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Do you need better bedroom etiquette?

I can think of a couple of things a lot of people don’t feel comfortable telling their partners about their bedroom etiquette.  When it comes to being intimate, you would think that no conversation is off limits.  The reality is that some people have hang ups about sex and talking about sex with their partner.

What do you do when your partner has made a few wrong moves and you need to let them know? I think many people are oblivious to some things.  Maybe you are not showing proper etiquette to your partner and they don’t want to outright tell you about it.

For the purpose of enlightenment (that’s what we do here, right?!), what are ways to improve your “etiquette” in the bedroom?  What should you be mindful of when it comes to you and your partner?

According to your good/bad experiences, what should you do/ never do?

Even though it’s an “adult”, try your very best to keep things PG, people.  Imagine your seven-year old daughter/son/niece/nephew is reading. Talk in code!

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Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:43 pm

hell no in ms sophia tone! lol I will professor one day…..until then I will sigh with a smile or smirk! lol

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
12:43 pm

@Swiss I cannot handle the cold at all. You here me my hands and feet are like ice cubes in the winter.

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:44 pm

I have to have my socks especially in the winter time, so I am guilty.

@Prof – Hey Professor! Yeaaaa buddy i know what you mean & yea i know you be wearing them santa stocking socks when you getting that christmas nookie so it’s all good ;-) lol hey tis the season to be jolly okay?

Trevor0529

April 29th, 2010
12:45 pm

just steppin’ back into the blog.

Has the topic changed to self-gratification? :)
Just curious.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
12:45 pm

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
12:45 pm

Lady J,

I thought you had a few fine men in there smelling all, good dressed in Kenneth Cole, sounding all intelligent during class participation. :grin:

When are you going to do the speed dating? I think you should give it a try it sounds like fun.

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
12:45 pm

1. Not taking your socks off

GoodGuy, don’t feel bad, I keep my socks on sometimes too. Especially when they are knee socks. It’s kinda sexy sometimes.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:46 pm

if he notices them AT ALL lol because I know I don’t I’m just worrying about doing my best to please and admiring all her assets

Good Guy – I know…it’s just an issue with me. Like before the act happens and I’m striking one of my sexy poses or he’s kissing me from the back of my neck on down…I just think the look is killed with fuzzy socks on my feet. :lol:

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:47 pm

I’m down there trying to service her under about 50 pounds of comforter, sweating like a pig & in dire need of oxygen…

@swiss – Sir, that is TRUE love and dedication right there :-)

@Melo – Yea, i get what you’re sayin on that

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:48 pm

nope professor not at all a bunch of damn hens lol….I don’t wanna speed date but I will soon I am trying to embracce and go but it hasn’t happened…..one took place yesterday…..I stayed in the salon for three hours….then headed home ate dinner and it was me and Pandora for the evening! lol one day!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:49 pm

And the lovely sistahs I’ve encountered cannot — I repeat — cannot handle cold.

I don’t prefer it. I’m from Cali. But since my guy easily weights more than twice than I do, he needs that ceiling fan going. He puts in work, so I just have to get over it. :lol:

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
12:49 pm

@4G You better stop peeping in my window! :shock: I have Christmas socks for real…lol :grin: They are really cute Target had them…lmao

I meant **hear**

@melo as for the socks you have to do the short ones, if I wear some long ones that goes up my calves…well just say I am in costume :wink:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:49 pm

carlito your girl needed that! LMBAO!!!!!!

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:51 pm

Especially when they are knee socks. It’s kinda sexy sometimes.

@Raqi – OMG hell yeah they are [never really thought about that...] :-) matter fact…heading to the mall to buy some of those for my baby later on…Thanks Raqi!!!!! :-D

@ARed – yeah, when i think of the visual it may not be too hot…okay when you’re wearing a sexy outfit and getting all dolled up for the encounter, no; but when it’s just dead winter spontaneous let’s get this quickie real quick kinda thing i can look past ya know?

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
12:51 pm

I’m down there trying to service her under about 50 pounds of comforter

Gouda, I like to warm in bed to but when he is servicing me the covers have to go, not only because I am feeling the warmth of the temp rising from the love making, but in being serviced, I like to watch. Can’t watch if the covers are over his head.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
12:51 pm

Lady J, LOL I am just sitting back reading and staying good today :)

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:55 pm

just think the look is killed with fuzzy socks on my feet

@Ared!! I third the motion!

@Proff?

@melo as for the socks you have to do the short ones,

I gotta peep a visual and hopefully u arent wearing the sneaker socks but maybe some velvettish type that purr on my back like some feather..u see what im talking about?? coz when im pounding,u gotta hit my back too and lemme me feel the pain and ur wild joy! :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
12:55 pm

Good friends are great to have. One of mine just helped lift a heavy burden. I feel a little lighter now. Sending out a virtual “Thanks Sistah Girl”.

