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Pick-up lines work

I did something I haven’t done in ages the other day.  I used a pick-up line on a man! I couldn’t let the opportunity to flirt slip away so I had to act fast.  I was at the opening gala for the Atlanta Film Festival last week when I noticed a very handsome guy.  Once I saw no ring (or tan line for one!), I shimmied his way after grabbing a second glass of Pinot aka liquid courage.   I said something about how he looked like a good challenge I could get into. I can’t even remember the exact words.  It didn’t matter that much!

It was enough to make him chuckle and say something like, “Oh really” and we spent the next couple of minutes chatting it up. I really should pick men up more often, it’s scary at first but getting a great response is an adrenaline rush! Ladies, do you use pick up lines on men? What has worked for you? Does it bother you when men approach you with a pick up line? What if it’s a really great one?

Guys, do you ever get approached by women in public? Do they use pick up lines on you? What is the best line a woman has used on you?

244 comments Add your comment

kinderbabe-27 days til the gates open! woohoo!

April 19th, 2010
8:29 am

good morning all…not a connoisseur of pick-up lines. i’ll be reading today. lol. happy monday!:)

GetOverIt

April 19th, 2010
8:48 am

Ladies, the best pickup line you could use is “You Wanna?”. Works every time.

Morrus

April 19th, 2010
8:48 am

Vote out the incumbents and start over

SlimCoco-puffs bring all the boyz 2 da yard

April 19th, 2010
8:52 am

HAPPY MUNDANE MONDAY’S

Can’t really say i’ve ever used a ‘pick-up’ line on a dude before. I simple compliment on their smile, piece of jewelry, or whatever seems to return a great response as well.

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
9:04 am

Does “Hey, Haven’t seen you in a while” qualify as a pick up line?

other than that I would have to say I’m not a pick up line girl. I’m like slim, offer a nice compliment and go from there

I had a GRRRRRRREAT weekend! :)

j-mike

April 19th, 2010
9:06 am

i wish more ladies would use pickup lines, it would save the guy the trouble of having to come up with something clever. i’ve had a few ladies use pickup lines on myself and nice to have that change in customs.

Mr. C

April 19th, 2010
9:08 am

Hey Miss, I need directions. Can I have the directions to your heart?

Mr. C

April 19th, 2010
9:09 am

Hey Miss how are you doing? She then says “fine”, you then say “I know you are, but I asked how are you doing?”

Mr. C

April 19th, 2010
9:12 am

Hey Miss, I like your style. Heres my card, call me and we can maybe go out for dinner and a movie!

j-mike

April 19th, 2010
9:13 am

i onced told a girl after i hadn’t seen her in awhile that she left beautiful and came back gorgeous. that worked like a champ and she became my girlfriend for a couple years.

Mr. C

April 19th, 2010
9:14 am

Hey girl you look mighty cute in those jeans!

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
9:19 am

When you give a guy a compliment, you’ll be surprised by the warm response you get…even if it never leads to the exchange of phone numbers convo

Run4life

April 19th, 2010
9:19 am

Here is my greatest pickup line ever (for me anyway). I must paint the scenario first. It was about three years ago. I was in the parking lot at the fitness center. I had just gotten a new car (well new to me), and this cute guy parks beside me. At the time I didn’t realize he was as fine as he was. Anyway, when he gets out of the car, I say ‘if you don’t hit my car, i won’t hit yours’. That’s not the pick up line, I was being sincere. It was my shiny new silver car. He said something about his car can’t match mine, and he kept walking in front of me. I then noticed how fine (ladies, I mean fine) he was.

The next day, I managed to work out over beside him while he was lifting weights. He asked if I saw the ‘ding’ that he put on my car. I smiled and said ‘why, are you marking your territory?’. He smiled, and it was on from there for about 6 months. But you can’t hold such a fine creature down.

Yup

April 19th, 2010
9:21 am

I’m not really a fan of pick-up lines but if I use whatever I feel at that point in time will elicit a response. My personal tried and true pick up lines, or better yet methods of approach, include:

-saying excuse me Miss but you dropped this, while simultaneously handing her a slip of paper that I’d just scribbled my name and number on. Obviously, the point isn’t to get her to take it and call but to start a convo….I started that back in college.

-scribbling something silly on a napkin that requires a response and putting the check boxes for yes and no. It always gets a chuckle at the very least and I go from there.

Also, I can tell if a woman put extra effort into what she is wearing and if she is “feeling it”. Women tend to hold their head higher and stride when this is the case. I merely say “you look nice” and then compliment them on something in particular they are wearing rather it be their shoes or a ring/necklace. As far as women using pick-up lines I really don’t get that. Most women that approach me are pretty straightforward with “Hi I’m (fill in name)” and we go from there.

Limelight

April 19th, 2010
9:33 am

Wow, Look at the shi tt er on that critter…..works every time!

Jeff

April 19th, 2010
9:40 am

Lately I’ve used “Let me get up in ya”. Doesn’t ever work but it is funny and the expressions on faces after they realized what I’ve said are pricesless.

kinderbabe--29 days and counting! woohoo!

April 19th, 2010
9:50 am

hey, princessnik.:) glad to hear your weekend was fabulous…that’s what weekends are all about! mine got better on sunday once my baby returned from out of town. the longer we’re together, the harder it gets for me to be away from him.:( so SUNDAY was SUPER!!! lol

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
9:51 am

“comeonIwannalayya”

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
9:55 am

Morning all…

Ahhh…. you go get ‘em, Wise. Although… not to burst your bubble over the clever line too much, but it really wouldn’t have mattered what you said to the dude. (Well, unless you said something like “I’ve got explosive diarrhea” — that probably would have scared dude off) :-) Besides, he was probably too busy picturing you nekkid to hear what you were saying anyway… ;-) :lol:

But seriously, even if we (guys) are not interested in a woman, if she’s brave enough to approach us, we’ll at least be nice enough to chat her up a bit. Your ego is safe with us… ;-)

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
9:56 am

Hey KB!! Glad you had a super sunday LOL, i definately understand what you mean.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
9:58 am

i’m swiss – i like catching dudes off guard with compliments or out of the way comments and then just walk away. Leaves them smiling with their chest poking out just a little bit more. Saw this guy in Target one day and I could tell he worked out. I complimented him on his arms (i loooooveee nice arms) I was like, keep up the good work, because it definitely is paying off. Then I walked away. When I got far enough away, I could see he was still wearing that smile. ;-)

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
10:00 am

Slim, you are so right, men love to have their ego stroked, and unexpectedly just really does something to them LOL

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
10:02 am

Slim — I like that attitude… And, of course, you do realize that dude probably thought of you when he spanked it later that night… :lol:

Kym-has major trust issues today!

April 19th, 2010
10:13 am

Good Morning All,

I have never used a pick up line on a guy. Not my thing. Heck I think I figured out after my convo with post office dude. I have major trust issues..or I could be too quirky for my own good. Either way..pick up lines..uhhhh they throw me off balance which is what I guess they are designed to do.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
10:14 am

“you do realize that dude probably thought of you when he spanked it later that night”

i’m swiss – Well at least someone is thinking about me…for something positive…LOL!

abc

April 19th, 2010
10:16 am

Corporate Sales chick I know told me that I have great looking teeth. I think it’s kind of weird, she keeps looking at them. I don’t think it’s a line to hit me up so much, but it’s odd.

I’ve always thought it was a little weird when a chick would open a conversation by telling me about how my _______________ looks. As if I’d say, ‘nice rack! They’re so blankety blank!’ Just a bit weird.

How about just a normal conversation starter? Hi, I’m so-and-so, nice to meet you. Yakety yak, say things that are real. No?

M'

April 19th, 2010
10:20 am

Pick up lines…not really a fav thing of mine…but I will admit that any opening line that can tickle my funny bone might get a few attention points…as I do not really respond to any lines that address my physical appearance…I am arrogantly ego satisfied in that area…lol…so make me laugh

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
10:22 am

“Slim, you are so right, men love to have their ego stroked, and unexpectedly just really does something to them”

@ PrincessNik — Who doesn’t like having their ego stroked — man or woman? Men just don’t receive as many compliments in general as women, so maybe we appreciate them a bit more when we do…? Of course, we also don’t have to deal with chicks that disgust us trying to pounce on our wangs 100 times a day, so maybe we’re more receptive to compliments… :lol:

Slim — Aww… see, now I’m sure people are having positive thoughts about you all the time. I’m having a positive thought about your CT right now, as a matter of fact… :lol:

M'

April 19th, 2010
10:24 am

@ Run4

You may not be able to hold’em down…but it sho don’t hurt to get a taste…lol

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
10:24 am

abc — I don’t know, man… “D@MN! Look at them t!tties!” has always been a sure-fire pick-up line for me… ;-) :lol:

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
10:25 am

Swiss,

you have a very valid point :lol:

Run4life

April 19th, 2010
10:27 am

M dot- this is so true. I still smile when I think of him. He was just out of a divorce and wanted freedom. I can never hang with sharing guys’ time and space.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
10:35 am

“I’m having a positive thought about your CT right now, as a matter of fact”

i’m swiss – stop thinking about it so hard…I think I can feel your brain waves. :mrgreen: (I feel like i’m walking around with a loaded weapon..still haven’t gotten my bullet yet) :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY NAME IS BUCK, I DRIVE A TRUCK AND I LOVE TO

April 19th, 2010
10:37 am

Pick up lines.. Well I never!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. MY NAME IS BUCK, I DRIVE A TRUCK AND I LOVE TO

April 19th, 2010
10:43 am

A pick up line only works when its personal.. All the canned pickup lines are ridiculous.. You have to make it for her.. And it cant be sooo corny and lovey dovey.. My pick up line is always about the shoes. If thats whats you wanna call them.. I just call it a conversation starter.. Most women are eger to talk about themselves and have someone just listen..

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
10:44 am

Morning
There is nothing new under the sun. So, however “original” you think your line is, the other person has probably heard it 1000 times. If something about someone catches your eye and you decide to compliment them on it, chances are others have complimented them on the same thing. All that aside, I think most people can appreciate humor. If a woman approaches me, I’m always gracious, even if I’m not interested.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
10:45 am

“I think I can feel your brain waves…”

Just call me the cerebral cunnilinguist, Slim;-) :lol:

Ozzy

April 19th, 2010
10:46 am

Guys are shy by Nature. No pickup lines are needed, but just approaching a guy to start a conversation will go a long way.

Yup

April 19th, 2010
10:58 am

DreamsMaterialize @ 10:44: I agree that there is NOTHING new under the sun but it could be new to THAT person. For example, the song (by Treysongs?) about having “invented sex” was laughable to me as a seasoned vet but to someone either just beginning to pop cherries or just getting their cherry popped it may have real meaning. Yet, I do agree 100% with you there is nothing new under the sun.

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
10:59 am

I approached a guy this past Saturday night…but I did not use a line. I just said, “hi handsome…what’s your name” and it was on from there. The hottie and I spoke and exchanged numbers and hung out yesterday! I have approached a guy if I smell a cologne that is tantalizing. I will do as Toucan Sam and follow my nose. Then I will tell him that he smells good (as I sniff his necK I ask him his name and it flows from there.

I hate the idiots that think that “complimenting” me on my a$$, thighs or my rack is a real compliment. No you d1ldo…that is only a compliment coming from a man I am dating or a guy I am friends with. Well ok I have had gay men compliment me and it doesn’t bother me but it’s different with a guy who is actually trying to get with me.

Professor

April 19th, 2010
11:00 am

Hola!

I am not big on pick up lines, but I will speak from the heart. If I see something on a guy that looks great I compliment. But, then again I am the type to give out compliments when I see something nice. I was at AS last weekend and this lady was rocking some bad fuchsia heels, shoot they were out of this world and I had to let her know. Once I said something several ladies said I was thinking the same thing, but none of them spoke up.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
11:00 am

“Just call me the cerebral cunnilinguist”

Dayum…will someone pass me a baby wipe please :oops:

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
11:02 am

“Just call me the cerebral cunnilinguist”

:shock: i wasn’t expecting that LOL

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
11:03 am

Hey professor,

i checked out that usher song you were telling me about, can you refresh my memory on the original artist and title please.

abc

April 19th, 2010
11:04 am

Men are NOT ’shy by nature’, that’s absurd. I’d say that as a generalization, the opposite is true. A man that is too shy to introduce himself and start a conversation — whether it’s with a chick, to go to the kitchen to complement the chef, to network in real life and go get the job or the sale or whatever, etc. — is a wimp. Things like that are due to poor upbringing, your father should have taught you to be unafraid of expressing yourself, and of being a part of your surroundings, to include the whole world.

Shy by nature! My foot.

RusDawg

April 19th, 2010
11:05 am

The best I ever got from a female was “You’re in trouble tonight and you don’t even know it.”

Professor

April 19th, 2010
11:08 am

Hey Princess

Benny Mardones “If I could Fly” Usher used the music moreso, than the lyrics….I used to love that song, so when I heard Usher I was like he sampled hard on this one. :grin: I like Usher’s take on it.

If I could fly
I’d pick you up
I’d take you into the night
And show you a love
Oooooh, if I could fly
I’d pick you up
I’d take you into the night
And show you a love
Like you’ve never seen, ever seen
Yeah, Ooooooh….

Professor

April 19th, 2010
11:11 am

The pick up line if you want to call it that is when someone tries to say I look like someone (celebrity). I really don’t care for that one.

M'

April 19th, 2010
11:12 am

<strong.@Run4

I am the M apostrophe…lol…not the M dot…hehehe…I have been MIA on MIA for a minute.

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
11:14 am

Professor i love usher’s take also, so i’m curious to hear the original

Luvbug

April 19th, 2010
11:17 am

I have a few friends that are good at flirting with men. I imagine it’s a great skill to have, but I don’t have it. I’m usually the shy one.

As abc posted, I’m sure it has something to do with my upbringing.

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
11:18 am

Yup

Trey Songz says “you GON THINK i invented sex” LOL, he didn’t say he actually did. ;)

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
11:20 am

Morning Gang!

I had a wonderful weekend! Hung out Saturday with my main 2 college buddies & it was great being back with the crew again! We are going to make it a monthly thing, either just us ladies or with our guys. Either way, it was fantabulous!

I’ve never used lines. I just give compliments, and like you Professor, I give them out to everyone. I like giving credit where it’s due & I’ve never not had anyone to not respond favorably to a compliment. I think just about everyone has SOMETHING attractive about them.

abc – The teeth compliment is not uncommon, especially for me. I LOVE nice teeth on a man! It’s one of the first things I notice. I love a pleasant smile too on a man, I’m not impressed by the intense, brooding, hard look. You don’t have to walk around like Joe Sunshine, but don’t go around looking like you kill serially either!LOL!!

Professor

April 19th, 2010
11:22 am

Hey Princess,

Go on youtube or download the orginial off of itunes. Usher kept the orginial keyboard notes in…I love that song. It was one of my favorites in the 80’s.

Are you a big fan of Will Downing? You know a few years back he did a remake on the 80’s classic “I Go Crazy” by Paul Davis. I love that one too. I am not a fan or remakes or samples either.

Hello girl it’s been awhile
Guess you’ll be glad to know
That I’ve learned how to laugh and smile

Getting over you was slow
They say old lovers can be good friends
But I never thought I’d really see you,
I’d really see you again

I go crazy
When I look in your eyes I still go crazy

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:23 am

I only have a few pick up lines, maybe that is why I have only had 3 girlfriends in my life. :)

Run4life

April 19th, 2010
11:23 am

I apologize M apostrophe

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
11:23 am

Professor – I like that song too. Paul Davis passed away a few years ago.

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
11:24 am

M’karyl? Where u been, lady? Good to read ya, hope all is well!

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
11:25 am

@ Prof,

i’ve dabbled in Will Downing a little, but usually just what i hear on the radio. I’m glad Usher left the orig. keyboard notes in cause that is what makes the song, i had to listen a second time to focus on the words beyond the chorus/hook

I will youtube when i get home :)

“i always feel like somebody’s watching me” lol

M'

April 19th, 2010
11:29 am

@Run4

Oh chile it be otay…lol…jes dat we dun been through dat confuzzion b4….lol…saving time, dat all

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:31 am

If you were a tear in my eye I would not cry for fear of losing you.

That is not mine, I found that when I looked for cheesy pick up lines.

Professor

April 19th, 2010
11:33 am

@Kimmie…I did not know Paul Davis passed away. I just love the music of the 80s.

@Princess Will is great, but I don’t pull him out as often as I used to. On the Mo’Nique show Trey Songz said that not all ladies get that “You Gon Think I Invented Sex” type of loving that is reserved for the special ones I guess he is just running through the rest of the groupies.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
11:34 am

I just cant justify using a pickup line.. Hey baby God is definitely missing one of his Angels.. That ish is so corny to me.. I pick what I like about you and address that.. Cooly though no overly corny compliment..

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:37 am

Infamous, Happy Early 420!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
11:39 am

I usually dont even get all into the compliments cause Im sure pretty women hear that all day.. I just talk to her about anything.. Nice weather we’re having today. Depending on what moode im in.. I might say something completely silly.. I dont know..

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
11:39 am

Professor, I watched a old Soul Train rerun over the weekend. The guest performers were Sister Sledge & Ray Parker Jr. The clothes, hairstyles, music – I just shook my head, but that was the style! It was fun watching though!

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
11:40 am

Lito – I was at the 420 fest this weekend and the Dogwood but no freaknic-n..

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
11:40 am

DK, how did the 2nd date go? What did you decide to do?

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:44 am

Infamous, we went out Friday night and was to hungover to do anything saturday. :)

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
11:47 am

Best pickup line – “Hey, there! Can you pull my finger!” ;-)

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:48 am

Your name must be Mickey because your so fine.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:49 am

Oh Mickey you’re so Fine you blow my mind Hey Mickey, Hey Mickey

SexyCool

April 19th, 2010
11:49 am

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:50 am

You must be Jamaican, because Jamaican me crazy.

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
11:51 am

I have great pickup lines. Just can’t use ‘em anymore. LOL!

Instead, I just use that creativity to come up with new ways to compliment TheDude and make him laugh.

His laughter is like sunshine on my soul.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:52 am

You be the Dairy Queen and I’ll be your Burger King: You treat me right, and I’ll do it your way

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:53 am

Whoot Whoot, pull over that ass is to fat.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
11:54 am

Oh Mickey you’re so Fine you blow my mind Hey Mickey, Hey Mickey

Carlito, how old are you again?

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
11:59 am

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:02 pm

Kimmie – Aww the Infamous Second Date.. It ended up with me cussing at her and her cussing at me..

Just Kidding..

It went well we actually just hung out all weekend.. She came and watched me Ref a few games and we went from there.. All over the A.. Spot jumping all weekend.. She was laughing her head off at the 420 fest when a dude puked all over his buddy.. We drank a few brews and we both decided we werent gonna be a casualty of the Keg Beer, so we drank our water the rest of the evening and listened to music at the Dogwood fest.. She had on running shoes yesterday and some nice little shorts with pockets on the side as did I.. I told her she was trying to dress like me.. Her boobs looked realy good in the little t she had on.. Oh and we took our bikes too so it was cool to ride through the spots chillin..

Professor

April 19th, 2010
12:03 pm

@Kimmie you are right it is funny watching the old hairstyles and fashion.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:05 pm

And we ended up at Fox Bros last night.. Cool lil weekend..

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
12:09 pm

Professor..I love that song too.

CARLITO…you and SWISS are two crazy mofo’s! :lol:

Professor

April 19th, 2010
12:10 pm

DK,

I am loving your dates with your new friend. You should give her a moniker so when we ask about her we can call her by name. :grin:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:10 pm

Prof – Yeah Ms Flops..

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
12:11 pm

Oh Mickey you’re so Fine you blow my mind Hey Mickey, Hey Mickey

OMG, my sister used to wear that 45 out!!

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
12:11 pm

BlackMagicWoman, Friday night my brother and I realized we had no idea what you looked like. We just made ourselves walk in front of every black woman. :) Julia, said we were looking like pervs.

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
12:13 pm

“Julia, said we were looking like pervs.”

