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Do you need better bedroom etiquette?

I can think of a couple of things a lot of people don’t feel comfortable telling their partners about their bedroom etiquette.  When it comes to being intimate, you would think that no conversation is off limits.  The reality is that some people have hang ups about sex and talking about sex with their partner.

What do you do when your partner has made a few wrong moves and you need to let them know? I think many people are oblivious to some things.  Maybe you are not showing proper etiquette to your partner and they don’t want to outright tell you about it.

For the purpose of enlightenment (that’s what we do here, right?!), what are ways to improve your “etiquette” in the bedroom?  What should you be mindful of when it comes to you and your partner?

According to your good/bad experiences, what should you do/ never do?

Even though it’s an “adult”, try your very best to keep things PG, people.  Imagine your seven-year old daughter/son/niece/nephew is reading. Talk in code!

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It's me....lurker

April 29th, 2010
3:05 pm

But when my mom was sick I saw her naked a lot because I would assist her in taking a bath

My mom has been getting naked in front of us (sisters/dad) every since I can remember knowing what a naked body is. And STILL does it. I get naked in front of my daughter…she get’s embarrassed but I think nothing of it.

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
3:05 pm

Come on Gouda, just because folks preach the word doesn’t mean they aren’t allowed to have good sex. Sex is a gift from God. LOL

I heard my parents one night, but I convinced myself that it was just the television playing in the room.

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
3:05 pm

…stepping back in.

I am whatever…it is good to see ya in here lady

@Melo- I can only speak for me, (I know I am late), but no I’ve never had hair fall off, again I live an above normal lifestyle…travel, get plenty of good loving, horseback riding, a little car racing and play in the water etc. I don’t have hair problems.

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:06 pm

:lol: @ Carlito — Aw d@mn… Now I’m picturing one of those big ‘ol 1970’s Hustler bushes. Like we need to do a controlled burn or something…. :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
3:07 pm

Melo, they were in the sheets. I know he didn’t think about that and my mom probably didn’t realize they were there when she pulled linens off the bed.

My biggest gripe was they had sex on those sheets that I was touching. LOL

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
3:07 pm

It wasn’t my mother…or my grandmother…or my great-grandmother…

It was my great, great grandmother. She was 95 and topless. And yes, gravity is cruel. :cry:

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:08 pm

Swiss, that is about right. That image has been ghosted to my brain. LOL

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:09 pm

“Come on Gouda, just because folks preach the word doesn’t mean they aren’t allowed to have good sex.”

@ Raqi — I won’t argue with that… but you never met this guy:lol: He is not the one you want to walk in on smackin’ that azz…. :lol:

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:09 pm

Swiss, remember when Butter’s was pointing and talking about the bush. LOL

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:10 pm

Dad must have some very tough skin.

Melo, do you plan on checking your email at all today? LOL

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:10 pm

I stumbled onto my aunt & uncle’s porn stash when I was a kid. Lemme tell ya, they were into some kinky sh!t…. :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
3:11 pm

I get naked in front of my daughter

It’s me, having boys getting naked in front of them stopped when they were approaching two years old. LOL But yeah I would see my mom in her undies if I had to go into their room to ask her something.

The most I ever saw of my dad was him in his t-shirts and pants. Never saw him in his undies even by mistake.

One time when my youngest son was about three I had taken my shirt of while sleeping. When I woke the next morning he had climbed into be with me. I had to stop sleeping topless after that. LOL

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:11 pm

@ Carlito:lol: Yeah, that was classic… Apparently I’m a sex addict, too…. ;-)

Dan

April 29th, 2010
3:12 pm

when you get THAT age, you’ve earned the right

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
3:14 pm

Didn’t make it any less difficult to see. Especially as a pre-teen when even boys are “gross”

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:14 pm

“when you get THAT age, you’ve earned the right”

Hell yeah, Dan. If I make it to 95, I’m walking ’round with my sagging nut sack dragging the ground all day long. :lol: Now what?!?

Dan

April 29th, 2010
3:17 pm

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:18 pm

If I am 95 I am tying two stints to it and still drilling.

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:20 pm

Dan — Good point… I do need to take into account the lower life expectancy for men…

Carlito — No need to stints, man. There’s a little blue pill for that…

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
3:20 pm

Dan, it starts when you get around 40 then it increases little by degree. LOL

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
3:21 pm

:lol: @ Raqi (2:45)

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
3:22 pm

“if you go to bed naked, you don’t have to look for undies”

@SexyCool – you must’ve never heard about Pnuemonia? LOL (back in the day, they used to say anything would cause pnuemonia…walking barefoot outside, sleeping with no shirt on, going outside with a wet head, brushing your teeth before the sun came up) lol

I am whatever you say I am

April 29th, 2010
3:23 pm

shoutin out Professor is…..Carlito…you still on your horse baby? MEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLOOOOOOOOOOOO

SexyCool

April 29th, 2010
3:23 pm

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:25 pm

Swiss, those blue dolphins work on 95 year olds? And they say there is a man shortage. LOL

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:25 pm

I Am, no I set the horse free :)

I am whatever you say I am

April 29th, 2010
3:26 pm

anybody have any idea how long it takes to get state refund?
I filed one week before the due date and my federal refund money has been long spent (on bills)

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
3:27 pm

LOL @ Slim – Maybe being naked with socks on prevents the pnuemonia. :lol:

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:27 pm

Must resist being gross. LOL

I am whatever you say I am

April 29th, 2010
3:27 pm

the tune “let my people go” comes to mind when Carlito says he set his horse free.
LOL

brb….gotta drop kids off at the pool

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
3:28 pm

anybody have any idea how long it takes to get state refund?

I got my state refund in 5 days. It came before my federal did.

But then again, I filed my taxes in January. :lol:

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:29 pm

“Swiss, those blue dolphins work on 95 year olds?”

@ Carlito — Well, you might end up as stiff as your wang if you take one, but hey… at that age, there are worse ways to go….

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:31 pm

Leggs

April 29th, 2010
3:31 pm

@I am ~ how are you doing? In case you haven’t heard, Carlito got married!

Professor is.....

April 29th, 2010
3:32 pm

I am whatever…we had a topic about music not a week or two ago…I was looking for you to play so Lil Wayne for us :grin:

Question for real: At what age is the cutoff for getting it on? I had a friend in college that worked at a nursing home and she told us some stuff. My grandparents had separate rooms, and double beds in the same room if they slept in the same room due to the SO being sick.

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
3:33 pm

Ared – Thanks Chica, you have it all figured out. Butt booty arse naked with socks on is the safe way to go. ;-)

Melo

April 29th, 2010
3:37 pm

At what age is the cutoff for getting it on?

@Proff??

think these days due to the blue pill and remedies for both men and women,it can be any age,depending on their sexual make up,the same way it is differemnt for us younger folks??

smetimes i want it monday till saturday,other months, i barely hit it in a month!

jus depends but a lot of older folks are hitting it these days!!

SlimOne aka SkinnyRed

April 29th, 2010
3:38 pm

Ewwwww @ I am….you know what that means dontcha…dropping kids off at the pool….you bout to take a Sh!t!! LMAO

It's me....lurker

April 29th, 2010
3:38 pm

Raqi – The time I saw my dad naked was the months before his death and after having his leg amputated. We had to bath him…althooogh he seemed just a tad comfy with that. I had to SERIOUSLY pray to do that. My sister did it most days though. Lord forgive me, but most days I’d try to beat her there. Whoever go there first started breakfast for him and moms and the last did the bathing. I would be sooo disappointed if I slept last and got there last…I hope I don’t have to pay for feeling like that when I’m in need of help.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:38 pm

Father is in his 70’s mother in her 60’s my youngest brother will be 8 this year.

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:40 pm

Yep, I am married now. I am trying to bring her back with me after this weekend. LOL

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:42 pm

It is now legal in the state of georgia to keep your roadkill? They have to vote on that stuff?

http://blogs.ajc.com/gold-dome-live/2010/04/29/senate-passes-measure-to-allow-drivers-to-keep-road-kill/

Leggs

April 29th, 2010
3:42 pm

Is your brother adopted or did she have a baby at 52??

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:43 pm

“Father is in his 70’s mother in her 60’s my youngest brother will be 8 this year.”

Well d@mn. That gives a whole new meaning to the phrase heard uttered by every Italian character ever depicted in every Hollywood movie ever made:

“These F@#%ING guys…” :lol:

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2010
3:43 pm

I went to visit my sis in S. GA and her husband’s family was all excited because an aunt hit a deer with her car. They were gonna have a barbeque with it.

I. was. floored. :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2010
3:44 pm

Question for real: At what age is the cutoff for getting it on?

Well I am 42 now and that loving feeling still comes on pretty strong so I hope we have another good 20-25 years of getting it on. If not as often as now at least every now and then.

i'm swiss

April 29th, 2010
3:46 pm

@ Carlito — I guarantee you there are some rednecks in my home town who are already hopping in their 4WDs, heading for the woods to try to bag some “road kill” before deer season starts…. :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

April 29th, 2010
3:48 pm

They were gonna have a barbeque with it.
Dang I could go for some venison. Might have to throw some on the grill this weekend.

Question for real: At what age is the cutoff for getting it on?
Don’t really know. No time soon I hope. lol I say get it as long as the fire is there.

Melo

April 29th, 2010
3:48 pm

Well I am 42

@Raqi??

so for a women,what exactly happens at 40 coz i cant wait for Queen to hit that milestone??

do i need to stock on some extra additives?? :lol:

Carlito

April 29th, 2010
3:48 pm

Swiss, LOL

Legg’s she had him at 55. If you saw my mother you would think that she is 38-41.