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:55 pm

but in being serviced, I like to watch. Can’t watch if the covers are over his head

@Raqi – and in doing so you save your mate from suffocation & heat exhaustion :-) i commend you miss! can you say win-win? lol

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
12:56 pm

Ared – you said you just didn’t ‘get it’ when your friend bought you a BOB…why? lol

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:56 pm

but when it’s just dead winter spontaneous let’s get this quickie real quick kinda thing i can look past ya know?

Good Guy – I know I get a pass for it then, but I take em off then too. Usually in the middle of it all. Good thing I’m flexible. :lol:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:56 pm

“A person who cannot change the very fabric of his thought will never be able to change reality, and will never, therefore, make any progress”

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
12:56 pm

I’ve seen that trend too, just a bunch of hens in class. Now I had a class that was all guys and one lady. It was interesting because women talk so much more. We covered a lot of ground without all the cackling…lol.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:57 pm

gets on my nerves! lol

Trevor0529

April 29th, 2010
12:58 pm

I will sit this one out and keep on reading :)

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

alrighty what are the midday jams crew???? lol need some music!

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

Melo???

I am super sexy so even if the socks take it down the notch I am still sitting high on the scale, when you are a 10 you can get by with some cute and fuzzy socks on. :grin:

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

@Professor – so you really are an educator? hmmmmm….*teacher fantasies run wild* lol

at least i know that you have got classroom etiquette down pat :-)

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

OMG hell yeah they are

Good Guy, I like to wear boy shorts with matching tanks and I have socks with designs that match in color to the set. So yeah he thinks it is kinda sexy when I am walking around the room with my knee socks on. And what he likes I love. LOL

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
1:00 pm

Is Seven Pounds a good movie?

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
1:01 pm

Ared – you said you just didn’t ‘get it’ when your friend bought you a BOB…why? lol

Like I said, solo has never steered me wrong. No battery operated device knows me better than I know myself. :D

Le Siren- I'm baaaack!

April 29th, 2010
1:01 pm

On Topic:

My sex drive has MOST DEFINITELY increased since I turned 30! I’m only 32 now, but it seemed like it was almost instantaneous…from the time I turned 30, I’ve literally had the drive of an 18 year old boy! I mean, its ridiculous…but I’m enjoying every minute of it!

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Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
1:02 pm

when you are a 10 you can get by with some cute and fuzzy socks on

@Prof – hell with that sexy confidence blinding your mate will he even be ab to see the socks? :-D

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
1:03 pm

carlito I cried! but it doesn’t take much for that! lol

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
1:03 pm

Um…i will leave my socks on. Who wants to be in the throws of passion only to be shocked back to reality with finger-toes on the back of their calves? lol

As far as seeing her toes curl and calves bulge…um…doncha hate when that toe curl turns into a cramp/charlie horse. :shock:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
1:04 pm

the romance in the movie wooed me!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
1:05 pm

Slim – None of those scenarios have EVER happened for me. But :lol: !!!

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
1:05 pm

Lady J, is it a girly movie?

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
1:05 pm

If my feet are cold, I’m not going to enjoy it. So, if I need on some socks, I’m *gone* put on some socks.
And, I’m *gone* need you to be paying attention to other ish other than the fact that I got socks on because I promise, socks or no socks, it’ll still get wet.
Plus, you don’t want me propping two blocks of ice up in the middle of your back or on your shoulders.

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
1:06 pm

@Carlito I love seven pounds.

@4G he is not blinded by my confidence, he can see all this beauty :grin:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
1:06 pm

slim lmbao those cramps are Unpredictable!!!! lol

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
1:06 pm

LOL@Carlito trying to change topic…Did you say 7lbs or 7 inches. :lol:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
1:06 pm

yep about saving her life!

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
1:07 pm

As far as seeing her toes curl and calves bulge…um…doncha hate when that toe curl turns into a cramp/charlie horse.

@Slim – LMMFAO!!! I almost died one time and I couldn’t go nowhere cuz I was on the bottom…smh…

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
1:07 pm

“those cramps are Unpredictable”

Lady J – I’ve even gotten them when I was….alone. lol Be like dayum, i’m giving it to myself real good LOLOL!

Trevor0529

April 29th, 2010
1:07 pm

As far as seeing her toes curl and calves bulge…um…doncha hate when that toe curl turns into a cramp/charlie horse.

Slim, that is funny :lol:

Melo

April 29th, 2010
1:07 pm

Iam super sexy!

@Proff??

I believe that! :lol:

@Slimone??

doncha hate when that toe curl turns into a cramp/charlie horse

Ive felt the cramp when i was being worked on..

I ignored it..its a qstion of priorities!

jus shook it off! :lol:

Sassy Me..Sun Kissed :-)

April 29th, 2010
1:08 pm

Who wants to be in the throws of passion only to be shocked back to reality with finger-toes on the back of their calves?

:shock: :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
1:08 pm

LadyJ — Here’s a mid-day jam for ya…

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Enjoy! ;-)

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
1:08 pm

@Prof – confidence IS beautiful miss! :-D