*dead – resuscitate, please.*

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
12:17 pm

SexyCool, LOL

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
12:19 pm

Soundtrack for my day – “the dana owens album”

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
12:19 pm

You know you blog too much when you find yourself thinking that DK would not be proud of me for putting these flops on over the weekend. :-D

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
12:21 pm

My dad used a simple line. He walked up to my mom whom he had never spoken to before and asked her if she was married. She said no so he asked her if she would marry him. They got married 8 months later. They had been married 41 years when she passed away.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
12:22 pm

Infamous, that sounds like a nice second date.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:25 pm

Sessy – Nobody does Free Fallin Like Tom Petty..

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
12:25 pm

SlimGoody – I am >>>here<<< on the thinking about DK when I put on flipflops now. (And he knows it.) LOL!

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
12:30 pm

Watched the Country Music Awards last night. I gotta buy me some new music.

DK – I like Mayers version cause it’s sans the drums. The simple acoustics give it a feel that strokes the Sexy and soothes the Cool that I am feeling in my spirit right now.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:30 pm

Raqi – Yes indeed we had FUN..

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:33 pm

Sessy – But Pettys voice is classic.. Kinda Dylan-y..

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
12:34 pm

CARLITO….I didn’t make it to Havana.I ended up at 2 other spots. But now I have the mental picture of a 6′6 dude and his brother walking by each Black Woman! :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:34 pm

And drums rock…

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
12:37 pm

I do like that slightly gravelly, rough quality to his voice. AND I like the drums, but you just really gotta be feeling how I’m digging myself right now to appreciate this space that I occupy at this place in my life.

I feel so free.

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:38 pm

Sessy – Well free deez.. Hee hee!!

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
12:39 pm

@ DK — Speaking of Petty — I saw David Spade’s stand-up act back in college & that dude does an impersonation of Tom Petty that is spot on. He could easily pass for Tom Petty’s mini-me. :lol:

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
12:40 pm

Infamous you are a bad bad man. I shamefully thought about you Sunday while trying on some wedge heel sandals at Nordstrom but when I crossed my legs and my husband walked back over, stooped down to crisscross and tie the straps around my ankle I quickly, quickly forgot about you. LOL

His presence and touch trumps every time.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
12:40 pm

Quit being so selfish and put it in your pelvis

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
12:42 pm

Tom Petty’s(420) version rocks I have not heard the Mayer version.

BlackMagicWoman, we did just that. :) He ended up popping his cherry with my fine neighbor. LOL

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:43 pm

Well I am doing my job to make sure womens shoe game is tight and that they dont resort to lazy flip flops. Trust me all your dudes appreciate it.. They might say they dont mind you in flops but they love you in heels showing the Gams.. Thats right..

THE INFAMOUS DK AKA MR. 420

April 19th, 2010
12:43 pm

Lito – Your bro got the cute neighbor.. Damn!

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
12:45 pm

SexyCool, I watched Celebrity Apprentice last night. Two up and coming country singers Emily West and Luke Bryan were on there. Both of them can sing very well. I used to listen to 101.5 years ago. Good listening.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
12:51 pm

Infamous, it was bound to happen. She was over some last week and they hit it off. He has been wanting an AA woman for a long time. Good for me, because now I know I will not mess with her, ever. LOL

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
12:51 pm

CARLITO….aw dayum…Arturo got it on with Ms. Parker? :lol:

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 19th, 2010
12:51 pm

Afternoon All!

Hope everyone is having a great monday. Let me speed read and see whats going on……

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
12:52 pm

Raqi – I caught the last few minutes of an episode last week. Seems like Robinson-Peete is handling things. (At least from the snippet that I saw.)

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
12:54 pm

Carlito – What’s this about? –> “He has been wanting an AA woman for a long time.” Is he just BlackCurious or something?

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
12:58 pm

SexyCool, yeah I like Holly but she has been kinda bossy on there. I think it’s the Black-Mother in her. LOL

I read an article about her just Thursday. I didn’t know she and her husband Rodney had a son with autism. Just reading that article I can tell she is not only sort of bossy but she is a strong woman. She admitted in the article that she emasculated her husband in her strength. It took them getting to a bad place for her to realize what she was doing. While he appreciates her “strength” he said he needed her to let him be the man that he is.

We all have our things that we go thru. But yeah I like her on Apprentice.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:01 pm

LOL Slim I caught that too. I was going to address but decided I would rather leave it alone. Like we are some sort of….nevermind I am leaving it alone.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:02 pm

BlackMagicWoman, yes LOL

Slim, the black women down here are different than where we are from. He would always make comments when he visited and I told him about my own experience. Now he has his own experience.:)

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
1:04 pm

I had know about her son for quite some time. It is amazing to me how much she and her best friend, Terry Ellis, favor.

Click for pic of Holly and Terry.

Luvbug

April 19th, 2010
1:05 pm

Julia, said we were looking like pervs.

Carlito – I bet she’s right. LOL

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:05 pm

Wow SexyCool, they could be twins.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:06 pm

So now him wanting to have sex with a black woman is a bad thing? Did she not want to be with him as well? He is young and living life. Should he narrow his preferences? He can sleep with whomever he chooses as long as she is willing, right? And he really likes the woman as well, she took him to the airport not me. Who knows what may happen.

Professor

April 19th, 2010
1:07 pm

“He has been wanting an AA woman for a long time.”

Hmmmm I will say this and leave it alone. I guess he wanted to know the same way Carlito googled cooking chitlins. smdh. I guess that is why I don’t do all that small talk and ish.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 19th, 2010
1:16 pm

SCool – Terry Ellis & Holly Robinson-Peete were on Oprah years ago and people marveled at how much they look alike! Robinson-Peete also mentioned in Essence maybe a year ago about her son having autism. I think Rodney Peete recently released a book about it too

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
1:17 pm

Not a bad thing. Just the wording make it sound like it was some kind of *expirement.*

And it also made it seemed as if he had *the kill* in mind as opposed to the person.

I have an opinion, but pass no judgement on it either way. And while it seems as if we know *his* motivation, I wonder about *hers*.

But either way, it’s just passing the day on my part – idle observations.

Luvbug

April 19th, 2010
1:17 pm

DK – Awwwwwwwwww. What a wonderfully sweet weekend!!!

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:18 pm

You stated it as if we are some sort of pastime experiment. Some kind of inanimate object like trying on a freakin’ pair of shoes. If he met the woman and genuinely like her and they got together that’s one thing. But coming here looking for the “Black Experience” like we are some damn drug from the Motherland…go somewhere with that foolishness.

