When it comes to meeting someone who shares your interests, it’s all about doing the things you already love doing. Once you get out of the house and to your event, get off your cellphone long enough to mix and mingle when you arrive. You don’t have to talk to every single person in the room, but making eye contact at events can lead to …something.
At least it did for me when I had that nice encounter, I ended up with a good connection. If I stop traveling long enough, maybe I can figure out if there is real potential. Which brings me to my point. I’m not sure how focused I am on dating and relationships.
Sometimes I wonder if I didn’t facilitate discussions on a dating blog, would I even be concerned about dating at all? Do you ever get to the point where you feel to distracted by “life” and obligations to worry about getting a boyfriend or girlfriend? Has your free time become the last precious leisure moments in your life that you don’t want to devote to dating?
One of my guys of interest left a message for me stating that I seemed too distracted and busy to connect with him. He had a point! I have been but it’s a combination of work, goals, and my precious me time that seems to be taking up all my time. Do you think we devote enough time to the people we date or are interested in?
Have you ever dated someone who had a crazy busy schedule and was distracted during the time you were with them?
How do you manage your schedule to make time for dating? If you have little time left, does dating or hooking up get bumped to the bottom of your things to do list?