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The danger of dating on the rebound

When you are fresh off of a break up, it seems that you suddenly meet a boatload of people that you feel drawn to.  It’s probably the void your ex left that is pushing you to fill it with the first hottie that gets your attention.  It’s hard to see this when you are going through it though.  This is just one of the risks involved in dating on the rebound.

When you meet someone new, we always say not to mention or bring up the ex, especially on a first date.  The problem is that if the ex isn’t completely out of their system…or the picture, you don’t know if they are truly ready to starting something meaningful with you.

If you have just ended a relationship, do you tell the new person in your life how recent the break up was?  Does it matter if the last relationship only ended days or weeks ago?

Have you ever been the rebound guy/girl for someone and it worked out great?

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TheTruthHurts

June 7th, 2010
8:26 am

The quickest way to get over someone is to have some amazing hot sex with a new person…..why bother ruining that by telling the other person???

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
8:29 am

Hello from the UK (again).

Interesting topic: I want to comment about this particular line…”Have you ever been the rebound guy/girl for someone and it worked out great?”

Okay, define great…something that lasted, something that was good until it was not good, etc. What are we saying? I’ve had a bad habit of getting involved women who are still wounded inside from their divorce or a breakup. They, and all men for that matter also, have a bad habit of thinking they are “healed” when deep inside many are still loving/hating their exes (so still being controlled). I have had a bad habit of falling into the “transition” lover position, where the lady needed to have her femininity and attractiveness reinforced she has been torn down in a divorce or a breakup. For awhile it is great, then when they start to regain their self-confidence, and they are ready to strike out on their own…sometimes leaving me sort of standing in the street. Good while it lasts, maybe great, but no permanence.

As I have said many times, I’ve had two LTR’s that were dropped in their tracks when the ex all of a sudden had a renewed interest. These days, I want any strong involvement so far in the rear view mirror that they cannot even remember the guy’s name. Safer that way.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
8:30 am

Morning blog peeps.

On topic: Maybe this is different for guys, but when I split with my long-term ex, I was fully aware of my “rebound” status, if you want to call it that. Although, for me it would be more accurate to say “man-wh@re” status. I was fully aware of it & I made every chick I dealt with during that time fully aware that I had no interest in any sort of serious relationship. I just needed some time to have fun & have my ego (and other things) stroked for a while…. ;-) And once I got that out of my system, I was open to an actual relationship…

Mrs. Tazzee the Newlywed

June 7th, 2010
8:38 am

Morning Folks!

I just wanted to drop in to say a big THANK YOU to Leggs and Lady J for arranging the meet-up on the 28th. Work was a beast last week but I couldn’t let another day go by without expressing my gratitude. Thanks Ladies!

It was great meeting I Am, i’m swiss and Lady J’s friend (can’t remember her blog name). It’s always good to see my girl SCool.

On Topic The one time I was the rebound, the guy went back to his ex. So I can’t say it was a good relationship. I’m glad I could help him realize how much he loved her.. :lol:

I’ve tried to enter relationships to help me get over an ex and it never worked for me. I finally realized that I had to let all the feelings for the ex run their course before I tried to be with someone else because it was never fair to the rebound guy.

Have a great day folks!

Morrus

June 7th, 2010
8:49 am

Curiously, in a supposed anti-incumbent year, most of the departing are not retiring but seeking higher office. We may recycle more than we replace. The bad news is that a frustrating 114 seats still have but one contestant. Two of them aren’t even incumbents, meaning they will affect state policy without being vetted by voters. And I have to think that we’d be better off if many had run instead for the Legislature — and cut down on the number running unopposed. Georgia’s problems are numerous. They aren’t going away. There’s too much stale thinking at the Capitol, on both sides of the aisle. New voices would be welcome.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
8:50 am

Good Morning All,

Hmmmm nooo I don’t think I have had the whole rebound girl work out for me. Hmmmm I think after most break-ups I have been more of a hermit crab..just staying to myself..and trying to figure out what’s what.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
8:52 am

@Randy..look if you are going to keep going to the UK you should apply for dual citizenship.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:02 am

Hi Kym

I may have to go to N. Scotland for a couple of weeks in mid July, but hopefully home for awhile before and after that…until the South of France contracts fire up. I am tired of being here, but only two of three of us in my company have British nuclear industry security clearances.

I am really ready to come home for more than a week or two at a time. When I have to think about whether I am kissing a woman with full effect or not, I have been away too long.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
9:07 am

Hola!

By now you all know my status on this topic. I take a seat on the bench after a relationship fails. I am not good at playing the rebound game, I guess you can say I watch the film, look at what I did wrong and heal. Usually during this time I like to hang out with friends and just chill.

As for the rebound thingy I can tell when I test the water too soon and I go back in.

Melo, are you in S. Africa yet? I saw World Cup coverage on GMA and thought about you.

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
9:12 am

Morning Gang!

Kym, if Randy gets dual citizenship, will that make him ineligible to run for President some day? Just kidding!LOL!!

On topic – I’ve been the rebound girl & it was a disaster. He tried to go back to ole girl, but she moved to California and got with someone else. Either way, I’ll hopefully never find myself in that situation again. And the minute I find out a dude is fresh off a breakup – sayonara! Dudes have usually been pretty upfront about their rebound status with me and I with them.

What I found myself running into more in the past were not dudes fresh on the rebound, but dudes still hung up over chicks they dated years ago that didn’t work out. Which is harder in my opinion to deal with than the rebound situation. Usually you know what you’re getting into with the rebound stuff. You know dude is not ready. But you can’t compete with a long-term memory. This person has been built up to be much more than they were in dudes head. I say that because if she was all that and what you guys had was all that, you would still be with her. That’s why I know, from experience, that guys can have a harder time than women moving on after a major breakup. Yeah, they may front, but those feelings run deep and years down the road.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
9:13 am

Morning, Tazzee… Pleasure meeting you as well. Congrats again on the nuptials! Still enjoying that lingering honeymoon state, I hope… ;-)

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
9:15 am

@Randy..

Hi there..awww..I am trying hard to find some sympathy for you..but I really would love to be stuck in the UK..and then off to the South of France. Although I heard the French are a special bunch.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
9:16 am

@Randyt- how was the date? Did you finally take the lady at the drive thru out? I knew you had the HOTs for her…LOL

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
9:21 am

Morning all!

If your heart is in the right place, then the next after the ex could work. I have a few friends that have gotten divorced who didn’t spend a lot of time mourning their exes. They put them though so much drama, it was easy to acknowledge they made a mistake and moved on from it.

As for telling the new person, if he asks and wants to know, I have no problem telling him how recently I’ve come on the market.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:23 am

@Prof

That is mean…but funny. Not just know but as of today she is still there in case I have to have a fallback plan. Nope, this was my last night in the States…was back for a week. Wnet out with a lady taller than me and “way out of my league” good looking. We both (I think) had a great time and I hope to see her again when I get back. I guess after a bottle of wine and a bottle of champagne, even I apparently started looking good ;-) The way to a woman’s heart sometimes is through the wine cabinet ;-)

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
9:25 am

Irony of the day..Elton John..played at Rush Limbaugh’s wedding. Got to love America.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:25 am

Prof…got ahead of myself…meant to say “not just NO, but hellz no”. I think the thought kind of rattled me. She is still there…and still available though.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
9:27 am

I usually take a break between relationships, but I can think of one time when I’ve dated soon after a breakup. I was pretty honest and straight forward about my newly single status and about not wanting anything serious. Looking back, I’m still not sure if it was a good or bad idea.

I do recall never leveling off in the relationship…never taking it too seriously, but I don’t know if that was because I was just too young at the time or if I’m just not a person that takes relationships too seriously.

I don’t believe I’ve always been told the truth by guys, so there’s a good chance I’ve been the rebound. I’m single now. I imagine that means it didn’t work out.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
9:27 am

Wow…. Elton must be running low on cash these days…

Professor

June 7th, 2010
9:32 am

@Randyt I could not resist linking you to the drive-thru lady :grin: I am happy you had a great date.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
9:32 am

@Swiss..I think hell has offically frozen over..I think this is one of the signs of the apocalypse.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
9:33 am

GM All! Hola Profesora!

i’ve not been rebounded (that i know of anyway), and the one time i thought i’d take advantage of a little rebound action just for the fun of it, it turned into a 3-year fling.

When you are fresh off of a break up, it seems that you suddenly meet a boatload of people that you feel drawn to.
um. no sir. i put my blinders on and cherish the down time.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
9:36 am

Professor- LOL. I was for sure Randy had cleaned up ole girl, ran her buy the dentist and showed her a night on the town.

I guess he’s all high falutin and only dates women out of his league.

Just joking Randy!! :lol:

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
9:39 am

Kym — I don’t know who’s the bigger hypocrite — Rush… well, for just generally being a sh!t-filled wind bag, or Elton for actually agreeing to perform for the wedding of a douche-bag who does everything he can to prevent those like Elton from marrying their chosen partners… I guess everybody really does have a price…

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
9:39 am

Sup tazzee!!! WOW that is a classy statement : ” you are glad you helped him realize how much he loved her”

Yes very classy indeed to say that

Also waving at Swiss and Lady J

okay, Melo you get love too

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:39 am

Luvbug…I will admit that my standards have been known to drop after a long dry spell, but they haven’t fallen that low though just yet…maybe a decade or two on a desert island might make me re-evaluate ;-)

Professor

June 7th, 2010
9:40 am

Hey czBrat You are right about the boatload of people. I guess I have had a few show up, but nothing of quality.

@Luvbug- LOL Randy know he needs to put her on his Blue Cross plan and clean her up a little. A few dentures, Great Clips, and Nordstrom should do the trick :grin: He will come back telling us how he remixed and remade via makeover the love of his life. J/K Randyt :grin:

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
9:41 am

Grand Good Ole Morning to everybody!!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
9:41 am

@Swiss ^5 on that 9:39

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
9:41 am

How’s it hangin’, i am…?

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
9:44 am

@Swiss yess and Elton’s price is 1million. I don’t know maybe the money went to charity or something. Either way…it’s just damn weird.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
9:45 am

Prof — I mean, really… Has he no dignity? That would be like Snoop performing for David Dukes wedding or something. Just does not compute….

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:46 am

Prof…no witty comeback for that one ;-) Not sure that those suggestions would be enough to take her above the bottom threshold though. Did I mention she also seems to be mayb 4′10″ or at most 5′? Probably a nice person but…

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
9:47 am

back to the topic on hand:
Honesty is the best policy. You don’t have to spill the gory details, just be brief.

If you meet someone shortly after a break up , just be honest and disclose (only when asked otherwise no need to mention that you broke up recently) the brief: example: yes I was was with someone we broke up not to long ago. From then keep it moving onto other topics

If asked why you broke up: just say it didn’t work out and we felt it best to part ways.
After you have gone to know someone for a while, if you choose to then you can go into detail but keep it brief in the beginning.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:48 am

On a serious note, some taxi driver here in Whitehaven went berserk last week (when I was home) and killed something like 12 people and wounded a dozen more. That is a monthly occurence in the States and we kill off more than that on a summer weekend in the ATL, but that is unheard of here in the UK.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
9:50 am

the way you end a relationship startes the precendence of how you will begin a relationship.
End a relationship gracefully, wish the other person the best and be open to what the future holds for you and hope that the other person turns out okay as well.
This is the start to receiving your blessings.

Wish someone the worst and leave with drama (example: damaging the person’s things, stalking, busting windows out his car, etc) don’t expect God to bless you kindly.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
9:51 am

@ I am…

Re your comment about saying “it just didn’t work out”, a lady I was involved with for a couple of years said something painful but true. She said that when she had been dropped, her philosophy was that “if it isn’t right for one, it isn’t right for either”. She was right in the lang run, but it still wounded.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
9:51 am

Swiss: Females don’t hang :-D LOL
on a real: I’m doing good. how bout you and the Mrs?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
9:51 am

Professor/Randy – I know right?! Randy don’t know what the deal is. There must be some truth to the movie Pretty Woman…wait…Hugh Hefner…old Republican men…NBA/NFL players…she needn’t worry. She’ll find her prince one day. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
9:54 am

Randy it is painful but very very true.

