I not ashamed to admit that I am one of the army of women who is excited about Sex and the City 2 movie. Hey, don’t judge me! My love for that show pre-dates my taking on the fun role of dating blogger. We have the show Sex and the City to thank for my favorite dating analogy: Men are like taxis.
No, I don’t mean men are sometimes really smelly and slightly terrifying in New York. Although that one might apply too. I am referring to the theory that when a man is ready for, or open to, the possibility of a relationship he turns his taxi light on. If you happen to be the girl that hails the taxi while the light is on, you’ve got a possibility of a great and hopefully long ride (no pun intended naughty people!). If you get in a cab with the light off, it doesn’t really matter what you do, it’s just not going to go anywhere.
So basically, this analogy is the basis of every single woman’s dating life. How do you decide what kind of cab ride you’re on. If it were easy to see the light, we would all be talking about whales or golf right now.
Men, if you have a heart you will let us ladies know how to determine her guy’s taxi cab light: on (ready and open?) or dimmed (unsure?) or flashing (undecided)?
Are women like taxis too? I honestly don’t think I have turned my taxi cab light on properly. I am working on it though!
Ladies, do you think that men are like taxis? Will you go to see the movie Sex and the City 2?
331 comments Add your comment
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:07 am
If you get in a cab with the light off, it doesn’t really matter what you do, it’s just not going to go anywhere.
^^^^^5 to that WD!!!!!!
I can’t wait to see this movie!!!! I will go see the movie Thursday evening after class since my class is right by the mall am not going to be in a rush to come home…..Men truly know what they want early on and where they are going to place you……most times the answer will be there with verbal’s and non-verbal’s and just actions……to me I notice it is a trait for some to talk out of both sides of their mouth so be aware and rock and roll accordingly…..It is amusing after the fact of whatever some come back explaining their clear intentions and again the over used phrased is used “A man and even a woman will only do what you allow them to do”.
Right now I am in my cab alone……I explain what I want and silence becomes the theme with disappearing acts but after some time has passed the phone and texts resume but again my stance hasn’t changed so again nothing……
this past sat night a good and grown man from my recent past last summer that is no text saying my name with why wasn’t I with him at his place for the night……I laughed out loud….his was as I was headed home from the highlands around 12am from a guy I barely communicate with…..So the more mature Lady J sent a text back saying hmmmm why would I be over there with you when we aren’t together like that…I went on to say it would be refreshing if we could get to know each other the right way and explore the options of a real relationship…..I wished him a happy birthday bc I knew it was approaching and told him I was doing well (yep he didn’t even ask how I was doing go figure). You know he didn’t text me back…..This is a 43 year old Morehouse Man that I feel should just know better……but again folk will try you….While I could have ignored the text and not say anything I had to reply with my usual stance……I know what I want and what I want isn’t farfetched……..but he couldn’t do anything to me I didn’t approve of……
Here lately I can’t lie it has been frustrating dealing with the opposite sex…….one day I guess I will experience what I want….until then I will continue to do me however I want to do…….lol
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:08 am
Good Morning Blog Gang!!!!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:11 am
Don’t seek outside yourself for what isn’t yours. Instead walk in your power & draw everything u need TO you……this is what I am trying to stand by…..
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
8:15 am
I love Sex and the City!!!!
I agree with Samantha, men are like taxis!!!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:19 am
I am~ I am cross between the characters Charlotte and Carrie…..what about you???
Norvee Michele
May 25th, 2010
8:21 am
i love sex and the city! I absolutely cannot wait for the movie. But what I want to say is this. if a man wants you, you cannot keep him away. but if there’s any sort of hemming and hawing, hesitation and etc. or you question his feelings about you, he’s just not that into you. Men are very simple creatures. If you’re a mentally and emotionally sound woman, the difference between the two should be fairly easy to detect. Sometimes we close our eyes to the truth. its just easier to let go and wait for that man with the taxi light on. You’ll be much happier in the long run. Spoken from a lady who just had her heart broken yesterday. cheers.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
8:23 am
Definantely a cross between Samantha and Carrie
Morrus
May 25th, 2010
8:24 am
Curiously, in a supposed anti-incumbent year, most of the departing are not retiring but seeking higher office. We may recycle more than we replace. The bad news is that a frustrating 114 seats still have but one contestant. Two of them aren’t even incumbents, meaning they will affect state policy without being vetted by voters. And I have to think that we’d be better off if many had run instead for the Legislature — and cut down on the number running unopposed. Georgia’s problems are numerous. They aren’t going away. There’s too much stale thinking at the Capitol, on both sides of the aisle. New voices would be welcome.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
8:24 am
hugs to Novee.
I too had my heartbroken.
it gets better.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:25 am
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_the_City
cool beans chica!!!!!
I am~I wish you a very happy day today!!!!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:26 am
@Norvee Michele great post!!!!!! that is the dag on truth honey!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
8:30 am
Thanks Lady!!! you too!
jon
May 25th, 2010
8:30 am
All singles of Atlanta meet more singles in ATL on http://www.singlesPalace.com
its free to everyone to join and to use and its based in Atlanta. Find a date to go see ‘Sex and the City 2′ on singlesPalace.
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
8:32 am
Good Morning All,
My mom always said men were like buses..one comes along every 15mins.
I could never understand the whole Sex and the City fan club. I watched a few episodes..but I always thought these chicks are just a bit too ditzy the only one I like was Samatha..and even she had blonde moments. So needless to say I will not be going to the movie..heck I didn’t even see the first one. Although I like Mr. Big. Aka..Detective Logan from Law and Order…but I digress..I think I will lurk around until the topic changes.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:34 am
~When life seems unfair and uncertain, do not be denied and do not be delayed by nuturing things that should be neutered. Just throw them on your stack of learning experiences and keep on moving. In other words, what God has for you, is for YOU!~
last night was a doozy or early this AM…..I normally wake up in the middle of the night around 3am…..this has been since I have become a mother….just wierd…anyway…..I listened to Luther’s song “Wait on Love” and his other song “Promise Me”……I didn’t weep just disappointed a bit bc at times I feel it just isn’t fair but that is life……I have to continue to embrace my womanhood of confidence to be content with being a single woman…….I am trying….lol
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:41 am
Kymm Mr. Big is a very cool character!!!! i didn’t start watching it to late….my college buddies loved it in school and i was too busy watching Cops…..real talk…..when i moved to Atlanta that is when I started watching it and feel in love with those girlfriends……lol
yall Lisa Raye and some more AA stars are suppose be doing a black version of S&C……a movie that is….didn’t get the name of it she was interviewing with Ryan Cameron about a week or two ago….and mentioned it…
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:43 am
meant fell in love with the show….lol
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
8:44 am
Lady J..we already had a black version of Sex in the City..it was called Living Single. Great show!! on of my favorite re-runs to watch.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
8:46 am
OMG!!! I look so sexy today!
Wearing my new sweater and blouse set and my makeup coordinates well!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:46 am
you right honey…..
Laurie
May 25th, 2010
8:47 am
What a bunch of losers are posting here.
Why would anyone want to see that movie.
Wait 2 weeks and it will be available on video.
Another 3 months and it will be on Lifetime.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
8:48 am
Good morning all,
I love this show and definitely can’t wait for the movie to come out. I dragged my ex to see the first one and he actually liked it…go figure. My co-workers at the time would refer to him as Mr. Big….so I guess i am a bit like Carrie.
Anyhoo, it does seem like when a guy is ‘ready’ that it ends up being with whatever chick he’s with at the time. I’m pretty sure that after the length of time with my ex, (with his light dim & flickering on & off) that when his light stays on, he’ll be married in no time. Just the way the cookie crumbles at times. Sometimes when women meet a dude who doesn’t necessarily have their green light on, but we really like, we assume or hope that if we love them wholeheartedly, that it’ll be enough to make them WANT to be ready. Time & experience has told me that isn’t the case. What happens is you just end up spinning your wheels and preparing him for the next chick that he’ll end up having a baby with and marrying all within a matter of about 3 to 6 months after yall have been broken up. LOL (no that didn’t happen to me)
Vernoica
May 25th, 2010
8:50 am
This entire topic is lame.
Who cares about this kind of junk.
Four sluts roaming around NY or the Middle East is still lame.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
8:50 am
agree slim!
