I don’t think anyone can ever explain the chemistry that exists between two people who really desire one another. It’s impossible to predict, understand, or destroy – I have attempted all three. I think so many times we get hung up on that feeling of intense desire and attraction that we forget how to put it in it’s proper place. What is it’s proper place?
Do you let go of a wonderful person because they don’t do it for you? Do you expect the person who does it for you, to always give you that feeling of intense chemistry? How long can that feeling possibly last before you settle into the reality of one another, instead of the “idea” of one another.
The reality is that there is much more to love and relationships then chemistry. Yet, a lot of times, we won’t let a potential romance start without it. Are we fooling ourselves? What would happen if chemistry between two people didn’t exist. How would we determine who we truly connect with and who we shouldn’t?
If we didn’t have chemistry, do you think our dating experiences would be less romantic?