Yeah we are all that and then some, but I am just saying. Take the foolishness elsewhere. Or find a better of choice of words. They do that in Brazil, not here.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:21 pm

Mo, the article I read was about the book he just wrote. The article says how the book speaks of how they struggled during the time of realizing what was going on with the son.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

April 19th, 2010
1:24 pm

Raqi – yeah she mentioned that in her article in Essence, that was about a year or so ago. There was couple on V-103 about a week or so ago talking about that same thing. They had a son with autism and talked about the strain it took on their marriage. They gave a statistic that of married couples with children with autism, the divorce rate is 80% or 85%. :shock:

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:24 pm

SexyCool, thank you :) It may have been an experiment or maybe she will be his FWB when he comes in town now. I was going to do one with a plus sized woman no matter her race. I just happened to get back with my ex girlfriend before I could find one that I liked enough to do so. Just for the plus sized experience. I have heard many stories of people exploring other options just for the experience. To each their own. I was surprised it happened as well and happy. Because now I will not feel like she is being flirty with me, nor will I be consumed by her attractiveness. She slept with my brother LOL

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
1:24 pm

Carlito – wanting to have sex with a AA chick is not bad…sort of along the lines of SexyCool & Raqi…Even though I may have wondered what it’s like to be involved with someone non-Black, I guess I never set out to accomplish it as if it were on my Bucket List. lol But not judging, was just asking. ;-) I am now on your horse :-D

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:24 pm

And while it seems as if we know *his* motivation, I wonder about *hers*.

Exactly SexyCool. I wonder if he made her privy to the fact that she was just some sought after “AA woman goodies” experiment.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:28 pm

Raqi, when black women date outside of their race is it not an experiment?

I am sorry I was confused, I swear it was this blog where I have read some women “tried” “others” and some like it and some did not. Sounds like it was an experiment or temporary quest to me.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:32 pm

Slim, take care of my horse, while I am down here shoveling crap. LOL

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:32 pm

Carlito, some may have wanted to know what it was like to be with an other but from what I have read it was merely pursuing a relationship. Not just for the experience of the hump.

I guess my age is showing. And the PB isn’t making it any better.
Don’t mind me little skipper, carry on.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:33 pm

I could have slept with her if I did not have any discipline. I think I blogged about that when her son was setup to water my lawn.

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
1:34 pm

You know you blog too much when you find yourself thinking that DK would not be proud of me for putting these flops on over the weekend

LOL i had the same thought, but i said dang i am headed to get a pedi its gonna be aiight. I do need to locate me some sexxy sandals to go with a new dress i purchased and plan to wear for this wknds date.

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
1:36 pm

You are certainly making her seem kinda loose.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:36 pm

Raqi, what does “PB” mean?

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:36 pm

A hole is a hole and a pole is a pole. Turn the lights out it’s all black. The blood origin makes it no difference when the blood is all red.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:37 pm

Carlito, it means I should probably go lie down.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:38 pm

SexyCool, I told the story of how she was flirting with me and making advances a few weeks ago. I think they are both very loose. Just Friday I was telling some of the women on here, who showed a little interestin my brother. I typed on here that all my brother is interesting in is school, partying and sex. He is still my brother through it all and I love him, loose or not.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
1:39 pm

In defense of Carlito’s bro… You ladies have to understand that when we dudes are young & single & still in our man-wh@ring days, we think of most every woman we sleep with as a kind of conquest. So anytime we get with someone who is dramatically new or different from what we’ve had in the past, there will always be an added level of curiosity & excitement. Just sayin’… :lol:

First big girl… check

First red-head… check

First pierced chick… check

First [insert any race of chick you haven't slept with yet] chick… check

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:43 pm

Swiss, and the women down here are more aggressive than back home. So the harvest is plentiful for him.

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
1:43 pm

CARLITO….I do not discriminate. I date all races. I seem to attract White, Middle Eastern & Blasian men. Hey…if they are hot…why the hell not???

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
1:43 pm

I remember reading that about her a few weeks ago and about your brother on Friday.

At the end of the day, they’re both grown and if there is nothing else that I’ve learned in life, it’s to let grown folks be grown folks and stay out *they* business.

Randomly observing.

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
1:45 pm

Hey…if they are hot…why the hell not???

BMW, That’s What’s Up!

Luvbug

April 19th, 2010
1:45 pm

we think of most every woman we sleep with as a kind of conquest

I was kinda thinking the same thing, but I didn’t want to attest to a man’s feeling b/c I am not one. Many women do the same thing…but it’s more related to money and title than race. And in those cases, the guy rarely knows upfront either.

Hell, he may not figure out the game until she tells him she’s pregnant.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
1:48 pm

A horse is a horse, of course of course.

SexyCool, I agree. The situation is better for me, that is what I am happy about.

BlackMagicWoman, true. I thought what he and my neighbor did fell under the FWB column, exact same thing IMO and most people are cool with that.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
1:52 pm

“Many women do the same thing…but it’s more related to money and title than race… Hell, he may not figure out the game until she tells him she’s pregnant.”

Now that’s funny & scary all at the same time. Makes me even more glad I’m married… ;-)

And, it’s not just about race for guys, either. Actually, there are plenty of guys who never hook up outside their own race, but there’s still a lot of “firsts” to check off of that to-do list before settling down… :lol: It’s really more about all the different things that you find appealing in some way & sampling as much as you can before you’re too old to get it… :lol:

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
1:52 pm

I thought what he and my neighbor did fell under the FWB column, exact same thing IMO and most people are cool with that.

Carlito, could be they were content with it cause they knew they wouldn’t see each other again for probably a while at the mininimum. pressure busts pipes ya know, maybe your neighbor just needed a plumber. :lol:

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
1:56 pm

SCool – How did the party you had to work at go? Did all the activities going on affect it? How did you & Melo’s daisy dukes fit? I understand it had been since the last Freaknic that you all wore them!LOL!!j/k!!!

We went ahead with our plans to hit Atlantic Station and had no trouble.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
1:58 pm

Gouda, I guess you are right. Like groupies chasing the all star, platinum record, million dollar dizzles. I guess they feel for some reason the dizzle with the most money and status feel better. Like a dog chasing it’s tail they are. Once they catch it, then what?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:00 pm

First 3-way… check

First cougar… check

First midget… check

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
2:01 pm

Raqi

your 1:58, has anyone been watching basketball wives on VH1?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:01 pm

Oh d@mn… did I type that in the wrong place? :lol:

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
2:01 pm

First midget… check

i feel light-headed, please grab deac. thornton’s shoe in case i pass out!

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
2:03 pm

The party actually came together really well. Unfortunately, the Freaknic…NotNic hype kept people away. Attendance was not what was expected. But…I had BIG fun and free drinks, so, I was gooooooood.

My dukes were too dusty (and probably about two sizes too small) for me to pull out the closet. Melo on the other hand – with his *nuthuggers*…um…eeewww…let me retract that. The visual on that is just too awful. LOL!

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
2:08 pm

I have a teammate on my Tuesday night softball team that is looking for females to play on a Monday night co-ed team in Hapeville. They are short girls. Cost to play $30. League starts tonight.

