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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
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I’m with stupid

I have a thing for smart guys.  The smarter they are, the sexier they become.  It just seems to make things a lot more interesting when you are engaging in an intelligent discussion that one or both of you are passionate about.  I believe that intelligence alone can make a person increase their hotness exponentially.

I can remember a time when being a smart woman didn’t matter much to guys.  The shallow years had their fun moments but they certainly didn’t have many deep intellectual moments.  If a guy asks me what my interests are I tell them that I am a science geek with a Biotechnology masters degree.  I embrace my geekdom! It seems that as I got older the men I met and dated got less shallow, and so did I.

How important do you think it is to be intellectually matched with someone?  There is only so much stupidity one can endure before the person becomes un-hot and annoying.  How long could you last dating someone just on looks?

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It's me....lurker

May 27th, 2010
1:59 pm

Kym – Wait is this the same Lurker from back in the day..who was all high profile..styling and profiling..international lover dude? Now he is reduce to sexy suggestions to strangers like Craigslist or is this some new dude?

I’m the old lady lurker still styling and profiling…lol but LURKER is a dude that comes on and does his critique of the various posts. Sort of what Lord Velonesse use to do…I’m thinking they’re one and the same.

WD – Then dont let me gt started about how the parents show up to the schools looking like they going to the Velvet Room. On awards day I thought they shoulda had a Open bar and a DJ.

OMGosh, I’ve witnessed this scene a gazillion times. Way too funny

Luvbug

May 27th, 2010
1:59 pm

Willie D- You would feel that way if the 17 year old were a female and the teacher a male?

Kym-only been up since ohhh 4:00am

May 27th, 2010
2:00 pm

@Amazon yes he is trippin.. @Dan..Do we not have the Vatican going around cleaning up a mess just like this..so its okay if its some hot female teacher..trying to knock off a young boy..12,13,15..whateva..but if it is some bootleg priest who has the same care of kids..just a dude..then it’s a rape? Hot nuns..yes..hot priest..perv..yeah sorry boss I don’t believe you..you need more people..

LURKER (The most interesting LURKER on The MIA blog)

May 27th, 2010
2:00 pm

Look the teacher’s are better looking today, well some are! You see some many walking around with all kinda body parts hanging out! Some of these young thristy teachers who do not have much life experience think, hey he may not last over 15 pumps like (FOR REAL) but he show can get it back up 10 times in a day. YEAH

Young sexy Teachers need diesel too! :lol: YEAHHHHHHHHH

Quote of the day!

Ole mighty Obama Won kanobe will you use the power of the force to seal the oil leak in the GULF!

Luvbug

May 27th, 2010
2:02 pm

walking around with all kinda body parts hanging out!

LOL. That phrasing completely cracked me up.

Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)

May 27th, 2010
2:05 pm

Leggs It’s @6 feet under right?

Willie Dynamite

May 27th, 2010
2:06 pm

LuvBug – no difference to me whether the male/female dynamic. Rape is by force. At 17 legally if its consensual then its not Rape. Now underage (under 16) then its Statutory. The teacher was wrong. The student was wrong. He does get some of the blame. It was all good with the perks until the F showed up. Other than the fact of it being his teacher then it would not have been an issue legally in the outside world.

But to make sure we are clear I do not condone this at all.

Dan - do better

May 27th, 2010
2:06 pm

Ladies,

When a young man hits puberty and starts liking girls, all bets are off. There’s no ugly, no age, nothing but IT.

From the legal standpoint, heck, even a parents standpoint, I’m witcha.

But if I was that young man or one of his friends……

SlimOne...ITIS kicking in

May 27th, 2010
2:07 pm

Me needs a nap….what da hayo going on in here now. Too tired & lazy to try to go back and read all that shyt.

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:07 pm

When a young man hits puberty and starts liking girls, all bets are off. There’s no ugly, no age, nothing but IT.

No better time then puberty for them to learn to control themselves and their urges. You need counseling if you think it’s okay or approprate for a 12 year old (male or female) to have sex with an adult.

Luvbug

May 27th, 2010
2:09 pm

Okay then WD…17 is legal.

It's me....lurker

May 27th, 2010
2:11 pm

You need counseling if you think it’s okay or approprate for a 12 year old (male or female) to have sex with an adult.

or if you think it’s okay with other 12 year olds…just not time…too young. When Dan have kids, all of that will change. I’m sure.

Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)

May 27th, 2010
2:12 pm

Okay I had that wrong..it wasnt’ Leggs but Lady J..

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:12 pm

Thanks lurker, I agree with your post too.

Willie Dynamite

May 27th, 2010
2:12 pm

LuvBug – Unfortunately in GA legally 16 for consensual Sez.

Kym-only been up since ohhh 4:00am

May 27th, 2010
2:13 pm

**now putting on my wish hat** I wish a Chickenhead would pull up on my son like this..these teenagers maybe mature looking but these jokers are not the brightest stars..I love my son and my young niece but drop them off at the corner and they are lucky to find their way home. I mean lets just be real parents..you know your little Johhny and Susie..bless they heart they may not be bad kids..but they are so self-absorb right now..they don’t know if they are coming or going. So for any adult..in a position of authority like a teacher(there is a law now so sister gal is going to lose her job and certification..bet) can not just go around willy nilly messing with these kids. Ya’ll fellows talk about thirsty women..well here ya go prime example. Beating the bushes at the middle school asking someone’s baby to something strange for some candy money. FOOLISHNESS!!!

Lady J

May 27th, 2010
2:15 pm

Sassy yes 6ft Under @ 6pm tomorrow Celebrating Mrs Tazzee Mae Jenkins!

Swiss I have your Ga Tech and SCSU stuff! ha!

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:16 pm

@SassyMe ~ yes, it is.

Lady J

May 27th, 2010
2:17 pm

ARed enjoy the movie!!!!! I can’t wait to see it tomorrow night!!!!!!

~I Am- after dinner its a movie wth no ex lovers! LOL Just the two of us new sistah buddies! :)

Lady J

May 27th, 2010
2:18 pm

hey ms leggs!

Dan - do better

May 27th, 2010
2:18 pm

A 12 year old having “sex” with another 12 year old is too young….

At that point its just hunching…

Y’all are whilin up in here..

Melo

May 27th, 2010
2:19 pm

I dont blame the 17 year old, I blame the teacher…..

but these schol boards arent making it easy for student education either..lack of standards in most schools….

students dress sloppy

teachers dress sloppy

Its a phlcuk fest. in high schools

and the transfers they allow where students can leave failing schools and go to better schools is getting in the way too…

some good schools are being run down by bad kids from bad hoods……

And then u have the ex superindent in dekalb geting indicted….

Corruption all over in our society!

Willie Dynamite

May 27th, 2010
2:20 pm

Wheres Poppa G at today? I think lawyers will be lining up for this one. The law I believe just changed maybe 2-3 weeks ago making it a Crime for Teacher/Student Sex even over the age of 16. I do believe that is why she has not been charged as of yet. She will definitely lose her certification and she already resigned. Just a matter of Jail or not now.

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:20 pm

@Dan ~ if his little tiny weenie goes into her, it’s sex whether they know what they’re doing or not!

Lady J

May 27th, 2010
2:20 pm

melo I blame the teacher too I see daily some questionable stuff I just stay in my lane……

I don’t do children or young adults for that matter……

Luvbug

May 27th, 2010
2:20 pm

WD – I don’t understand why. AND, I still don’t understand why guys don’t feel raped at 12, 13, 14, and 15…or 6-7 in the case of one of the guys I know.

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:21 pm

Hey there, LadyJ!

Willie Dynamite

May 27th, 2010
2:26 pm

LuvBug – I cant answer that one. i just know that not too many dudes would feel as though they were Raped in that situation.

Dan - do better

May 27th, 2010
2:27 pm

@Luv

Because if you tell your mom what happened, she’s ready to fight.

Tell your dad, or older brother and you get your first drink. And a pat on the back.

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:27 pm

A 12 year old having “sex” with another 12 year old is too young….

At that point its just hunching…

So if it’s a 12 year old with a 17 year old it’s sex….

But if it’s a 12 year old with a 12 year old it’s “hunching” (what the heck is that?)

Kym-only been up since ohhh 4:00am

May 27th, 2010
2:27 pm

@Luvbug..cause there is this foolish double standard..that still exist in our highly developed society that men should wear it as a badge of honor to be knocking down female teachers at 12 or be felt up at 6 or 7 by some female baby sitter. But reverse the sex and it becomes a whole other game. Same story but let it be a male teacher and a female student or be a male sitter and a female child. Then folks get outrage. Rape and molestation should not be limited based on sex.

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:28 pm

Tell your dad, or older brother and you get your first drink. And a pat on the back.

Not necessarily. Do you even have a dad or older brother?

Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)

May 27th, 2010
2:30 pm

Because if you tell your mom what happened, she’s ready to fight.

Tell your dad, or older brother and you get your first drink. And a pat on the back.

Yeah a mom like mine woulda kicked that chick to sleep…

Kym-only been up since ohhh 4:00am

May 27th, 2010
2:32 pm

@Sassy because Mama knows that ****Y is not right!

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:32 pm

Laughing at ARed and SassyMe!

Dan - do better

May 27th, 2010
2:33 pm

@Ared

I did, on both accounts….

again, wow

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:34 pm

“Tell your dad, or older brother and you get your first drink. And a pat on the back.:

To be honest with you Dan, I think this only applies in homes where there isn’t any “parenting” taking place.

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:36 pm

Wow indeed.

12 year olds are often still in ELEMENTARY school. And you sign off on it. Just madness.

Kym-only been up since ohhh 4:00am

May 27th, 2010
2:38 pm

@AmazonR..Why entertain the foolishness? He’s drinking Joker Juice today or something.

Luvbug

May 27th, 2010
2:38 pm

Kym – I hear yah. Now the aggressor of the guy I mentioned was a live in maid, so she had easy access…but considering his personality, I think he may have been raised by a macho dad.

I also wonder if guys are judging it by what’s done…if she forced him to perform oral but allowed nothing else…does that count as rape??

Sometimes I don’t understand guy. SMH

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:38 pm

Well, that goes hand in hand with him managing his daughter’s career if she wanted to be a stripper. His mindset hasn’t changed. Give him props for remaining consistent.

Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)

May 27th, 2010
2:38 pm

To be honest with you Dan, I think this only applies in homes where there isn’t any “parenting” taking place.

Exactly…

because Mama knows that ****Y is not right!

:shock:

Mama used to say take your time young man…mama used to say don’t you rush to get old….live your life

Willie Dynamite

May 27th, 2010
2:42 pm

HUGE HUGE differnce between 12 and 17. I personally think if you even try to provide a justification for anything Sexual with a 12 yr old then yeah you need to be committed right after a good azz whupping.

Leggs

May 27th, 2010
2:42 pm

And all these horny little boys and girls hear is Charlie Brown’s teacher talking…blah, blah, blah, blah, blah!

Dan - do better

May 27th, 2010
2:44 pm

@Leggs

And homes with “great” or “any” (by your description) don’t have underage sex going on?

That isn’t even statistically true.

Let’s be real. You wanna protect your kids from everything and everyone, but you can’t. At a certain point you have to let them make their own mistakes.

Having sex with a 30yo woman at 17 might be one of ‘em. But y’all are acting these kids aren’t having sex, or if they are, it’s the parents fault.

And I’m drinking Joker Juice….

Lady J

May 27th, 2010
2:45 pm

anyone watch as the world turns besides me and I am still trying to get use to y&r @ 3……hmmmm….

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:45 pm

My sister teaches 9th grade in GA. She always has a crop of students that begin the year pregnant after getting knocked up in 8th grade. But at least the baby daddies that knocked them up are heroes. :?

AmazonRed™ - Ready for some Sex and a City

May 27th, 2010
2:46 pm

HUGE HUGE differnce between 12 and 17. I personally think if you even try to provide a justification for anything Sexual with a 12 yr old then yeah you need to be committed right after a good azz whupping.

:idea:

And wow…a man said this. :D

Kym-only been up since ohhh 4:00am

May 27th, 2010
2:48 pm

Dan I lost my virginity at 16 to a guy who was 18..two teenagers playing romper room and hide the sausage..totally big difference than me at 16 having sex with a dude almost twice my age. No is saying there is no teen sex going on..but two teenagers totally different that an adult and a teenager. We all know what our minds were like at that age.(if some of you can remember that far back)

Lady J

May 27th, 2010
2:48 pm

you are right ared I just question some that befriend these students bc their inner circle suck and their dating world sucks….its almost like lil colleges at some high schools some are even known to have the reputation to always being in sensiors face….

my reputation is I love my computer and bb both are my daily gratification lol…..to each their own though……adults set the tone and seetings for students and children….