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Do you need better bedroom etiquette?

I can think of a couple of things a lot of people don’t feel comfortable telling their partners about their bedroom etiquette.  When it comes to being intimate, you would think that no conversation is off limits.  The reality is that some people have hang ups about sex and talking about sex with their partner.

What do you do when your partner has made a few wrong moves and you need to let them know? I think many people are oblivious to some things.  Maybe you are not showing proper etiquette to your partner and they don’t want to outright tell you about it.

For the purpose of enlightenment (that’s what we do here, right?!), what are ways to improve your “etiquette” in the bedroom?  What should you be mindful of when it comes to you and your partner?

According to your good/bad experiences, what should you do/ never do?

Even though it’s an “adult”, try your very best to keep things PG, people.  Imagine your seven-year old daughter/son/niece/nephew is reading. Talk in code!

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i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:30 am

Kym — Yeah, Mrs. Swiss is a GSU grad as well, so I’m a Panther-in-law…. ;-) And I will most certainly be hoping for a miracle against ‘Bammer…

Leggs

April 29th, 2010
11:30 am

“Love makes the bedroom flow natural. Lust does not.”

@Carlito ~ you’re absolutely correct. However, lust will have you doing some freaky things! Sure, love is a given in shedding inhibitions. But there’s something about pure d lust that has you…..whew!

It's me....lurker

April 29th, 2010
11:31 am

Anything interesting to talk about?

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:33 am

LMBAO Slim too damn funny chica!!!!!!!!!

Leggs it will turn on the freak and I swear I don’t like Usher or his music but lil freak taps on the alter ego suzanne in me! LOLOLOLOL

Swiss Neva!!!! ROOF, ROOF!!!! I have a bark too! LOL

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:34 am

lurker sports are always interesting!!!!! LOL

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:35 am

and sex is a great sport with a great partner that cares! LMBAO! if you knew what was on the other side of this screen woooosah!!!!! #thankful for a job I guess! lol

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:36 am

ATLBred

April 29th, 2010
11:37 am

@LadyJ – I’m with you as a GT fan. I’m a GT alum, so gotta support. Yeah UGA is sometimes better than us at football, but there is nothing else to do in Athens but practicing football, cowtipping, and marrying their cousins so what do you expect. We have too many distractions in the city.

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:37 am

“..I saw the neck brace and the big a$$ cheese grin on your face!”

BlackMagic — Oh, d@mn… That wasn’t cheese… I must’ve missed a spot…. :lol:

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
11:38 am

Anyone going to watch the fight? (Mayweather/Mosley)

Kym--I hope you dance.

April 29th, 2010
11:38 am

@Swiss and Carlito..we play Bama Nov 20 @ their house..

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:38 am

“We have too many distractions in the city.”

@ ATLBred — Like…. getting mugged? ;-) j/k

DreamsMaterialize

April 29th, 2010
11:38 am

I would like to see more chicks ‘arriving’ on film.
Slim no objections from me on that. I’m a fan of the “arrival” and will do everything in my power to facilitate it.

I am impressed and will cater to them with summer camps and they are out there for all ages
Lady J I have looked into these camps as well. I haven’t found any for less that $400 per week though. If that’s the case I’ll just break out my old oscilloscope, multimeter, breadboard, and soldering iron and start my own summer camp. Lil J can come for half off though. ;-)

And I bet they can’t spout of the first 18 lines of the General Prologue of the Canterbury Tales in Middle English, either
I know I can’t, but of all I remember the Miller’s tale the most, maybe because of its scandelous nature. lol

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
11:39 am

How bout mixmatched libido’s??? How do you manuever around that?

How often do you all like to get it one on a weekly basis, on average?

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
11:39 am

SlimGoody – I will be somewhere watching the fight. I believe that Mayweather will win in a decision, *if* SugaShane doesn’t knock him out.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:40 am

Kym, that would be funny if you all beat Alabama.

kinderbabe--18 days and counting! woohoo!

April 29th, 2010
11:40 am

@slim…i probably will watch it. i just don’t know where yet. don’t think that i will order it. me and my guy may go to a sports bar or something and watch it. my sister is going to the fight…leaving today:) she has front row seats!

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:40 am

Kym — Ah… that’s my birthday… Now the Panthers must win in my honor…. ;-)

It's me....lurker

April 29th, 2010
11:42 am

Lady J – Sports? I gotta be live and in person to get into that.

Dan

April 29th, 2010
11:44 am

@KB

I booked a room at the MGM, had a car on order, and was working on the after-fight club hookup – for Paciquo/Mayweather fight <–so mad

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:44 am

I am down DreamsM and you as the professor it is a steal!!!! She will LEARN!!!!! that is the goal!

ATLBred GO GA TECH!!!!!!!!!!!

Slim fight party with my brothers from other mothers!!!! Can’t wait! Im co-hosting of course! LOL

ATLBred

April 29th, 2010
11:44 am

@swiss – nah, the muggings actually help our run game…it’s the clubs and strip clubs that do damage, lol.

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:45 am

“How often do you all like to get it one on a weekly basis, on average?”

Let’s see…

7 days in a week

X

24 hours in a day

=

168 per week…

That would be ideal, but doesn’t always work out… ;-) :lol:

Kym--I hope you dance.

April 29th, 2010
11:46 am

FOOTBALL!! FOOTBALL!! FOOTBALL!! Okay I had to get that out. My son wants to play JV next year.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:47 am

really wow! Solidified!

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
11:47 am

Now, that’s a question I can answer. Daily, would be nice. But at least every two or three days.

Otherwise, my *crazy* will kick in.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:47 am

That is a good question, I do not want it every day. Maybe four days a week. I also do not want to be made to feel like I “HAVE” to do it.