The heart don’t break even. One wants to stay while the other is leaving.

You don’t see it when you are going thru this but when you have the opportunity to process it, you learn that the things that are supposed to be happen , happen naturally and don’t have to be forced to fit.
Kinda like a square peg fits perfectly in a square hole.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
9:56 am

If Rush can get married there is hope for me yet :-D

LOL

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
9:59 am

Good morning. I would definitely take Professor’s approach and sit back and review, heal then attempt to get to know another!

@Tazzee ~ you are more than welcome. It was a pleasure meeting you.

@I am ~ hope you’re doing well/better this morning.

To all that came out Friday night, it was a blast!

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
10:00 am

i am… — Maybe I should have asked “how’re they hanging?” :lol:

I’m doing well. Mrs Swiss would probably say she’s been better — she’s in surgery right now. It was planned & is fairly routine, but she’s not gonna be a happy camper for a few weeks.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:00 am

@Randyt I didn’t know she was that tiny.

@Swiss so true

@Luvbug :grin: true

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:05 am

@Swiss I am wishing Mrs Swiss a speedy recovery!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
10:09 am

Leggs, I’m cool as a cucumber :-)

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
10:09 am

Hey Professor!!!!

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
10:09 am

Thanks, Prof.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
10:10 am

ALOL at SWiss! The girls are good.
LOL!!!

I wish Mrs. Swiss a speedy recovery.

DreamsMaterialize

June 7th, 2010
10:10 am

Morning
Have you ever been the rebound guy/girl for someone and it worked out great?
Depends on what you mean by “worked out great.” If you are asking whether the rebound situation blossemed into a full-fledged meaningful relationship, then it did NOT work out great. If you’re asking whether the rebound situation yielded satisfying sex and temporary companionship, then I’d say it worked out just fine.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:11 am

Hey I am….

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
10:11 am

@I am…

Actually regarding the lady I referred to earlier, I heard recently that she is back on the market…but I sure do not need another one of those “t-shirts”. “NEvermore sayeth the raven”

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
10:13 am

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
10:17 am

If you have just ended a relationship, do you tell the new person in your life how recent the break up was? :shock: New person?….what new person? After a breakup I retreat,reflect,heal and just do me. The last thing I focus on or even want to is a “new person”….it’s actually be a loooong time before I even entertain the idea, let alone act on it.

Does it matter if the last relationship only ended days or weeks ago Would you want to go into another situation….a fresh and new situation when you’re still licking wounds from an old one. That’s not fair to you or the other person involved….at least that’s how I see it.

Off topic: MAXWELL AND JILL SCOTT ARE JUST DAAYS AWAY!!! :)

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:17 am

Hello, :)

Never did or have been a rebound. So I can not comment on that dynamic, my dating life is not to eventful. LOL

Time to hit the airways, I will miss you all until Thursday. I cannot wait until Father’s Day this month. We are going home to show honor and respect to papa, he loves it. LOL

Take care of my horse, blog with you all thursday or Friday :)

Trevor0529 - The doctoral journey starts today

June 7th, 2010
10:17 am

Good Morning everybody,

I will be lurking for the entire week. I will very busy because I start my classes today so I have to start reading and writing papers. I am a bit nervous and excited about this whole journey.

It was nice meeting those who attended the happy hour on Friday. I apologize for not speaking too much. I will do better the next time.

Wishing everybody a great week!!
:)

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:18 am

Morning Blog Crew!!!!! :)

Tazzee it was a pleasure meeting you and thanks for coming out so we could toast your union!!!!!

Waving @ “I Am”!

Healing is the theme with break ups and moving on gracefully!!!! :)

Swiss I wish Mrs Swiss a speedy recovery!!!!!

Have a great day Blog Crew!!!!! ;)

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:21 am

@Sassy I agree! Sit down and heal after the breakup! Yes the show is just dayssssss away. I’m ready!

@Hey Trevor! Good luck on your classes

Hey Lady J!

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
10:22 am

but she’s not gonna be a happy camper for a few weeks.

And neither are you Swissie…there are two sayings that you will hear through the course of your marriage: 1. Happy wife…happy life and after/if children come then the other is 2. If mama ain’t happy the HOUSE(meaning YOU) ain’t happy. :mrgreen: I wish her a speedy recovery nonetheless, and hope all goes well for you two.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:23 am

@Purple where are you going? We still have Mon, Tues and Wed??? :grin:

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
10:23 am

‘If you’re asking whether the rebound situation yielded satisfying sex and temporary companionship, then I’d say it worked out just fine.’

Dreams – basically, that’s what happens in a rebound situation. Sometimes folks just want to feel needed or have their egos stroked…so what better way to do that than get your ego and private area stroked at the same time. ;-)

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:23 am

Hey Professor!!!!!

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
10:23 am

Thanks, Prof, i am, Lady J. Actually, just spoke to the doc — all went well & the Mrs is headed to recovery now.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
10:24 am

Good Luck Trevor!!!

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
10:24 am

@Purple Rain..bring me back a present..

@ Future Dr.Trevor..good luck in your studies..

@ Swiss..well wishes to your Mrs. for good health

I am cold and sleepy..

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:24 am

Dr. Trevor do the dag on thang!!!!! Congrats on your new journey!!!! :)

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:25 am

How dare you not mention today’s birthday boy?

Professor, :(

Happy Birthday Prince! Not I, but the real Prince Rogers Nelson. LOL

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:25 am

anytime swiss she has a great husband!!!!!! she will be just fine! ;)

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
10:26 am

It was nice meeting those who attended the happy hour on Friday.

DITTO! It was a blast :-)

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
10:27 am

@Trevor0529 ~ too funny cuz you only spoke if a question was asked of you. Glad to have met you. You seem real cool, albeit very reserved.

@i’m swiss ~ keep ice cream in the house and her favorite beverage. Hope she gets back to herself quickly and you’re not tar and feathered during her recovery.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
10:28 am

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:29 am

purple rain you are a mess LOL!!!! Happy Birthday to the Real Prince! LOL

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
10:30 am

:lol: @ Sassy. Yeah, I know. She doesn’t deal well with pain to begin with… I’ve had similar incisions to what she’ll have twice before, so I know what she’s in for & I’ve already braced myself for the next few weeks…. ;-)

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:30 am

Purple it is not respectful to wish him Happy Birthday since he is a Jehovah’s Witness now.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:31 am

Wassup Ms. Leggs

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:32 am

Professor, we are doing what is called the “West Coat Swing” over the next few weeks. Las Vegas this week, Sacramento the following week then back to Vegas.

Kym, I will bring you back some oily clothes. We sleep at the track in the RV’s and Long Hauler Semi’s. We see no parts of the hotels or fun stuff. I am happy I do not have to take the Road Trips anymore. They haul the equipment and the cars and we fly there once they arrive. Then fly home while they drive to the next destination then we fly back out again. :) Promotion has it’s privileges :)

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:33 am

professot hot mess go sat down lmbao @ you! too early!!!!!! LOLOL

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:34 am

meant professor! lol

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:35 am

Professor, some atheist still celebrate Christmas. LOL So we can tell Prince Happy Birthday. :)

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
10:36 am

@Purple Rain..I don’t want no oily clothes..or Pabst Blue Ribbon can either…

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
10:37 am

But LadyJ, the end of the yellow brick road only leads to a demented short man imitating a wizard! :wink: :wink:

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:38 am

@Lady J what did I do??? :???:

@Purple “West Coast Swing” that sounds like (1) a lot of fun and (2) a 90’s song or something. :grin:

Have fun and enjoy just the same.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:39 am

@Purple if you look up their doctrine you will understand.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:41 am

Leggs LMBAO I love The Wiz!!!!!!!!!! He’s a mess in that dress!

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:42 am

Kym, I am not a NASCAR hick. LOL our vehicles do more than left turns, not taking anything away from a NASCAR teams skills set. :)
IndyCar not NASCAR. LOL

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:44 am

Professor, I know. I was just trying to be humorous because he was not always a Jehovah’s Witness. They say that birthdays are pagan holidays, that were only celebrated twice in the Bible and on one of those celebrations John the Baptist was beheaded and on the other one I think someone had their cook hanged. :)

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:46 am

We live in a strange city, I am seeing some of everything here waiting at the airport. The most awesome is this lady wearing a halter top and her belly skin and fat is protruding and hanging more than here boobs. She is very very pale also.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
10:46 am

I do not like green eggs and ham…that’s what you sound like LadyJ with that rhyme.

Anyway, for all of you who espouse that getting under someone is the best policy for getting over someone, is this a true sentiment. I would think that although your physical needs are met, once you get from under that person your heart is still heavy, the wounds still fresh and you’re still alone. So, for you, how does a physical release help with your mental healing???

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:49 am

Professor, “West Coast” swing is fun if you are into racing and camping. :) We grille and drink every night if testing goes well. If it does not the only person who gets any sleep is the driver while we try and figure everything else out.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
10:50 am

do rebounds ever work???

Hmnnn….if both parties are in aggreeance and comfortable that it is a rebound I guess so.
To each it’s own.

SexyCool13

June 7th, 2010
10:50 am

= )

June 7th, 2010
10:50 am

w8 we had another racer last year

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:52 am

@Purple that’s cool I guess I make an effort to respect religion. It’s Monday blame it on the weekend, but I hear you. I just know some Witnesses and they get very upset over those things. You are right about the John being beheaded.

Are you all packed?

Poppa Grande now a Lindt Chocolate Truffle Addict

June 7th, 2010
10:52 am

Kym

Now, that you live down south. You will learn the NASCAR schedule well. You will be a captive in your area during those weekends. My parents know that I will not visit them down there during those weekends. I’ve done my time.

BTW, The next NASCAR race for Atlanta is Labor Day Weekend.

One more thing, did you see on the news that Hines is really thinking about retiring after this season?

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
10:52 am

lol Dr. Seuss Leggs maybe summer reading is a blast……lol

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:53 am

I am not a racer, I test frame tolerances. In order to race one of the requirements is to be short and nimble. I am neither. :) Not that I would if I could, going over 200mph requires a certain amount of insanity. LOL

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:56 am

Professor, yes. One carry on 4 pairs of shorts 4 pairs of underwear 8 shirts and a pair of cover alls. LOL

jtj, I forwarded that info on the race site you sent me to Sales and Marketing :) I don’t handle that kind of stuff but I hope it works out for you. :)

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
10:56 am

As far as the topic goes, I must say that I was more like Suisse.

“On the rebound” really meant that I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship. I said that upfront. Some foolish females tried to take that on as a challenge like their “cherry pie” was sweeter than the next female’s. But, I didn’t get into a serious relationship until I was ready for another one.

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
10:57 am

Poppa Grande, what series does Hines race?

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
10:58 am

@ Poppa Grande…off topic for a moment

Ever since that travesty known as the Super Bowl, I have been in a state of denial about the existence of pro football. Since then, what has been the assessment of whether the Colts will rebound? I have avoided it waiting for the pain to subside. You are the closest of anyone I know so wanted to ask an expert.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
10:58 am

LOL at Dr. Seuss please don’t get me started. I love the Places you will go…

SexyCool - Live. Laugh. Love.

June 7th, 2010
11:00 am

As a former relationship addict, it never occurred to me that I was *on the rebound*. In my immaturity, I just went from one situation to another to another without realizing that my soul needed time to heal and cleanly break from one individual before I involved another individual in my brokenness.

Thankfully, I have come to realize that the physical breakup does not always translate into an emotional, psychological or even physiological separation. At the end of my last serious relationship, I dated, but not with the eye of falling in <strike?love into another relationship, but just to have a good time, meet good people, know good people and come to embrace the feeling of loving myself first and resting in the knowledge that I am happy for myself, because of myself and all by myself and to allow myself time to heal.

***

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:02 am

Purple you travel light. I hope you are carrying matching boots to go with the coveralls J/K :grin:

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:04 am

Whaddup Lady J!!!!!

Trevor,it was a pleasure meeting you as well.
It’s okay that you were quiet. you have to do what makes you comfortable and seeing us all loud, cheerful, chatting it up, can make one a bit nervous.

On behalf of everyone, we all enjoyed your company .

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:05 am

Question: For those of you that take a pause between relationships, do you have a set amount of time you take?

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
11:05 am

Professor, I wont even shower until it is time to come back. Nice and “rank” for a few days. :) LOL

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
11:07 am

PRizzy

Kym is a Pittsburgh Steeler fan, and I was talking about Hines Ward. He was on TV last night talking about possibly hanging up the cleats after this season.

Randyt

I feel your pain. I am not the biggest Horseshoe fan. However, as a native of Atlanta, I have to hear my native New Orleans friends brag just when I had gotten over Tampa Bay’s (I have tons of family down there) gloating.

I think that I have said this before, but I am a bigger fan of the college game. The greed of the NFL is good and bad. It is almost like they tinker with who they want to win. I didn’t see as much bad in the Superbowl because the Colts were in the game until Peyton decided to do his best Brett Farve impersonation.

However, I don’t like the overtime rule change. Why just make it for the post-season? Some regular season games are just as important. Some teams are essentially playing playoff games in December just to make into the playoffs. Why not make it for the whole regular season? Why make ref have to get used to call that is only in the postseason? Why did this change come about only after Brett Farve forgot that Tracy Porter wasn’t on the Vikings? It just seems fishy to me.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
11:07 am

:)
:)

~Thanks to everyone for making our Happy Hour a success~

Purple Rain

June 7th, 2010
11:09 am

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:09 am

If I could chose, the best time to end a relationship is during the summer… that’s when there are events going on left and right and plenty of eye candy to look at so you don’t focus on the hurt.
Plenty to keep you busy.

Breaking up during the winter sucks.
Everyone is already coupled up, you have thanksgiving, christmas, New Years where there are a lot of “coupled up events”
and let us not forget about Valentines day around that time.
Ugh! the horror of a breakup during that time.

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
11:10 am

i can definitely relate to the topic. glad that i’m not in the frame of mind to do anything ridiculous. the truth is that there is no void b/c i’m still here and that’s plenty.:)

hey everybody!!!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:10 am

@Lady J…here here I will drink to that :grin:
:grin:

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:13 am

Professor: when I broke up with my son’s father, I took a year off from wanting to be in a serious relationship.
I needed a break. I had been with him for 4-5 yrs.
I did however go on one date (if you would call it that) but it was with someone that I had known for a long time and it was more like two friends getting together for a Christmas party. He was my date :-)

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:13 am

@ I am you are right! I went through a December break-up before and it was not pretty. :cry: You know what I learned not to worry about the “norm” and Hallmark cards during that time. You realize you need to make due and not have a pity party sitting at home. So it worked out and made me stronger

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:15 am

After a 4-5 year relationship I can see needing a break!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:17 am

in my twenties, I recall one time where I was in a serious relationship and when it ended I wanted to be in a new one but I found that i was looking for someone just like him that treated me better.
Of course, i didn’t end up with anyone and so I just went on dates but that experience taught me that I needed time to heal so for a long time I just dated and met people
When I was ready, I was in a relationship.
……As they say, when the student is ready the teacher will appear.
Each relationship you are in, whether you are married or not, it’s still a learning experience. …
Learning continues from the cradle to the grave.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:18 am

@I am…I love that 11:17 so true

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
11:19 am

You sound like a different person, I am…that’s good!

@LadyJ ~ you did good!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:19 am

Purple rain at you 11:05: NASTY!!!! :EVIL:

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:20 am

Leggs: been doing some reflecting lately…..

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
11:20 am

@ Prof

All four of my mjor relationships since high school ended in December (out with the old, in with the new I guess). I hate December with a passion. If I am not in a relationship in October, it is totally play the field and don’ t sttle for any reason until after February 14th ;-)

@ Poppa…Thanks. I’m a college fan mostly also, but since I was a Vol, the Peyton hero worship runs deep. The game did not start until midnight here in the UK, and i felt like crap for a couple of days between loss of sleep AND the frustration.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
11:20 am

“So, for you, how does a physical release help with your mental healing?”

Leggs — It can help in a couple of ways:

1) You know how sometimes women can get a little crazy around that time of the month? Well we dudes can also start to get a little crazy if we don’t cleanse ourselves of the baby batter. That sh!t’s gotta come out! :lol:

2) Speaking for myself, in addition to the physical perks of man-wh@ring, there is also the ego boost that goes along with getting random p-dussy on a regular basis. You ladies can do some damage to the ol’ mojo during break-ups, and just like frequent exercise makes your muscles stronger, freaking phlucking makes the ego (not to mention the wang) stronger. ;-) :lol:

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
11:21 am

hey everyone

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:23 am

Profesor: Here’s how to survive winter breakup

Make sure your circle of friends are all single when the inevitable happens.
That way you all can party it up together.

It stinks when everyone is coupled up and you find yourself suddenly single during the winter.
Everyone has their winter plans aleady made. Oh sure, they will invite you to make you feel welcome but that is as much fun as being taco looking for sausage and you’re at a taco fest.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:23 am

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
11:23 am

o.k. now i can really post b/c this dang blang thang wouldn’t let me before…lol

i can relate to the topic b/c that is the space i’m in now…had a recent breakup. i am thankful that i’m not in the frame of mind to make rash decisions. the truth is that there is no void b/c i’m still here and that’s plenty. when you have a significant other, it multiplies the happiness that is already present. i’m sure that opportunity will swing around for me again when it’s time.:)

it was great to attend the meet and greet on wednesday. lady j, you are a super hostess.:)

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
11:24 am

@I am ~ there’s nothing wrong with that. Reflect on, baby, reflect on!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:24 am

ALOL @ SWISS 11:20

oKAY….LEMME GO, GOTTA WORK.
I mean,….that’s what they pay me for, right :shock:

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
11:24 am

@PoppaG..Hey there..yeahh I know when the pest control fellow came he said to me you know you can hear the speed way from your porch..Oh joy!(this is sarcasm) I know about Labor Day weekend and I am not looking forward to it at all. I may take off that Friday before. Now on to Hines..I didn’t see the news this weekend..but I wouldnt be surprised..I will miss him something awful if he does..but he can truly say he is going out on top. Rings. Superbowl MVP..good times..good times. Hines is a class act all the way.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
11:26 am

“baby batter”….cute!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
11:27 am

@ Randyt…I feel ya’ just when I thought I had paid my dues for the December breakups you tell me you have had four. Whew!

@ I am you are right my friends were not coupled up, but most had plans going to the mountains, concerts etc. In the end I spent NYE watching the Peach drop and eating at I-Hop it was fun and little did I know that would be my last big hangout with one of my boys he died a few months later. So I am glad I had that chance…bittersweet.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
11:28 am

@Purple Rain..How can you not know who Hines Ward is? I am officially offended.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
11:28 am

Thanks F2B and Leggs!!!! Professor Chardonnay please and lets toast!!!!! LOL

Vacation Bible School starts tonight!!!!!! WOOHOO!!!!!! Gotta keep them busy before i hang them!!!! LOL my child and nieces and nephew!!!!! LOL

Melo

June 7th, 2010
11:30 am

Good morning folks!

The danger of being a rebound,for a chic, is ending up being a pinata.(sp)!

U dont wanna go into a new one while still licking the sticky wounds of the past but pining for ex dude in the menawhile.C

Melo

June 7th, 2010
11:30 am

Good morning folks!

The danger of being a rebound,for a chic, is ending up being a pinata.(sp)!

U dont wanna go into a new one while still licking the sticky wounds of the past but pining for ex dude in the menawhile.C

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
11:30 am

Oh Wow @ professor.
I’m sorry for your loss.
That reminds me: If you love someone tell them, you never know if that will be your last opportunity for them to know.
Live like tomorrow is never promised.
Today is the present, tomorrow is a gift.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
11:31 am

Leggs — Seriously… Show me a dude who shoots up an office, becomes a serial killer or blows up some sh!t ‘cos “god” told him to & I’ll show you a dude who didn’t get anywhere near enough p-dussy. See ladies, you all hold the key to world peace: p-dussy. Matter of fact, I think we need to start a movement: A Piece For Peace. Who’s in??? :lol:

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
11:33 am

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
11:36 am

@Swiss you are crazy! LOL

Melo

June 7th, 2010
11:37 am

Yes..tecchhhhhhnnnical defeculties!

U dont wanna go into a new one(s) while still licking the sticky wounds of the past but pining for ex dude in the meanwhile.Coz if u have conflicing feelings for old dude and new dude,then u giving both(tripple) dudes an opportunity to hit….

And we all know,the moment u got dudes making turns,playing roulette on ur cherry,u being upgraded to another category of trick.

That may end up being messy,esp in small worlds like Atl.When u trying to model urself out there as a nice chic,u dont wanna get under another when u still have feelings for the prior….But getting under another is a good way to phluck off the ex,for sure…

@Iam..luv u too.

@Proff..howdee??!!

Trying to work hard here since i will be sick on friday! :-)

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
11:39 am

Question: For those of you that take a pause between relationships, do you have a set amount of time you take?

I guess my statements could have been misleading. I’ve taken breaks in between, but they weren’t thought out and weren’t for the purpose of healing my heart. Umm yeah…I wasn’t that wise, just very lucky. Thinking back, quit simply, I kind of enjoyed being free…as in wow…finally no expectations.

There were times I was just not interested in guys who were interested in me or no one was checking for me. There were other times I wasn’t thinking about guys at all…just having fun.

Can a rebound turn into a longterm partner? I think so. It hasn’t happened for me, but anything is possible.

I can say that it definitely sucks when two people who are likely right for each other are not both ready for each other at the same time. Timing is something you can’t force, but it sucks none the less.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
11:40 am

A Piece For Peace.

LOL!!!

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
11:43 am

@ Prof

One of the biggest frustrations of a Decmeber breakup is exactly what you noted (and also really sorry for your loss too)…New Years. Ever fiber of your body is saying find another dance partner quick, but it also means usually taking “leftovers”. Not a good situation at the time, but hey, its all good in the end.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
11:44 am

Hey Melo, I’m flying to Rome for the weekend. Any tips?

DreamsMaterialize

June 7th, 2010
11:46 am

There were other times I wasn’t thinking about guys at all…just having fun.
Luvbug so you were experimenting with women? ;-)

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
11:47 am

LOL…No, no set amount of time for me. It was what it was.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
11:49 am

DreamsM:lol: My thoughts, exactly!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
11:50 am

Dreams- I wasn’t experimenting with women. LOL

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
11:52 am

Men?!…It hardly takes 1/2 degrees of seperation before you reach lesbian action. Too funny.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
11:53 am

“I wasn’t experimenting with women”

Luvbug — That’s good… so, we can still capture your first “experience” on video — for educational purposes only, of course…. Dreams I’ll man the camera, you handle the lights… :lol:

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
11:57 am

@ I’m swiss

Will it be on HBO or Showtime, or just youtube.com?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
11:57 am

Sure i’m swiss…insert a stunt double for me from beginning to end. Just hand me the check when it’s all over…and of course use my “home name”…Pink Cherry. Actually, lets make it cash. No paper trail. LOL

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
11:58 am

Nah, Randy — I work strictly for Skinamax ;-)

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
11:59 am

‘Dreams I’ll man the camera, you handle the lights…’

i’m swiss – why did i picture Dreams with a flashlight strapped to his wang. LOL!

Melo

June 7th, 2010
12:00 pm

Any tips?

Randyt??

(only women tips privided)

get urself some Azzurri jerseys, and dorn azzurri throughout the weekend….enough beer money and ofcourse lodging money so u have a venue for quick operations.

This is the most fertile time coz they are all World cup football crazy and wearing Azzurri,when u are a foreigner will score u major points with the women,in the sports bars.

The other tip,ofcourse shld be obvious…….avoid the Vatican. :lol:

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
12:00 pm

flashlight strapped to his wang

Where da do dat at??

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
12:02 pm

Luvbug — No stunt doubles allowed, but if it makes you more comfortable, I suppose I could allow a stunt tongue — as long as it’s my own. :lol: It’s all about the art, Luvbug… all about the art… :lol:

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
12:04 pm

Thanks Melo, I brought over three Team USA shirts to tick off the Brits at the pub, but hadn’t thought about wearing Italian when in Rome. Regarding the Vatican, it does seem unlikely that it would be a good “fishing ground”.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:05 pm

“…..flashlight strapped to his wang”

Errr????? :shock:

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
12:08 pm

@ I’m swiss…I understand your sentiment. Some will take this the wrong way but I considered it a compliment when a lady told me she thought I might be a lesbian trapped in a man’s body ;-)

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
12:08 pm

Totally off topic:

Subtle racist scene in hospital waiting room:

To of my people, and older lady & what seemed to be her adult son, sitting side-by-side in seats 1 & 2 of a row of 4 chairs (mom in 1, son in 2). Exit son to make a phone call or something. While son is away, enter black chick — cute black chick, mind you — who sits in seat 3 of same row. Son re-enters, sees new seating arrangement, walks back out into hall. A few minutes later, exit cute black chick & voila! Re-enter son. Coincidence? Methinks not….

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
12:09 pm

Oops… should have read “Two of my people…”

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:09 pm

Randy: your 12:08 has me looking at you sideways :shock:
:confused:

Melo

June 7th, 2010
12:10 pm

I brought over three Team USA shirts to tick off the Brits at the pub

@Randyt??

be careful wearing that,coz the Brits are kinda violent and drunk fans..the most violent and rowdy bunch among all european teams so make sure u safe.
They are nutt up there, esp when their team is losing.

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
12:11 pm

Hello All!!!!

I admit my first relationship after my divorce was a rebound. I was so hurt and distraught that I just wanted to feel wanted again. Luckily, the guy understood and did not try to take advantage of me. We dated for a few months, 1-2 a week, but eventually, his job and long hours and me moving to Smyrna put too much time and distance between us.

I laugh now cause my whole “dating” adventures lasted for about 6 mths only!!! From my divorce to meeting JT was only 6 mths, but I learned alot in those 6 mths.

The Meet-N-Greet on Friday was great!!!Glad to be able to out a face with a blog name!!! Hope to do it again soon!!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:12 pm

Subtly racial experience in Northeast area

Me: 15 year old cashier in grocery store
Lady who is customer with a few biracial kids: Are you mixed?
Me: Excuse me????
Lady: My kids are, I just love the color

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
12:12 pm

@ I am…referring to certain a personal talent and expertise :-) Some are better at some things than others and have been fortunate to get very high rankings on some aspects of… ;-)

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
12:12 pm

Me too Randy…I’m trying to see the positive there.

Wait…is it in the context of “tongue”??

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
12:13 pm

Ok…you’ve answered. Gotcha!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:14 pm

I took it the wrong way because I don’t view being black an accessory or a new fad, or a fashion statement.

I mean there are trials and tribulations that come with being black.
Some folks want to tan but they would flip if they woke up as a black person one day.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
12:15 pm

meant “a certain” not “certain a” sorry.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:15 pm

Randy, i am still looking at you sideways

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:15 pm

Let me fufil the needs of my palate.

Time for lernch……..

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
12:16 pm

@ Luvbug ;-) but also fingertips, and every other usable body part!!! But I think you are on the right track. If a lesbian can do it, I want to be able to do it just as good.

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
12:19 pm

Especially when with a lady who is a 10 or so on the Anheiser Busch scale.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:21 pm

SexyCool - Live. Laugh. Love.

June 7th, 2010
12:23 pm

swiss – I don’t see that as particularly racist. I’m not fond of sitting right beside a stranger if there is room to have a seat between regardless of their race.

Had chick sat in Seat 4, Leaving Seats 2 and 3 empty, I’m sure dude would have come in and sit down and you wouldn’t have noticed it at all.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:24 pm

Swiss : you are a black dude trapped in a white man’s body

you are always cool with me son :-D

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
12:24 pm

daily vent middle school is NOT my population!!!!!! WOOOOOSAHHHHHH! :(

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:26 pm

what are the rugrats up to ?

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
12:27 pm

December is the best month Randyt!!! :evil:

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
12:28 pm

“I don’t see that as particularly racist. I’m not fond of sitting right beside a stranger if there is room to have a seat between regardless of their race.”

SexyCool — You may be right… It just seemed a little suspect to me, because the guy was a younger guy & the girl was cute. I don’t like sitting right next to strangers, ether, but I generally make an exception for a cute chick. :lol:

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
12:28 pm

Middle school??

WOOOOOSAHHHHHH indeed!!

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:29 pm

awwww….slumber awaits thy…

Time for nap

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
12:31 pm

they giggle at every damn thing and horseplay 24/7 very needy and i always have to redirect……….high school and college is me sigh but I do welcome working summer school…..lol…….just draining

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:32 pm

aaight blog.
After my nap, I’ll be away from the comp for the rest of the day.

BigUps: Professor, Free, Swiss, Leggs, Lady J, Randy (still looking at you sideways)Brat, Trevor….Carlito (Prince or whatever)…..

TTY tomorrow.

Peace and Blessings…

Oh, how can i forget Melo (what would Jesusu do? , lol)

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:33 pm

Lady J, you’d be surprised. I know college educated folks that act like preschoolers.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
12:34 pm

Randyt

Greed is something fierce in the NFL. You got owners, players, and the league as a whole all trying to get paid.

College football suffers from greed, too. As this ultimatum to the University of Nebraska to make a decison whether join the Big 10 or stay with the Big 12. The Big 12 will probably disappear fairly soon, anyway. The Big 12 North never really competes well. Reports are that the Texas schools will become part of the PAC-10 which would probably become the PAC-16. Its about money.

However, the players get nothing compared to everyone else in college football. However, most college players play their hearts out for the pursuit of a dream. I really loved that myself, and love seeing the heart in the kids that put it all on the line every Saturday really in the name of pride more than money.

I am whatever you say I am

June 7th, 2010
12:34 pm

Whooosaaayyyyy for Lady J
and if that don’t work, there’s always a can of whoop.

I’m out!

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
12:37 pm

girl I will get in my car and leave before i touch somebody’s child! lol I will make it through!

enjoy your afternoon chica!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
12:38 pm

…stepping in.

Hey F2B

@Melo roulette on ur cherry I knew you would use cherry in one of your moments :grin:

@I am have fun see ya on the blog tomorrow

Who didn’t know about Supa Sexy Hines Ward from Forest Park :evil:
@Lady J I understand about the middle school chil-ren.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
12:41 pm

Kym

When I was a kid, Atlanta was the last stop of the Winston Cup Race Series (before it was Nextel/Sprint) . So it was a big deal to see who won the cup. It was always at the end of October. So, it was a regular weekend, not a 3 day holiday weekend.

I cleaned that track after those nasty #$%# *&((* *((*())&^$ people! I still don’t eat KFC after all the stuff that I found in those buckets!

Good luck in dealing with that track, though. Usually ace is the worst, but occasionally a Kicks 101 (country station) would hold their version of the flashback festival at the Atlanta Motor Speedway. That would be crazy. So would be the NOPI exhibition (usually little tricked out Honda Civics with loud azz mufflers). Many folks attended that thing too.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
12:44 pm

Suisse

I don’t like sitting right next to strangers, ether, but I generally make an exception for a cute chick. :lol:

I bet you get a phone call sometime soon after you do that from Mrs. Swiss.

Mrs. PG seems to call or text me when I am talking with a female. It just seems like she has some spidey sense or something.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
12:48 pm

@PoppaG and other Falcon fans..why did I just see a post on the website for my son’s football league that there will be a game where the kids will play at half-time of a Falcons pre-season game? Why must I buy(keyword here buy)Falcons tickets..to see my son play at halftime? Of course I am going..its my kid..but still…

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
12:50 pm

PG — You’re right… How do they know??? :lol:

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
12:51 pm

girl I will get in my car and leave before i touch somebody’s child! lol I will make it through!

Yes you will!!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
12:53 pm

@Kym we cannot have you taking a sneak peep at the Mighty Dirty Birds pretending like you are waiting for your son to play :grin:

@PG, I have to ask this I am sorry please pardon me, but which was worst what you found in those buckets or the movie theater gig you had. Tell us what was in those buckets. :grin:

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June 7th, 2010
12:55 pm

Why must I buy(keyword here buy)Falcons tickets..to see my son play at halftime? Of course I am going..its my kid..but still

:lol: You just answered your own question, Kym.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
12:55 pm

@Lady J I was trying to picture you like that lady in Texas…you know the one that beat that boy down. She put them “thangs” on him, but for some reason I cannot see you doing that… :grin: That lady was crazy, I thought she was a man when I saw the video clip.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
12:56 pm

@i’m swiss ~ the guy was probably shy and nervous sitting next to a cute girl.

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June 7th, 2010
12:57 pm

Random off-topic relationship questions:

1. How much must you really like a person to take em to the airport at 6 am?

2. An old flame comes to town for a visit. They are still interested, you aren’t. But they need a place to stay and you have room. But you also are seeing someone. Do you allow the old flame to stay?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
12:58 pm

Purple – Don’t know if you’re still here, but I’ve been waiting to hear more details on what happened with Gary and his wife. The little pieces of info I’ve caught lead me to believe that you may be right.

She may have tossed Little Bitty and left him there to die. I hope not, but my eyebrow is raised.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
1:02 pm

“i’m swiss ~ the guy was probably shy and nervous sitting next to a cute girl.”

Leggs — That could be, too. Note everybody has the stones of your boy, swiss… ;-) :lol:

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
1:02 pm

Ooops… “Not” not “Note”

Professor

June 7th, 2010
1:02 pm

@ARed

1. How much must you really like a person to take em to the airport at 6 am?

I like’em enough to give them the number to the car service. A black shiny towns car will pick them right up.

2An old flame comes to town for a visit. They are still interested, you aren’t. But they need a place to stay and you have room. But you also are seeing someone. Do you allow the old flame to stay?

Old flame, you cool and all, but here is the number to some hotels.

Trevor0529 - The doctoral journey starts today

June 7th, 2010
1:04 pm

How much must you really like a person to take em to the airport at 6 am?

A whole damn lot to take them to the airport before the sun rises.

An old flame comes to town for a visit. They are still interested, you aren’t. But they need a place to stay and you have room. But you also are seeing someone. Do you allow the old flame to stay?

In a one word answer. HELLNAW!! Charge em to the game.
:)

Professor

June 7th, 2010
1:04 pm

@Luvbug…I am headed out, but I want to know more about Gary’s death as well. She was on GMA this morning, but I missed it. Also they were on a TV show once talking about how bad their marriage was.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
1:04 pm

An old flame comes to town for a visit. They are still interested, you aren’t. But they need a place to stay and you have room. But you also are seeing someone. Do you allow the old flame to stay?

No…unless you don’t care much for the person you are actually dating.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:07 pm

@ARed ~ #1 = A LOT!

#2 – HELL NO.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
1:07 pm

@Amazon and Professor..This is truly a parental sacrifice..free tickets last year was on thing but paying..money..new subject quick..I am starting to feel woozy.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
1:08 pm

@Ared..that early it has to be love.. old flame..if I am seeing someone then dude needs to check into the Courtyard by Marriott.

