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The danger of dating on the rebound

When you are fresh off of a break up, it seems that you suddenly meet a boatload of people that you feel drawn to.  It’s probably the void your ex left that is pushing you to fill it with the first hottie that gets your attention.  It’s hard to see this when you are going through it though.  This is just one of the risks involved in dating on the rebound.

When you meet someone new, we always say not to mention or bring up the ex, especially on a first date.  The problem is that if the ex isn’t completely out of their system…or the picture, you don’t know if they are truly ready to starting something meaningful with you.

If you have just ended a relationship, do you tell the new person in your life how recent the break up was?  Does it matter if the last relationship only ended days or weeks ago?

Have you ever been the rebound guy/girl for someone and it worked out great?

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Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:22 pm

Melo- You know good and well nobody was missing their thang when they went to pee. LOL

@Luvbug!

it happens, im serious..there are tricks well known for making ur wangs dissapapear if u dont pay.

One time,this dude went and hit but did have enough money..so the trick said okay,make sure u bring my money later. She kept the disspossed wangs in some bamboo container and she had Swiss,Randyt etc all dudes wangs in there that had been confisticated for none payment.

Now one dude had a really small wang and came back to pay. After paying,trick says,”see there,see that container,get ur wang from there”

Now dude was attempting to come up in the wang area and was attemtping to steal another dudes’s Big confisticated wang in same bamboo thang…

Trick jumped on him yelling,”Stop it,THATS Swiss’ wang,urs is that lil one in the corner”!

:lol: :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

I guess that I will check it out.

On another note, I didn’t know that Ms. Afeni Shakur was arrested recently (April 2010) for felony drug possession and related charges.

She is a nice lady, but I guess that she has had a hard time. I don’t know if she still lives in Atlanta or not.

I find this out as “I get around” come on my Itunes playlist…. :sad”

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

I wasn’t a joy, Prof (lol)?

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:23 pm

Whateva Melo!! LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:25 pm

I cannot stop laughing at Melo’s 4:22…dammit I will throw you a party if you tell stories like that during halftime and pre/post game. That was the funniest thing ever!!!!!!! ROTFLMBAO

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:27 pm

Luvbug

I will get a midget in a silk bathrobe??

Who brought Jermaine Dupri into this deal?

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:29 pm

Leggs you were everything that I thought you would be and much more. However I have been cursing you since Saturday. That #^$^#&%!@# ab roller made me sore as heck! :grin:

Thanks so much for it, but the next time I’ll take a scoop of mac & cheese with a slice of pound cake wrapped in wax paper :cool:

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:29 pm

PG – That’s more a troll in a robe. I’ll pass. LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:30 pm

Thinking for a minute…I can get two or four midgets in silk robes to serve Melo and the crew. Surely I can give them 1/2 the rate or get a BOGO discount.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:32 pm

@Prof ~ I apologize for my bossiness (LOL). That’s why I was so willing to give that dang thing away. I used it once and said HELL NO. I hear the results are great, but once I hit my chin on the floor (bad form), I knew I wasn’t going to use it again (LOL).

Ok, people, I’m going to start selling scoops of mac n cheese at $.75 a scoop!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:37 pm

I am going back to read Melo’s 4:22 for one last laugh.

@Leggs how much is the pound cake? Do you have a .99 menu?

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
4:39 pm

Who brought Jermaine Dupri into this deal?

LOL!!!!

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
4:40 pm

Dang Melo, I’m afraid to look down in the bathroom now…no wait, there it is…can breathe now.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:42 pm

@PoppaG ~ would you be so kind and leave the end of the day quote?…thank you.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:42 pm

uall dont believe african juju..do u??

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:44 pm

@Leggs??

can i ask u this coz im kinda concerned.
is there a dude thats hitting that..coz every day since 2 weeks back u leaving be4 its time..what cld be the motivator making u to dip..gotta be a man.

whats up with that??

Is the viagra guy or another guy in play now?? .

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:44 pm

Melo ,

I have heard the stories and I have saw one guy move up the ladder very quickly in his career he told a co-worker she would benefit from his success when she took over some space that belong to him…apparently his sister sent him some stuff to bless the walls.

Have a great evening gang!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:45 pm

@Melo ~ you’re right, it it a man making me dip early….my boss is on a 2 week vacation!

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:45 pm

:shock:

She is getting out early

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:46 pm

Also, Melo, I thought I not hog the end of the day quotes and offer others to put a quote they liked or felt. This is an equal opportunity blog and just attempting to be fair!!!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:47 pm

HUSH Prof! That would be a good reason, but NOT!!!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:47 pm

Ok…Leggs…

I will use one that my best friend tells me from time to time….

“Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.” – John Wooden

It was the quote that I thought about when I heard that he died this weekend.

My wife (who has heard this quote from me from time to time) says that a couple of her friends used that quote on facebook today.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
4:48 pm

melo 4:22—> :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
4:48 pm

Ared see Leggs 2:21 post…so there’s hope afterall.

:lol: I paid you no mind SlimShady! ;) I trust that man implicitly.

But funny you bring that up, I do have a friend who is going to see an old flame. He has a girlfriend but he’s still not sure about their future. I wonder what he’s gonna tell her he’s doing all weekend.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:50 pm

@PoppaG ~ Dang…that’s the quote I thought of too when he died. WOW, and I picked you and you came up with that…whew!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:53 pm

Leggs…

It was that or words words by the Da Dawg Poung….”It Ain’t No Fun if the Homeys can’t have none..” j/k

I see that I chose wisely.

Great minds think a lot.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:54 pm

and alike … :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:55 pm

I wanted a Cali link for ARed since she is from the left coast.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:55 pm

Yes, indeed, you definitely picked wisely. :lol: Thank you!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:56 pm

ARed…He will probably say nothing or only say that he is catching up with an old friend.

SlimCutty

June 7th, 2010
4:57 pm

Ared – Well, I’d love to hear what he decides to tell her too. So when I hear that same response I’ll know that that it’s all TOMFOOLERY!!! lol

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:59 pm

And who said you couldn’t learn anything from this blog????

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
5:00 pm

Have a good evening folks…

I gotta get my prep steps back up to par for tonight. No one can do that dance better than me in the Western Hemisphere. I would say the world but I have seen some of those Bollywood movies and they can dance too.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
5:00 pm

We can make this 2 end of the day quotes in one day…anybody?

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

I’ll let you know. He was living with his girl while he was changing homes, but he should have his own spot again by the time my friend comes, otherwise, she might be making that trip for nothing!

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

Don’t allow what you do to affect who you are.

Good night!

AmazonRed™ - Stupid refs. Go Lakers!

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

Thanks for the WESTSIDE love, PG.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
5:02 pm

John Wooden again, hmmm

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
5:03 pm

I love the westside so much, that I am watching an Oaktown 357 video right now.

I love the land of earthquakes and the 405.