What if chemistry didn’t exist?
I don’t think anyone can ever explain the chemistry that exists between two people who really desire one another. It’s impossible to predict, understand, or destroy – I have attempted all three. I think so many times we get hung up on that feeling of intense desire and attraction that we forget how to put it in it’s proper place. What is it’s proper place?
Do you let go of a wonderful person because they don’t do it for you? Do you expect the person who does it for you, to always give you that feeling of intense chemistry? How long can that feeling possibly last before you settle into the reality of one another, instead of the “idea” of one another.
The reality is that there is much more to love and relationships then chemistry. Yet, a lot of times, we won’t let a potential romance start without it. Are we fooling ourselves? What would happen if chemistry between two people didn’t exist. How would we determine who we truly connect with and who we shouldn’t?
If we didn’t have chemistry, do you think our dating experiences would be less romantic?
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Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:33 pm
DreamsM i feel the lakers can take Boston……lol…….
Raqi
May 26th, 2010
2:34 pm
Kimmie, yeah they are going to let them be together. He went back in that hospital for Yang.
I think it’s his military back ground that makes him talk down to her like that. That’s why I never dated any type of military man. They scare me. Seriously. Crazy I tell ya, just crazy.
Melo
May 26th, 2010
2:34 pm
Melo – of course, I hear what you guys are saying
@Sexxycool??
thats gangsta..
never ask ur hubby to compare u with another imaginary woman…..or ask him to give u a truthful answer about ur new hair do,unless u want his true opinion…which he may never give….
ooghhhh, uall know that already dont u!
Dan
May 26th, 2010
2:34 pm
@Ared
When Kobe gets to whining (and when doesn’t he really), that’s a bad sign for the team.
And he was crying like a kid with a skint knee last night.
SexyCool13
May 26th, 2010
2:35 pm
“never ask ur hubby to compare u with another imaginary woman…..”
Now, ^that^ would just be stupid.
DreamsMaterialize
May 26th, 2010
2:36 pm
DreamsM i feel the lakers can take Boston……lol……
Lady J The Suns’ bench is destroying the Lakers, and Boston probably has the deepest bench in the league.
I am whatever you say I am ...Quoting Biggie All Day
May 26th, 2010
2:36 pm
“…..who shot ya!?!…..”
Lady J…I just saw your pic, you look familar.
Did you used to work at college Park Shoes?
Raqi
May 26th, 2010
2:36 pm
SC13 for the time they spend there I don’t think it’s possible. Hell look at how hard it is for those in a “Private Practice” (LOL), I can only imagine how difficult it can be for residents.
i'm swiss
May 26th, 2010
2:39 pm
“looking for the licka cabinet key. I WANT MY DRINK MAYNE!!!!”
i am… — You need a drank? I got you, don’t worry… Now, lemme find that Everclear….
Trevor0529 - 3 until 42
May 26th, 2010
2:39 pm
The Celtics are playing some really good basketball right now. If the Lakers make it to the finals, they will have their hands full.
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2010
2:39 pm
I will say this, Alvin gentry and the college zone is making Phil Jackson look real average right now. LA/Boston will be a great matchup. The Boston bench will be the difference.
kimmie
May 26th, 2010
2:39 pm
I think it’s his military back ground that makes him talk down to her like that. That’s why I never dated any type of military man. They scare me. Seriously. Crazy I tell ya, just crazy.
Raqi – You didn’t miss nothing and were smart not to! I dated 2 and I know it is said to never say never, but I never want to do that again. And neither of these dudes ever saw combat. And I can’t stand being talked down to – I’m good & grown.
kimmie
May 26th, 2010
2:40 pm
And he was crying like a kid with a skint knee last night.
LOL!!
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:41 pm
I Am`~I have nevered worked in shoes honey…..
JtJ
May 26th, 2010
2:43 pm
I fell asleep on the game last night, but I saw that fake that Grant Hill did on Kobe in the first few minutes and that look on Kobe’s face was priceless!!
I think the Suns can definitely win it, if they play hard like they did last night.
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:43 pm
dreamsM you may be right I havebn’t a clue I don’t even watch lol
NFL PLEASE!!!!!!! LOL
AmazonRed™
May 26th, 2010
2:43 pm
Dan – I didn’t ask for you for your Lakers opinion! Thanks!
Raqi
May 26th, 2010
2:44 pm
Grant Hill still plays ball?
Is there going to be a game on Monday?
kimmie
May 26th, 2010
2:45 pm
JtJ – Grant Hill? Did you say Grant Hill?
Yummy!!
Trevor0529 - 3 until 42
May 26th, 2010
2:46 pm
I will say this, Alvin Gentry and the college zone is making Phil Jackson look real average right now. LA/Boston will be a great matchup. The Boston bench will be the difference.
I agree. The Suns bench could match up with the Celtics bench but the Celtics can just grind a game out.
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2010
2:47 pm
Grant Hill wife = yummy
Trevor0529 - 3 until 42
May 26th, 2010
2:47 pm
NFL PLEASE!!!!!!! LOL
When Brett Favre returns, then I will pay attention to the NFL.
Melo
May 26th, 2010
2:49 pm
Now, ^that^ would just be stupid.
@Sexxycool
exactly…
I am whatever you say I am ...Quoting Biggie All Day
May 26th, 2010
2:49 pm
“….Open up the Lex door
Jump on in, I’m kind of tired
I’m a roll blunts while you spin
You got your license, right? Alright, no swerving”
Okay Lady J….you resemble someone else then.
Swiss!?!?!? WHY YOU BEING STINGY WITH MY DRINK!!!!
Melo
May 26th, 2010
2:49 pm
rant Hill wife = yummy
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:49 pm
well trevor I hope he doesn’t but you are welcome to watch the Flcons on your spare time sir! lol
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:50 pm
~I Am can you make the happy hour on the 4th???
I am whatever you say I am ...Quoting Biggie All Day
May 26th, 2010
2:50 pm
“…..Have you screaming “Biggie, Biggie give me one more chance”
SWISS!!! Make that Bacardi and Coke!!! Hurry’d up!!!
Kym
May 26th, 2010
2:51 pm
Boston should wrap this up tonight. I DISLIKE Kobe B..so I would gladly welcome a Celtic/Suns match up. Actually it would be the better matchup. Than the Celtics and the Loggers..excuse me Lakers.
Now how much longer until Football season? Oh man that reminds me..Poppa G if you are lurking..do you know where I can find a size 13 wide mens cleat? Other than say Dicks or Hibberts or Sports Authority. The boy is playing football at the park near the house.
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:51 pm
Falcons that is NO Cowboys please!!!!!! LOL
Dan
May 26th, 2010
2:52 pm
@Willie D
Agreed.
Trevor0529 - 3 until 42
May 26th, 2010
2:52 pm
Is it Super Bowl or bust for the Falcons this year?
AmazonRed™
May 26th, 2010
2:53 pm
Grant Hill still plays ball?
Is there going to be a game on Monday?
Yes and maybe. There are guaranteed games Thursday and Saturday. Monday is only if necessary.
Leggs
May 26th, 2010
2:53 pm
Off topic for parents this summer:
This is a non-contact camp with no pads or helmets. The NFL players and
a professional coaching staff from the Wellness and Performance
Institute will run instructional drills, teach football fundamentals and
most importantly have fun! Your child can come wearing a t-shirt, shorts
and tennis or cleats. The camp will go on rain or shine and there is an
indoor gym in case of rain.
Each child will receive a FREE camp t-shirt as well as complimentary
pizza lunch provided by Papa John’s each day. Water and Powerade coolers
will be available at each station surrounding the field.
The camp will run for approximately 8 AM – 1 PM each day. Parents are
welcome to drop off and pick up or stay and watch.
All you need to do to register is reply to this email
(nflcamp@franceathletes.com) with the following information: child’s
name, age and youth football affiliation (if any).
After we receive that information you will receive a confirmation email
with all necessary details and the parent waiver attached that must be
signed in order for your child to attend.
Trevor0529 - 3 until 42
May 26th, 2010
2:54 pm
IMO, the Cowboys are dysfunctional family with the crazy patriarch, Jerry Jones.
kimmie
May 26th, 2010
2:54 pm
Raqi – I am surprised to hear he’s still playing ball though!LOL!!
Trevor0529 - 3 until 42
May 26th, 2010
2:54 pm
Anybody here on this blog could coach the Cowboys better than Wade Phillips.
AmazonRed™
May 26th, 2010
2:54 pm
Leggs – What are the ages for participation?
Kym
May 26th, 2010
2:55 pm
Wait someone called the Cowgirls a team? LMAO
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:55 pm
we will watch and see! lol
Lady J-Diamond in da Rough-Princess Cut & Radiant;Never have to front....
May 26th, 2010
2:56 pm
brb gang forced to run an errand grrrrrr…….
JtJ
May 26th, 2010
2:56 pm
@ Kimmie- Grant Hill is VERY easy on the eyes. How old is he now?? I did not know he still played until I started watching the play-offs this season.
kimmie
May 26th, 2010
2:59 pm
JtJ – He’s one of the very few athletes I’ve liked. Plus he has that sorta nerd thing going cause he can play the piano and he’s intelligent. That’s a turn-on for me!LOL!!
Dig That
May 26th, 2010
3:01 pm
Go Falconssssssss. Trevor I’m always optimistic and especially with these expensive tix I buy every dayum year.
i'm swiss
May 26th, 2010
3:01 pm
“SWISS!!! Make that Bacardi and Coke!!! Hurry’d up!!!”
i am… — I’m married to a Haitian — NO Bacardi in this house. Rhum Barbancourt only!
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2010
3:02 pm
As the resident Cowboy Fan on the blog. I gladly brush off the Darts being thrown from the P-nut gallery by the Falcon fans.
I am whatever you say I am ...Quoting Biggie All Day
May 26th, 2010
3:03 pm
“……But all we wanna know is “Where the party at?”
And can i bring my gat?
If not, I hope I don’t get shot
But i throw my vest on my chest……”
I hope so Lady J, I will let you know.
Willie Dynamite
May 26th, 2010
3:04 pm
AmRed – ages 8-18
Kym
May 26th, 2010
3:04 pm
Willie D..don’t lump me in with the Fakecons..excuse me Falcons fans..Steelers Baby..Pittsburgh..Six Pack..Hit Hard..Hit Harder….!!!
Raqi
May 26th, 2010
3:05 pm
kimmie, he is a cutie. You know I am partial to the tall and tan. LOL
He has to be like 40 now or close to it. I haven’t heard his name in so long I didn’t think he played any longer. Does Anfernee Hardaway still play?