If you are interested, email me – cscfromajc@yahoo.com

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:09 pm

Swiss, I am not going to post my checklist. :) I am still looking for a female body builder who is not manly looking. I want her to be strong enough to do push ups while I am in her from the back, lifting me off of the ground like I am flying. All the while, I am saying “up up and away”, just like superman.LOL

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:10 pm

*nuthuggers*

That statement made me think about the song in “Beaches” when she is singing about the t!t slings. LOL

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
2:11 pm

Carlito, Carlito, Carlito

wow

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:11 pm

Well, d@mn. It’s official. I am no longer the freakiest whiteboy on this blog. :lol:

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:14 pm

Carlito, I thought I read you say your girlfriend read this forum.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:15 pm

Why am I the freakiest because I am helping her with her fitness. :) I was never white until I moved to Georgia. :) LOL

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
2:17 pm

Rock – I thought Carl was bs’ing with the bodybuilder thing.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:17 pm

Raqi, she does and she knows about the fat girl dreams and that one I just typed. She also knows some stuff I will not type. I know about her lusts and dream f*cks as well. :)

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:18 pm

Danggit, my age is showing again.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:19 pm

SexyCool, the flying part was a joke. The muscle bound, abs, thighs chest and back in a womanly way I was not. Most of those women get to big and start looking like a man. If she looka likah man, I can not do it.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:21 pm

I will never be, Brad Pitt, Jay Z, George Clooney, Vin Diesel or John Cena. But to her I bet I have. LOL

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:22 pm

Carlito, so that is an “experiment/fantasy” that the two of you will engage in together? Being that you are talking about the woman you are still looking for right here in her face.

I was kinda hoping what SexyCool said was true. It being a joke and all.

But don’t mind me. I will better tomorrow. Promise.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
2:23 pm

I’m sorry but I have no interest in marking a plus-size guy off a checklist or a midget aka little person.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:24 pm

“The muscle bound, abs, thighs chest and back in a womanly way…”

Ah, I see, Carlito — muscular, but feminine. In that case, I’m with you 100% on that one, although, I’ve never seen an actual female body builder who wasn’t too muscular. But I do love a woman with some good muscle definition in addition to the womanly curves. Matter of fact, that’s exactly who I married… :-D

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:26 pm

Raqi, it is just talk we both know that it is not going to happen. Just somethings that were on the “to do” list before getting a steady girlfriend. Stuff happens, goals change. I know her well enough that if we ran into John Cena or Brad Pitt she will not be getting with them. If she wanted to take a picture or get an autograph I would not mine, she likes they way they look. She knows me well enough that I would not cheat on her as well.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
2:28 pm

Carlito, thanks. :smile:

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:28 pm

Swiss, kudos :) you know what I mean. Mine has nice abs and is toned.(lacking nothing just in case she reads this) I am attracted to a runners or swimmers shape as well.

Slim, I would imagine a fat sloppy guy on you would be messy. LOL

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
2:31 pm

Like a dog chasing it’s tail they are.
I’ve been this dog before. But what you misunderstand is that the thrill is not in the capturing, but in the hunt. So, once you catch what you’ve been chasing, you put a check and move on to the next item on the list. Eventually, you either exhaust the list or it gets old. That’s when something meaningful will come to you, and you will be ready to receive it.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
2:31 pm

“I would imagine a fat sloppy guy on you would be messy”…um let’s try EWWWWWWWW YUCK YUCK YUCK…cough cough, can’t breathe…need air…please…feeling….faint………….(flatline)________________

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
2:34 pm

CARLITO….. :lol: OMG! I swear you and Swiss crack me the hell up! Oh and BTW…you are not White…you are tan! :lol: That is what my Italian homegirl says about her color.

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
2:35 pm

But I do love a woman with some good muscle definition in addition to the womanly curves.
Kicked it with a Nigerian chick with a body like this…loved it. Gotta admit that Dominique Dawes had me wanting the professional gymnast for a while.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:36 pm

DreamsM — Let me get my pen… I need to cosign that 2:31.

“Eventually, you either exhaust the list or it gets old. That’s when something meaningful will come to you, and you will be ready to receive it.”

Exactly. Which is why former man-wh@res can actually be some of the most faithful partners you ladies can find. It’s tha same reason Keith Richards can honestly tell kids to “say no to drugs” — ‘cos he’s already done them all… :lol:

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
2:40 pm

About the whole body tone topic…the guys I’ve recently dated are blessed with 6 packs and all that. Even though I’m slim, I don’t have that packs going on…so I asked both of them it they also wanted me to get my tone on…they both said nope. Didn’t want to be rubbing on some hard muscles on a woman. Said they enjoy that softness. Guess different strokes for different folks

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:40 pm

Swiss, I agree :)

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:42 pm

Dreams — I am one lucky mofo… Mrs. Swiss was already very toned & flexible when we met — now she’s really getting into yoga. Sweet Jesus! She drug me to the class with her once, but I can’t hang. Not only because I’m too inflexible, but seeing her get in all those positions makes the Matterhorn want to come out & play… Not a good look in gym shorts w/ a room full of soccer moms… :lol:

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
2:56 pm

On a completely different note… It looks like there may soon be a computer that even Sarah Palin can use

Professor

April 19th, 2010
2:58 pm

@DreamsM,

I remember hitting my brother with a pillow, because he could not hear or see anyone when Dominique Dawes came on. He only watched her…when she left the mat he left the room. I guess he was about 13 or 14 at that time.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
2:58 pm

Swiss, did you read that recent article about her and her over the top request for speaking engagements and such?

lurker_1

April 19th, 2010
3:00 pm

Depends on your status, fortunate or unfortunate, ATL has a national perception for having promiscuous females. That’s not my opinion but just from reading articles and listening to the Stews show :-) . I am married but I have been told by a couple of females that the fact I have on a ring doesn’t mean a thing to alot of women. My wife and daughter are hit on all the time. Just this past Sat, my wife come from kroger and she tells me this midget comes up to her tell she gorgeous. I asked her what race was he and she said I don’t know. She just kept walking. She finds it annoying but I tell her the reasons guys do this is because apparently it works some of the times. They be asking my daughter to go out to dinner. She tells them she can pay for her own dinner and you are as old as my dad :-) .

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:01 pm

so I asked both of them it they also wanted me to get my tone on…

@Slim, Were you serious about getting your tone on if they would have said yes, or were you just testing the water?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
3:01 pm

No, I missed that one, Carlito. What did she ask for? A complimentary brain?

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:05 pm

They be asking my daughter to go out to dinner.

IMO, that is going too far and they are perverts!!! If I had a daughter and some jerk did that I would be outraged it is not cute.

SlimCoco-puffs scares away all the boyz from da yard

April 19th, 2010
3:08 pm

Professor – well I used to work out before I got laid off, then when I did, I cut my membership off because it was a matter of needs & survival at that time. So i plan to revisit a gym anyway for personal reasons. So my question to them was two-fold. I wanted their honest opinion on the whole workout deal especially since they are definitely disciplined when it comes to working out…and also to ‘test the water’ :evil:

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
3:09 pm

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:11 pm

@Slim “gotcha”

lurker_1

April 19th, 2010
3:13 pm

Professor: She’s 25 but I see your point. Not only is they my age, they’re probably married.

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
3:15 pm

This old ass white dude asked me out at the airport a few weeks ago. I wanted to say, “Dude, are you serious? You got wrinkles that are older than me.”