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
8:55 am
Bought my Sex and the City 2 ticket yesterday. I’m hosting a girls night out to go see it. Can’t waiiiiiiit!
Morning all!
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
8:59 am
As for the topic…I do agree that women don’t necessarily do anything extra special to get a guy. Having him ready and wanting to settle down goes a long way. When he’s determined he’s ready, all a woman has to do is not mess it up.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
9:00 am
I have 3 free movie tickets to any movie.
I’ll be using one of the tickets for the movie but I can’t go until Friday.
Hopefully it won’t be too crowded.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
9:03 am
awww “I am” you are more than welcome to join us Friday before the movie for dinner as we celebrate a fellow blogger’s marriage…..if you want details email me @ ladyj_0817@yahoo.com
LeeH1
May 25th, 2010
9:07 am
Men can usually tell when women are hunting for husbands, and we run away like jack rabbits running away from a pack of hounds. It is often a rather scary sight, with desperate women (and their mothers) chasing after a man. No special warning light is needed.
What women don’t understand is that when a man begins looking for a mte, he may want to sample several different women to see which one is best. And thus plays a field of several available women. Women are more likely to focus (and obsess) over just one guy, and are more vlunerable to competition at this stage.
Grace
May 25th, 2010
9:11 am
Good morning Everyone! I used to watch SITC years ago, loved it then but haven’t had the opportunity to see the first premier movie and doubt I will see the sequel movie.
I like that analogy of men being like taxis though, and when they are ready to marry THEY get married.
@ I am…it does get better!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
9:20 am
Good morning, everyone!
I like the taxi light on, taxi light off! And, if the light is flickering, problems and heartache ahead. Take heed.
Don’t know about you 24 diehards, but I think last week’s episode should have been last night’s finale, with Mr. President being decapitated. The finale was ok, but it was nothing compared to last weeks. To make matters worse, coming off a finale like Grey’s, I was looking for 24 to come out kicking butts and taking no prisoners!
@I am ~ I wish you all the best. In time, you will be fine. Keep loving yourself and stay sexy. It does make you feel good!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
9:22 am
hey Leggs!!!
Greg S.
May 25th, 2010
9:23 am
I’ve watched Sex and the City. Any woman that watches it is dumber than a bag of hammers!
Meal Ticket
May 25th, 2010
9:24 am
men are taxi’s & women take them for rides but never pay the fare
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
9:26 am
Morning Ladies
We should all just be honest with whomever we are dating. Any woman I interact with knows that my marriage light is not on right now. What’s been surprising me is how many women never even ask me if the marriage light is on. I think some women end up with guys who don’t want the same things because they never directly asked the questions they really wanted to ask.
While I could have ignored the text and not say anything I had to reply with my usual stance
Lady J don’t answer anymore texts. That will state your stance better than any words you can possible think of. Some dudes take a response, ANY response, to mean that there’s still a possibility.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
9:28 am
Lady!
Thanks for the invite. I sent you an email .
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
9:29 am
Ok DreamsM real talk ok……..silence is a strong stance…..and trust and believe I don’t text or call the losers….no one them…..its the dumb follow up text they text me that I respond to with hmmmmm “NO” but ok sir…..
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
9:30 am
chica you made my day I so wanted you to come!!!!!!
leggs one sec honey
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
9:30 am
Thanks Leggs
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
9:30 am
meant none of them
Jason
May 25th, 2010
9:32 am
Columns like this only reaffirm every man’s inherent sense to know that all women are crazy and it’s best to find the one that bothers you the least to settle down with.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
9:36 am
Hey wouldn’t it be cool if most jobs had a bar.
You could get margarita’s during lunch and the bosses would be cool?
I could go for a drink right now
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
9:38 am
who said daiting with susbtance, time, and consistency equals someone wants to getting married so soon……marriage would be nice as time goes in that direction but it is pulling teeth for men and women to be straight up on that first encounter with clear intentions……
Tom
May 25th, 2010
9:41 am
Ok after reading this, here are my thoughts. Guys aren’t the only ones who have a taxi light that flips on. Women do too. You would be amazed how many women don’t want to be in a relationship. But I guess it was just me they didn’t want be with.
Obviously if you go out with a guy and he’s getting frisky on the first date, he’s only looking for something physical. If he’s too open and ready, women will lose interest. Then if us guys play hard to get, girls get cranky and call him a jerk.
When my gf and I first met, it wasn’t challenging at all. I asked her out and she said yes. I didn’t care about it being too easy for me, I really liked her. It wasn’t this cat and mouse game where we made up things just to appear busy.
abc
May 25th, 2010
9:42 am
Whales or golf?! That cracks me up! Golf maybe, but WHALES?? C’mon, somebody start up something on whales! Ha!
If a man is ready to settle down, he’ll say so. If a woman isn’t ready to settle down, a man can tell already.
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
9:50 am
Hey wouldn’t it be cool if most jobs had a bar.
@I am, I would look at my team leads more sideways than I already do.
Good Morning Blog!!
Usmc Dawg
May 25th, 2010
9:50 am
Wise Dive, you have “hit the nail on the head” as to what is wrong in today’s dating world.
Women (and men) like yourself are getting your “dating standards & habits” from a television show or movie. Our society is mass marketed to by Hollywood who feeds us a constant stream of unrealistic garbage. NON-REALITY! This goes for men as well who think they need to be some kind of gigolo and date or “fyouseekay” every woman they can. I believe we all would be better served by just INTERACTING more and letting nature take it’s course. You will be surprised. All of the “dating advice” is garbage. Quit “looking for signs”. Folks, quit shopping and be yourself.
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
9:51 am
Morning Gang!
Never watched the show but I plan on watching the dvd sets of the show. Should be done by the end of the summer, so I’ll watch the movies on dvd then. Always looked like a fun show!
As for the topic, the taxi thing is just another analogy for what we’ve discussed before many times here – when a dude decides he’s ready to commit, he’ll do it and not before then. You gotta catch him when he’s in that ready mode. I usually meet great guys, but my timing has always been off until now.
Dreams – I had to learn the hard way to state what I want & see what page both are on before jumping in all in with a guy. I was always afraid I would scare him off and it sounds like the ladies you are meeting are afraid of running you off. They have not mastered the art of communicating what they want and being able to walk away if it’s not in line with what page you are on.
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
10:01 am
A question to the blog,
Has communication between men and women become more uncomfortable than being comfortable? From my view, communication is pretty simple but we (men and women) make it more complicated than what it is.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:04 am
Is it time for a topic change yet? lol
Melo
May 25th, 2010
10:04 am
@Trevor0529 – 4 until 42
From my view, communication is pretty simple but we (men and women) make it more complicated
YES!
Assumptions:
(assuming everybody is being honest about what they communicating)
Good morning bloggets!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:06 am
LOL @ bloggets
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:08 am
I Am~ you can crack the bar I am on vacation! LOL
DreamsM what is the daily blog bar drink special????
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
10:10 am
From my view, communication is pretty simple but we (men and women) make it more complicated
And some folks thrive on drama. They would think something is wrong if a person was too peaceful, honest, calm. It was “too easy”, they would say. You know, gotta make em work for it!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:10 am
jammin’
So many times I need to have you by my side
To be my friend, my lover and my guide
Oh, baby
Don’t keep runnin’
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
10:11 am
DreamsM what is the daily blog bar drink special????
Will it be able to numb my wisdom teeth??
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
10:11 am
Ok DreamsM real talk ok……
Lady J It’ll serve you better in the end. Besides, you can’t mess with any Morehouse dudes other than me.
it sounds like the ladies you are meeting are afraid of running you off.
kimmie Funny thing is, I usually volunteer the answers to questions they probably should be asking. I’m just not trying to take you on a roller coaster ride and then say, “hey you never asked me what I was looking for”, but I’m sure plenty of guys do.
Benny Hill
May 25th, 2010
10:12 am
Women are like buses: If you miss one, there will be another along in a few minutes. There are not so many after midnight, but they are faster.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:13 am
Real talk…slim just wants someone she connects with, can laugh with, play around with for now but also, have it turn into something long term in the near future.
(afterall, need someone I can be comfy enough to unlease my heart & the CT on them in it’s purest form–uncaged, unguarded, uncensored) We are a package deal
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:14 am
Trevor Henny will numb it!!!!!!
Ok DreamsM you will be my only Morehouse Man!!!!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:15 am
The time has come for us to stop messin’ around
‘Cause don’t you know that I like havin’ you around
In my life
Oh, baby
It's me....lurker
May 25th, 2010
10:15 am
Usmc Dawg, I agree
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:18 am
My heart is yearning for your love
My heart is yearning for your love
My heart is yearning for you
Let me inside your love
Whoa…my heart is yearning for you
Let me inside your love
Your only
~his heart has to be there!!!!!!! not the blood from his brain! LOL!
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
10:20 am
Trevor Henny will numb it!!!!!!
In that case, DreamsM, pour me a henny straight up please.
Melo
May 25th, 2010
10:20 am
play around with for now but
@Slim……
hohoho…..seeeee…u on a slippery slope with that one…..
play around with fo Now…….??????????????????????????????
thats everyman’s wildest and raunchiest dream!
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
10:22 am
I’m just not trying to take you on a roller coaster ride and then say, “hey you never asked me what I was looking for”, but I’m sure plenty of guys do.
Dreams – You are a stand-up dude and believe me, those ladies will look back one day and appreciate that about you. Because yes, plenty dudes pull the “hey you never asked” card and go along for the ride until the light bulb goes off in the ladie’s head.
In fact Dreams, you are the kind of dude that used to break my heart on the regular and the kind I hated, lol!! But that is a compliment! Because I would say to myself, dang Dreams, why CAN’T you be READY now for a relationship with me?! You’re such a good guy!!!
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
10:22 am
Besides, you can’t mess with any Morehouse dudes other than me.
This statement about being a Morehouse man..yeah dude that is not bring about the thunder it use to..more like skin so soft dudes.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:22 am
the ending is my FAVORITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
Sang gap band!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
You can’t keep runnin’ in and out of my life
(Keep runnin’)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ummmmmm, hmmmm DreamsM, Kettle One, Splash of Pineapple/Cranberry!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:24 am
not all of them Kym……not all….lol
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
10:26 am
You can always tell a true fan. They never call it Sex IN the City since it’s Sex AND the City!
*pet peeve* lol
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:26 am
My homeboy just told me, “Chicks are cool but no one wants a fast track to the alter” LMAO that boy is a fool.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:27 am
lmbao ared!
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
10:27 am
@Lady J I didn’t say all. But err..I grew up here I was raised off Hunter Street(now MLK) near Morehouse..and err the men folks then are not the products they are producing now..those three “queens” excuse me “kings” that got carjack the other week..did nothing to help the current image folks have of Morehouse.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:27 am
Quoting song : “…why wait for eventually…..”
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
10:28 am
Assumptions:
(assuming everybody is being honest about what they communicating)
Melo I would also say people are making assumptions about what’s NOT communicated. They try to (mis)interpret from actions, but they’re off alot of times.
DreamsM what is the daily blog bar drink special????
<strong<Lady J
The Blog Bar drink of the day comes courtesy of Melo and is called the Angst Reliever. Chase that with a shot of Liquid Release for maximum results.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:30 am
Enter your comments here
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:30 am
can I just have a Tom Collins?
Melo
May 25th, 2010
10:33 am
courtesy of Melo and is called the Angst Reliever
@Dreamz
Yep!!..u my maan fo show!!
Some of the ladies really need that shot early in the morning after a nite spend clutching tightly to the satin sheets!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:33 am
why do guys post their dating profile pic
Either A) sleeping holding a pillow or teddy bear or B) just buck nekkid
SMH!!! WTF!!!!
The Mrs. (AKA Tazzee)
May 25th, 2010
10:34 am
Morning Folks!
I’ve long held the belief that men are like taxis. My hubby’s light just happened to be on when we met. He dated the ex before me for 2 1/2 years. They broke up in October. We met in March and were engaged by August. When she found out she was mad and I totally understand why.
I’m planning to see the movie this weekend, perfect addition to my 40th birthday celebration. Unfortunately, I’m not sure when. My stepdaughter’s graduation is Saturday and I’m trying to work around that. If all goes well, my friends and I will be checking out the first showing on Saturday followed by lunch.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:35 am
melo – you can’t just read the first part of the contract and not think you won’t get penalized for not reading the fine print….get distracted by the “play thang for now’ part and see if there won’t be consequences and repurcussions
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:36 am
cool kym…….
dreamsM hot mess you fool with melo I am running my ass the other way! lol hey melo!!!!! lol
geesh!!!!
I may have to bring out the smoking gun and be over it! sigh! lol
LTD “We bothe deserve each other’s love” is an deep song!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:37 am
hey tazzee mae
shut up melo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmbao!
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
10:38 am
Hey Mrs. Tazzee Mae Jenkins-Jones!LOL!!!
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
10:39 am
more like skin so soft dudes.
Kym Morehouse is a microcosm of the black community in America. If there is an influx of soft dudes at The House, it’s because there’s an influx of soft dudes in our communities. When I taught middle school in North Carlolina I saw this same phenomenon. Maybe fathers neglecting their kids, leaving women to
coddleraise these boys is at the root of the problem.I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:42 am
I could fall asleep right here, right now
(blame it on the waffles with peaches and veggie sausage)
i'm swiss
May 25th, 2010
10:45 am
“Golf maybe, but WHALES?? C’mon, somebody start up something on whales! Ha!”
abc — Don’t tempt fate, dude…
I had a prof form my American Romanticism class back at UGA who was obsessed with whales. Her entire office was wall-papered with whales pics; we spent all but 2 weeks of the quarter on 1 book: Moby Dick. She even wasted an entire 2-hour lecture session during Moby Dick showing us a Nat Geo video on whales! And the video was about blue whales, not sperm whales!
I’ve been in whale hell, man. It’s not a place you’d want to be…
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
10:46 am
My hubby’s light just happened to be on when we met. He dated the ex before me for 2 1/2 years. They broke up in October. We met in March and were engaged by August. When she found out she was mad and I totally understand why.
Ouch. That’s gotta hurt.
Welcome back Mrs. Tazzee Mae!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:47 am
“He dated the ex before me for 2 1/2 years. They broke up in October. We met in March and were engaged by August”
Exactly my point earlier….
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:50 am
go tech swiss! lol
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:50 am
Dreams – Angst Reliever…double shot, please kind sir. Does that come with a sidecar of baby wipe?
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:51 am
anyone seen Carlito?
Is he still on that horse?
i'm swiss
May 25th, 2010
10:51 am
“why do guys post their dating profile pic
Either A) sleeping holding a pillow or teddy bear or B) just buck nekkid”
Um…. i am… Exactly what dating site are you looking at…?
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
10:52 am
dang Dreams, why CAN’T you be READY now for a relationship with me?!
kimmie I think most of us have been there. Compatibility AND timing have to be there. Looks like timing is in your favor this go-around though. I always say that when you meet the person you’re supposed to be with, it’ll become crystal clear why all the other situations didn’t work out.
dreamsM hot mess you fool with melo I am running my ass the other way!
Lady J If you run, the dog is sure to chase you. lol Sometimes the best solution is to just BE STILL.
Oh Trev Henny straight up.
Grace
May 25th, 2010
10:53 am
I am.. I think those guys are trying too hard posting pic of them in a suggestive pose, although I’ve never seen a pic with a guy holding a teddy bear! UGH!
i'm swiss
May 25th, 2010
10:53 am
Tech knows its place, Lady J: Looking up at Uga’s hairy azz…
Taxi with broken light driving by
May 25th, 2010
10:54 am
If men are like taxis, what are women like? The general consensus amongst all my male (divorced) colleagues is that they’re like hearses.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:55 am
Grace, yes it makes me sick!
SMH!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:55 am
I am being still and knocked out some heavy weights trust DreamsM……i am sir being still………..lol
swiss!!!!!! lmbao!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:56 am
WHY IS THE BLOG EATING MY COMMENTS???
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:56 am
STILL WAITING ON MY DRINK
SAYING IN MY Anthony Marentino,VOICE: BARTENDER!!!!!!
LoveLife
May 25th, 2010
10:57 am
I agree with the analogy about men and taxis. Unfortunately, women have been programmed to behave as if our lights should always on — Mr. Right may be one block away!
How do you tell if the guy’s light is “on,” or (quoting the show) he’s just not that into you? Time will tell. He will let you know if he cares about investing in the relationship. In the meantime, we girls need to carry ourselves like precious cargo. Don’t just jump for the first taxi that approaches the curb!
That’s why movies and shows like “Sex and the City” are great. They underscore the fact that everyone has to go through trial and error. Discovering yourself can be a rewarding experience as you wait for that taxi to come. Then when the RIGHT taxi approaches — with the light on — you will be ready.
See you at the theater, ladies!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:58 am
Never on Sunday, Monday’s too soon
Tuesday and Wednesday just won’t do
Thursday and Friday we can begin
But our Saturday love will never end
Sugar…………For Always and Forever you will be my Saturday Love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
10:58 am
that’s what you get when you log onto horn-knee matches dot com.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:58 am
LOL!!! The scene where Samantha wears a Raquel Welch to spy on Richard always cracks me up
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
10:58 am
Dreams – Angst Reliever…double shot, please kind sir. Does that come with a sidecar of baby wipe?
Slim Why yes it does. Matter of fact just lie back and I’ll get that for you.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
10:59 am
Hey LoveLife!!!!!! Great Post!!!!!!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
10:59 am
LOL I’m not at horn-ee matches dot com
LOL!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:01 am
i ahve never did a dating site……nor speed dating….geesh….lol
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:01 am
meant have….
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
11:02 am
Forever mine
All because, you’re my kind,
Mmm
Oh, baby
I got what you want
You got what I want
We were made for each other
Forever mine
And I’m so glad
Cause it gets better with time
Oh, girl
I like what you like
You like what I like
And we were made for each other
Oh, baby
You are that someone
I’ve been hopin’, I’ve been lookin’ for
All my days
Don’t you ever think about leavin’
This heart of mine would be grievin’
Don’t go
Stay
Stay
Ooh,
Oh, girl
Oh, baby
I wanna love you
Love you so
Make it good, right down to the bone
To the bone
Cause it’s you I’m thinkin’ about pleasin’
Give you all the love you’re needin’
Don’t go
Please
The Mrs. (AKA Tazzee)
May 25th, 2010
11:02 am
AmRed – thanks!
Yeah, I’m sure that hurt but he said the reason he broke up with her is because he realized that they weren’t going to be married and he felt he was too old to just be dating.
Funny thing is, the same thing happened to me with the only other guy I thought I was going to marry. Less than a year after we broke up, he was engaged to another woman and it did hurt. That was back in 1998…
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:04 am
Ok, real talk, i am now jamming to the SOS Band-Just be Good to Me, and of course I am into lyrics….can a woman or do women truly live by this theme…..this would be a total lie for me……..lol….smh…….the question is after a certain age maybe do certain things don’t matter like I don’t care what you do just do me right……insight folks???? lol
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:04 am
I like dating sites.
I get more play from a dating site then being out in public…..
I want to try speed dating but they always have an event when I’m busy.
Lockandkeyevents.com is also fun.
You win prizes
The Mrs. (AKA Tazzee)
May 25th, 2010
11:05 am
Hey kimmie – my maiden name is the same as my married name, so now I’m just Mrs. Tazzee Mae Jenkins, LOL. Everyone tells me it’s a great thing that we have the same last name, but I always wanted to change my name. I’ll just take this blessing and run with it.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
11:05 am
‘Matter of fact just lie back and I’ll get that for you’
Dreams – this must be a 5star bar…never received such great customer service and attention to detail….mmmmm…oops, did I get some more on ya?
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
11:06 am
I am being still and knocked out some heavy weights trust DreamsM……i am sir being still
Lady J Good, that way I don’t have to run. lol
STILL WAITING ON MY DRINK
I am what are you having this morning? The special has been flying off the shelf. Are you interested?
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:07 am
Lovin the compliments that I am getting on my makeup and top.
Yep! I’m a hottie!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:07 am
Dreams I asked for a Tom Collins, nukka!!! (saying in my Esther from Sanford and Son voice)
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:08 am
LMBAO the special has beeing flying off the shelf….hmmmm I ordered a Kettle One! LOL
DreamsM you are a mess!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:08 am
My old supervisor is the best!!! He found something of mine that I had been missing since Feb!
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
11:08 am
@The Mrs..Hey there lady!! Welcome back to the Thunderdome.
@Dreams..thats right blame mama.(insert eyeroll here) Some of those “Juliets” come from well to do..two parent households and they still smell like sweet milk. But I understand you have to defend the house.
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
11:08 am
Less than a year after we broke up, he was engaged to another woman and it did hurt. That was back in 1998…
None of my exes have married on me yet, so I feel good about the “timing” excuse. However, I think my most recent ex will be engaged soon. He’s pushing 40 as well, so I don’t see what he’s waiting on!
Do you know if your ex is still married?
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:09 am
how cool tazzee!!!!
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
11:11 am
Everyone tells me it’s a great thing that we have the same last name, but I always wanted to change my name.
I can feel you. Seems a little anti climatic to go through the whole “two become one” and the name stays the same.
But I hear it’s a royal pain to get your name changed and everything transfered so you hit the jackpot there! And you can still check that coveted “married” box!
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
11:12 am
So it’s Tazzee Mae Jenkins-Jenkins.
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
11:13 am
Tazzee Mae Jenkins Jenkins – That’s Wild!!
That reminds me of this guy I had a major crush on in college. He was a little older – an assistant director of housing, but boy was he hot! We had the same last name, but he had an S on the end of his! I used to imagine what I would do if we got married!LOL!!!
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
11:14 am
the question is after a certain age maybe do certain things don’t matter like I don’t care what you do just do me right……insight folks????
for some folks, their personal happiness is the only thing that matters to them as they get older regardless to the thoughts of others. We are all looking for exclusivity with one person but the search gets difficult as we age. (Hard to write this listening to Chico DeBarge’s “Iggin’ Me”)
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:16 am
this guy I went to school with back in the day has the same last name as me.
He used to joke that we should get married.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:17 am
don’t feel like working today
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:17 am
ok sir thanks let me go find that song……….thanks Trevor…..
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
11:19 am
Welcome back, Mrs. Tazzee Mae Jenkins Jenkins.
AmazonRed™ -
May 25th, 2010
11:21 am
this guy I went to school with back in the day has the same last name as me.
He used to joke that we should get married.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:22 am
I love my son!!!!
he busted his lip last night leaning in a chair (I had been warning him about that since he turned 1 last year)
I tried to comfort him, but he was so mad. He acted like I did it
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
11:22 am
@Trevor..I don’t think it is the search that is difficult so much as the will to change and adapt is difficult. I mean if you have the habit of doing something a certain way for so long it is hard to break that habit cold turkey. The same with age and relationships. If you are so use to “Doing it My Way” it is difficult to adapt that you will now have to consult someone on their opinion of how certain things should be done. I mean while folks want exclusivity there is still that pesky problem of giving up some part of self to accomodate the other person.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:23 am
My mommys maiden name is not uncommon.
In fact all of those in her hometown with that name are related to her.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:23 am
typo: ment to say my mommys maiden name is not common.
Melo
May 25th, 2010
11:25 am
But if u try and enter into a relationship and communicate from jump that what u looking for is marriage u will def scare a guy,esp if u talking about guys in the 26-35 age range.
Its becoz for the most part,they want to date,find a good girl and eeeeventuaaaaaly,settle down.
The upfront communication that Dreamz and Kimmie are talking about,in my experience,only happens with older folks..say in the 36-40 + range coz those folks now kinda seem to have their own clock ticking and are consious of that.
In my own dating experience,when i was 25 +,if a chic i was seeing came to me str8 up with that thirsty marriage look, i was gone like a scared bird coz i was afraid of falling into a trap. And i dont think the landscape has changed that much as far as guys and chics are concerened.
A man will marry a chic that he has dated for a while and really feels she will make a good wife. Its not necessarily about catching them when the light bulb is on. The light bulb comes On when he realizes he has a good chic and there is no point in him continuing with the chase……. assuming this is a guy who has always believed in marriage.
Thats why ur selection and continued dating of this guy is key….if ur due diligence aint right,blame it on urself!
Dating and catching the right guy to marry is akin to stock selection for investment purposes. U gotta identify the guy,reseach on him/it,do they have a solid business,good management,growth prospects,martket share,leader in their industry,cutting edge technology..yada yada. There is no guarantee that the stock price will grow or that there wont be a major scandal at the company which will throw off ur hitherto projections u had on the company..u are just hedging ur bets based on some solid research.
U shld do the same way with a guy/chic and hope for the best. No guarantees tho.
I guess a guy with a light bulb thats On may end up being the wrong guy for u…cause u caught him when he was just ready and saying the “right” things.
But u two may not be a fit!
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
11:25 am
@Dreams..thats right blame mama.(insert eyeroll here)
Kym I believe I “blamed” mama AND daddy in my post. Moms wouldn’t have to raise children alone if pops stuck around and handled his business. I also didn’t say that single parent households were the only cause. I cited it as ONE such cause. Additionally, what does “well to do” have to do with anything (I didn’t mention it)? Are you implying that single parent households are limited to the impoverished? I don’t argue to “defend” The House. I am its biggest critic when it is not functioning in alignment with its stated mission. However, it doesn’t even make logical sense to blame it for a social dynamic that’s becoming more prevalent. What you say about The House can also be said about the military, but the military isn’t blame for homosexuality. More homosexuals in the military is just a manifestation of more homosexuals in society at large. I don’t take sides, I address the logic.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:28 am
hmmmmmmmmmmmm………
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:29 am
I am so happy I have class on Tuesday and Thursdays……..lol random…..
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:29 am
melo good post
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:30 am
trevor I have to look up the lyrics…..so much is being said while he sings……lol
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
11:32 am
I’m going in…I’m going in….. (going to attempt to do some work )
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:33 am
Trevor I see now said the blind man! I see your point! lol
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
11:35 am
I am alright, Tom Collins it is. Would you like extra top shelf gin in that?
Lady J here’s your Kettle One. I’ll keep ‘em coming.
this must be a 5star bar…never received such great customer service and attention to detail….mmmmm…oops, did I get some more on ya?
Slim you just realizing this is a 5 star bar??? You should know by now that I specialize in “servicing”. And don’t worry about getting anything on me. I’m not afraid of the liquid platinum.
Kym-Jack Bauer can hide out at my house.
May 25th, 2010
11:36 am
@Dreams I don’t think I blamed morehouse for anything. I made fun of the fact that Morehouse man..has taken on a whole new meaning. Save your outrage and go back to mixing your play-play drinks.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
11:39 am
lmbao…….ok DreamsM!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
11:49 am
Dreams – i’m just sayin, this is Niiiiiicccceeee!
‘Save your outrage and go back to mixing your play-play drinks.’ <—fighting words..
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
11:59 am
Save your outrage and go back to mixing your play-play drinks.
@DreamsM, did Kym just pat you on your head and basically tell you to go play in the corner??
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:00 pm
wow a 6 years dies in the crossfire…..and a 33yr old man……geesh….
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
12:07 pm
Heard about that story this morning. The police said the shooting started over a woman.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:09 pm
I heard that too…..smh……wonder how she feels now…….i know she can’t control grown folk but that baby dead I would be torn up….
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:09 pm
I need to find out why my BB email isn’t working……geesh…..
CoolShadow
May 25th, 2010
12:15 pm
A man will marry a chic that he has dated for a while and really feels she will make a good wife. Its not necessarily about catching them when the light bulb is on. The light bulb comes On when he realizes he has a good chic and there is no point in him continuing with the chase……. assuming this is a guy who has always believed in marriage.
That’s a pretty good description of a man’s “taxi light”. There’s also a segment of men who wake one morning and decide they want to be married (seemingly moreso to establish posterity than for companionship) so they’ll drive around constantly with their light on. And the women who happen to be within the orbit of where they’re cruising at that time seemed to be likely targets. But it also seems as though the ones who cruise purposely for a wife have less stringent standards as opposed to the ones who just stumble on to “the one” by happenstance.
For Real (aka Shake Weight)
May 25th, 2010
12:18 pm
On topic: Why do women make ish so freakin hard? Why can’t it be like this when a chick meets a cool dude:
Chick: Dude you are a cool dude.
Dude: You too except for the dude part.
Chick: I want to be married in 3yrs. What about you?
Congrats to Mrs. Tazzee Mae Jenkins-Jankens
play-play drinks – That tickled
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:21 pm
alrighty it was my bb pin that was this issue….fixed now…..valued sprint customer….lol they are alright with me…lol
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
12:23 pm
Anybody seen Janet Jacksons new short hairdo?
Melo
May 25th, 2010
12:26 pm
But it also seems as though the ones who cruise purposely for a wife have less stringent standards as opposed to the ones who just stumble on to “the one” by happenstance.
@Cool shadow??
cruising purposely to me sounds like somebody woke up and felt like thyre running late for the train..they gotta hurry up or else…..they get thirsty and hence can easily stumble.(less stringent i agree)
The ones with time on their hands are just messing and mixing and then in the throes of enjoyment,the One to be chosen may just happen to appear on the horizon.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:31 pm
no slim post a pic….lol
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
12:38 pm
@SlimOne ~ the pic I saw of it looked like she just came from the barber’s chair. All slicked down. Apparently, her hair has thinned over the years.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:38 pm
http://glo.msn.com/relationships/debunking-dude-theory-1533313.story?gt1=49006
interesting read…..
Grace
May 25th, 2010
12:38 pm
Slim I saw a pic of Janet’s nu do Friday, it looks good on her. Matter of fact she looks a lot younger now, fresh!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:41 pm
leggs just saw a pic so used toher with long hair….she is still pretty….
Sassy Me..Milk in my Koffee :-)
May 25th, 2010
12:42 pm
Anybody seen Janet Jacksons new short hairdo?
I saw it yesterday and I loved it…she looks great.
Sassy Me..Milk in my Koffee :-)
May 25th, 2010
12:44 pm
Lady J I read that article on MSM,too…haven’t really formed an opinion on it just yet…
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:45 pm
me either Sassy this is my 3rd time reading it today going in for the 4th….I am trying to break some parts down…..
CoolShadow
May 25th, 2010
12:48 pm
@Melo
That’s the attitude projected from the dudes I observed doing this. It was “I wanna be married” just because, without any giving any real thought to the ramifications or justification for doing so. But hey, whatever drives your taxi….
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
12:54 pm
……and the beat goes on…..lol
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:02 pm
yippie the jefferson’s come on at 2 and 230 then I can start part 2 of my day! all smiles! this lazy mode is alright with me! lol
Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)
May 25th, 2010
1:04 pm
this is my 3rd time reading it today going in for the 4th….I am trying to break some parts down…..
Exactly…there are some valid points being made and one or two that’s got me like
but it’s an interesting read nonetheless.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:06 pm
yep sassy….its a good article…..lol
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:11 pm
yeah I saw Janet’s hair. Hmmmmnnn
Dreams make sure you use Tanguaray!
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
1:12 pm
hey everyone!
just coming up for air for a sec, this last week of school is a beast.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:14 pm
hey pk honey!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:16 pm
wow some of my higher up classes are going to be 15 week vs 7.5……i likes that…..
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:22 pm
this chick I work with is wearing shorts.That’s not in the dress code
Melo
May 25th, 2010
1:25 pm
That’s not in the dress code
@I am!!
that means shes fluccking the Big boss!
LoveLife
May 25th, 2010
1:26 pm
The 10 Biggest Myths About Guys
http://glo.msn.com/relationships/debunking-dude-theory-1533313.story?gt1=49006
This MSN article is really interesting. Good points worth discussing.
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
1:27 pm
Anybody seen Janet Jacksons new short hairdo?
She looks very sexy now. Janet, holla at your boy!!!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
1:31 pm
@Trevor0529 ~ the pic I saw of Janet she’s walking with her new bf. He looks mob related…be careful!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:32 pm
Melo, please believe….she is not porking the boss!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:32 pm
Janet and new boyfriend? When did I miss that
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
1:32 pm
Hello All!!
taking a breather before i head out to Illy. saw the pic of Janet’s new look. did she cut off all her hair or is she’s just ditching the weave? dunno, but i like it. she resembles michelle obama now with those high cheek bones. i wonder if it might get s/o to OK a drastic cut for me …. but i already know the answer to that one.
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
1:34 pm
yeah Leggs, he looks kinda skiddish.
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
1:37 pm
did she cut off all her hair or is she’s just ditching the weave?
that was my thought too
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
1:38 pm
@Trevor0529 ~ he looks a hot mess, much like J-Lo and Marc Anthony. He looks mob related too!
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
1:38 pm
and he looks like he has dumped a few body filled garbage bags in the river in his short life.
Im just sayin’
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
1:38 pm
My mom just decided to cut her hair short last week. When my sister called to tell me the news I was like, let me call her rhet now. I was like mom, is there something you need to talk to me about…a mid-life crisis perhaps…she just started laughing. But it’s still cute
Guess the older you get, the less you want to deal with. I’m going to have h3ll when I get older cuz slim can’t let this big ole head out from under this hair. Head just isn’t shaped for that. Will be looking like ET in this bytch!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
1:39 pm
@czB ~ I too know the answer to that!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
1:40 pm
@Trevor0529 ~ I’m saying the same thing!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:41 pm
ALOL@ Will be looking like ET in this bytch!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:41 pm
<—-Craving grits from South City Kitchen
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
1:45 pm
Guess the older you get, the less you want to deal with
@ slim
actually short hair is more maintenance than long hair
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
1:45 pm
HA! Leggs, you’re funny! could you see it in his eyes?
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:46 pm
Awwww look @ that baby: http://www.accessatlanta.com/atlanta-events/zoo-atlanta-orangutan-infant-534905.html
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
1:46 pm
PK, you’re absolutely right. nothing quite as easy as a pony tail
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:47 pm
Hey Leggs/Lady, what theater are we going to on Friday?
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
1:49 pm
@Cz,
my previous beautician specialized in short hair and it took them chicks longer in the chair, and they had weekly/bi-weekly standing appts. And me with my long hair took way less time part of the reason i changed beauticians i aint have time to be waiting on all them fantasia-esque hair-do’s
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:49 pm
it doesn’t matter chica I am free as a bird! keep me posted
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
1:50 pm
@I am ~ I believe LadyJ and some of her friends are going to the theatre.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
1:51 pm
‘actually short hair is more maintenance than long hair’
Princessnik – not when it’s just a barber shop buzz cut away….lol Saw a chick at church week before last, that sat next to me. She had a low fad but it looked so good on her round head…you see my head…naw, that ain’t even bout to work over here. She said her friend were telling her not to do it. But you’ll never know till you try. If I did that, i’d be in a wig within the next 5 minutes looking like I belong in the witness protection program
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:51 pm
after our june 4th Happy hour we need to set a date for the aquarium happy hour! that should be new and fun!
I will let czBrat coordinate that one…….lol
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:52 pm
no leggs I was going Thursday alone but I can wait to friday with yall after dinner sounds good to me
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
1:52 pm
Janet probably got tired of that weave. I saw a lady in my salon getting one a few weeks ago & I don’t see how folks do it.
I’m so glad my SO does not trip about hair. I’ve gone short & sassy & most folks still can’t get over the fact that I’m grown and can do what I want! Plus, when I wore it long all I did was be lazy and end up putting it in a ponytail. This way I look sassy and more professional at the same time.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:54 pm
can we go to Atlantic station?
I want to use my free movie ticket there
Beautiful
May 25th, 2010
1:55 pm
hello all!
only reason i’m going to see the movie is because i was invited to girls nite out! rec’d invite like a month ago. i’m a redbox fan. i can wait.
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
1:57 pm
yup, kimmie. i tried on a very short wig in a store once and i really liked the sophisticated vibe i had in that. any talk of cutting my hair makes my mama’s, daughter’s and s/o’s bottom lip start quivering.
aquarium date Lady J …. i’m on it!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:57 pm
YES WE CAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 lol
I am excited I Am!!!!! we will enjoy!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
1:57 pm
Thanks Chica CzBrat!!!!! I love my virtual world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
1:57 pm
My hair is shoulder length but it is thick so it takes time to get these tresses of mine to lay down. I get tired of it too but I very seldom rock a pony tail though. I usually wrap my hair at night so the only time that it get’s a curling iron or flat iron in it is at my bi-weekly standing hair appt. I’m trying to let my bangs grow back out, but every week i’m struggling with decision to just wack it off again. lol
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
1:59 pm
Kool Lady!!! my movie tix is for any regal theater which would make Atlantic station be the closest.
Ooooh!!! I can’t wait!!!! Nearly bout to jump out of my seat.
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
1:59 pm
when I wore it long all I did was be lazy and end up putting it in a ponytail.
@ Kimmie, I was like that prior to 30, now i rarely sport a ponytail except to the gym or to the hair salon
not when it’s just a barber shop buzz cut away
@ Slim, i’ve noticed alot more women sporting this look I’m not sure how i feel about it but i know i won’t be trying it
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:00 pm
cool beans!
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
2:03 pm
but every week i’m struggling with decision to just wack it off again. lol
Slim, I don’t think I’ll ever have the patience to let it grow past a bob again!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
2:04 pm
Oooh Aquariaum happy hour! That sounds nice.
Getting inebriated with the fishes
Melo
May 25th, 2010
2:04 pm
Guys,lets head to the strip joint..wings are on me..1st round of beer is on Dreamz.
strokkers is better today and more rowdy and fun coz 4 $5, u get 2 dances from 2 different cuties!
the ladies are in the hair salon,so we str8!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
2:04 pm
I wacked my hair. Happy with the results too
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:05 pm
LMBAO!!!!!!!!
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
2:05 pm
@ Slim, my hair is a past shoulder length and its getting harder to wrap at night, i have the long hair pins for wrapping but its kinda getting to a point where i could just wear it bone straight.
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
2:05 pm
ALOL @ Melo
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
2:08 pm
ooohh I want a cupcake from Gigi’s
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
2:10 pm
Strip club doesn’t sound bad. Hmmmmmm!
Good idea Melo!!
The Mrs. (AKA Tazzee)
May 25th, 2010
2:11 pm
AmRed – yes, my ex is still married. We have mutual friends so I saw them at a wedding two years ago. I guess they’re 11 years strong now.
Y’all know I love the ponytail, I can’t imagine the maintenance of a short hairstyle. I got it cut to about an inch below my ear about 5 years ago – haven’t cut it since. I needs the ponytail!!!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
2:12 pm
PrincessNik – yeah mine gets hard to wrap too due to the length and thickness. Lot’s of folks ask me if i’m wearing a wig. LOL I tell them the secret is my beautician and that miracle ceramic flat iron
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
2:16 pm
melo – i don’t too much care about getting a dance, but I could sure go for a beer…and although i’ve never eaten in a skrip joint, some wangs sound good
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
2:16 pm
Save your outrage and go back to mixing your play-play drinks.
Kym Dang come back from lunch a got attacked…kinda. Pinpoint one word in my posts that implies “outrage”. Is that really the word you meant to use? I’m sure everyone would agree that the blog as a whole is for “play-play”. Now have one of these pretend drinks and pretend to lighten up. It’s all love!
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
2:17 pm
Slim, same here LOL, and my beautician keeps teasing saying lemme cut off about 2 inches, i’m like noooooo let it grow 2 or 3 more inches, she swears she will stop doing my hair but I doubt it LOL.
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
2:18 pm
i indulged in letting my niece (newly licensed) blow/flat iron my hair every week for about a month. it was cool, but i just couldn’t take going days and days without washing it. so i’m back to my daily wash and wear waves.
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:20 pm
Have any of you heard about this mess:
“Word in the Christian circle is that prophetess Juanita Bynum has a new love interest – Beyonce’s father Mathew Knowles.
According to our source, Mathew and Juanita have been friends from MANY YEARS and she has counseled him in the past through his hardships.
The insider tells MediaTakeOut.com that the two are, “exploring taking their friendship further.” And there’s more. Juanita just signed on to have Mathew manage her career. INTERESTING!!”
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:20 pm
Have any of you heard about this mess:
“Word in the Christian circle is that prophetess Juanita Bynum has a new love interest – Beyonce’s father Mathew Knowles.
According to our source, Mathew and Juanita have been friends from MANY YEARS and she has counseled him in the past through his hardships.
The insider tells MediaTakeOut.com that the two are, “exploring taking their friendship further.” And there’s more. Juanita just signed on to have Mathew manage her career. INTERESTING!!”
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
2:20 pm
PK, i’ve taken off about 4 inches in the last 6 months. it’s still mid-back. now i’m undecided as to whether i should keep going up or back down. summer always makes me want it short.
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
2:20 pm
cz, not all of us have that “quality” of hair
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:22 pm
geesh…..lol……
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
2:22 pm
now i’m undecided as to whether i should keep going up or back down
@ CZ i’ve been at that crossroads LOL, i went as high up as the “rihanna bob” and now i’m back to letting it grow as long as it will
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
2:23 pm
So what’s the topic now? Short hair cuts and Juanita Bynum? She “counseled” him huh? I’m sorry I couldn’t resist. lol
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
2:23 pm
Word in the Christian circle is that prophetess Juanita Bynum has a new love interest – Beyonce’s father Mathew Knowles.
In heaven, God must be looking and saying “Really?!?!?!”
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:24 pm
Getting inebriated with the fishes
All’s cool as long as you don’t wind up in the tank with any of them!
What in the H….how’d I post 2x.
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
2:25 pm
HA! hardly
my hair is relaxed. i just prefer to wear it with leave in conditioner and let it air dry every day. i truly believe that’s why it grows so long and healthy. it’s happy!!
Leggs, i really don’t know anything about that couple, but i must say that an article i read in an old essence about their marriage/divorce issues left me completely unimpressed with her. she had the tone of a total victim.
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
2:25 pm
Leggs, that’s wild. Wonder if she’s going to be step-mommy to his new baby!LOL!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:26 pm
LMBAO DreamsM!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:27 pm
A man with lots of baggage
Matthew Knowles!
Fortunately, he has a lot of money to help matters along!
Melo
May 25th, 2010
2:29 pm
@Slim..not eaten in a strip either but hey…i dont think it hurts to have those traces of the vjay juices and fumes on them wangs…
think about it,we lick ‘em when in the cut so….?
@Trevor0529 – 4 until 42..can u please do the math and check who is coming..we geting a group table right next to the “private” section just in case somebody in our group wants to take it to the next level inside with some skripper.
@Czbrat..i have a qstion….”i’ve taken off about 4 inches ”
Is 4 inches long??..how long??
I am researching something…….. to do with our impending blog men group visit to strokkers…well..u can take a wild guess if u want!
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
2:30 pm
food at a strip joint.
That don’t go well LOL
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
2:30 pm
Princess – my beautician won’t let me get streaks…over last few years have been getting my hair back healthy…but i trust her judgement so oh well for any highlights for now.
‘Now have one of these pretend drinks and pretend to lighten up.’
Dreams – Good comeback…(I will now pretend to laugh – lol)
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
2:32 pm
I could probably deal more with ordering something to eat at the shoe show but definitely would be skeptical in eating at a skrip club buffet.
czBrat
May 25th, 2010
2:35 pm
i’m off to fly the friendly skies. ciao good people!
Melo, i’d answer your questions but i get the feeling you’re being nasty
i can never tell with you.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:37 pm
enjoy czBrat!
Melo
May 25th, 2010
2:37 pm
skeptical in eating at a skrip club buffet
@SlimOne..
so i take it ,u always go to the strip with ur white mask on.
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
2:41 pm
Ok don’t stone me for being out of the loop. Is Mathew Knowles no longer married to Beyonce’s mom, or is this another adulterous scandal?
Dreams – Good comeback…(I will now pretend to laugh – lol)
Slim lol you keep the jokes coming. That’s tight.
PrincessNik....I'm Focused Man!
May 25th, 2010
2:42 pm
my beautician won’t let me get streaks…over last few years have been getting my hair back healthy…but i trust her judgement so oh well for any highlights for now.
@ Slim, I made the decision myself to lay off the highlights, my previous beautician bleached me (without my knowledge also another reason for my departure) and every since then I have been against the highlighting thing, not against color so much because well premature greying runs in the family and i refuse to walk around with a salt and pepper patch at 30 1/2
until recently though i was only doing “rinses”, i just for the first time in like 2 years had perm color (the same as my natural color) done.
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:44 pm
Don’t know about other strip joints, but the food at Strokers comes from the restaurant next door. You order at Strokers and they bring it over. I was shocked, but their Patty Melts are very, very good.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:44 pm
he has a new baby son from a girlfriend dreamsM and him and his wife divorced……same ole same ole lol
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
2:45 pm
’so i take it ,u always go to the strip with ur white mask on’
melo – naw, not white gloves…but I tend to wear the Trojan Body Condom when I go places like that.
Dreams – you knows I lob you
PrincessNik – Chile greying runs in my fam too. I use this color conditioner which is almost like a rinse but it colors the gray that makes it look like red streaks. Hair is something else….WORK!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:48 pm
@DreamsM ~ to ask that you are definitely out of the loop. The paternity test came back positive that he’s the father of the other woman’s baby. Who didn’t know that?
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
2:49 pm
Meaning, the only persons who didn’t know that was Mrs. Knowles!
Wise Diva
May 25th, 2010
2:50 pm
hey everyone! I am officially out of LURK status. My office is no longer a jungle. I just got back from my nieces graduation from the 8th grade. I can’t believe the twins are going to be in High school in the fall! I swear it feels as if they were in diapers like 2 years ago haha!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:52 pm
Hey Wise Diva!!!!!
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:52 pm
Right on Leggs!
Wise Diva
May 25th, 2010
2:52 pm
I see your point USMC, at the same time, any fan of the show will tell you that the writers from the show ALWAYS wrote about THEIR misadventures in dating, so in a way it’s based in reality, therefore it was art imitating life, erego…you guys have porn, we got Sex and the City, let’s just call it even with no judgment, ok pumpkin.
Lady J-You can't keep running in and out of my life~
May 25th, 2010
2:53 pm
Lordy let me get ready for class!
Have a good evening folks!!!!
Peace!
Melo
May 25th, 2010
2:55 pm
I was shocked, but their Patty Melts are very, very good.
@Leggs!
how recent was that?
and next time u going,plz check with me so we go tgether…i just want to check the expression on ur face when u got a girl dancing on ya..esp when she does that “booty still” move and then goes ahead to finger and open her vjay showing u the insides of her cherry…
Trevor0529 - 4 until 42
May 25th, 2010
3:01 pm
LMAO!!! @ Melo.
It's me....lurker
May 25th, 2010
3:04 pm
Have any of you heard about this mess:
“Word in the Christian circle is that prophetess Juanita Bynum has a new love interest – Beyonce’s father Mathew Knowles.
According to our source, Mathew and Juanita have been friends from MANY YEARS and she has counseled him in the past through his hardships.
The insider tells MediaTakeOut.com that the two are, “exploring taking their friendship further.” And there’s more. Juanita just signed on to have Mathew manage her career. INTERESTING!!”
BELIEVE HALF OF WHAT YOU SEE AND NONE OF WHAT YOU HEAR (READ)
Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)
May 25th, 2010
3:05 pm
Word in the Christian circle is that prophetess Juanita Bynum has a new love interest – Beyonce’s father Mathew Knowles.
That couldn;t possibly be true(or at least I hope not)….so is she gonna help him raise his new baby(the illegitimate one)…are him and Tina divorced yet? Oh hellz naw…
kimmie
May 25th, 2010
3:09 pm
I think they make a nice-looking couple!LOL!!!
She need to stop with calling herself a phophetess!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
3:09 pm
@Melo ~ come here and take your medication….swallow, swallow, good. Now go sit your arse down!
I haven’t been since last summer. I received a lap dance and complimented the lady on her body movements. So???? (LOL)
JtJ
May 25th, 2010
3:10 pm
Afternoon Folks,
I see Mrs. Tazzee is back from the honeymoon!! Hope you had a great time!!
WHo has the info for the June 4th event?????—-Leggs-Please e-mail…I think I can make that one.
Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)
May 25th, 2010
3:14 pm
She need to stop with calling herself a phophetess!
I concur b/c that’s just embarrassing.
Mathew and Juanita have been friends from MANY YEARS and she has counseled him in the past through his hardships.
So was she counseling him when he was stroking that girl he’s got the baby with…chile puhleaze…that is a hawt mess.
Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)
May 25th, 2010
3:15 pm
WHo has the info for the June 4th event?????—-Leggs-Please e-mail…I think I can make that one.
Ditto…
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
3:16 pm
I didn’t see anything nor did I hear anything, I read (lol)!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
3:18 pm
@ it’s me…I know what you’re saying…
oops, forgot to send out the evite on 6/4. Will send out tomorrow with pertinent info.
Melo
May 25th, 2010
3:18 pm
I received a lap dance and complimented the lady on her body movements. So????
@Leggs?
i see…unfortunately, u hetero females only get 3rd grade service…
Next time, i wll go when its lesbo nite..i hear they do have a lesbo nite at Strkkers…
A lesbo shemale will sit on the chair,eyes blood shot,looking at that vjay and bring out the best in the skripper.
Lesbo shemale
in hoarse voice) ” hey baby,give it to me,yeah,like that….” as the skripper does her routine and goes all out to sho out and open that purple-pionk onion inside… ..
coz im cheap and dont wanna pay 4 my own lap, I be standing right there….watching and eavesdropping on those steamy proceedings!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
3:22 pm
{{{crickets}}} at you know who!
For Real (aka Shake Weight)
May 25th, 2010
3:24 pm
For Real is now being counsel by the Profit-tess not to slap the ish out of Wise for comparing relationship (scratch that) life sustaining, peace keeping, and number use for lotion to some silly azz chicks flick.
Sassy Me..Rude gal in a di place :-)
May 25th, 2010
3:30 pm
?????????
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
3:39 pm
How is everyone?
Men are like taxis? What does that mean, maybe I should read to catch up, nope LOL
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
3:41 pm
Carlito – you wouldn’t know because you always take a horse….
LoveLife
May 25th, 2010
3:45 pm
Carlito!!!
Even the newbies like me missed your input! Hope you are well.
LoveLife
May 25th, 2010
3:45 pm
In Carlito’s absence, Melo is keeping it hot, as usual.
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
3:50 pm
Lovelife,
I was missed?
I have been at the Indy 500 qualifying sessions testing frame and tire tolerances.
SlimOne, I don’t always take a horse but it is always near. Kind of like Ghostriders motorcycle. LOL
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
3:51 pm
You all talked about marriage and rings yesterday, I missed that one. LOL Julia picked the ring she wanted by default of my actions. She is happy.
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
3:52 pm
Being “love sick” does not justify doing “dumb shyt”
Melo
May 25th, 2010
3:54 pm
Im seriously thinking of joining a swinger club..but will join in solo to begin with…testing the waters
whatchuall think??
anybody here who can give me credible,real lyfe experience and advice on that side of thangs??
i think i need some red hot spice. in my lyfe…………………………………
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
3:56 pm
Melo, just start off by watching
Always think if you are willing to share your wife like you are willing to share yourself. LOL
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
4:09 pm
Carlito, is your horse similar to Kit on Knight Ryder? LOL! I sort of miss that zipping back and forth red light on the front of the car and that cool voice…
Melo – if you need spice, why not just invest in a sex swing or something…might not be the Swinging lifestyle you had in mind, but it’s a start.
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:11 pm
SlimOne, yes my horse is
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:11 pm
a sex swing or something??
@Slim
whats that and how is it different……
u got valuable info and advice Slim !
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
4:16 pm
melo you know good & well that a swingers club is different than a Sex swing. However, what you can do is start your own sex swing club. Ya’ll can be like bikers and get leather jackets with the club emblem on it…Ya’ll can meet up at some nasty abandoned warehouse and have sex in each other’s swing…lol
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:20 pm
LOL
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
4:21 pm
aayyy !!! Carlito!!!!
Dreams Mat hook my man up with a shot and send me another round of Tom Collins
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
4:24 pm
I am – looks like everyone got drunk & dipped out early..We might just have to fend for ourselves at the bar. Now only if I can find out where Dreams keeps the key to the licka cabinet
I am whatever you say I am
May 25th, 2010
4:25 pm
lol At licka cabinet!!!
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:27 pm
I Am, how are ya’?
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:33 pm
@CARLITO..
I am has not been doing well…..u remember that dude she liked and mooned sometime back??
yeah,she thoght things were progressing and proposed to him,going all out to said, “I luv u” ….to him….
and dude just replied and said,” I appreciate it”
so she kinda hurt right now!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
4:38 pm
melo – you need a spanking. LOL! Bad you are
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:42 pm
so i take it pple in here dont know none about swinging except Slim….
black folks are so secretive..everywhere all over the world,its the same….they dont like to share info..
just sad sad sad !!
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
4:43 pm
Hola!
I know we are not on topic. I haven’t read any messages I am just happy to be FREE. Man, it was so boring I didn’t know if I should stand up and hit’em with that flex or do the stanky leg. So I just stayed in my chair
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:45 pm
Melo, she proposed to him and told him “I love you” and he said “I appreciate it”?
Well, he is not obligated to say yes or I love you back.
I Am, are you at peace now?
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
4:45 pm
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
4:46 pm
@Melo ~ it wasn’t your place to say all of that.
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
4:47 pm
wassup I am, Melo, lady j, PK, leggs and czbrat
Thanks for the link!
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:47 pm
Professor,
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:48 pm
Hello Leggs.
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
4:49 pm
There goes my baby…singing like usher @Carlito
wassup
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:49 pm
@Leggs..i take it back!
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
4:49 pm
Slim now trying to pry the licka cabinet open with her teeth
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:49 pm
@Proff!
i have been auditioning all along!
hola at u!
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:50 pm
Even if you are in love and tell that person you love them, just because they do not say it when you say it means that they love you less. That is like someone sneezing and you are waiting on me to say “bless you”. I don’t have to say “bless you” the person who sneezes should just say “excuse me”. If I feel like saying “bless you” I will. LOL
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:51 pm
Professor, are you a naughty professor?
“ooo girl look at you”
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
4:51 pm
Hello Carlito ~ How’s everything?
@SlimOne ~ back up all you’ll wind up like that toofless woman RandyT kept seeing @ BurgerKing!
The likka will rot your teef in due time, don’t jumpstart the process.
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:52 pm
Leggs, I am wonderful
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:54 pm
“Take of those store shoes and put on some wh*re shoes”
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
4:54 pm
@Carlito….lmao
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:54 pm
the person who sneezes should just say “excuse me”. If I feel like saying “bless you” I will. LOL
the wise man of dawsonville!
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:54 pm
On the homepage it reads that “Atlanta is the fittest city in the South East” That is not saying much about the South East.
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
4:55 pm
What’s going on Prof??? Bout time you came from behind that curtain!
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:56 pm
South east atlanta or south east Of atlanta??
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:56 pm
Melo, I have had someone upset with me because I did not say “bless you”. I asked her why did you not say “excuse me” LOl
DreamsMaterialize
May 25th, 2010
4:57 pm
Dreams Mat hook my man up with a shot and send me another round of Tom Collins
I am you got it.
Dreams keeps the key to the licka cabinet
Depends on which “licka cabinet” you are talking about. One stores spirits, and the other gets spirited when stimulated.
SlimOne...Sexin' in the City
May 25th, 2010
4:57 pm
Leggs – so you mean imma have ta werk at booger kang if i lose me teefasis? Awww shucks!
Melo
May 25th, 2010
4:57 pm
Bout time you came from behind………….(what curtain)
@Leggs??
i knew u wld spoil it
behind and curtain….sme wrong……..
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
4:58 pm
@melo..lol
@leggs I wanted to get on here all day!
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
4:58 pm
Enjoy the evening.
Strengthen your character by knowing which things in life are non-negotiable to you. ~ Unknown
Carlito
May 25th, 2010
4:58 pm
Melo, South East of the United States. In total rankings Atlanta came in as the 16th fittest city, my home town area came in 3rd
http://www.ajc.com/news/atlanta/study-atlanta-fittest-city-534937.html
Professor~FREE AT LAST!
May 25th, 2010
5:01 pm
Melo leggs probably meant I haven’t been on the blog today. Leggs love me, so she was sayin’ she miss ol’ ‘fessor today!
Melo
May 25th, 2010
5:03 pm
@Proff??
so who was that coming from ur behind?? It cant be u coming to ur behind..could it?
Leggs
May 25th, 2010
5:08 pm
@Prof ~ yes, that’s what I meant….wording all screwed up thanks to Mr. Fettish Melo.
Carrie
May 25th, 2010
7:02 pm
If anyone has seen Mr. BIG tell him to call home…
Gorgeous Green Eyes
May 25th, 2010
7:31 pm
Men can see better than they can think……………………………..AND Men respond to DISTANCE not WORDS……………………..
2CPTG
May 25th, 2010
11:12 pm
dammit man……I gotta figure out a way to start back posting again…..missin’ some good stuff…..