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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Do you need better bedroom etiquette?

I can think of a couple of things a lot of people don’t feel comfortable telling their partners about their bedroom etiquette.  When it comes to being intimate, you would think that no conversation is off limits.  The reality is that some people have hang ups about sex and talking about sex with their partner.

What do you do when your partner has made a few wrong moves and you need to let them know? I think many people are oblivious to some things.  Maybe you are not showing proper etiquette to your partner and they don’t want to outright tell you about it.

For the purpose of enlightenment (that’s what we do here, right?!), what are ways to improve your “etiquette” in the bedroom?  What should you be mindful of when it comes to you and your partner?

According to your good/bad experiences, what should you do/ never do?

Even though it’s an “adult”, try your very best to keep things PG, people.  Imagine your seven-year old daughter/son/niece/nephew is reading. Talk in code!

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Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
10:52 am

Carlito I agree! End it now! I will still remain a loyal fan! lol

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
10:53 am

Lady J, Key word is HAD, Mariah HAD a nice voice as well. Gladys Knight still sounds good to me, Anita and Chante Moore do as well. Whitney is a wrap.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
10:55 am

swiss sc state plays ga tech this labor day and it it my hopes we beat them down! When i tell folks we are playing them they laugh and say we will get beat down! SC STATE 1st then GA TECH!!!!!

I hope my daughter goes to Ga Tech if she isn’t interested in SCSU or Spelman….lol but they have dual programs so we will see….lol…yeah she is 4 1/2 but I am always thinking long term! lol

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
10:56 am

I agree with you Carlito, I agree!

It's me....lurker

April 29th, 2010
10:57 am

Carlito…not so hard…at some point we all will become has beens

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
10:57 am

Swiss, did you see SouthPark this week?

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
10:58 am

“swiss sc state plays ga tech this labor day and it it my hopes we beat them down!”

LadyJ — I’m with you all the way on that one. Matter of fact, send me some SC State gear & I’ll be their #1 fan during that game… ;-) :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
10:59 am

“Swiss, did you see SouthPark this week?”

Not yet, I Tivo’d it last night — had to handle bidness w/ Mrs. Swiss…. ;-)

Don’t spoil it! Shhhhhhh!

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
10:59 am

It’s me….lurker, I pray for the wisdom to know when to step down though if I were a major figure. I owe it to myself and paying fans.

Kym--I hope you dance.

April 29th, 2010
11:00 am

@Swiss speaking as the parent of a future engineer..(My son plans to make me a flying car so I won’t have to curse in traffic) I would welcome him going to Tech. (I have friends who graduated from Tech..smart people.)

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
11:01 am

Hola,

I have nothing to add on this topic. I guess you need to communicate to your partner your likes and dislikes.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:02 am

Swiss I will have you a tshirt @ the blog meet up!!! Bet!!!! I love my school!!!!!!!

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:02 am

Swiss, I will not say anything about the cripple being raped by a shark at all. LOL

It's me....lurker

April 29th, 2010
11:03 am

It’s me….lurker, I pray for the wisdom to know when to step down though if I were a major figure. I owe it to myself and paying fans.

Now this I can strongly agree

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:04 am

hey Professor!!!!

Kym not being a pushy parent but I see my child doing technical stuff….I saw it early on…..her dynamics with electronics are amazing…..I am impressed and will cater to them with summer camps and they are out there for all ages….its her niche

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:04 am

Kym — Yeah, I’m a software engineer, so I have a lot of Tech friends. They are smart people, no doubt. Now, when it comes to their football team, however… well, let’s just say they usually have to resort to bragging about how smart they are… ;-) Of course, whenever they do that around me, I gently remind them that I was an English major at UGA & I’m doing the same work they are…. ;-) (And I bet they can’t spout of the first 18 lines of the General Prologue of the Canterbury Tales in Middle English, either…) :lol:

SlimOne killed the wicked witch

April 29th, 2010
11:04 am

i’m swiss Believe me, I’ve seen the R Kelly tape too and i’m definitely NOT into that. But I’m saying the flicks with the chicks that are supposedly skeeting, i find hard to believe is real. I’m sure if i drank a 40oz before doing the do, then have some dude pounded my bladder, that my stuff would project out like they do in the movies too. :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:06 am

“Swiss I will have you a tshirt @ the blog meet up!!! Bet!!!! I love my school!!!!!!”

Sweet! I’m a size extra-medium. ;-) (read: large)

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:08 am

thank you sir going online to look now……will get it tomorrow when i get pd! so serious! Go State and thanks!!!! You are welcome to our tailgate too more info to follow! it is the atlanta alumni scsu chapter!

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:09 am

you right swiss I won’t get started with UGA bc I will get jumped on but I don’t do da dwags! LOL or Athens! LOL

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:10 am

@ Carlito — La la la la la la la la la…. Not listening…. la la la la la :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:11 am

Slim — Alright, lemme grab a 40 & I’m on my way…. :lol:

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:12 am

or dawgs! lol

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:12 am

Swiss, I will not spoil it for you. LOL

I am in awe. When the topic can lead to sex there is no deviant conversations. When the topic is about the price and rice in China, it leads to sex topics. LOL

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:13 am

to me slim it is not…..lol dag i hadn’t watched a flick in a min as I think about it….lol

SlimOne killed the wicked witch

April 29th, 2010
11:13 am

i’m swiss (Slim now going to ER to get catheter inserted before i’m swiss arrives) :lol: :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:13 am

Don’t make me start barking at you, LadyJ…. ;-)

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:14 am

opportunity may knock once. But temptation bangs on the front door forever…a thought….lol

Kym--I hope you dance.