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:16 pm

They be asking my daughter to go out to dinner.

lurker-1, I was listening to the news and they were talking this male teacher that had an intimate relationship with a 17 year old student. The guy was not prosecuted because of the new law passed in the state that he lives. I was sitting there while watching that thinking if a teacher had a relationship with my child the law would be his least of worries.

I have heard the story twice and I have not yet heard what the parents have to say about it.

I know if my husband was the father of that child he would be the one standing before the court not some child molesting teacher. The teacher would have been taken care of already.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:17 pm

She’s 25 but I see your point.

lurker_1, nevermind about my comment then. I thought she was under age from your comment.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:21 pm

SexyCool, did you see the episode of Sex and The City when Samantha attempted a relationship with the old dude? She was okay until she saw him naked in the light. LOL

Old is okay when our wrinkles are about the same age. When Mase gets 80 I’ll be 79. LOL

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
3:23 pm

“This old ass white dude asked me out at the airport a few weeks ago…”

@ SexyCool — This girl I dated in high school (who grew up to be a capital-H HO, incidentally), let me in on a little gold-digger secret when I saw her years later: She said that one of the best places to find a sugar daddy was in airport bars — lot’s of horny, old business men, away from home & looking for some play. Had ol’ dude stumbled across this chick, I’m sure she would have happily shown him a good time in return for a few gifts… :lol:

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
3:34 pm

The teacher would have been taken care of already.
Does the 17 year old bear any responsibility in this, or do we assume she doesn’t know any better? I’m not siding with the teacher, I’m just asking a question. What if she were a 19 year old having an affair with a college professor? Is it different then (philosophically, not legally)?

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
3:36 pm

He stopped me as I was getting in the elevator. Funniest thing – he was actually holding a bouquet of roses that were obviously for someone else.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:38 pm

kimmie, if you are around, I sent that email to my brother and his crazy behind said he used two of those lines Saturday at the pharmacy. He asked the cashier if the water he was buying was diet water and he asked her where was the fitting room to try on the box condoms he was buying. He said the look on her face was priceless.

Professor

April 19th, 2010
3:41 pm

This old ass white dude asked me out at the airport a few weeks ago
I guess he wanted to check an AA off before he kick the bucket

@lurker_1 ignore my comment I was thinking about some pervert with some hard candy in his pocket trying to entice a child. It is always dirty when someone old enough to be your daddy hits on you. Unless that is your style.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:44 pm

DreamsMat, IMO at 17 a child is sent to school with the teachers being authority. Adults. The teacher should know to do better and should do better.

In a university situation while the professor is the instructor there is no adult versus child situation going on. The class could be made up of 19-52 year olds. In a high school all classes are common age peers.

Yeah the 17 year old should be dealt with however I would take issue with the teacher more. When trusted in that position a teacher should know to tell a child to take the rearend somewhere and sit it down. Stay in a child’s place.

I remember being in high school and some of the girls sleeping with certain teachers but it didn’t make it right if the girls came on to the teacher. There was this one teacher Mr. Grayson that some of the girls tried flirting with but he wasn’t having it. If he knew to do right the others did also.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
3:45 pm

Okay… on a serious note… religious nut-jobs need to get a f@#%ing life. It’s a cartoon, @ssholes!. A f@#$ing cartoon! Doesn’t it seem a bit odd to claim to worship some all powerful god, and yet he/she/it/you feel threatened by a f@#$ing cartoon?

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
3:47 pm

Swiss, did you watch SouthPark last night?

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
3:49 pm

@ Carlito — You talking about the one that the article is talking about — w/ Mohammed in a bear suit? :lol: Nah, haven’t seen it yet, just read the article, but I’ll have to try to catch the re-run next time it’s on.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
3:51 pm

Swiss, yes that one. It was hilarious, had all of the celebrity’s that the had ever spoofed on there as well.

PrincessNik

April 19th, 2010
3:51 pm

The teacher should know to do better and should do better.

ya’ll would be surprised at , the code of ethics has to be presented nowadays, it has to include “social networking” i.e. facebook, myspace etc….inappropriate contact with students, or recently graduated students, i was like dang. There is zero tolerance in my district.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:52 pm

I’m Swiss, it’s not just a cartoon, it’s the writer. I hate that show and would never allow one my kids to watch it. The writer is just standing behind animated form to say what he wants to say.

I fell asleep one night with the television on the Cartoon Network. When I woke up in the middle of the night the cartoon on there showed this guy get beheaded. Certainly not something kids are to be watching. Hence it being on after hours. But just because it was a cartoon did not make it less gruesome and I felt just as eerie seeing it as I would have had it been a regular show on HBO or Showtime.

It’s the writing that makes it what it is, not the all the beautiful bright colors of animation.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
3:56 pm

SexyCool, he been eyeing you. LOL

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
3:57 pm

OMG, Rock – that’s creepy.

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
3:58 pm

Raqi
I knew girls in high school, college, and grad. school who had affairs with the instructors. Some of my high school teachers were in their early 20’s, not much older than 17 themselves. I agree with you though…you have to exercise better judgement. When I was in undergrad. I used to teach the labs, and when I was in grad school I used to teach the undergrads. I was in the same age group (often younger) as the students I taught, but I never crossed that line, and there were plenty of opportunities to do so.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
4:01 pm

SexyCool, you know Mase and I both are at least 20 years from wearing the “wrinkle” suits but nothing keeps you in reality that age is creeping up on us like finding those grey strays down yonder. Yep, they be a coming. LOL

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
4:03 pm

SEXYCOOL….old dude eye-ph*cked you! Did you feel dirty? :lol:

SWISS…I love all the politically INCORRECT cartoons: Family Guy, Boondocks, South Park, etc….

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
4:07 pm

BMW – well, I didn’t….but I do now. LOL!

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
4:07 pm

The writer is just standing behind animated form to say what he wants to say.
Most animation does this. Warner Brothers writers used Bugs Bunny episodes to perpetuate war propaganda during WWII.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
4:08 pm

@ Carlito — Yeah, I love that show — I’ll have to make sure to Tivo that episode next time it airs…

I swear, though… These psycho-religious f@#$-faces really p!$$ me off. They’re not “threatening” anyone, they’re just “warning” them that if they’re not careful, they’ll end up like Theo van Gogh, who had his head nearly cut off & a knife buried in his chest for making a movie that hurt Mohammed’s wittle feewings — oh, and here’s a picture of exactly what happened to that guy, in case the description is not provocative enough. Oh, and by the way, here are the addresses where any nut-jobs reading this can find them. Oh and here’s an audio recording of another Islamic f@#$-face calling for the assassination of anyone who “defames” Mohammed.

But religion is all about peace. Whatever…

Maybe we atheists should call for a “jihad” of our own… This world would certainly be a more pleasant place to live without dealing with all the BS religion brings to the table. And hey, the next life is where it’s at anyway, right?

(Sorry for the rant… now stepping down from my soap box…)

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
4:11 pm

DreamsMat, I always say it’s a control issue when grown folks prey on kids. I think about my oldest son in high school he was among the few boys that were tall and had the whiskers growing in already. He had a teacher that was quite young at one time. I am just glad that little girl across had his nose wide open and he didn’t get involved with a grown woman.

My husband has a cousin is 28 with a girlfriend that is almost 40. He says since he was about 15 he always dated women 3 years or older.

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
4:12 pm

I’m Swiss, would you understand the religious fury if it was not a cartoon that aired it?

Raqi

April 19th, 2010
4:15 pm

This world would certainly be a more pleasant place to live without dealing with all the BS religion brings to the table.

I really doubt that.

The religious has just as much right to vent their views just like the non-religious. They have the same right to believe just like have to not believe.

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
4:18 pm

Raqi- I read your 3:38 – hillarious! I also agree with your 3:44. These teachers messing with these kids has gotten out of hand. Sure, it’s been happening since the beginning of time & maybe just being publicized more. Either way, the teacher is in a position of trust, don’t matter if they are a few years older than the student & the student looks grown.

Carlito

April 19th, 2010
4:18 pm

Cartoons were originally for adults. I like South Park, ATHF, Metalopcalypse, Ugly Americans. I like the whole Adult Swim line up.

“If a frog had wings, he wouldn’t bump his ass when he hops”

Arrivederci a tutti!!

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
4:20 pm

Raqi — No, not at all. That just makes it all the more ri-di-cu-lous to me. Then again, as should be pretty apparent by now, I think all religion is not only total BS, but actually the root cause of much of the evil crap that happens in this world. So I’d personally prefer it if they’d all just take the express to the afterlife and let those of us who aren’t so sure what the next life will bring have a shot a making the best we can of this life… JMO

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
4:40 pm

Is your wife atheist also?

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
4:44 pm

Religion is generally a control tactic and is a key strategy that all imperialist nations have used to acquire power. Is there any surprise that churches are 75% women…men exerting their control over the female congregation. Yes, I’m generalizing, so if it does not apply to you in particular do not be offended.

BlackMagicWoman

April 19th, 2010
4:46 pm

SWISS…I do believe that religion brings out the ugly in folks because everyone wants to force what they believe on others. Who is to say any religion is right or wrong? No one knows for sure. We believe because we are taught to do so. Only some people try to explore to see what feels right to them in their hearts and minds. I can believe in God and worship without believing everything because Pastor said so….or because the man written book says so. Of course some Bible thumper would have a problem with that. But I don’t care what they think. My salvation is none of their business…nor is my personal relationship with God. I am open minded to a lot of things. I think you should believe or not believe in who/what you want to. Why is it my concern what happens to others when they croak? I have my own soul to worry about.

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
4:48 pm

don’t matter if they are a few years older than the student & the student looks grown.
What if the student was Kobe Bryant his senior year before he went pro, and you were his 21 year old teacher? You wouldn’t have given him a shot? lol

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
4:49 pm

Dreams – I’ve never been that weak. Or into atheletes. Especially dumb ones.

SexyCool (Free fallin' - the John Mayer version)

April 19th, 2010
4:50 pm

I may not always agree with/believe in religion simply for the sake of religion. But I do believe in God.

lurker

April 19th, 2010
4:51 pm

DreamsMat, IMO at 17 a child is sent to school with the teachers being authority. Adults. The teacher should know to do better and should do better.

I agree. A 17 boy having a whammie put on him by some older (he thinks hot) teacher will blow his mind. The same rings true for some old cat stroking a young kitty telling her all she wants to hear, all the while knowing it’s all an effort for the kill. Just makes me ill. Every 17 year old, no matter how much they’ve done or not, no matter how grown they THINK they are, are as green as grass, green as cucumbers. They don’t know they’re the prey because they haven’t lived enough to have the experience or have exercised enough experience via living and life. I say fry an old dude or chick preying on a youngster. As for the youngster, they don’t get off that easy…handle them accordingly.

Thank God for religion. The prayers of the righteous man availeth much. While you may not have knowledge, a righteous man keeping and doing the will of God preserves this ungodly world. Don’t knock what you don’t know or the effects of what you don’t understand.

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
4:51 pm

Dreams – I’ve never been that weak. Or into atheletes. Especially dumb ones.
HAHA I already knew you were going to respond that way. You know I was just playing devil’s advocate. But you KNOW there are some who would have (probably did) jumped on it. lol

lurker

April 19th, 2010
4:54 pm

What in the double h e hockey sticks can a grown man or woman see in a child?

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
4:54 pm

Thank God for religion
Thank God for every religion or just one religion?

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
4:54 pm

Dreams – I know, Dreamboat! LOL!!

I just can’t stand that type of mess, though. Somebody who can’t even go out for a drink with you! My mom was a teacher & I grew up in that world. I could never see them falling for such mess!

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
4:56 pm

lurker – I agree – a CHILD, in mind if not in body!

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
4:57 pm

My mom was a teacher & I grew up in that world. I could never see them falling for such mess!
But I bet your Mom knows of some who did.

kimmie

April 19th, 2010
4:58 pm

Dreams – And she thought they were sick, just as I do!

Holla – catch you guys tomorrow!

lurker

April 19th, 2010
4:59 pm

Dreams – True Religion

lurker

April 19th, 2010
5:00 pm

Kimmie – there’s only so much a child can talk about…no matter how much badonkeydonk they have or how manly he looks. Just don’t get that mentality. Especially where you can find sex on any street corner (as my mom would say)

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
5:01 pm

What in the double h e hockey sticks can a grown man or woman see in a child?
It’s more prevalent than you would think. I remember when I was in college and Usher came to the AUC. He was only 15 then, but it was unbelievable how many of those 20 year old college girls were swooning over him. It’s a crazy game out there.

i'm swiss

April 19th, 2010
5:01 pm

Actually, I’m not really atheist myself, SexyCool — agnostic, really. I just don’t know, basically, and I get really annoyed by folks who are so sure their fairy tale is the right fairy tale & everybody else is going to burn… particularly when the fairy tales are so utterly absurd. And this includes most of my own family, as well — I was brought up in a very fundamentalist baptist church & force-fed the whole spiel for my entire childhood. And obviously, I was speaking in hyperbole in my earlier rant, but I really do think the world would be a better place without organized religion. “Spirituality,” fine. But when people start getting together & making plans around what “god” wants us to do, bad things happen.

Oh, and yes, Mrs. Swiss feels the same way about organized religion, though she is probably a bit less doubtful of the idea of a “god” than I am.

DreamsMaterialize

April 19th, 2010
5:06 pm

Dreams – True Religion
Who determines that truth? Is there more than one true religion?

But when people start getting together & making plans around what “god” wants us to do, bad things happen.
Ala Crusades, ala KKK, ala 911, ala slavery, ala annihilate native american population…

lurker

April 19th, 2010
5:14 pm

Dreams – God, nope just one:)