
2:53 pm

howdy y’all…i see you guys have the afternoon in full effect.:) i will read and catch up.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
2:53 pm

Ready for my dessert – big slice of watermelon.

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
2:54 pm

I think I already told yall about the time I was in the lunch line and had just came back from the restroom. I had on a babydoll dress but it got stuck in my panty hose…so everyone behind me saw my bootay…

Melo

June 8th, 2010
2:55 pm

For Real

June 8th, 2010
2:55 pm

“All skeletons rattle the same” -

For Real: Slim come here and tell me if you hear some rattling.

Slim: Okay.

For Real: Do you hear anything Slim?

Slim: Nope!

For Real: Maybe if I get closer to your ear you can hear it.

Slim: Good idea.

For Real: Do you hear anything now?

Slim: No but your zipper is giving me a rug burn.

Where is JJ Evans

June 8th, 2010
2:55 pm

humor is a must when dealing with the “weaker” sex

free to be (F2B)

June 8th, 2010
2:56 pm

lady j…that was a looonnnnngggg post….lol. very meaningful though.:) one of my favorite songs.

i'm swiss

June 8th, 2010
2:56 pm

Wow. :lol:

Melo, you are one crazy Zulu…. :lol:

JtJ

June 8th, 2010
2:56 pm

Hey Leggs….I can’t stand watermelon!!! Can’t tolerate the smell for more than a few seconds. I think I ate too much as a child.

Professor

June 8th, 2010
2:57 pm

Professor

June 8th, 2010
2:58 pm

@JtJ I am the opposite of you I hated watermelon as a child, but I love it now especially with pineapples and grapes. yummmy

For Real

June 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

JtJ: Can you pass this note to JT.

Note: Itsnay on the watermelon flavored rubbers!

Luvbug

June 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

100! How’d you know all that?

SMDH

free to be (F2B)

June 8th, 2010
2:59 pm

hey professor! how are you today?