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June 7th, 2010
1:10 pm

I am liking these answers…

Except for Professors answer to question #1! :lol:

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
1:11 pm

ARed – I’m curious, what is his purpose for coming into town if 1) He doesn’t have anyone to take them to the airport and 2) doesn’t have anywhere to stay?

Sounds a bit crazy. If it’s business, shouldn’t they provide hotel arrangements….and if you aren’t feeling them, i’d say Hell to da naw like everyone else.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:12 pm

Think about it, ARed. To get someone to the airport way before the sunrises is “creme of the crop” treatment. Not any average joe blow gets that treatment.

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June 7th, 2010
1:13 pm

Slim – Question 1 and question 2 are not related.

But the old flame is coming into town for some big party weekend.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:14 pm

Perhaps the old flame can pass out where he has his last drink. I’m just saying….

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
1:15 pm

Professor – I caught a slice of it on the Joy Behar Show. From what I could gather, the wife claims he fell (in the kitchen?? down the stair?? somewhere…I’m not sure) and burst his head. She calls the cops while he is still conscious but does not follow the advise of the operate to help alleviate the pressure in the area that he is injured because she claims she goes epileptic (or gets nauseated) at the site of blood. She pulls the plug on him only two days after he is hospitalized…without consulting his family.

And like you mentioned, they’ve been on TV (Divorce Court) complaining about their marriage.

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June 7th, 2010
1:15 pm

Perhaps the old flame can pass out where he has his last drink. I’m just saying….

That happened last year. :lol:

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
1:16 pm

Kym I am with you honey! lol

Professor I told yall that person was dealing with other issues and snapped my mind is clear I will know when to leave without accident i think….lol

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
1:17 pm

Luvbug I started reading Joy’s book!!!! it is really good! She is very cool!

Melo

June 7th, 2010
1:19 pm

To get someone to the airport way before the sunrises is “creme of the crop” treatment

@Leggs!!

thank u very much for keeping the other half of my brain.

If the treatment last nite was off da meter…why not??. :lol:

Any other dude??…unless u, the girl got plans for dude.

Ex flame lodging for the weekend in ur room??

I dont see Ared doing that,unless u deliberately playing head games with current..!

I dont care how civil u are with ex…he needs to mind his own bizz,away from ex as well coz if it were me,im territorial,that wld cause a dismissal…. foul on the play,if ex came too close.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
1:19 pm

Well I picked my flame up from the airport last week on my birthday at 9 something in the morning…what does that mean? :lol:

Ared – and if buddy can come into town to Party, which is a want, not a need…aka privilage then he should have his own overnight plans as opposed to relying on old flames…

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
1:21 pm

Professor

I put it to you this way….I need serious counseling to detach the association of the stuff in those buckets from KFC. So, I don’t go to KFC. As a matter of fact, I am eating Bojangles as I speak and watching Rockdoc of NWA on VH1. So, it isn’t about the chicken but, it is about the buckets.

I go the the movies roughly every week. So, there has been no problem there.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:23 pm

@LuvBug/Professor ~ first, she’s on GMA in a wheelchair and at one point the crew thought she might have a seizure. Anyway, she does say she asked him to fix her something to eat when she heard a loud smack. She said she ran downstairs to find him in a pool of blood and then called 911. Something about her is a suspect as that wheelchair. I’m sorry, I don’t know what this shyster’s medical problems are. Oops, there I go again, I’m sorry for calling the media whore a shyster. Dagnabit, I did it again. The ex-wife of Mr. Gary Coleman has been traumatized. Whew, got my senses back!!!

@ARed ~ that is too funny!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:24 pm

@LuvBug/Professor ~ first, she’s on GMA in a wheelchair and at one point the crew thought she might have a seizure. Anyway, she does say she asked him to fix her something to eat when she heard a loud smack. She said she ran downstairs to find him in a pool of blood and then called 911. Something about her is as suspect as that wheelchair. I’m sorry, I don’t know what this shyster’s medical problems are. Oops, there I go again, I’m sorry for calling the media starved queen a shyster. Dagnabit, I did it again. The ex-wife of Mr. Gary Coleman has been traumatized. Whew, got my senses back!!!

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June 7th, 2010
1:25 pm

I dont see Ared doing that,unless u deliberately playing head games with current..!

melo – I have a house with empty guest rooms so guests would go there. But I have had an instance when one refused to stay in a guest room.

But no, I wouldn’t allow it. I can’t say I didn’t consider it because he’s still a “friend.” But the rational side would win out! (besides, I wouldn’t want it done to me by someone I was seeing).

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:26 pm

@SlimCutty ~ he’s your “flame” while, in this case, it’s ARed’s EX-flame…big difference! :lol:

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June 7th, 2010
1:27 pm

and if buddy can come into town to Party, which is a want, not a need…aka privilage then he should have his own overnight plans as opposed to relying on old flames

Slim – You’re right. Initially it was just asking. But then it turned into, you can come get me, you can take off work, we can kick it…

Really dude? I’m not even the reason for your visit… :? :arrow:

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June 7th, 2010
1:28 pm

@SlimCutty ~ he’s your “flame” while, in this case, it’s ARed’s EX-flame…big difference

Leggs – Exactly. Besides, Slim…if you didn’t go get him…he couldn’t adore and shower you on your birthday. :lol:

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
1:28 pm

Lady J – I’m not familiar with her book, but she’s smart and witty…although she does have moments when she goes too far. All in all, she’s cool.

Leggs – Hell she doing in a wheelchair?? Yeah, the more I hear the more suspect.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
1:29 pm

But I have had an instance when one refused to stay in a guest room.

@Ared and preferring to go sleep where??

Not with u??

the thang with exes is,if hes welcome in ur house..in my mind as ex..there is a slight window there :arrow: (Ared’s puddsy,still..right in this position here) :lol:

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
1:30 pm

Ared – He’s hoping you fall for the whole, ‘we can kick it when you take off work to come pick me up’ thing just to make it seem like you’re going to get something out of the deal. So that also means you’ll going to be taking him to said party since it’s apparent he isn’t renting a car to get from Point A (airport) to point B (your crib)

@Leggs – ‘he’s your “flame” while, in this case, it’s ARed’s EX-flame…big difference!’ I know, i was just being a BUGGER. lol

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
1:31 pm

‘if you didn’t go get him…he couldn’t adore and shower you on your birthday’

@Ared – Dayum, was I THAT obvious? :lol:

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
1:31 pm

(besides, I wouldn’t want it done to me by someone I was seeing).

Ditto!! That definitely would hurt my feels.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
1:33 pm

When You Need a Lift: But Don’t Want to Eat Chocolate, Pay a Shrink, or Drink a Bottle of Gin (Hardcover) ~ Joy Behar (Author)

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June 7th, 2010
1:34 pm

melo – Yes, he declined the guest room and insisted on staying with me in my room. I wasn’t seeing anyone at the time, so I allowed it. I hope he enjoyed the blue ball special that weekend. *kanyeshrug*

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:36 pm

@SlimCutty, too funny, but you got your flame put out! ARed is trying to make ex know that hotbed is being maintained by a different crew member!

Melo

June 7th, 2010
1:40 pm

I wasn’t seeing anyone at the time, so I allowed it

@Ared??

aaaagh…niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice! :lol:

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
1:41 pm

@Leggs, now that I think about it…i actually didn’t get my flame put out :-( :cry: But if she does decide to let him stay, she should have her current flame in the kitchen bucket nekked scrambling some eggs with a cigar in his mouth when Ared get’s back to the crib with ex-flame.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
1:41 pm

hey baskball folks..

whats a dble dble or tripple dble……??

Boston did good on those LA Slackers last nite!!

:lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:42 pm

LOLOLOLOL, that would definitely do it, SlimCutty. No mix signals there unless dude is suffering with cataracts since he last saw her!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
1:44 pm

I wasn’t seeing anyone at the time, so I allowed it

@Ared??

aaaagh…niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice!

Melo – You would be the one to skip the blueball part of the statement. LOL

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June 7th, 2010
1:44 pm

But if she does decide to let him stay, she should have her current flame in the kitchen bucket nekked scrambling some eggs with a cigar in his mouth when Ared get’s back to the crib with ex-flame.

LOL@Slim, you know what kind of trouble you asking for with that scenario?
:roll: :lol:

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June 7th, 2010
1:45 pm

@Ared – Dayum, was I THAT obvious?

Girl, I was speaking on what my thought process would be too. :lol:

Melo

June 7th, 2010
1:46 pm

@Luvbug??

I skipped coz i assumed it was a nice experience even tho i was gon to ask what that means later??

go head and tell me Ared/Luvbug coz i surely didnt know altho i assumed mighty good thangs! :lol:

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June 7th, 2010
1:46 pm

ARed is trying to make ex know that hotbed is being maintained by a different crew member!

Yes, and when I told him he couldn’t stay…he didn’t respond. I haven’t heard from him since.

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June 7th, 2010
1:47 pm

But if she does decide to let him stay, she should have her current flame in the kitchen bucket nekked scrambling some eggs with a cigar in his mouth when Ared get’s back to the crib with ex-flame

*hollers* :lol: :lol: :lol;

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June 7th, 2010
1:49 pm

go head and tell me Ared/Luvbug coz i surely didnt know altho i assumed mighty good thangs!

melo – It means he slept in my bed, but he didn’t get none all weekend.

But actually, after day two, I didn’t see him for the rest of his time in Atlanta. He found some other chick I guess to provide the lodging and nookie!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
1:49 pm

Melo – It’s the same as what happened to you after you watched your wife shower, jump in the bed with no bottoms on and fall to sleep without you capping off the night.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
1:53 pm

ARed ~ you know men..he’s going through different scenarios in his mind on how hard he wants to “try” to knock your current out of the picture for the weekend! You know they all think they have “skills!”

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
1:56 pm

any afternoon funnies for this slow paced monday??!!!??? lol

Melo

June 7th, 2010
1:57 pm

with no bottoms on and fall to sleep without you capping off the night

@Luvbug/Proff??

that hurts!!

If u want to hurt a man intentionally,do that. Coz we visual,so when we see u doing that routine,taking time in the shower just be4 bed and luthering up on lotion,our heads are soiining with anticipation and not talking much or talking in excited expectations..not about sexx…….

U shld see his face when u say,”NO..not tonite”(in ur soft voice) .. :shock: and :evil: in that contortion on his face.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
1:58 pm

Leggs

You know they all think they have “skills!”

You know y’all ladies like our “skills”!! :lol:

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June 7th, 2010
2:03 pm

ARed ~ you know men..he’s going through different scenarios in his mind on how hard he wants to “try” to knock your current out of the picture for the weekend! You know they all think they have “skills!”

:lol: Girl, I know. He has a group of women hanging off his every word, so he should just leave me alone.

No way, I’m passing up the man who’s willing to take me, my sister, her infant and all our crap to the airport at 6 am…for that clown. :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:05 pm

@PoppaG ~ we sure do when you know what you’re doing! I’m talking about those who think they have game only to have us laughing behind your backs!

So, those with exceptional game, the above comment doesn’t apply to you.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:06 pm

I am looking forward to VH1 Hip Hop Honors The Dirty South…..

I’ve got Uncle Luke pumping through the house unfortunately, the bass set off my security alarm!

Cap’n D comin’ ….Cap’n D comin’….. Santa Claus comin’….Pocahontas comin’…fellas….woo

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
2:06 pm

Playing devils advocate: Another plus to taking someone to the airport at that time of morning is to ensure that said ‘flame’ will ACTUALLY be out of town so they will have free range to ACK up while you’re gone. :mrgreen:

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:08 pm

her infant and all our crap to the airport at 6 am…for that clown

@Ared??

I just hope u are a spot also during the nite,at least so he can load up ur bags while in a very happy mood.

@Ladies??

any of u ladies willing to host a world cup viewing party at ur very sexxy residence. I will contribute $200.00 for food and drinks and bring my crew of soccer luving beer guzlers.

(ur crew of sexxy trick friends will be appreciated) :lol:

Holla at ur boy!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:10 pm

Leggs

we sure do when you know what you’re doing! I’m talking about those who think they have game only to have us laughing behind your backs!

Are you tellin’ me that there are dude with weak game out there?! :lol:
They must be the dudes that believe that it is just the “motion in the ocean” that matter. .. just kidding

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:11 pm

Trick friends??

Then had the nerve to end it with a smiley face. You’re dead wrong Melo…dead wrong.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:12 pm

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June 7th, 2010
2:13 pm

Another plus to taking someone to the airport at that time of morning is to ensure that said ‘flame’ will ACTUALLY be out of town so they will have free range to ACK up while you’re gone.

Thank you for that Slim. :cry:

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June 7th, 2010
2:14 pm

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:14 pm

dead wrong

@Luvbug??

i forgot the delete but i take that back..

The offer remains..we will choose the games.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:16 pm

LOL No you didn’t and you don’t. What’s wrong with your house??

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June 7th, 2010
2:18 pm

Luvbug – The wife probably vetoed the house full of “soccer loving beer guzzlers” :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:20 pm

@PoppaG ~ honey, I too am waiting for the Hip Hop Honors this evening.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:21 pm

Another plus to taking someone to the airport at that time of morning is to ensure that said ‘flame’ will ACTUALLY be out of town so they will have free range to ACK up while you’re gone.

Not necessarily true. Just because you took me to the airport doesn’t ensure I got on the flight!!!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:23 pm

I’m sure she did, but she needs to say yes more often…she can’t just let Melo run loose out on the streets like that…for the good of womankind.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
2:24 pm

Not necessarily true. Just because you took me to the airport doesn’t ensure I got on the flight!!!

:shock:

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:24 pm

@Luvbug??

my house is okay for me and my other married friends..but my other single crew members bringing their tricks….??

that causes major problems with the other married women coz its like the tricks are soiling the house. :lol: i dont think like that tho…

so we have to plan some of the games away and plan with a bigger more fun group!

Am i making sense?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:26 pm

tricks are soiling the house

With what, trick juice?? j/k

You aint makin sense, but I know what you’re sayin.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:27 pm

VH1 Soul played 90s hip hop videos all weekend.

Right now, they got EPMD on. I have it on mute until a video come on that I like. They just played Scenario.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:27 pm

Come on, SassyMe ~ there are some elaborate schemes out there trying to catch someon doing dirty!!!!!

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
2:29 pm

Ared see Leggs 2:21 post…so there’s hope afterall. I’ve had that used on me before. A dude told me he was going out of town when in fact he was still here just with someone else. We weren’t in a relationship or exclusive, so not sure why he felt the need to lie to kick it. My ex also tried that number on me when we lived together. Fool said he was going somewhere like Kentucky but actually stayed in town that whole weekend partying it up. One of his friends ended up giving him away by accident. So when Sunday came around he got home and I asked how the trip went. He had made up all these things that he did, even said he went to the strip club and told me how many dances he got blah blah blah…so I let him go on and on until I just started laughing hysterically. He was looking crazy, so I said…ok now that you’ve gotten all that out, what did you REALLY do this weekend cause you sure as hell didn’t go to no dayum Kentucky….Kentucky, Georgia maybe. He finally fessed up

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June 7th, 2010
2:31 pm

@PG, I watched VH1 Soul yesterday and saw Kwame, Groove B Chill, Chubb Rock, Sir Mix A Lot. Those videos made me reminisce for a minute.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:32 pm

Melo – You know I’m just messing with you right?!

SlimCutty – That wild!

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:32 pm

but I know what you’re sayin

@Luvbug??

so are u at least considering my offer?? Ared,is ur guy a soccer fan?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:33 pm

so are u at least considering my offer??

No.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:34 pm

Ken Jeong won the MTV movie award for best WTF moment! :lol:

I must admit that I say that when he first appeared in The Hangover.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:35 pm

My ex also tried that number on me when we lived together

@Slimcutty??

was that the end of the relationship or uall made up??

(jus tell the truf) :lol:

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:36 pm

@Luvbug..u very cruel.

u dont even have anybody right now and u treating me like dirt! :lol:

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:37 pm

luvbug this fool on fb just uploaded a coleman cooler saying that is gary coleman’s casket I told him he is going to hell…….lol….gary went out how sad……. :(

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:37 pm

do yall think hangover 2 will top 1 boy that first one buddy! lol

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:38 pm

Actually Slim…another thing…I will never understand that about men. Why did he even need to makeup that convoluted story? Why, why, why???

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:39 pm

Trevor

The wife and I did the same. We talked about what was going on in our lives when some of those songs made their impressions on us.

I thought the wife went loco when The Black Sheep’s “The Choice Is Yours” came on. She loves that song, which is something that I really didn’t know. I’ve been with that woman for 12 years. So, we are still learning things about each other even in something as simple as music.

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June 7th, 2010
2:39 pm

luvbug this fool on fb just uploaded a coleman cooler saying that is gary coleman’s casket I told him he is going to hell…….lol….gary went out how sad…….

LadyJ, you chuckled a little bit, didn’t you?
:)

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:39 pm

See SassyMe, take that shock look off your face. It happens (LOL)!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:41 pm

I think that it will be hard to top the first one.

The first one had the element of surprise for some of the craziness.

Now, the audience will expect to be surprised.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:42 pm

I think that it will be hard to top the first one.

The first Hangover had the element of surprise for some of the craziness.

Now, the audience will expect to be surprised.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:42 pm

Trevor I did after I told him he is going to hell smh @ him he is a riot! LOL It wasn’t a big cooler either! We just need to let him rest in perfect peace dead! lol

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:42 pm

u dont even have anybody right now and u treating me like dirt!

Awww Melo. You know why, right?! I’m lonely, sad and blue…and I see you all happy and misogynistic and I can’t contain my jealousy. What should I do to ease this pain?

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:43 pm

And normally, I wouldn’t have watched The Hangover, but that movie was very good. Same w/Avatar!

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:44 pm

Is Steve Jobs eating any food??

That boy is really sick.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:44 pm

i agree poppa I son’t see how they can do it…..they 1st one it it……that is all! lol

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:45 pm

Lady J – That was cold…and (in all honesty) a wee bit funny…but completely wrong. I’m not laughing.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:45 pm

don’t that is poppa……lol

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:47 pm

luvbug I am trying not to laugh my ass off but I did ask for afternoon funnies went on fb and saw the madness! lol

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
2:47 pm

hello again. as usual, it’s been a hella-monday :( LadyJ, my nephew posted that same coleman cooler mess this weekend. too funny!! i have no idea if the ex-mrs had anything to do with the fall, but i’m completely disgusted by the recording of her emergency call …. she going on and on about how she can’t help him because all the blood was making her ill. now that’s shenanigans right there!!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:49 pm

Yeah ,the first Hangover will be hard to top.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:49 pm

Lady J…the movie companies don’t mind taking people’s money though. So, they will attempt another one.

I finally saw Ironman 2 this weekend. It was ok, but I think that I liked the first one better. I think that I like Terrance Howard in the role of “Rhodey” better than Don Cheadle. I never thought that I would prefer someone over Don Cheadle because he does in great job in everything that he acts.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
2:50 pm

I’m lonely, sad and blue

@Luvbug??

u got choices plenty..u just not taking them due to ur nice, 1/2 lesbo tendencies/conflictions. :lol:

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
2:50 pm

It happens

With that type of m/o(not taking the flight once you’ve been dropped off) it sounds like a “kick door” or a drive-by or somethin is about to happen.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
2:51 pm

speaking of movies (yous know i luv the slashums) … ordered wolfman this weekend and luved it!

ditto on PG’s IM2 review. i watched that yesterday as well. and, of course, whomever did the recording for the online movie didn’t stay until after the credits. ALWAYS STAY UNTIL AFTER THE CREDITS!!! :mad:

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
2:52 pm

‘was that the end of the relationship or uall made up??’

melo – eventually I got over it…but it was a rough time. That’s how it is when the trust gets compromised.

Luvbug – I tried not to laugh when I read that about G. Coleman, so I guess I’ll be seeing your friend in hell soon. And as far as guys making up stories, I have no clue. I guess they feel that’s a Need-to-lie-basis…maybe they weigh out the truth vs a made-up story, on a GETDAPUDDY scale. If the truth will cause the percentage of getting da draws to drop below 94.99%, they lie.

@Melo – check my math, do I have that percentage right? :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
2:53 pm

Kick door maybe. No drive-by, unless the fists are driving by your cheek to your nose! Everything is up close and very personal!!!!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:54 pm

Melo- All this time, I didn’t know I was a lesbian. LOL…and are you saying my being nice is keeping be lonely or that being a lesbo is nice??

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:55 pm

czBrat a mess!!!!! LOL I am really pissed with her and I don’t even know her but for real why fight with his family geesh I would have happily let them bury him…….smh………ex wife @ that didn’t know they had power but I know damn well I don’t have the power and don’t want it ……lol

Poppa your assessment is the mainstream assessment most prefered the 1st Ironman and everything you said I have heard commentators say so you are on point as usual…..i will get hangover 2 on bootleg though believe that! LOL Ironman 2 too…..lol not pressed for either….lol

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
2:55 pm

meant Lady J not luvbug with regards to Coleman Coolers ;-)

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
2:56 pm

czBrat – I think Wolfman is on Demand. I was on the fence about ordering it, but maybe I’ll check it out this weekend.

Sassy Me....If you ask me I'm ready :-)

June 7th, 2010
2:56 pm

Everything is up close and very personal!!!!

That’s what the hell I”m talkin ’bout!! I be the one to brang it just like that myself…..real close and personal-like…

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
2:56 pm

czBrat…

I actually went to the theater. The Mrs. was busy with some of DST sorors with something or another. So, I had some solo time, and a movie pass. As long as the movie has been out 2 weeks, I can use it.

I then went to the movies later Saturday (2nd time that day) and saw Just Wright, while wife watched Sex And The City 2 with one of her sorors.

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
2:59 pm

Slim hot mess you will kill that dude with your funnies you and him both i will be throwing up! LOL

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
3:00 pm

assessment on just wright sir I wanna see it too @ the theater…….

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:00 pm

I almost decided against watching Ironman 2. Terrance found out that he was replaced on the internet.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:03 pm

that being a 1/2 lesbo is nice??

@Luvbug??

like swiss and Randyt were saying this morning,having lesbo skills and using them on ur man is a real cap in a woman’s feather as long as ur dont make a complete switch. .

I suggest u dabble in that(lesboism) since u havent made a permanent man choice yet. Training is key coz the game is changing. :lol:

@Slimcutty??

melo – eventually I got over it…but it was a rough time.

Thank u for an honest reply.
Thats the nice thing with u ladies,when u relaxed, ur mouths can really talk.

Now lets have this cheating topic intruduced for us to discuss and i bet 100% of u will swear and lie ulneva be with ur man if he cheats.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:04 pm

Yes, Luvbug, order it. i spent all evening watching the game so i didn’t get a second viewing out of my 4.99 :razz:

ok, tell me PG. what did i miss at the end of IM2?

Beautiful

June 7th, 2010
3:06 pm

happy Monday bloggers!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:06 pm

Just Wright was cute, but I knew that it was going to be black romantic comedy. However, I went anyway….it wasn’t horrible. I am just not a fan of romantic comedies.

I love action films. and Horror flicks.

Speaking of which, they are starting the Scream series again. Jessica Roberts niece, Emma, will be in the lead role. Neve Campbell and Courtney Cox will be in it too.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:06 pm

it is now firmly against my religion to pay movie theater admission prices (plus the snacks???). no can do. it’s drive-in, online or on demand for me.

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
3:07 pm

I almost decided against watching Ironman 2. Terrance found out that he was replaced on the internet.

Poppa – Do you really believe that? I heard he turned it down because he wanted more money.

I did like the first one better though. Don did good, but I just prefer him in a different role.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:07 pm

Julia maybe? :)

Lady J-Count your Blessings, Cut your loses, & Follow the yellow brick road!

June 7th, 2010
3:08 pm

czbrat I am organizing a drive in tailgate thingy with my falcon crew the best…….lol

ok poppa i got you…..

hmmmmm I wanna go to the drive inn to see just wright…..hmmmm

ok be back before 5 lol

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
3:09 pm

Czbrat – I loved Wolfman, by the way. Anything Anthony Hopkins is in is good to me. I just knew he was up to something. I felt sorry for Lawrence though.

I didn’t realize werewolves were so savage! That’s the first time I have watched a werewolf movie.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
3:12 pm

Melo – Nothing wrong with lesbians, but that’s not my thing…never has been. I definitely would not do it to impress a man. I’m fine being manless…and womanless for that matter.

Being single is not the end of the world…although I think it’s funny that you would suggest being a lesbian as alternative…what next bestiality?

You never cease to amaze me sir.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:12 pm

czBrat…you did not miss much. It was a tease to another Marvel Comics movie…..

They talked all about SHIELD and the Avengers in the Ironman 2 movie…Nick Fury (Samuel Jackson), The Black Widow (Scarlett Johanssen), and Tony Starks used Capt. America’s shield to balance his machine, and the end credits show Thor’s hammer

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
3:16 pm

I loved the Thor comics growing up!

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
3:16 pm

PG & Lady J – Just Wright was a romantic comedy. And like PG said, it was alright but to me, it just wasn’t realistic & a bit over the top. Made me throw up in my mouth just a tad bit…LOL

@melo ‘Thats the nice thing with u ladies,when u relaxed, ur mouths can really talk’

Um, no shame in my game. Yep stayed with him after he cheated…not necessarily from that instance but other things. I put so much time & effort into it that I suppose I just really wanted it to work and crossed my fingers hoping he’d catch a freaking clue. However, as wisdom grows and life experiences teach those hard lessons, I know that unless a person wants to do something different, then it doesn’t matter what I do or say to make it work. They have to WANT to do better. Plus if i had been taking him back after all those little instances, why should he change his m/o if I chose to stay either way. It’s a Hard truth.

czbrat – If you got to an AMC theater before 12, I believe it’s only $5. Bring a big purse with your own snacks and you still get to enjoy the theater experience. ;-)

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:16 pm

Kimmie

That isn’t totally true. The story that I’ve heard is that he was the first to sign on to the project and negotiated that he would get paid the most. So, he got paid more than Robert Downey, Jr., Gwynneth Paltrow, etc. He would not renegotiate. So, the Paramount had an ax to grind. So, they went with a cheaper option.

So, him wanting more money isn’t totally untrue. However, they still should have let him know instead of finding out on the internet. That is like using e-mail to break up with someone.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:17 pm

it was really good kimmie. whatever you do, never watch WOLF with michelle pfeiffer and jack nicholson. ugh!!

thanx PG. always good to have another Stan Lee flick to look forward to.

and LadyJ, summer tailgates at the drive-in are an absolute fave of ours. so far, no hooligans like the ones that ruined things at sotg.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:20 pm

sounds good Slim. is it safe to assume that before noon the theater should be fairly empty so i also don’t have to deal with the idiots that luv to bump the back of my seat and talk through the whole movie???

Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:20 pm

although I think it’s funny that you would suggest being a lesbian as alternative

@Luvbug??

my thoghts are inspired by all the chics who try it(lesbo) but go back to hetero later..Anne hersche included. I think women find it easier….but all im saying,its not a bad idea as long as u are rooted in ur hetero beliefs.It enhances ones skills i think,esp if u open to new ideas.

Certainly better than a woman prodding themselves with a joyless,lyfeless cold stick.

(what are the after effects of lead posioning down there anyway??) anyone?? :lol:

Thats depseration bordering on the pathetic! :lol: :lol:

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:22 pm

However, they still should have let him know instead of finding out on the internet.
better yet, they should have just paid the man like the talented professional that he is; which is what they would have done for any other actor that helped them pull the box office numbers they did on IM.

Kym-Can you say triple double? I think you can..

June 7th, 2010
3:24 pm

PoppaG are you going to break out your Cross-Colors pants, Kango and kicks with the fat laces tonight?? LOL!!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
3:26 pm

Okay Melo. If I had to choose between living a foe lesbian lifestyle and being called desperate and pathetic, I’ll take the latter easily. I’m not into women.

I can’t be sold on it…not even a little…0%!!

I’m single. It’s what I am. It’s what I’m gone be until I’m not. LOL

No sticks for me either sir!!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:26 pm

cz..I got paid for the first one. They just decided to go a different direction in the second one.

I do find it odd that Rhodey got paid more than Tony Stark. That role was made for arrogant azz Robert Downey, Jr.

I would have more of a problem if they didn’t pay him for the first one, but they did. They went with a cheaper option in the second one. It may have been smart because cinema numbers are down this year in comparison to the last couple of years. I’m sure that the effects cost quite a bit.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
3:26 pm

czBrat – EXACTLY! At first I wasn’t too thrilled about being at the movies that early but my cousin turned me on to that. When you go after that time and end up paying almost $10 or more for 3D, then it’s not so bad going a little bit earlier…not to mention if you go with someone else.

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
3:30 pm

Thats depseration bordering on the pathetic!

Melo – No, I would say the option YOU suggest is all the way pathetic, not just bordering on it! I mean, you wouldn’t get on here suggesting a womanless dude try the alternative. To suggest someone go against their natural tendencies is horrible. That’s unfair to the other person too.

I know you are just being you Melo, but that’s disgusting.

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:33 pm

slim wait to lisa ray and nem come with the black version of sex and the city!!!! I am eagered to see….lol

czBrat the drive inn is madd cool with cool people!!!!! the grill and all!!!!!! lol

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:35 pm

Kym

are you going to break out your Cross-Colors pants, Kango and kicks with the fat laces tonight?? LOL!!

Almost…I got my “X” cap out instead of a Kangol. Old weathered furry kangols don’t store well when you don’t pay for good storage. :sad:

Green Cross Colors …check
Green and white adidas with fat laces… check
Dwayne Wayne style flip up sunglass….check
If I had time, I might grow and cut a flat top… :roll:
nawl…my eraserhead days are over…. :sad:

Kool-Aid flavor made….red

I think that I am just about ready…
Although, I am not sure tha I want to see the Ying-Yang Twins act a fool.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:36 pm

Slim, my s/o is a movie talker. he asks you to explain what’s going on or what he missed (while he was talking :mad: ), and he can’t help talking to the people on-screen. i already told him i will nevah go to a theater with him. we go to the drive-in or order on-demand and he can be as foolish as he please.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:39 pm

No, I would say the option YOU suggest is all the way pathetic,

@Kimmie??

Is it??

I didnt realize that BOBs are so mainstream in america with uall ladies!

I wonder what the mechanical equivalent is that single dudes resort to when in drought? :lol:

:lol: :lol:

Professor

June 7th, 2010
3:40 pm

…stepping in.

@Melo, tell us again why you and Queen are not hosting the par-tay?
:grin:

Wolfman was great!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:41 pm

poppa hot mess TAG TEAM BACK AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL J searchin’ for shades! lmbao!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:41 pm

wassup professor!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
3:44 pm

Wassup Lady J!!!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:44 pm

Wolfman was good.

My favorite film of all time is American Werewolf in London. Great effects especially for the early 80s.

Unfortunately, I judge most wolf movies (except Teen Wolf) by that standard.

Hannibal Lector is my hero, though. So Silence is a close second. I bet the obesity rate would go down if we made Cannibalism legal.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
3:46 pm

Lady J – I have a different outlook on Lisa Raye after watching her show. I’m not exactly sure what I thought of her before but I don’t think it was near how I think of her now. But that show would be called GhettoFabulous in the City…or HotMess in the City. lol
And what really happened with that show Girlfriends on the CW channel??? Maybe they should’ve done a movie. lol

czBrat – a little bit of talking is okay, but to cause BOTH of us to miss out on key parts of a movie is just plain irritating.

‘wonder what the mechanical equivalent is that single dudes resort to when in drought?’

@melo – I think with guys it’s more so Manual and less mechanical

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:46 pm

Lady J..
TAG TEAM BACK AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whoop, There It Is!!!

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
3:48 pm

Poppa – Do you watch Breaking Bad?

Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:48 pm

tell us again why you and Queen are not hosting the par-tay?

@Proff??

We will do limited hosting for married cpples but the main reason we will out host most games is coz married cpples are glum.

No spice.

Imaging single guys and chics,with a sprinkling of few selected married dudes with single chics in shorts shots,serving dranks and munchies…….never mind their “air head blonde” understanding of soccer??

u can pretty much even have a cover charge for folks who wanna partake of same.

Thats the thinking Proff..help me on assembling as many venues as u can!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:49 pm

slim those were always my thoughts I have never did lisa and far from a hater she is just not my cup of tea….lol

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:49 pm

LMBAO Poppa!!!! The 90’s were mad cool! lol

Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:50 pm

@melo – I think with guys it’s more so Manual and less mechanical

:shock: :evil:

I wld rather pay for a trick than abuse myself like that!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:50 pm

Kimmie

No, I don’t watch much TV. In the last year, I discovered a great “new” show called House! That should give you an indication of my TV consumption. Not much.

I did get in on “Lie To Me” from the beginning. BTW, it starts again tonight. I may catch it on hulu later in the week.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:52 pm

I have a different outlook on Lisa Raye after watching her show.
my niece has started referring to her as a child molester. i had no idea what she meant until i saw an episode of her slobbering all over her child.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
3:53 pm

“I wonder what the mechanical equivalent is that single dudes resort to when in drought?”

Melo — Ever heard of the “pocket p-dussy?” Or the “flesh light?” And then, of course there are the blow-up dolls. And, of you’re really hard-up, you could try the vacuum cleaner… Allegedly:lol:

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

@slim…i am in total agreement about lisa raye. homegirl doesn’t have a classy bone in her body, not even her pinky toe! smh

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

Poppa – You should check it out – excellent show. We are trying to catch up with it – watched 5 episodes yesterday.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

Suisse

You weren’t one of those guys that my nurse friends used to talk about. :lol:

There are men that take that Eureka moment a little too far…..

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

@czBrat…i too saw that episode which i found to be creepy. she strikes me as a slave to attention. doesn’t matter where it comes from. that’s really dangerous…

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

Hey cz brat….We went to the drive-in on Moreland Saturday evening instead of going to Stone Mountain. We brought our little portable gas grill and some brats and ate and saw Shrek Forever. (I think we enjoyed it more than the kids).

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

“I wld rather pay for a trick than abuse myself like that!”

Melo — A trick might try to jack your azz… or give you the herp. But Rosie Palm can always be trusted…. :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:57 pm

Kimmie,

Thanx. I may just do that.

I grew with a friend that worked a movie theater and the love of movies just stayed with me. Plus, it gets me out of the house. That darn telephone can get me on a mission even on days that I planned to do nothing but sit around and scratch…. sorry TMI

But, my schedule just makes it hard to keep up shows. The last real show that I tried to keep up with was Heroes, but they lost me after the writer’s strike a couple of years ago.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
3:57 pm

PG — Not I, said the swiss. But I have nurse friends, too, so I’ve heard tales… :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

@Melo ~ I know you aren’t really surprised that the answer would be more manual than mechanical. Other than a penis pump, why use one if you can’t release the buildup into one’s honey pot???

If you guys really want to laugh, watch WipeOut. It premiered last Tuesday (?) and I had belly laughs with outright cuzzing for 2 hours!!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

hey jtj we did stn mtn abd had a blast!!!!! it was great it didn’t rain sat!!!!!!

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
3:59 pm

or has a headache…allegedly.

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:59 pm

jtj I agree shrek forever I LOVED to me its for adults….lol the kids love the graphics but the storyline was my fav shrek of all times!!!!!! I am a shrek fan buddy!!!!!! LOL

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

Ever heard of the “pocket p-dussy?” Or the “flesh light?” And then, of course there are the blow

@Swiss??

i know none about dat..elucidate.

all i know is with a trick, u roll 2 condoms in one just in case…..the only downdside with condoms is the thoght of throbbing,then pausing to check for condom movement and proper placement…. aagghhhhhh.

Havnt done that in almost 20 years….my trick/condom days are waaaaay long time ago,u can imagine! :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

Not straight cuzzing, just awww shyt (rolling with laughter)…damn (rolling with laughter), I know that shyt hurt (rolling with laughter)….

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

HiYa JtJ! i’m glad you had a good time. it’s great that kids get in free, fill their tummys, watch a movie, put em to sleep … then the grown folk can chillax with a beverage and a cool breeze and watch movies til 2 am if you dare want to.

btw … i had a great time meeting my fellow bloggers friday. thanks to Lady J and Leggs for getting us together!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
4:02 pm

thanks for coming out czbrat!!!!! it was a nice affair!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:03 pm

I wld rather pay for a trick than abuse myself like that!

I know people who thought like that, some of whom went out like Eric Wright aka Easy E.

Besides tha, the only way that rosie palm can make a clap, but not give you the clap. If you are clean, so is Rosie.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:04 pm

A trick might try to jack your azz

@Swiss?

in africa,some tricks got magic powers(acquired from powerful sangomas)..if u dont pay,u lose ur wang……

wang str8 up missing next time u want to pee…… :shock: :evil:

That shld have been a warning for those attending the world cup! :lol:

@Swiss..I will tell u this story that happened long back later on. :lol:

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
4:04 pm

Lady J, tentative date for jazz at the aquarium is the 25th.

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

Hey Lady J!!!! We had put Stone Mountain on the back burner and then realized it was too late to try to go. Glad you all had a great time!!!

@ czbrat…We wanted to stay for the double feature to see Iron Man 2, but it started lightning so we called it a night. Alot of people were movie hopping and turning around to see Just Wright. I wanted to see it, but I will wait until next weekend.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

single chics in shorts shots,serving dranks and munchies…….never mind their “air head blonde” understanding of soccer??

@Melo now that I understand your needs Professor Profit can handle that for you. —-> Take yo’ azz to Hooters and that will be $200, please. They have the women in short shorts serving you. :grin:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

You are welcome, czB!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

Oh my ga swiss!! I’ve never heard of those things. The vacuum cleaner?? Dang!!

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:07 pm

Okay, someone on here mentioned watching “My Sister’s Keeper” on here a while back…I watched it Saturday night on Demand and cried like a baby. That movie was so sad, but good at the same time.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:08 pm

@Melo on second thought tell me if $20 cover charge will work, and the back of the house is the VIP line $50 to get in and watch out for the brown smelly stuff in the far right corner of the property…that’s call dog ish and a few rose bushes if you are leaving VIP when it is dark.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:10 pm

@JtJ “My Sister’s Keeper” was wondeful I did not cry, now the “Last Song” made want to shed some tears, but I was just thinking about my daddy and how I miss him to pieces

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:10 pm

Luvbug…

I work in the legal field and I have friends in the medical field….ohhh, the stories of what people do when they have an itch that need scratching….so to speak.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:11 pm

Leggs- Wipeout is funny.

Melo- You know good and well nobody was missing their thang when they went to pee. LOL

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
4:11 pm

Well d@mn, Melo! That brings a whole new meaning to getting jacked… Note to self: never bang a magic trick… :lol:

Luvbug — I have seen such things in “novelty” stores…. And when I say “pocket p-dussy” I’m not talking ’bout a midget chick…. :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:12 pm

My wife was watching “My Sister’s Keeper” one night when I came home.

I got my Godfather trilogy collection and went to office and put in Godfather II. Thanks to someone mentioning it on this blog, I knew to stay clear of that thing.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:12 pm

PG- But the vacuum cleaner?? That’s cwazaaay! Poor little vacuum cleaner. It just wants to clean. LOL

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:14 pm

Proff/Luvbug??

ok forget uall

Im gon book a room at some hotel in dwtown A and invite some of uall but the dress code will be strict. U snooze u lose.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:15 pm

Melo- You know good and well nobody was missing their thang when they went to pee. LOL

I thought th exact same thing.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:15 pm

I choose snooze and lose.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:15 pm

I guess that those dudes wanted to be cleaned….LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:16 pm

@Melo, why are you forgetting us. I had you a VIP section once you get through the dog ish and rose bushes and pay your $50 at the door. I will get a midget in a silk bathrobe to serve y’all drinks, beer etc.

I thought we had a deal :???:

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:17 pm

@Professor…I guess I am just a big baby..Lol. That girl was so brave towards death.

@ Poppa- You should have watched it, it had a great legal debate in it, medical emancipation of a minor. You really should check it out.

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:17 pm

@Professor…I guess I am just a big baby..Lol. That girl was so brave towards death.

@ Poppa- You should have watched it, it had a great legal debate in it, medical emancipation of a minor. You really should check it out.

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
4:18 pm

cool beans czbrat keep me posted…….

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:19 pm

I will get a midget in a silk bathrobe??

Ohh, I missed that part. It’s worth reconsidering. LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:19 pm

@czBrat I forgot to tell you that I was a bit disappointed in meeting you after you didn’t sneak in the stewed chicken, rice and beans. I had to order off the menu :cry: Otherwise you were a joy :grin:

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:21 pm

JtJ~ The story was beautiful I think I was in a chill mode that day and really didn’t think about the movie. For some reason I don’t cry over movies…now tell me someone hurt a horse or a dog got hit and I will cry you a river.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:22 pm

Melo- You know good and well nobody was missing their thang when they went to pee. LOL

@Luvbug!

it happens, im serious..there are tricks well known for making ur wangs dissapapear if u dont pay.

One time,this dude went and hit but did have enough money..so the trick said okay,make sure u bring my money later. She kept the disspossed wangs in some bamboo container and she had Swiss,Randyt etc all dudes wangs in there that had been confisticated for none payment.

Now one dude had a really small wang and came back to pay. After paying,trick says,”see there,see that container,get ur wang from there”

Now dude was attempting to come up in the wang area and was attemtping to steal another dudes’s Big confisticated wang in same bamboo thang…

Trick jumped on him yelling,”Stop it,THATS Swiss’ wang,urs is that lil one in the corner”!

:lol: :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

I guess that I will check it out.

On another note, I didn’t know that Ms. Afeni Shakur was arrested recently (April 2010) for felony drug possession and related charges.

She is a nice lady, but I guess that she has had a hard time. I don’t know if she still lives in Atlanta or not.

I find this out as “I get around” come on my Itunes playlist…. :sad”

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

I wasn’t a joy, Prof (lol)?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

Whateva Melo!! LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:25 pm

I cannot stop laughing at Melo’s 4:22…dammit I will throw you a party if you tell stories like that during halftime and pre/post game. That was the funniest thing ever!!!!!!! ROTFLMBAO

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:27 pm

Luvbug

I will get a midget in a silk bathrobe??

Who brought Jermaine Dupri into this deal?

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:29 pm

Leggs you were everything that I thought you would be and much more. However I have been cursing you since Saturday. That #^$^#&%!@# ab roller made me sore as heck! :grin:

Thanks so much for it, but the next time I’ll take a scoop of mac & cheese with a slice of pound cake wrapped in wax paper :cool:

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:29 pm

PG – That’s more a troll in a robe. I’ll pass. LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:30 pm

Thinking for a minute…I can get two or four midgets in silk robes to serve Melo and the crew. Surely I can give them 1/2 the rate or get a BOGO discount.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:32 pm

@Prof ~ I apologize for my bossiness (LOL). That’s why I was so willing to give that dang thing away. I used it once and said HELL NO. I hear the results are great, but once I hit my chin on the floor (bad form), I knew I wasn’t going to use it again (LOL).

Ok, people, I’m going to start selling scoops of mac n cheese at $.75 a scoop!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:37 pm

I am going back to read Melo’s 4:22 for one last laugh.

@Leggs how much is the pound cake? Do you have a .99 menu?

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
4:39 pm

Who brought Jermaine Dupri into this deal?

LOL!!!!

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
4:40 pm

Dang Melo, I’m afraid to look down in the bathroom now…no wait, there it is…can breathe now.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:42 pm

@PoppaG ~ would you be so kind and leave the end of the day quote?…thank you.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:42 pm

uall dont believe african juju..do u??

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:44 pm

@Leggs??

can i ask u this coz im kinda concerned.
is there a dude thats hitting that..coz every day since 2 weeks back u leaving be4 its time..what cld be the motivator making u to dip..gotta be a man.

whats up with that??

Is the viagra guy or another guy in play now?? .

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:44 pm

Melo ,

I have heard the stories and I have saw one guy move up the ladder very quickly in his career he told a co-worker she would benefit from his success when she took over some space that belong to him…apparently his sister sent him some stuff to bless the walls.

Have a great evening gang!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:45 pm

@Melo ~ you’re right, it it a man making me dip early….my boss is on a 2 week vacation!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:45 pm

:shock:

She is getting out early

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:46 pm

Also, Melo, I thought I not hog the end of the day quotes and offer others to put a quote they liked or felt. This is an equal opportunity blog and just attempting to be fair!!!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:47 pm

HUSH Prof! That would be a good reason, but NOT!!!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:47 pm

Ok…Leggs…

I will use one that my best friend tells me from time to time….

“Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.” – John Wooden

It was the quote that I thought about when I heard that he died this weekend.

My wife (who has heard this quote from me from time to time) says that a couple of her friends used that quote on facebook today.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
4:48 pm

melo 4:22—> :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
4:48 pm

Ared see Leggs 2:21 post…so there’s hope afterall.

:lol: I paid you no mind SlimShady! ;) I trust that man implicitly.

But funny you bring that up, I do have a friend who is going to see an old flame. He has a girlfriend but he’s still not sure about their future. I wonder what he’s gonna tell her he’s doing all weekend.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:50 pm

@PoppaG ~ Dang…that’s the quote I thought of too when he died. WOW, and I picked you and you came up with that…whew!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:53 pm

Leggs…

It was that or words words by the Da Dawg Poung….”It Ain’t No Fun if the Homeys can’t have none..” j/k

I see that I chose wisely.

Great minds think a lot.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:54 pm

and alike … :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:55 pm

I wanted a Cali link for ARed since she is from the left coast.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:55 pm

Yes, indeed, you definitely picked wisely. :lol: Thank you!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:56 pm

ARed…He will probably say nothing or only say that he is catching up with an old friend.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
4:57 pm

Ared – Well, I’d love to hear what he decides to tell her too. So when I hear that same response I’ll know that that it’s all TOMFOOLERY!!! lol

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:59 pm

And who said you couldn’t learn anything from this blog????

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
5:00 pm

Have a good evening folks…

I gotta get my prep steps back up to par for tonight. No one can do that dance better than me in the Western Hemisphere. I would say the world but I have seen some of those Bollywood movies and they can dance too.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
5:00 pm

We can make this 2 end of the day quotes in one day…anybody?

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

I’ll let you know. He was living with his girl while he was changing homes, but he should have his own spot again by the time my friend comes, otherwise, she might be making that trip for nothing!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

Don’t allow what you do to affect who you are.

Good night!

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

Thanks for the WESTSIDE love, PG.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

John Wooden again, hmmm

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
5:03 pm

I love the westside so much, that I am watching an Oaktown 357 video right now.

I love the land of earthquakes and the 405.