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Do you need better bedroom etiquette?

I can think of a couple of things a lot of people don’t feel comfortable telling their partners about their bedroom etiquette.  When it comes to being intimate, you would think that no conversation is off limits.  The reality is that some people have hang ups about sex and talking about sex with their partner.

What do you do when your partner has made a few wrong moves and you need to let them know? I think many people are oblivious to some things.  Maybe you are not showing proper etiquette to your partner and they don’t want to outright tell you about it.

For the purpose of enlightenment (that’s what we do here, right?!), what are ways to improve your “etiquette” in the bedroom?  What should you be mindful of when it comes to you and your partner?

According to your good/bad experiences, what should you do/ never do?

Even though it’s an “adult”, try your very best to keep things PG, people.  Imagine your seven-year old daughter/son/niece/nephew is reading. Talk in code!

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Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:06 pm

it is warming up!!!!! Yawn! I am ready to go and start this weekend off with a daughter day tomorrow and a me day sat!!!!!!!

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:06 pm

If it goes up, my job is to get it down!

@AmazonRed & SexyCool – three words daily – BEST ATTITUDE EVER

lol!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:06 pm

Good Guy – I don’t own a B.O.B., don’t need it. When I need an O I can get one solo without batteries! :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
12:07 pm

How often do you all like to get it one on a weekly basis, on average?

Slimone, as needed. And that could mean several different things.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:10 pm

ARed I was so agaisnt them too but I got one for my 30th and used it one time no lie and liked it but I want what I want and a bullet isn’t it! LOL

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:10 pm

@AmazonRed – more power to you miss :-) plus batteries are expensive anyways…hey it’s a recession (lol!)

why do i have a feeling this topic will escalate some freaky friday happenings for tomorrow lol if not tonight shooooooot lol

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
12:13 pm

When you ladies entertain yourself does it get as “wet all over” like it does with the real thing?

kinderbabe--18 days and counting! woohoo!

April 29th, 2010
12:13 pm

@Dan…that fight was in February, right? i didn’t watch it. what was the outcome?

@Slim…that’s what i said too, wow! she has the hookup…lol. she is leaving today. can’t wait to hear the stories when she gets back.:)

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:13 pm

When I need an O I can get one solo without batteries!

@Ared??

elucidate Ared, how u do that??..

I know i ask too many qstions but there are silent,shy if not timid qstioners out there so u killing 100+ birds with one melo stone!

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
12:13 pm

And no, I don’t get action every day. Hell, I don’t always get it every two or three days.

I am aware that it is way more important that I am in tune with my partner’s needs/moods than it is for me to be a big o’ horndog.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:13 pm

ARed I was so agaisnt them too but I got one for my 30th and used it one time no lie and liked it but I want what I want and a bullet isn’t it! LOL

Slim – When I left Cali one of my guy friends bought me one as a gift. I didn’t get it. I tried, but Palmella knows me. :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:15 pm

melo – Everyone has heard about doing it solo. No one is that clueless. Some people can do it, some people can’t.

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:15 pm

@Carlito – I’ve wondered that myself…*put on bifocals & gives thoughtful look*

my guess is yes & probably more & with all the vibrating does the body even have a choice, but to produce more fluids?

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:16 pm

no comment carlito! lol

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:16 pm

Good Guy STOP ALREADY!!!!!! LMBAO!

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:16 pm

@Ared??

I have never been the one to masturbate either. Ive heard some men do that and thats grosses me out.

I wld rather have a wet dream than masturbate.

But i was neva dry for long periods myself(never 2 months without an outlet) as an adult, so in that respect,ive been good.

But in my teen years,yeah,the gods wld look after me while in bed,asleep! :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
12:18 pm

For all the ladies out there who are 30+, Can you testify to your lobido increasing since hitting 30?

For me entering my 30 was a time when I learned to embrace my sexuality and all it has to offer. Period.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
12:18 pm

I love my hands :)

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:19 pm

raqi exactly!!!! it is a fun exploring perod!!!! sexuality rocks!!!!!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:20 pm

But i was neva dry for long periods myself(never 2 months without an outlet) as an adult, so in that respect,ive been good.

melo – Doesn’t matter if it’s a dry period or not. I don’t think I’ve gone a week without some self satisfaction! :lol:

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:20 pm

Good Guy STOP ALREADY!!!!!! LMBAO!

@Lady J – sorry miss excuse me, but…just sayin :-) lol

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:20 pm

melo – Everyone has heard about doing it solo

@Ared!!

im not everyone,so u want to make this communication tween the 2 of us since others know?? :lol:

shoot me a line then! :lol:

Dan

April 29th, 2010
12:21 pm

@kb

The Mayweather/Mosley fight is replacing the Pac/Mayweather fight. They called it off. That’s why I’m mad.

Just reading…but I’ve always like older women…and y’all are beginning to find out why….

More power to the 30+ sisters!!!!!!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:22 pm

shoot me a line then!

