I heard about a new book called “Undateable: 311 Things Guys Do That Guarantee They Won’t Be Dating or Having Sex.“ Obviously the book title is tongue in cheek but it certainly says a lot about how self-absorbed single people can be. Only 311 bad moves that can torpedo your chances with women, really?!
The authors probably read our blog to get some great stories of deal breakers, bad first dates, or general misadventures in dating. We all know how many silly and completely ridiculous reasons single people can come up with not to date one another. We can deem someone undateable for the most random stuff, but how do we measure up?
Is it possible that we have all these requirements and checklists for the people we date because we are insecure? I don’t mean to go all arm-chair psychologist on you guys, but it seems more like a defense mechanism then a coping tool. Maybe we are undateable but we try to make it seem like it’s every one else. Would you date yourself?
Do you think that you are dateable? What do you think are some ways we make ourselves undateable?
Just for kicks and giggles, what is your definition of undateable!?