Do you need better bedroom etiquette?
I can think of a couple of things a lot of people don’t feel comfortable telling their partners about their bedroom etiquette. When it comes to being intimate, you would think that no conversation is off limits. The reality is that some people have hang ups about sex and talking about sex with their partner.
What do you do when your partner has made a few wrong moves and you need to let them know? I think many people are oblivious to some things. Maybe you are not showing proper etiquette to your partner and they don’t want to outright tell you about it.
For the purpose of enlightenment (that’s what we do here, right?!), what are ways to improve your “etiquette” in the bedroom? What should you be mindful of when it comes to you and your partner?
According to your good/bad experiences, what should you do/ never do?
Even though it’s an “adult”, try your very best to keep things PG, people. Imagine your seven-year old daughter/son/niece/nephew is reading. Talk in code!
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Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:09 pm
Professor, thanks
Slim, 7lbs LOL. I am trying to figure out what movie I am going to download to watch while in the booth after work today.
SlimOne aka SkinnyRed
April 29th, 2010
1:10 pm
GoodGuy…it always seems to happen right when you’re about to cross that threshold…seems like a cruel trick from ‘the powers that be’. lol And that sucks that you were on the bottom but if that were me, i’d probably have to throw ole girl to the side. LOL
Melo
April 29th, 2010
1:11 pm
i guess i dont do socks coz i take the word compromise to heart
if we compromising each other,then let it be ultra compromising.. i want to see every crevice on u,every nook and every lil corner…
u wanna be warm,we put the sheets atop!
Complete Nekkid!
Professor is.....
April 29th, 2010
1:11 pm
Carlito Seven Pounds is a good choice I think you will like it, as for girly I wouldn’t say girly. If it is you need to get into some girly movies since you have a wife now and it will make good “homework” or practice.
AmazonRed™
April 29th, 2010
1:12 pm
Lady J – I’ve even gotten them when I was….alone. lol
Now that has happened to me a lot!
Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:13 pm
Professor I will not be in the tanning booth teary eyed.
lol
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:13 pm
And here’s another for ya…
Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G
April 29th, 2010
1:15 pm
i’d probably have to throw ole girl to the side. LOL
@Slim – I must admit the thought crossed my mind, but hey when you’re tryna reach the mountaintop…no pain, no gain! lol
SlimOne aka SkinnyRed
April 29th, 2010
1:15 pm
“Now that has happened to me a lot”
Ared – should we start calling you CM? (Chronic Master bait er)
Professor is.....
April 29th, 2010
1:16 pm
Carlito I did not cry, so I think you will be safe if not just play it off say the pollen got to you are something
Raqi
April 29th, 2010
1:16 pm
i want to see…
But sometimes doing it in the pitch black darkness of the night can be very adventurous and quite fun.
SlimOne aka SkinnyRed
April 29th, 2010
1:18 pm
Good Guy – well, I must admit, I admire your preserverance
AmazonRed™
April 29th, 2010
1:18 pm
I guess because I say in flip flops as long as I can, my feet don’t get that cold. If I was in socks, and take them off, they aren’t gonna turn to ice, especially if other areas of my body are hot!
I will put them on after the deed is done tho.
Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G
April 29th, 2010
1:19 pm
@Slim – why thank you miss
lol
AmazonRed™
April 29th, 2010
1:21 pm
i want to see…
I was reverse cowgirling it one night and all of the sudden the lights started to come up from the dimmer. I’m like “what the heck?!”
Then the above phrase what uttered.
BlackMagicWoman
April 29th, 2010
1:24 pm
I have the hands/feet temperature of a corpse….even in the summer. So trust me you would prefer the socks.
SWISS you are right…I hate the cold. It’s strange…I am from NYC and born in December but I love the warm temps! Maybe it is a melanin thing!
QUESTION: why the hell do you guys keep the AC on year round? It’s 50 degrees outside and you roll the car windows down or turn on the AC?
Come on…answer my sterotype! 
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:27 pm
“…why the hell do you guys keep the AC on year round? It’s 50 degrees outside and you roll the car windows down or turn on the AC?”
BlackMagic — ‘Cos we are built for cold…
Actually, I do turn the heat on in the car when it’s 50 degrees out. Of course, I drive a Jeep & have the top off at the same time, but still… 
Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G
April 29th, 2010
1:28 pm
I have the hands/feet temperature of a corpse….even in the summer. So trust me you would prefer the socks
BMW – SAME HERE! lol
Le Siren- I'm baaaack!
April 29th, 2010
1:29 pm
Testing
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:31 pm
Although, BlackMagic I will say this… When Mrs. Swiss & I were on our honeymoon in Jamaica, she was the first to burn, not me. I tried to tell her she’d been away from Haiti too long & needed some sunscreen, but she wouldn’t listen…
kinderbabe--18 days and counting! woohoo!
April 29th, 2010
1:34 pm
@Melo…say word!!! lol that’s where i’m at…what’s the use of doing the horizontal limbo w/socks??? take it ALL off!:)
Leggs
April 29th, 2010
1:36 pm
The family bbq was great. Ovie Mughelli is an extremely nice man and seems to be doing great things for the environment! My team (the Falcon cheerleaders) did a much better job that The Saints cheerleaders.
Hello Carlito!
@BMW ~ I’m with you on hating the cold. Ok, is this still foreplay Thursday????
Le Siren- I'm baaaack!
April 29th, 2010
1:36 pm
On Topic:
Since I’ve turned 30, my sex drive has increased TREMENDOUSLY! I’m only 32 now and I literally have the drive of an 18-year-old boy! It’s ridiculous, but I’m enjoying every minute of it:)
Off Topic (A Little):
Speaking of B.O.B., if any of you ladies is interested in hosting your own toy party, then I’m your girl! I’m an official Pure Romance consultant and my parties are very unique and ALOT of fun! Contact me today to plan the ULTIMATE Girls’ Night In! Find me on Facebook…Pure Romance by Marie Moore
Lady J-Don't be cruel, I will never be that cruel to you!
April 29th, 2010
1:37 pm
Slim damn alone get it boo!!!! LOL
Swiss lol funny dude! LOL
BlackMagicWoman
April 29th, 2010
1:37 pm
SWISS…that is crazy! SHE got the sunburn?!? I have never burned and I am not the darkest thing. But people darker than me have burned. My dad gets red…must be his Irish side.
GOOD GUY….I wear the same furry boot house slippers year round. If my feet are cold…then I am cold and I hate that feeling. I passed out once and when I came to, my friend said geez I grabbed your hands to try to catch you and thought you had died!
As if I’d be cold that fast! I hope they feel for a pulse before calling T.O.D on a girl! 
Le Siren- I'm baaaack!
April 29th, 2010
1:38 pm
Off Topic (A Little):
Speaking of B.O.B., if any of you ladies are interested in hosting your own toy parties, then I’m your girl! I’m an official Pure Romance Consultant and my parties are very unique and A LOT of fun! Contact me today to plan The ULTIMATE Girls’ Night In!
Find me on FB…Pure Romance by Marie Moore
Raqi
April 29th, 2010
1:39 pm
all of the sudden the lights started to come up
Amazon, men are visual creatures but sometimes after you have turned in for the night and that loving feeling don’t hit you until 2-3 in the morning, all the lights and the tv is off and he feels your nice womanly hand run under his t-shirt stroking his belly or along the top of his boxers or up the leg of his boxer….he pretty okay with not seeing a darn thing at that moment. LOL The mystery of what is coming next has his undivided attention. LOL
Melo
April 29th, 2010
1:41 pm
kinderbabe??
im still waiting to hear the etiquette as far as wigs and those other hair pieces are concerned??
do uall take ur wiggs off,or the wiggs stay and the head and hair cannot be touched at all costs nor be ruffled??
Please share??
i luv me some long dark hair tho..turns me ON!!
Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:41 pm
LOL
Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:41 pm
Melo, I like long hair also
Lady J-Don't be cruel, I will never be that cruel to you!
April 29th, 2010
1:42 pm
I need some frankie B & maze too!!!!
hey mama leggs!
I was just about to hit you up! lol
AmazonRed™
April 29th, 2010
1:42 pm
he pretty okay with not seeing a darn thing at that moment.
Raqi – Absolutely. The lights coming up was a first. I thought one of our azz cheeks had hit the remote or something!
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:43 pm
“…that is crazy! SHE got the sunburn?!?”
Sure did. Funny thing, too… I’ve seen pictures & she’s actually darker now than when she was still living in Haiti… Not that I’m complaining — I think she’s hotter now, but it does seem counter-intuitive…
AmazonRed™
April 29th, 2010
1:43 pm
do uall take ur wiggs off,or the wiggs stay and the head and hair cannot be touched at all costs nor be ruffled??
*hollers!!!*
kinderbabe--18 days and counting! woohoo!
April 29th, 2010
1:44 pm
@melo…now you KNOW that i know nothing about wigs. haven’t met ONE that i liked yet…LOL!! i’m a natural girl through and through.
Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:47 pm
I don’t like that area shaved bald either on a woman.
Trevor0529
April 29th, 2010
1:50 pm
do uall take ur wiggs off,or the wiggs stay and the head and hair cannot be touched at all costs nor be ruffled??
Inquiring minds want to know.
AmazonRed™
April 29th, 2010
1:51 pm
I’ve never worn a wig or a weave so I can’t comment on that.
My personal hair etiquette rules in the bedroom
1. No scarves to bed*
)
2. Running your fingers thru it is encouraged
3. Yanking and pulling it is okay (it’s real
4. It can get wet in the shower
5. Remove all hair ties and make sure it flows freely
That’s it.
* – I’ve never lived with a guy, so that’s why I can get past the no scarf to bed rule, for now.
Dan
April 29th, 2010
1:51 pm
Lights off?
Where dey do dat at?
Run4Life
April 29th, 2010
1:51 pm
@Carlito. Seven Pounds is okay, not my favorite. And I am speaking as a great fan of Will Smith. Try Blindside, New Moon or Avata.
Lady J-Don't be cruel, I will never be that cruel to you!
April 29th, 2010
1:51 pm
carlito you have stated that before! lol
Run4Life
April 29th, 2010
1:52 pm
@Carlito. Have you ever watched ‘Something New’ ? I looove that movie.
Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:53 pm
I don’t like my hair pulled, LOL
Melo
April 29th, 2010
1:53 pm
@Le Siren!
ure’ sa bad baaaad girl!
That Double Trouble Ring..i might wana try it of u can offer to show me how to use it propely!
that wld be a win win ofcourse,do u offer urslef for fittings as the fitting room equivalent,like if i were shopping for a suit??
@Kinderbabe..i like natural hair too myself,if its urs and its loong..im in!!
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:53 pm
“I don’t like that area shaved bald either on a woman.”
Say that again, Carlito! I hate that whole “bald” trend — I want a little grass on the playground… Neatly landscaped, but not bare….
Professor
April 29th, 2010
1:54 pm
Melo…
You already know that if I am not removing my socks I am not removing my hair if I am wearing a weave. I guess it depends on what type of hair the lady is wearing. As for me I don’t do the cheap stuff so mine will take me from the bedroom into the ocean with no problems.
Carlito
April 29th, 2010
1:54 pm
Run4, I have never heard of “Something New”. BlindSide and Avatar are options. I think that whole New Moon thing is gay. I like mean “Underworld” type of vampires
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:55 pm
“1. No scarves to bed*”
I actually kinda like that look, ARed…
Melo
April 29th, 2010
1:56 pm
Where dey do dat at?
@Dan??
U not very trusting of darkness??
i'm swiss
April 29th, 2010
1:56 pm
See how easy I am to please, ladies? You can rock your bandannas to bed & you don’t have to shave your pu$$ies, either…
