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Most attractive quality?

One of the best parts of dating someone new is finding out more about them.  It’s really fun when you ask questions and get answers that please you and make you even more hopeful.  At the same time, it can also dash your hopes of going to the next level.

I’m the type that would rather know early if we have good potential or not so I tend to ask a lot of questions.  Not in the investigative journalist kind of way, though.  I just try to include questions in general discussions and pay attention to the response.

Once you get past their outer layer and stop marveling about how great they look, you can learn a lot about a person if you actually listen to them speak. This is why I think people become more attractive as we get more acquainted with them.

What do you think is the most attractive quality?  Other than their looks, what trait do you think really makes someone stand out?  How often do you meet someone with that quality?  Do you feel that you possess it?

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AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
12:44 pm

We all have skeletons or shameful acts we’d rather sweep under the rug.

I don’t think I agree with the use of “all” in this sentence, but I get your point.

I don’t remember the name of the limo company, it was a one day deal so I don’t even think I could go back to the site and find it either.

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
12:44 pm

The fact that I watched the entire show spoke volumes

same here leggs, i actually had set the dvr because i planned to be busy, but once i started watching i didnt’ want to turn the channel

Professor

June 8th, 2010
12:45 pm

@Lady J I am glad they evacuated the building I thought of the man that was mad with the IRS and flew his plane in the building. I tell you this world is really changing.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
12:45 pm

PK this dude clowned me at dave and buster I won’t reveal why but he went back to note all I know is Petty Pablo and if i effed up his name so what don’t care lmbao and no I am not into him either!

something was missing that can’t have been the meat and potatoes i don’t think…..lol

czBrat

June 8th, 2010
12:46 pm

ay, Profesora. please accept this i.o.u. :)

Sassy, why does your story not surprise me? you are so true to your name! :lol: :lol: :lol:

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
12:46 pm

We all have skeletons or shameful acts we’d rather sweep under the rug

~If you can’t get rid of your skeletons, you better teach them to dance~

Lady J

of all the folks last night, you single out Timbaland wow

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
12:47 pm

me too professor

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
12:48 pm

Haaa, cool, but I’m sticking with all! Even if you stuck a crayon in your nose as a child and didn’t tell your mama and scaped your nostrils getting it out before she found out, you have a skeleton.

Seriously, I feel we all have a skeleton or two. I don’t think anyone is squeaky clean.

:)

June 8th, 2010
12:48 pm

45ish. She couldn’t appreciate knowing he was placed on alert by Child Support Enforcement. Our child was about 4 months old. She went to poked me in my chest all the while berating me. After leaving her house and speaking with the cop, I headed for his side of town. The fact that he was rendered speechless I assumed he’d already heard. Motioned to him for the next go round but he declined. I was a woman fed up.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
12:48 pm

i like tribe called quest and that era………

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
12:49 pm

Lady J

that was the meat and potates of SOUTHERN hip hop, key word SOUTHERN, now truth be told i didn’t do Diddy, Jay Z or Nas until i did my stint in SC, I had never even heard those artist played in a club at least not in heavy rotation. Of course they were still playing electric slide in the club in SC when i got there i really had a GTFOH moment :lol:

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
12:50 pm

PK I know I am lame but Timberland ROCKS! ha!

it took me a=min to figure out silk da shocker naw not interested! lol

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
12:52 pm

PK thanks for the history seriously it brought some awareness……lol

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
12:54 pm

why does your story not surprise me? you are so true to your name!

That was back in the day when I was much more hellish that I am now….. buut: “To thine own self be true”.

Or were you missing the SC hip hop scene

Y’all better raise up off of the SC crew…Charleston(Chucktown) stand up!!

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
12:54 pm

Even if you stuck a crayon in your nose as a child and didn’t tell your mama and scaped your nostrils getting it out before she found out, you have a skeleton.

Leggs – Now I definitely disagree.

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
12:55 pm

Well lady j to each his own. In my opinion Timbaland has a very “eclectic” music style not necessarily Southern, but I guess because he is from VA, he fit the category by default. Most of the music last night I could say oh was this age when that song came out, or me and the crew did this, but i drew a blank when it came to Timbo except the Missy joints LOL.

I was disappointed that OutKast wasnt there though :(

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
12:56 pm

Seriously, I feel we all have a skeleton or two. I don’t think anyone is squeaky clean.

It’s not about being squeaky clean. It’s about owning up to your ish. Some people carry shame about things they done, which is why they intend to take stuff to the grave. Some people don’t carry that burden.

I’ve done some foolish things…but nothing I could never admit to anyone else.

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
12:56 pm

Charleston(Chucktown) stand up!!

:lol: now that brought back some memories LOL For some reason the Charleston crew and the GA Boys didn’t mesh too well at BC LOLOLOL.

Reason?

June 8th, 2010
1:00 pm

Leggs @ 10:15

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:01 pm

that is my point Outkast is the meat and potatoes IMO! that is all with sourthern hip hop! and like Timberland sai noone can contain or box him! lol he is all that! lol

Reason?

June 8th, 2010
1:01 pm

Yeah, it is funny and sad at the same time. Unfortunately, I know too many people, men and women, who use that line of those that are attracted to them.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:03 pm

and master p does nothing for me not then or now never has……lol

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:05 pm

awwww i am cool with chucktown they embraced me and some great friendship formed but when that want to beat you down you have a whole army after you! they stick together well at least most of them….lol

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
1:12 pm

I’m cool w/you disagreeing. Most with skeletons are those who have not owned up to their ish. Sure you may have owned up with “self” but they’re skeletons cuz you don’t want anyone to know about that ish you did back in the day. And if you don’t have any, good for you!

Everybody’s teef was too dang white last night. Even the old timers were bleach board white!!!

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
1:13 pm

No dinner for me tonight. I’m having collards, rice and gravy topped with black-eyd peas and beef short ribs w/a glass of water. Damn, this is too good!

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 8th, 2010
1:14 pm

when that want to beat you down you have a whole army after you!

True,true. When you mess with ONE you gonna get ALL…tha’s how we do :-)

SoulGloSLim

June 8th, 2010
1:14 pm

Speaking of Hip Hop Honors, is Bow Wow now almost as tall as Jermaine Dupree? :lol:

Professor

June 8th, 2010
1:15 pm

I was disappointed that OutKast wasnt there though

I am glad I didn’t see it if Andre 3000 wasn’t in the place

@Lady J and PK I used to love Timberland and McGoo and they had that chick that used to rap too, she said something like with “suspenion like a sports car somesomesomething playback the tape in the VCR”

@ : ) he had a young mama! Thanks for answering.

@Leggs/ AREDI did not see the question from Leggs, but I have no skeltons that’s right. If it is your business I will tell you, or if I feel like sharing my bio…simple as that but that does not mean I am hiding stuff everything aint for everybody and goes for all areas of life.

Melo

June 8th, 2010
1:16 pm

No dinner for me tonight. I’m having collards, rice and gravy topped with black-eyd peas and beef

@Leggs..so thats it till tmrw??

PrincessNik...I'm every woman, its all in me

June 8th, 2010
1:19 pm

that is my point Outkast is the meat and potatoes IMO! that is all with sourthern hip hop!

@ Lady J, that’s your opinion of which you are entitled ;) Just remember the South is not just the Southeast. I think the point of last night was to honor the folks who pushed Southern Hip hop to the Mainstream.

blarney stoned

June 8th, 2010
1:20 pm

Professor

June 8th, 2010
1:20 pm

Dang did I miss Master P? Make’em say Unnnnnnnnn I used to love Silk the Shocker was that his name? Mystikal was cool too “here I gooooooooooooo” y’all took me back to HS/college

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:21 pm

you right honey i will stick with my favs…..lol….i was out of my lane to even watch but i have seen ever 48 mystery so i tuned in and was out of sync…..lol…..lol ;)

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
1:22 pm

And if you don’t have any, good for you!

Well thanks. But that just proves that we “all” don’t have em.

Melo

June 8th, 2010
1:23 pm

the folks who pushed Southern Hip hop to the Mainstream.

@PrincessN??

who are those..i didnt watch it??

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
1:23 pm

Professor – Leggs was asking to name examples of desperate acts we did in relationships. She wasn’t expecting most folks to answer truthfully on here. The skeleton part came later.

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:26 pm

Professor don’t get me wrong I partied hard off those songs but it stopped in the club back then I don’t go below the surface with southern hip hop but I will repsect them nevertheless PK it right it goes beyond Outkast…lol

Professor

June 8th, 2010
1:26 pm

@ARed thanks for the explanation! :grin:

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:29 pm

getting married was my desperate act! I failed to plan for me and have confidence in me a huge lesson learned…..i am all for self awareness! I have since overcame and I thank God for second chances!!

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:30 pm

really meant getting married so young for the wrong reasons……hell yall know the story my dead horse indeed~ lmbao!

Professor

June 8th, 2010
1:30 pm

@Lady J you are right, I haven’t thought of these folks since the 90’s hopefully I will catch the replay.

Melo

June 8th, 2010
1:30 pm

I think WD must devote one day of MIA blogging to skeletons…everybody just telling us about those skeletons they were too darn afraid to reveal.

After all u females want and value honest guys…why not lead by example!! :lol:

Thus so sexxy too Kimmie! :lol: :lol:

OK whos gon start ladies???

Jeff

June 8th, 2010
1:31 pm

A sense of humor makes a woman so much more attractive.

AmazonRed™ - We're coming for Beantown. Go Lakers!

June 8th, 2010
1:31 pm

After all u females want and value honest guys…why not lead by example!!

melo – sure thing.

Wait, I already was. ;)

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
1:33 pm

@Reason? ~ a co-worker is standing here saying exactly what you said this morning. A guy she’s in love with has said to her “I love you, but I don’t think you’re the one God has in store for me (yes, she has told me this before). Then turns around and says if whomever he meets, she has to be her (meaning having qualities she has).

I thought of you when she said this…WTH, why fix your mouth to hurt someone’s feelings like that let alone having them tossing and turning at night writhing with confusion.

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
1:34 pm

@Melo ~ I’ll munch on something light tonight!

It's me....lurker

June 8th, 2010
1:37 pm

I think WD must devote one day of MIA blogging to skeletons…everybody just telling us about those skeletons they were too darn afraid to reveal.

That would be a blast

Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....

June 8th, 2010
1:39 pm

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Tim Tebow's Tears

June 8th, 2010
1:39 pm

Arthritis…

Leggs

June 8th, 2010
1:40 pm

No, it doesn’t prove we all don’t have them. I don’t know what you will reveal to me and what you won’t. Just because you said doesn’t make it so.