April 29th, 2010
11:14 am

@Swiss you would know the Canterbury Tales..bet the Miller’s tale is your favorite.

@LadyJ..girl he says engineer right now..but my kid loves cartoons and drawing.. anime..so I see him doing something in animation..you know alot of the movies with animation and graphics were developed over at Tech. Whateva he does so long as he is not still living with me.

BlackMagicWoman

April 29th, 2010
11:14 am

Please be mindful of that and make sure you partner is ready before you start shoving it in.”

OMG there is nothing worst than that! I have stopped a guy and have gooten dressed. Just because you are ready to go…doesn’t mean that she is. And just because you have your “eruption” does not mean she has had hers! You still have work to do. If not you are either a selfish b@stard who doesn’t care about anything but your own nut…or clueless phucker who needs to be schooled in Bedroom Prowess 101 before just taking a stab at it. Either way…neither one is good!

LADY J….since you brought up one of my favorite songs…”Rude Boy” I wou;d like to quote the best line: “If I don’t feel it baby I ain’t faking no more”. I have grown tired of sparing feelings in the bedroom by making you think you are puttin’ it down when really all your are doing it letting me down. Hence the reason I will always prefer a B.O.B over a man anyday! I gets mine all the time with B.O.B! Oh and he comes with none of the BS of a man! :lol:

SWISS…”had to handle bidness w/ Mrs. Swiss”….that thigh/headlock again? :shock: :lol:

Luvbug

April 29th, 2010
11:14 am

Oddly enough, I have nothing to add to today’s conversation. I think all of what I would have said has been expressed already.

I think so too…expressed today or in the past. In summary (of all past posts that included this same subject), I’m not into roughhousing and poking thangs anywhere, any whichaway. If that’s you and I don’t plan to keep you, I see no need for a notice (hint…discussion). We just aren’t compatible. I assume that works both ways.

If we like each other, we’ll probably talk openly about the good and bad anyway.

Now one exception regarding a notice…if you’re “adventurous” and like to pee, booky and destroy stuff around the house, that will be addressed midact. No sir! :lol:

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:15 am

Swiss, when in the world is a brand new football team in it’s first season Georgia State, playing the National Champions Alabama?

SlimOne killed the wicked witch

April 29th, 2010
11:15 am

“i hadn’t watched a flick in a min as I think about it….lol”

Lady – J – well I think your first order of business as a Mrs should be to celebrate with a skimpy outfit, some nice stilettos and a flick playing in the background with the sound turned down, and a nice “I wanna sex you up” CD mix playing. :mrgreen: (Slim now humming “We gonna start this thang off right…!)

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:16 am

you read my mind kym I really think she would one day be behind the scenes of video game productions and cartoons….a long shot thought but it truly is amazing to know her intrest is there…..

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:17 am

@ Kym — I’m thinking at some point in his life, Chaucer must have had a run in with a real pr!ck of a miller…. :lol: And yes, that is one of my favorites…

@ BlackMagic — How’d you know? Did you see me in my neck brace this morning??? ;-)

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:18 am

BlackMagicWoman, what is B.O.B?

LuvBug, what is booky?

I tried not to ask but I want to know. LOL

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
11:19 am

No Amazon it doesn’t end if you keep the flame lit. I am talking about that “honeymoon” period you know in the beginning when…you know. After that stage you add the “love making” into the mix. It’s no more tearing each other’s clothes off the minute you get in the door. The romance is added in. You take your time more.

But that doesn’t mean that there will not be those days when you just can’t wait to insert he into she.

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:19 am

get in BMW!!!!!! I love that song!!!!!! she is an airhead but that is a hot song! LOL

slim a Mrs to who???? Who is my George Jefferson honey??? Whezzy wants to know! LMAO @ your post! LOL

Swiss i ain’t NEVA scared of a bulldog!!!!!! Poodles will take them on with their charisma! HA!!!!!! Plus SC State are BULLDOGS so it is in my blood two times over with dogs!!!!!:)

Luvbug

April 29th, 2010
11:20 am

Carlito – Doo doo..Shat

Kym--I hope you dance.

April 29th, 2010
11:22 am

B.O.B. means Battery Operated Boyfriend

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:23 am

LuvBug, okay. True that is a non-insertion area.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
11:24 am

Kym, LOL I would have never figured that out. LOL

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:24 am

Carlito — Not sure when that game is, exactly. I want to say it’s sometime later in the season — maybe a tune-up before the Auburn game? Don’t really know for sure…

Lady J-Let's do the unthinkable-I'm Ready~

April 29th, 2010
11:25 am

slim i read your post again and get it……lol one day girly! lol

SlimOne killed the wicked witch

April 29th, 2010
11:27 am

Lady J – I was about to say…has it been called off? LOL! Glad you got it. Love that dayum Unthinkable tho.

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
11:27 am

Hey Lady J,

BMW you gave me a chuckle with the B.O.B

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
11:28 am

LadyJ — You should be scurred of this DAWG ;-) :lol:

Ah, so you guys are Bulldogs, too, eh? In that case, you really do have a good shot at beating the NATS. They tend to soil themselves at the sight of Bulldogs…. ;-) :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
11:28 am

But I do want to take a moment to express….

SexyCool, that’s what togetherness is all about.

Kym--I hope you dance.

April 29th, 2010
11:28 am

@Swiss as a GSU grad I will be going to a few football games. I am pretty sure we are going to lose with gusto..but I am happy to say my college has a football team. Go Panthers!!!

BlackMagicWoman

April 29th, 2010
11:30 am

Hey….you can’t go wrong with B.O.B! :lol:

SWISS….yeah man..I saw the neck brace and the big a$$ cheese grin on your face! :lol: