One thing I have learned from our Misadventures in Atlanta blog discussions is that both men and women go through the same misadventures. The challenges may appear to be different but most of what I’ve been through, my guy friends have endured too. From disappearing acts to ambivalent and confusing behavior, both genders are guilty of it all.
I was still surprised when I got an email from a male who wondered what to do about his dating dilemma: He’s met a wonderful person he is interested in but she has a tendency to get x-rated…in conversation. Apparently, she really, really
likes talking about all things related to bedroom activities. When he met her months ago, she seemed pretty conservative. It wasn’t long before she brought up the naughty topics.
What do you do when you meet someone who seems a little out of your “comfort zone”? Are you drawn to them because they may teach you something new? Are you turned off because they cross the line of your personal boundaries?
What would you advise our male reader to do about his potential Miss Right? When a woman talks about sex too much, what message does that send to the guy? Do most men consider that a turn off, red flag? Or does this make a guy want to propose and marry her immediately?