BlackMagicWoman

April 29th, 2010
11:48 am

SWISS…you are certifiable! :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:48 am

ATLBred:lol: That is true… there is a shameful lack of quality strip clubs in Athens. Luckily, there are lots of hot & slutty girls on campus who will strip for beer… :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
11:48 am

SlimOne – You’re a “skinny Red” now? Did you “cross” over into something? :lol:

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
11:50 am

@KB – wow, front row seats?? I’m jealous. lol I’ll probably go to my guy cousins crib & watch it over there. It’s always interesting and entertain win partying with a bunch of Ques. ;-)

@Sexycool – i’ve been a bit desensitized by the world of Ultimate Fighting that I almost always hope for a knock-out in boxing. To see a fight go all the rounds to a decision is almost like watching paint dry. lol I got a chance to go the the live UFC fight when it was here last year and it was simply AMAZING! Call me a Gore-Wh0re :oops: But if no knockout, I hope that it’ll at least be entertaining…I hate when all they do is hug each other!

@Swiss – even if you were able to get the gooshy 7 days a week by the Mrs Swiss…dontcha think you’d get a lil tired of it? I like cheesecake but I don’t want to eat it EVERY…SINGLE…DAY lol

ATLBred

April 29th, 2010
11:51 am

For all the ladies out there who are 30+, Can you testify to your lobido increasing since hitting 30?

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
11:52 am

t’s no more tearing each other’s clothes off the minute you get in the door. The romance is added in. You take your time more.

But that doesn’t mean that there will not be those days when you just can’t wait to insert he into she.

Thanks Raqi – Yes, you’ve definitely got to mix it up!!!

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:52 am

sexycool I am with you! Now taming my crazy currently……so sports will occupy my time….geesh!

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:53 am

“…even if you were able to get the gooshy 7 days a week by the Mrs Swiss…dontcha think you’d get a lil tired of it?”

Slim — That’s a good question. One that I feel needs to be thoroughly researched…. :lol:

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
11:53 am

Yeah, Slim, the last couple of fights that I’ve seen have been on the boring side. I wanna a see a knock down drag out, with some real bruising going on.

Alas, I’ll keep hope alive.

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
11:53 am

Ared – one of my guy friends’ roomie started calling me that the day he met me. Not sure why, since I don’t think i’m red but it’s starting to stick. LOL! (I guess it’s the way he says it that make me ok with it because normally the word ’skinny’ is like a bad word to me) lolol

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:54 am

ATLBred since i gave birth to my child I don’t know how to deal with it…..While the bullet sustains for the moment nothing like consistant good loving from a person that wants it just as much as i do…..

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
11:55 am

ATLB – I don’t know if it’s increased because of age or nature or because I know myself so much better now than I did when I was younger that I feel freer during it and enjoy it way more.

If I had known then what I know now, there is a a lot of sex that I would not have had – or at least it would have been way better.

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
11:56 am

Swiss – now that i think about it, didn’t a couple do an experiment like that where they had to do it everyday for 30days???

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
11:58 am

know im late, but ive found it that most guys never think to try this…but with me and my former it always worked, but most guys don’t think to join in with B.O.B….im aware that it may not be for everyone, but i feel as tho guys get all embarrased if after they’ve reached the mountaintop & the lady pulls out B.O.B. because she’s not satisfied & so said guy feels like its a slap in the face when ME MYSELF say why not just “assist” your lady along. for me, it’s a turn on it might just help my “friend” to arise once more to help finish off the job :) but like i said diff stroke 4 diff folks…

Anyone object to that? Like is that just too out there? a.k.a “Wow 4G…you too damn freaky for me…” lol

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:58 am

It was all a dream chica lol……..I want Bewitched powers! Twinkle,Twinkle! LOL

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
11:58 am

Oh…and when I say “Daily”, I don’t necessarily mean a whole session of intercourse every single day. I’m referring to physical contact/bonding in some form on a regular basis.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:59 am

sexycool it is like I embraced it and became aware of its pleasures…it was a growth moment for me…….

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
12:00 pm

It is so hard not to jump into this conversation.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
12:01 pm

Good Guy I am down with that and fanga’s work too! the key word is explore everything….

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
12:01 pm

“I don’t know if it’s increased because of age or nature or because I know myself so much better now than I did when I was younger that I feel freer during it and enjoy it way more.”

SexyCool – i was sitting here wondering the answer to that question and that pretty much sounds right. Plus, when you are doing it with someone you are compatitble with and actually LIKE, it definitely makes you want it that much more…be done spent the whole night humping it up until you’re both drained and tired….next day comes, you’re at work with your eyes barely open on your 3rd cup of coffee, then all of a sudden you’re like Dayum I want some more of him! Have you wondering if something is wrong :mrgreen:

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:01 pm

For all the ladies out there who are 30+, Can you testify to your lobido increasing since hitting 30?

Absolutely. But I am really attributing the increased desire to my partner because he does some amazing things. :lol:

Good Guy Getting Greater (4G) - betta den ur 3G

April 29th, 2010
12:03 pm

Good Guy I am down with that and fanga’s work too! the key word is explore everything….

i know right some people just don’t wanna think outside the box (pun oh so totally intended) lol

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
12:04 pm

How often do you all like to get it one on a weekly basis, on average?

SlimmySlim – Mine usually matches my partners. Since I have gone long without it, I don’t think I NEED it as often as I think I do. Since no guy has ever not wanted it on a steady basis, I am down to go whenever he wants to go. Some it was daily, others every few days.

If it goes up, my job is to get it down! :lol: