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The danger of dating on the rebound

When you are fresh off of a break up, it seems that you suddenly meet a boatload of people that you feel drawn to.  It’s probably the void your ex left that is pushing you to fill it with the first hottie that gets your attention.  It’s hard to see this when you are going through it though.  This is just one of the risks involved in dating on the rebound.

When you meet someone new, we always say not to mention or bring up the ex, especially on a first date.  The problem is that if the ex isn’t completely out of their system…or the picture, you don’t know if they are truly ready to starting something meaningful with you.

If you have just ended a relationship, do you tell the new person in your life how recent the break up was?  Does it matter if the last relationship only ended days or weeks ago?

Have you ever been the rebound guy/girl for someone and it worked out great?

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Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:48 pm

tell us again why you and Queen are not hosting the par-tay?

@Proff??

We will do limited hosting for married cpples but the main reason we will out host most games is coz married cpples are glum.

No spice.

Imaging single guys and chics,with a sprinkling of few selected married dudes with single chics in shorts shots,serving dranks and munchies…….never mind their “air head blonde” understanding of soccer??

u can pretty much even have a cover charge for folks who wanna partake of same.

Thats the thinking Proff..help me on assembling as many venues as u can!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:49 pm

slim those were always my thoughts I have never did lisa and far from a hater she is just not my cup of tea….lol

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:49 pm

LMBAO Poppa!!!! The 90’s were mad cool! lol

Melo

June 7th, 2010
3:50 pm

@melo – I think with guys it’s more so Manual and less mechanical

:shock: :evil:

I wld rather pay for a trick than abuse myself like that!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:50 pm

Kimmie

No, I don’t watch much TV. In the last year, I discovered a great “new” show called House! That should give you an indication of my TV consumption. Not much.

I did get in on “Lie To Me” from the beginning. BTW, it starts again tonight. I may catch it on hulu later in the week.

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
3:52 pm

I have a different outlook on Lisa Raye after watching her show.
my niece has started referring to her as a child molester. i had no idea what she meant until i saw an episode of her slobbering all over her child.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
3:53 pm

“I wonder what the mechanical equivalent is that single dudes resort to when in drought?”

Melo — Ever heard of the “pocket p-dussy?” Or the “flesh light?” And then, of course there are the blow-up dolls. And, of you’re really hard-up, you could try the vacuum cleaner… Allegedly:lol:

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

@slim…i am in total agreement about lisa raye. homegirl doesn’t have a classy bone in her body, not even her pinky toe! smh

kimmie

June 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

Poppa – You should check it out – excellent show. We are trying to catch up with it – watched 5 episodes yesterday.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:54 pm

Suisse

You weren’t one of those guys that my nurse friends used to talk about. :lol:

There are men that take that Eureka moment a little too far…..

free to be (F2B)

June 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

@czBrat…i too saw that episode which i found to be creepy. she strikes me as a slave to attention. doesn’t matter where it comes from. that’s really dangerous…

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

Hey cz brat….We went to the drive-in on Moreland Saturday evening instead of going to Stone Mountain. We brought our little portable gas grill and some brats and ate and saw Shrek Forever. (I think we enjoyed it more than the kids).

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
3:55 pm

“I wld rather pay for a trick than abuse myself like that!”

Melo — A trick might try to jack your azz… or give you the herp. But Rosie Palm can always be trusted…. :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
3:57 pm

Kimmie,

Thanx. I may just do that.

I grew with a friend that worked a movie theater and the love of movies just stayed with me. Plus, it gets me out of the house. That darn telephone can get me on a mission even on days that I planned to do nothing but sit around and scratch…. sorry TMI

But, my schedule just makes it hard to keep up shows. The last real show that I tried to keep up with was Heroes, but they lost me after the writer’s strike a couple of years ago.

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
3:57 pm

PG — Not I, said the swiss. But I have nurse friends, too, so I’ve heard tales… :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

@Melo ~ I know you aren’t really surprised that the answer would be more manual than mechanical. Other than a penis pump, why use one if you can’t release the buildup into one’s honey pot???

If you guys really want to laugh, watch WipeOut. It premiered last Tuesday (?) and I had belly laughs with outright cuzzing for 2 hours!!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:58 pm

hey jtj we did stn mtn abd had a blast!!!!! it was great it didn’t rain sat!!!!!!

Randyt (aka had a date with a real live woman instead of a sheep, but now back in the UK where men are men and sheep are scared)

June 7th, 2010
3:59 pm

or has a headache…allegedly.

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
3:59 pm

jtj I agree shrek forever I LOVED to me its for adults….lol the kids love the graphics but the storyline was my fav shrek of all times!!!!!! I am a shrek fan buddy!!!!!! LOL

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

Ever heard of the “pocket p-dussy?” Or the “flesh light?” And then, of course there are the blow

@Swiss??

i know none about dat..elucidate.

all i know is with a trick, u roll 2 condoms in one just in case…..the only downdside with condoms is the thoght of throbbing,then pausing to check for condom movement and proper placement…. aagghhhhhh.

Havnt done that in almost 20 years….my trick/condom days are waaaaay long time ago,u can imagine! :lol:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

Not straight cuzzing, just awww shyt (rolling with laughter)…damn (rolling with laughter), I know that shyt hurt (rolling with laughter)….

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
4:01 pm

HiYa JtJ! i’m glad you had a good time. it’s great that kids get in free, fill their tummys, watch a movie, put em to sleep … then the grown folk can chillax with a beverage and a cool breeze and watch movies til 2 am if you dare want to.

btw … i had a great time meeting my fellow bloggers friday. thanks to Lady J and Leggs for getting us together!

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
4:02 pm

thanks for coming out czbrat!!!!! it was a nice affair!

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:03 pm

I wld rather pay for a trick than abuse myself like that!

I know people who thought like that, some of whom went out like Eric Wright aka Easy E.

Besides tha, the only way that rosie palm can make a clap, but not give you the clap. If you are clean, so is Rosie.

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:04 pm

A trick might try to jack your azz

@Swiss?

in africa,some tricks got magic powers(acquired from powerful sangomas)..if u dont pay,u lose ur wang……

wang str8 up missing next time u want to pee…… :shock: :evil:

That shld have been a warning for those attending the world cup! :lol:

@Swiss..I will tell u this story that happened long back later on. :lol:

czBrat

June 7th, 2010
4:04 pm

Lady J, tentative date for jazz at the aquarium is the 25th.

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

Hey Lady J!!!! We had put Stone Mountain on the back burner and then realized it was too late to try to go. Glad you all had a great time!!!

@ czbrat…We wanted to stay for the double feature to see Iron Man 2, but it started lightning so we called it a night. Alot of people were movie hopping and turning around to see Just Wright. I wanted to see it, but I will wait until next weekend.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

single chics in shorts shots,serving dranks and munchies…….never mind their “air head blonde” understanding of soccer??

@Melo now that I understand your needs Professor Profit can handle that for you. —-> Take yo’ azz to Hooters and that will be $200, please. They have the women in short shorts serving you. :grin:

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

You are welcome, czB!

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:05 pm

Oh my ga swiss!! I’ve never heard of those things. The vacuum cleaner?? Dang!!

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:07 pm

Okay, someone on here mentioned watching “My Sister’s Keeper” on here a while back…I watched it Saturday night on Demand and cried like a baby. That movie was so sad, but good at the same time.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:08 pm

@Melo on second thought tell me if $20 cover charge will work, and the back of the house is the VIP line $50 to get in and watch out for the brown smelly stuff in the far right corner of the property…that’s call dog ish and a few rose bushes if you are leaving VIP when it is dark.

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:10 pm

@JtJ “My Sister’s Keeper” was wondeful I did not cry, now the “Last Song” made want to shed some tears, but I was just thinking about my daddy and how I miss him to pieces

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:10 pm

Luvbug…

I work in the legal field and I have friends in the medical field….ohhh, the stories of what people do when they have an itch that need scratching….so to speak.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:11 pm

Leggs- Wipeout is funny.

Melo- You know good and well nobody was missing their thang when they went to pee. LOL

i'm swiss

June 7th, 2010
4:11 pm

Well d@mn, Melo! That brings a whole new meaning to getting jacked… Note to self: never bang a magic trick… :lol:

Luvbug — I have seen such things in “novelty” stores…. And when I say “pocket p-dussy” I’m not talking ’bout a midget chick…. :lol:

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:12 pm

My wife was watching “My Sister’s Keeper” one night when I came home.

I got my Godfather trilogy collection and went to office and put in Godfather II. Thanks to someone mentioning it on this blog, I knew to stay clear of that thing.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:12 pm

PG- But the vacuum cleaner?? That’s cwazaaay! Poor little vacuum cleaner. It just wants to clean. LOL

Melo

June 7th, 2010
4:14 pm

Proff/Luvbug??

ok forget uall

Im gon book a room at some hotel in dwtown A and invite some of uall but the dress code will be strict. U snooze u lose.

Leggs

June 7th, 2010
4:15 pm

Melo- You know good and well nobody was missing their thang when they went to pee. LOL

I thought th exact same thing.

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:15 pm

I choose snooze and lose.

Poppa Grande

June 7th, 2010
4:15 pm

I guess that those dudes wanted to be cleaned….LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:16 pm

@Melo, why are you forgetting us. I had you a VIP section once you get through the dog ish and rose bushes and pay your $50 at the door. I will get a midget in a silk bathrobe to serve y’all drinks, beer etc.

I thought we had a deal :???:

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:17 pm

@Professor…I guess I am just a big baby..Lol. That girl was so brave towards death.

@ Poppa- You should have watched it, it had a great legal debate in it, medical emancipation of a minor. You really should check it out.

JtJ

June 7th, 2010
4:17 pm

@Professor…I guess I am just a big baby..Lol. That girl was so brave towards death.

@ Poppa- You should have watched it, it had a great legal debate in it, medical emancipation of a minor. You really should check it out.

Lady J-happy

June 7th, 2010
4:18 pm

cool beans czbrat keep me posted…….

Luvbug

June 7th, 2010
4:19 pm

I will get a midget in a silk bathrobe??

Ohh, I missed that part. It’s worth reconsidering. LOL

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:19 pm

@czBrat I forgot to tell you that I was a bit disappointed in meeting you after you didn’t sneak in the stewed chicken, rice and beans. I had to order off the menu :cry: Otherwise you were a joy :grin:

Professor

June 7th, 2010
4:21 pm

JtJ~ The story was beautiful I think I was in a chill mode that day and really didn’t think about the movie. For some reason I don’t cry over movies…now tell me someone hurt a horse or a dog got hit and I will cry you a river.