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The biggest liars

According to our friends across the pond, men are bigger liars” Men lie the most and feel less guilty about it — but women are the better liars, a British survey has found.” You have to love those  studies! Human behavior and the reason we do the things we do always plays out on the dating scene.

It’s kind of par for the course to either catch someone in a lie or tell some zinger to someone to get out of something, or um into something.  I suppose there are times when we feel justified in lying by omission, misleading people, or outright telling a very tall tale.  It’s still very wrong. Yet, somehow lies lead to more lies.

It’s actually a real issue that a lot of us face and sometimes worry about. How do you know if the person you have met and started dating is not a raging liar?

The CNN article listed the the top male lies and top female lies.  I am curious to know what are some of the craziest lies you’ve ever heard?  I’ve had men get pretty creative with their “enhancement on the truth” stories.  I could totally write a book! I think the biggest liar was the guy who claimed he had a twin brother and tried to date my college room mate and I simultaneously.  Ah, the memories!

I’m no angel though, I once told a guy that I cooked some meals that were actually catered foods.  He was one of those “she must cook” guys that I was trying to impress.  I was busted on the third time, though!

What about you? Who was your biggest liar? What are you guilty of lying about? No judgment here!

532 comments Add your comment

Carlito

May 21st, 2010
11:04 am

M., you are a gentleman for even giving her a rid home. “CTRL,ALT, DELETE”

Dig That

May 21st, 2010
11:04 am

“3 minutes before hand….WTF YO!!!!”

@Demi- That is the worst. I have been through that myself and I’m looking at this chick like are you serious. I had to ask her R u retarded or do you think I’m retarded? Got up and left her right there at the bar.

Melo

May 21st, 2010
11:06 am

Because she ran into an ex that may still have feelings for her?

and she was attempting to duck because………………..?? :???:

trick?

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:08 am

Professor, I’ve been buying VS underwear so long i can match it online too, and trust i’m getting the matching panties also ;)

Professor

May 21st, 2010
11:08 am

M. I take it you was driving? Why did you tell dude you can get at her right now because she needs a ride home :grin: ?

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

May 21st, 2010
11:09 am

copied and paste and wish I can reverse and tell it to someone but oh the hell well the next bullsh*ter will get it with a humble smile!

Thanks for sharing leggs! :)

M. (pronouced M dot)

May 21st, 2010
11:09 am

@Raqi

It wasnt her fault, maybe it was a coincedence, maybe not. But I blame myself because she picked that place. I learned my lesson. A good man once said, You never follow your woman…

Professor

May 21st, 2010
11:11 am

@PK for some reason I have to do my matching in the store. I like that bodyline of underwear the ones that are 3/$30 I will go to the store and see what I can find otherwise I might need your help online.

Leggs

May 21st, 2010
11:11 am

@Prof ~ that would have been a perfect comeback! M. she really deserved to be left right where she was standing.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

May 21st, 2010
11:12 am

dammit i lost 5 bucks I hope it is tangle in something I am hungry!

abc

May 21st, 2010
11:13 am

Raqi, of course my wife is that way, too. Her typical dodge is to just withhold information. There’s an endless list of stuff she’ll refuse to talk about. I just leave her to it; if she thinks it’s that important that it has to be a secret, then I don’t want to know.

I am whatever you say I am

May 21st, 2010
11:14 am

professor, trainer is my job trainer.

Carlito

May 21st, 2010
11:14 am

Princess and Professor, I like where you alls conversation is going. Go ahead and help each other with your panties, don’t mind me at all. :)

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:16 am

Carlito! SMDH LOL

Professor no problemo

Melo

May 21st, 2010
11:17 am

Me too Carlito…im really clued in,eavesdropping on the tantalizing titbits…..bodyline yea yeah,..ooooweeeeeee! :lol:

Raqi

May 21st, 2010
11:17 am

But I blame myself because she picked that place. I learned my lesson.

Oh come on Mdot how can one ever know who they are going to run into on any given day? You could have chosen the venue and still run into one of her exes. Or even one of yours. It happens. If you don’t want your woman to just happen to run into an ex I guess you need to only date women who have just recently moved to your city.

Evidently she didn’t think you all would run into anyone if she tried to prevent him from seeing her. Don’t be so hard on women and yourself.

Luvbug

May 21st, 2010
11:17 am

How cute…I pulled up Google and PacMan is it’s Google shape today. It allows you to click on it and play it.

Carlito

May 21st, 2010
11:20 am

M. (pronouced M dot)

May 21st, 2010
11:20 am

@Professor
LOL that was a good point. I made a rookie mistake.

Guys, is there ever an Ok reason for leaving a woman on a date?

I was out one time with this bitter broad and she had the nerve to try to start insulting me…She was about to order and the waiter came I was like actually you can just close me out. Thanks. Her looking like a bulldog who was dipped in lemon juice…lol

Raqi

May 21st, 2010
11:20 am

The little one and I are getting ready to go out for lunch I guess I better go somewhere in hopes of not running into that ex coworker that I brushed off this morning. Eh, Mdot? LOL

Leggs

May 21st, 2010
11:21 am

@Raqi ~ the way I read that, he wasn’t one of her exs. He’s in her rotation! M. was about to be added until he walked by and messed it up. M. was saved that day.

Dig That

May 21st, 2010
11:22 am

My secret is noticing that “half truth” behavior. Peep the woman’s individual technique and then mimic it when clearly it is to my benefit and it burns them the eff up because of course they can see what I’m doing because it is like looking in the mirror and they can’t pull out too many new investigative moves because they know I will use that one day as well. So really it has just become to a point that you got to keep all the way 1 hunded or be prepared to see your bull$hyt again.

LorDemi

May 21st, 2010
11:23 am

There’s an endless list of stuff she’ll refuse to talk about. I just leave her to it; if she thinks it’s that important that it has to be a secret, then I don’t want to know.

I hear you abc-man, but sometimes that shyt could be important…like “this relationship is about to end this hot second important”…

LorDemi

May 21st, 2010
11:23 am

I am whatever you say I am

May 21st, 2010
11:23 am

random thought: Is Susan Boyle mentally retarded?

I am whatever you say I am

May 21st, 2010
11:23 am

random thought: Is Susan Boyle mentally retarded?

Melo

May 21st, 2010
11:25 am

Why did you tell dude you can get at her right now because she needs a ride home

hilarious?????

M(dot)/Proff?
besides,dude was very confident coming at yall table like that.

that means,he had her on his wang notch! :lol:

I am whatever you say I am

May 21st, 2010
11:25 am

I hate to admit it but here are the following lies that women tell:

1) fake fingernails
2) fake eyelashes
3) fake breasts
4) any undergarment made to hide fat

M. (pronouced M dot)

May 21st, 2010
11:25 am

@Leggs.

Thats what I was SAYING! She still was messing with this dude and we ran into one of her rotations out and about thats it.

@Raqi

You could be right or you could be wrong. Atlanta is a big/small city. I know guys that dealt with women that I have. We got some good women here but we got some runners here to. Ever heard the term runners? Look it up.

Dig That

May 21st, 2010
11:25 am

the way I read that, he wasn’t one of her exs. He’s in her rotation! M. was about to be added until he walked by and messed it up. M. was saved that day.

That is how I read it too and M. is definitely a gentleman. I would have done one of my bathroom moves again. Lol Guess that is a lie too saying I’m going to the bathroom but wind up in the parking lot bout to dip

Professor

May 21st, 2010
11:26 am

@Leggs…YEAHHHH :grin: :wink I will try to be there I have a graduation so that is what I am working around, but YEAHHHHHH :grin:

kimmie

May 21st, 2010
11:28 am

Morning Blog gang!

I saw that article on Essence.com about men lying. I figured it would be a topic on the blog soon!

Don’t really have much to add. I’ve lied and I’ve been lied to by men. I’m human, they are human, so it was bound to happen. I’ve heard the usual – “I’m not married”, “I don’t have any kids”, “I live alone”, etc.

M Dot – Man, what is this with you and these women you deal with??? You always come on with the same complaint – some woman either is dating other folks, hasn’t gotten over her last boyfriend, is always running into her ex when you all are out, you run into her with another dude and it bothers you even though you and the girl just met and are not committed to each other, she gets calls & texts from other dudes even though she’s not YOUR girlfriend – come on! Until you date her for awhile and you guys decide you are committed to only seeing each other, more than likely she did have a life before you rolled up! I mean, how many times are you going to tell this same sob story!

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:29 am

OMG, y is it that kids don’t understand you should use an extra day of to chill and relax!

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:30 am

day off i meant

Professor

May 21st, 2010
11:33 am

looking like a bulldog who was dipped in lemon juice…lol
LMAO :grin:

@Carlito and Melo I should have known :wink:

@PK thanks chica

@I am…ROTFLMAO I really thought you were at the gym…what type of job training is making her sweat like that :shock:

LorDemi

May 21st, 2010
11:33 am

PrincessNik…in a child’s mind…

Mommy has an off day today

MEANS:

Mommy will spent all day with me to do want I want to do today!!

Carlito

May 21st, 2010
11:33 am

I am, I found this info on Susan Boyle:
Born when her mother was 47, Boyle was briefly deprived of oxygen during the difficult birth and was later diagnosed as having learning difficulties.

Melo

May 21st, 2010
11:34 am

@Kimmie!??

I reallly like M(dot) stories :lol:

brother is full of them drama dates.

@ M(dot)which metro A neighborhoods on average are they coming outa of….?? :lol:

Dig That

May 21st, 2010
11:34 am

kimmie- Be nice. I think M. is still young and didn’t know to tell dude to have a seatt and let him pay for drinks and food and take her home

BlackMagicWoman

May 21st, 2010
11:34 am

QUESTION: What is the best way to learn to trust again after you have dealt with a lying demon liar?

PROFESSOR…I am still working on that one myself. I will let you know when I figure it out. I have always been mistrusting..but after meeting a sociopathic lying sack of sh*t aka a demon quoting scriptures…I am not sure if I can trust anybody ever again!

CLEARLY CODED…you know that that stupid woman that is marrying him did you a favor because it could have been you!

ARED…you mean the type of guy who lies everytime he exhales..yep I know him. Still waiting for that bus to hit him and reid the world of one less scumbaggin’ scuzzbucket who is a waste os space, skin and breath.

“This is going to sound crazy, but I had to learn to trust me again. Trust my judgement, trust my intuition, trust my insight etc. so once I felt ok trusting me I was able to extend that trust in my next dates and/or relationships.”

PROFESSOR…no it doesn’t because that is me right now. I have guy friends..but nothing serious. I realize I got with the scum out of fear because of a situation I found myself in. This person knew how to use my vunerability at that moment to worm his way in to take advantage of my kindness. It’s not that I really liked him (because I was always turned off by him)..but in my state of mind his words sounded good and helpful. In the end it was more harm (financially) than good. Now I do not trust my own judgement because anyone who comes saying anything remotely close to his lies make me run for the hills. My situation really hasn’t changed but now I refuse to get involved with anyone until I feel my mind frame is back the way it was prior to my life change. So I am always performing or hanging with my friends…no real dating life.

Carlito

May 21st, 2010
11:34 am

Professor, tell Princess something else about your panties :)

kimmie

May 21st, 2010
11:35 am

I am – Well they wouldn’t sell them if there wasn’t a market for them. That’s nothing new. So why do you “hate to admit it”? Plastic surgeons get paid very well.

And “support undergarments” can only “hide” so much fat!

Dig That

May 21st, 2010
11:35 am

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:36 am

LorDemi

apparently so, but mommy is TIRED :(

Professor

May 21st, 2010
11:36 am

I am whatever…you need to give the lies that men tell too :grin:

1. cutoff there hair if they are going bald so we don’t see that George Jefferson or McDonald arches hairline.

2. Lift all those weights on the upper body and hide those chicken legs, but walk around in a wife beater.

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:38 am

Born when her mother was 47 :shock:

GTFOH, i almost passed out at the thought! I’d faint if i found out i was 37 and preggers

Luvbug

May 21st, 2010
11:39 am

Okay, when I block your email, that is not an invitation for you to create another email account and continue to email me.

Really dude?!

PrincessNik..I'm walkin on sunshine

May 21st, 2010
11:40 am

And “support undergarments” can only “hide” so much fat!

Kimmie, IMO they don’t hide it anyway they just “smooth” it in the right directions LMBO!!!

M. (pronouced M dot)

May 21st, 2010
11:41 am

@kimmie

Hold up playa…we were just chopping it up. If you notice, I said it was a couple of years ago and I brought it up because it was RELEVANT to the topic so slow your roll. If it bothered you that much, just scroll past my comment. Got it?

kimmie

May 21st, 2010
11:41 am

Dig – I dig, lol, not trying not to be nice, just making an observation!

Melo – I like the stories too – they are funny! And I’m waiting on the comeback with the 70’s references!LOL!!!