:lol: :arrow:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:23 pm

i wanna go to the cigar bar!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:24 pm

i wanna go to the cigar bar!

They’re fun. Great place to go when you finally want a place where the men outnumber the women.

kinderbabe--18 days and counting! woohoo!

April 29th, 2010
12:26 pm

@Dan…o.k. gotcha! did one of them back out of the fight? it seems like they should have honored the tix from then for this fight if it was cancelled or something. that’s probably just me thinking like a diplomat…lol. and YES, more power to the 30+ sisters. we arel ALL that!:)

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
12:26 pm

“Doesn’t matter if it’s a dry period or not. I don’t think I’ve gone a week without some self satisfaction!”

ARed — High 5! Oh d@mn, that was kinda sticky… :lol:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:27 pm

hmmmm that sums it up……..

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:27 pm

lmmfao @ swiss!!!!

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:28 pm

@Sexxycol/Slimone??

can u please step in and take over the podium coz Ared is being very un-cooperative! :lol:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:28 pm

ARed I want to EXHALE and I will soon! Not this weekend but soon!

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:29 pm

High 5! Oh d@mn, that was kinda sticky…

swiss – :lol: :lol: :lol:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:29 pm

patting my feet……lol…tic…tic….

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:30 pm

I want to EXHALE and I will soon! Not this weekend but soon!

Lady J – Why are you putting it on a schedule?!

Reminds me of that scene in the “40 Year Old Virgin” when he tried it for the first time. :lol:

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
12:31 pm

Seeing your sexy eyes
Rubbing your toned skin
As your hands grace my inner thighs
Oh, how the night begins

Avoiding your lovers stare
Enjoying your firm embrace
Wondering if I dare
Allow you just a little, just a taste

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
12:31 pm

Melo – stop it. Just stop.

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:31 pm

ARed I want to EXHALE

@LadyJ??

u mean exhaling after a good “beat down/bladder pounder and LadyJ-man-to-ceiling tossing” or exhale coz the sexxual angst is killing u??

which one??

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:31 pm

Oh my bad, you were talking about the Cigar Bar…I had the wrong kind of exhale! LMAO!!!

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:32 pm

okay so i actually googled bedroom etiquette & im so guilty of the first one on the list

1. Not taking your socks off

hey im sorry, but i can’t perform at my best when the toesy woesies are all cold and what not okay [(....lol) sue me], but hey me and my girl both have bad bedroom etiquette then cuz she doesn’t take hers off either and our sex is as good as if we invented the damn thing okay :-)

as long as we are happy with our nice warm feet then who cares :-) plus im not a fan of feet anyways :-/ so it’s a win/win for the both of us lol

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:34 pm

killing me softly

aread I don’t know!

geesh!

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
12:35 pm

“now that i think about it, didn’t a couple do an experiment like that where they had to do it everyday for 30days???”

Slim — Yes, there was such an experiment. However, the study had 1 significant flaw: it didn’t include me. Thus, further study is needed… ;-) :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:36 pm

1. Not taking your socks off

Good Guy – For some reason it’s okay for men do it.

But for me, they have to come out. Something about the image of a naked women with socks on doesn’t sound hot at all. So I’m not gonna chance it, even though I’m sure that’s the last thing he’s noticing!

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:37 pm

good guy too cute! lol

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:38 pm

meant ared…..lol

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:39 pm

…even though I’m sure that’s the last thing he’s noticing!

@ARed – if he notices them AT ALL lol because I know I don’t I’m just worrying about doing my best to please and admiring all her assets ;-)

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
12:39 pm

…stepping in.

@Lady J, with school and work you are probably too busy to exhale, but it will come. BTW are there any cute guys in your class? Forgive me if I asked that before.

@4G…I have to have my socks especially in the winter time, so I am guilty.

As for the fight I want to see a real fight and not two men hugging and dancing.

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
12:41 pm

RE: Socks…

Um… I don’t want to get too controversial here, but I’ve noticed a pattern in my multi-cultural man-wh@ring adventures… black folk & white folk have a whole different internal thermostat…. :lol: My people cannot — I repeat — cannot handle heat. And the lovely sistahs I’ve encountered cannot — I repeat — cannot handle cold.

Man, do I hate winter time now — Mrs. Swiss can’t come out from under 5 layers of covers. I’m down there trying to service her under about 50 pounds of comforter, sweating like a pig & in dire need of oxygen… :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA LEROY LOVING

April 29th, 2010
12:41 pm

Yeah.. Leroy Loving aint even gonna talk about Sex today..

Melo

April 29th, 2010
12:42 pm

Good Guy Getting??

I cant do socks on and neither shld she!! hell naw for us,that visual wont do it!

I gotta feel her heels digging deep at that bone on my back and socks wld cushion the blow and make it harder for me to feel the exertion! :lol:

Part of the thrill for me is to see her calf muscles and feet all curled up and turgid and her eyes closed nicely like shes in prayer!!..when i see that, the stimulation on my johnny is :arrow: Thudd! my wang just snaps upright like that on that visual! :lol: