When you are dating someone new and the novelty of the relationship start to wear off, you begin to find out how good (or bad) you are at listening. Communication is one of those relationship ingredients that can make it a masterpiece or a nightmare. The really happy couples seem to find a way to navigate conflict resolution and communication in an effective way.
I think one of the hardest parts about getting a relationship off the ground is letting each other know what it is you need and want. It sounds simple enough in theory, and certainly writing about it is a cakewalk, compared to actual real-world relating.
When you are dating someone new, how difficult is it for you to show them what you need in a relationship?
Believe it or not, I am not a “big talker of the feelins”, perhaps yet another reason I’m not married? I like things to be simple and clear, and relationships can sometimes be anything but that. However, if I’m with someone I truly adore, I would meet him